I remember one day, many years ago when my husband told me, " Why are you so concerned about what your father thinks? I'm happy with you this way." And right there, God revealed to me this principle of your video. My head was now my husband. His way was my way. No longer my Dad's. 🙌
I think there is also a third category of daughters...the ones who had an emotionally absent/abusive father (narcissist), whom she has no respect for. This familial history can also have a very large impact on future relationships with men.
Thank you so much for this. We’ve been struggling with the first situation. So much wisdom is needed for both of us, especially with two young children in the home watching us, learning from us. This has been so very helpful, Doug. Thank you. I am listening to it over and over.
What if there are mothers who can't let go? My mother has had to control every aspect of my life all of my life. When I got married it started causing trouble in my marriage so my husband taught me to start pushing back on my mom. Now my relationship with my mom has worsened and she's trying to latch (control) my 7 yr old daughter. I have a lot of resentment towards my mother (divorce), I guess what you'd call "mommy issues".
There is a process for honoring a difficult parent. I call it loving from a distance. Firm, healthy boundaries will give you a more positive attitude toward Mom, because you aren't letting her push your buttons. You have locks on your door, and you don't have to answer calls or messages unless you want to. If she blows up, back up and let her cool down. Just remember to be calm, respectful and willing to forgive if she regains composure.
@@YSLRD I have a difficult circumstance. I'm epileptic and I can't drive. I rely on her and my dad for transportation so I see her all the time. They need keys in case I have a seizure. I have no problem with my mom being around, I just don't want her butting in my life and acting like she's my daughter's mother.
@@virtualpilgrim8645 because of you and other rac-er, kinists targeting that recent video, new comments are subject to manual review before being posted
@@cosmictreason2242 apparently, my comment did make it through because someone replied to it. You can find it if you look. It refers to Francis Schaeffer's son Frankie Schaeffer who has daddy issues. I've read almost all of Francis Schaeffer's books- including two by Frankie Schaeffer. Have you? I've read the Bible through twice before I was 30 and many theology books including, Cornelius Van Til, Ji Packer, and many others. The reason Doug Wilson is interesting to me is because I consider myself in his theological sphere.
@@virtualpilgrim8645 given that bad company corrupts good morals, you should stay away from kinists. More Doug, less whoever else it is you’ve been wasting time on
Or her husband leaves her? Either way, she has left her family of origin, just like a married man has left his family of origin. Neither of them can go back, they have to go forward whether married or single. That's my vote.
@@lesahofmeyer5735 it’s not about your vote. Elder widows represent themselves. Young women go into the care of their nearest relative, as you see with Ruth-Naomi and Tamar-Absalom
Doug talks about this in his book Her Hand in Marriage. If a woman's husband dies then she is her own head, and she has permission to remarry whoever she wants, as long as he's a believer. That's from 1 cor 7:39
Bible > Freud. The only thing you’re noticing that’s similar is that they’re analyzing peoples motivations for their actions, in particular undiscerned motives
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@Jacob Gibson Seems like it to me. Having a daughter scares the crap out of me. I know what my son is thinking. Not a clue what’s going through a girl/woman’s mindi
That doesn't fix it and people without daddy issues have age gap relationships. Either healthy people have an age gap relationship or unhealthy people have an age gap relationship. If you don't deal with your daddy issues you're an unhealthy person in an age gap relationship and the relationship won't fix you.
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I remember one day, many years ago when my husband told me, " Why are you so concerned about what your father thinks? I'm happy with you this way." And right there, God revealed to me this principle of your video. My head was now my husband. His way was my way. No longer my Dad's. 🙌
Grace makes us innocent as doves. The law makes us wise as serpents. So much wisdom there. Thank you.
Ladies, bring you daddy issues to the Lord! He can fill that father void. 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Amen! I celebrate fathers day every year saying thanks to God :) father to the fatherless.
Thanks Uncle Doug!
I think there is also a third category of daughters...the ones who had an emotionally absent/abusive father (narcissist), whom she has no respect for. This familial history can also have a very large impact on future relationships with men.
Thank you so much for this. We’ve been struggling with the first situation.
So much wisdom is needed for both of us, especially with two young children in the home watching us, learning from us.
This has been so very helpful, Doug. Thank you. I am listening to it over and over.
As a father of only daughters (so far), this was very helpful.
@@HighlyVolkish
Thank you. We'll be trying for number 4 in the coming months. And, Lord willing, number 5 after that.
@@asahelnettleton9044 have you had a son yet?
Thank you Doug that was great
What if there are mothers who can't let go? My mother has had to control every aspect of my life all of my life. When I got married it started causing trouble in my marriage so my husband taught me to start pushing back on my mom. Now my relationship with my mom has worsened and she's trying to latch (control) my 7 yr old daughter. I have a lot of resentment towards my mother (divorce), I guess what you'd call "mommy issues".
God will see you through, Rusti
There is a process for honoring a difficult parent. I call it loving from a distance. Firm, healthy boundaries will give you a more positive attitude toward Mom, because you aren't letting her push your buttons.
You have locks on your door, and you don't have to answer calls or messages unless you want to. If she blows up, back up and let her cool down.
Just remember to be calm, respectful and willing to forgive if she regains composure.
@@YSLRD I have a difficult circumstance. I'm epileptic and I can't drive. I rely on her and my dad for transportation so I see her all the time. They need keys in case I have a seizure. I have no problem with my mom being around, I just don't want her butting in my life and acting like she's my daughter's mother.
@@FiREfaiRY1441 keep everything in prayer. I know that sounds so generic, but it is really the truth.
Will you be making a rumble account I’m trying to transition to rumble don’t see you on there
The Canon+ app has it all.
My comments have been shadow banned either by RUclips or by Doug. I can reply to comments such as yours, but I can't start a new one.
@@virtualpilgrim8645 because of you and other rac-er, kinists targeting that recent video, new comments are subject to manual review before being posted
@@cosmictreason2242 apparently, my comment did make it through because someone replied to it. You can find it if you look. It refers to Francis Schaeffer's son Frankie Schaeffer who has daddy issues. I've read almost all of Francis Schaeffer's books- including two by Frankie Schaeffer. Have you? I've read the Bible through twice before I was 30 and many theology books including, Cornelius Van Til, Ji Packer, and many others. The reason Doug Wilson is interesting to me is because I consider myself in his theological sphere.
@@virtualpilgrim8645 given that bad company corrupts good morals, you should stay away from kinists. More Doug, less whoever else it is you’ve been wasting time on
Thanks for this! Forgot all about Numbers 30
Good, as always. Also, it turns out, pertinent as both my sons are engaged and months from being married.
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You want to choose a good husband, because if hes going to be your head, you want a head with a good brain haha
Doesn't "Adam" refer to "Man" or "Mankind" in Genesis 5:2?
If a woman’s husband dies while her father is still alive, who is her “covenant head” in that situation?
Or her husband leaves her? Either way, she has left her family of origin, just like a married man has left his family of origin. Neither of them can go back, they have to go forward whether married or single. That's my vote.
@@lesahofmeyer5735 it’s not about your vote. Elder widows represent themselves. Young women go into the care of their nearest relative, as you see with Ruth-Naomi and Tamar-Absalom
Doug talks about this in his book Her Hand in Marriage. If a woman's husband dies then she is her own head, and she has permission to remarry whoever she wants, as long as he's a believer. That's from 1 cor 7:39
Very insightful. Some almost Freudian stuff going on there. Wisdom > Psychology though
Bible > Freud. The only thing you’re noticing that’s similar is that they’re analyzing peoples motivations for their actions, in particular undiscerned motives
More commentary over videos Pastor!
Just curious, Is there a real Darla? 🙂
Please react to "Who is God? " from. Jordan Peterson Clips where he got interviewed from Lex Fridman.
I would really love to hear your thoughts on this.
Thanks for beeing a good theologist
Yet another reason I’m glad we have a son…😉
This is some how easier?
@Jacob Gibson Seems like it to me. Having a daughter scares the crap out of me. I know what my son is thinking. Not a clue what’s going through a girl/woman’s mindi
@@stankwilliamsjr.8949 🤣🤣🤣 the fear of the unknown
But that shouldn't stop you from having daughters, they are wonderful
I love this Guy
Solution for ya- start being ok with age gap couples.
That doesn't fix it and people without daddy issues have age gap relationships. Either healthy people have an age gap relationship or unhealthy people have an age gap relationship. If you don't deal with your daddy issues you're an unhealthy person in an age gap relationship and the relationship won't fix you.
Hey Doug, when are you going to talk about gluttony? Proverbs tell us to flee the gluttonous person.
god aint real son
Oh, gee thanks for enlightening us!
@@kaylar3197 no respect for your religion
Capitalize the G in God friend ;)
@@ReformedSooner24 eatshit