Yep, 4 weeks out of a relationship and no contact straight away. Dump her right back and tell her to stay out your life. Make the ex feel the loss too because they'll feel it at some point because at the beginning they hold all the power and will still think they can have you if they want. Take that safety net away no matter how much it hurts because they'll soon be comparing anyone else to you.
Salad Facts.. I just broke up with my gf today. Best decision I've made in a while. She really brought me down and wasn't a good partner. Love is only feelings for most girls. Or so it seems :/
thanks, going through a break up right now and its one worst feeling ive ever felt. They just get over you way too fast and i will never understand that.
I know the feeling ......I’m just now starting to feel better but today I called her and she talked so normally Idk why I reached out feels like I took myself back a little but still from when we first broke up 2 months ago I feel much better with time
Zero Hero It seriously is. One minute you’re texting silly things and next thing you know you break up. Worst case is when you try to resolve it by talking but the other is stubborn and doesn’t want to
@@SA-ms5lx no they are not ... they were waiting for you to comeback in this month but you did the same thing. the different they are less loyal than men because they feel more safer near men.
Billy bob bruh i feel you but you handled the relationship like a true warrior. You gave her the best and all you could. Its up to her to decide. If she doesnt appreciate any of them, it means she doesnt feel comfortable or its just too early for her to love. You deserve better bruh. I hope you are feeling better now.
Going through a breakup of over 3.5 years. My first relationship, man the feeling of sadness and loneliness is crushing. The hardest part for me is the image I had of our future, gone in a matter of seconds. Stay strong everyone out there, you’re not alone with this and we’ll get through it.
Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours.... He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.
Some One I maybe on a troll account but bro same it sucks man. I can’t stop thinking of her but you just have to give the girl space. If she texts you back she loves you. Do not contact her at all!!
KRISTAL SUNUWAR yo man, im waiting for my girlfriend right now. Sweating and crying, so damn scared to break up with her. been together for 5 1/2 years now... I feel your pain
I just got dumped by this girl that I've been dating for a year. And i gave her everything she was my world. Its hard to get over someone that you thought you had a future with.
Take it easy. I went through something similar and it taught me to never depend on other people for happiness or to make someone the sole purpose of my life. Take his advice and don’t self sabotage yourself. It’s painful but don’t run away from that pain, face it and use it to propel you forward in life
Same shit happened to me three weeks ago, she said "she needed time" but we all know that time doesn't exist, but the way that she's acting makes me feel like this isn't over...
-be with Friends to feel better -try to Focus on being your best version -not start sleeping arround -take your time (👑) -be "selfish" or please yourself, workout, new Hobbies and so on WE all Go through the Same Guys. Keep your head Up.👑
I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours.... He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.
To all my brothers out facing this struggle... My wife of 21 years left me 5 yrs ago. The pain was unbearable. However, I am in a much better place now... It takes time. It will get worse before it gets better, but it will get better. The beauty of rock bottom is, there's nowhere to go but up.... Peace... Stay strong... Good bless
I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.
3 years here, strangers ya I know that feeling... I gave her everything and never wronged her and yet she broke up with me like I was the worst person on the planet
My ex left me for a guy she met at the pool at her apartment complex. Her depression allows her to not be happy and enter a situation to be with a man who has the same goals as her: to be promiscuous. It’s a shame and these people need help before they ever hurt someone they love. Because they do love them, but rather would be selfish in every which way.
Woss.....=D.....just kidding, The little guy up the page talks some good things. Work out, go out, say Yes to everything, and without noticing, you will be over that mess in a moment ;) . You are awesome guys! Don”t forget that =D
This is exactly what I needed to hear, break ups are always hard especially when you truly care for the person. I’m gonna focus on myself and just take it one day at a time.
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and 7 months on February. I'm still trying to heal, I'm still trying to manage. I promise all of you, it'll get better.
true. y miss her laughs. dude im sad becas im thinking y cant find such girl anymore. that pain is crazy like totaly crazy. respect for people who moved trough that shit
I love how supportive everyone is! The fact that everyone of us is/was going through this and will/already recovered and became once again confident just shows us that this pain is temporarly. Stay strong kings🤴
When your girlfriend becomes your best friend, then your friend, then a complete stranger. Happens in two days. Then she gets a new bf. EDIT: Just keep going you'll make it through king.
@@iojDRE may god bless you Brother......... May u will get the right one for you...... If she did that.... She's not the right one for u........ Atleast she broke up with you before coming in relationship with another guy.............
Everything happens for a reason but it really does hurt and mess your head up. My crush got married to a distant relative who isn't even in the same country we're in. Anyway haven't heard anything good about her and she'd be a financial weight on me if I did get with her so thank god I didn't get with her
For all those out there going through the breakup phase,we are here for you KINGS, if you got nobody to talk to them write it down,maybe connect with some old friends,join a gym, even if someone is too stuck ,share with me or anyone here..coz i am also going through something like this and figuring out life
What we all need to understand is, we should never be invested in any person to such an extent that our own existence comes at a stand still. Always be selfish enough to prioritize your hobbies and passion, every single day.
That’s what I had in my mind during all my last relationship. « Don’t let her become your priority you will suffer». Now I realised I treated her like disposable, rejected her many times, and now I feel like the biggest loser/odiot on earth. She was the only good thing in my life and I said I don’t want it. Now I’m back in hell and it feels deeper than ever
Most definitely. Do not fall in love with these women because they are not designed to love the way you love. Yes love and cherish them but do not be so overreaching to the extent that you put your mental state into question because you don’t work out. You have to stay on your purpose because life moves forward at all times. Good look fellas!
my wife just left me after a 7 year marriage. took our 3 year old baby girl. I'm in a city that I hate far from home but I'm determined to stay close to my child. if nothing else when im an old man I want to know I did my best as a father. I've very little support here, none really. so I've been staying away from the drink and working out every day and I'm determined to dig myself out of this. I can't let it beat me. I won't spend the rest of my life in misery. to all my brothers going through the same. chin up. as the saying goes. "this too will pass" 💫
1010nedim stay positive man. make life about you. make your life the way you want it to be. walk out of that burning building and thank God you've another chance at happiness. best of luck brother.
Going through a break up, too. it sucks, but i don't have it as bad as you, so i feel weaker,lol. i hope your situation has gotten better. best of lucks, dude.
Hooked up a few times to try and get over a break up within the week. Cried and felt like shit for hours after every single one. DO NOT sleep around until you’re ready, bro.
Hope you're healing now and in a better place. There's a lot going on for humanity now. Heartbreak became the final cue for a spiritual awakening for me, every single time. Especially when family and friends were the ones hurting me
Word, agreed. There is a place and time for the rebound, but down the line. It's unfair to the woman you doing too. If they're f'ing you, they like you. They're in a different place.
It's hard to forget someone who gave you a lot to remember. I just want to say for all the guys out there that their girl broke up with them, we're here, you're not alone, we can recover from this.
I much rather have her breaking up with me, my situation is diferent and it make me extremelly sad too but in a diferent way, its because I had to break up with her, because I know I was threathing her like shit and she did not diserve it, and I didnt had feelings for her, but its very hard for me, because I know she have nobody, and that its hurting way more on her right now, she really loved me, but sadly I didnt share the same feelings, so Im feeling extremelly guilty and sad...
same with me brother.. i had to break up with her coz she never really cared about me and blamed me everytime we fought. Had to pull the plug ... but i still do miss her ..
I handled my break up as best as I could, I quit my bad habits, started going to gym, changed my work, changed my apartment. Everything started getting better and better until she came back to me. But this time I was the one who left. Coz she was there when we broke up, but I was different and proud to say I was better than I used to be.
The pain is so raw. When you want something to work and it just won’t. It feels like a death. It may be worse, because that person lives on and you know they are out there. Ugh
@@gabeadams2926 Yes, take it as an opportunity, I know it's impossible to think that right now, but as soon as you heal, you will be stronger than ever. I have been in a 5 year relationship, she sent me a text message that she wants to break up.. After 5 years, from a person you wanted to marry.. I cried over and over, didn't eat nor sleep for 2 days straight.. It sucked and I thought I won't find any other like her and guess what 😁 I did, and it was the first girl I talked to 3 weeks after the breakup. We had a date and I went there with zero expectations. The moment I saw her she blew my mind. It went all perfect, I thought it would be a 1 hour date.. We talked for nearly 5 hours, she is such a nice person inside out. Today is our second date, I'm totally happy to see her again and I'm getting her a rose. Good things come gentlemen, just be patient, there really are other fish in the sea. 😉 And eventually, you will find hapiness.
@@MrPoppy-nt5vr wow so inspiring to hear this story! Thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to help a brother out! Do you have any tips for how to meet women from your experience? I live in a large metropolitan city so I suppose for me it is a little bit more of a challenge. Nevertheless, good luck with your second date and I hope you guys have an awesome time! P.s. I hope she is the “one” for you :)
@@gabeadams2926 Thanks for the positivite wishes! I hope too! Every girl I dated was from social media / dating site. Well, I downloaded some dating apps, I think Tinder is widely renowned, and Badoo (not sure if you know that one) so I added some of my photos and some brief but honest text. The thing is everyone is different and most people behave differently. I am a very easy-going person, very honest, I never lie even though it's sometimes really hard. We had a match so I texted her and from her replies I could already tell she is different than other women. Few days later, I think it was 2 days of texting and then I decided to invite her out and she said yes - that was the 1st date. From my experience what I can recommend you to do is: - talk to people A LOT to gain some (conversation) confidence, my family, especially my grandfather really helped me, I had no idea how much he has to offer. He even predicted the breakup, but didn't sat at the time. So I took some valuable advice from him (how to react in certain situations, what to say, etc.) - be polite and fun, - be confident about yourself, - be yourself, - be honest, never ever lie - don't brag about yourself - groom, - bring her flowers, she will love it - the last and most important - be gentlemen (open doors or car doors and so on..) - I almost forgot, DONT SPEED when she's with you in your car 😀 I hope this helps, text me anytime, I'm glad to help. 😁
Scary how you think someone is your soulmate and they tell you they want forever and theyll never leave you only to never talk ever again, only leaving memories that could never be.
Happened to me. It's painful. Love is great at the beginning and painful in the end. Women tend to become very cold when they end this relationship. They do recover fast unlike men who feel distressed about it for a really long time. But yes men have to become more supportive of each other.
Will never understand how someone can tell you everything still infinity for you love hasn’t changed just to wake up 2 days later and walk away without a argument even the day before she walked away she was worried about what I was doing ? Asking me what I did last night was I home alone why’d I stay up so late etc obviously u still gaf so how you walk away literally a few hours later during that same exact convo for no reason as if I did something to u I asked her why she asking so much she said ok so and then I didn’t respond cuz I fell asleep n I woke up to a second message from her saying I’m not feeling this nomore ? I feel so lost I couldn’t even get a reason why women are cold creatures never again once I get over this breakup I’m never emotionally connecting to another female they are not shit especially today’s women
Thanks alpha for helping me as a kid to get the confidence to improve myself, to upscale my personality, to help me grow as a person. And now helping me as an adult to get over relationships, thanks for helping me relearn the meaning of life, thanks for helping me ease up my pain. You are a legend. Idk if you will ever read this comment or not, but you have touched and changed my life in so many better ways. I am watching your content after life 2-3 years and it still feels like you are the only saviour. The saviour that once helped a kid and now the savious that is helping an adult. You are doing some awesome work. I love you brother! ❤️
This guy knows what he talks about. I wish I found this video a few months ago. Anyway, I did back then most of what he said. I also don't recommend joining forums, etc. I see people doing this and then they become addicted to them and spend more months reflecting on their breakup than they should. I never thought the pain was so harsh. In a away, it doesn't even make sense because nobody died. But it feels as if and you can't control it.
Neko Tajni absolutely. It is mourning,just not over a physical death,yet a death of a partnership. This partnership that you fully enjoyed for the most part. (Myself included) it comes crashing in waves almost. Tough to concentrate at all,everything reminds you of that person,...songs,places,events,food...ect. Fucking brutal. Going through it now and it's been 6 months. Just stay the course. And believe in you.
@@MrStano-jy3ts problem is I'm not really attractive and my social/ confidence levels suck because of it so it's hard for me to get laid in general especially with the ones I actually want vs the ones I get
The problem is the idea of "the one", there is no such thing. Focus on creating a life that makes you happy and eventually the "right one" not the one will show up in your life. Meanwhile keep having fun, enjoying your life, bettering yourself and don't ever settle for less than what your heart really desires.
I needed to hear this, especially “the right one” bit. I’ve never been one to open up easily, I mean I’ve had youtube for years and this is my first comment ever. I felt like she was the one person I could open up to but things don’t always work out the way you want it them to be. Love is not enough sometimes, even if you want it to. Hopefully I can feel better tomorrow but today it hurts.
Great advice for a woman too. I've been single for 5 years just working on myself. I lost 30 pounds and started a business. You have to be at the top of your game before you go back out in the field. Your advice applies to both genders, no booze, no sleeping around, work on yourself! Thanks.
My girl just broke up w me a couple days ago, I didn’t care about her feelings and didn’t give her my respect. I really truly realized what I had after the brake up and it really tore me apart. She was loyal loving and beautiful, the only thing a man can ask for in a relationship and I fucked it up...
Thanks alpha, been in a two year long relationship that I ended today. It’s 3:30 am and I’ve been staring at a wall for the last two hours. I don’t even know how to begin to heal.
Nick Papas just broke up with my girlfriend, was only together 6 months however we lost a baby and & have known her since high school. So for almost 7 years.
john wallas I’m feeling better, it’s still not the easiest, however it does get easier every day. Just remember why you broke up, don’t focus too much on the good times because in the end, the bad times overweighted them.
It gets better I'm at 41 days of no contact I think of her a little but mostly because we have the same friend group. Stay strong go into no contact and work on yourself physically emotionally and mentally
I'm in the same position now man, relationship is on the rocks. Through past experience I've noticed that the natural emotion is empathy, but this will ALWAYS ruin whats left if you act upon it. Instead of softening your resolve toughen it and stand by your principles. Firmness in the face of break up can reassert respect between partners and potentially save things from ending.
3 years here and this guy really helps me a lot too. Keep yourself together bro, whatever you and your girlfriend have done in the past does not mean anything anymore, it's just you making yourself better from now on. Hope you get well soon :))
Been over 6 months and the horrible pain in my stomach hasn't gone away...the thought of her face looking at me and smiling hasn't left my mind...I really wish it would leave because I'm tired of constantly thinking of how we once were
@@Gofastno I'm scared.. I've loved only one girl in my life and she ended a 6.5 years relationship like it was nothing. Like she didn't care anymore. She loved me soo much and I did too. Yesterday we broke up and I'm really scared. I don't know if I'll ever be able to love again or do I even want to. It's hurting soo bad I'm really freaking out how to deal with this in a lockdown period. I really don't want to feel like this and I'm watching several videos about it. Can't talk or react about it at home. I fear going into depression. Really feeling helpless.
@@rajaryaman4478 bro same my relationship just ended a few days ago we’ve been together for 2.5 years it hurts bro cause everything you thought was going to happen isn’t anymore but you’ll get over it just like I will too.... at the end of the day it’s either a leasing or a blessing I really thought me and this girl were going to be forever but she lost feelings after 2 years :/
I was dating this girl for a while but she turned into a cold hearted bitch. I wanna keep it together but she wasn't making it difficult. After we broke up, I felt a weird mix of numb, hurt, and self-loathing. It all came to a moment where I started watching this guys videos and it inspired me to actually move on and grow up. I started working out so I had to buy new clothing. I got the motivation to excel academically. I felt a little bit insecure, like I was cool on the outside so I had to back it up on the inside. As a result, I picked up all these hobbies and read awesome books. Months later, I realized I changed for the better. Now every night before I hit the hay I pray a bit, hoping she and I could reconcile things but at the same time hoping I never meet her again because I surpassed her greatly
@@thomaswilliams7212 yeah! I've been confused sometimes before about how never brought a girl into my life but the bully got the girl (I'm 18 btw) but now I have this girl in my life and shes just amazing (like so amazing I'm speechless) we both go to church believe in God laugh, smile hangout all the time make future plans to hang out all the time. She knows I like her but she said she likes me as a friend for now so God willing we end up together.
A good quote comes to mind: "pain is temporary. It may last a minute, and hour, a day, or even a year but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If you quit however it will last forever"
Embrace that pain boys, dont give in to it, use it as fuel to make yourself better, your BODY better. I ship off to boot in 4 weeks, my girl wasn't ready for the commitment, I cant blame her for that, but it still hurts all the same. This just happened today. Im waking up early tomorrow to hit the gym, and have a bad ass day with my friends. Surround yourself with people that'll help you in these situations, not ones that will laugh at you.
Yeah breakups suck and even taking the advice is a challenge in itself because naturally you want to express your sorrow. However much you loved that person your pain will equally match it. But in the end brothers you have a choice and that’s to sit at home in your own pity and be undesirable to anyone and just feel awful or go out and start working on yourself and either you’ll win that person back or attract a new girl that’s everything you ever wanted. Coming from a person who was just dumped yesterday I just went out and got a gym membership and I’m gonna start playing my guitar again and do things to work on myself. Life will bless me with the right one someday.
I’m 18, after knowing a certain young woman for around 6 years who came to be one of my greatest friends, we started dating. During the time that we were dating, my friends started becoming busy with careers and other things, being that most of my friends are around 3 years older than me. I only have about 5 really close friends, including this girl that I was dating. Anyway, we ended up breaking up because I felt that I wasn’t mature enough to handle my lustful thoughts, and she also is weak in that area. It just wasn’t a good mix at the time so we very reluctantly decided to end things. But now, because my friends were incredibly busy making a future for themselves, which is 100% understandable, she was pretty much my only friend, and we had a great emotional connection, she was the first girl I ever felt I truly loved. Now I’m left feeling like I have no one left, which could considered be a good thing because it has so far helped my relationship with God, but I still feel so alone..can anyone relate?
I’m 20 and was involved in a long distance relationship with a girl from my hometown. Being at different colleges we would talk everyday and when we did see each other everything was perfect. Although neither of us feel like we could keep it going all throughout college. I feel like dog shit thinking if I just switched colleges it could workout. The only friends I have here are my three roommates. I can sorta relate I guess. Hope things get better for you man.
I know how you feel. I've left everything and every one behind because my girlfriend told me it was better for us. Now I finally stood up for myself after 3 years with no friends or people around me. But Hey, things will get better with time. I'm going to the gym a lot and it builds confidence. Just hang on.
I can relate so much to u bro same thing here I just turned 18 and I broke up with the shawty I was with since she was someone I started getting used to be with her most of the time and like u said we had a great connection as well but when we broke up is good cz you finally get to take more of yourself then actually worrying for that other person my advice is that it is hard to move on because you get used to be with that person but don’t let them bring you down bro you the shit and the people that decides to leave they the ones missing out summer coming up hoe season you feel me enjoy and don’t rush into relationship meet new people cz trust me you gonna get over it once you let yourself try new things 🤯
Matthew Doyon we live by choice. Gods got a plan and opens doors, you just need to "choose" to walk through them doors. Look after yourself, meet new friends and most of all remember your goals. Have a good day bro. What doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
I don't know if it gets better. Yes, you recover from breakups, but the next relationship will bring you even lower and at the end of the day we become pessimistic and jaded.
My ex broke up with me very suddenly after a year and a half. I immediately cut contact and forced myself to go to the gym with friends, hang out with them, go to some parties. Within about 2 weeks I was over it all. Met another girl a month later, we hit it off and now we're both happily in a new relationship.
Seth Ames Trying to follow your steps. A few days into it. No contact and no real intention to have contact. Hope things go as well for me as they did you. Congrats.
My fiancee (which I had honestly been really really good to) ended our engagement in starbucks a few days ago. As I sat down (already anxious and stressed), I tried to take a sip of her coffee and she responded by putting her hand up as a stop sign and went "ehh, social distancing"... I just can't imagine the level of cold and heartlessness when you already know you're about to hurt someone this much and just strip them of every bit of dignity and treat them like an infectious disease!!! It made me feel not only sad that the engagement had ended, which was hard enough to deal with on its own, but just made me feel so so worthless. And then she even went on to block me and call my best friend to say she "200% didn't love me", "didn't want to see me" and "the whole relationship was one-sided" that I loved her so much but she didn't love me at all. My self worth hit rock bottom and it sickens me that even after how she treated me I still love her and deep down I still crave her approval and validation... but it's the truth and I gotta find a way to fix that as its surely not healthy But am doing the right things: - Accept the suffering as it comes and not get a quick fix by sleeping around or finding a rebound etc. like i usually might have done. - no alcohol - eat healthy - Proper sleep - work out or do sports every day - Work on my self growth and try to learn from the experience and find validation in myself rather than from her or anyone else - Focus on a new project of my own Basically just treat myself as someone who's valuable despite her clearly thinking I am not.
@@nicolesandy6814 no, I don't need help to get my ex back... A woman who leaves me in the heartless the way that she did clearly isn't the woman I thought she was and isn't the kind of woman that I'd want as a mother to my children anyway.
I thought she was my world but I realized she just used me. I gave her everything, and realized that it wasn’t her that made me happy it was me. I was the one who initiated everything and put effort. So I got over it pretty quickly when I realized I was in love with my self. Lesson I learned is that looks aren’t everything and never to fall in love so quickly.
Im broken too, And honestly there was no closure and all. planning to talk it out with this person before i really start moving on, but rereading all our conversation i realized the tone and the things she was saying that she doesnt really want to commit bt she will stay and be the same. I made it my decision to just move on,not bc i wnt to jump or smethng bt its more of its clear that shes nt rlly ready at anythng. :/ and i can also see that i cnt even say anythng to be proud of myself. so i thnk ill jst go on my way and get my life together idk where it will take me. idk hayyss
@Ben Lear I feel good now I gained a lot after all of that and I learned that I will never put so much time and feelings into someone that didn’t do the same for me bro
a good cure, try it out. Eat healthy Work out get in shape and look awesome. You will no doubt think to yourself this is what shes missing when you look in the mirror. Great mental strength.
I never thought I’d actually need this video when I saw it came out. I’ve had breakups but got through them okay. But now I understand all the feelings he describes, imagine getting used to texting good morning first thing in the morning and having a little 20min call before going to sleep. It’s tough to get over. Especially when it becomes routine having that person around.
I'm going through it now. Happend in the beginning of Dec. Feels like I'm in a fog trapped in a mirror fun house but the reflections are each a memory of good times that just hurts.
@@ayklaz Late reply but yeah I did get over it. It took me that whole year because I didn’t know what to do for a good while. But eventually decided to focus on mental health and being more active since even before the breakup I had some anxiety problems here and there, and I wasn’t exactly very active either. Lol it worked for me though. Can’t be bothered to overthink when you’re brain is busy elsewhere.
For those who are going through some shit right now, to add on to this awesome video I just wanna say DO NOT PLAY THE VICTIM. Immediately work towards doing some gangster shit and love yourself more than ever. Step your game up. Hit the damn gym. Socialize and get out there. Do not give in to the sorrow. You'll come out of this a much stronger man!!! Stay strong you sexy fucks!
Gf broke up with me after 3 years of being together. Although I sort of saw it coming, I am still absolutely crushed. It's been 3 months now and I still cry almost every day. I still love her and want her back, I don't know what to do. I don't really have any close friends to talk to or do stuff with... It feels like this is killing me slowly. Never felt so bad in my entire life.
+Doppelkeks7 if you want to get over this, first, you have to accept that she is gone, let her go. This is what stops you from meeting another person and get other your ex. I understand you because I've lived a break up, and now I am living another, but I am not going to let down my hands. Look, time's healing, but if you want to get over this faster you have to do what the guy tells in the video. Be a man and stand up when life hits you hard, because it's not important how hard you hit, but it's important how hard you get hit by life and you continue moving forward ;)
Valeriu Donea Thanks for yur support, I really appreciate it. All the things you guys say, it sounds so easy, but really it's incredibly hard to do. But although I still feel horrible, it feels good to know that there's people out there who understand how I feel, people who have been through the same. People who are trying their best to help me. Thank you very much man, I hope I can make it through this and I feel better soon...
+Doppelkeks7 you will man, you will, just put a little effort and once you start doing that, you will see that it is easier to control your emotions, however if you never start, you will never know the outcome. Time's healing everything, just don't give up. Try reading as much information as you can about how to get over a break up. There is plenty of it, just google a bit ;) I am in the same situation as you, believe me, it's hard for me too, but I see it as a challenge plenty of new experience. This experience will make you as well stronger and once you get over it and you will, you will remember my words.
+Doppelkeks7 2 days ago had a break up and our relationship was a 5 years and, same here saw it coming. The main thing hurts is I dont know the real reason behind it.
to everyone dealing with a breakup rn you’re not alone and me and the people in the comments have your back. me and my gf broke up after a year and a half basically because she didn’t wanna be in a relationship anymore and wanted to be single shit fucking sucks it’s bens two months and i’m still not over her i gave my everything to this girl and just like that without thinking twice it was gone. you aren’t going through this alone confide with us it’s better to stick together now that we feel alone and abandoned, i thought it couldn’t get better and i would always feel like shit without her but u gotta push through and keep your head high even tho it seems hard because at the end of the day the tunnel ends and the suns shows up and at the end of the day after night comes the daylight. there’s brighter days ahead of u i promise
Stay strong man. Happened about a month ago for me. You can either do one of two things. 1. Sulk and feel down and sorry for yourself. Or 2. Go fuck life, be selfish and just focus on you. Go get a fresh haircut, buy some new clothes, and hangout with friends as much as possible brutha. Use the bitterness, and the bad feelings you get when you think about it to destroy, and I mean DESTROY at the gym. It's what I been doing and honestly it will help a lot. Best of luck to you man.
I had met someone new and now I'm heartbroken all over again. Fuk my life. What is it with girls? You love someone so deeply and they get there ego fix and move on to the next man.
I cheated on the woman I love, because I didn’t realize I wasn’t in love anymore. She broke up with me now I have a whole in my hearts. I no longer want to talk to anyone until I work on myself and learn what I really want. I even rejected someone who pretty much through themselves at me. Sleeping around just didn’t sit right with me. Now I’m sad and depressed and currently thinking about joining a church for guidance.
Been there man, you’re a man that made a mistake don’t label yourself and you have to get everything time to heal. Maybe there will a next time or maybe there will be a next one, but don’t stop doing things to better yourself.
God bless you brotha! If you want a chat let me know brotha, im happy to listen my man. Remember God allows us to go through things to grow man. LESSONS
I went through this. Man, I always stayed home and literally did nothing but cry on my bed. Don't do it! He's right. You stay home and keep thinking about the bitch who left you, than you gonna be in a big big problem. I started losing weight, I had panic attack and I ended up in emergency. True. I'm not lying. It's painful as fuck but if you go out and have fun with friends at the beach or somewhere, you gonna feel a lot better and start to move on slowly...
I know exactly what you're saying. I just got a panic attack today and it sucked. There are more than enough people around you who really do care about you. All you have to do is reach for their helping hand.
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@Den Notver Move on bro. Long as you didn't cheat or beat....you did alright. You can't make women want to be with you. They are unstable and move from dude to dude all the time. Nothing you can do about that. Take some time for yourself, work on you and focus on improving your life. In time, the lady for you will come into your life. Watch!
Same happen to me but 2 years bro and she said “she loved me and didn’t want anyone else” but literally the next day she’s already DATING another guy🤦♀️
When you really want to fall in love once again, but it just seems impossible even after years of breakup. When u just can’t picture yourself with anybody in the whole world. I am not depressed, but I just can’t do this anymore. Just can’t catch feelings anymore. Can’t share with anyone but typing this right now makes it feel better.
@Whatspp him uh u did not get what I was trying to say .the video was like teaching you how to do that like a man .but its not like that cuz dont make everything complicated you can just make it on your way .
A relationship can go from the best thing that ever happened to you to the worst thing that ever happened to you
So true
So true dude
Badass Armstrong same
Very true
Yea I agree
Anyone else going through this right now?
Yep, 4 weeks out of a relationship and no contact straight away. Dump her right back and tell her to stay out your life. Make the ex feel the loss too because they'll feel it at some point because at the beginning they hold all the power and will still think they can have you if they want. Take that safety net away no matter how much it hurts because they'll soon be comparing anyone else to you.
I will be in about an hour, wish me luck. It's time to end the bullshit I've dealt with
Yep
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Lol nah dude. Watching this shit because the wife and I have never gotten along better.
I love how a girl can say she loves you and the next day she just wants nothing to do with you
Salad Facts.. I just broke up with my gf today. Best decision I've made in a while. She really brought me down and wasn't a good partner. Love is only feelings for most girls. Or so it seems :/
being awfully generous by saying next day. after a couple minutes things can flip with her.
I really wanna know what goes around in their heads..... i mean even if I try really hard I would never play with someone´s feelings like that.
trust me it happens to girls too
she just want your money
thanks, going through a break up right now and its one worst feeling ive ever felt. They just get over you way too fast and i will never understand that.
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I know the feeling ......I’m just now starting to feel better but today I called her and she talked so normally Idk why I reached out feels like I took myself back a little but still from when we first broke up 2 months ago I feel much better with time
It's scary how someone can turn into stranger so quickly ain't it?
Zero Hero It seriously is. One minute you’re texting silly things and next thing you know you break up. Worst case is when you try to resolve it by talking but the other is stubborn and doesn’t want to
Man you are so right, that is pretty sad actually
Yeah..........................
@@SA-ms5lx no they are not ... they were waiting for you to comeback in this month but you did the same thing. the different they are less loyal than men because they feel more safer near men.
@@hassanaz1411 they ar not what bro? I write something u say something total different what are they waiting
He helped me get the girl, and now he's going to help me get over the girl.
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savage!!
Same here, I can't believe it's been 2 days for me...still having depressed days...I miss her
Darius Garcia mine broke up with me yesterday I’m going thru it lmao
@@morpheus559 really damn sorry to hear that.
Hurts when you invested so much and still doesn't work, like she took it all for granted
Billy bob bruh i feel you but you handled the relationship like a true warrior. You gave her the best and all you could. Its up to her to decide. If she doesnt appreciate any of them, it means she doesnt feel comfortable or its just too early for her to love. You deserve better bruh. I hope you are feeling better now.
Curryfishballa Ah man I appreciate that thank you! I'm okay now but now and then I'll feel down about it, but much better thanks
yes man smh
Billy bob I invested so much and she also took me for granted
took the words straight outta my mouth
Going through a breakup of over 3.5 years. My first relationship, man the feeling of sadness and loneliness is crushing. The hardest part for me is the image I had of our future, gone in a matter of seconds. Stay strong everyone out there, you’re not alone with this and we’ll get through it.
Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours....
He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.
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The exact same situation bro😭
day 380.. endless talking.
the next day.. none
the day after.. none
it feels awful.
stay strong people.
how are you now bro
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she just said she lost feelings it hurts like hell dude i need help i can’t stop thinking of her
Some One I maybe on a troll account but bro same it sucks man. I can’t stop thinking of her but you just have to give the girl space. If she texts you back she loves you. Do not contact her at all!!
FrogBoy12 2 days ago, everything was fine, know she’s just nobody..
Who else is dealing with a tough breakup during the 2020 pandemic 😕
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Unreal the pain we will get through this shit !!
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Holy shit. I just broke up 30 mins earlier. Need someone to talk rn.. Lol
KRISTAL SUNUWAR yo man, im waiting for my girlfriend right now. Sweating and crying, so damn scared to break up with her. been together for 5 1/2 years now... I feel your pain
I just got dumped by this girl that I've been dating for a year. And i gave her everything she was my world. Its hard to get over someone that you thought you had a future with.
I know exactly how you feel
I feel you man.
Same thing literally just happended to me yesterday and it feels so fucking terrible
Take it easy. I went through something similar and it taught me to never depend on other people for happiness or to make someone the sole purpose of my life. Take his advice and don’t self sabotage yourself. It’s painful but don’t run away from that pain, face it and use it to propel you forward in life
Same shit happened to me three weeks ago, she said "she needed time" but we all know that time doesn't exist, but the way that she's acting makes me feel like this isn't over...
-be with Friends to feel better
-try to Focus on being your best version
-not start sleeping arround
-take your time (👑)
-be "selfish" or please yourself, workout, new Hobbies and so on
WE all Go through the Same Guys. Keep your head Up.👑
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He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.
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To all my brothers out facing this struggle... My wife of 21 years left me 5 yrs ago. The pain was unbearable. However, I am in a much better place now... It takes time. It will get worse before it gets better, but it will get better. The beauty of rock bottom is, there's nowhere to go but up....
Peace... Stay strong... Good bless
THANK YOU
Thanks Man
Thank you
Than you, Man
Thanks for sharing that
So many guys being brave enough to be open here. It's good to see.
Thank you.
Real men right here!
You my sir are a god
Because this is the only place where we can share our pain.
I really love her but she forgot everything we had in a second
I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.
jerry olotu damn I can only imagine that pain you felt......
I feel empty my heart hurts
If you was weak to her that's the reason
She'll remember it the moment she misses you. Stop contacting her.
Classic Alpha here. Calm, informed, sincere. What a throwback.
5 years together every day and talking to each other 24/7. We broke up and now we're strangers after 2 days.
Zach Miller bro”s keep your head up, keep repeating why you broke up and go out and do stuff 🖤🖤🖤
How you feeling now Zach?
How’s it going bro ?
3 years here, strangers ya I know that feeling... I gave her everything and never wronged her and yet she broke up with me like I was the worst person on the planet
My ex left me for a guy she met at the pool at her apartment complex. Her depression allows her to not be happy and enter a situation to be with a man who has the same goals as her: to be promiscuous. It’s a shame and these people need help before they ever hurt someone they love. Because they do love them, but rather would be selfish in every which way.
Going through a horrible break up right now.
Really needed this. Thank you.
Thank you, you too!
Woss.....=D.....just kidding, The little guy up the page talks some good things. Work out, go out, say Yes to everything, and without noticing, you will be over that mess in a moment ;) . You are awesome guys! Don”t forget that =D
dumitrupopamd hahaha I wont deny, heart break turns me into a little girl lmfao
SuperkenGaming Same situation.
Pallavi Mukherji I luckily got over this nonsense :P
Now its your turn! :D
Breakups create bodybuilders! Because the best thing to do when you're sad is: Hit the gym
Amen!
Or when you're bored.
Started last month after a breakup! Feeling great!!!
Its true...I didn't break up, but kind of got rejected. nothing fixes it like hitting the gym.
I just broke up with my gf of 6 months, been hitting the gym hard for the past 2 weeks. It helps a lot.
This is exactly what I needed to hear, break ups are always hard especially when you truly care for the person. I’m gonna focus on myself and just take it one day at a time.
When a man learns to love he must bear the risk of pain
that pain is no joke
@@robertswift6101 neither are the benefits you can gain from that pain
@@danelhernandez4875 the benefits I've gained are not to fall in love again, rock solid heart and cold blood. To control the emotion of "love".
Its so painful bro..
Naruto quote?
my youtube search went from
1. how to ask out your crush
2. things to cheer up your girlfriend
3. how to get over a breakup
@Kevin Brayon me too bruh 🥲
At least we succeeded somehow
I hope it gets better
so relatable
The worst thing about it is that she not only broke my heart, but she made me feel unwanted after everything i did for her
Death Scar I feel the exact same I hope your doing better Keep your head up & stay strong
I feel your pain bro I’m going through the same thing right now,I feel so stupid!
Jesus this is relatable af
Fuck her, you are much better but you have to do EVERYTHING for yourself and make sure to fuckin' see it in front of the mirror. Stay clear!
Same here
I’ve had this video saved for 6 years and the day has finally come..
Wild ahhahahaha
Imagine losing someone you really loved and their not even dead
I got to experience both. I'm broken man
izzyDbuzzin - Same bro, best thing to do is turn your pain into strength
Stay up brother 💯
FM Chico she is dead to me now
No one realized this is a gates lyric
jermain abdin - Glad you did tho lol
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and 7 months on February. I'm still trying to heal, I'm still trying to manage. I promise all of you, it'll get better.
How u feeling now?
thank you man. wish you the best
May the Almighty give you strength
Hope u r better now, mate ..
How are you doing man?
Love is all beautiful in the beginning but so painful in the end....Sleepless happy nights to sleepless crying nights. Time changes
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Once a legend said Love is dagger. - Loki
Spot on my bro.
true. y miss her laughs. dude im sad becas im thinking y cant find such girl anymore. that pain is crazy like totaly crazy. respect for people who moved trough that shit
True bro
I love how supportive everyone is! The fact that everyone of us is/was going through this and will/already recovered and became once again confident just shows us that this pain is temporarly. Stay strong kings🤴
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When your girlfriend becomes your best friend, then your friend, then a complete stranger. Happens in two days. Then she gets a new bf. EDIT: Just keep going you'll make it through king.
Keep your head up man, that SUCKS to hear I'm praying for you!
These comments are two relatable 😓🤧
@@iojDRE may god bless you Brother......... May u will get the right one for you...... If she did that.... She's not the right one for u........ Atleast she broke up with you before coming in relationship with another guy.............
Wow. This exactly what happened to me🥺😔
Everything happens for a reason but it really does hurt and mess your head up. My crush got married to a distant relative who isn't even in the same country we're in. Anyway haven't heard anything good about her and she'd be a financial weight on me if I did get with her so thank god I didn't get with her
5 years we have built up, 5 minutes to end it all... I do love her, and I want the best for her... but this hurts like nothing else.
Fuck
It's been 2 years here since she left 💔
Well... she was with a guy before she broke up with me... they're together now. Cool, I got cheated on
That sucks, I'm really sorry i hope it wont take you so long like whats happening with me
Let's talk about it when you feel like it. i can be a good listener. My instagram is @ahmad_basil
8 years relationship, ive never felt so broken and lonely. Wanna come here after a year and see how ive improved.
Edu Nb same for me. 8 years.
Hi, a year has passed already. What are you up to?
9 years for me.. It's tough bro, keep your head up.
HAHAHAH!
Super Swag Bwoy how you doing king
For all those out there going through the breakup phase,we are here for you KINGS, if you got nobody to talk to them write it down,maybe connect with some old friends,join a gym, even if someone is too stuck ,share with me or anyone here..coz i am also going through something like this and figuring out life
What we all need to understand is, we should never be invested in any person to such an extent that our own existence comes at a stand still. Always be selfish enough to prioritize your hobbies and passion, every single day.
Best comment 👏🏼
Facts , thank you 🙏🏽
Without your romantic partner your hobbies and passions are meaningless.
That’s what I had in my mind during all my last relationship. « Don’t let her become your priority you will suffer». Now I realised I treated her like disposable, rejected her many times, and now I feel like the biggest loser/odiot on earth. She was the only good thing in my life and I said I don’t want it. Now I’m back in hell and it feels deeper than ever
Most definitely. Do not fall in love with these women because they are not designed to love the way you love. Yes love and cherish them but do not be so overreaching to the extent that you put your mental state into question because you don’t work out. You have to stay on your purpose because life moves forward at all times. Good look fellas!
I watched this video literally 2 years ago and here we are again
Pohler Express guess we’re in the same boat.
I know this comment was 4 months ago but i hope you’re doing better, buddy. All the best to you. :)
RIDH ur a nice person man I’m sad too 😭😭😩
Same here
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my wife just left me after a 7 year marriage. took our 3 year old baby girl. I'm in a city that I hate far from home but I'm determined to stay close to my child. if nothing else when im an old man I want to know I did my best as a father. I've very little support here, none really. so I've been staying away from the drink and working out every day and I'm determined to dig myself out of this. I can't let it beat me. I won't spend the rest of my life in misery.
to all my brothers going through the same. chin up. as the saying goes. "this too will pass" 💫
Brian O Shea God Bless you, sir. We will get through this!
your hard work won't be wasted. don't worry
good luck man, you deserve all the happiness in the world. im going through a tough break up too but i wont let it break me
1010nedim stay positive man. make life about you. make your life the way you want it to be. walk out of that burning building and thank God you've another chance at happiness. best of luck brother.
Going through a break up, too. it sucks, but i don't have it as bad as you, so i feel weaker,lol. i hope your situation has gotten better. best of lucks, dude.
I can’t really go outside when covid is around, otherwise I’ll be going gym for distraction 😔😔
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Yow i saw you in the 9 tips to get over your ex good to see someone broken like me
No wonder your woman left you. You're afraid of sniffles and buy into propaganda.
Hooked up a few times to try and get over a break up within the week. Cried and felt like shit for hours after every single one. DO NOT sleep around until you’re ready, bro.
Hope you're healing now and in a better place. There's a lot going on for humanity now. Heartbreak became the final cue for a spiritual awakening for me, every single time. Especially when family and friends were the ones hurting me
Word, agreed. There is a place and time for the rebound, but down the line. It's unfair to the woman you doing too. If they're f'ing you, they like you. They're in a different place.
It's hard to forget someone who gave you a lot to remember. I just want to say for all the guys out there that their girl broke up with them, we're here, you're not alone, we can recover from this.
thx man
Thank you man.
❤️
How man, how.
I much rather have her breaking up with me, my situation is diferent and it make me extremelly sad too but in a diferent way, its because I had to break up with her, because I know I was threathing her like shit and she did not diserve it, and I didnt had feelings for her, but its very hard for me, because I know she have nobody, and that its hurting way more on her right now, she really loved me, but sadly I didnt share the same feelings, so Im feeling extremelly guilty and sad...
I've tried my best. I love her so much, but I cant deal with all her bs, I feel like the bad guy all the damn time.
Same boat brother. Going through it right now.
You're not alone brother. Read/Listen to the rational male by rollo tomassi it'll change your life and perspective of women
@@joshm684 ^Great advice right here guys
Same here bro...my girlfriend always blames me like all dirty deeds are mine and she's the fairy from a land of innocence!!!
same with me brother.. i had to break up with her coz she never really cared about me and blamed me everytime we fought. Had to pull the plug ... but i still do miss her ..
I handled my break up as best as I could, I quit my bad habits, started going to gym, changed my work, changed my apartment. Everything started getting better and better until she came back to me. But this time I was the one who left. Coz she was there when we broke up, but I was different and proud to say I was better than I used to be.
The pain is so raw. When you want something to work and it just won’t. It feels like a death. It may be worse, because that person lives on and you know they are out there. Ugh
To everyone out there who needs to hear this video, it's going to be okay
Thank you sm you have no idea how much this helps
Do you promise?
@@gabeadams2926 Yes, take it as an opportunity, I know it's impossible to think that right now, but as soon as you heal, you will be stronger than ever.
I have been in a 5 year relationship, she sent me a text message that she wants to break up.. After 5 years, from a person you wanted to marry.. I cried over and over, didn't eat nor sleep for 2 days straight.. It sucked and I thought I won't find any other like her and guess what 😁 I did, and it was the first girl I talked to 3 weeks after the breakup.
We had a date and I went there with zero expectations. The moment I saw her she blew my mind. It went all perfect, I thought it would be a 1 hour date.. We talked for nearly 5 hours, she is such a nice person inside out.
Today is our second date, I'm totally happy to see her again and I'm getting her a rose. Good things come gentlemen, just be patient, there really are other fish in the sea. 😉 And eventually, you will find hapiness.
@@MrPoppy-nt5vr wow so inspiring to hear this story! Thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to help a brother out!
Do you have any tips for how to meet women from your experience? I live in a large metropolitan city so I suppose for me it is a little bit more of a challenge.
Nevertheless, good luck with your second date and I hope you guys have an awesome time!
P.s. I hope she is the “one” for you :)
@@gabeadams2926 Thanks for the positivite wishes! I hope too!
Every girl I dated was from social media / dating site.
Well, I downloaded some dating apps, I think Tinder is widely renowned, and Badoo (not sure if you know that one) so I added some of my photos and some brief but honest text. The thing is everyone is different and most people behave differently. I am a very easy-going person, very honest, I never lie even though it's sometimes really hard. We had a match so I texted her and from her replies I could already tell she is different than other women. Few days later, I think it was 2 days of texting and then I decided to invite her out and she said yes - that was the 1st date.
From my experience what I can recommend you to do is:
- talk to people A LOT to gain some (conversation) confidence, my family, especially my grandfather really helped me, I had no idea how much he has to offer. He even predicted the breakup, but didn't sat at the time. So I took some valuable advice from him (how to react in certain situations, what to say, etc.)
- be polite and fun,
- be confident about yourself,
- be yourself,
- be honest, never ever lie
- don't brag about yourself
- groom,
- bring her flowers, she will love it
- the last and most important - be gentlemen (open doors or car doors and so on..)
- I almost forgot, DONT SPEED when she's with you in your car 😀
I hope this helps, text me anytime, I'm glad to help. 😁
Scary how you think someone is your soulmate and they tell you they want forever and theyll never leave you only to never talk ever again, only leaving memories that could never be.
This just happened to me man..i feel that
Just going through this right now 😭😭
Happened to me. It's painful. Love is great at the beginning and painful in the end. Women tend to become very cold when they end this relationship. They do recover fast unlike men who feel distressed about it for a really long time. But yes men have to become more supportive of each other.
Will never understand how someone can tell you everything still infinity for you love hasn’t changed just to wake up 2 days later and walk away without a argument even the day before she walked away she was worried about what I was doing ? Asking me what I did last night was I home alone why’d I stay up so late etc obviously u still gaf so how you walk away literally a few hours later during that same exact convo for no reason as if I did something to u I asked her why she asking so much she said ok so and then I didn’t respond cuz I fell asleep n I woke up to a second message from her saying I’m not feeling this nomore ? I feel so lost I couldn’t even get a reason why women are cold creatures never again once I get over this breakup I’m never emotionally connecting to another female they are not shit especially today’s women
I definitely felt this hard
Thanks alpha for helping me as a kid to get the confidence to improve myself, to upscale my personality, to help me grow as a person.
And now helping me as an adult to get over relationships, thanks for helping me relearn the meaning of life, thanks for helping me ease up my pain.
You are a legend. Idk if you will ever read this comment or not, but you have touched and changed my life in so many better ways. I am watching your content after life 2-3 years and it still feels like you are the only saviour. The saviour that once helped a kid and now the savious that is helping an adult. You are doing some awesome work. I love you brother! ❤️
Heartbreak is not a nice feeling. I never imagined myself feeling like this.
Same here
@@15carrots 😢
same pattern same routine, feel like shit
@@kamjatakar6301 Sorry about that, hope you find healing with time
Sorry madoda
This guy knows what he talks about. I wish I found this video a few months ago. Anyway, I did back then most of what he said. I also don't recommend joining forums, etc. I see people doing this and then they become addicted to them and spend more months reflecting on their breakup than they should.
I never thought the pain was so harsh. In a away, it doesn't even make sense because nobody died. But it feels as if and you can't control it.
Nobody died, but you've lost the person that was once a significant part of your life. So in a way, she did die.
Neko Tajni absolutely. It is mourning,just not over a physical death,yet a death of a partnership. This partnership that you fully enjoyed for the most part. (Myself included) it comes crashing in waves almost. Tough to concentrate at all,everything reminds you of that person,...songs,places,events,food...ect. Fucking brutal. Going through it now and it's been 6 months. Just stay the course. And believe in you.
Perry Pascucci it is brutal.
Jordan Alexo x
Don't sleep arround! Biggest mistake, focus on your self and train, sleep, eat well.
Fall in love for yourself😁
but I need to get laid lol
@@michael567jober well...get yourself what you need bro, you can do it!
@@MrStano-jy3ts problem is I'm not really attractive and my social/ confidence levels suck because of it so it's hard for me to get laid in general especially with the ones I actually want vs the ones I get
@@michael567jober then you need tiege hanley my friend 😉
@@MrStano-jy3ts que lol what's that mean
I was really attached and in denial but now i think that the world has given me time to work on me
The problem is the idea of "the one", there is no such thing. Focus on creating a life that makes you happy and eventually the "right one" not the one will show up in your life. Meanwhile keep having fun, enjoying your life, bettering yourself and don't ever settle for less than what your heart really desires.
Thank you
I needed to hear this, especially “the right one” bit. I’ve never been one to open up easily, I mean I’ve had youtube for years and this is my first comment ever. I felt like she was the one person I could open up to but things don’t always work out the way you want it them to be. Love is not enough sometimes, even if you want it to. Hopefully I can feel better tomorrow but today it hurts.
The Ex Advice -Hey man super helpful
Great advice
Great advice for a woman too. I've been single for 5 years just working on myself. I lost 30 pounds and started a business. You have to be at the top of your game before you go back out in the field. Your advice applies to both genders, no booze, no sleeping around, work on yourself! Thanks.
Drinking actually makes it worse. I almost ended my life.
Square Pixels Canada shit bro u good
Square Pixels Canada I can relate
Square Pixels Canada if it comes to that, PM me. I can’t promise anything but, we can talk it through bro. I’m here for you.
@@kwijaeboner Thank You very much I really Appreciate That.
@@kwijaeboner Can u talk to me? Lol I don't wanna kill myself but I just don't wanna wake up.
I come here after every break up. It helps
“Last thing you should do is isolate yourself” currently watching during coronavirus self isolation period 2020 😂👎
Ciaranm2108 MANNNNNN
Yep it's a lot harder when you cant go anywhere
LOL me too 😂😂
TRXN Design we get through it together bro😎👌
Ciaranm2108 I just broke up with my 5 yr gf. Now I’m stuck home alone
My girl just broke up w me a couple days ago, I didn’t care about her feelings and didn’t give her my respect. I really truly realized what I had after the brake up and it really tore me apart. She was loyal loving and beautiful, the only thing a man can ask for in a relationship and I fucked it up...
Same bro...Same with me
I witness that before
same here bro
Forest Romero did you drop your close friend for her if I may ask.
Same😭
Thanks alpha, been in a two year long relationship that I ended today. It’s 3:30 am and I’ve been staring at a wall for the last two hours. I don’t even know how to begin to heal.
Nick Papas just broke up with my girlfriend, was only together 6 months however we lost a baby and & have known her since high school. So for almost 7 years.
How are you now are you feeling better because it's still hurt me we break up a week ago
john wallas I’m feeling better, it’s still not the easiest, however it does get easier every day. Just remember why you broke up, don’t focus too much on the good times because in the end, the bad times overweighted them.
Hit the gym, or start doing some kind of workout routine in the crib if you have to. That shit works to keep your mind off things i promise.
It gets better I'm at 41 days of no contact I think of her a little but mostly because we have the same friend group. Stay strong go into no contact and work on yourself physically emotionally and mentally
Had my first breakup today, first girl I’ve loved.. and Alpha M is a legend!
Feeling a messy breakup coming up very soon... wish me luck boys
I'm in the same position now man, relationship is on the rocks. Through past experience I've noticed that the natural emotion is empathy, but this will ALWAYS ruin whats left if you act upon it. Instead of softening your resolve toughen it and stand by your principles. Firmness in the face of break up can reassert respect between partners and potentially save things from ending.
Give ya luck
How you doing bro
I'm here cus I just got dumped by a girl I dated for 2 years, this guy makes it feel better 👍🏼
3 years here and this guy really helps me a lot too. Keep yourself together bro, whatever you and your girlfriend have done in the past does not mean anything anymore, it's just you making yourself better from now on. Hope you get well soon :))
+Gia Khanh Tran I'm fully fine, fuck that bitch lol
Just happened to me, same story
listen to music... like 'let her go'
Same 2.5 years
Practically deleted everything off my phone
Been over 6 months and the horrible pain in my stomach hasn't gone away...the thought of her face looking at me and smiling hasn't left my mind...I really wish it would leave because I'm tired of constantly thinking of how we once were
Just broke up for some days and reading your comment that the pain still exists after 6 mobths freaking me out ! How are you today after a year?
@@Gofastno dang I just got broken up with today. I actully loved this chick. I hope this doesent last for 6 months
@@amazingmacemusic4982 i got you bro
@@Gofastno I'm scared.. I've loved only one girl in my life and she ended a 6.5 years relationship like it was nothing. Like she didn't care anymore. She loved me soo much and I did too. Yesterday we broke up and I'm really scared. I don't know if I'll ever be able to love again or do I even want to.
It's hurting soo bad I'm really freaking out how to deal with this in a lockdown period. I really don't want to feel like this and I'm watching several videos about it. Can't talk or react about it at home. I fear going into depression. Really feeling helpless.
@@rajaryaman4478 bro same my relationship just ended a few days ago we’ve been together for 2.5 years it hurts bro cause everything you thought was going to happen isn’t anymore but you’ll get over it just like I will too.... at the end of the day it’s either a leasing or a blessing I really thought me and this girl were going to be forever but she lost feelings after 2 years :/
GREAT POINT!!!! If you have great confidence it will hurt less.
The less confident, the more it will hurt.
My girlfriend of 5 years left me she said she lost feelings for me I thought everything was perfect 😔 everything seemed good
Anthony Castillo it’ll get better man
atleast you've had sex like a bunch of times lol
Breaks my heart for you man . Prayers my man
Stay strong
Mine cheated on me and a week later had a new boyfriend after telling me she loved me.
I was dating this girl for a while but she turned into a cold hearted bitch. I wanna keep it together but she wasn't making it difficult. After we broke up, I felt a weird mix of numb, hurt, and self-loathing. It all came to a moment where I started watching this guys videos and it inspired me to actually move on and grow up. I started working out so I had to buy new clothing. I got the motivation to excel academically. I felt a little bit insecure, like I was cool on the outside so I had to back it up on the inside. As a result, I picked up all these hobbies and read awesome books. Months later, I realized I changed for the better. Now every night before I hit the hay I pray a bit, hoping she and I could reconcile things but at the same time hoping I never meet her again because I surpassed her greatly
Oh cool
+Alexis Saldaña HAHAHAHAHHA Yous savage :P
Your an Alpha man! Keep it up!
That's awesome man
She broke up with me. I'm sad, but God got me. I'm leveling up.
Too right bro..God is our father who never breaks his promise
@@thomaswilliams7212 yeah! I've been confused sometimes before about how never brought a girl into my life but the bully got the girl (I'm 18 btw) but now I have this girl in my life and shes just amazing (like so amazing I'm speechless) we both go to church believe in God laugh, smile hangout all the time make future plans to hang out all the time. She knows I like her but she said she likes me as a friend for now so God willing we end up together.
Amen fellas
1991 foxbody good luck my guy
@@nuggboy1035 thanks man!
it hurts when you see something interesting and you want to share it with them as you usually did but then you realize that theyre not there anymore
A good quote comes to mind: "pain is temporary. It may last a minute, and hour, a day, or even a year but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If you quit however it will last forever"
-Eric Thomas
Good one.
U2 nailed it with the sentence: "The best things are easy to destroy"
Embrace that pain boys, dont give in to it, use it as fuel to make yourself better, your BODY better. I ship off to boot in 4 weeks, my girl wasn't ready for the commitment, I cant blame her for that, but it still hurts all the same. This just happened today. Im waking up early tomorrow to hit the gym, and have a bad ass day with my friends. Surround yourself with people that'll help you in these situations, not ones that will laugh at you.
Yeah breakups suck and even taking the advice is a challenge in itself because naturally you want to express your sorrow. However much you loved that person your pain will equally match it. But in the end brothers you have a choice and that’s to sit at home in your own pity and be undesirable to anyone and just feel awful or go out and start working on yourself and either you’ll win that person back or attract a new girl that’s everything you ever wanted. Coming from a person who was just dumped yesterday I just went out and got a gym membership and I’m gonna start playing my guitar again and do things to work on myself. Life will bless me with the right one someday.
I got dumped yesterday and we had a bond more than sex like laughing best friends.. it does suck but we must go forward. Stay blessed
I’m 18, after knowing a certain young woman for around 6 years who came to be one of my greatest friends, we started dating. During the time that we were dating, my friends started becoming busy with careers and other things, being that most of my friends are around 3 years older than me. I only have about 5 really close friends, including this girl that I was dating. Anyway, we ended up breaking up because I felt that I wasn’t mature enough to handle my lustful thoughts, and she also is weak in that area. It just wasn’t a good mix at the time so we very reluctantly decided to end things. But now, because my friends were incredibly busy making a future for themselves, which is 100% understandable, she was pretty much my only friend, and we had a great emotional connection, she was the first girl I ever felt I truly loved. Now I’m left feeling like I have no one left, which could considered be a good thing because it has so far helped my relationship with God, but I still feel so alone..can anyone relate?
I’m 20 and was involved in a long distance relationship with a girl from my hometown. Being at different colleges we would talk everyday and when we did see each other everything was perfect. Although neither of us feel like we could keep it going all throughout college. I feel like dog shit thinking if I just switched colleges it could workout. The only friends I have here are my three roommates. I can sorta relate I guess. Hope things get better for you man.
I know how you feel. I've left everything and every one behind because my girlfriend told me it was better for us. Now I finally stood up for myself after 3 years with no friends or people around me. But Hey, things will get better with time. I'm going to the gym a lot and it builds confidence. Just hang on.
I can relate so much to u bro same thing here I just turned 18 and I broke up with the shawty I was with since she was someone I started getting used to be with her most of the time and like u said we had a great connection as well but when we broke up is good cz you finally get to take more of yourself then actually worrying for that other person my advice is that it is hard to move on because you get used to be with that person but don’t let them bring you down bro you the shit and the people that decides to leave they the ones missing out summer coming up hoe season you feel me enjoy and don’t rush into relationship meet new people cz trust me you gonna get over it once you let yourself try new things 🤯
Matthew Doyon we live by choice. Gods got a plan and opens doors, you just need to "choose" to walk through them doors. Look after yourself, meet new friends and most of all remember your goals. Have a good day bro. What doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
my Hart suffers to. I self medicate my self with weed. makes life better
I cried. I don't wanna date anymore. I know eventually I'll get better.
Prince Revolver wanna talk about it?
I don't know if it gets better. Yes, you recover from breakups, but the next relationship will bring you even lower and at the end of the day we become pessimistic and jaded.
DoHerHarder umm.. we got back together.
Caoimhin O'Duinnin tbh it's unlike me to cry. I'm always an optimistic person. I think more than anything stress from work put me in that position.
Do you do no contact bro
My ex broke up with me very suddenly after a year and a half. I immediately cut contact and forced myself to go to the gym with friends, hang out with them, go to some parties. Within about 2 weeks I was over it all. Met another girl a month later, we hit it off and now we're both happily in a new relationship.
Seth Ames im glad a happy ending
Nice
But... what about your feelings or her?
Seth Ames Trying to follow your steps. A few days into it. No contact and no real intention to have contact. Hope things go as well for me as they did you. Congrats.
Chris Harmon how’d it go?
My fiancee (which I had honestly been really really good to) ended our engagement in starbucks a few days ago.
As I sat down (already anxious and stressed), I tried to take a sip of her coffee and she responded by putting her hand up as a stop sign and went "ehh, social distancing"...
I just can't imagine the level of cold and heartlessness when you already know you're about to hurt someone this much and just strip them of every bit of dignity and treat them like an infectious disease!!!
It made me feel not only sad that the engagement had ended, which was hard enough to deal with on its own, but just made me feel so so worthless.
And then she even went on to block me and call my best friend to say she "200% didn't love me", "didn't want to see me" and "the whole relationship was one-sided" that I loved her so much but she didn't love me at all.
My self worth hit rock bottom and it sickens me that even after how she treated me I still love her and deep down I still crave her approval and validation... but it's the truth and I gotta find a way to fix that as its surely not healthy
But am doing the right things:
- Accept the suffering as it comes and not get a quick fix by sleeping around or finding a rebound etc. like i usually might have done.
- no alcohol
- eat healthy
- Proper sleep
- work out or do sports every day
- Work on my self growth and try to learn from the experience and find validation in myself rather than from her or anyone else
- Focus on a new project of my own
Basically just treat myself as someone who's valuable despite her clearly thinking I am not.
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A woman who leaves me in the heartless the way that she did clearly isn't the woman I thought she was and isn't the kind of woman that I'd want as a mother to my children anyway.
I thought she was my world but I realized she just used me. I gave her everything, and realized that it wasn’t her that made me happy it was me. I was the one who initiated everything and put effort. So I got over it pretty quickly when I realized I was in love with my self. Lesson I learned is that looks aren’t everything and never to fall in love so quickly.
Seriously Yavi haha sounds similar to me, I fell for her too quick and I ended up putting all the effort in
Seriously Yavi damn at least you came out of that one in love with a beautiful person
i think i have a great song for you
🅱️oi
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It really do be like that sometimes
Seriously Yavi really
I’m man enough to admit my heart has just got broken 😪
Booty Quesò same
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Im broken too, And honestly there was no closure and all. planning to talk it out with this person before i really start moving on, but rereading all our conversation i realized the tone and the things she was saying that she doesnt really want to commit bt she will stay and be the same. I made it my decision to just move on,not bc i wnt to jump or smethng bt its more of its clear that shes nt rlly ready at anythng. :/ and i can also see that i cnt even say anythng to be proud of myself. so i thnk ill jst go on my way and get my life together idk where it will take me. idk hayyss
It's been almost a month. Last few weeks have been a complete nightmare. Gradually I've started the healing. Still miss her every second 😢
how about now?
How are you doing now man?
Those were the best words i heard. I too am going through this now and I know time will remove this pain.
Thank you sir!
I’m sad, Depressed and I feel sick to my stomach I love her so much she just broke up with me💔😔
I’m sorry man
@Ben Lear I feel good now I gained a lot after all of that and I learned that I will never put so much time and feelings into someone that didn’t do the same for me bro
@@m66di damn that’s so sad
@@m66di good for you, bro
Why the fuck am I here? I'm not even in a relationship lol
Nick Andolino well now ur prepared 😂😂😂
thank you. You made me laugh
Nick Andolino same here bro
Nick Andolino it'll give you tips for when you do break-up, should that occur :) I'm in the same boat man :( haha
😂😂😂 same here
broke up with her in february. worst situation ever. i dont wish it upon anyone. sh** still hurts
Aaron Mayorga tell me about it. It’s the worst kind of pain.
hey, you're not alone... :")
Just what I needed to hear. Thought things were going well and then BAM! I get the we need to talk text.
I'm 2 years deep, it hasn't gotten any easier. Don't let the one you love go, you'll never forgive yourself.
Keep on brothers! There is no shame in how you feel!
im 1 year deep but i keep watching comedy it helps me alot
wat if the one u love doesn't want u...
a good cure, try it out.
Eat healthy
Work out
get in shape and look awesome. You will no doubt think to yourself this is what shes missing when you look in the mirror. Great mental strength.
@Frédéric Drouin this is my goal, to get back in shape
I cant even move and eat right. Its sucks
Mr.Fabi Nator how are you feeling bruh? Hope your ok I going through the same thing rn
I already look great. My appetite is suppressed. We moved too fast and shes not over her ex. Feeling hopeless
kas0016 let her go
Good video! My wife died 3 weeks ago so it's tough.
TosTinMan A little bit late but I hope you’re doing better. Take care
❤️
Rip man hope all is well.
I am so sorry mate. my condolescences.
❤️
It’s 2024
And I come back to Aron whenever I feel down
Since last 12 years this man has been a big bro to me virtually
I never thought I’d actually need this video when I saw it came out. I’ve had breakups but got through them okay. But now I understand all the feelings he describes, imagine getting used to texting good morning first thing in the morning and having a little 20min call before going to sleep. It’s tough to get over. Especially when it becomes routine having that person around.
Exactly this man, exactly this. Are you over it and if yes what did you do to be in a better place?
I'm going through it now. Happend in the beginning of Dec. Feels like I'm in a fog trapped in a mirror fun house but the reflections are each a memory of good times that just hurts.
You passing that message to me lol.suffering here .
@@amocyrobert3201 how are you doing now bro?
@@ayklaz Late reply but yeah I did get over it. It took me that whole year because I didn’t know what to do for a good while. But eventually decided to focus on mental health and being more active since even before the breakup I had some anxiety problems here and there, and I wasn’t exactly very active either. Lol it worked for me though. Can’t be bothered to overthink when you’re brain is busy elsewhere.
For those who are going through some shit right now, to add on to this awesome video I just wanna say DO NOT PLAY THE VICTIM. Immediately work towards doing some gangster shit and love yourself more than ever. Step your game up. Hit the damn gym. Socialize and get out there. Do not give in to the sorrow. You'll come out of this a much stronger man!!! Stay strong you sexy fucks!
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Unless you were abused, the first step with that is to come to terms with the reality that you were
Thanks, man.
Thank you 😊
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Gf broke up with me after 3 years of being together. Although I sort of saw it coming, I am still absolutely crushed. It's been 3 months now and I still cry almost every day. I still love her and want her back, I don't know what to do. I don't really have any close friends to talk to or do stuff with... It feels like this is killing me slowly. Never felt so bad in my entire life.
+Doppelkeks7 go to the gym
+Doppelkeks7 if you want to get over this, first, you have to accept that she is gone, let her go. This is what stops you from meeting another person and get other your ex. I understand you because I've lived a break up, and now I am living another, but I am not going to let down my hands. Look, time's healing, but if you want to get over this faster you have to do what the guy tells in the video. Be a man and stand up when life hits you hard, because it's not important how hard you hit, but it's important how hard you get hit by life and you continue moving forward ;)
Valeriu Donea Thanks for yur support, I really appreciate it. All the things you guys say, it sounds so easy, but really it's incredibly hard to do. But although I still feel horrible, it feels good to know that there's people out there who understand how I feel, people who have been through the same. People who are trying their best to help me. Thank you very much man, I hope I can make it through this and I feel better soon...
+Doppelkeks7 you will man, you will, just put a little effort and once you start doing that, you will see that it is easier to control your emotions, however if you never start, you will never know the outcome. Time's healing everything, just don't give up. Try reading as much information as you can about how to get over a break up. There is plenty of it, just google a bit ;) I am in the same situation as you, believe me, it's hard for me too, but I see it as a challenge plenty of new experience. This experience will make you as well stronger and once you get over it and you will, you will remember my words.
+Doppelkeks7 2 days ago had a break up and our relationship was a 5 years and, same here saw it coming. The main thing hurts is I dont know the real reason behind it.
to everyone dealing with a breakup rn you’re not alone and me and the people in the comments have your back. me and my gf broke up after a year and a half basically because she didn’t wanna be in a relationship anymore and wanted to be single shit fucking sucks it’s bens two months and i’m still not over her i gave my everything to this girl and just like that without thinking twice it was gone. you aren’t going through this alone confide with us it’s better to stick together now that we feel alone and abandoned, i thought it couldn’t get better and i would always feel like shit without her but u gotta push through and keep your head high even tho it seems hard because at the end of the day the tunnel ends and the suns shows up and at the end of the day after night comes the daylight. there’s brighter days ahead of u i promise
My heart is hurting so bad. It feels like someone is squeezing my heart. I'm slowly dying inside.
solidn6 same bro I feel you happened 2 days ago for me
Stay strong man. Happened about a month ago for me. You can either do one of two things. 1. Sulk and feel down and sorry for yourself. Or 2. Go fuck life, be selfish and just focus on you. Go get a fresh haircut, buy some new clothes, and hangout with friends as much as possible brutha. Use the bitterness, and the bad feelings you get when you think about it to destroy, and I mean DESTROY at the gym. It's what I been doing and honestly it will help a lot. Best of luck to you man.
solidn6 Sorry to hear. I'm in the same boat.
Nathan Isles How you were conceived??
I had met someone new and now I'm heartbroken all over again. Fuk my life. What is it with girls? You love someone so deeply and they get there ego fix and move on to the next man.
Me and my gf just broke up after 2.5 years. Sucks. Really sucks. Of course the first thing I did was go to RUclips for advice.
Has it gotten better?
Josh M take it like a man and move on
How you feel now .did she contacted u ?
I feel less lonely on RUclips seeing there’s so many men dealing with this.... god how did people get support back in the 70s
@@jwhite1292 what intention she had?
this video made me feel a lot better than I did a few minutes ago
I cheated on the woman I love, because I didn’t realize I wasn’t in love anymore. She broke up with me now I have a whole in my hearts. I no longer want to talk to anyone until I work on myself and learn what I really want. I even rejected someone who pretty much through themselves at me. Sleeping around just didn’t sit right with me. Now I’m sad and depressed and currently thinking about joining a church for guidance.
Spirituality and connection to one’s inner self is what I think to be the true key to healing. Good luck.
Amen 🙏🏾how are you now?
Been there man, you’re a man that made a mistake don’t label yourself and you have to get everything time to heal. Maybe there will a next time or maybe there will be a next one, but don’t stop doing things to better yourself.
5 goddamn years has ended in just a single day.
Mine was 2 years, the worst part is that she doesn’t care....
God bless you brotha! If you want a chat let me know brotha, im happy to listen my man. Remember God allows us to go through things to grow man. LESSONS
Bro same. Did you get back together?
4 year relationship ended 15 days ago and I’m still stuck on why she didn’t respect me enough to try and at least work it out smh
@@Maxlodge they don’t want to work it out bro
I went through this. Man, I always stayed home and literally did nothing but cry on my bed.
Don't do it! He's right. You stay home and keep thinking about the bitch who left you, than you gonna be in a big big problem.
I started losing weight, I had panic attack and I ended up in emergency. True. I'm not lying. It's painful as fuck but if you go out and have fun with friends at the beach or somewhere, you gonna feel a lot better and start to move on slowly...
I'm having the same feeling currently. Feel bad for messaging her rude stuff & breaking up like that.
Feeling Guilty!
+Charlie The Muffin leave the past in the past my friend
I know exactly what you're saying. I just got a panic attack today and it sucked. There are more than enough people around you who really do care about you. All you have to do is reach for their helping hand.
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Broke up last night, we live in the same apartment block. Gonna be hard, but I will be strong.
Any updates bro?
@@AimForTheBushes908 what's your story?
Move out! Don’t belittle yourself
Shift to another apartment
Pretend you don’t care and fake it until you make it. It help! Don’t let anybody you know that you are hurt!!!!!
This guy just saved my life.
Lemuel John bruh, I got recommend to me but I have never been in a relationship
I love how a girl can leave you three days ago after being with you for a year and then already have another guy.
She was Monkey branching all along. Remember women always have your replacement ready and on standby. #facts
@Den Notver Move on bro. Long as you didn't cheat or beat....you did alright. You can't make women want to be with you. They are unstable and move from dude to dude all the time. Nothing you can do about that. Take some time for yourself, work on you and focus on improving your life. In time, the lady for you will come into your life. Watch!
Fax
Same happen to me but 2 years bro and she said “she loved me and didn’t want anyone else” but literally the next day she’s already DATING another guy🤦♀️
I am a girl and I don't fucking understand how girls or boys do that. wtf seriously :(
When you really want to fall in love once again, but it just seems impossible even after years of breakup. When u just can’t picture yourself with anybody in the whole world. I am not depressed, but I just can’t do this anymore. Just can’t catch feelings anymore. Can’t share with anyone but typing this right now makes it feel better.
Same here
I'm in the same boat you are. I can't see myself with anyone else in my life. I may just give up on love.... Not worth the pain... Again.
B H the same.
Ooo
Agreed:(
Bro . don't listen . break up on ur way take it easy
@Whatspp him uh u did not get what I was trying to say .the video was like teaching you how to do that like a man .but its not like that cuz dont make everything complicated you can just make it on your way .