Why Your EX is STILL SILENT even when they have FEELINGS for you
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Been following you for weeks now. Stayed the course. Got the first text just now and had to thank you. Your work is great
Been following u for a month now I love watching u u helping me through if me my ex don't get back together
I’m currently on a no-contact phase. For those of you who reunited with an ex, I wish you nothing but the best! 🙏🏻
any update?
Updates?
One suggestion my friend, no matter what happens, don't get connected to your ex again.
Patterns repeat and soon you will be in the same situation again.
Remember, once a cheat, always a cheat.
@@healsmind Not everyone has a partner who cheated though. Breakups can be caused because of a lot of reasons. For cheating though, indeed, never look back.
They silent cause they either are hurt and want to get over you OR they don’t care and are busy living life or entertaining someone new ! So live life and move on! No one is worth this much effort . Trust me the faster you stop thinking about them the better ! Go get busy with new hobbies , music that cheers you up and your confidence , work out and don’t give people the time of day who hurt you!
Bliss that's real spit box pimpin
My ex could care less homie, she left ME!!!
Hmmmmm 🤥🤔🤫
Yep he was entertaining the old supply thought the grass C was greener 😂
Logical but tough to follow
The good thing about No contact is having less feelings for them.
No contact brings you freedom to think twice about getting back with an idiot!
I'm a grown man, shattered and heartbroken about a girl I had a relationship with for a few years. It's been nearly 3 weeks no contact, destroying me in every way but I havnt cracked and i wont move, her loss if she doesnt. Stay strong brothers and sisters ❤
Peace king 👑 Stay strong. I'm 1 week NC today. The longest we've been without speaking so I feel like I'm getting stronger and she's secretly going crazy. Stay the course and God bless
Same here, pimpin
@@babyluvjr She called my best friend crying saying how scared she was to reach out to me because she's taking it rough the day I wrote this. Ended up calling me the same night saying the same thing. I can tell she wants to move forward. She's been calling me ever since I broke our NC record. Now she sees that I got that in me. On top of being a good dude who made emotional mistakes getting insecure at times. She's still in love. Women know a real one. They always panic when he puts his foot down because they know he can get snatched up by another chick fast.
@Cold game Veteran 🥶 thats some real spit box pimpin
Talk to a lot of girls , not to date just to be friends with, trust me it helps. Currently going through the same thing.
She/he wont miss u if they are locked into someone else
That’s not true if you been with that person for a long period of time and actually been around their family and you guys shared a lot of memories…. They’re gonna miss you trust me even if they with a new person
Maybe…until he/she discovers the 3rd party isn’t YOU! Have faith.
Don’t take them back trust me they spending time with someone else and giving it up move on please they only come back when they can’t replace you pretty soon they will leave again because they know you will always keep the door open.
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@@user-msjazzy or maybe y’all did nun to better yourself while they were away. ofc they’ll just leave the same person
True
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You are spot on, my friend! These women often do not know what they want, and when they realize "the grass is not greener on the other side", they reach out and want to come back, but then it's too late!
The saddest thing is accepting there is nothing you can say nor do to get them back. 7 months NC. Wish they would understand i never wanted to hurt them but for the ex to walk away without caring and not getting back considering the time tells me all I need to know. They sometimes don't come back. Even if you do the right things
5 months NC here also. So I hear you. Went NC day 1
6 mos no contact, no nothing. Just walked away.
Going on 8 months NC it just might be wraps. I broke off the relationship but only because she was was showing me she wasn’t into it. I don’t know why I am the one hurting when she is the one who pushed me away and forced my hand
@@Troy12-fitnessmodelSame here!!!
Happy my ex is finally back after doing no contact 🙌
how long did it take?
Happy to hear ... Pray for me too
Do not take back trust me u havent seen the process good luck tho
How long no contact?
Congratulations
It's been 2 1/2 months. Still no contact. This has been so hurtful. He has a big ego. I pray for his healing. 🙏
Without these Video’s the last two months would’ve been so much more difficult. I cannot thank Coach Blac enough for these daily videos of guidance. As previously mentioned in other videos, I’ve had the time to work on myself but over the holidays, not having the person I shared so many memories with, makes me feel really isolated and alone. It’s been 54 days of NC. I still have so many unanswered questions.
It's okay to have all these questions, but it doesnt mean you need an answer, if you really want to move on don't think about it, what happened it just happened. You have to understand the universe message from this break up, what it taught you?
You’ll never get answers. Just move on.
do you still stalk their social media? be honest
@@marcGOAT1 I’ve not seen, heard, or spoken to her since the day she left me over FaceTime. I avoided her instantly. Looking at anything would be too painful.
@@SpenKilpatrick94 🧢
Again, you are describing a situation that is so rare these days...People do not break up and stay single, they almost always monkey branch and no contact is not effective in the ways you describe. Nowadays dumpers line someone up before they break up, it happens 99% of the time.
Same shit happened to me but she still wanted to text me every day on three different platforms, plus coming to see me a couple times a week but when I mention working things out, not interested.
Finally found out some guy at work was on the scene. Had to say bye bye, I don’t need that shit
I wouldn't say 99% of the time. If you actually had a decent one they would process the breakup fully before moving on. If monkey branching is happening then they look for you, definitely leave them for the streets to deal with.
It's not rare, because it does work most of the time! Also, not 99% of the time do they do monkey branching at all. You have the data completely wrong! You simply got used to the "low-hanging fruit"! There are plenty of good quality women out there still. When you better yourself, you will discover them! If you don't, then you won't. No Contact helps you grow, mature, develop, and stand tall on your own regardless if she comes back or not!
@@CL-sp2yv see I believe mine was a good woman but she didn’t want to face her own deep rooted problems.
She’s just repeating the same negative patterns in her life. I actually feel quite sorry for her, despite her head fucking me after the break up
@@nw7654 then it doesn’t sound like they were a great woman. However pure their intentions may have been if they were refusing to address their flaws and develop/improve themselves then they couldn’t have been a great woman
My girl told me she needed time to heal, she was in a toxic relationship previously and said she wasn't able to give me her 100%. Just been focusing on me going to work early making money and working out and if we're meant to be together we're meant to be.
Update bro ?
NC only works if the Ex cares. . If both parties are doing NC waiting for the other to initiate then what?
I'm so sad, my ex moved onto someone else, I know, it's a rebound. He is feeling good because someone else is giving him attention
This process is so tiring, makes you just want to give up and move on
I know it hurts…. I’m holding on I’m on week 3
NC only works when you actually move on with your life and not looking back!
14 days with NC i’m going to trust the process even it’s so damn painful and hard. i wont give up. thank you coach blac
Bro we on the same boat at the same time , we can do this 💆🏻
I failed my 1st try at NC after 11 days. Now I’m back on day 9 but I’m sticking with it
How did it go? Did you ever get them back?
Did she come back?
Coach - No Contact works for sure !
Now ex is no more silent , I am...
Just not interested 😎
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How long did it take for her to reach out to you?
@@runout1013 She first reached out within 2 weeks of being completely silent (I blocked her on my phone). Then she called, viewed my profile through other social media channels (went unanswered).
Within 2 - 3 months she delivered a book through an online plarform (completely ignored)...
By that time I was engaging myself in my work, upskilling , went to gym, meditating. In short, I developed myself.
And the need for her vanished. I realized, she wasn't the one for me.
@@runout1013 3 months but by then I moved on for a brighter and better life
I had a 3 month relationship which has just ended 😭 she showed me more in 3 months than anyone did in years hence my heart is broken. It’s going to be hard to go no contact but I said “nobody knows what the future holds but I can’t hold onto that” She didn’t say no when I said that. She said she still cares and I could still see the love in her eyes, I asked if she still loved me and didn’t want a deep conversation. I really needed this video, coach. Thank you, I pray she comes back to me! 🙏🏻
Just move on.
Move on means work on urself, doing this with hurt feelings like holding a big stone on ur shoulders while u eating or wrokout or spending time with friends, it is so heavy!
Coach Blac, please don’t stop the videos. Your advice truly works and the one thing that your advice does? Get the person right with themselves. Work on yourself and YOU decide if you want your ex back. Take your power back! 5:34
We broke up on Tuesday June 6th. I heard from him 3 days later asking me if he can come over on Saturday to put my tv antenna together? I text me letting him know I was busy on Saturday and if he can come over on Sunday? He replied sure. On Sunday I called and text him to find out what time he was coming over? But no response. I didn’t hear from him and I didn’t reach out anymore. Couple weeks went by and I had an appointment with my therapist. She told me I should call him and also write him a letter. I listened to her 🤦🏽♀️ I called and text him but no response. I wrote him a letter and dropped it off to his house. I taped it inside his door. Still no response from him. On August 10th I called him from my work phone. He answered. I said hi it’s me. He hung up. I was so hurt. At that point I was done. I deleted him off my fb page and Instagram page. I guess he noticed that I deleted him so he blocked me. This was on August 10th. I haven’t contacted him since that day and I haven’t heard from him. Today is October 25. Does this mean it’s really over between us? 😢
First time viewer. This was a great one !!!
I initiated the split years ago & then months ago we came back together for a short period. It was romantic until I sensed he was confused & restless so I gave him an ultimatum which worked all wrong so there’s no contact going on for 4-5 months. I feel he’s entangled in something that doesn’t really serve his highest good. He knows fully well I’m here & love him. It’s rough doing the time apart but if it works I’ll be very grateful. Thank you for the reminder to be patient!!
He reached out saying Happy Mother’s Day and two days later he texted me he love me.. haven’t heard from his since.. I’m not feeding into bread crumbs..
I had to break NC after 2 months but for the craziest reason 🤣 so he rebounded. And the person he rebounded with went to jail for assaulting him 🤦🏻♀️ and she messaged me on fb asking me if I had seen him and telling me what happened yatta yatta basically trying to stir the pot, I didn’t respond and blocked them. Screenshotted the message and sent it to him. He was grateful for that but I didn’t respond to his text. Just sent the screenshot so he would know that whatever he has going on is starting to bleed out to ppl he knows. Not gonna lie…sweet karma lmao 😂 and love that he now knows that I know how badly he downgraded and all those “happy” social media posts were BS. But anyways…I’ve gotten over it and NC has helped tremendously. I deserve better 🤷🏻♀️
If this works out not I don’t care. I’m glad I have something and I like the channel. Thank you bro
Hey coach, greetings from Brazil. I broke up with her, 10 months later I asked her back. She didnt want at first, but she slowly gave in. three months later she broke up and it's been five months. This breakup is not what I wanted, but it was exactly what I needed. there is so much I gotta work on myself and become a better man for her, or the next person who comes into my life.
Yeah maybe but don't be so hard on yourself too maybe. Maybe it really just is her. You guys did try
@@johnrevelation37 No, it is him. Sorry to say. He DUMPED HER!! He has a lot to work on. Of course she dumped him AFTER. That is how I feel, I can't be with my person. It is NOT the same. I understand her, you clearly a sexist don't understand. It was clearly him. He clearly said he had so much to work on.
@@nofybn7794 you can't read
It's been 7 month 😢i do so much self development. Hope this heart of mine will finally switch. Meanwhile it still clings to him.
You are not busy enough! You still spend too much time thinking about the past when you should stay in the present thinking about YOU!! Only then you will start to detach!!
I guess you have to delete all ur memories and stuff the it reminds you of him, and start journal ur feelings and let it come out and read it, it will help u
@@PsPss-kq3yo yes you are right. This is what I do and still thinking about him a lot
@@CL-sp2yv really trying to be busy as much as possible.
Today my ex called me after 3 months just because I deleted his number from my phone, he just talked for 30 secs and texted me how superior he is and none of his previous exes removed his number or blocked him, so replied “everything happens first time” lol
How does he know that you removed his number from your phone? I’m curious
I’m curious about that too. The other person can’t see if you delete their number, can they?
My WhatsApp DP is not visible to him
Sounds like a control freak with maturity issues.
I swear I knew this is some brown man. You just feel it man, lol😂
Going 7 months zero contact from her. But a mutual friend had a conversation w her and she said she has no desire to reconnect!!! So now what???
@Cleytono Angela who is that?
I got broken up with. And she has messaged me every day since her doing so. She sent a message today asking how I was doing.... said she still cared about me. Im like, wtf? You break up with me, and now you cant leave me alone!!! Its confusing, misleading and hurtful at the same time. I've looked this up, and came up with fake breakups, but I don't know what's going on.... I'm confused as hell. Anyone have an idea on what's going on?
I’m so glad I found you. It’s been over a month with no contact & yes he is a stubborn guy. I almost give in. I’m so glad I heard it from you. Thank you.
Coach BLAC.....I was that dude that made the mistake of chasing for 2 months......it's been 3 months of no contact. This is one of the best videos. 🙏🏽
So how r u feeling now?
I feel good....about 85% back .....I have moments....then I remember...I am important...No contact will make you stronger and build you back up to who you are supposed to be. Fir your ex or the person you arer supposed to be with......#FACTS
OMG SAME good luck to us brother
Be careful typing the name thiss coach lee, not coach blac
Did she come back!
NO CONTACT WILL BE YOU UP YOUR POWER WILL COME BACK. YOUR EX WILL AND DOES THINK OF YOU. YOU MATTER.CIACH BLAC IS REAL. WHETHER YOU WANT THEM OR NOT. TO BE WITH THEM THEY HAVE TO WANT YOU. IF NOT THEM SOMEONE WILL. TRUST THE PROCESS PEOPLE. GOD SPEED
This message is so needed keep going
Yes, it’s torture. He’s a fearful avoidant and this is the second time he has run from me.
We were never officially a couple but this time we were clearly negotiating a new relationship. He said he couldn’t imagine me ever doing anything that would make him want to cut me out of his life, and we both acknowledged that we have some kind of unconditional love that is different from any other friendship we have ever had.
He said we were, “compatible in every way,” but just when I expected him to fly home and sweep me off my feet, he got quiet instead.
He said he wasn’t dating anyone else but that me finding my happiness is what would make him happy. He said he always loved hearing from me but when he stopped initiating contact I stopped chasing him, February 25th. 😢
Jean he has work to do on HIMSELF.
He is hurting. Leave him alone for awhile
@@TheFalanBlake100 percent
@@danilaroche1156 because it’s a long story and it’s difficult to grasp without knowing all the details.
We’ve been good friends for eight years but he was my much younger, married boss, until he finished his masters degree and suddenly his high school sweetheart and wife of 22 years changed her mind about following his career around the country.
She had seduced him and gotten pregnant when he was 17, and she was 15, so his daughter attended his high school football games. He joined the national guard and was deployed to Afghanistan right out of high school. When he came home, he had a custom ring made for her and they got married. They had their son and they both agreed that she would stay home with their kids while he did both, the national guard and worked his way up from ER nurse to CEO.
The plan was that, when the kids were grown and he finished his masters degree, they would move every two or three years, following his career.
He provided a very comfortable life for his family and made sure they had a beautiful home, his wife was neck deep in designer clothes, purses, and always driving a nice jeep, and he had to secretly save money so they could have a great family vacation every year.
When the kids were grown and he had finally completed his masters degree, his high school sweetheart and wife of 22 years, abandoned him to be near her family. He had never said anything negative about her, other than declining multiple invitations to my various theme parties, because, “I would love to go but my wife doesn’t like to socialize,” so it was a shock for me to find out that she had kept him isolated even from his family and didn’t want him socializing outside of work.
When he jumped into a rebound relationship before the divorce was finalized, she told their two adult children that he never wanted kids and had wanted her to have an abortion and demanded a DNA test before he would marry her, they both swore they would never speak to him again unless he broke up with his new girlfriend who only lasted a year, before she also abandoned him to be closer to her family.
We didn’t have our three month “love bubble” until nearly three years ago, after he moved out of state and bought a big five bedroom house, that had a full finished basement with a big wet bar, and told his girlfriend’s family and friends that they were welcome to visit whenever they wanted and stay as long as they liked, but they never got the chance because, “She didn’t even stay for 30 days and then she acted like I forced her out there.”
She had promised to give it a chance and he had promised that if she didn’t like it he would help her move back home. But he emphasized that he would not date her long-distance, so if she left, it would mean that the relationship was over.
They were supposed to discuss it when she got back from visiting her family but she instead announced it on Facebook. He felt very hurt and betrayed, but he paid for the U-Haul. When he refused to continue the relationship she smashed a photo of them together and stormed out. Then, halfway to Texas she called to say, “I think I made a mistake!”
He said, “No, you made a choice and you’re going to live with it.”
That’s when we became closer and I told him to stay single as long as he could stand it.
He said he didn’t do well alone because he had a very high sex drive but didn’t do casual sex. He wasn’t a player and hated hurting people and couldn’t be intimate with a woman unless he had feelings for her.
After a bit of explaining that I was able to separate love and sex, and that I was still good friends with two people with whom I had been in a friends with benefits situationship, I eventually convinced him that we could become FWB.
He was still driving home one weekend every month for Guard Drill, so those were the weekends we were together. He would take me to dinner and always booked a very nice hotel suite. He was very sweet and affectionate. The sex was mind blowing and he was always very cautious about making sure I didn’t feel used or degraded in any way.
If I accidentally rolled away from him in my sleep, he would drag me like a rag doll, bury my face in his massive chest, and lock his big arms around me. We both admitted that we had never slept better than when we were together.
I even told my mom that I felt more safe in his arms than I did as a child, sleeping between her and my dad.
After a few months, he said that he was having a hard time not falling in love with me. So I told him the feelings were mutual but he said he wasn’t willing to take me away from my family and friends.
I felt rejected and told him he didn’t deserve me so we didn’t speak for 18 months.
When I saw on Facebook that he had moved from nine hours away to 30 hours away and was planning to retire from 26.5 years in the national guard to pursue his administrative career, I threw him a retirement party.
His mother and children refused to attend the party and seven of our mutual friends who said they were coming didn’t actually show up, but he acted like it didn’t bother him.
He was like a little boy, chair dancing and singing along with the crowd. We had a great time, but when he was leaving I felt like I was sending him off to war. I said, “I know that, technically you have freed up one weekend a month but you have gone through several big life-changing events in a very short time. Please, remember your coping skills.”
Less than a week later, he said that he was doing a, “hard restart of his life.” He said that he had deactivated his Facebook account and cut everyone out of his life, including his own mother and two adult children. He said he told them that he loved them but trying to force himself into their lives was killing him. He said if there was going to be any kind of relationship, they would have to reach out to him.
I thought he was about to cut me out of his life but he said that I was, a very important and significant person,” in his life, and there was, “a reason,” that I was one of only three people he wasn’t cutting out of his life. The other two were his best friend from the military, with whom he had deployed to Afghanistan,” and his ex-wife, with whom he only spoke, “when absolutely necessary,” for financial reasons, because he had promised her $1500/month for the rest of his life, even if she gets remarried.
Within a few weeks he was telling me that he didn’t want, “another failed relationship,” he just wanted to be with, “the right person,” and I was his, “person to talk freely to without fear of being judged.”
After hours and days of discussing what we did and didn’t want from a relationship, including our financial debts, savings, investments, goals, and monthly spending habits, he concluded that we were, “compatible in every way.”
He told me about a hospital that was paying nearly double my current wages and when I applied for my nursing license, he sent me the union agreement for a hospital near his house.
I had observed him being a loyal husband and a devoted family man. He made career decisions based on his son’s high school football career, his daughter worked in the same hospital so I saw her wait for him after work every day because they were gym buddies, and I saw him bend over backwards to make his rebound girlfriend happy.
Not that I wanted him to jump through hoops, but I knew he was a caring partner. He had always been very good to me too. I could go on about what a great boss and friend he was but I won’t.
Soon, we were making plans for me to move 2K miles from home to build a new life with him. My family was happy for me and my two besties threw me a going away dinner. Then he got quiet.
He finally said there wasn’t anyone else but he was, “broken in many ways on the personal side of life…”
That is your ex for a reason 😭don’t let them fool you coming back
Very tough man I'm dealing with. Weeew we must record this one when the end comes 😂😅. I'm on 83rd day no contact.
Loved that adapted Bruce Lee quote at the end😂
How can he still have feelings for me after we broke up?
That doesn’t make any sense!
Thank you so much for this confirmation for me. I am staying the course. Nameste ❤️
Not MY ex, Coach.....
She could careLESS about my "no contact".....shit hell , its been 3 weeks., i actually rode past her 2day in traffic, im sure she seen me.. .i hope she's happy with whomever or whatever she's doing yanahmean?
Ok so what if both of us have the no contact mindset?😊
1 2 and 3 is us!!! But im getting too busy to even care anymore. Its ridiculous its this many days.
It's been two months almost since she broke up with me. After the break-up i didn't chased her as there wasn't my mistakes at all. In this last two months she tried contacting me but didn't showed her any interest. And suddenly she stopped contacting me and yesterday she blocked me for no reason..
I wanna know that why I'm getting such treatment 🥺 despite i never hurted her😭
I really want her back I'm missing her af
You should have showed interest when she contacted you.
Wise words…..Coach blac…
My ex after 2 months of no contact has lost it, started posting all over social media. A massive shame but I guess that’s the end game 💔
She dident deserve you brother the right ones out there promise ❤
I handed the break-up poorly I'm in no contact I hope she reaches out
What is she posting?
What is she posting? Emotional memes? Subtext about yall past relationship?
@@ellengrace4609 about me bullying her and how I’m playing mind games by ignoring her
MY EX IS BUSY WITH A NEW PARTNER. THAT IS WHY SHE HASN'T BOTHER EVEN TO THINK ABOUT ME. BEST WISHES
5 months NC..thats it I think 😂 she'll never reach out.
It’s been two weeks and I want to cave so bad. But I gotta stay strong. I want him to do the chasing now
This is my favorite video of yours, Coach. The analogy of the growth below the surface was good.
Your analogies are always on point brother!
Bro thank you so much. But, what if it takes 6 months no contact? Is that mean there is no hope?
8 months divorce and we have a 6 year old daughter, so we have to keep in contact when it pertains to her, but other than that, we have no contact. I know she's probably with someone else but I still pray that God keeps her on the right path and happy
I just started watching your videos when my ex left me exactly 7 days ago i was the one alway texting him non stop but I stop and boom he just texted me a week later saying I’m not going to lie I miss I’m like really he like really I’m like ok I can’t talk I’m packing or my bday weekend in Houston Texas 😂
Point 3:stubborn. He's too stubborn to check up on his daughter or to send her monthly upkeep. Basically he's failing to keep the needs of the child as a priority over the breakup.
#1 rather this works or not you must remember this person treated you badly so have some freaking self respect and never allow anyone to ever treat you badly I’m a diamond I’m a rock everyone is blessed in my presence regardless of what role they are in my life always shine like a diamond baby and always love you more than anything on this earth and anything that takes away from your light dump it only after you’ve understood why life is love be blessed everyone
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Your videos are really helping me. I really like the stories you tell as well that help us understand.
How do you do I do no contact when I live with my ex wife and our 3 children
I like your energy. I’m subscribing 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
This was very very helpful and well put. I got the aha moment when you explain about the person as being hard as a rock 👍💯
Does this include them yelling “ F you “ at you and giving you the finger two months into no contact? Whenever by chance I pass my ex on campus she be doing this still. Why she do this?
I know this sounds counterintuitive but that is good sign. Just keep your frame.
Hate means she still cares it’s indifference you have to worry about
Me and my gf of 4 years split twice now. Handled it terribly and went no contact for one night and it worked. Wasnt enough time to fix the problem. Split again for the same reason. We were attached at the hip and forgot about our own lives. Did great all day yesterday but had a moment of weakness and called. She regrets her decision but still in the back of her mind.
NO CONTACT DOES WORK. I regret it even with the decent convo. Day 2 today
I don’t follow my ex anymore, I even removed her from my profile but my profile is open and sometimes I see her check out my story and her friends or sister check my story, should I remove them too? Or make my profile private ?
Thank you Coach, your videos help me so much during my break up
My Bipolar/Narcissist set me FREE 5 mos ago. After 17 mos. Saw her 2 mos ago she called me Awesome, I said she still beautiful Queen. Both said I ❤ U & MISS u.i sent her Purple Roses. She did not respond. Today is her birthday. My heart says wish her HB. Send her roses. My mind tells me HELL NO! I no I can't becuz it will be me giving her validation. It's going to be a tuff day.
Please do a video on no contact in marriage
I'm just trying to get though this one day at a time thank you for your guidance means alot
I've said this on a few on your videos.. Doe's no contact work on someone who said themselves they changed because they lost there mother recently and it has made her see life differently. My ex loved me so much and showed it but this new her isn't who i know it's like a new person grew and didn't want me because i wasn't around to support her when she was grieving her loss. This break up happened i think from listening to her father and friends.
I'm doing this now & ik it's go work ..thank you
I don’t see a super thanks button
While me and my ex are way pass the point of no contact, there are times where she never initiates conversation even though she said she "feels better". She actually told me that if it ever seems like she is hard on me or she is supposedly giving me the cold shoulder, it has nothing to do with me. She is basically in her Senior Year and at the top of her class, and it means a lot to her if she makes her family and friends proud. I salute her for being laser-focsed on that, but no matter how preoccupied someone is with their life, they should be making to talk to the ones they care about. There should be no confusion when your ex says they want to be friends with you, so how is it that you can talk to all of your other friends except me 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️!!
Leave her alone. Let her achieve her goal and give her the peace to do it. Be there but leave her alone. Then you have a chance, if you grow too while workingaway with your own laser focus. Don't get left behind as she rockets into outer space after you're just pining over her that she ought to have some feelings for you while she is laser focused. Bro your comment helped me understand my situation more clearly. Best to you.
Thank you for your priceless guidance, Peter UK
Cheers man. I like every video i take the time out to watch.
Will no contact work after 3 months of begging communicating lashing out in anger with verbal abuse ??
I live with my ex parents.....how can I do no contact in my situation??????
Thank you! The words I needed to hear today! 🙌🏾
I'm on my 6th day of no contact i hope it works 😭
Did it work?
I've only been doing no contact for a couple weeks, but my question is should I wish her happy birthday in a few months from now if she hasn't reached out? She wished me happy birthday last month, so I don't know if it would be rude on just a basic human level not to do the same.
No don’t contact her
Coach please never mind repeating or saying something u might think we know or feels repetitive
.I HELPS
LET.ME.SEE
let's get.a.hat
Coach has earned it
.be like bamboo
.flex.n bend.with the winds of change
TOO RIGID AND SNAP
Coach I have gone through a 30 day no contact period. And now he clearly said that he has feelings for me. But he is not commuting for a relationship. What should I do?
The way you explain things. Thanks alot
It’s hard to have no contact when he’s your roommate…either way 3 weeks away from getting my own space, time & distance
Lol I hope n pray my ex stay where tf they at cause I'm goodddddddddddddd
The best Coach ever ,I bumped into my ex few days ago she was very happy to see me after that I continued my journey with no contact 😂😂and iam loving the journey of working out myself
My boyfriend still silent on!! But it's seems like things are going to working out for me, because I haven't get chances to reaching out to him before but now... anytime I sent him messages, he will read them right away but no response to my messages till this moment. Hopefully things get better
You are ALWAYS so helpful. Thank you
The relationship I was in for a year in a half was horrible I was cheated on and disrespected to the fullest I loved and cared about him but I didn’t deserve to be treated like I wasn’t nothing .. it’s my fault for giving him chance after to chance to do right and he ended up doing me dirty in the end ..
Needed this thank you❤
My ex and I broke up about a month ago, she cheated on me... I contacted her once a week for the last month to try and reconcile the relationship. Last week she had gotten mail at my house and I texted her to send her the mail. She said she is still attached to me emotionally but does not want to meet up. I asked to meet and work things out like adults. That was denied. She said that she wantsa period of no contact because she is with the guy she cheated on me with... any idea's as to how to play this?
How about if it's been 6 months ? Was ghosted a month after her mom died and haven't heard from her since.
Thank you ! I will keep the course...
Thanks Coach Black.
My ex and I going to meet up in may it’s long distance which is good but for now gotta keep letting her do her she wanna be in a relationship so fast no worries 💯 keep going
All of this is true they do come back. But mine left again after we dated for a few weeks. Come to find out there was another guy who got her pregnant and she got an abortion.
That’s wayyy too much for me to handle my ego wants her to come back but damn
Thank goodness for your advice, you are helping me get through every day.
What if they R stubborn but send songs as a form to state how they feel but has also said LEAVE THEM TF alone
It’s been 10 months bro! She needs to hurry up
Wow, no contact 10 months? Time to move on.. don't wait.
You forgot why you left?
What to do when living together still but the relationship is almost over. We go to therapy but dont see that she will want to get things fix.
It’s hard. But you can’t fight for a relationship when the other one is already out the door. Let them go trust me it hurts like shit but do you really want to spend the next 5 years or so being in the same place? Sometimes you need to let go so you can be happy. Time is precious you want to spend it with people who care for you and invest their time in you the same way you will do for them