Agree the breakup is a blessing it’s hard I was with a guy he left me as he said he loves me but just doesn’t want the relationship 14 years of wasted time. But I’m Glad I never had kids or married him. He was a good guy but not for me. I have no hard feelings, just hate that we planned a life brought a house then he decided shit got to hard. No longer wanted to try. I don’t miss the arguments, I’m at peace as I no longer have to worry about him one less person to worry about. It does get lonely at home but I’m happy. That’s all the matters to me Focus on me 2023 is all about me
All things meant to be will be. Choose wisely and forward. Evil must go and good is welcome to stay. Keep it simple. Relationships and love and all that stuff is not as hard as confused, narcissistic, selfish, damaged, broken, hurt or hateful people make it. The issue is full disclosure, honesty, compatibility, chemistry and all that must be present.
This break up is the first time in my life I am looking at it as a positive. Yes, it hurts...but when I decided to accept it and sit in the experience...it has become an awakening. Thank you for your knowledge and expertise to shed light on this topic.
Broke up yesterday. I really don’t give a f and I’m soo thankful to God about it. I kept on begging for his attention and kept struggling to know where I belonged in his life . He wasn’t even being open with me and everything has been rubbish. I know God cut this off because I’ve learnt the lesson and if I stayed longer, it would have hurt me. I just hope that I won’t start feeling sad about this. I’m feeling soo okay right now and I love it😭💫 **update I clearly see why God took it away. I have never seen such a fluent liar and a mastermind manipulator in my life ever!!!
feeln sad 😔is expected but force yourself to push threw it by staying busy and no contact, no matter what. u deserve to be cherished, spoiled, & always treated like the princess 👸u r. anyone who's not doing that needs to stay gone & far away from you. he will only hurt u more bc he doesn't recognize a real diamond💎 he most likely never will. & it ain't your job to teach him anything. it your job to put yourself 1st & get a better man 👨not go back to a trash man.
@@queensun6059 I’m still a virgin and I intend to keep it that way😌 God found me earlier on in my life and that I will forever be grateful for. My sister and I have been on the no sex thing and just a few days ago, her friend gave birth with the dad no where to be found. No judgement tho but it always returns back as a slap as I’ve seen soo far. Thanks for the advice I’ll make sure to check the channel out☺️💫 anyone else reading this comment like she said, “IF THE RING FINGER IS NAKED, THE BODY SHOULDN’T BE!!!” 😂😂❤️
Good Morning Sir. Just want to Say Thank You for Your Peaceful Calm Approach to these Situations ! Very Much Appreciated ! Have a Blessed Day. Your Doi g a Phenomenal Great Job ! Best Wishes Greg. Melbourne Australia.
The relationship breakup is a blessing we no longer are together. As I have realised I will no longer tolerate a weak man. I deserve better once you walk out of my life no 2nd chances
@@thomesc6214 we made a New beginning, stronger than ever. It was HELL for 11 weeks before we could agree and resovle our matters. Hope you are doing well.
Your amazing and your voice is so comforting. Been listening to you every day . Thank you for making us feel a bit better during this challenging time.
Broke up just over 3 months ago we have a kid together but she moved on by talking to someone less than a month after we broke up and there dating now she avoided sitting down and talking with me and she gave me a lot of confusion of I have love for you but not in love with you and I just need space and time and I miss the little things but yet she bare face lied to me about not talking or seeing someone else like I’m here second choice not only that I feel disrespected because I know she was lying so tbh right it’s probably has been a blessing in disguise as I was gonna propose to her last year
Dang. I literally got told the exact same stuff and she avoided me to no end. I have my Suspicions shes lying to me and is talking to someone although she denies it.
That’s rough man I’m sorry to just know what she’s doing won’t last it never does it’s just to make you feel like shit inside and hopefully you fall apart you just have to stay strong and watch in time how things will plan out
Got dumped about a week ago. Haven't felt this good in years! Best thing that has happened in a while. Just disappointed that I stayed as long as I did. Many wasted years!! Never again.
Thank you so much for your videos. I am 47 now, and I still remember my Ex every day. I went no-contact on , at 16 after I was into her for 2 years. She contacted me on Facebook when I was 38, sending me condolences after my father left us . But since I was badly pissed off with her, I did not reciprocate. It's a consolation to know that she hasn't forgotten me. Thank you again, for letting me know that.
For me it's a blessing i told her straight i will be working on myself but if she goes around dating someone i will never take her back. She left because i became comfortable in my own space i lost myself and the Spark I was kinda abusive with words so i made the situation worse learning to work on my bad mouth and start a better life. Taking this opportunity to find myself and work on myself.
It’s good you identified you were the problem, but it sounds a bit manipulative to tell her you won’t take her back if she doesn’t wait for you to heal yourself.
my Ex GF suffers from Bi Polar. After 2 1/2 months of research she has all the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I use to blame her actions on her illness. New Years day, I went for a long drive, had a talk with myself. I said BS, she knew exactly what she was doing. I'm holding her accountable for her actions. When I got home I watched a video from Diagnosed NPD Lee Hammock, Mental Healing. The video had just came in when I was driving. Topic was Does a Narcissist know what they are Doing? Is answer was YES!!! This came from a Diagnosed NPD. It validated my feelings!!!
Bro me too! Lmfao. My ex knows what she's doing. She's trying to triangulate me with the new supply but I've gone radio silent. I'm adding a lot of songs to a playlist she can see on Spotify if she looks me up and it's all about being happy. I'm not letting her ruin my mood anymore. She's going to regret losing what she had and I'm going to make it look like I'll be open to taking her back when she goes to therapy for narcissism. & I won't take her back. I just want her to get the damn diagnosis and to leave people alone.
Nothing To do at this point. Love is ALLOWING. Let your ex choose to be in your life or not. When you let go and focus on your own life, they may notice and come back on their own
focus on making more money 💰, getting stronger mentally & physically. force yourself toward keep moving forward by staying super busy & you'll forget she blocked 🚫u.
We broke up 3 months ago and now she in a two month relationship where she met mr. perfect and in love. We have a child together and she have blocked me on everything bc I decided to not chase and moved on. So she keeping my child from me while promoting her new man as a perfect stepdad and even talking about marriage and so in love with each other after he met her family.
It been over a month since the break up. I don’t think she care about me anymore, 4 years of being there for her and 4 years of relationship … it hurt like hell. I am suffering everyday while she probably doesn’t even care anymore.
9 years for me broke up 6 wks ago.. we have a 6 yr old hard doin no contact but only txt for our son.. tryin to be the best me an best dad i can be.. i made mistakes but im correcting them.. hopefully one day ill get her back .. feelings an love i have for her ive never felt for any one
You should not act to excited. Act like you are cool about the break up and if you want to get back together with her I would wait a little bit and give her a short response.
Act like casual and show her you are happy without her, tell her I will think about it, thats way your future will be very bright and she will be the one who is investing Watch coach lee on youtube " what to do when your ex reaches out"
Don’t forgive her because of her. Forgiveness is for you. If you don’t want to then dont. Just dont respond keep to the no contact Sorry doesn’t do anything , she just wants closure to feel better.
Well this might sound crazy put my ex aint even tell me he break up with me until i ask because he was acting funny i just dont understand how can u was with 1yr i dont know how long he wanted to do this was talking bout building a life together everything I'm hurt but I'm slowly healing
It scares him to death that I can move on with someone else. I It also scares him to death. That another man could be living in this house and it's not him.
Hello I liked and sent a heart ❤️ someone contacted me with a phone number they said they can help me. I was not asking for help I was just praising your channel and you for your insight..
Please be careful. I am not reaching out to ANYONE to offer help. It is a scam. All the people I have coached usually just book a call directly through the link in my video description
Nah...he does not miss me nor going through pain. He is a narcissist and we have been thru the cycle many times. He always has a hooch lined up. Done this time. Bye Felicia
Was with a woman for 2 years I made alot of mistakes to which she blocked I chased she unblocked to get blocked again we got back together got then a few months go by we argue she blocks I chased blocked unblocked then back together this is the 3 rd time Iv been blocked after an argument what do I do if I want her back?
u should hope not. u deserve a man who'd never leave u. work on raising your self-esteem, goals & staying busy so u don't ever ask about a man who threw u away. instead get a better man
@@GalloVerdesFarms agree fake love they only love you when it’s good and they are happy but real love shows up when times a tough. That’s why when you get dumped it’s because they have given up trying
Agree the breakup is a blessing it’s hard I was with a guy he left me as he said he loves me but just doesn’t want the relationship
14 years of wasted time. But I’m
Glad I never had kids or married him.
He was a good guy but not for me.
I have no hard feelings, just hate that we planned a life brought a house then he decided shit got to hard. No longer wanted to try.
I don’t miss the arguments, I’m at peace as I no longer have to worry about him one less person to worry about.
It does get lonely at home but I’m happy. That’s all the matters to me
Focus on me 2023 is all about me
How are you now? I’m dealing with the same thing
All things meant to be will be. Choose wisely and forward. Evil must go and good is welcome to stay. Keep it simple. Relationships and love and all that stuff is not as hard as confused, narcissistic, selfish, damaged, broken, hurt or hateful people make it. The issue is full disclosure, honesty, compatibility, chemistry and all that must be present.
At this point, don't care if he comes back. I just want to be okay 😔🥺😓
This break up is the first time in my life I am looking at it as a positive. Yes, it hurts...but when I decided to accept it and sit in the experience...it has become an awakening. Thank you for your knowledge and expertise to shed light on this topic.
Broke up yesterday. I really don’t give a f and I’m soo thankful to God about it. I kept on begging for his attention and kept struggling to know where I belonged in his life . He wasn’t even being open with me and everything has been rubbish. I know God cut this off because I’ve learnt the lesson and if I stayed longer, it would have hurt me. I just hope that I won’t start feeling sad about this. I’m feeling soo okay right now and I love it😭💫
**update
I clearly see why God took it away. I have never seen such a fluent liar and a mastermind manipulator in my life ever!!!
feeln sad 😔is expected but force yourself to push threw it by staying busy and no contact, no matter what. u deserve to be cherished, spoiled, & always treated like the princess 👸u r. anyone who's not doing that needs to stay gone & far away from you. he will only hurt u more bc he doesn't recognize a real diamond💎 he most likely never will. & it ain't your job to teach him anything. it your job to put yourself 1st & get a better man 👨not go back to a trash man.
@@queensun6059 😭😭😭this is really really what I needed at the moment thank you soo much you literally have no idea😭😭❤️💫
@@queensun6059 I’m still a virgin and I intend to keep it that way😌 God found me earlier on in my life and that I will forever be grateful for. My sister and I have been on the no sex thing and just a few days ago, her friend gave birth with the dad no where to be found. No judgement tho but it always returns back as a slap as I’ve seen soo far. Thanks for the advice I’ll make sure to check the channel out☺️💫 anyone else reading this comment like she said, “IF THE RING FINGER IS NAKED, THE BODY SHOULDN’T BE!!!” 😂😂❤️
Bless You For this Important Information
Good Morning Sir. Just want to Say Thank You for Your Peaceful Calm Approach to these Situations ! Very Much Appreciated ! Have a Blessed Day. Your Doi g a Phenomenal Great Job ! Best Wishes Greg. Melbourne Australia.
You are such a gift. I’ve been watching ur videos for awhile.
Good men still exist. ❤
Thank you Ari! You are too kind
I’m doing a martathon of these videos on repeat. Helping me a lot
The relationship breakup is a blessing we no longer are together. As I have realised I will no longer tolerate a weak man. I deserve better once you walk out of my life no 2nd chances
Your calmness made me stop hyperventilating and crying
I feel this bro
Watch Coach Lee videos as well. Hope you are doing better.
@@thomesc6214 yeah man.
@@christoffervik9997 best of luck I know it is hard. Today was a difficult day but I am getting stronger everyday. Stay strong!
@@thomesc6214 we made a New beginning, stronger than ever. It was HELL for 11 weeks before we could agree and resovle our matters. Hope you are doing well.
Your amazing and your voice is so comforting. Been listening to you every day . Thank you for making us feel a bit better during this challenging time.
Broke up just over 3 months ago we have a kid together but she moved on by talking to someone less than a month after we broke up and there dating now she avoided sitting down and talking with me and she gave me a lot of confusion of I have love for you but not in love with you and I just need space and time and I miss the little things but yet she bare face lied to me about not talking or seeing someone else like I’m here second choice not only that I feel disrespected because I know she was lying so tbh right it’s probably has been a blessing in disguise as I was gonna propose to her last year
Damn bro I'm going thru the same. And it's my first child smfh.
They will never tell the fuckin truth. And we be feeling they lying the whole time
Dang. I literally got told the exact same stuff and she avoided me to no end. I have my Suspicions shes lying to me and is talking to someone although she denies it.
It's good that you forget with that nonsense!! Respect yourself my friend
That’s rough man I’m sorry to just know what she’s doing won’t last it never does it’s just to make you feel like shit inside and hopefully you fall apart you just have to stay strong and watch in time how things will plan out
Am done with that bad guy
I know my worth now
The best advice, hands-down
Thanks brother!
Got dumped about a week ago. Haven't felt this good in years! Best thing that has happened in a while. Just disappointed that I stayed as long as I did. Many wasted years!! Never again.
Thank you for everything you’re doing to make this difficult journey easier! Your advice is right on.
Whatever this guy says please listen to him , trust me he knows what he’s saying
Thank you so much for your videos. I am 47 now, and I still remember my Ex every day. I went no-contact on , at 16 after I was into her for 2 years. She contacted me on Facebook when I was 38, sending me condolences after my father left us . But since I was badly pissed off with her, I did not reciprocate. It's a consolation to know that she hasn't forgotten me. Thank you again, for letting me know that.
Thanks king keep blessing us with this positive knowledge
God bless you
For me it's a blessing i told her straight i will be working on myself but if she goes around dating someone i will never take her back. She left because i became comfortable in my own space i lost myself and the Spark I was kinda abusive with words so i made the situation worse learning to work on my bad mouth and start a better life. Taking this opportunity to find myself and work on myself.
It’s good you identified you were the problem, but it sounds a bit manipulative to tell her you won’t take her back if she doesn’t wait for you to heal yourself.
I’m listening now while at the gym
Coach Black you are the man bro I'm enjoying your video and getting something out of it
*Blac
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my Ex GF suffers from Bi Polar. After 2 1/2 months of research she has all the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I use to blame her actions on her illness. New Years day, I went for a long drive, had a talk with myself. I said BS, she knew exactly what she was doing. I'm holding her accountable for her actions. When I got home I watched a video from Diagnosed NPD Lee Hammock, Mental Healing. The video had just came in when I was driving. Topic was Does a Narcissist know what they are Doing? Is answer was YES!!! This came from a Diagnosed NPD. It validated my feelings!!!
Bro me too! Lmfao. My ex knows what she's doing. She's trying to triangulate me with the new supply but I've gone radio silent. I'm adding a lot of songs to a playlist she can see on Spotify if she looks me up and it's all about being happy. I'm not letting her ruin my mood anymore. She's going to regret losing what she had and I'm going to make it look like I'll be open to taking her back when she goes to therapy for narcissism. & I won't take her back. I just want her to get the damn diagnosis and to leave people alone.
Big fan. Thank you Coach
You amazing 🎉thank you coach Blac ✨
Thank you Najmah!
@@blacademic you very welcome loved & appreciated 🙏💫🦋
@@tanimujibrinogu hello
Helo
Thank you ❤so very much....hope my gratitude and love is reaching to you❤
Another brilliant video. Thank you mate your kind words are necessary and uplifting.
Love your channel. Thank you!
Thank You Coach Black for Your Sage Wise Advice ! You make Perfect Sense To me !
Thank you.
Do you have one on yourfirst date after healing from an ex and moving on? How you know you are ready and how to identify red flags?
Blocked everywhere what to do
Nothing To do at this point. Love is ALLOWING. Let your ex choose to be in your life or not. When you let go and focus on your own life, they may notice and come back on their own
@@blacademic thank you 🙏
focus on making more money 💰, getting stronger mentally & physically. force yourself toward keep moving forward by staying super busy & you'll forget she blocked 🚫u.
There is no point in going back because they never change
We broke up 3 months ago and now she in a two month relationship where she met mr. perfect and in love. We have a child together and she have blocked me on everything bc I decided to not chase and moved on. So she keeping my child from me while promoting her new man as a perfect stepdad and even talking about marriage and so in love with each other after he met her family.
Forget about this bullshit man!! Think about yourself man, not other people
Sorry man, i hope you get to see your kid soon
At least you are the real dad. :)
He a sucker for that don't worry karma hits hard.
It been over a month since the break up. I don’t think she care about me anymore, 4 years of being there for her and 4 years of relationship … it hurt like hell. I am suffering everyday while she probably doesn’t even care anymore.
9 years for me broke up 6 wks ago.. we have a 6 yr old hard doin no contact but only txt for our son.. tryin to be the best me an best dad i can be.. i made mistakes but im correcting them.. hopefully one day ill get her back .. feelings an love i have for her ive never felt for any one
You are amazing!❤
Yes it was a blessing thank God
I got unblocked 3 months after breakup. She contacted me asking for forgiveness and was sorry for breaking up. What should I do ?
You should not act to excited. Act like you are cool about the break up and if you want to get back together with her I would wait a little bit and give her a short response.
Act like casual and show her you are happy without her, tell her I will think about it, thats way your future will be very bright and she will be the one who is investing
Watch coach lee on youtube " what to do when your ex reaches out"
she will dump u again guaranteed esp. w/o proof that she's done massive personal development to significantly risks working thru relationship issues👏
Don’t forgive her because of her. Forgiveness is for you. If you don’t want to then dont.
Just dont respond keep to the no contact
Sorry doesn’t do anything , she just wants closure to feel better.
I like ur content in videos, very Understable☺. Now I am ur fan😄🤩🤞🙌
Thank you! I appreciate it
Yea me too. Keep the content coming. You're helping a lot of brothers out here including me.
the problem with the woman I use to date is the age
Well this might sound crazy put my ex aint even tell me he break up with me until i ask because he was acting funny i just dont understand how can u was with 1yr i dont know how long he wanted to do this was talking bout building a life together everything I'm hurt but I'm slowly healing
Any videos or advice on baby mamas?
I missed it ☺️
It scares him to death that I can move on with someone else. I It also scares him to death. That another man could be living in this house and it's not him.
Hello I liked and sent a heart ❤️ someone contacted me with a phone number they said they can help me. I was not asking for help I was just praising your channel and you for your insight..
Please be careful. I am not reaching out to ANYONE to offer help. It is a scam. All the people I have coached usually just book a call directly through the link in my video description
@@blacademic thank you 🙏🏽❤️😂
It's not him so don't call that number
Nah...he does not miss me nor going through pain. He is a narcissist and we have been thru the cycle many times. He always has a hooch lined up. Done this time. Bye Felicia
Was with a woman for 2 years I made alot of mistakes to which she blocked I chased she unblocked to get blocked again we got back together got then a few months go by we argue she blocks I chased blocked unblocked then back together this is the 3 rd time Iv been blocked after an argument what do I do if I want her back?
Nothing let her come to you or move on bro sounds toxic
@@Causetonight she toxic or me?
@@dang9269 the relationship
I played this at 1.5x speed and it still sounds a little slower than normal. Did you slow down this video intentionally?
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does anyone else hear a very annoying buzzing sound
She was the one who dumped me and now she’s suggesting a friendship should I accept it cuz I want her back
never
Look into this more for answers on this platform if you want her back don’t just deny it
Yes!!!! but fake the friendship and go out and kiss her
@@benithacalloway8286 we’ve been doing such stuffs except sex
Want her back to do what? She left for a reason. Don't recollect dumped waste, respect yourself
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He gave me a closure saying he is dating someone else and to forget him , will he still come back?
They moved on from us they are people who give up in life easily
u should hope not. u deserve a man who'd never leave u. work on raising your self-esteem, goals & staying busy so u don't ever ask about a man who threw u away. instead get a better man
@@GalloVerdesFarms agree fake love they only love you when it’s good and they are happy but real love shows up when times a tough. That’s why when you get dumped it’s because they have given up trying
He will try to come back after the relationship fails. I hope by then you actually did forget him.
@@GalloVerdesFarms true 👍
I will never be with another woman again my heart belongs to one woman and that Jo-Ann Guzman
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