You are the best educative entertainment I have ever witnessed! You make the human's psychology irresistable like no other professor in the entire world! I am currently a psychology student and I find your videos not only beyond any boarders entertaining but also very informative and educating. So TY 🙏
Hi Sam, I found your videos over a year ago, and it saved me from repeating unfortunate choices, and just in general have helped my life overall, and I have always meant to send a thank you❤ hope your well:)
Wow I used to think that humans were complex creatures but not to this level… no wonder people can’t trust anybody you don’t know who you really getting involved with.. unless you take your time being with them craziness.. I mean like take your time like in years!
Do you feel modern culture is culminating narcissism in mass and that what can be considered an unhealthy degree of narcissism is simply "normal", now? I don't know how to escape myself or trust other people.
I captured a quote " If you play this part, he is justified, dumping and discarding you. If you don't play this part and if you accept him and love him unconditionally - he is your forever. He will be addicted to you forever. But extremely a few women survive this". I am wondering what is happening with those women? If the narcissist is addicted to them that means there will be a chance of a final peace, abuse end time, I mean? My narcissist had been married for 22 years - his ex-wife graduated as a psychologist (in my opinion to fix their problem). She was not aware of his condition, believe it or not, she said that he was insulting her and creaming her, making her guilty for everything at the beginning of the marriage because of his grandiose ego, but with time, he had got a better attitude, however, he was physically absent from the marriage. I think she has also some kind of problems surviving this type of marriage :)
Hello Professor Vaknin, thank you for the latest video. I am confused. I understood from previous lectures that primary psychopaths and Narcissists have a different structure . Are you saying that failed Narcissists can become primary Psychopaths? Clare
Dear Professor, could you please make a video about a celebral and a somatic narcissist relationship? It would be very interesting hearing your opinion about that.
Interesting! I have known somatic narcissists who are hyper intelligent. I assume that it is also a matter of whether they are able to get supply for a specific type/behavior? For example, environments that value machismo over intellect would create a somatic narcissist who may normally have been cerebral?
PROFESSOR Ive been wanting to ask you this for a LONG time. Please sir, does the Narcissist plans all these manipulative things consciously?? Or is he subconsciously, as in it just overcomes him and he does it without even thinking about it for a second? Thank you so much for everything
I wish I had the money to hire you , to come to Alabama, and participate in a state ordered psychiatric evaluation , on an inmate who is being held without bond. (My own personal dark triad narc. Because I took that hard left, in my exiting his shared fantasy, he suffered such a narcissistic injury, that he broke into my home, watched me as I slept, disarmed me as I slept, and woke me up, straddled on top of my back, with a loaded Glock to my head, to which he then fired into my pillow, and placed back on my head. I was hostage for 5 hours before I seduced my way enough to “help me find my phone” (that he had also taken with my weapon. The investigators say that according to evidence and tracking on his phone, that it wasn’t the first night, he had been out there in the dark shadows of my woods, lying in wait. Maybe this will peek your interest to look into it. This man’s parents was murder/suicided. When he was 15.
@ yes, all of this happened, and I’ve already testified before a grand jury, and brought back felony indictments. This man is still being held without bond in a county jail. There are small town, dirty politics involved, and because so many key players in my case are Masons.. I have created quite a dilemma in the judicial system. This man was out on his 3rd bond, issued by the same judge, for the same domestic violence assaults on me, when he committed the last “grand finalé” of the gun to my head. I recorded a 32 min phone conversation, 26 hours before he did this.. with him begging to come to my home, and trying to lure me , to come meet him somewhere. For 32 min I repeatedly said NO. This recording and multiple others, including recordings from continued contact from the county jail.. are being suppressed in evidence.
You are the best educative entertainment I have ever witnessed! You make the human's psychology irresistable like no other professor in the entire world!
I am currently a psychology student and I find your videos not only beyond any boarders entertaining but also very informative and educating. So TY 🙏
Hi Sam,
I found your videos over a year ago, and it saved me from repeating unfortunate choices, and just in general have helped my life overall, and I have always meant to send a thank you❤ hope your well:)
Wow I used to think that humans were complex creatures but not to this level… no wonder people can’t trust anybody you don’t know who you really getting involved with.. unless you take your time being with them craziness.. I mean like take your time like in years!
Dear Professor I learn from you and I’m very grateful to you ❤ Thank you so much ❤
This is so Insightful, thank you Sam❤
Wow! This is a great illustration of shape-shifting.
Do you feel modern culture is culminating narcissism in mass and that what can be considered an unhealthy degree of narcissism is simply "normal", now? I don't know how to escape myself or trust other people.
Search the channel for “collective”.
I captured a quote " If you play this part, he is justified, dumping and discarding you. If you don't play this part and if you accept him and love him unconditionally - he is your forever. He will be addicted to you forever. But extremely a few women survive this".
I am wondering what is happening with those women? If the narcissist is addicted to them that means there will be a chance of a final peace, abuse end time, I mean?
My narcissist had been married for 22 years - his ex-wife graduated as a psychologist (in my opinion to fix their problem). She was not aware of his condition, believe it or not, she said that he was insulting her and creaming her, making her guilty for everything at the beginning of the marriage because of his grandiose ego, but with time, he had got a better attitude, however, he was physically absent from the marriage. I think she has also some kind of problems surviving this type of marriage :)
Hello Professor Vaknin, thank you for the latest video. I am confused. I understood from previous lectures that primary psychopaths and Narcissists have a different structure . Are you saying that failed Narcissists can become primary Psychopaths?
Clare
Search the comorbidities and the psychopath/antisocial playlists.
Prof Vaknin is approach avoidance to the extreme seen in any other personality disorder?
Borderline PD.
Dear Professor, could you please make a video about a celebral and a somatic narcissist relationship? It would be very interesting hearing your opinion about that.
Search the channel for “odd couple”.
Interesting! I have known somatic narcissists who are hyper intelligent. I assume that it is also a matter of whether they are able to get supply for a specific type/behavior? For example, environments that value machismo over intellect would create a somatic narcissist who may normally have been cerebral?
Yes. The type is determined by which personal traits generate the most supply.
PROFESSOR Ive been wanting to ask you this for a LONG time. Please sir, does the Narcissist plans all these manipulative things consciously??
Or is he subconsciously, as in it just overcomes him and he does it without even thinking about it for a second?
Thank you so much for everything
Search the Mind playlist.
Sam could you give us an example of someone we all know who might have this condition
Can you please 🙏 do Extensive video on co_dependency?
Search the comorbidities playlist.
The Longer i listen to you sir
could i be confusing bpd with autism?
Search the comorbidities playlist.
I wish I had the money to hire you , to come to Alabama, and participate in a state ordered psychiatric evaluation , on an inmate who is being held without bond. (My own personal dark triad narc. Because I took that hard left, in my exiting his shared fantasy, he suffered such a narcissistic injury, that he broke into my home, watched me as I slept, disarmed me as I slept, and woke me up, straddled on top of my back, with a loaded Glock to my head, to which he then fired into my pillow, and placed back on my head. I was hostage for 5 hours before I seduced my way enough to “help me find my phone” (that he had also taken with my weapon. The investigators say that according to evidence and tracking on his phone, that it wasn’t the first night, he had been out there in the dark shadows of my woods, lying in wait. Maybe this will peek your interest to look into it. This man’s parents was murder/suicided. When he was 15.
@ yes, all of this happened, and I’ve already testified before a grand jury, and brought back felony indictments. This man is still being held without bond in a county jail. There are small town, dirty politics involved, and because so many key players in my case are Masons.. I have created quite a dilemma in the judicial system. This man was out on his 3rd bond, issued by the same judge, for the same domestic violence assaults on me, when he committed the last “grand finalé” of the gun to my head. I recorded a 32 min phone conversation, 26 hours before he did this.. with him begging to come to my home, and trying to lure me , to come meet him somewhere. For 32 min I repeatedly said NO. This recording and multiple others, including recordings from continued contact from the county jail.. are being suppressed in evidence.
56:00 very helpful part to explain transphobia running rampant in the world. Thank you professor!
2:54:46 literally Faust
So depressing!…But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ! The only way out
1 Cor 15:57