Let's face it, social change is happening way too fast for family systems to regulate. The only way I see a family system operating in a healthy way is if they literally have a family systems coach on speed dial. Today (2023), parents expect schools to parent their children while the parents go make a living. Sadly, it is an economic reality that two adults must work full time in order to provide basic security needs, so this is not meant to heap blame, [although parents, ironically, blame teachers for not raising their child for them]. Another change that I would have loved to hear Bradshaw's perspective on: how can social safety be intact when pre-moral children are given access to loaded guns?
This is where his analysis falls short. The root is not the family but the total physical, socio-cultural, and politico-economic context in which that (multigenerational) family exists. The problems facing parents are not just a matter of individual trauma requiring individualistic solutions; they are social, economic, and political requiring radical, systemic change and collective action.
@@r.w.4311 Actually what he is saying is that in a family that is healthy, morally, physically and getting their needs met from within, have the support of one another but have inner strengths of their own, wouldn't be swayed by *what's out there*. The healthy family in and by itself, can withstand storms, come what may.
"Now, to me there is something profound about that. This spontaneous, wonderful little child in you that got lost a long time ago. That's who I'm calling on in this series."
I see this almost everyday. Kids in Adult Clothing acting out a broken childhood!
I'm so grateful this is on youtube! Thank you for sharing!
Let's face it, social change is happening way too fast for family systems to regulate. The only way I see a family system operating in a healthy way is if they literally have a family systems coach on speed dial. Today (2023), parents expect schools to parent their children while the parents go make a living. Sadly, it is an economic reality that two adults must work full time in order to provide basic security needs, so this is not meant to heap blame, [although parents, ironically, blame teachers for not raising their child for them]. Another change that I would have loved to hear Bradshaw's perspective on: how can social safety be intact when pre-moral children are given access to loaded guns?
This is where his analysis falls short. The root is not the family but the total physical, socio-cultural, and politico-economic context in which that (multigenerational) family exists. The problems facing parents are not just a matter of individual trauma requiring individualistic solutions; they are social, economic, and political requiring radical, systemic change and collective action.
@@r.w.4311 Actually what he is saying is that in a family that is healthy, morally, physically and getting their needs met from within, have the support of one another but have inner strengths of their own, wouldn't be swayed by *what's out there*. The healthy family in and by itself, can withstand storms, come what may.
@@r.w.4311it can be both. Starting small and moving forward from there seems most likely to be successful.
thank you
Being a parent is a life long job.
"Now, to me there is something profound about that. This spontaneous, wonderful little child in you that got lost a long time ago. That's who I'm calling on in this series."
We can't control what happens to us. But we can choose how to react to it.
It's the only thing we can control!
25:00 Those whom can't trust others can't trust themselves.
excellent early morning meditation. never heard this serie from him before.
“We’re all in a post-hypnotic trance, induced in early infancy.”
This is such a great video!
28:00. I call it Kids in Adult Clothing acting out a broken childhood.
More like infants in adult bodies.
I first found JB in about 1984 when I was 13 yrs old. I was always intrigued by Human Behavior at the age of 5 years old.
Broken
Were can you get this serious?
10:00 Can apply as friends too.
Life is lived every day.what you do is your choice. Wish you all well 🙏
🦄 Dolt by John Rickel 🦄
12:50 No one is responsible for making others happy.
So good
Intimacy: into-me-you-see. To see my soul.