My thoughts on Joe Rogan kids with ADHD
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
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This is a great interview with Gabor Mate that speaks about ADHD. I am not an expert in mental health (yet) and I don't give professional advice, just my thoughts based on my experience. Let me know what you'd like me to talk about next.
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As an adult with adhd who was abused and neglected as a child I think he is onto something. Tuning out is 100% a coping mechanism that fails you later in life. Is this the case for all children? Probably not.
I see your point and I agree that it is possible for a child to create false solutions. I don't think it is a truth for the majority of people that tune out or have adhd
I score High on the ADHD spectrum. Last Year I discovered what one of my Childhood trauma was, and in that traumatic moment as a Child a Frooze, Literally and mentality.
So as a Child a "tuned out, tuning out" As a coping mechanism.
What I did was going introverted into my own mind and my own fantasy imagination.
As a child, in that moment my parents had a big fight (bad marriage) and alone in my bed a decided to "tune out" and everything what was wrong between my parents, I made it right inside my own mind. In my own world.
Fast forward 40 years.
I just came out of a relationship, and I discovered that any negative stress between my partner and myself, I used the tuning out scenario as a coping mechanism.
I made everything between us right, even when this wasn't the case.
I really believed myself fully, but after all it was my own imaginary world.
In the relationship, I was convinced being present, but at the same time I wasn't.
It was a huge insight.
And later when gabor explained the "tuning out" Coping mechanism, I knew instantly that this was the phenomena i experienced when I was that little child coping with the stress because my parents had I big fight at night.
My trauma, and this freezing tuning out mechanism is really a smooth way of acting with certain stress into your life.
I could only think inside my own fish bowl.
I thought a was present, I thought a was I loving and caring partner, but the reality was that I was constantly in my own created save space world because I was scared that I would loose here.
This is me (was) basically with every person I interact. It only was stronger visible in romantic relationships.
I believe Gabor has a valid point here.
Wow man I can really feel your pain. Stay strong and keep struggling. You are amazing for countering your hardships
@@TamirNahor hi, thank you so much for your kind words.
I am happy with my insights, because the give me the opportunity to change my life and to embrace my own childhood traumas.
There is a lot of great research in trauma that shows obvious connections with lifelong anxiety, sure, but these ACE studies also now have connected ADHD to trauma, Depression to trauma, Schizophrenia to trauma, bipolar disorder to trauma, all the personality disorders to trauma, addiction to trauma, etc., etc., even Autism. Autism can almost without a doubt be directly connected to almost one gene. Increasingly it appears more genetic than anything else. But yes, epigenetically, the environment or a pregnancy gone wrong could activate the inherited gene, without a doubt. ADHD increasingly appears to be almost exactly, not just the same, but the same as Autism. There is plainly a biological genetic component to what ADHD is. And it may be multiple things, as might the entirety of the Autism SPECTRUM as we call that now. Point: we need to be careful blaming trauma for everything, even though it is definitely part of all the problems.
I couldn't agree more that there is a tendency to blame events for the appearance of a psychopathology. However I would suggest that it is not necessary a traumatic event but social-emotional dysfunctional learning that has an impact. The potential is available in some genes but life events trigger the potential (and therefor can avoid triggering with proper parenting etc)
Love this video thank you Tamir…always be critical of what you hear👍😉
Thanks! See ya on the next one
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I think you don't really understand what he's talking about that's why he didn't break down ADHD the issue with the copen mechanism is explained as an issue from infancy and growing up which causes damage to the developmental brain a symptom of which is a damage to the coping mechanism which is zoning out hyperactivity for oversensitivity of what's going on it's an oversensitive child okay can be caused because it gets an exact anxiety of something so how do you diagnose hyperactivity which is what he explained later how do you explain or how do you diagnose attention deficit because they say that the kid has a potential difference doesn't pay attention because the kids size I can't pay attention I can't focus it's there's no concrete evidence to show the attention deficit is actually a diagnosable thing other than someone else saying what it is so I agree with the doctor the doctor has been in practice for a long period of time actually suffers from from the issue is looking at an introspective way of how can this be explained and how could be treated and his finding good results with it and I found good results with a lot of my friends who also said the same thing that when they were kids they were dealing with the medication but later on got off the medication and ended up just learning how to deal with it and learning how to deal with it is a way of coping so they learned how to cope with it they were able to stay more focused they were able to be less hyperactive something changed it wasn't the medication
Bro he literally claims that's what ahdh is LOL plenty of people from good healthy homes that have adhd too so rogans guest is obviously disingenuous