It's been 5 weeks. Leading up to no contact I admit that I pushed back, my abandonment and anxious attachment wounds have been highly triggered the past 6 months with little to no repair. I was betrayed with little to no repair. I know it's my own wounding that is screaming so loud right now and making me think that this is still the person I want. Despite that I'm doing a deep dive on my own healing, even when it feels like I'm against myself. I'm tired of people seeing me as a distraction, as a way out of their own reality, as a stepping stone when all I do is show up authentically and give love the way I'd like to receive it. Yet I prevail. 😔
Thank you for your beautiful words my dear friend and thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable! Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos, God bless you🙏🏽
I broke no contact a few days ago after 7 months of silence to berate her for the financial mess I’m in as a direct result of the breakup caused by her blatant in my face cheating. I’m being forced to sell a motorcycle I love cause I just can’t afford the payments anymore. I immediately re blocked her phone number but I regret sending that message now cause it put me right back in rumination/depression mode. I’m sure she got a big kick out of it and a nice ego boost. Heavy sigh…..
Ohh, you did really well with the no contact!! And Yes...the set-back hurt's but we start again!!.. I really hope that you find A way to keep your motorcycle!!
Yes we are my dear friend, thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable! Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for the kind words brother, I truly appreciate it 💪🏽 The answer is a definite YES! The purpose of this channel will be revolving around how men can become the 1% men, so I will cover EVERYTHING and man should know on his journey to become the best version of himself! thank you for watching, and for your comment, hope you find the information valuable! Please let me know if you have any other questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
@@PazGoldmanOfficial This is great news, I'm looking forward to it! After my last breakup with my ex, I decided to use my full potential and become the most attractive man possible in the eyes of women. Simply for myself, for the satisfaction of having done everything to actively use my own potential. Now or never, you know. Im 35 y.o., and I feel its the highest time. I have always felt like a normal guy, one of 99% men, but there is no reason for me to be satisfied with the minimum of my capabilities. I listen to other channels, but the results are not what they promise, because I feel that they do not build the foundations of an attractive man, but discuss some individual elements without a complete program. Your content makes me feel confident, because many other idiots paint an ideal before us, while you refer not to ideals, but to reality. Moreover, I see that you are not a guy who broke up as an easy wind playboy, like most of the coaches on RUclips, but you survived more because you had the mindset of having a lasting and committed relationship. This provides the basis for conveying deeper content. It's good to see this channel growing. I expect a lot of subscriptions in the future. If I were to suggest a topic for the future, it would be to discuss the basics of male attractiveness. From the complete foundations, through subsequent levels to the top. Thank you for your work!
We are all one. I’m in so much pain. One day I’m ok but next day I’m going back to the day we broke up. We broke up 5 months ago and he in rebound relationship. I kept begging but now he so cold, I have no choice. So no contact 10 days today. So painful.
I completely understand you my dear friend! Heartbreak is one of the most difficult things for human beings to endure , by the way, have you watched my documentary? Where I documented my entire healing journey from day one, I wanted to mention this because I was also feeling amazing one dayand shitty the next… the healing process is not linear. Also, I would like to ask you what are you currently doing to heal?
@@PazGoldmanOfficialI was so dead inside and out. Now I’m trying to eat, and go outside. Take pills to sleep. And found out talking with my friends and get advice is not helping me. I’m struggling to go back to real me. This insecure guy replaced me was destroyed me. I want to go back real me. @@PazGoldmanOfficial. Thank you ❤️🩹 I really really want to heal from this bad experience.
It doesn’t feel right to go no contact if the mistake was mine i messed up a little which i think was completely fixable if she would communicate with emotional maturity but she just blocked me its been 15 days i didn’t try to communicate but i am thinking to wait for more 15 days and write an accountability letter to her and apologies with all my heart idk if its gonna work or no i really want her back
Don’t, that is known as “the illusion of action”, meaning you think you need to “do something”… If she is lacking maturity, that is you’re intuition telling you that woman does not align with you… she is not the right fit for you
My situation was i was dealing with a 40 year old single mother. Very caring very affectionate towards me which was i was drawn to very much. There was one time we stopped communication and she found someone when i connected with her. However it lasted 3 months or less. When i got her to open up with that, she told me she gave herself to that guy who ghosted her meaning she did everything because she liked the guy. Fast forward she wanted commitment from me and i couldn’t give her that because i was held back with what she did with that guy who ghosted her after he got what she wanted from her which was “s3x”. She once again stopped communication with me and i was chasing and came to a point i wanted to be committed to her but she didn’t want it anymore. For a month and half I was chasing and pleading lost myself with overwhelming emotions and all i got was coldness from her. So i stopped disturbing her. Oh well. Life as we know it.
Thank you so much for your support my dear friend! I really appreciate it! 🙏🏽 Please feel free to ask my any question or offer a video suggestion, I got you 💪🏽
Hi I came across your page that I absolutely love your content I am in no contact with my fearful avoidance x I would love to share my story I'm sure that's a Whole video on it I'm doing good
Yes we are my dear friend, thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable! Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
I was in a relationship for 4 months was everything ok but 1 day before she came back from hollyday she dumb me with the words that she like me still and my vibe but she didn’t missed me in romantic art that she is sorry I said that I respect her choice and feel luck since 3 weeks I am in no contact in this period I post once in instagram that I am in vacation she was the first after 30 seconds that saw and 1 week after I post on WhatsApp stories that I already I got a nice shape she saw already was from the first but she still Hiding from me the story from instagram … i don’t know what is in her mind … what I understand I got a new fan 😁 tell me your opinion please
You are perfectly fine! You and this girl simply were not the right fit for each other. You two (2) simply did not align. Don’t count the weeks that you’ve been in no contact, because that keeps you thinking of them. You keep focusing on what you think “you’ve lost”… when you should be focused on the incredible life you have ahead of you! I’ve dated many women before and I promise you there are more amazing women out there waiting to date you then you’ll ever realize.
I messed up. I did good with no contact with HER but I stayed in contact with friends and family and it probably cost me another chance. It pushed her into the rebounds arms even more. To the point they are now engaged in 4 months and will be married in 7 months!!!
Don't expect it to last. It'll be toxic in no time. Meanwhile you're going to keep working on yourself and growing. It's tough. I'm dealing with similar issues. But while they're busy in lust, I'm busy being the best version of myself 💪
It's been 5 weeks. Leading up to no contact I admit that I pushed back, my abandonment and anxious attachment wounds have been highly triggered the past 6 months with little to no repair. I was betrayed with little to no repair. I know it's my own wounding that is screaming so loud right now and making me think that this is still the person I want. Despite that I'm doing a deep dive on my own healing, even when it feels like I'm against myself. I'm tired of people seeing me as a distraction, as a way out of their own reality, as a stepping stone when all I do is show up authentically and give love the way I'd like to receive it. Yet I prevail. 😔
Hang in there. You've got this
I’m going through something very similar friend, I’m sending lots of love and a hug your way, you’re amazing. Don’t forget that ❤
We are all one, you have a beautiful heart. God bless you
Thank you for your beautiful words my dear friend and thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable!
Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos, God bless you🙏🏽
I broke no contact a few days ago after 7 months of silence to berate her for the financial mess I’m in as a direct result of the breakup caused by her blatant in my face cheating. I’m being forced to sell a motorcycle I love cause I just can’t afford the payments anymore. I immediately re blocked her phone number but I regret sending that message now cause it put me right back in rumination/depression mode. I’m sure she got a big kick out of it and a nice ego boost. Heavy sigh…..
Ohh, you did really well with the no contact!! And Yes...the set-back hurt's but we start again!!.. I really hope that you find A way to keep your motorcycle!!
We are all one, your video are good. 18 years of marriage, my wife left me because of medical issues which are finally being fixed
Yeah, makes you wonder "in good and bad times, sickness or health".....Marriage is a con...Been there, done that.
Yes we are my dear friend, thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable!
Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
Youre good looking, man. And you have charisma. Good job. Will you create content on the masculine attraction in the future?
Thank you so much for the kind words brother, I truly appreciate it 💪🏽
The answer is a definite YES! The purpose of this channel will be revolving around how men can become the 1% men, so I will cover EVERYTHING and man should know on his journey to become the best version of himself!
thank you for watching, and for your comment, hope you find the information valuable!
Please let me know if you have any other questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
@@PazGoldmanOfficial This is great news, I'm looking forward to it! After my last breakup with my ex, I decided to use my full potential and become the most attractive man possible in the eyes of women. Simply for myself, for the satisfaction of having done everything to actively use my own potential. Now or never, you know. Im 35 y.o., and I feel its the highest time.
I have always felt like a normal guy, one of 99% men, but there is no reason for me to be satisfied with the minimum of my capabilities. I listen to other channels, but the results are not what they promise, because I feel that they do not build the foundations of an attractive man, but discuss some individual elements without a complete program. Your content makes me feel confident, because many other idiots paint an ideal before us, while you refer not to ideals, but to reality.
Moreover, I see that you are not a guy who broke up as an easy wind playboy, like most of the coaches on RUclips, but you survived more because you had the mindset of having a lasting and committed relationship. This provides the basis for conveying deeper content.
It's good to see this channel growing. I expect a lot of subscriptions in the future.
If I were to suggest a topic for the future, it would be to discuss the basics of male attractiveness. From the complete foundations, through subsequent levels to the top.
Thank you for your work!
We are all one. I’m in so much pain.
One day I’m ok but next day I’m going back to the day we broke up. We broke up 5 months ago and he in rebound relationship. I kept begging but now he so cold, I have no choice. So no contact 10 days today. So painful.
I completely understand you my dear friend!
Heartbreak is one of the most difficult things for human beings to endure , by the way, have you watched my documentary? Where I documented my entire healing journey from day one, I wanted to mention this because I was also feeling amazing one dayand shitty the next… the healing process is not linear.
Also, I would like to ask you what are you currently doing to heal?
@@PazGoldmanOfficialI was so dead inside and out. Now I’m trying to eat, and go outside. Take pills to sleep. And found out talking with my friends and get advice is not helping me. I’m struggling to go back to real me. This insecure guy replaced me was destroyed me. I want to go back real me. @@PazGoldmanOfficial. Thank you ❤️🩹 I really really want to heal from this bad experience.
Hold on strong! 💪🏻
Like the gentleman of this video mentions multiple times, you need to go on your healing journey.
I would love to help you heal my dear friend, tell me how have you been? Let’s talk
It doesn’t feel right to go no contact if the mistake was mine i messed up a little which i think was completely fixable if she would communicate with emotional maturity but she just blocked me its been 15 days i didn’t try to communicate but i am thinking to wait for more 15 days and write an accountability letter to her and apologies with all my heart idk if its gonna work or no i really want her back
Don’t, that is known as “the illusion of action”, meaning you think you need to “do something”…
If she is lacking maturity, that is you’re intuition telling you that woman does not align with you… she is not the right fit for you
My situation was i was dealing with a 40 year old single mother. Very caring very affectionate towards me which was i was drawn to very much.
There was one time we stopped communication and she found someone when i connected with her. However it lasted 3 months or less. When i got her to open up with that, she told me she gave herself to that guy who ghosted her meaning she did everything because she liked the guy.
Fast forward she wanted commitment from me and i couldn’t give her that because i was held back with what she did with that guy who ghosted her after he got what she wanted from her which was “s3x”.
She once again stopped communication with me and i was chasing and came to a point i wanted to be committed to her but she didn’t want it anymore. For a month and half I was chasing and pleading lost myself with overwhelming emotions and all i got was coldness from her. So i stopped disturbing her. Oh well. Life as we know it.
With all respect, brother, but she's for the streets. You dodged a bullet.
Be happy
Thanks!
Thank you so much for your support my dear friend!
I really appreciate it! 🙏🏽
Please feel free to ask my any question or offer a video suggestion, I got you 💪🏽
Hi I came across your page that I absolutely love your content
I am in no contact with my fearful avoidance x
I would love to share my story I'm sure that's a Whole video on it
I'm doing good
Super content!
We are all one.
Yes we are my dear friend, thank you for watching, hope you find the information valuable!
Please let me know if you have any questions or suggestions for further videos 🙏🏽
'we' are? i'm nothing like that monkey branching b...h. i'm nothing like the npcs screaming at me on a sidewalk for not wearing a slave muzzle.
We are all One
I was in a relationship for 4 months was everything ok but 1 day before she came back from hollyday she dumb me with the words that she like me still and my vibe but she didn’t missed me in romantic art that she is sorry I said that I respect her choice and feel luck since 3 weeks I am in no contact in this period I post once in instagram that I am in vacation she was the first after 30 seconds that saw and 1 week after I post on WhatsApp stories that I already I got a nice shape she saw already was from the first but she still Hiding from me the story from instagram … i don’t know what is in her mind … what I understand I got a new fan 😁 tell me your opinion please
You are perfectly fine! You and this girl simply were not the right fit for each other. You two (2) simply did not align.
Don’t count the weeks that you’ve been in no contact, because that keeps you thinking of them. You keep focusing on what you think “you’ve lost”… when you should be focused on the incredible life you have ahead of you!
I’ve dated many women before and I promise you there are more amazing women out there waiting to date you then you’ll ever realize.
I messed up. I did good with no contact with HER but I stayed in contact with friends and family and it probably cost me another chance. It pushed her into the rebounds arms even more. To the point they are now engaged in 4 months and will be married in 7 months!!!
Good for them!!!
She was not the right fit for you! You guys did not align.
That is perfectly normal and is a part of life!
Don't expect it to last. It'll be toxic in no time. Meanwhile you're going to keep working on yourself and growing.
It's tough. I'm dealing with similar issues. But while they're busy in lust, I'm busy being the best version of myself 💪
I started watching your videos cause I’m heartbroken and now I’m also watching them because your very easy on the eye Oo la la 😅
Hahahaha thank you for the compliment 😂 Oo la la lol