Destiny Reacts To Everyone Getting KICKED From JustPearlyThings Debate Panel...
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@@griffydz1789 we the cool kids
@@MrVegiss I guess I'm one of the cool kids as well
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is these video out yet or not🧘 or are we the lucky ones 🤸... still confused 😂
That black dude is actual cancer to this conversation and has nothing to contribute. Every time it gets slightly interesting and I feel like they are getting somewhere he jumps from nowhere to dunk on these women. Each time with the most pointless absolutely garbage gotchas. He never listened to any of their answers or tried to engage with any of it 😮💨
And everyone is yelling weirdest shit. Fuck the conversation I guess 😮💨
My favourite thing about him is that after completely derailing every single point the women tried to make, he insisted he was actually agreeing with them the whole time 🤣
He added absolutely nothing to this entire conversation 😂
he and Pearl fit well together they are both pointless just stroking each other's egos
Yooo. That's most black men's podcast😂
Dude, when Destiny called out JustPearlyThings on her being single for having ridiculous standards, when she is always grilling liberal women for the same thing, for the first time ever I considered doing a Tier 1 sub.
Pearl is a hypocrite. She's also very brainwashed because she believes every social problem men face is because of woman. And that every problem women face is because of themselves. Pearl has a bias and can't look beyond it. Its annoying because she only invites hysterical women on the panel that makes her look smart and rational. But the moment she invites someone like Destiny you can see she's doesnt even understand her own opinions
Tier 1 gang
Loved it 😂😂
@Amanda facts. WE NEED THE TIME STAMP!
PLEASE GIVE THE TIMESTAMP
Pearl has really nailed the combo of:
1. Say something bold and stupid
2. Laugh it off when everyone disagrees
3. Patronize her guests for doing the same thing
Real shit son ctfu how ppl don't see it is beyond me
Very insecure and disingenuous in her intent to put down black women. She is a low hanging fruit woman who is taking advantage of black men being generally hostile to black women by putting down black women.
Also she’s making money off of the arguments mostly between…😮.
@@Sweetpea3051 Yes.. she is actually helping to destroy what little is left of the black community. While she stacks her paper. She is more harmful than the KKK. The black people who follow her and accept her invitation to come on her streams can't even recognize that SHE is the racist that they should be looking out for. She disrespected the black women the most and Destiny the least.
She’s studied freshandfit 😂
Pearl has no business being so condescending.
She’s actually child brained.
Literally, I can't believe the way she kicked people out when she's the worst host ever
Facts she’s never had a live in boy friend or long term relationship. She argues semantics. Destiny also pointed out she uses outliers for her arguments as well. She would either be 30 and unmarried, or she will find herself in an unfulfilled relationship, where a man doesn’t do chores, and it makes sense 😂
Pearl rocks! She's a fantastic host.
@@habovay3 glad you think so. Now please marry her. 😂
@@habovay3 yes, cutting off your guests and kicking them off for asserting their opinion is the epitome of “great host”
Disagree all you want, I would just like to see a group of adults allow everyone to finish their point.
Right, that’s the point of a debate. To hear all points even from opposing sides. It’s so annoying listening to a debate when everyone keeps talking over each other 😭
I'm just here for entertainment 😂😂
Some of these people and a lot of people don't know how you can clearly express their point. They start good, then they run off in a tangent or tell some story that throws them off their point.
@@ladedah7424 What about when Granny goes on a long winded diatribe about her man she decided not to marry and just goes on forever? Just let her run it till the end of time? I wouldn't be surprised if it was a drama trap hoping someone tries to interject so she can pop off.
@@ladedah7424 exactly lol
Every time destiny is on these kinds of panels he ends up filling the role of some kind of day care attendant that explains to children how miscommunication works and why other people have emotional reactions to things
This is true and whey I will say is destiny is here to debate these people are hurt here to have a topical conversation
Yeah I cringe when I see people act like this and especially on camera. Seriously, who raised you? If my wife acted out like this I would be so embarrassed. It's the same with housephone, he's an adult, adults don't act like this no matter what the other person says. Rise above it and talk it out
Its because destiny is a professional debater. Its like a pro soccer player playing with a high school team. The rest of the panel speaks spontaneous and unprofessional where as destiny litteraly studied and analysed debates
@@loan-shark they don't know how to carve out rhetorical wins absent of all parties playing along with their dialogue tree.
It’s called remedial ranching, coined by destiny.
"Single mothers get married all the time" Pearl says after a whole segment where the panel spoke about why men don't even date single mothers😂😂😂I swear sometimes Pearl just HAS to be trolling
She’s getting money and at the same time avoiding men dragging her for her looks
Feel really bad for Ester. I feel like everytime she made a point, she was interrupted. When she tried to reiterate her point, she was accused of interrupting. Then after ignoring it until the end to keep the convo moving, when she tried to address it, she was kicked out and accused of doing what was done to her, all while muted so she couldn't defend herself
Dont forget to add she wouldnt answer Pearl’s question about what percentage of 100 men are in control. Also add into she talks extremely loud, talks very aggressively, doesn’t hear the host when the hosts says WAIT, because talks long and loud and incapable of hearing the host say WAIT about 10 times. She also isnt concise on her points, interjects within seconds of someone making point. Yes i feel bad for her too…
@@stayingdisciplined1456 nah bruh the dude in red was allowed to overtalk her as much as he wanted anytime a woman said something he was on they d*ck whenever destiny would talk bruh stayed quiet when shawty tried to stand up for herself Pearl kicked her out
@@ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227 bruh, all of my points in my earlier comments is what she does every EVERY EVERY show. She doesnt have social manners at all. Shes at someone elses house acting a fool. She embarrassed herself.
The guy in the red interrupts occasionally i agree. He is a co host. Its their rules bruh. You cannot fight the rules in other people establishment. Esther has no case.
unfortunately she also had some poorly made points in there, so it goes down in credibility
She is annoying an makes no sense, saw one of her other ones where she was telling men what we find attractive. Despite men themselves saying she was wrong.
“Women divorce for no reason” this has to be the dumbest take of the week. This is not pandering, this is high quality bootlicking by pearl.
It's more than bootlicking at this point
Pearl must take pleasure in bashing women. She thinks everyhting is women's fault.
I do think woman divorce for the "it's always greener on the other side" attitude but that's not a reason but a feeling.
@@kc_h7h yes the only people accountable are women
@@Super3face maybe for weathly women I don't know, but for regular women, chances of remarrying gets halved, a quarter if they have kids.
When Destiny pushes back on Pearl, she becomes completely powerless. Truly entertaining to watch.
Yeah it's a metaphor for existence. You are powerless in the face of destiny.
how the fuck is she calling people disengenious while being so absolutely full of shit
@@xbabu142x 🤦♂️😂
Debatelord tactics
she also is the biggest man splainer, especially at the end, she never listens to honest criticism on how she is condescending and treats female guests especially like children, and then when they feel disrespected, pearl suddenly gets triggered and exercises her power complex. she truly couldn't read the room especially at the end.
I knew a woman who had two children and a husband. One of the children died from cancer. The day they came home from the funeral the sheriff was at the house posting a foreclosure notice on the front door. Turns out the husband had a secret gambling addiction. She lost everything financially and started from scratch as a single mother. Everyone should have their own money even if you share some of the money.
thats why we should have prenup
Omg that’s sad af. Smh.
Thats just dumb Not every relationship is going to be like that and just assuming that is stupid
Agreed, the woman should start working and paying some bills 👍
This is one example of why it's so dangerous to let yourself be financially dependent on anyone but yourself if you can help it. Because you _just never know._ Life throws curveballs all the time.
Can you imagine Pearl vs Destiny in a debate? The intelligence gap is unfathomable. She never wavers from regurgitating talking points. Talks like a teenager.
She will never do that. I know she is dumb but surely not that dumb.
It's almost like debating is a practiced skill. Not everyone can just debate people. And not being skilled at debating does not mean they are dumb. Most people can't debate or suck at debating. It's a practiced skill and there is a lot of nuance.
@@scrubfive9239 she's a fucking moron irrespective of debate skills
@@LeHaterManwow, between the name and response, you must be quite intelligent.
@@scrubfive9239 its called doing your research like looking up statistics. Understanding what you read lol 😂 Debating is directly correlated to intelligence. Pearl admits when she doesn't know. So judging from that alone, we can say her talking points were taken from videos she watched from other manosphere content creators; and she does No research of her own! She lacks life and relationship experience‼️smh
Pearl loves to stir the pot and be edgy when it suits her needs, but when someone starts making good arguments against her, she immediately gets upset and defensive
typical delusional and constantly coddled white woman.nothing to see here they're all like that....talking out their asses..and then usually the tears come, pearly uses her power to kick people out...sick
When does Pearl get angry?
@@joeyjelsch i don’t think she gets mad, she just plays stupid
@@diogopocas7943 the guy before said she gets mad. What does she say that's stupid?
@@joeyjelsch 95% of what comes out of here mouth mostly cuz she’s completely incapable and any nuanced thought whatsoever
I love how the guy literally never engaged or argued with destiny but anytime one of the women spoke he was right there to shit down their throat.
He knows Destiny would slaughter him with the sh*t he was spitting.
Typical males they do it all the time 😂
I thought I was the only one that noticed. The guy is wack
To the black women none the less.... he totally respected destiny and pearl.
Yes specialy with the black women🤢🤢🤢🤢
Destiny calling Pearl a child to her face.. multiple times... wins everything.
B
Pearl really channeling her inner Fresh & Fit by intentionally pushing her guests buttons & then getting upset & kicking them out when they react lol
Lol
Destiny calling Pearl out for being single and not having a right to talk 👀
From woman to woman
Finally. She had it coming.
Ya destiny is saying that ironic
Destiny is an polygamous relationship not sure he has the rught to talk
@@thesingh588 That's....that's still a relationship bruv 😂
im sorry, that Michael guy was a moron. he didn't have a single piece of data to back up his points, but he asked idiotic questions whenever the women made good points. also, nice work holding Pearl's feet to the fire. i think you did a great job really holding her down on the logical inconsistencies she puts out there all the time. hoping the Tate debate looks the same, but i imagine she'll hide behind her expert.
I swear! Notice how he kept talking over the girls and not destiny. Laughing to make jest of Esther. Soo childish and irritating.
He also was totally talking down to the older lady there and wouldn’t even look her in the eye as he was blatantly insulting her. And whenever any girl spoke he wanted to shut them down and would straight up lie and say “I agreed with you” it’s like wtf? Gaslight much?
I'm glad somebody said that. He sais people shouldn't complain because its their decision to get with these types of people. He analyses it through the lense of it as a "game" , either you win or lose He thinks. If everyone lived that way the suicide rates would be detrimental. Does be not consider that maybe there may have been a limited scope of people available in a given area, not to mention some people dont show their true selves in a relationship until it gets real close, before shit hits the fan, like complaining is a given right, not to say you shouldn complain about everything , but its completely sounter to why we even have tbese discussions to begin with, people complain about an obvious issue on a mass level, and people are getting together to address and discuss it.
@Cristina Perez this is the mentality of alot of black British men sorry to say. Not all and not majority but a good number. Its an issue within sort of urban demographics for men to have sort of a superiority and misogyny problem. Saying this as a black man myself. It's really weird. And I've been in instances where I've seen this sort of behaviour, everyone else is laughing at the guy putting the girl down, but because I'm a part of the crowd, I sort of fake smirk, but inside I'm like," wtf is this shit". Its bizzare
That man lacks maturity and depth.. he's still stuck in the middle school thought of girls vs boys
Pearl was objectively the one being rude on that interaction, she did the whole Jesse Lee Peterson "answer my completely irrelevant question or I'll keep asking it over and over again until you engage with it rather than me listen to what you are actually saying".
Right! Like asking how many men on average are politicians??? What’s the relevance there 💀
I get the vibe that Pearl purposely chooses not to understand simple concepts.
"What percent of modern women actually cook?" -- What an out-of-touch thing to say.
I don't know any who _don't_ cook. Hell, I usually cook several times a day.
But Pearl doesn't.
It was “pearl aren’t you single, What input do you have on any of this” for me
Lmfao I felt that sting through the screen
I cackled so loud because yes 😂
I can't help but feel like this is the worst case scenario for Pearl. Destiny looked totally disengaged for a majority of it, and she couldn't control the show at all. These are not the kinds of conversations he wants to be a part of.
She doesn't represent women. She represents what she feels men want to hear a white woman say.
He totally checked out and so did I, I skipped so much
It was pretty hard to keep track on what was said when everyone screams around pulling race cards on top of it
I think he had fun whenever she asked him something and he was able to point out examples of how she's super bad faith in all her debates
He didn’t check out. He was on a panel with like 8 people. He can’t be the only one that talks. If you watch his one on one time with Pearl the day after this he was obviously having a lot of fun and enjoying himself
pearl does kinda have a superiority complex by treating some guests like children. yes they agreed to the show, but it's still supposed to be a discussion and you still need to be respectful no matter your position. her laugh kinda annoying too tbh and how pearl herself escalates and gets triggered too quickly over guests trying to give pearl constrictive criticism (at the end)
Damn I didn't notice it as much when watching this live but Pearly is insanely abusive with her moderating power on the show. She straight up uses it to shut down any opinion that goes in a direction she slightly doesn't like, and in a conversation she shuts down the opposing side without any respect...
ikr? wtf
threatening to kick esther out if she doesn't answer her question... who does that?
Definitely, at one point she was basically yelling to prevent someone from being heard.
Bingo
you're only noticing this now 😂😂😂, but I will say this Ester shot herself in the foot when with the guys she talks about, because I realized that yeah the en she keeps talking about are the rappers and men at the top, thats what she bases men off of, and they keep telling her yeah THATS 20% of the men you are talking about
@@kmt8825 they cut her off so many times when she was trying to say more tho.
Destiny going up against the redpill is like free therapy.
you realise there were 2 redpill poeple, and rest were feminists right? He essentially went up against his own kind, and his own kind were the disrespectful lot...
I love the fact that he’s challenging them. I really don’t see anyone else doing it. I want more people to push back on the red pill community because some of the things hey say are just so backasswards.
I was in a pretty dark place hatewatching red pill content to feel bad about myself. Watching destiny go against them is literally like therapy for me 😆
@@ll2323 they wanna live in the 50s
Yeah and he is wrong
Dude, Pearl is actually incapable of engaging in a real discussion. She makes dumb, unsubstantiated comments and then shouts down anyone who wants to challenge her on it. She won’t even let Steven speak 4 words against her without accusing him of gish galloping. Wild.
She's a child
I can’t stand her.
I think she needs to take her own advice, and get off the podcast and find a husband. According to her philosophy she is too masculine and educated and working,no man will want her. She’s over 25, average at best woman. Wasting her “youth” do none of these redpill losers practice what they preach? 🙄
Her goal post moving and false equivalence's are annoying. Comparing men dating young to women dating rich are or not equal things.
@@eon001 you are right. what do you think a better example would be though? Like, men not liking fat chicks is comparable to women not liking short dudes? That’s the best one I can think of off the top of my head.
Ester, you didn't embarrass yourself.. you stood up for yourself
Nah she embarrassed herself by acting like a child
I agree, cause they are passive-aggressive the entire show if you don't agree with them or they dismiss you. That is not a debate, that is you trying to sway them to your side by bullying
@@CodeeXD speaking up for yourself and communicating your feelings is being a child now? It’s the epitome of maturity to communicate your feelings which she did and she waited untill then end which was great. Pearl was being extremely disrespectful and she knew she was being disrespectful, like wtf the amount of times she tried to talk to Esther like she was a child while interrupting Esther multiple times was embarrassing on her part.
She started off fine but it didnt last. Its not her first time on and she was just as insufferable that time too
I think the main problem is that pearl herself keeps interrupting others, she is the host and doesn't let the people she invited speak. She clearly doesn't know how to lead the podcast. People don't respect her because, in addition to giving a lot of horrible opinions, she has no respect for guests, especially women. The guy in the red shirt kept interrupting and being annoying several times and she never called him out but when esther started talking about her opinion she could barely say anything without pearl interrupting her trying to make her look stupid.
That black dude is probably the worst addition to that discussion. Hes literally just a wrench in the conversation. I don't know how they don't just ignore him like they should be ignoring Esther
The black dude is literally a woman repellent...
Yes he is so immature in his response that he messes up the whole discussion.
I love how everything is the woman’s fault. From simply not getting along with a man to being abused, the woman should’ve picked a better man. Men really have no responsibilities in their eyes but they claim women are actually the ones that aren’t held accountable.
Right… 🤦🏼♂️
The entire ideology is as backwards & delusional as it comes.
Plus, people think that abuse comes out of nowhere like someone dumped a bunch of red flags. It's usually a slow process that builds up.
Ig basically women should be held accountable because they are with men,,,,
@Carlos Peralta yeah those ones are actually easy to spot and leave. As traumatic as it was, I'm glad my abuser didn't take too long for that mask to slip and it was getting blatant enough that I only wasted 4 months on him. The ones that are skilled at it ....if I can speak so crudely....wait until after the altar to pile on the abuse
Are you people that blind to ever accept your own accountability and not simply just throw it back on all men? Of course men are responsible for their own demons, but quit your radical feminist spiel and concluding that women are culturally down in this current world.
Like the sodomites, the institutions and governments are currently protective and giving to you then men…
“Just marry a rich man and hire a maid” what a worm brain
But also: to do that they have to start by getting a divorce LOL
But also women are gold diggers and only want the top 1% of men 😵💫😵💫😵💫
Simultaneously "I can't believe all these women wanna date up?!!!!"
@@saraarlavi4217 nope we don't care , we want to get on top . So that we become players .
@@justicethedoggo3648 K bro good luck with that. But if you do fail do you think you could still be happy?
Poor Destiny. You can literally see him thinking why did he agree to this.
Destiny Fanbase get more annoying by the day
@@thesingh588 damn sorry that shit that makes sense annoys you
He loves this shit
@@FarP321 after seeing 100 of these panels with him on it. I have to agreed.
What I learnt from this is that women aren't allowed to complain about their partners not doing chores but men are allowed to complain. And if women have the audacity to complain about anything, then they are still to blame for not having known in advance that the man they started dating didn't like doing chores.
all around this is the most immature debate Ive seen about relationships. the host woman and the black guy are beyond infuriating and have nothing to add but shitting on women. and all the overtalking just makes this infuriating
@@arwynanne yeah I dont know who she is but sounds like a pick me girl/grifter of men who eat this shit up. the black guy seems like her perfect audience member
Everything Pearl says just SCREEEAMS of a lack of life experience.
Yeah she’s privileged from a rich family. My guess, didn’t get the guys she wanted, shes admittedly not the one who gets attention out with friends, so i just feel she grew a little bitter towards her female peers..
Her obsession with sumission.. listen, at certain times, if i wrap my arm round your back and gently put my hand round your neck, you’re submitting to me, but that is situational, and doesn’t mean i then get to choose what colour purse you have
Screams of pamperedness.
When she said chores is nothing to argue about when couples fight over that all the time I lost it. It's like she never lived with anyone before. (Hell even a roommates fight over this 😂)
@@MuscleboundKage I'm telling you guys she grew up pampered by her dad and she was one of the few decent looking white women in her area. I can just tell. That is why everything she says sounds so weird. She isn't living in the same world.
@@MuscleboundKage I think the point isn't that poeple don't argue over chores. It's the fact that it's something all adult should be able to get through, and reach an agreement, and shouldnn't be any sort of primary factor when ADULTs come to sperate and break up a family unit. It's pathetic on all accounts.
Pearl cant be mad about ppl leaving. Just pick better guests lmao
😮True😅
It seems that the women who constantly talks about personnal responsibility, needs to take personnal responsability for properly vetting her guests 😯
@@thefluffythinker773 it’s not that deep bro. Calm down.
@@thefluffythinker773 gotta love it though, literally telling women its their fault for the men they choose meanwhile her show is falling apart due to the guest she chooses, its a beautiful irony in a way.
i honestly enjoyed listening to the women that were left though, they were not bad at all.
edit: reached the end, minus 1...
I love how pearl complains about being interrupted but interrupts EVERYONE throughout this intire podcast
“men listen to women all the time” - the guy who can’t let women finish a sentence without interrupting.
Dude I just lost about all respect I had for pearl on that " people don't fight over chores" shit, that's a dead ass tell that she's lazy spoiled rich girl that damn sure don't need to be giving advice. That out of touch shit that everyone seems to have nowadays is what's strangling our relationships!
Yes I have several friends where this is an issue they argue and fight over.
As someone who has 2 young kids the amount of chores is insane. We are basically full time cleaning or picking up or feeding or whatever. We’ve definitely had our share of arguments over it but nothing major thank god. Sometimes just getting no sleep and having your kid puke on you and all your towels are in the wash are enough to drive you insane
Agreed. Even as a depressed neet degenerate I still do fucking chores 😂 it's the least I could do
People *shouldn't" fight over chores. Yet I've lived with my brother that had OCD some people use others to do chores they don't want to do. He didn't want to do the dishes or take out the trash. Yet his ass would vacuum maybe 3 times a day if he's able.
Never argued over chores in any of my relationships.
W Esther all the way. She had some difficulty articulating some of the things she wanted to say but made this enjoyable and had a lot of valid points. Pearl irked me so much by telling her to shut up while interrupting her train of thought to ask some question out of nowhere but the girl laughed off a lot of irritating things and was respectful and patient, evident in the way she waited till the end to state how she felt disrespected when being shooshed. Unfortunately, after the other women left, she was left to be more outspoken and to look like the LBW even tho she was on top of her stuff.
TRUEEEEEEE everyone saw how Pearl disrespected the fuck out of her and for what?! She didn’t talk to other people like that. She came off as a disgusting pos that will do anything to get the upper hand. I was so pissed I had to chill and remember this is just the internet 😡 I’m still low key mad… man FUCK PEARL!
Man I wish Destiny jumped in at that 90% argument. Seemed completely unfair that Pearl misconstrued Esther's argument to 90% of men in parliament and then flipped the question to Esther's experience anecdotally. Pearl is completely disingenuous and no one called out that moment, Esther was just left fending for herself at that point
@@neonbarnowl exactly, it did not correlate at all, Esther was smart enough to see what they were doing and it’s obvious she wanted the others to speak up yet they all just ugh.
She was loud and she was right
@@neonbarnowlit was so annoying, he didn’t jump in nearly as much as I thought he would.
He just sat there and let some crazy shit go unchallenged
The fact that Ester made it to the finish line and still got kicked out is unbelievably hilarious to me. I enjoyed the drama more than the actual podcast discussion.
Ester Ester Ester Ester Ester Ester Ester
She didn’t deserve it tbh. I think Pearl just wanted to kick her out all along so she chose to do it while she still could lol
I wonder what Pearl would do if she manages to get in a long term relationship and ends up not working…
@@Sol-ow6ds If she’s still making redpill content by then, she’ll probably find some way to spin it in her favor, or blame herself entirely to take “accountability”. Either way it’s going to be straight grift
@@M67v taking responsibility is a grift ok buddy😂
When Destiny called out pearl for being single and how she’s not in a position to xyz, SPOT ON. She has a whole podcast that favors men in relationships but she’s not even in a relationship! Stop taking advice from single and unmarried people on relationships.
Pearly literally just steals everything. 99% of her talking points are directly parroted from Kevin Samuels, and now she's adopting the sensationalized kick-outs that Fresh&Fit are known for. She adds nothing new to this corner of the internet.
She's popular solely because she's one of the few female speakers that project redpill
She adds "Ummmmm" and "Hhhhrrmmmm"
Don't you dare take that away from her
She is such a milker
Don’t knock the hustle
It was the first time someone was kicked off lol. Shes been doing this for a year. I used to watch her street interviews interviewing everyday british women n men.
It might be a hustle, but no more a hustle than working a job. Shes actually better faith than a lot of the female grifters.
Yeah her platform now is like a british fnf, but drama gets clicks, we dont do war anymore, online drama is our wars lol
The entire chore argument was infuriating. Someone that says "lol chores" has never lived with a friend or partner. I've always said you never know someone till you've lived together.
She’s gonna end up eating her words one day.
Exactly 💯
Doesnt understand that chores can lead to divorce but then answers with "pick a better guy" aka DIVORCE? LOL
She so dumb
No, no divorce, just suffer and endure. You SHOULD HAVE picked a better guy. 😂
It's the chores but mostly the lack of appreciation and communication is what causes this issue. It's beyond the chores although it will get super old to clean up after a 30 year old toddler eventually. Then it usually ends in a divorce
I think the biggest problem is nobody acknowledges that a long term happy relationships requires shit tons of work and transparency from both parties.
Thats what you get when immature children in adult bodies are on a podcast saying crazy things just for views.
Naa that black dude just saying stupid shit to support pearl at every point
I think he's tryna make sure he has a job
Not one time did he disagree with her even when the whole panel did he stayed quiet and tried to laugh it off
Dawgg I thought I was the only one😂😂
He never adds anything to the convo either.
Dumbest dude ever seen. I am ashamed of him. He won't last in any relationship
When he sais things like he has no sympathy for complaining it kind of defeats the purpose of him being there . He's adding any useful or empathetic perspective to the issue. And he doesent care too either I think he's potentially more red pill adjacent I could be wrong though ,but it wouldn't suprise me if he was.
Pearly: 20:07 "uh-hmmm.."
Pearly: 20:23 "ummm.. "
Pearly: 20:27 "mmhumm.."
Pearly: 38:08 "mmhmm"
Pearly: 44:04 "mmhumm"
Pearly: 44:19 "mmmhum"
TDLR: "mmhmm"
MMMM Clap
Least autistic Destiny enjoyer
Mmhmm
The most intelligent things she'll ever say. That and "I don't know..." She says that one a lot too.
Every time she opens her mouth I can't believe how stupid she is. Is that how she became popular?
So being a high value man means making a bunch of money and accepting the fact that your woman doesn't love you, she just wants your money. Wow, what a sad human being. He knows he isn't loved, and doesn't want anyone else to feel love either.
If you think that's pathetic, stop and think about the guys who bitch about no-fault divorce and want it made illegal.
They'd rather be in a marriage with a woman who can't stand them anymore than be alone. It's like a thinly veiled admission that they feel like the only way they can keep a woman is to effectively hold her captive.
As someone who's parents stayed together "for the kids" I can tell you it's way worse
YES THANK YOU
I think Pearl adds fuel to the fire because she tries so hard to butt in, interrupt, and bowl over people until they listen to her, and after all that shenanigans, says something mostly asinine
She's so easy to ignore in the first place. She has no charisma, and she commands no respect even in her own home, on her own podcast. Idk if she's trying to come off as reasonable and calm, but whatever it is, she fails at it, and then she has nothing of substance to say. She could have left and not come back til the very end, and the guests would have been able to carry on the show all on their own, drama and all. She should get some media training or something.
Hard to blame her on this one. Other than Destiny the others were morons.
@@michaelh878 The others are almost always morons!
Yeah no. Don’t let her pseudo-calm and collected nature fool you. She’s spiteful as hell.
That black guy is gaslighting did ya notice how defensive he got when she told pearl she’s never had that experience 😅 his claws almost came out 😂
Lmaoo the way u got so mad just bc esther said he was complaining
He* not u oopsi
He's delusional
The thing about chores isn't just about chores it's about respect. If someone thinks so lowly of you that they expect you to pick up after them when you're both also working that's disrespectful. Calling someone out of their name isn't just words it's a respect thing.
He’s pretending like money is forever and the average man can provide provision and protection for the rest of a woman’s life along with a family….in exchange for her youth.😂
You can say the woman who walked off is crazy but pearl constantly tries to say okay everyone shut up about it, to then add her point. It’s like YOU’RE not letting it go
Holy FUCK. Is Pearl a real human being? Is she Intentionally vapid?!?! Destiny dropped everyone Im so proud of this dude
I agree with most of Destiny’s points. But you’re proud? Come on bro he ain’t your son.
@@Aogiri_9 does he have to be
@@a.c.slater7989 yes
The chores Convo was wild. Like some of them really just couldn't fathom the idea of a partner being lazy and that leading to relationship issues. They couldn't even accept that it might happen, ever, anywhere.
I was wondering as well. Even as kids our parents share some chores between us and we would fight against those who didn’t do theirs.
Even in a group activity, everybody should put their effort.
I need to take cold showers after listening to these types of debate. The toxicity of their ideas sticks to my skin, it is insane. Destiny thank you for having the strength to speak up
Imagine paying to have Pearl read out your comment in a droning monotone and not even reacting or responding...
i had to fast forward that part because she long winded and droned out, she boring without her guest and her red pill "modern women" rhetoric.
she too slow to realise she just monotonely read over a simple question from a supporter, if it's such a chore for her just setup donos on screen etc. she's just causing problems herself at the point.
Pearl always cuts everyone off but you have to let her flesh out anything she wants to say lol
"it's her show tho!"
Then why have people there? If there is not gonna be mutual respect and communication between two people.
Genuine masculine energy though
@@nfrankiksa4596 maybe that's why she's single
Pearl tries to be the biggest pick me, but we still don't see a ring on her finger
Look I definitely think there were points where ester would be interruptive but it's INCREDIBLY disrespectful for a host to willingly give a guest a spotlight to talk at an end of a show just to interrupt her because the host is offended. Don't give someone 30 seconds to speak and then not let them speak. ESPECIALLY for a host it's your responsibility to be the more mature and professional one. Should have let her say whatever she wanted for her 30 seconds and then if you didn't like her don't invite her back but it's reads as super arrogant and unprofessional to give someone the spotlight and then interrupt them.
Damn. Good to see Pearl finally have to deal with some sort of competent feedback.
Those people are idiots. They speak on things like it’s exclusive/innate to men and women. All just to try and make a point that is dumb af
As a married man in loving relationships for 10 years , I agree with destiny, chores can break a relationship, I even tell people u don’t know your partner until you live together, and I always say even friends once they become roommate , they could break their friendship, destiny is right
Yeah that's 100% true. It's ALL a party until people have to clean up THEN you see who's your real homie. I'm 100% down for doing my own thing, the only thing I hate doing is dusting because that's the worse chore.
If chores are breaking your relationship. Should you really be married?. Shit is minor. Imagine telling the court that one? Your honor I would like a divorce because that cow wont do the dishes? You'd be laughed out of court.
@@tricEntertainment Fundamental acts can cause destruction. In analogy style, pull one card away and the house of cards tumbles down. Add a few droplets of poison and the whole drink is virulent. Remove one valence electron and the entire atom becomes unstable. There you have it. It's not really about chores. Neglect one fundamental part of the relationship -- the home -- and face the consequences. That is the true, pragmatic, realistic world of romance and relationships. One person cannot be expected to run on 200% of effort at the crippling edge of exhaustion unless 200% of their time is free and dedicated to that duty. So long as it isn't, both parties must contribute.
@@tricEntertainment nothing is minor about maintaining a household. Y’all need to grow tf up already.
@@tricEntertainment
Tell me your never been in long relationships without tell me you never been in a long relationship 😂
Dude grow up , chores are responsibilities it can be dishes up to something bigger , I always advise people about marriage that u should be willing to take responsibility (chores) seriously or your marriage will break .
Ain't no way Esther made it all the way to the closing thoughts and then get kicked off
I died when he imitated her voice at 40:40
I admire your willingness to engage with people who hold such opposing opinions with such tact.
These people were all so stupid though lol
@@natediaz1863 he called her retarded because she was reducing his argument to "just chores" when it was clearly more than that.
tact?
The yelling gets old really quick
@@natediaz1863 he called her retarded for saying that women divorce for no reason all the time
Destiny, thank you for holding down the fort. As a married woman myself, I absolutely respect men who can sit in a room where people have the contrary opinion and hold it down in a reasonable manner.
I’m really impressed with pearl having destiny on.. i see her as an echo-chamber-chaser who never debates strong opposition, and same to destiny for keeping it so professional with pearl
@@phantasticmrphasma9874 Destiny brings a big audience. Don't personally think it's much deeper than that.
@@0scarWalsh yeah, she only gets views on shorts that she can control the narrative on anyway
Congratulations that you haven't filed divorce yet for fun!
@@Vulpes_Shinbi thats quite a cruel and foolish thing to say. But if it helps you sleep better at night, be my guest
The most salient point for me was that each side can’t just allow the other side to list an issue. Red pill community says here’s a mens issue and feminists all go “BuH wAhMeN” and feminist community says here’s a women’s issue and red pill all goes “BuH mEn”
And it’s almost comical to sit and watch them switch roles where both sides are aware of what the other sides doing but completely unaware when they’re doing it
"Red pill community says here’s a mens issue and feminists all go “BuH wAhMeN” and feminist community says here’s a women’s issue and red pill all goes “BuH mEn”"
There's a name for this: Suffering Olympics.
Why was that guy in red scared to address Destiny but was quick to bully the two girls on the couch lmao What a loser
Yup! I noticed that too. Also, sticking up for Pearl and supporting her points at every opportunity.
Because he def d rides pearl lmaoo
"women divorce all the time for no reason" was the dumbest thing I have heard today and I work with the public in the south.
no fault divorce and irreconcilible diferences is all i have for you... good day.
@@nevswain478 “irreconcilable differences” would quite literally be a reason, not no reason
@@nevswain478 No fault divorce doesn't mean "for no reason."
Bullshit...Then you haven't seen much divorces.
@@TonyCox1351 you're just being pedantic. get a hobby.
I was in a 8 year relationship. Where we lived with each other since the first year. For a bit she provided until I started to. We equally financially made the same, but she got to keep her money while I provided for the both of us. How ever we had problems in the house hold. Our problems was keeping the house clean, and doing laundry. Which I did for 8 years, and over the course of time it deteriorated our relationship, causing me to snap and have giant arguments. It got so bad that I started to cave and all she would have to do is put her clothes away, already cleaned and folded for her. She still refused.
At this point I couldn’t move forward with her cause I couldn’t trust her being more capable like being the mother of my children if she couldn’t even put her clothes away. We couldn’t work together over that than there was nothing else more serious to over come.
So yes, “chores lol” can split a relationship. No one wants to be someone’s maid, and/or be someone’s parent.
Great explanation of that. That question was very revealing of who's experienced in relationships.
Why THE FUCK did you stay 8 years in that relationship? XD Srsly, serves you right.
You know what Pearl would say?
You should have picked better. 😬
@@Totaltwist Pearl wouldn't say that, because he's a dude. "You should've picked better" only applies to women in her mind. Men have zero responsibility or agency for their choice in partner.
Michael is stupid asf mf fr just being a smart ass. “Wait but I didn’t say ALL.” “No but that’s not what I’m saying” then makes bitchy indirect insults “it seems like you’ve lived with that by how your talking abt it, living with a bum”
When pearl knows someone is disproving her point she'll keep talking over them and say their name an infinite amount of time until they stop speaking just so her point still stands and then she gets mad that other people talk over her? Threatening to kick esther out because she's not answering a question? what? Why does pearl have a podcast? She's not a good host by any means.
When Destiny tried to sound like Pearl 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
Unpopular opinion : without “auntie” and a gang of gas lighters , this is the first conversation I’ve seen where both points of view were heard.
Auntie is so insufferable
I agree 👀. She was loud and constantly contradicted herself
The old woman spoke for the longest time.
Facts I hate the auntie she will go on and on about nothing at the most surface level
Pearl doesn’t even realize that by her standards she is lower value because of her show. By her standards because of her “high earning” and her openness to share her opinion she is average at best as well as her hight and her standards😂😂😂
She thinks that because she agrees with “high value” men that she then has more options but she doesn’t. Those guys won’t want her. I’ll be interested to see who she does end up with and if it even happens.if her family doesn’t arrange a marriage for her.
How tall is she?
6’0
As I’m watching more. She said. She would date a guy that makes 55k and is 6’1 or more. But she’s a millionaires daughter with a 7 figure RUclips channel. I don’t believe her. 😂
But then she believes that a woman that out earns her man will not respect him. But she would date a 55k man…… pearl. STFU.
The chores discussion killed me. Pearl legit has the mind of a child
I’m sorry but every single thing that destiny says is legit 100% true and real I don’t think I have ever agreed with anyone as much as I do with destiny .
As an ex-redpiller, esther didnt embarass herself at all BRUV, Pearl took the record and ran off with it during the whole conversation, the two aunties actually had the advantage of getting out early
Esther's crazy but she makes good points
Wow. She didnt follow the rules of the show. She definitely embarrasses herself every foookin show bro. This is insane you think esther didnt embarrass herself. Im convinced most people in the world are 5tup1d
@@stayingdisciplined1456 the only rule this shitshow had consistently was whenever the host tells you to shut up, you shut up or get kicked, theres nothing insane about it, just plain stupid
@@jean-pierrepolnareff9987 yes you shut up when the host is talking. She kept talking and consistently keeps talking when the host talks. Ex when she said wait like 10 times and she kept talking. Esther embarrassed herself. Then she went in the lobby yelling loud as ever. Her actions tell you shes in the wrong. She went into the lobby, went on live stream and started yelling her case. Its insane you think she didnt embarrass herself
@@stayingdisciplined1456 im not that crazy into proving somebody's embarrassment but whatever you say i'm insane
I super appreciate destiny's ability to bring in nuance. These conversations so often go to demanding black and white answers. Like the question "are men or women pickier?"
People are all picky for different reasons, it's just a human thing.
Who tf invited that red shirt guy, he got But hurt and ruined the entire next hour
Pearl is shocked that people divorce over chores? She clearly never been in a real relationship and lived with other people. There are videos after videos of single moms leaving the husband because he wont help out with household duties. One less person to clean up after. People who NEVER been in a relationship like pearl shouldnt even have theese talks. She cant even agree on basic shit everyone who lived with someone else would.
How would she be? She is unattrative and nasty
it’s because she looks at it from an isolated perspective. Someone not doing their own dishes for instance might not seem like a big deal on its own, but when it’s happening every single day after multiple conversations, it becomes incredibly frustrating and bleeds into how you perceive the person. Nobody wants to date someone who requires handholding through basic household chores, that’s a child and nobody wants to date a child.
She's been around a lot of unhappy couples that are waiting for the kids to leave home to file for divorce.
@@jeddysteve8330 Even between sibling it can create a big arguments. It’s time for people to aknowledge it
No, she's lived with other people. She had several siblings growing up. But her parents were filthy rich and I promise you they paid a housekeeper. Pearl never had to clean up after herself or anyone else, and it shows.
Destiny really nailed it when he was mentioning that men aren’t dating down when they date a younger woman. Shook up the whole panel. That one dude keeps interrupting the girl when she makes a point and it’ll be the most random thing or something complexity wrong like bruh chill out.
When they said women lose value over time, the answer is not really because you pick them to start a family and their ability to create a family is one of the greatest values in the human experience.
Yes he's disrespectful and esther makes great points when she's not being triggered. she just needs to calm down
@@lidiagizaw3828 It's annoying bc they treated Esther & Destiny so different, when Esther knew the same studies, caught on to the fallacies of thought, and had solid points. For example at 49:01, she brings up the same point about guys not pulling their weight with chores, when Destiny says it, it's taken as a valid point, yet the guy disqualifies it. She comes up with a different metric from the same study Destiny referenced, and the point is side-stepped and he responds with 2 statements of misogyny.
#1 When men are abusive and a woman divorces, _she_ is at fault for picking him. [Victim blaming, disregarding the man's role in the divorce, etc]
#2 After finishing her point on the increased mobility financial freedom affords the modern women, the guy says, who is harder to please a man or a woman? Then heavily implies it's the woman. This is an misogynist idea that has perpetuated through culture in stand up comedy, television, movies, music etc all of which are from the male perspective, as women only recently have been able to get a chair in the writing rooms. So of course in the absence of women, this "confusion" about what women want and a man only needing a sandwich leads to the perpetuation of women are harder to please.
Ugh, it's so aggravating!
@@allisons6910 the Michael guy is daft. He kept laughing in a way to make jest of Esther on the same points destiny affirmed.
@Allison S they tried to treat her like a Clusty bimbo when she has more critical skills than that dude and pearl combined
Ester: *mid way through a sentence*
Pearl: ester, ester, ester, ester, ester, ester, ester, ester. You need to stop your point to answer my question otherwise you can leave
Simpler to please doesnt mean easier. Simpler means less complex. Excessive one dimensional demands are just as impossible to satisfy as navigating an incredibly diverse and sometimes even contradictory net of demands.
My jaw dropped when Pearl called Esther disingenuous
The whole " should have picked a better guy" spiel shows how delusional Pearl is and doesn't understand human interaction nor nuance. Her first relationship is gonna mess her up if she keeps going like this. Friction either destroys or makes a relationship and staying together for the kids sake is probably the worst thing you can do for each others mental health.
She already has one ex. So her next relationship will be the true test
Typical RP logic (lack of)
A woman hurts a man - Most women are not relationship worthy!
A man hurts a woman - She picked wrong!
@@dantoinettetaylor1663 Im aware but it doesn't sound like she has been in a relationship where things just go south even though the grass was full bloom when they started. Like she doesn't understand that foresight is extremely difficult in terms of long goals. Sometimes it just doesn't workout and she shouldn't do the Ben Shapiro larp with the "facts dont care about feelings" vibe.
She is making such a moot point, hindsight is 20/20, ok and?
They should. If man are only picking onlyfans girls and then complain how they don't cook and clean, would you say to man they should pick better woman? I seen a lot of egineers that are single, never drug dealer.
It’s a fact. Get over it.
I think one of the most frustrating thing about seeing these types of conversations is, most of these people have generally good ideas in terms of what they want out of a relationship. However, they lack the experience; outside of destiny who is married, who is actively raising a child? Who has gone through the processing of having to be with someone good or bad (we don't know the circumstances) during a pregnancy. Destiny has this WHOLE ocean of experience above these guys.
I always find it interesting to see Destiny kind of realize he's not "the oldest guy in the room" but in a room with people much younger and inexperienced in overall life.
I find it plum amusing.
True be told it is only 1 type of relationship. Such as there are many ways of living life including having a relationship. So in reality he only have 1 experience of being a relationship and cannot speak for the millions of different types of relationship out there. You only have 1 life experience out of the billions of people on earth. You will never truly understand each other because you all walk different paths of experience.
@@AK255. Think of it this way, experience matters, That is why when steve carell describes a woman's breast as "bags of sand" in 40 year old Virgin & his friends immediately know he's full of shit.
No one has to have gone through the same exact experience, but I'm going to speak to someone who is in a someone what happy relationship unlike inexperience person who has yet to make a person cum much less overall happy feel supported.
Everything you said is nothing more than word salad. Nothing you said makes a bit of sense of what is being discussed.
This guy in the red shirt is just 100% disruption with 0 contribution. He keeps pushing the most "who cares, who asked" shit everytime. Get's so hung up on the details and 'being right' that it derails the actual point that was being made holy schmoly. They should've just let the people on the couch speak and nobody else, that'd been a nice relaxing insightful discussion.
I swear to god, the amount of times that someone will make a point, they will discuss for 5 minutes, and then someone asks a stupid question that's already been answered makes me want to rip the rest of my hair out. Podcasts need to have a listening comprehension test for their participants, this shit is ridiculous
Because most people are just trying to get out their talking points and aren't really trying to comverse.
@Cyanic Spruce Because you're observing and not participating. They probably felt that their points weren't being addressed properly and asked again or they feel they're being misrepresented. I expect this kind of shit on podcasts like this when there are no real professionals on it.
Liking because of the rest of the hair comment 😂
These convos are surface level asf
The chores thing is crazy bc Pearl can’t understand the resentment that can come with working full time then coming home and taking care of *everything*. It’s like an only child who had their mom do everything mindset. If you expect a woman to cater to you and keep the house clean and all that while you do next to nothing you better not expect her to work full time and she forshitsure better not be the breadwinner. You do not have a traditional household, don’t try to uphold your woman to a traditional role when you aren’t living up to yours as a man.
He's really going to sit there and act like men are the victims because women initiate divorce, and then say that women should've just picked better men in the first place. How does he even function?
I love men so much
If I do enough mental gymnastics, I might be able to make a semi-coherent idea out of what appears to be a raging contradiction:
They're saying that even if a man turns out to be a crappy human being and terrible partner, she picked him, she should've been able to see the future, and so now she shouldn't legally be allowed to leave him unless he beats her or cheats on her. She made her bed, so now she has to lie in it. He's a victim because she removed herself from the marriage against his will and deprived him of his right to his -property- wife.
For some reason, guys like this would rather be trapped in an unhappy marriage with an unhappy wife who doesn't want them.
40:47 Destiny does the most spot-on impression of Pearl.
Yeah damn it feels like she actually said it
Literally 😂😂😂
Seriously.
Are men 'easier to please' or are women socialised to always be trying to please others/serve/compromise and then men benefit from that?
I got here from the short, thanks for linking it
Bro she got me when she said household chores are automated now lmao
She grew up in an environment where that was called "the housekeeper."
That guy and Pearl have limited life experience. Id love to see debate like that in ten-twenty years when they went through some stuff in their lives.
And belive me kids... its not that easy to make a good choice of a partner. It s all down to what you both went through together. You need time for this. You need to see how that person behaves in diffrent situations and be able to make opinion about it. It gets hard when you love that person and/or you have no idea you are being manipulated.
Exactly. And for anyone who didn't grow up with married parents in a healthy relationship (or someone close in their family being that example), you have to figure that shit out on your own. I'd say that's most people haha. They think women should get married and have kids as young as they can (otherwise they become old and useless in their eyes), but the offset of that is people didn't spend time actually learning each other before making these life-long decisions. They have so many contradicting worldviews that can't all exist at once.
destiny is completely right that you arent really dating until you live together. so basicially its impossible to make informed choices, people change, circumstances change, feelings change, were not meant to decide once in our twenties and stick with it if it turns out different 30 years down the road. these arent poor choices, its life
It's called making better choices bro. The majority of men get with women based on looks.
Haha tbh even if they had the life experience they might just pull a Donovan Sharpe and just lie so they can keep up the grift..
@@chattingman6777 to give you my own example I married guy whom I knew I been with for 12 years before married him. Mask slipped when he knew om not gonna run away with two kids
Oh and maybe I didsee red flags but I genuinely loved him. So... there
The woman sat next to Destiny said she felt it was sickening that men often date much younger women (obviously talking about huge age gap scenarios) and Pearl asked her if she found it equally sad and sickening that women want successful/taller men.... way to miss every point you could possibly miss there Pearl I can see why you have a show.
Men wish they had a woman who was younger, beautiful, and feminine.
Women wish they had a man who is tall, successful, strong, confident, top 10% of men.
We don’t call women disgusting sickos for wanting what they’re biologically hardwired to want.
But we do call men disgusting sickos for wanting what they’re hardwired to want.
Pearl made a valid point. Get over it. Esther is a psycho.
The main women that find it sickening aren't the ones getting picked up. Like if a man could find them a cougar-suger mama that'll pay their way they would. Like how that older dude with money still has options. Nobody should be forced into relationships because of how others feel about said relationship
Comparing adolescence to money is comparing apples to oranges. Is it pedo like to be attracted to money?? NO. Is it pedo like to be attracted to a child that nearly just graduated? YUP.
Go see therapy
@@NatCaat97 That shaming tactic used to work. Now it doesn’t work anymore. Keep coping.
@@electric5hadow when its women its shaming when its men its femnism😂
Anyone notice how as the podcast goes on, Destiny and Esther get closer and closer on the couch? 😆
😂 ahaha
Tell me Pearl hasn't actually been in a long term relationship without telling me.
im so proud of destiny representing women being surrounded all these men
Amazin!
all these bros
Bro, I’m literally 4 minutes in this video wondering what the hell Destiny got himself into 🤣🤣🤣
@@jarrettath9636 got herself into you mean
AMAZIN’