works with babies to. usually they smile and keep staring at you if your attractive, and cry if your ugly and not look if you’re neither! yeah babies have cried at me multiple times 🗿
@@notthecontentiouswoman-wom2595 ita said that because they say attractive people don't ge complimented often because people think they already get complimented a lot and they don't need to add more.
Tbh I prefer it that way most of the time. I usually dislike men trying to flirt/ talk to me. It can be uncomfortable. But the right person will see your beauty in all the right places and that's the one who's opinion matters
When 7, 10 and then 3 came through, I thought of what Jordan Peterson once said, regarding someone who is generally abandoned for the rough and tumble play or socializing before the child is 4 they harshly missed. That people turn to be either hostile or liars... Really makes me wonder what the hell a compliment is again to be about what, where or why it comes from and then how in the world that is to make any sense when merged.
I've lived on both sides of the beauty scale. As a teen into my early 20s I never worked out, played sports, and ate like shit. Didn't dress well or groom well either. In my mid 20s into my 30s I went full beast mode and transformed myself physically and mentally. A total rebuild of a human without surgery. It's CRAZY how the world treats you in general when you look good. Turns out that the low self esteem I had before was a self perpetuating cycle. I thought I was legit ugly so lived ugly. It turns out my face appeals to people if everything around it was built up better. The video isn't really kidding almost every point I've noticed except for ducklips (wtf is that) and no compliments. Dudes (gay acquaintances) and girls alike told me I was hot.
@@Kraken9911 yh sadly pretty privilege is a thing that humans do unconsciously, we would treat other who arnt as attractive less positive as people who r attractive. me as individual i try treat people fairly no matter what they look like, but its obviously different if im trying to get romantically involved with them.
I mostly get ignored. But ought we to judge a book by its cover? I think not. Not even one's own. Outward beauty never lasts anyway. What's inside a person does. Those who would stare at others are barren of some inward beauty in themselves. It's their unresolved problem.
I usually think they look at me just to confirm that I'm not attractive at all after seeing my face! It really is the weirdest thing to know for sure why people (well, men mostly) look at me.
@@joannazian7699 Tbh I tend to stare a lot at people who I find attractive, sometimes I can't get my eyes off of them, just wondering "What is it that make them so attractive?". So yeah, don't think that people that stare at you confirms that you don't look attractive, it certainly is quite the contrary ^^ (i'm a woman but i guess men works the same for this).
@@eleanessa_ Thanks. Perhaps that's the case. I notice a lot of glances, more than staring tbh (but then I am quite shy so I don't tend to observe them any longer than just noticing). That's why I always think they probably were curious and just glanced to see my face. And at that point they determine there is nothing interesting there 🤣 (talking about self-confidence...😂)
@@eleanessa_ Sometimes I can't stop starring at someone and I don't realize that I made them uncomfortable, it's like I'm kinda lost in the moment, it's so embarrassing honestly
@@santosh9395 can't we just accept that some people are not that good looking, u are invalidating them pushing this agenda. Rather than telling people that their worth lies in what kind of person they are u are teaching them that being ugly is some kind of sin.
I believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way. Some possess outer beauty, by having a pleasant and attractive appearance, while others have inner beauty, which is determined by their inner world. Unfortunately, many people out there judge others only by their outer beauty and don't try to discover their inner one. Which often makes us forget that a person isn't solely their body - but rather their soul as well. In my mind, it's far more important who we are inside rather than outside. There's a saying - "A beautiful face will age and a perfect body will change, but a beautiful soul will always be a beautiful soul." Anything material/physical is fickle and temporary. Anything moral and spiritual, in turn, is eternal. At least, that's what I believe in.
People also get angry when they see you too and can’t help but stare like they’re going to murder you, or go out of their way not to help you, or assume you are already privileged even if it’s far from the truth.
I've always assumed when people stare at me in public its because I look ugly or my outfit is bad. I think we need to separate this from personal insecurities and the outside world and just learn to love ourselves and stop wondering what others think.. Im still learning myself.
Actually most people rate themselves as having "above average" attractiveness, which is statistically impossible. Most people actually overestimate their own attractiveness and this makes sense considering people tend towards behaviours which reinforce their values and beliefs and protect their self-esteem
People say that’s what they think they are but most people actually have a lot of insecurities about how they look and most don’t think there a 7 out of ten that just sounds like the right thing to say
I'm an older guy, and a couple of times, recently, I have caught young girls, in their 20s do a double take, and then a shy smile at me! What an ego boost for an older guy! 😀
Daily life of every handsome man. Including randomly being touched by you women, sexual harassed, and not being able to do anything about because we're men and we're supposed to suck it up
And having the mental stability to admitting that you aren't as attractive is a sign of mental strength and good personality, don't give up kings 💎 👑 💎
I'm normal woman but I'm damn confident! Soon they started to talk to me..I get almost what I want. But honestly I love to make my self comfortable and make others comfortable
The first time i ever got a compliment was from an older lady who worked as a cashier I had my winter coat and she looked at me, smiled and said "i see you're once again dressed very dapper as always" that just made my week. She'd often just mention how lovely it is to see a young man dressed so nicely, i usually wear SA leather boot, SA sarka pants and a flannel tucked in and it just makes me so happy every time
I watched two guys walk into a fruit stand at the same time. I have turned the heads of teenagers. I get compliments very rarely, but people are surprised I am 46 years old. am working through self criticisms. I also believe the most attractive thing is a beautiful Soul. Looks are just a thing, but the good deeds of people can change the world!
The thing is though how are we supposed to feel attractive if we don't get compliments now and again. I don't care what anyone says people like to get em
People not complimenting you on your looks means you're attractive 0_0. I wouldn't give people who are ugly compliments because it would be insincere. If someone compliments you in an insincere way that also probably means you're not attractive to them, not the other way around.
I got 6 compliments from my class in a year from different people and they usually don't compliment people, but now this thing is telling me that getting no compliments is good💀 bruh
And there's this one. People call you by your first name but you have no clue who they are. It's always been a thing with me so I just usually acknowledge them and try to call them by their name evertime I would see them. My mom, who was a model told me that wen people call you by your first name it was a compliment and learning and saying their name was a sense of respect towards them. Peace
Okay. This is me at work. Everyone knows my name. I'm thinking why does everyone know my name? I'm not in a supervisor position where that would be necessary. Then I have to incognito learn their name because,well, I should greet them back and not just awkwardly say hey, how are?
@@armoredlumberjack1999 facts in the past when I quit working out having had achieving my dream body I got lazy and had to start over again definitely a lesson worth learning
"People act different around you." That's why I have business cards that allege I am a Bornean exotic jellyfish salesperson. It's unique and I get a laugh upon introduction.
Hey if you ugly it’s fine, I know you call the whole “everyone is beautiful” thing BS and I salute ya cause I feel the same. If everyone is beautiful, then no one is beautiful. We just need to accept that some people are more attractive than others, and some are unattractive and that’s ok.
I don't know the stranger stare at you can be... of any reason. A guy once intensely watched me, like literally went out of his way to look in my face (because I was looking down while walking and had headphones on). I just gave him a disgusted look and continued to walk. My guess isn't he found me attractive, I think he was high on something his intensity was off the charts
One thing I’ve learned as a young teen and a college student about “being attractive” physically or what, “don’t even try to be”, or even try to wonder if you are attractive or “in” coz you’ll be an object for bullying! Somehow some girls think you are above them or trying to be above them when you were never having any thoughts about that nor had any thoughts of competing with anybody else. Here in america I guess some girls and some people can make you feel ugly till you kill yourself. We never had that in the Philippines but it’s still not good in a couple of my experiences that I never had to talk about it to my mom or share them with anyone (except my husband), until I remember it again nowadays. Some of these girls just know how to make you feeI you don’t belong. Coz naturally all people innately want to belong. It is just so messed up though how these people play with rejection. They are hurt girls hurting girls who are growing towards maturity. Some of these girls can make you believe lies they bully about you, and they will kill you by putting you down to depression, or put you to retreat from the world, and so you kinda like: just change your name to a boy’s name, or act/dress up you are a boy/boyish even when you know you are not a boy. Just do something to make yourself ugly or different from them and act like you are something they don’t feel threatened by so they leave you alone. It was just a short period of time like a few weeks or a month for me, but it felt like a long time back then. But when God becomes our strength, it’s double sided victory from these kinds of people. You get yourself back but stronger, and you are away far from these kinds of girls who don’t grow up. One thing I want to protect my daughter from are these kinds of girls. I’d rather her be friends with boys than with these kinds of girls. Or build friends with healthy girls one at a time where she doesn’t have to be in peer groups where there’s a lot of bad influences. And that she doesn’t have to feel like she “belongs”, coz she belongs in the right places and post, and blessings God has already put her in and will put her in towards the future. She already belongs to God and she is more than enough. There’s a reason why books of wisdom before also gives wisdom about protecting women from other women. I’ve read the book of Sirach and there’s some wisdom from it. Don’t even try to be attractive or go in the rabbit hole of wanting to be, or to be liked by people or be “in” or “belong”, coz that ain’t a place to thrive. Just be who you are in the reality and with God, and you’re not gonna be touched by those demons down those rabbit holes anymore. Truth is when you are even trying to be liked or searching ways to be attractive, you are participating to your own destruction already. God made you beautiful as you are, physically and spiritually, wherever you are at in your journey. And His grace is more sufficient in all our weaknesses as we grow. We are His workmanship, and not just beautifully created in His image, we are also beautiful in His sight as we let the blood of Jesus also cover us! And that is actually more than enough! He has made you more than enough! It also becomes different when you are adult and have matured from negative experiences on this matter. You’ll recognize these bullies easily and know how to avoid these kinds of women, or they will but just be traitors by your side. Some women who never healed from rejection out there are prowling around roaring looking for someone to devour. They are many. I thought I’ve learned to be kind and love these kinds of women somehow, but some broken women out there who have not also healed from their experienced rejection have actually become evil women the book of proverbs constantly warn men from. Mostly they are women who have been promiscuously living and have children out of wedlock. They are ever learning but never truly coming to the knowledge of truth. They grow in idolatry and trying to find all the mediums to be liked or draw people in or draw their victims to themselves. If these kind of women are jealous of you coz they can’t have what you have anymore( like matters they’ve already destroyed or loose in their lives by not obeying God and by being loose); if they can’t touch you, they prey on you by preying on the one you are one with first, if you are married. These women know what men’s weaknesses are and use it to their own advantage to hurt you and keep bullying you. And bwalah, these kind of woman have breached in your house, marriage, and life without even noticing and without knowing who she is. She will bully you through your husband . It’s very evil how these women can infect an already broken men also and destroy their marriage. Men who are already trying to walk on a straight path. For me, as a married person, I only do things to look attractive (even though I know I’m more than enough) only to my spouse now. It was hard to do it in the beginning, but later I learned that you can do it for love, or to love your spouse. Coz if you are married, you are not alone. You don’t only take a real good care of yourself when you are caring and tending and beautifying yourself, you also take a real good care of your husband as a person with different needs and wants. And it’s a different kind of feel good thing. You feel good coz you actually did something for someone. I’ve been through tough times but one thing is for sure, God has always been with me and growing me. I’m currently going through the toughest one in my life yet but, I know God is with me and I know He will get me through this one victoriously again!
I started looksmaxing like 3 months ago, i switched up my hairstyle, changed my clothing style, my swag and started hitting the gym and i do observe strangers especially women stare at me. Before i started on self improvement the thought of someone staring at me seemed like a dream, now i feel very uncomfortable and uneasy to walk around.
The rarely get compliments one seems counter intuitive, but it makes sense. If you're attractive, people assume you know it and thus don't feel the need to remind you.
Pretty much none of these happen to me and I think rarely getting compliments doesn't have anything to do with people thinking I don't need compliments
I get the feeling of always being stared at whenever I go out which makes me kinda anxious and insecure, but that was the pre pandemic era. Now you can't force me to take off my mask unless to drink or eat cause people stare way less
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0 apply in my case ,I am as fugly as I know myself to be, hence why I have (0 ) friends what so ever.
Several men and women told me that I am pretty. That probably means I am ugly right? 😥
You cant worry what other people think if youve already accepted that youre ugly af
"strangers stare at you" 💀 me on the street in my Hamburger body costume
It's not a costume, it's a way of life
It's okay if you're okay
Get it bestie
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Just go to a 4 or 5 year old and ask them if you are ugly. They won't lie to you.
Lol this is facts
That or a drunk person
works with babies to. usually they smile and keep staring at you if your attractive, and cry if your ugly and not look if you’re neither!
yeah babies have cried at me multiple times 🗿
@@cookiecharmxo1762 Am dead lol. Sorry bro, I know how painful that must be😅
Ahahaha my four year old doesn’t hold back on questions! They are honest
I've never been complimented on my appearance in my life. I must be pretty damn hot.
you are bestie ✨
That one made no sense.
@@imawakemymindisalive13 thanks bae 😘 ur stunning
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@@notthecontentiouswoman-wom2595 ita said that because they say attractive people don't ge complimented often because people think they already get complimented a lot and they don't need to add more.
I’m obviously ugly as fuck lol
Us
I don't know you but I can sense it.
Yes you are
Get your ass off and start working on yourself 💪💪💪
@@roselinepius245 thats rude asf. Shame on u
Nah no way man I'm from 2 of the most unattractive countries
No man even tries to talk to me. Not exaggerating 💀
Mannnn I'm sorry... u bet yr totally cool to talk to, they're probably missing out
Actually tho sometimes it’s hard for guys to walk up to attractive woman
Same
Tbh I prefer it that way most of the time. I usually dislike men trying to flirt/ talk to me. It can be uncomfortable. But the right person will see your beauty in all the right places and that's the one who's opinion matters
There's a reason
Alternative title: "10 signs that inticate you look weird!"
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It's true
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When 7, 10 and then 3 came through, I thought of what Jordan Peterson once said, regarding someone who is generally abandoned for the rough and tumble play or socializing before the child is 4 they harshly missed. That people turn to be either hostile or liars...
Really makes me wonder what the hell a compliment is again to be about what, where or why it comes from and then how in the world that is to make any sense when merged.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 true
I just imagined a bunch of strangers doing the duck lips around me 😂like whaaaattt
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Yeah that one was odd
“People may act differently around you”… how are you supposed to know that without shapeshifting into someone ugly
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I've lived on both sides of the beauty scale. As a teen into my early 20s I never worked out, played sports, and ate like shit. Didn't dress well or groom well either.
In my mid 20s into my 30s I went full beast mode and transformed myself physically and mentally. A total rebuild of a human without surgery.
It's CRAZY how the world treats you in general when you look good. Turns out that the low self esteem I had before was a self perpetuating cycle. I thought I was legit ugly so lived ugly. It turns out my face appeals to people if everything around it was built up better.
The video isn't really kidding almost every point I've noticed except for ducklips (wtf is that) and no compliments. Dudes (gay acquaintances) and girls alike told me I was hot.
@@Kraken9911 yh sadly pretty privilege is a thing that humans do unconsciously, we would treat other who arnt as attractive less positive as people who r attractive.
me as individual i try treat people fairly no matter what they look like, but its obviously different if im trying to get romantically involved with them.
People stare at me cause I'm the ugliest person they've seen so far
This is literally what I tell myself 😭😭
THIS
Yo dude you don't gotta do yourself like that🙂
I mostly get ignored. But ought we to judge a book by its cover? I think not. Not even one's own. Outward beauty never lasts anyway. What's inside a person does. Those who would stare at others are barren of some inward beauty in themselves. It's their unresolved problem.
People don't look at ugly people. Its like staring at the sun. You ignore them. Think better about yourself
"strangers staring at you" I always wonder if I have toothpaste all over my face or something when this happens lol
I usually think they look at me just to confirm that I'm not attractive at all after seeing my face! It really is the weirdest thing to know for sure why people (well, men mostly) look at me.
@@joannazian7699 Tbh I tend to stare a lot at people who I find attractive, sometimes I can't get my eyes off of them, just wondering "What is it that make them so attractive?". So yeah, don't think that people that stare at you confirms that you don't look attractive, it certainly is quite the contrary ^^ (i'm a woman but i guess men works the same for this).
@@eleanessa_ Thanks. Perhaps that's the case. I notice a lot of glances, more than staring tbh (but then I am quite shy so I don't tend to observe them any longer than just noticing). That's why I always think they probably were curious and just glanced to see my face. And at that point they determine there is nothing interesting there 🤣 (talking about self-confidence...😂)
@@eleanessa_ Sometimes I can't stop starring at someone and I don't realize that I made them uncomfortable, it's like I'm kinda lost in the moment, it's so embarrassing honestly
fr i know i messed up on how i looked that morning when people stare, im filled with anxiety wondering if people notice it
Looks like I am ugly after all, nothing of this happens to me 😔
You are not ugly at all
No one is ugly , we are just born in this judgemental society
@@santosh9395 can't we just accept that some people are not that good looking, u are invalidating them pushing this agenda. Rather than telling people that their worth lies in what kind of person they are u are teaching them that being ugly is some kind of sin.
I believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way. Some possess outer beauty, by having a pleasant and attractive appearance, while others have inner beauty, which is determined by their inner world. Unfortunately, many people out there judge others only by their outer beauty and don't try to discover their inner one. Which often makes us forget that a person isn't solely their body - but rather their soul as well. In my mind, it's far more important who we are inside rather than outside. There's a saying - "A beautiful face will age and a perfect body will change, but a beautiful soul will always be a beautiful soul." Anything material/physical is fickle and temporary. Anything moral and spiritual, in turn, is eternal. At least, that's what I believe in.
@@santosh9395 that's some how worst then saying your ugly don't make people live with delusional mindset
@@santosh9395 cope harder lol
(PS. I'm also ugly lol)
I always believed that I was ugly. Thanks to you for confirming that.
This is your daily reminder there is a difference between being pretty and attractive.
its easier to control your attractiveness levels
You have it or don't
I got "rarely get compliments"
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to sign up to be a Calvin Klein model 😎
A lot of these can be when you are nice and friendly to others
People also get angry when they see you too and can’t help but stare like they’re going to murder you, or go out of their way not to help you, or assume you are already privileged even if it’s far from the truth.
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I've always assumed when people stare at me in public its because I look ugly or my outfit is bad. I think we need to separate this from personal insecurities and the outside world and just learn to love ourselves and stop wondering what others think.. Im still learning myself.
its also about confidence. if you wear that cute fit you wanna wear and rock it, have a good time wearing it, people will notice.
Actually most people rate themselves as having "above average" attractiveness, which is statistically impossible. Most people actually overestimate their own attractiveness and this makes sense considering people tend towards behaviours which reinforce their values and beliefs and protect their self-esteem
People say that’s what they think they are but most people actually have a lot of insecurities about how they look and most don’t think there a 7 out of ten that just sounds like the right thing to say
Bruv people called me a 7 I never believed that I believed I was a 5 and did a test to prove it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah well i used to think I was 7 until I saw beautiful girls around me ☠ Now I feel like a -7
I'm a young adult male that's receives a lot of smiles from middle aged women. I'm not sure if I should be flattered or worried.
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They see something special in you 🤣🤣🤣
At least you get notice. All I get is ghetto latina and homeless women. 🤢🤮
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I'm an older guy, and a couple of times, recently, I have caught young girls, in their 20s do a double take, and then a shy smile at me! What an ego boost for an older guy! 😀
The world is running out of resources. Ice caps will be gone in the next 20 years..
Sounds about alright
No you Are the bad place🧍🏿♀️
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How dare you ! You have stolen my dreams😢🥱
it's ok cause Jesus is gonna come back
"strangers stare at u " daily life of every woman
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Daily life of every handsome man. Including randomly being touched by you women, sexual harassed, and not being able to do anything about because we're men and we're supposed to suck it up
Correction: "daily life of every ATTRACTIVE woman"
Like please... Many women out there might as well be men with the way they be looking. 💀
Omg It Means I am Attractive Thanks For Telling because they all are happening With Me 😊⚡🎁
Yes you are!
Yeah they treat me differently, they ignore me 🙂
They follow me like I'm a magnet and try to talk to me
I don't know About others. But I'm beautiful to myself. And I feel confident about it. Don't give two flying shit about it
Armiaaaa purple u💜
Ya,that's right, I feel it many times on different different places
And having the mental stability to admitting that you aren't as attractive is a sign of mental strength and good personality, don't give up kings 💎 👑 💎
Fact no. 9 and 10 are exactly my situation.
I'm normal woman but I'm damn confident! Soon they started to talk to me..I get almost what I want. But honestly I love to make my self comfortable and make others comfortable
11: you become succeed in your life without doing anything
People just dont compliment me in general, I mean people compliment certain personality traits I have but when it comes to looks they just dont ;-;
"You realise you are ugly af when none of the rules apply to you"👁️💧👄💧👁️
Yep, Im definitely ugly. But I am still nice.
God made no one ugly
Note: if its a joke then 😂😂😂😂
If not then thats the message
@@dracian8859 ok let's say I am not the most pleasant one to look at :)
@@cozyrosie 😂😂😂 nice one
@@dracian8859 the person named no one:
@@pguser 😂😂😂😂 dang it boy
You got me good
The reverb god dang.
For me, this video is “10 things you’ll never see if you’re unattractive”
This is very interesting and I thank you for making these shorts bc psychology is a heavy subject so little bits at a time make it easy to handle
I just took this video as subliminal and affirmations to reprogram my sub-conscious mind cause it my time to shine like a f*cking goddess.
Your confidence>>>>
this is very true!! I started to notice I don't get a lot of compliments
Thanks for sharing!!
The first time i ever got a compliment was from an older lady who worked as a cashier
I had my winter coat and she looked at me, smiled and said "i see you're once again dressed very dapper as always" that just made my week.
She'd often just mention how lovely it is to see a young man dressed so nicely, i usually wear SA leather boot, SA sarka pants and a flannel tucked in and it just makes me so happy every time
Thanks for sharing!
Damn. So people complimenting my gains are false.
I had a girl do a triple take on me while driving recently. Never had that happen before. Still hoping I randomly see her again.
Wow! That’s crazy. This happens to me often. Now I’m flattered. I can be real hard on myself. So this is nice to hear.
I'm so glad!
"Strangers stare at you" thank you, I've noticed all the old creeps staring at me on the bus while I'm going to school 💀
Love that!
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@bolshevik101 really REALLY casual
I watched two guys walk into a fruit stand at the same time. I have turned the heads of teenagers. I get compliments very rarely, but people are surprised I am 46 years old.
am working through self criticisms. I also believe the most attractive thing is a beautiful Soul. Looks are just a thing, but the good deeds of people can change the world!
The thing is though how are we supposed to feel attractive if we don't get compliments now and again. I don't care what anyone says people like to get em
Absolutely getting compliments feels great
@@aamirrazak3467 yeahhhh some ppl don't get em
@@JustMalcolm914 * men
Double it and give it to the next person
I scrutinize everyone equally as much as myself
You deserved the like for putting all 10 signs in one vid ❤
Last compliment I got was grandma calling me a handsome boy
People not complimenting you on your looks means you're attractive 0_0. I wouldn't give people who are ugly compliments because it would be insincere. If someone compliments you in an insincere way that also probably means you're not attractive to them, not the other way around.
I got 6 compliments from my class in a year from different people and they usually don't compliment people, but now this thing is telling me that getting no compliments is good💀 bruh
I didn't agree with that one. Why would they not compliment someone if the person looks nice?
Thank you space robot
And there's this one.
People call you by your first name but you have no clue who they are. It's always been a thing with me so I just usually acknowledge them and try to call them by their name evertime I would see them. My mom, who was a model told me that wen people call you by your first name it was a compliment and learning and saying their name was a sense of respect towards them. Peace
Okay. This is me at work. Everyone knows my name. I'm thinking why does everyone know my name? I'm not in a supervisor position where that would be necessary. Then I have to incognito learn their name because,well, I should greet them back and not just awkwardly say hey, how are?
bruh your mom was a model, of course you gon get her model genes 🤣🤣
All of this happens with me accept rarely getting compliments because I get a lot of compliments regarding my beauty
"strangers stare at you" fleeing my totalled car after committing manslaughter
not me .. none of the things happen to me .. now I feel my gut feeling and me is always right.. lol!!😆😆
I only match - getting no compliments 😆😆 now, I am confused I am attractive or not
Wow, this confirmed that I’m ugly
I guess I’m cute but I’m still going to apply pressure with myself so I don’t let myself go😅
This is crucial, the moment one starts to get comfortable is the moment he starts to de-level
@@armoredlumberjack1999 facts in the past when I quit working out having had achieving my dream body I got lazy and had to start over again definitely a lesson worth learning
I'm ugly but i love myself😊
If u love yourself u can live happy life don't care about other people judgement
"People act different around you."
That's why I have business cards that allege I am a Bornean exotic jellyfish salesperson. It's unique and I get a laugh upon introduction.
Ha. My life in a nut shell. That was dope what he said about self assessment.
Bro i get all of these (cept the duck lips lmao) , i guess i really am attractive..... BEHOLD MY POWER~!
nice guys the 9. point fits me💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Here’s a clue (if your male): ask your friends to rate you on a scale of 1-10, and add enough to make it one
Except that I too don't get compliments, none of this happens😞
Confirmed, I am not attractive as none of these 10 things happen to me.
Hey if you ugly it’s fine, I know you call the whole “everyone is beautiful” thing BS and I salute ya cause I feel the same. If everyone is beautiful, then no one is beautiful. We just need to accept that some people are more attractive than others, and some are unattractive and that’s ok.
People vomit automatically when seeing me.
People stare at me but it's not because I'm attractive, I'm just that ugly
9 hits hard🥺
I don't know the stranger stare at you can be... of any reason. A guy once intensely watched me, like literally went out of his way to look in my face (because I was looking down while walking and had headphones on). I just gave him a disgusted look and continued to walk. My guess isn't he found me attractive, I think he was high on something his intensity was off the charts
Hugs not drugs
@@michaelzero5278 I would not of hugged him, like 6 feet, Sir
@@izzyduh3509 your right, follow your instinct.
One thing I’ve learned as a young teen and a college student about “being attractive” physically or what, “don’t even try to be”, or even try to wonder if you are attractive or “in” coz you’ll be an object for bullying! Somehow some girls think you are above them or trying to be above them when you were never having any thoughts about that nor had any thoughts of competing with anybody else. Here in america I guess some girls and some people can make you feel ugly till you kill yourself. We never had that in the Philippines but it’s still not good in a couple of my experiences that I never had to talk about it to my mom or share them with anyone (except my husband), until I remember it again nowadays.
Some of these girls just know how to make you feeI you don’t belong. Coz naturally all people innately want to belong. It is just so messed up though how these people play with rejection. They are hurt girls hurting girls who are growing towards maturity. Some of these girls can make you believe lies they bully about you, and they will kill you by putting you down to depression, or put you to retreat from the world, and so you kinda like: just change your name to a boy’s name, or act/dress up you are a boy/boyish even when you know you are not a boy. Just do something to make yourself ugly or different from them and act like you are something they don’t feel threatened by so they leave you alone. It was just a short period of time like a few weeks or a month for me, but it felt like a long time back then. But when God becomes our strength, it’s double sided victory from these kinds of people. You get yourself back but stronger, and you are away far from these kinds of girls who don’t grow up. One thing I want to protect my daughter from are these kinds of girls. I’d rather her be friends with boys than with these kinds of girls. Or build friends with healthy girls one at a time where she doesn’t have to be in peer groups where there’s a lot of bad influences. And that she doesn’t have to feel like she “belongs”, coz she belongs in the right places and post, and blessings God has already put her in and will put her in towards the future. She already belongs to God and she is more than enough. There’s a reason why books of wisdom before also gives wisdom about protecting women from other women. I’ve read the book of Sirach and there’s some wisdom from it.
Don’t even try to be attractive or go in the rabbit hole of wanting to be, or to be liked by people or be “in” or “belong”, coz that ain’t a place to thrive. Just be who you are in the reality and with God, and you’re not gonna be touched by those demons down those rabbit holes anymore.
Truth is when you are even trying to be liked or searching ways to be attractive, you are participating to your own destruction already. God made you beautiful as you are, physically and spiritually, wherever you are at in your journey. And His grace is more sufficient in all our weaknesses as we grow. We are His workmanship, and not just beautifully created in His image, we are also beautiful in His sight as we let the blood of Jesus also cover us! And that is actually more than enough! He has made you more than enough!
It also becomes different when you are adult and have matured from negative experiences on this matter. You’ll recognize these bullies easily and know how to avoid these kinds of women, or they will but just be traitors by your side. Some women who never healed from rejection out there are prowling around roaring looking for someone to devour. They are many. I thought I’ve learned to be kind and love these kinds of women somehow, but some broken women out there who have not also healed from their experienced rejection have actually become evil women the book of proverbs constantly warn men from. Mostly they are women who have been promiscuously living and have children out of wedlock. They are ever learning but never truly coming to the knowledge of truth. They grow in idolatry and trying to find all the mediums to be liked or draw people in or draw their victims to themselves.
If these kind of women are jealous of you coz they can’t have what you have anymore( like matters they’ve already destroyed or loose in their lives by not obeying God and by being loose); if they can’t touch you, they prey on you by preying on the one you are one with first, if you are married. These women know what men’s weaknesses are and use it to their own advantage to hurt you and keep bullying you. And bwalah, these kind of woman have breached in your house, marriage, and life without even noticing and without knowing who she is. She will bully you through your husband . It’s very evil how these women can infect an already broken men also and destroy their marriage. Men who are already trying to walk on a straight path.
For me, as a married person, I only do things to look attractive (even though I know I’m more than enough) only to my spouse now. It was hard to do it in the beginning, but later I learned that you can do it for love, or to love your spouse. Coz if you are married, you are not alone. You don’t only take a real good care of yourself when you are caring and tending and beautifying yourself, you also take a real good care of your husband as a person with different needs and wants. And it’s a different kind of feel good thing. You feel good coz you actually did something for someone.
I’ve been through tough times but one thing is for sure, God has always been with me and growing me. I’m currently going through the toughest one in my life yet but, I know God is with me and I know He will get me through this one victoriously again!
All of this can also be true for an unattractive person
Nice video, keen analysis conducted
Glad you liked it!
Welcome !!
I always get compliments from my classmates by my looks.
why are you speaking directly in my brain
8. People act differently around you
Me: *secretly stalks her to see how she acts around other people
I started looksmaxing like 3 months ago, i switched up my hairstyle, changed my clothing style, my swag and started hitting the gym and i do observe strangers especially women stare at me. Before i started on self improvement the thought of someone staring at me seemed like a dream, now i feel very uncomfortable and uneasy to walk around.
Yeah this is what I tell myself every night before sleep
so i’m assessing myself right. im pretty ugly
To paraphrase Jim Jeffries, I know I'm a 5 because nobody on the street turns their heads to look at me, or points their finger and laugh.
I’ve heard it both ways. I’ve heard this and also, the assumption that we are actually uglier than we think we are😂
I've never got a compliment for my looks... I must be a model
idk but do other people around you get compliments?
people stare at me and I'm still ugly 😂
I love how almost all the photos they showed were of girls 🤣 I was like he’s not wrong tho-
Thanks for the information.
Any time!
Holy shit I'm drop dead gorgeous according to this video.
I'm a 10 of out 10 baby! ❤
The thing is that I don't want only my "boys" showing these signs
9 and 10 are hilarious 😂😂😂 So many self deprecating jokes 😂
Me after knowing that I’m experiancing most of this: let’s destroy our self-worth once agin 😊
"People stare at you"
me, not even recognizing someone has feelings for me when he tells me about it...
The rarely get compliments one seems counter intuitive, but it makes sense. If you're attractive, people assume you know it and thus don't feel the need to remind you.
Nah I think I’m the only person that finds myself attractive and I’m okay with that tbh.
Liar us juss tryna get ppl to say ur pretty which u are
Pretty much none of these happen to me and I think rarely getting compliments doesn't have anything to do with people thinking I don't need compliments
Idc as long as I’m not ugly I’m good 😂
I get the feeling of always being stared at whenever I go out which makes me kinda anxious and insecure, but that was the pre pandemic era. Now you can't force me to take off my mask unless to drink or eat cause people stare way less
Most of them happens to me so I guess I am pretty
Me too