60% my btt. Where did you get your number Destiny. The stats I see are over 83 percent of contested ends with the mother getting primary custody. Primary does not mean full custody. Joint custody still results in one getting primary.
and you seem like the type that thinks homeless people's only problem is not having a home. probably even bring up how we have plenty of empty houses on the market/owned by banks that they could move into, and somehow believe youre a genius that solved homelessness. lmao. i bet you also think gun free zones are the safest places to be
Auntie is the perfect representation of her generation, they never want to be told when they're wrong because they are "older and wiser" but can quickly tell anyone younger to "take accountability, you don't know everything" My dad is exactly like her and it's crazy.
And when people like that have arrested development and actually think like a thirteen year it can actually be MADDENING trying to talk to them. They think cause they've spent so many years on earth they are wise.
@@sayyestolife333 It's amazing that these boomers all claim to be young at heart but then constantly bitch about younger generations in the most asanine way.
It’s crazy because the are usually right in some way. Just imagine if you actually listened to them. Especially if their situation is better than yours.
Well it's simple logic. With age comes knowledge & experience. With gen Y & Z.. it's about how quickly you can run your mouth while your brains are still parked in neutral. Both gen Y & Z are still in their nappies, and like most women, they have unrealistic expectations for entitlements for things they don't ever earn or deserve. Showing up looking for handouts. These same low foreheads think there are more than 2 genders, or that transgenders are a real thing lol which is completely crazy. Without the older generation, there is no 'you'.
My husband died and left me with a one year old. Pearl:- well it's about choosing the right man. You choose someone who dying soon... I still think it's a choice.
@@michaelramone9262and women change over time as well. I was with my husband for 18 years. And when we married it was understood his career needs cam first. I willingly adjusted my desires and ambitions. But when his career had maxed out and I wanted to pursue something new, he wasn’t supportive. I felt empty and unfulfilled. I truly loved him. Still do. But I realized that I needed to love me more. I’m happier alone than being lonely within my marriage.
He was really good for the show because he called out clear double standard. I.e. Pearl always makes a point but typically has an uneducated crowd so she can't talk down to them, but the man fully challenge her when he said you always talk about exception to the rule but not applying your own logic. Pearl knows her advantage is the men look at stats (as do her) and the women are not as informed.
Auntie has to be the most unintelligent person in the room. Half of the time I'm listening to her, I'm just like what the hell are u even trying to say, woman 🤦♀🤦♀ Followed up by Pearl of course.
@@neshwhat702I get what she was saying, I just don't like how she said it's how relationships are supposed to be. You can give input but still let your partner have the final say in most things. That's what I like, personally. But I won't pretend that other women have to like that for themselves.
@@Ericachild She is talking from experience which makes her wise because she lived longer than us. So it should heed us to hear her. Older people are like knowledge mine because they lived the experience and you would want to pick someone that have had good experience and broad one
@@guillermogomez2811 money isn’t an issue for me, at all. I have no jealousy towards ‘destiny’ other than his whiny attempt to throw dirt on a good man’s name
Whoever said Pearl has absolutely no experience in real life is absolutely correct, her “anecdotes” are based on random people she’s talked to. She also has no ability to put herself in other peoples shoes. She constantly blames the women, though there are exceptions, for everything that goes wrong in their life without looking at the entire picture.
Older doesn't always mean knowledgeable. Some older people will ruin your life especially if you think the older people know it all or will always guide you correctly. This woman is the epitome of red flag avoid avoid avoid at all costs. Do not take her advice.
Auntie is so simple minded it makes my head explode. The moment she opens her mouth, ignorance pours out. Why is she even on a panel debating anything? Destiny said it perfectly when he said they are telling women to look for fathers. 😂 I love Destiny! Literally the only voice of reason. Pearl just spouts the same red pill points over and over with no knowledge.
Love how destiny made pearl and auntie backtrack everything they have been saying! This was so refreshing to see someone on the show they can't run over and put down.
I don’t even understand how anyone thinks they give sage advice. Their points are illogical and based on stupid anecdotes that they’ve most likely made up. And their resorting to personal insults is just the icing on the cake of their pitiful ability to argue.
@@jujutrini8412… I like how you write. It made me want to take up a novel I haven’t read in some years and books are sitting in front of me. A little rush Thanks! take care.
Auntie said, and Pearl agreed, "Don't let the women pick, let the men pick." But then later said, "Take accountability for your actions and choices." 💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️ so what is it? Do we pick what we want and take accountability or do we sit back and let the men do all the decision making? The biggest pick-me's and they don't even kno what they're fighting for lol
Auntie then later said about her child’s father (who she’d never marry even if he was the last man on earth) “I didn’t pick him, he picked me”… So no one should be picking anyone at this point I take it 🤔 😂
If you were married and got a divorce or your husband dies it's not your fault. That's not the type of single mother she's talking about. 🙄 Irresponsible women who have babies are the problem.
Well darn… if a woman is playing sociopathic games with the father of her children in a custody battle, shouldn’t the man be held accountable for not choosing a better woman - according to Pearl’s logic?! 😂
I wouldn't marry an abusive man because I didn't want to feel tied to him, while simultaneously stating that she had his child. That woman sounds insane to me.
This lady: "My man has the final say" Also this lady: "Do I look like a woman that just does what her husband says?" Yes, yes you do. Still this woman: "Whether I agree with him or he agrees with me, I go with what he says"
This lady definitely had me scratching my head but I understand now. Keep in mind her relationship with her partner has aged over 30 years, and according to her the outcomes of her following in his direction seemed to be good, so basically she trust his judgments.
she's basically trying to explain that her man has the final say but she has input in it and that their relationship is not like parent and child but more like owner and co-owner
Do you think Just Pearly decided that the best way to distract her opponent is by incessantly saying “mhmm mhmm” as if to appear as though she’s listening, when in fact, she’s just trying to dismantle any attempt at intelligent debate because she has no rebuttal? I mean the baseless pivots are wild.
also she said "women shouldnt pick men, men should pick the women" earlier in the vid then around 38mins shes telling her story about how going along with letting the man pick her led to abuse 🤡
This aunty lady started at “The man has the final say” And ended up at “You need to trust and communicate with your partner and I wouldn’t let my husband stop me doing what I want”
Every woman I've ever "picked" has been emotionally and physically abusive to me. The one and only woman that "picked" me became my wife. We've been happily married and together for 8 years now. Don't take personal anecdotes as fact. Everyone lives different lives, and each relationship is different. There is no set rule for how this shit works.
I’m not taking a stance on the underlying issue, but in general the technique you’re using here is kind of fallacious. When someone states a generalization, they are talking about the _average_ or most common outcome. So pointing out a particular case (such as your own) where the generalization doesn’t apply isn’t actually refuting anything. Because generalized statements are not meant to hold true in every single instance. They’re about the average or larger trend.
Every time we as men tell a woman her accolades don't matter. It's like telling her that who she is as a person don't matter. With that ideology how do we just expect them to want us to lead when we already made clear they don't matter in the 1st plc.? Hard to believe how some ppl can't see how redundant that is smh
The massive irony is that the more these toxic men say things like that, the less self respecting the more fragile women will become, in which case, the same man will accuse her of lacking self respect. It’s surface level thinking.
I’ve been watch online debates for years and still don’t understand what ‘redpill’ means. I know it’s in reference to the Matrix but what does it mean in the context of debate/argument?
@@comaofbowls84 yeah and why does everyone in every debate know the exact meaning behind it. its like telling your grandma to solve an easter egg in COD zombies.
@Frenk S but even when they're talking about guys who won't even wash their own clothes its the women's fault for picking them It's the women's fault if they get abused It's the women's fault if they pick a slob It's the women's faught if their standards are to high Idk man
Pick a better guy legit is the right response. Women are picking men for sexual and financial reasons and not character reasons and that's why they keep ending up with wife beaters and dead beats and cheaters. This is obviously the argument
Auntie: "My relationship is a traditional submissive relationship." *describes a normal relationship on equal footing* Destiny: "You just described a normal relationship?" Auntie: "No, I let my man take the lead but if I don't agree, we do something different." *Destiny dies inside*
Exactly. It’s called a partnership for a reason. These people are always like “someone has to be the leader” umm no they don’t. You never heard of business partners??
her idea of being submissive is just avoiding responsibility after all she said something along the lines that he gets the final say so he has to deal with the blame.
Pearly might actually be the least experienced and most stupid character to re-occur in the Destinyverse. Holy shit, take responsibility for being a single mother because your partner was abusive???
Yes, it's called wearing a condom (or using birth control) and waiting till marriage so that the abusive person doesn't leave you as a single Mum. If they do, it was your responsibility to not let a clown nut in you. Not really difficult to understand, if I'm honest.
@@realnayr6362 absolute clownshoes comment. Abusers can be really good at hiding their true colors until they get what they want. If a woman marries a man and they have a child in wedlock, he shows no signs of abuse, then after the baby is born because abusive is it still the woman's fault? Or do you just actually attribute no fault to the man in any case of spousal abuse?
Holy shit, I have never seen someone less comfortable hearing other points of view than Pearl, everytime she goes “mhm” she’s just trying to tune out whatever she’s hearing
The whole time I was thinking how terribly emotional every guest was, after reading your comment I now realize how important it is as a host to structure your content with specific character types. I don’t know this woman who’s hosting, it may have been due to her being in a unknown region as UK. But she literally chose a panel full of loudmouth opinionated people when you can’t have more than 20% of that type on a podcast if you desire to have any sort of productive conversation
The African Carribean fight was insane. Even more insane auntie refused to acknowledge she's the one that brought up ethnicity and just started yelling.
i can’t believe that went on for so long and wasn’t shut down/redirected. that was very uncomfortable. and the fact that destiny was the one to redirect finally on pearl’s podcast is not surprising😂
She dosent have to accept there argument she is salasi Ethiopian.... the argument was ignorant because the young bucks tried forcing identity under African identity... carabinean Christians especially Nassau do not identity as Africans and blame Africans in the ivory coast and northern Egypt for selling them into bondange ..... the whole "jump the broom" dosent come from black culture in marriage its specifically about jumping bondage from the African identity .... only in the 200s was it popular among west indian blacks to identify with any form of conformity... she's from Nassau.... they have been in a constant state of revolution since the 16 hundreds ....
At first Auntie seemed intriguing, but overtime it became a borefest of contradictions and a blatant case of a person who has embodied an irrational tradition.
Sorry but that's false. When you first meet someone they will always put on the mask, including yourself. But a person can never hold it up all the time they will show themself. If you spend a decent amount of time with them you could know within a couple of months. and if you don't know how to look then that's a failure on your parents part.
@@CALPH88 Okay so hear me out.......instead of simply blaming ppl who can't seem to notice when the mask slips for however brief....why not blame the ppl who wear the mask in the first place? Like c'mon 😂
@@trevonw67who said they are not equally at fault? The point is you can’t change people like that and the only thing you can do is look for red flags and the first signs of disrespect. If you don’t, it means you are using ur feelings over your logic
Pearl should take accountability and vet her guests better 👀 and Pearls dad should take accountability for raising Pearl to not vet her guests well enough.
I watched the live stream of 'kingdom reacts', reacting with PmP. Everyone there contradicted themselves at one point. And you can't really vet people that you don't know how or what triggers them and if the react like adults.
Her complete unawareness of the word diaspora ("dis-a-poor-ya" as she put it) was laughably on brand and pathetic. It's actually hilarious that the RP community finds a woman who's moronic, masculine, and chronically single to be worth watching and a good spokeswoman for their cause.
Jesus Christ what a useless discussion. A bunch of people with their emotions and adrenalin running so high that all they can do is yell over each other. If there's one social reform America desperately needs, it's to teach their people how to hold a _productive_ debate where you can actually get somewhere by listening to the opposition at least as much as you talk.
Single mother coming from an abusive relationship: So if I chose to be with someone, not knowing they were violent, and they become violent, it’s my fault? Not their decision making? Pearl: Y e s
How long were you with that man before having his child? Me personally its 3-4 years bf marriage and I would only have a child after a year and a half or so into marriage. If you’ve been with that person for an extended amount of time there is just no way you cant skim his personality his strengths and his faults, in that case some fault does lie with you but there are many other cases and situations and its not a one size fits all kinda deal.
People saying u don’t have a baby with a Man U don’t know first off who are y’all to tell someone when they can have a baby with someone ? If someone feels like a year is more than enough nd let’s make it happen it’s they decision some people are with they man 3 years plus and then have babies and then the abuse starts y’all love to always blame the women for men’s actions
@@rachelbeavers5487 "who are y'all to tell someone when they can have a baby" Then don't look for sympathy when you eventually end up with an abuser because you "dont want people to tell you what to do"
I mean, I don't agree with any single thing pearl has to say, but she is right on this one. People give red flags and is up to you to not ignore them. I'm not native
@@bloopbloop4354 thats why I dont call them step dads, call them the dad that stepped up. But yeah, a lot of dudes cant do that and I wont hold it against them when they are young.
The thing is, this mental thinking you all put in single parents heads. Before kids, and ppl who don't have kids now should know they won't have everyone either. We have levels to life. And kids or no kids you may not have access to that level of people. To continue to put down single MOTHERS and tell them to "get real" while not being real yourself is where my issue is.
Black Brit Woman here that just discovered Destiny and is so grateful for him effectively dealing with his fellow American. It's like she purposely selects these inconsistent, incoherant, black panellists. Surprised the black men that usually speak trash about black women on her channel weren't present.
Oh no. Pearly really out here trying to be the gangly softball girl version of fresh and fit. Lmao. Edit: I literally just got in trouble from my professor for calling someone-a girl I think-“bro” in class because that’s what I call everyone. The sensitivity on people is mind boggling lol.
Pearl’s entire shtick: “blame women when their lives fail, but when a man’s life fails be skeptical that it’s his fault & consider the real problem may actually be women/society/systems”… 🤦🏼♂️
@@ultimatecritterboxlizard The “woke mob”… 😆 I wouldn’t say she’s the female Andrew Tate, but I get what you’re saying. The shelf life of that shtick for a woman just isn’t the same.
Red jacket wasn't interrupting pearl she asked multiple times to speak and waited patiently everytime. Pearl has been more disrespectful in these conversations than anyone, host or not, she is rude.
I don't see a woman with blue hair, I definitely do see a biological man with blue hair though lol Idk why it's so hard to label people who and what they biologically are.
"It feels like you guys are saying that women need to look for fathers" The absolute, sheer force behind that statement reverberated throughout the room for the rest of the conversation. Edit : typo
Funny thing is, that's what a lot of women ARE looking for. They want a 6ft+ man with a 6in+ dick making 6 figures so he can loom over her 5ft ass and pay for everything she wants. That's literally the definition of a parental figure.
This was one of the stupidest things I've heard her say...I really don't like the opinions of her... she thinks women are stupid... but really is just her that is stupid...
its so insane how she could say stuff like that especially coming from a generation where she wouldve gotten alottt of shit working in a male dominated industry. Like non mechanic being synonymous with feminine coming from an older female mechanic is if anything really sad because it demonstrates how she views herself probably because of how she was treated by men working as a mechanic.
How is Pearl going to talk about how we can't talk about the exceptions, and then literally brings up the exception. I'm glad Destiny called her out on that because she shut up real quick. Pearl literally can not take any pushback at all, she will say literally anything.
@@ainsmas361 because he actually listens to what people say to ACTUALLY debate ? It’s called finding the dynamic of the argument and actually trying to understand what they’re saying instead of just listening to respond 😕
@nobias88 even with staying too long its very difficult to just get out as you said. thats not something i would necessarily fault them for but it is something that you should try your hardest doing
Pearl is a master moderator. Excellent job keeping the conversation moving and civil. I will use her "guys guys guys guys" technique if I ever have to moderate.
"single women need to take accountability for dating shitty/abusive men" "well sometimes the guy gets fucked in custody court because his baby momma wont let him see the kid, how unfair for the guy" demanding accountability for one group and not the other-justpearlythingz
Men are held accountable already though. They have no reproductive rights. There are Men even paying child support for kids that aren't there's. Women are privileged in that the institutions of power give them preferential treatment.
Also don't forget 20:00 "You're saying about picking (your husband), the problem I find nowadays is that the women is picking. Don't let the women pick the men supposed to pick."
The blue haired guy has the most logical perception. This Pearl girl, has absolutely no idea what she’s saying. Does she even have children? Has she ever been married?…For someone whose so sure of themselves, she’s incredibly clueless & it comes off ignorant. Auntie likes to talk about herself/her man a little too much and if the woman with the red blazer makes ONE more reference to putting things in “context”, I’m going to throw my phone out the damn window! 🤪🔫 Overall, the blue haired guy is literally the only one worth listening to (in my humble opinion). The rest of the panel members (minus those who couldn’t get a word in edgewise) were just messy.
First time actually watching this podcast and I don’t think I’ll watch more. Pearl talks about things she’s never experienced. Auntie does all the things she yells at everyone else on the panel for doing when it comes to mannerisms. Lead by example or don’t lead. 😂
Young fools turn into old fools. There is nothing worse than witnessing an elder with no wisdom with a slave mentality. It's sad that these women don't have the intelligence to lead themselves. Every human has their own brain. You should not have to rely on anyone but yourself when it comes to decisions for yourself. I think I lost some braincells listening to Granny speak.
Idk auntie Jenny has been through a lot and has come through it all with a happy marriage and family. I think she’s wiser than you give her credit for. The point auntie was making was that she respects and loves her partner enough to care about their opinion instead of being selfish and only thinking of self gratification
It's wild that Auntie had to argue that she was incompetent in order to justify why her man should have authoritarian control on things, like buying a good car she needs, even though she's a mechanic.
See on the outside it looks like my parents have a very trad relationship and I guess they do, and are socially conservative, but there was no dominating or one person better than the other. How my parents avoided arguments was explaining stuff they understood in a way the other could understand and so both of you were making an informed decision on something. My mom still does all the cooking, especially when guests are coming over, and she doesn't ever even fill her own gas, nor care about the handling of the finances. My dad does the other stuff since he likes that stuff and my mom likes science, research and cuisine. However they can both do all the adulting stuff if they need to, because that kind of hubris no matter the money or station in life is past the point of being able to call yourself a functional adult according to the both of them. Neither me nor my brother have seen my parents even raise their voices at each other. Communication and conflict resolution skills on point, really helped me growing up, being able to see that stuff was possible.
He has the final decision and I discuss everything with him but I bought a car without discussing it with him 😁 this is so awesome seeing this platform derailed This episode has been needed for so long
It's really just more proof on top of proof that she's just doing the bit that gets the most clicks. She found her lane as incel-bait and is way out of her league to host anything of this capacity. She isn't even close to a strong enough personality to keep up with the vitriol needed to back up her insane takes. She's as inauthentic as they come.
@@Berserk1Manga When you take into account that the vast majority of these podcasts are telling women they’re used up by 30 and pushing women to get married younger and younger; how exactly do you expect a young, inexperienced girl to know the signs of a manipulative, abuser before it’s too late?
when it comes to wording and communicating thoughts and giving a smooth intellectual short answers and convincing , of all podcasts I have listened to, Destiny is the greatest tbh. He really can make a discussion and always gives most reasonable answers.
After spending all that time arguing that men lead and that men choose and it’s the man’s job to choose, pearl says it’s the single moms fault for choosing an abusive husband. She has no real position, she’s just a token.
Do you understand why? Because women have lots of options but they tend to pick the bad boys. Every women has loads of guys trying to date them. But those guys are average. And did you watch the whole thing? These women think average is an insult. So when they date an abusive guy it is their fault. They don't want the nice guy.
@ugbc3276 Yeah because the nice guy isn't the good guy. Anybody can paint themselves as "nice" but be a bastard in real life. Besides, the average woman is not looking for the "bad boys". I don't know if you're stuck in high school but that isn't the reality out here.
Pearl honestly had absolutely no control of her show. She has no real world experience to critize the average woman. She doesn't even sound like she believes what she is saying it's sounds like she saying just to get viewers and likes.
Her company's profit margins depend on she sticking to the pro-men stance on everything irrespective of the evidence. So you cannot expect fact-based opinions from her.
Idk how Destiny does it! No one can EVER stay focused enough to answer his LOGICAL questions. It’s ALWAYS an emotional response. The shit is AHHHnOyingggg🙄
Damn, most of these panelists are so ill equipped at talking about this. This is such a surface level convo and I'm impressed Destiny can talk on their level.
I know what a travesty, why can't we just have high level academic conversations about dating. It's not like I'm a dumbass who seriously seeks info like this out because I have to be instructed on how to manage basic facets of my life, I'm just way too intelligent for this stuff. Thank God destiny was able to translate the monkeyspeak for me
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Destiny is a girls name.
@@theradninja4666 this jokes so corny at this point
all i got to say is bro
Do some push-ups, you blue-haired pomeranian.
60% my btt. Where did you get your number Destiny. The stats I see are over 83 percent of contested ends with the mother getting primary custody. Primary does not mean full custody. Joint custody still results in one getting primary.
Pearl seems like the type of person that would tell a homeless person to "just buy a house."
😂😂😂😂😂😂
and you seem like the type that thinks homeless people's only problem is not having a home. probably even bring up how we have plenty of empty houses on the market/owned by banks that they could move into, and somehow believe youre a genius that solved homelessness. lmao. i bet you also think gun free zones are the safest places to be
"I feel like homeless these days, just wanna be homeless"
🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@valentina3300 you mean "i feel like homeless these days (pause, sigh and look up in the air) just wanna be homeless"
These panelists are doing an incredible job to dismantle the harmful stereotype that a British accent makes you sound intelligent
Aussie accent>>>>
That's a London accent, the centre of UK immigration. None of these people are actually British.
@@D4n1t0o the comment is not about the nationality making you sound intelligent
@@pestydesperado8771 The comment is about the impression given by an English accent being dismantled by the people in this video's apparent stupidity.
@@D4n1t0o exactly, so where does OP discuss the stereotype of British people being intelligent?
Auntie is the perfect representation of her generation, they never want to be told when they're wrong because they are "older and wiser" but can quickly tell anyone younger to "take accountability, you don't know everything" My dad is exactly like her and it's crazy.
And when people like that have arrested development and actually think like a thirteen year it can actually be MADDENING trying to talk to them. They think cause they've spent so many years on earth they are wise.
@@sayyestolife333 It's amazing that these boomers all claim to be young at heart but then constantly bitch about younger generations in the most asanine way.
It’s crazy because the are usually right in some way. Just imagine if you actually listened to them. Especially if their situation is better than yours.
@@heerosagayuy2143 everyone is usually right ‘in some way’
Well it's simple logic.
With age comes knowledge & experience.
With gen Y & Z.. it's about how quickly you can run your mouth while your brains are still parked in neutral. Both gen Y & Z are still in their nappies, and like most women, they have unrealistic expectations for entitlements for things they don't ever earn or deserve. Showing up looking for handouts. These same low foreheads think there are more than 2 genders, or that transgenders are a real thing lol which is completely crazy.
Without the older generation, there is no 'you'.
My husband died and left me with a one year old.
Pearl:- well it's about choosing the right man. You choose someone who dying soon... I still think it's a choice.
Moreover men change overtime, "you can see the red flags from the start" no, men or women change according to how things are in a relationship
@@michaelramone9262and women change over time as well. I was with my husband for 18 years. And when we married it was understood his career needs cam first. I willingly adjusted my desires and ambitions. But when his career had maxed out and I wanted to pursue something new, he wasn’t supportive. I felt empty and unfulfilled. I truly loved him. Still do. But I realized that I needed to love me more. I’m happier alone than being lonely within my marriage.
@@michaelramone9262and if they change, you leave them…
"i went outside and some random guy stabbed me"
pearl:- well, you decided to go outside so its ur fault that u got stabbed!
Destiny's feminine energy triggered the alpha masculine females.
Lmfaooooooooo
LMFAOOOSHSJAJ
the "aunty" who was claiming to be feminine and submissive to her husband definetely was lying. she is way too "masculine" to let a man "lead" her
@@AliKhan-xo1eutrue. Even Pearl wouldn’t submit to a man. If her man told her to stop her podcast do you honestly think she’ll say “ok sir”. Lol
I’m fucken DED.
This conversation could be used as psychological torture.
Yeah it hurts
My eats bro
All these podcasts have to have people on the panel that are somehow dumber than the host so it's not apparent the host is just some stupid grifter. 😪
I only made it through 18 mins. I couldnt even get to the bulk of it.🤦🏾♀️
The only option is to make it into a challenge wank
Guy in the blue hair is the voice of reason. He combed through all the arguments and presented them so simply. No backstory or fluff
He is. I would hire him to put blinker fluid in my car or do my hair extensions.
He was really good for the show because he called out clear double standard. I.e. Pearl always makes a point but typically has an uneducated crowd so she can't talk down to them, but the man fully challenge her when he said you always talk about exception to the rule but not applying your own logic. Pearl knows her advantage is the men look at stats (as do her) and the women are not as informed.
Destiny is highly intelligent. Pearl is no dummy either. the rest are dumb to dumber..
And he's the same guy that allows his girl to sleep around.
@@rcorde3I bet he can spell though
Auntie has to be the most unintelligent person in the room. Half of the time I'm listening to her, I'm just like what the hell are u even trying to say, woman 🤦♀🤦♀
Followed up by Pearl of course.
Auntie said to let a man choose you yet she rejected an abusive partner. Doesn’t make sense…
@@neshwhat702I get what she was saying, I just don't like how she said it's how relationships are supposed to be. You can give input but still let your partner have the final say in most things. That's what I like, personally. But I won't pretend that other women have to like that for themselves.
Right. All that grey hair and no wisdom smh
@@Ericachild She is talking from experience which makes her wise because she lived longer than us. So it should heed us to hear her. Older people are like knowledge mine because they lived the experience and you would want to pick someone that have had good experience and broad one
@@noorzanayasmin7806 But she really not saying anything at all.
Pearl: 'Women should pick better partners'
Also Pearl: *fails to pick a panel of guests that won't shank each other*
Honestly, this was great
The point of arguments is to get someone that disagrees with you.
@@ioris8363 You can disagree with somone without scream at the top of your lungs at them..
@@theshippingforecast2852 not when you're raised to think the loudest person is the most correct
Did it not occur to you why that happened? People getting outraged gets eyeballs.
My favourite part of this podcast is watching Destiny looking into the void, slowly losing his sanity.
🤣🤣🤣
He already has, that’s why he dyed his hair blue and plays video games.
Timestamp?
@@ainsmas361 youre jealous he can do these things and still make more money than you huh
@@guillermogomez2811 money isn’t an issue for me, at all. I have no jealousy towards ‘destiny’ other than his whiny attempt to throw dirt on a good man’s name
Whoever said Pearl has absolutely no experience in real life is absolutely correct, her “anecdotes” are based on random people she’s talked to. She also has no ability to put herself in other peoples shoes. She constantly blames the women, though there are exceptions, for everything that goes wrong in their life without looking at the entire picture.
She is a grifter!
Older doesn't always mean knowledgeable. Some older people will ruin your life especially if you think the older people know it all or will always guide you correctly. This woman is the epitome of red flag avoid avoid avoid at all costs. Do not take her advice.
The masculine energy was over 9000 on this podcast. And there was destiny to balance things out.
I laughed my ass off :D
We meet again mr turtle
Weren't you on Brett Cooper's comment section? But I guess we have to listen to women like Destiny and Brett
copy pasta king
Girl name, girl energy
I’m sure all of these psychopaths have normal, healthy, functional relationships, and we should totally take their advice on dating.
You really mean that in a general term? Psychopaths? And here i thought this comment section only disliked pearl lol
@@ultimatecritterboxlizard
hy·per·bo·le
/hīˈpərbəlē/
noun
exaggerated statements or claims not meant to be taken literally.
@@mikeyTversus sorry intentions and sarcasm are hard to read for me given that English is a foreign language to me
I can’t wait to use their pearls of wisdom to aid me in my future endeavours. Thank god their thoughts and points were so clearly laid out!
Touche.
Auntie is so simple minded it makes my head explode. The moment she opens her mouth, ignorance pours out. Why is she even on a panel debating anything?
Destiny said it perfectly when he said they are telling women to look for fathers. 😂 I love Destiny! Literally the only voice of reason. Pearl just spouts the same red pill points over and over with no knowledge.
You women are not ready to be long term women wives she has 32 years what do you have
I lost brain cells every time she opened her mouth. The only conciliation was that she wasn’t American.
Love how destiny made pearl and auntie backtrack everything they have been saying! This was so refreshing to see someone on the show they can't run over and put down.
I don’t even understand how anyone thinks they give sage advice. Their points are illogical and based on stupid anecdotes that they’ve most likely made up. And their resorting to personal insults is just the icing on the cake of their pitiful ability to argue.
@@jujutrini8412I don't understand how anyone takes them seriously. Shirts crazy
@@jujutrini8412… I like how you write. It made me want to take up a novel I haven’t read in some years and books are sitting in front of me. A little rush Thanks! take care.
@@prettypearls26 ✌️
Auntie said, and Pearl agreed, "Don't let the women pick, let the men pick." But then later said, "Take accountability for your actions and choices." 💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️ so what is it? Do we pick what we want and take accountability or do we sit back and let the men do all the decision making? The biggest pick-me's and they don't even kno what they're fighting for lol
Agree
Auntie then later said about her child’s father (who she’d never marry even if he was the last man on earth) “I didn’t pick him, he picked me”… So no one should be picking anyone at this point I take it 🤔 😂
@@i_am_dmx she got pregnant through rape at 17… but yeah go off
@@i_am_dmxWe need to pick Jesus at this point
I suppose the men pick and then you have the choice to say yes or no thank you.
Woman gets married and has kids
Husband gets murdered
Pearl: "its your fault you are a single mother you should have made better choices"
That was not her point at all lmao you all stay reachin and not listening
If you were married and got a divorce or your husband dies it's not your fault. That's not the type of single mother she's talking about. 🙄 Irresponsible women who have babies are the problem.
@@russelldriver2476 the girl literally talked about abusive partners and Pearl said "you still should've picked someone better"
@@katsageexe the still wasn't the original scenario or point.
I do agree Pearl was tripping when she said that part tho.
@@russelldriver2476 yes and they are making fun of her for saying that dumb thing, keep up my guy lol
Well darn… if a woman is playing sociopathic games with the father of her children in a custody battle, shouldn’t the man be held accountable for not choosing a better woman - according to Pearl’s logic?! 😂
I wouldn't marry an abusive man because I didn't want to feel tied to him, while simultaneously stating that she had his child. That woman sounds insane to me.
you literally couldn't put together more of a trainwreck if you tried
Lol literally. This was amazing. Too many simple people here
Just add Lauren Southern
Could invite train
You're right, I can't. Gotta wait for my future husband's permission to do so.
jk, /s
Its dey kulture
This lady: "My man has the final say"
Also this lady: "Do I look like a woman that just does what her husband says?"
Yes, yes you do.
Still this woman: "Whether I agree with him or he agrees with me, I go with what he says"
It was so obvious that the exact hole in her logic was this contradiction
I peeped how she contradicted tf out of herself.
So contradictory
This lady definitely had me scratching my head but I understand now. Keep in mind her relationship with her partner has aged over 30 years, and according to her the outcomes of her following in his direction seemed to be good, so basically she trust his judgments.
she's basically trying to explain that her man has the final say but she has input in it and that their relationship is not like parent and child but more like owner and co-owner
Do you think Just Pearly decided that the best way to distract her opponent is by incessantly saying “mhmm mhmm” as if to appear as though she’s listening, when in fact, she’s just trying to dismantle any attempt at intelligent debate because she has no rebuttal? I mean the baseless pivots are wild.
That woman in the red making threats like a 13 year old rudeboy is insane to witness. A mother, a fully grown adult. The guy didn't even do anything!
Auntie: You shouldn't live with a man before marriage
Also Auntie: Unmarried and living with a man
She's the biggest hypocrite🤣 luckily she is old so she'll be dead within 10 years
Maybe she is speaking out of experience I guess?
😂😂😂😅😅😅
also she said "women shouldnt pick men, men should pick the women" earlier in the vid then around 38mins shes telling her story about how going along with letting the man pick her led to abuse 🤡
@@cashmereclown8512 I lose braincells listening to auntie
This aunty lady started at
“The man has the final say”
And ended up at
“You need to trust and communicate with your partner and I wouldn’t let my husband stop me doing what I want”
Where did she say the last part? Please timeline.
Full of contradictions 😂
That aunty lady looks absolutely zooted lol.
Still smarter than pearl
@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 it happens within her rant over the first 15 mins it’s basically just a big back pedal
Every woman I've ever "picked" has been emotionally and physically abusive to me. The one and only woman that "picked" me became my wife. We've been happily married and together for 8 years now. Don't take personal anecdotes as fact. Everyone lives different lives, and each relationship is different. There is no set rule for how this shit works.
I’m not taking a stance on the underlying issue, but in general the technique you’re using here is kind of fallacious. When someone states a generalization, they are talking about the _average_ or most common outcome. So pointing out a particular case (such as your own) where the generalization doesn’t apply isn’t actually refuting anything. Because generalized statements are not meant to hold true in every single instance. They’re about the average or larger trend.
Every time we as men tell a woman her accolades don't matter. It's like telling her that who she is as a person don't matter. With that ideology how do we just expect them to want us to lead when we already made clear they don't matter in the 1st plc.? Hard to believe how some ppl can't see how redundant that is smh
Right! Your accomplishments are part of who you are...its a part of you that you are proud of
@@kayjeffs3741 facts! No one should be discounted from what makes them who they are
The massive irony is that the more these toxic men say things like that, the less self respecting the more fragile women will become, in which case, the same man will accuse her of lacking self respect.
It’s surface level thinking.
@@Aisatsana1971 great point!
How was the blue haired chick not the cattiest woman on the panel?
mhm
The stripper from Atlanta with the Cardi B wig? She was the coolest one
🤣🤣🤣
doin't soil the name of CATS -.-
She was forced to colour her hair blue. Lost a bet. AMAZIN
Pearl is utterly useless when she’s not parroting common red pill arguments.
mhm mhm mhm mhm mhm
@@TGiSHIllidanServer she does it incessantly but even more when shes getting rolled on
omg all three of u together have said everything that i wanted to say 🤣 💯
I’ve been watch online debates for years and still don’t understand what ‘redpill’ means. I know it’s in reference to the Matrix but what does it mean in the context of debate/argument?
@@comaofbowls84 yeah and why does everyone in every debate know the exact meaning behind it. its like telling your grandma to solve an easter egg in COD zombies.
My husband died. That does not mean I made bad choices or am less valuable.
Pearl reminds me of the girl who got good grades in high school and now she thinks she’s smart at life.
That old woman likes to talk about feminine and masculine energy. She’s literally the most masculine woman I have ever seen in my entire life.
Lmaoooo and im a mechanic too. On jets
@@vsperatosRIGHT!!
She's so damn loud with the women only , she didn't scream at the guys. She needs a good ass whipping.
@@Wilbur-mj3fq well damn lol
She’s yelling and being aggressive while claiming women need to be feminine lmao
Pearl says "pick a better guy" but she also gets mad at women for being "too picky." 🤦
It's called expectations. I can tell you to pick a better job.... that doesn't mean go apply for something you don't meet the qualifications for
@Frenk S but even when they're talking about guys who won't even wash their own clothes its the women's fault for picking them
It's the women's fault if they get abused
It's the women's fault if they pick a slob
It's the women's faught if their standards are to high
Idk man
@@LostTrigger I mean….it isn’t that NOTHING is her fault…..
Pick a better guy legit is the right response. Women are picking men for sexual and financial reasons and not character reasons and that's why they keep ending up with wife beaters and dead beats and cheaters. This is obviously the argument
@@FirstLast-gk6lg why in an argument where people are trying to elevate men to do better it's the women's fault for picking them
I think auntie just wants to be able to school the youngins but she doesn't want to be schooled herself.
Remember that SpongeBob episode where Plankton says PEOPLE TALK LOUD WHEN THEY WANNA SOUND SMART
lol yea that 😂😂
Auntie: "My relationship is a traditional submissive relationship." *describes a normal relationship on equal footing*
Destiny: "You just described a normal relationship?"
Auntie: "No, I let my man take the lead but if I don't agree, we do something different."
*Destiny dies inside*
Destiny didn't ask, he stated.
Question marks are for questions, he didn't ask a question.
Yeah the sad part is most relationships are not even like that 😆
Exactly. It’s called a partnership for a reason. These people are always like “someone has to be the leader” umm no they don’t. You never heard of business partners??
her idea of being submissive is just avoiding responsibility after all she said something along the lines that he gets the final say so he has to deal with the blame.
@@Theworldismine5 most relationships might be give and take; that doesn’t get views though.
Pearly might actually be the least experienced and most stupid character to re-occur in the Destinyverse. Holy shit, take responsibility for being a single mother because your partner was abusive???
I was gonna write a comment saying the same exact thing but it hurt my brain so much I just didn't even write it lmao
Yes, it's called wearing a condom (or using birth control) and waiting till marriage so that the abusive person doesn't leave you as a single Mum. If they do, it was your responsibility to not let a clown nut in you.
Not really difficult to understand, if I'm honest.
@@realnayr6362 absolute clownshoes comment. Abusers can be really good at hiding their true colors until they get what they want. If a woman marries a man and they have a child in wedlock, he shows no signs of abuse, then after the baby is born because abusive is it still the woman's fault? Or do you just actually attribute no fault to the man in any case of spousal abuse?
Right... that chick needs to seek help.
Honestly it’s so delusional to the point it’s basically satire.
Holy shit, I have never seen someone less comfortable hearing other points of view than Pearl, everytime she goes “mhm” she’s just trying to tune out whatever she’s hearing
Geez. I had no idea Africans and Caribbean had such beef
This trainwreck of a panel was 100% Pearl's fault because the guests she picked reveals her poor decisions in life.
What you on about shit was entertaining you wouldn't be on this video if she brought on a perfect calm and boring panel.
The whole time I was thinking how terribly emotional every guest was, after reading your comment I now realize how important it is as a host to structure your content with specific character types.
I don’t know this woman who’s hosting, it may have been due to her being in a unknown region as UK. But she literally chose a panel full of loudmouth opinionated people when you can’t have more than 20% of that type on a podcast if you desire to have any sort of productive conversation
Plot twist, she orchestrated the drama by selecting the most fiery panel members.😉
She needs to just “pick better guests”
Then everyone complains about “hypergamy” in choosing her guests, maybe then she might learn something.
@@Llamaingtonno shit it’s funny but the comment still remains true
The African Carribean fight was insane. Even more insane auntie refused to acknowledge she's the one that brought up ethnicity and just started yelling.
It’s to be expected. She’s of that generation. Let them tell it, it’s Africans fault! 🙄
i can’t believe that went on for so long and wasn’t shut down/redirected. that was very uncomfortable. and the fact that destiny was the one to redirect finally on pearl’s podcast is not surprising😂
She dosent have to accept there argument she is salasi Ethiopian.... the argument was ignorant because the young bucks tried forcing identity under African identity... carabinean Christians especially Nassau do not identity as Africans and blame Africans in the ivory coast and northern Egypt for selling them into bondange ..... the whole "jump the broom" dosent come from black culture in marriage its specifically about jumping bondage from the African identity .... only in the 200s was it popular among west indian blacks to identify with any form of conformity... she's from Nassau.... they have been in a constant state of revolution since the 16 hundreds ....
Auntie is sooo chaotic. This thing was a hot mess. Poor pearl totally lost control.
@@T.C556 do you think the guy at 49:00 is Zimbabwean
"I'm a trained mechanic" over and over makes me think she prolly only does oil changes
At first Auntie seemed intriguing, but overtime it became a borefest of contradictions and a blatant case of a person who has embodied an irrational tradition.
Steven is like a little chaos gnome. People lose their minds in his presence.
Her*
The call him Liberal Loki.
Don’t misgender her!
He instigates without instigating.
Tiny chaos gnomestiny
"YOU never know if you have a good guy until you dont". Truer words were never spoken.
Sorry but that's false. When you first meet someone they will always put on the mask, including yourself. But a person can never hold it up all the time they will show themself. If you spend a decent amount of time with them you could know within a couple of months. and if you don't know how to look then that's a failure on your parents part.
@CALPH88 that's the whole point. You don't know until the mask slips. Some people hold it up longer than others
@@CALPH88 Okay so hear me out.......instead of simply blaming ppl who can't seem to notice when the mask slips for however brief....why not blame the ppl who wear the mask in the first place? Like c'mon 😂
@@trevonw67 dude you sound like a female. If you get scammed then it's not on the scammer, it's on you for not knowing better.
@@trevonw67who said they are not equally at fault? The point is you can’t change people like that and the only thing you can do is look for red flags and the first signs of disrespect. If you don’t, it means you are using ur feelings over your logic
Aunty is incredibly immature for her age. She certainly has some good points but she lets her ego get in the way of things.
True , lol 🤪😂😈
Destiny, my boy please get of there asap , these people are out of their minds .
Pearl should take accountability and vet her guests better 👀 and Pearls dad should take accountability for raising Pearl to not vet her guests well enough.
Why do you never want to experience happiness
Is Pearl's dad also her manager?.
@@eldeano9964 probably not, but the manager also bares responsibility 😁
I watched the live stream of 'kingdom reacts', reacting with PmP. Everyone there contradicted themselves at one point. And you can't really vet people that you don't know how or what triggers them and if the react like adults.
You poor darling, who hurt you??
Pearl has absolutely nothing happening between her ears bro completely empty
Nah, she might not be smart but she's smart enough to milk her audience and make herself rich, just by spewing lowest common denominator takes.
@The Grinderman what if she's a Harvard graduate and this just a social experiment
She's always doing that weird grin everytime there's chaos lol.
Facts just a vacuous cavern between her ears
Her complete unawareness of the word diaspora ("dis-a-poor-ya" as she put it) was laughably on brand and pathetic. It's actually hilarious that the RP community finds a woman who's moronic, masculine, and chronically single to be worth watching and a good spokeswoman for their cause.
Auntie said there were red flags so she didn't get married to him, but she had a kid with him?! Make that make sense
Jesus Christ what a useless discussion. A bunch of people with their emotions and adrenalin running so high that all they can do is yell over each other. If there's one social reform America desperately needs, it's to teach their people how to hold a _productive_ debate where you can actually get somewhere by listening to the opposition at least as much as you talk.
As a black girl This is so embarrassing 💀
Afrikaans and Carrebien lmao 😂🤣🤣🤣
I know!! What did I just watch?😮😮😅
Honestly man
@@ItsJoyJeet NAh that is all african, we carribean dont claim that
so brave
Single mother coming from an abusive relationship: So if I chose to be with someone, not knowing they were violent, and they become violent, it’s my fault? Not their decision making?
Pearl: Y e s
How long were you with that man before having his child? Me personally its 3-4 years bf marriage and I would only have a child after a year and a half or so into marriage. If you’ve been with that person for an extended amount of time there is just no way you cant skim his personality his strengths and his faults, in that case some fault does lie with you but there are many other cases and situations and its not a one size fits all kinda deal.
There were probably red flags that you ignored.
Actually yes, how hard that might sound. DONT HAVE A KID WITH A PERSON YOU DIDNT KNOW FOR SOME TIME.
People saying u don’t have a baby with a Man U don’t know first off who are y’all to tell someone when they can have a baby with someone ? If someone feels like a year is more than enough nd let’s make it happen it’s they decision some people are with they man 3 years plus and then have babies and then the abuse starts y’all love to always blame the women for men’s actions
@@rachelbeavers5487 "who are y'all to tell someone when they can have a baby" Then don't look for sympathy when you eventually end up with an abuser because you "dont want people to tell you what to do"
“Relax Innit”
I love how they were fighting and Destiny was like "😌" the whole time
Destiny flew across the Atlantic for this lmaooo
love how pearls whole thing is "be more submissive and feminine" then proceeds to endlessly try to argue invalid points
She kinda acts like a lesbian... she doesn't even look feminine
Which invalid point?
@@lyndonbauer1703 bro....
@@lyndonbauer1703 All of them
@@lyndonbauer1703 Pearl alt lmao
"I won't call you bro ever again." Two seconds later he finishes his sentence with bro. 😂
she just went from zero to Karen in 0.001 seconds
Sounds like "Auntie" is in a very nice bdsm relationship.
Crazy that Pearl doesnt understand that people can hide their true selves for years lmao
No they can’t,u just didn’t want to see it,everybody else see it but u.
@@tiptoe38 Clearly you are not in touch with Reality!...
I mean, I don't agree with any single thing pearl has to say, but she is right on this one. People give red flags and is up to you to not ignore them. I'm not native
@@constipatedbowels3473 Yes I am ,u just see what u want.
@@tiptoe38 I see the truth and that's all....!
Being a single mother doesnt deminish their value as a person. They just need to accept that a lot of men don't want to raise other people's children.
And they do. It's a blessing some men eliminate themselves in their own! Not that dating a single mom means you're raising her kids.
@@bloopbloop4354 thats why I dont call them step dads, call them the dad that stepped up. But yeah, a lot of dudes cant do that and I wont hold it against them when they are young.
@@jonesdaevilone you are absolutely right
The thing is, this mental thinking you all put in single parents heads. Before kids, and ppl who don't have kids now should know they won't have everyone either. We have levels to life. And kids or no kids you may not have access to that level of people. To continue to put down single MOTHERS and tell them to "get real" while not being real yourself is where my issue is.
Correct.
Black Brit Woman here that just discovered Destiny and is so grateful for him effectively dealing with his fellow American. It's like she purposely selects these inconsistent, incoherant, black panellists. Surprised the black men that usually speak trash about black women on her channel weren't present.
Pearl says you have to take accountably for your choices, girl ask why it’s not the same for men? Pearl says it’s not about accountability anymore lol
Oh no. Pearly really out here trying to be the gangly softball girl version of fresh and fit. Lmao.
Edit: I literally just got in trouble from my professor for calling someone-a girl I think-“bro” in class because that’s what I call everyone. The sensitivity on people is mind boggling lol.
The whole world is trying to get bwack wahmn to act right. Nobody is having any luck.
@@QTEEP Here we go again with this braindead take.
@@VladStopTalking don’t cry too hard about it buddy 😊
@@VladStopTalking okay let’s be honest that is not a braindead take. Pearly goes out of her way to hate on women and bring up men
Gangly? What does that mean lol, sounds funny 🤣
Pearl’s entire shtick: “blame women when their lives fail, but when a man’s life fails be skeptical that it’s his fault & consider the real problem may actually be women/society/systems”… 🤦🏼♂️
You nailed it
To put it simply it's always because of women
@@annegiii3446 the most easy grift ever
She should had made it about the woke mob Rather than just about women, she would had succeeded, being the female Andrew Tate just doesn't work.
@@ultimatecritterboxlizard
The “woke mob”… 😆
I wouldn’t say she’s the female Andrew Tate, but I get what you’re saying. The shelf life of that shtick for a woman just isn’t the same.
Red jacket wasn't interrupting pearl she asked multiple times to speak and waited patiently everytime. Pearl has been more disrespectful in these conversations than anyone, host or not, she is rude.
I don't see a woman with blue hair, I definitely do see a biological man with blue hair though lol Idk why it's so hard to label people who and what they biologically are.
"It feels like you guys are saying that women need to look for fathers"
The absolute, sheer force behind that statement reverberated throughout the room for the rest of the conversation.
Edit : typo
need*
Funny thing is, that's what a lot of women ARE looking for. They want a 6ft+ man with a 6in+ dick making 6 figures so he can loom over her 5ft ass and pay for everything she wants.
That's literally the definition of a parental figure.
They all have daddy issues
yeah there was no "force" behind that statement at all. it was just nonsense from a fool.
More like men who are capable of being a father. Not physically, psychologically.
Did she just say “blind, non mechanic feminine moment..??” That’s just straight up internalized misogyny 😭
That’s where i literally am in the video 😢 I’m shocked! Bamboozled 😭
As oppsed to what.... 'Toxic over-used pu**y energy'????
More or less everything auntie says is internalised misogyny.
This was one of the stupidest things I've heard her say...I really don't like the opinions of her... she thinks women are stupid... but really is just her that is stupid...
its so insane how she could say stuff like that especially coming from a generation where she wouldve gotten alottt of shit working in a male dominated industry. Like non mechanic being synonymous with feminine coming from an older female mechanic is if anything really sad because it demonstrates how she views herself probably because of how she was treated by men working as a mechanic.
The Jamaican Red lady, The two black girls and Destiny are the only ones you can literally converse with. Everyone else is brain dead
Pearl is not feminine at all. In fact shes more masculine IMO.
How is Pearl going to talk about how we can't talk about the exceptions, and then literally brings up the exception. I'm glad Destiny called her out on that because she shut up real quick. Pearl literally can not take any pushback at all, she will say literally anything.
The complexion of her skin & the shape of her face reminds me so much of Peppa Pig
Then go “mhmm”
She contradicts herself a lot it's just the people they invite on the panel are too emotional to hear it
literally
she fr just talking
I felt like Destine was building a factory in his head for the first 30 minutes, and then decided to join the debate.
There’s not much going on, videogames and liberalism
@@ainsmas361 because he actually listens to what people say to ACTUALLY debate ? It’s called finding the dynamic of the argument and actually trying to understand what they’re saying instead of just listening to respond 😕
This comment is underrated
@@BAMBAMNAN people trying to comprehend not being reactionary is so funny
I don't mind the guy, I like him actually. He just needs to remove the blue color, it's awful.
I like that it’s the two women who pride themselves on representing their men that are going buck wild
"Where do women take accountability for being abused by a man?"
-Pearl 2023
@nobias88 even with staying too long its very difficult to just get out as you said. thats not something i would necessarily fault them for but it is something that you should try your hardest doing
@nobias88 It’s very hard to get out of a abusive relationship.
@nobias88 this comment shows yall don't understand abuse and how bad it can get
Pearl is a master moderator. Excellent job keeping the conversation moving and civil. I will use her "guys guys guys guys" technique if I ever have to moderate.
If this isnt sarcasm lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's England, she should've used "bruv bruv bruv bruv" and they would've listened.
@@512metro 😂😂😂
don't forget to say "mmhmm" everytime there's a millisecond of silence in someone's sentence
Pearl was feeling defeated in her own podcast so she had to take a minute to read all the comments thatake her look good and the cast look bad
I don’t think you realise how hard it is to “just get up and start again” these women are delusional.
"single women need to take accountability for dating shitty/abusive men"
"well sometimes the guy gets fucked in custody court because his baby momma wont let him see the kid, how unfair for the guy"
demanding accountability for one group and not the other-justpearlythingz
lol so sick of her not being called out for it.
Men are held accountable already though. They have no reproductive rights. There are Men even paying child support for kids that aren't there's. Women are privileged in that the institutions of power give them preferential treatment.
@@claff4573 destiny called her out and she just continued rambling
She never will…the GREAT GRIFT would be over. 😂
Also don't forget 20:00 "You're saying about picking (your husband), the problem I find nowadays is that the women is picking. Don't let the women pick the men supposed to pick."
It’s funny how pearl completely falls apart when you put rational real world topics in front of her. She had no IRL experiences to draw from
it's why she brings up her parents a lot. She compares them to a lot of current relationships.
It's what happens when someone uses dishonest arguments and the other person isn't intimately familiar with the studies.
Bingo. She just likes to run her mouth.
That’s why I don’t know why people are taking relationship advice from someone who is 24, although she is a rough 24.
@@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736 thought she was 26. I don't think she ever gives advice. Just reports stats.
The blue haired guy has the most logical perception. This Pearl girl, has absolutely no idea what she’s saying. Does she even have children? Has she ever been married?…For someone whose so sure of themselves, she’s incredibly clueless & it comes off ignorant.
Auntie likes to talk about herself/her man a little too much and if the woman with the red blazer makes ONE more reference to putting things in “context”, I’m going to throw my phone out the damn window! 🤪🔫
Overall, the blue haired guy is literally the only one worth listening to (in my humble opinion). The rest of the panel members (minus those who couldn’t get a word in edgewise) were just messy.
First time actually watching this podcast and I don’t think I’ll watch more. Pearl talks about things she’s never experienced. Auntie does all the things she yells at everyone else on the panel for doing when it comes to mannerisms. Lead by example or don’t lead. 😂
Young fools turn into old fools. There is nothing worse than witnessing an elder with no wisdom with a slave mentality. It's sad that these women don't have the intelligence to lead themselves. Every human has their own brain. You should not have to rely on anyone but yourself when it comes to decisions for yourself. I think I lost some braincells listening to Granny speak.
Facts!!
Slave mentality for real you could hear the hate and disgust in her words. How was that even okay.
Thank you! She's been sucked into this tomfoolery kmt 😅
I agree like I think men should lead but not give u permission to do things !
Idk auntie Jenny has been through a lot and has come through it all with a happy marriage and family. I think she’s wiser than you give her credit for. The point auntie was making was that she respects and loves her partner enough to care about their opinion instead of being selfish and only thinking of self gratification
It's wild that Auntie had to argue that she was incompetent in order to justify why her man should have authoritarian control on things, like buying a good car she needs, even though she's a mechanic.
@@franklingoodwin I believe it was for arguments sake
See on the outside it looks like my parents have a very trad relationship and I guess they do, and are socially conservative, but there was no dominating or one person better than the other. How my parents avoided arguments was explaining stuff they understood in a way the other could understand and so both of you were making an informed decision on something. My mom still does all the cooking, especially when guests are coming over, and she doesn't ever even fill her own gas, nor care about the handling of the finances. My dad does the other stuff since he likes that stuff and my mom likes science, research and cuisine. However they can both do all the adulting stuff if they need to, because that kind of hubris no matter the money or station in life is past the point of being able to call yourself a functional adult according to the both of them. Neither me nor my brother have seen my parents even raise their voices at each other. Communication and conflict resolution skills on point, really helped me growing up, being able to see that stuff was possible.
"Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. Mhmm. Mhm. Mhmh. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm."
He has the final decision and I discuss everything with him but I bought a car without discussing it with him 😁 this is so awesome seeing this platform derailed
This episode has been needed for so long
Best part was seeing Pearl get overwhelmed and unable to handle the fighting, absolutely worth sitting through this nonsense for an hour.
This was top tier drama like mtv shows lmao
It's really just more proof on top of proof that she's just doing the bit that gets the most clicks. She found her lane as incel-bait and is way out of her league to host anything of this capacity. She isn't even close to a strong enough personality to keep up with the vitriol needed to back up her insane takes.
She's as inauthentic as they come.
I'm sorry. Pearl is so disingenuous. She can't possibly believe that someone can forsee being abused by their partner.
Nah you actually can. There are always signs somewhere. You just have to look for them and not be blind to them.
@@Berserk1Manga When you take into account that the vast majority of these podcasts are telling women they’re used up by 30 and pushing women to get married younger and younger; how exactly do you expect a young, inexperienced girl to know the signs of a manipulative, abuser before it’s too late?
Have you forgotten the the three people from that documentary, I think, where they could see people do crimes before they happened?
@@Berserk1Manga You are gaslighting domestic and emotional abuse.
Pearly loves all of the red pill talking points. She never disagrees. She throws women under the bus for the sake of making money on YT.
The IQ of this Panel is historical.
when it comes to wording and communicating thoughts and giving a smooth intellectual short answers and convincing , of all podcasts I have listened to, Destiny is the greatest tbh. He really can make a discussion and always gives most reasonable answers.
After spending all that time arguing that men lead and that men choose and it’s the man’s job to choose, pearl says it’s the single moms fault for choosing an abusive husband. She has no real position, she’s just a token.
Do you understand why? Because women have lots of options but they tend to pick the bad boys. Every women has loads of guys trying to date them. But those guys are average. And did you watch the whole thing? These women think average is an insult. So when they date an abusive guy it is their fault. They don't want the nice guy.
@@ugbc3276 please touch grass
@@Will-uf9nd Did my comment hurt you? Oh well. Grow a brain.
@ugbc3276 Yeah because the nice guy isn't the good guy. Anybody can paint themselves as "nice" but be a bastard in real life. Besides, the average woman is not looking for the "bad boys". I don't know if you're stuck in high school but that isn't the reality out here.
@@honestgenz4413 I think dating statistics especially in modern times proves his point though.
Pearl honestly had absolutely no control of her show. She has no real world experience to critize the average woman. She doesn't even sound like she believes what she is saying it's sounds like she saying just to get viewers and likes.
Are you calling her a pick-me? Shocking revelations.
The average women nowadays think everyone should bend to them. Plus how you know what experience Pearl has.
@@SporkyMcFly I believe they were calling her a grifter.
But, I guess being a grifter is just being a different kind of pick-me.
Her company's profit margins depend on she sticking to the pro-men stance on everything irrespective of the evidence. So you cannot expect fact-based opinions from her.
@@TheKomentor non of you guys come with facts in these debates.
I’m married 19yrs, I’ve never 1 time ask permission for anything.. This old Betty on this panel is ridiculous.
seriously
Karma might do its thing and this pearly girl might pick someone wrong who abuses her and throws her like a trash.
Idk how Destiny does it! No one can EVER stay focused enough to answer his LOGICAL questions. It’s ALWAYS an emotional response. The shit is AHHHnOyingggg🙄
This is the worst podcast cast ever
@@Zyrock I agree! I lost brain cells watching this BS.
Destiny is annoying n a blue pill simp
Because many of these ppl are young asf.
Damn, most of these panelists are so ill equipped at talking about this. This is such a surface level convo and I'm impressed Destiny can talk on their level.
My thoughts exactly
that's what fresh and fit is doing as well. always people who aren't equipped to have productive conversations. so boring.
I'm only part way through the video and feeling the same way. Seems like a lot of talking around one another.
They don’t have the vocabulary to express their point in a cohesive sentence.
I know what a travesty, why can't we just have high level academic conversations about dating. It's not like I'm a dumbass who seriously seeks info like this out because I have to be instructed on how to manage basic facets of my life, I'm just way too intelligent for this stuff. Thank God destiny was able to translate the monkeyspeak for me
This is what happens when someone has no leadership or personality hosts a show.
The afro and carribean fight wth lol