I Spent 17 Years Improving My CHARISMA... (My Most Important Lesson)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 май 2023
  • You MUST tell stories... This video will teach you a powerful tool to be less boring in conversation!
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    Julien Blanc is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
    Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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    I Spent 17 Years Improving My CHARISMA... (My Most Important Lesson)
    The art of storytelling...
    Learn how to be more interesting and social by improving your communication skills! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be more interesting, how to be more exciting and how to not be boring!
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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  Год назад +11

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  • @james_horan
    @james_horan 10 месяцев назад +139

    Tell a story with everything because that's how we learn. Don’t start with a climax. Start with tension. Create tension. Have multiple threads. Structure the story to create curiosity. Add your own style. Embody the story and use your hands and to act the story out. Change characters. Add hooks and tension.

    • @ReconUnPro
      @ReconUnPro 9 месяцев назад +4

      Perfect example of when someone explains with points and not a story😂

    • @johanvoellner1849
      @johanvoellner1849 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ReconUnPro come on man its a yt thread

    • @kahyui2486
      @kahyui2486 9 месяцев назад

      Same applies to giving head

    • @Evri500
      @Evri500 8 месяцев назад

      Why tho? I'm not writing a frikin book

    • @shaun0110
      @shaun0110 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@ReconUnProyou’re the kind of person who’ll ask for help and would never be grateful for the help they have received. Grow up as a person

  • @mrzed2614
    @mrzed2614 Год назад +364

    If I bite myself, I won't be spiderman, I'll be a manman

  • @_4le
    @_4le 6 месяцев назад +12

    Honestly, Julien is a genius when it comes to these things. You can tell he puts his soul into these presentations

  • @bluetiger5852
    @bluetiger5852 11 месяцев назад +8

    Impressive story skills you ticked every box with a unique style.. Really got me engaged!

  • @mark-od5ky
    @mark-od5ky Год назад +17

    Today I recorded talking and laughing at myself so much I forgot I was actually walking at the same time 😆 whole 50 minutes (laughing breaks included)
    I stopped only because I was simply too exhausted. I took the bus the other half of the way to work whenever the 1st bus came. (It was 4 AM, and one hell of a story!!!!!!)
    Trying to learn to speak more outloud and get out of my head. Thanks so much Julien!

  • @manman22576
    @manman22576 Год назад +46

    I am a webtoon comic artist and i write some stuff for my comic. I never thought that I would learn so much from the great julien blanc

    • @RaulDL
      @RaulDL 8 месяцев назад +1

      What webtoons did u work on?

    • @egghatch9382
      @egghatch9382 4 месяца назад +1

      What webtoons did u work on?

  • @woofmeow4273
    @woofmeow4273 Год назад +91

    More on storytelling! This was fantastic.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Год назад +18

      Thanks! Glad this content resonates with you!

  • @splendorforex
    @splendorforex 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Julien
    You have helped me to become better in my social skills

  • @blacksea245
    @blacksea245 7 месяцев назад +2

    You are such a clear and emphatic public speaker (every word is precise). Would like to see a segment on how you do this.

    • @arpitbinjwa840
      @arpitbinjwa840 7 месяцев назад

      He does this exercise where he uses a camera to record himself speak. And then analyzes his own video to improve everything about the way he speaks. He has a video about it too. He calls it podcast exercise.
      Also he takes amazing care of his health. That's why his thoughts are clear and is able to lay them out easily.

  • @akshitsingh2234
    @akshitsingh2234 7 месяцев назад +1

    Woah, after so many days of searching about storytelling, I finally found the best one.

  • @damienwelter4543
    @damienwelter4543 Год назад +24

    To become the highest version of our living story, and the inherited stories of our ancestors, is the highest achievement of man, as long as he's in unification with his nature.

  • @rubenrendon711
    @rubenrendon711 Год назад +6

    Great teacher 👏

  • @abcdabcd8605
    @abcdabcd8605 10 месяцев назад

    amazing stories man!

  • @zacharysancartier1192
    @zacharysancartier1192 Год назад +13

    I didn't know I needed that story but I did. ❤😂

  • @CalmSyke
    @CalmSyke 10 месяцев назад

    so far seen 2 vids and i love your cannel. also saw a dude with a film red shirt and it made me happy. one piece da goat

  • @skye_music
    @skye_music 10 месяцев назад +13

    People told me I'm a good storyteller but I couldn't figure why is that and you showed me with this video. Thank you very much!

    • @izzyxiix
      @izzyxiix 8 месяцев назад

      I’m guessing it’s something natural for you ? If so is it something you use often to get your point across or engage your audience or for fun

  • @Troelslychau
    @Troelslychau Год назад +3

    Looking forward to seeing you in Copenhagen!

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Год назад

      Nice!! See you there! 👊

    • @Troelslychau
      @Troelslychau Год назад

      @@JulienHimself Btw I need to give you credit you are the funniest public speaker I know of, hands down

  • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
    @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Год назад +5

    Such a powerful message 🔥

  • @kauaalves6566
    @kauaalves6566 Месяц назад

    I really liked it, I want to train my charisma

  • @philracks
    @philracks 10 месяцев назад +1

    Bro explained emotional working humans right true on the beginning...

  • @smiles7631
    @smiles7631 9 месяцев назад

    If I was there I would of been falling off my chair! Thanks for the laughs!

  • @mhreteabtadese5725
    @mhreteabtadese5725 Год назад

    Waw i like the idea , it's real change the attitud

  • @mattbrown1897
    @mattbrown1897 Год назад +14

    “Give yourself permission to be Spider-man”
    Jumps off building.

  • @chaco973
    @chaco973 10 месяцев назад

    Great video sir, i learned a lot, thanks a lot

  • @NathanDavis508
    @NathanDavis508 2 месяца назад

    One of the best storytellers I’ve ever seen in the realm of performance is Dave Chapelle. Guy is a master of the story and then hitting u with a punchline out of nowhere that hits

  • @EtoThe1toTheV
    @EtoThe1toTheV 8 месяцев назад +1

    God damn it, Mr. Hands! You flew to close to the sun!

  • @philracks
    @philracks 10 месяцев назад +6

    Learing with stories: Information + Emotion = Memory. Bro i wanna feel happy. i feel like inject it with a needle. So the affirmation realy kicks.

  • @jaspergabriels8933
    @jaspergabriels8933 11 месяцев назад

    top g julien

  • @solamackwaves3208
    @solamackwaves3208 Год назад +6

    3:43 bro wtf 😂

  • @1chawa61
    @1chawa61 Год назад +5

    Like how you Embrace Exaggerate Laughed your way out of that video bombing situation! 🤣😉

  • @billbirkett7166
    @billbirkett7166 Год назад +40

    We can't all be as naturally charismatic as someone like Julien. And some people truly are wired for introversion. However...I think everyone can genuinely improve their social skills with practice.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Год назад +65

      I’m naturally introverted… INTJ personally type. There is a way! 😉

    • @nipunagunarathne4882
      @nipunagunarathne4882 Год назад +30

      Catch an introvert talking about something they really like

    • @vicentemorales2533
      @vicentemorales2533 Год назад +28

      It's not that introverts don't talk much, it's just they topic of the conversation is not interesting to them so they abstain from talking, but ask them about something they're passionate about, they'll become the most charismatic and cool person you've ever met.

    • @sheldonwight9661
      @sheldonwight9661 Год назад +5

      ​@JulienHimself it carzy how far you have come my man. Remember you talking about how you could not even record yourself self or talk to strangers.

    • @shananigans08ify
      @shananigans08ify 9 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dylankeller5932
    @dylankeller5932 Год назад +2

    I can see myself in the video lol, feels funny, this was the Miami free tour by the way, if you haven’t signed up to go to any of these events I highly recommend it!

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Год назад +3

      Nice! Thanks for making it out in person!! 🙌

  • @lukeclaydon6670
    @lukeclaydon6670 9 месяцев назад

    Good 👍

  • @shivenbajaj957
    @shivenbajaj957 Год назад +4

    Love your videos ..from india

  • @eyepodwalkman6247
    @eyepodwalkman6247 Год назад +2

    I remember when that horse story was in the news.

  • @marta9250
    @marta9250 6 месяцев назад +3

    Eren yeager watched this video

  • @Ostnizdasht206
    @Ostnizdasht206 Год назад +2

    It took me a second to remember who Mr. Hands was but once I did...

  • @THEMATT222
    @THEMATT222 Год назад +2

    Noice 👍 Thanks 👍 for the Advoice 👍

  • @rainbowrotcod
    @rainbowrotcod 10 месяцев назад

    had to brace myself the very moment he mentioned Mr. Hands.

  • @nad_2536
    @nad_2536 Год назад +5

    Nerds are here to unnerd themselves

  • @aaronfahr65
    @aaronfahr65 Год назад +3

    That shirt is epic 😂

    • @rockodonnie
      @rockodonnie 7 месяцев назад

      that shirt does speak layers 🧐🛸🪐🌈

  • @JJPlaysGuitarYo
    @JJPlaysGuitarYo 7 месяцев назад

    RIP Mr. Hands

  • @Ciclopea2
    @Ciclopea2 Год назад +3

    Also a good example of "multiple threading": Quentin Tarantino's Pulp Fiction, i just love that movie.

  • @chriskopins
    @chriskopins 10 месяцев назад +2

    Why is Matt Murdock talking about Spiderman?

  • @LindaBTP
    @LindaBTP 7 месяцев назад

    Fucking cool, man! More of this, please ;-)

  • @montegyro
    @montegyro Год назад +1

    Of all the thoughts I had while listening to your video, the one that stood out the most: "So, it's like making love to their senses?". Hah, hahaha 😂

  • @Wauly
    @Wauly Год назад +8

    Hey Julien I've been wondering why your videos feel like there's a hidden scam -- like you're those ads of rich people saying they're rich and how you could be rich if you do what they did, even though your advice seems great. I realized it's because I've never seen you in a real non-conference social situation. Do you have any videos like that, where the point of the video isn't improving charisma, just a video of you in a party or on blind dates or something?

    • @specialone6731
      @specialone6731 7 месяцев назад

      You have the understand there’s levels to social game. Being on stage and able to be natural/interact with the audience is the absolute highest level of sociality. My point is it would be incredibly difficult for him to do all of this without being charismatic and all of the things we see in a small group or one on one.

    • @Wauly
      @Wauly 7 месяцев назад

      @@specialone6731 I disagree. My charisma is way higher during an activity or performance. I was a class clown and did great in the improv club, but I'm not very sociable in neutral circumstances. I don't think I'm alone in this way

    • @specialone6731
      @specialone6731 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Wauly I think I understand what your talking about. Yes it makes sense your energy levels would be lesser with a single person rather then a group or presentation. It’s normal to have varying energy levels which would effect charisma so I don’t think Julien could be like that all the time.

  • @joshmundy3730
    @joshmundy3730 Год назад +2

    I was there ! ! ! If you ever get a chance to see @julienhimself in person DO IT ! ! ! Amazing speaker, thank you ! !

    • @THEMATT222
      @THEMATT222 Год назад +2

      You were there? With Julien or Mr. Hands? 🤔😅

    • @joshmundy3730
      @joshmundy3730 Год назад +1

      @@THEMATT222 hahahahaahhaaa I was at @JulienHimself 's speech, but he is such a good story teller, that you felt a strong sense of "immersion" 😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @ChristianSoschner
    @ChristianSoschner 5 месяцев назад

    Awesome speech 😂

  • @Passiyona
    @Passiyona 3 месяца назад

    I can't get over bunny's story!!!!! How could someone do that to an innocent bunny!!!!

  • @_m.w_.
    @_m.w_. Год назад +1

    Berlinn soon🎉❤

  • @zack1n1nitinsuck
    @zack1n1nitinsuck 10 месяцев назад +6

    I don't like the fact (the absolute fact) that when you're talking to him in real life, the second you find out what he does for a living you realize he's GAMING the conversation. I guarantee his biggest drawback is that his conversations are never natural.

    • @specialone6731
      @specialone6731 7 месяцев назад +2

      Another fact(absolute fact) is what’s unnatural for you is not for somebody else. Don’t attack someone for something you assume effects everybody when it’s just a select group of traumatized people.

  • @ZenMasterNahc
    @ZenMasterNahc Год назад +2

    I'm not boring. I'm bored. Dare I say Terminally bored..

  • @XORTION
    @XORTION 5 месяцев назад

    What if I have a bad memory. Do I practice a few stories and tell them over and over. Different people obviously..

  • @Giofasho
    @Giofasho Год назад +1

    Oh Mr. Hanz. RIP

    • @imthegrk
      @imthegrk Год назад

      I wonder what his tombstone reads? Father, husband, horse f*%~er.

  • @jewpoc
    @jewpoc 7 месяцев назад

    this guy is right. i do remember spiderman

  • @alecklecky
    @alecklecky 11 месяцев назад

    Great video! Great ideas. But please dont ever wear that shirt again, my eyes were fixated on your right shoulder looking at the crease that forms from it being on a hanger 😂

  • @metalmanny666
    @metalmanny666 10 месяцев назад

    Wasn’t this guy part of the RSD team?

  • @RipplingOphelia
    @RipplingOphelia 7 месяцев назад

    @2:11 and that’s when I turned into a titan

  • @asianinvasion8622
    @asianinvasion8622 8 месяцев назад

    Guy in the first row
    One Piece Film Red shirt

  • @thecjmoss
    @thecjmoss 7 месяцев назад

    Bites My Hand!!😂😎

  • @sadboycali
    @sadboycali 10 месяцев назад

    Yeah see, I have a homie that sunk a boat. I don't remember the story just that he did that lol

  • @Iksiksinski.
    @Iksiksinski. 3 месяца назад

    What kind of studies he has been?

  • @Iksiksinski.
    @Iksiksinski. 3 месяца назад

    09:52

  • @billy9964
    @billy9964 10 месяцев назад +1

    Attention spans are not lower than before. Its always been that low. (Source : Vsauce)

  • @Anime4KAMV
    @Anime4KAMV 7 месяцев назад

    poor mr hands

  • @MrKB_SSJ2
    @MrKB_SSJ2 9 месяцев назад

    4:20

  • @HenryRen-xn4ez
    @HenryRen-xn4ez Месяц назад

    nah i search that up it was acc real

  • @BigMxc
    @BigMxc 10 месяцев назад

    One Piece Film Red shirt

  • @SurfingJakeOwns
    @SurfingJakeOwns 10 месяцев назад +1

    if you're meant to be yourself and own it, why do you have to tryhard to be charismatic, this seems like the opposite of his teachings. To be fair i haven't watched the video yet though

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 6 месяцев назад

    I like people again
    Iam sleeping every day

  • @krusnanshgupta
    @krusnanshgupta Год назад +1

    Hi Julian,
    This video is very helpful
    But i have a suggestion -
    Thats us to make video of around 10 minutes as 20 minutes is too long because just watching videos is not the way to develop viewers also need to practice speaking so it would be great if you can introduce some kind of practice while watching.

  • @HOLD_MY_BEERUS
    @HOLD_MY_BEERUS 11 месяцев назад +1

    Can you bite me so i can be your man? {insert sigma facial expression}

  • @MrKB_SSJ2
    @MrKB_SSJ2 9 месяцев назад

    9:20

  • @sergiusergiu
    @sergiusergiu 8 месяцев назад

    10:29

  • @ankuralchemist
    @ankuralchemist 8 месяцев назад

    What an Irony : He is talking about becoming a good story teller...and his story on Mr. Hands was the worst i have ever heard 😁😆😅

    • @realSpook
      @realSpook 6 месяцев назад

      I think most people will disagree with you

  • @pure_awareness
    @pure_awareness Год назад +1

    Lot more bulls out there now lol.

  • @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf
    @MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf 6 месяцев назад

    I like help me

  • @arthurmurfitt7698
    @arthurmurfitt7698 3 месяца назад

    Close up, cameraman needs some extra lessons 😅

  • @hadriusreznor3247
    @hadriusreznor3247 11 месяцев назад +1

    Get to the gym bro, that dads bod gonna hit hard

  • @camacattack674
    @camacattack674 8 месяцев назад

    Maybe that Hans guy got bitten by a horse and became horseman.

  • @youssefmikhael3044
    @youssefmikhael3044 Год назад

    That’s his son 🤦‍♂️😂😂😂

  • @doyoueatrocks
    @doyoueatrocks 8 месяцев назад

    Not lying, 0:45 and I am bored, sorry

  • @jacobb554
    @jacobb554 7 месяцев назад

    Disturbing story, repent and believe in the finished work of Jesus because he will be back to Judge the world soon

  • @NickName-mn6jm
    @NickName-mn6jm Год назад +1

    Most disturbing, self developing video ever

  • @greek6623
    @greek6623 10 месяцев назад

    I'll never take advice from someone that dresses like a 3 year old

  • @schemp001
    @schemp001 8 месяцев назад

    So the guy who walked in front of him on you must be an audience plant

    • @Vilify3d
      @Vilify3d 8 месяцев назад

      What’s your point?

  • @ProductionJunction1
    @ProductionJunction1 2 месяца назад

    After 20 seconds I’m out

  • @pinto633
    @pinto633 10 месяцев назад

    Sounds like a lot talk about bullshit 😂 but love it makes the imagination cringe 😬

  • @marcryantv
    @marcryantv 9 месяцев назад

    Wtf is that shirt bro😂

  • @kingdombound777
    @kingdombound777 6 месяцев назад

    I love your content and really looked forward to the story…Please never make another story about beastiality, that was unbelievably disgusting. You’re way more clever than that.

  • @user-kl7sw9jm1d
    @user-kl7sw9jm1d 2 месяца назад

    what a bunch of stupidity!
    everyone here wants to be charismatic just to be the point of attention, charisma is simple the only thing that you need is to be present and care for others

  • @zlch4021
    @zlch4021 Год назад +2

    Honestly that was such a bad audience lol

  • @deprince1679
    @deprince1679 11 месяцев назад

    Vacts, stop It immediately..zzzz snoring.boring.

  • @tammydoiel3918
    @tammydoiel3918 Год назад +4

    Yo horse story is to much. WTH unnecessary. Not sure I need or want to take advice about how to not be boring from a man who tells stories about that. I'd rather be boring thanks.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Год назад +5

      It's definitely out there, yes. But you'll never forget it... Including the point it makes! 👌

    • @woofmeow4273
      @woofmeow4273 Год назад +3

      I'm actually offended by your kink shaming, be more tolerant and less judgemental please. Do better.

    • @tammydoiel3918
      @tammydoiel3918 Год назад +2

      @@woofmeow4273 why don't you do better. 🤢

    • @draco.3064
      @draco.3064 Год назад

      @@tammydoiel3918 bro wtf you are weird

    • @imthegrk
      @imthegrk Год назад +4

      @@woofmeow4273 bestiality definitely should be shamed.

  • @TikiTimeWave
    @TikiTimeWave 5 месяцев назад

    get good at getting high

  • @ambertjohannes1797
    @ambertjohannes1797 Год назад +1

    Such a grifter Julien Blanc. Blah blah blah. Everyone is stories. Blah blah blah. Empty information. Learned absolutely nothing.

  • @MohitJha5
    @MohitJha5 26 дней назад

    He is bad

  • @BenDover-oc7vl
    @BenDover-oc7vl 10 месяцев назад +1

    Stories theory conversation i barely remember at all, I’l remember logical things way better because if there’s a story involved then I have to remember all the bullshit attached to it. Hate small talk/ shit talk to achieve a point