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  • Опубликовано: 6 мар 2015
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    In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and relationship expert, Aaron Marino of www.iamalpham.com and www.aaronmarino.com, discusses how to breakup without breaking down. Breakups are a very difficult time but how you handle yourself post split will determine how long it takes you to heal and start feeling better.
    A break up is the end of a relationship, and they suck regardless of the position in the break up. If you've been invested and your heart is involved, break ups are terrible. Aaron Marino of alpha m. says how you handle post-split is the key to your recovery.
    Break Up without Breaking Down
    You may feel depressed, lost, and sad. You may have feelings of despair, spontaneous crying, anger, and lack of motivation. These feelings are all natural. It hurts. All of these feelings will subside. The key is TIME.
    If you start on a self destructive road, you will hurt longer than you need to.
    Drinking in excess, for example, will only bring you down more. Build yourself up and encourage feelings of self worth.
    Do not isolate yourself. Be around people who love you, support you,and bring you up.
    Do not start sleeping around as you will feel more shallow, hollow, and empty.
    You don't have to run from the pain. It will dwindle. You need to do things to facilitate the healing process. Start working on yourself- workout, build your wardrobe, get a new hobby. Take care of you, develop confidence, increase self-worth- and it's going to get better faster.

Комментарии • 12 тыс.

  • @susmore8575
    @susmore8575 7 лет назад +17780

    When you finally realize she's not the one, but deep down... you really wanted her to be.

    • @triggeredpuppy1347
      @triggeredpuppy1347 6 лет назад +622

      Slick Stre it fucking sucks.

    • @mrcat5699
      @mrcat5699 6 лет назад +128

      Yes

    • @josemanuel409
      @josemanuel409 6 лет назад +232

      Be strong man

    • @tarunpanchal2718
      @tarunpanchal2718 6 лет назад +685

      Fucking hurts and the brain can't stop imagining that

    • @zs600
      @zs600 6 лет назад +319

      Same thing here. We broke up yesterday....

  • @ZacharyReaper
    @ZacharyReaper 5 лет назад +7989

    It's scary how someone can turn into stranger so quickly ain't it?

    • @rausten3192
      @rausten3192 5 лет назад +571

      Zero Hero It seriously is. One minute you’re texting silly things and next thing you know you break up. Worst case is when you try to resolve it by talking but the other is stubborn and doesn’t want to

    • @flynnmittag8711
      @flynnmittag8711 5 лет назад +66

      Man you are so right, that is pretty sad actually

    • @8ball.niavashebpour216
      @8ball.niavashebpour216 5 лет назад +10

      Yeah..........................

    • @hassanaz1411
      @hassanaz1411 5 лет назад +6

      @@SA-ms5lx no they are not ... they were waiting for you to comeback in this month but you did the same thing. the different they are less loyal than men because they feel more safer near men.

    • @SA-ms5lx
      @SA-ms5lx 5 лет назад +2

      @@hassanaz1411 they ar not what bro? I write something u say something total different what are they waiting

  • @JacobChardBRA
    @JacobChardBRA 3 года назад +1576

    thanks, going through a break up right now and its one worst feeling ive ever felt. They just get over you way too fast and i will never understand that.

    • @illuminatiagent3537
      @illuminatiagent3537 3 года назад +9

      Message this powerful spell caster for help....

    • @illuminatiagent3537
      @illuminatiagent3537 3 года назад +1

      What app..

    • @chosendesigns6228
      @chosendesigns6228 3 года назад +3

      3 30 4

    • @ericluzan4465
      @ericluzan4465 3 года назад +26

      You’re not the only one bro. 🤜🏼🤛🏼

    • @isaiahthemayor
      @isaiahthemayor 3 года назад +17

      I know the feeling ......I’m just now starting to feel better but today I called her and she talked so normally Idk why I reached out feels like I took myself back a little but still from when we first broke up 2 months ago I feel much better with time

  • @HmmmOkay296
    @HmmmOkay296 3 года назад +248

    Going through a breakup of over 3.5 years. My first relationship, man the feeling of sadness and loneliness is crushing. The hardest part for me is the image I had of our future, gone in a matter of seconds. Stay strong everyone out there, you’re not alone with this and we’ll get through it.

    • @northkoreaninc9202
      @northkoreaninc9202 3 года назад

      Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours....
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

    • @northkoreaninc9202
      @northkoreaninc9202 3 года назад

      What sapp him

    • @northkoreaninc9202
      @northkoreaninc9202 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 8 1 1 5 6 7 1 2 1 2

    • @skyejacques
      @skyejacques 2 года назад

      💜

    • @joser_1295
      @joser_1295 2 года назад +3

      The exact same situation bro😭

  • @user-bi2me1kj7p
    @user-bi2me1kj7p 7 лет назад +5608

    I love how a girl can say she loves you and the next day she just wants nothing to do with you

    • @chadhayes4945
      @chadhayes4945 6 лет назад +353

      Salad Facts.. I just broke up with my gf today. Best decision I've made in a while. She really brought me down and wasn't a good partner. Love is only feelings for most girls. Or so it seems :/

    • @gvon1989
      @gvon1989 6 лет назад +161

      being awfully generous by saying next day. after a couple minutes things can flip with her.

    • @rogerbuschmann8161
      @rogerbuschmann8161 6 лет назад +376

      I really wanna know what goes around in their heads..... i mean even if I try really hard I would never play with someone´s feelings like that.

    • @glendavonpoopenstein5680
      @glendavonpoopenstein5680 6 лет назад +54

      trust me it happens to girls too

    • @farlielacroix780
      @farlielacroix780 6 лет назад +51

      she just want your money

  • @3LIT3JUIC3
    @3LIT3JUIC3 4 года назад +5793

    Who else is dealing with a tough breakup during the 2020 pandemic 😕

    • @tonysaad4764
      @tonysaad4764 4 года назад +16

      3LIT3JUIC3 me

    • @denbysk8
      @denbysk8 4 года назад +84

      Unreal the pain we will get through this shit !!

    • @Vic-go7zu
      @Vic-go7zu 4 года назад +8

      Me

    • @kristalsunuwar8675
      @kristalsunuwar8675 4 года назад +76

      Holy shit. I just broke up 30 mins earlier. Need someone to talk rn.. Lol

    • @Mrthecoolestman
      @Mrthecoolestman 4 года назад +57

      KRISTAL SUNUWAR yo man, im waiting for my girlfriend right now. Sweating and crying, so damn scared to break up with her. been together for 5 1/2 years now... I feel your pain

  • @simonoberpertingermair2957
    @simonoberpertingermair2957 3 года назад +207

    -be with Friends to feel better
    -try to Focus on being your best version
    -not start sleeping arround
    -take your time (👑)
    -be "selfish" or please yourself, workout, new Hobbies and so on
    WE all Go through the Same Guys. Keep your head Up.👑

    • @sheiscalledsarah7076
      @sheiscalledsarah7076 3 года назад +1

      I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours....
      He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

    • @sheiscalledsarah7076
      @sheiscalledsarah7076 3 года назад

      What''sapp him

    • @sheiscalledsarah7076
      @sheiscalledsarah7076 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

    • @lotfiramoul7397
      @lotfiramoul7397 2 года назад +1

      ❤️

  • @josephconnell5101
    @josephconnell5101 Год назад +12

    I’ve had this video saved for 6 years and the day has finally come..

  • @jjejwhwbhauuwuwvshsyys7929
    @jjejwhwbhauuwuwvshsyys7929 5 лет назад +2239

    Anyone else going through this right now?

    • @justinstevenson9680
      @justinstevenson9680 5 лет назад +28

      Yep, 4 weeks out of a relationship and no contact straight away. Dump her right back and tell her to stay out your life. Make the ex feel the loss too because they'll feel it at some point because at the beginning they hold all the power and will still think they can have you if they want. Take that safety net away no matter how much it hurts because they'll soon be comparing anyone else to you.

    • @Adrian-ul3wr
      @Adrian-ul3wr 5 лет назад +53

      I will be in about an hour, wish me luck. It's time to end the bullshit I've dealt with

    • @Dabura223
      @Dabura223 5 лет назад +1

      Yep

    • @noelo4604
      @noelo4604 5 лет назад

      Yuuuuppp

    • @TheySeeYou7
      @TheySeeYou7 5 лет назад +2

      Lol nah dude. Watching this shit because the wife and I have never gotten along better.

  • @derekhandson351
    @derekhandson351 4 года назад +3987

    He helped me get the girl, and now he's going to help me get over the girl.

    • @faroukrashid8972
      @faroukrashid8972 4 года назад +81

      Derek Handson 😂😂😂😂😂 dude u made my day 🔥🔥

    • @asmrmusicsite7014
      @asmrmusicsite7014 4 года назад +12

      savage!!

    • @shadowvortextv
      @shadowvortextv 4 года назад +48

      Same here, I can't believe it's been 2 days for me...still having depressed days...I miss her

    • @morpheus559
      @morpheus559 4 года назад +20

      Darius Garcia mine broke up with me yesterday I’m going thru it lmao

    • @shadowvortextv
      @shadowvortextv 4 года назад +3

      @@morpheus559 really damn sorry to hear that.

  • @joer8273
    @joer8273 11 месяцев назад +7

    Classic Alpha here. Calm, informed, sincere. What a throwback.

  • @manahaneicetea
    @manahaneicetea 2 года назад +16

    This is exactly what I needed to hear, break ups are always hard especially when you truly care for the person. I’m gonna focus on myself and just take it one day at a time.

  • @davidbedell7839
    @davidbedell7839 6 лет назад +2842

    A relationship can go from the best thing that ever happened to you to the worst thing that ever happened to you

  • @dbzsrb9654
    @dbzsrb9654 4 года назад +3310

    I really love her but she forgot everything we had in a second

    • @jeremiah9117
      @jeremiah9117 4 года назад +76

      I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

    • @dbzsrb9654
      @dbzsrb9654 4 года назад +45

      jerry olotu damn I can only imagine that pain you felt......

    • @hhkkefeoi3915
      @hhkkefeoi3915 4 года назад +59

      I feel empty my heart hurts

    • @TasosJoker
      @TasosJoker 4 года назад +16

      If you was weak to her that's the reason

    • @pentagram4745
      @pentagram4745 4 года назад +105

      She'll remember it the moment she misses you. Stop contacting her.

  • @shakal9398
    @shakal9398 2 года назад +22

    I love how supportive everyone is! The fact that everyone of us is/was going through this and will/already recovered and became once again confident just shows us that this pain is temporarly. Stay strong kings🤴

  • @KemmistryFlow
    @KemmistryFlow 3 года назад +60

    Never been treated like a Stranger by someone I was in love with. Shit hurts but it opened my eyes.

    • @mosessmart8004
      @mosessmart8004 3 года назад

      I have someone who can help you bring back your ex and fix your relationship he helped me fix my
      Message him on WhatsApp
      +1(914)867-1171

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 Год назад

      How are you doing now bro?

  • @Billybob-xz4br
    @Billybob-xz4br 8 лет назад +2649

    Hurts when you invested so much and still doesn't work, like she took it all for granted

    • @Curryfishballa
      @Curryfishballa 7 лет назад +132

      Billy bob bruh i feel you but you handled the relationship like a true warrior. You gave her the best and all you could. Its up to her to decide. If she doesnt appreciate any of them, it means she doesnt feel comfortable or its just too early for her to love. You deserve better bruh. I hope you are feeling better now.

    • @Billybob-xz4br
      @Billybob-xz4br 7 лет назад +37

      Curryfishballa Ah man I appreciate that thank you! I'm okay now but now and then I'll feel down about it, but much better thanks

    • @robertofamilia2177
      @robertofamilia2177 7 лет назад +2

      yes man smh

    • @SuperPreshan
      @SuperPreshan 7 лет назад +20

      Billy bob I invested so much and she also took me for granted

    • @TheModization
      @TheModization 7 лет назад +18

      took the words straight outta my mouth

  • @kennytard
    @kennytard 4 года назад +232

    my youtube search went from
    1. how to ask out your crush
    2. things to cheer up your girlfriend
    3. how to get over a breakup

  • @GhosTZombies
    @GhosTZombies 3 года назад +278

    I can’t really go outside when covid is around, otherwise I’ll be going gym for distraction 😔😔

    • @jenniferlopez2861
      @jenniferlopez2861 3 года назад

      Contact him onnwhatsapp

    • @jenniferlopez2861
      @jenniferlopez2861 3 года назад

      +2348115671212.,

    • @genehughes4022
      @genehughes4022 3 года назад

      Right its tuff

    • @bsyl2563
      @bsyl2563 3 года назад +1

      Yow i saw you in the 9 tips to get over your ex good to see someone broken like me

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo 3 года назад +1

      No wonder your woman left you. You're afraid of sniffles and buy into propaganda.

  • @erick_egmklw
    @erick_egmklw 2 года назад +6

    I handled my break up as best as I could, I quit my bad habits, started going to gym, changed my work, changed my apartment. Everything started getting better and better until she came back to me. But this time I was the one who left. Coz she was there when we broke up, but I was different and proud to say I was better than I used to be.

  • @kraftmuppen
    @kraftmuppen 9 лет назад +2377

    Breakups create bodybuilders! Because the best thing to do when you're sad is: Hit the gym

    • @AlexJasso100
      @AlexJasso100 9 лет назад +71

      Amen!

    • @vonhellman
      @vonhellman 9 лет назад +40

      Or when you're bored.

    • @1IrishAirsoft1
      @1IrishAirsoft1 9 лет назад +60

      Started last month after a breakup! Feeling great!!!

    • @ReadySetGoPictures
      @ReadySetGoPictures 9 лет назад +56

      Its true...I didn't break up, but kind of got rejected. nothing fixes it like hitting the gym.

    • @kevdog330
      @kevdog330 9 лет назад +21

      I just broke up with my gf of 6 months, been hitting the gym hard for the past 2 weeks. It helps a lot.

  • @FrogBoy12
    @FrogBoy12 5 лет назад +816

    day 380.. endless talking.
    the next day.. none
    the day after.. none
    it feels awful.
    stay strong people.

    • @FactorHitsBills
      @FactorHitsBills 5 лет назад +5

      how are you now bro

    • @Surgelitex
      @Surgelitex 5 лет назад +1

      Factor - Comeback? t hey...

    • @williamsantiago9284
      @williamsantiago9284 5 лет назад +10

      she just said she lost feelings it hurts like hell dude i need help i can’t stop thinking of her

    • @Dontreadmyprofile0.0
      @Dontreadmyprofile0.0 4 года назад +3

      Some One I maybe on a troll account but bro same it sucks man. I can’t stop thinking of her but you just have to give the girl space. If she texts you back she loves you. Do not contact her at all!!

    • @RealTemp02
      @RealTemp02 4 года назад +2

      FrogBoy12 2 days ago, everything was fine, know she’s just nobody..

  • @The_Bold_Statement
    @The_Bold_Statement Год назад +7

    For all those out there going through the breakup phase,we are here for you KINGS, if you got nobody to talk to them write it down,maybe connect with some old friends,join a gym, even if someone is too stuck ,share with me or anyone here..coz i am also going through something like this and figuring out life

  • @yoshisauce9630
    @yoshisauce9630 Год назад +13

    I cheated on the woman I love, because I didn’t realize I wasn’t in love anymore. She broke up with me now I have a whole in my hearts. I no longer want to talk to anyone until I work on myself and learn what I really want. I even rejected someone who pretty much through themselves at me. Sleeping around just didn’t sit right with me. Now I’m sad and depressed and currently thinking about joining a church for guidance.

    • @TonerTheStoner
      @TonerTheStoner Год назад +3

      Spirituality and connection to one’s inner self is what I think to be the true key to healing. Good luck.

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 Год назад

      Amen 🙏🏾how are you now?

    • @moneauxje
      @moneauxje Год назад

      Been there man, you’re a man that made a mistake don’t label yourself and you have to get everything time to heal. Maybe there will a next time or maybe there will be a next one, but don’t stop doing things to better yourself.

  • @zachmiller2628
    @zachmiller2628 5 лет назад +793

    5 years together every day and talking to each other 24/7. We broke up and now we're strangers after 2 days.

    • @stef7574
      @stef7574 5 лет назад +22

      Zach Miller bro”s keep your head up, keep repeating why you broke up and go out and do stuff 🖤🖤🖤

    • @BoutYoungAnnaLee
      @BoutYoungAnnaLee 5 лет назад +6

      How you feeling now Zach?

    • @joseibarra7056
      @joseibarra7056 5 лет назад +6

      How’s it going bro ?

    • @michaeldraper5295
      @michaeldraper5295 5 лет назад +37

      3 years here, strangers ya I know that feeling... I gave her everything and never wronged her and yet she broke up with me like I was the worst person on the planet

    • @VegetabIeMan
      @VegetabIeMan 5 лет назад +16

      My ex left me for a guy she met at the pool at her apartment complex. Her depression allows her to not be happy and enter a situation to be with a man who has the same goals as her: to be promiscuous. It’s a shame and these people need help before they ever hurt someone they love. Because they do love them, but rather would be selfish in every which way.

  • @danelhernandez4875
    @danelhernandez4875 5 лет назад +865

    When a man learns to love he must bear the risk of pain

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 5 лет назад +46

      that pain is no joke

    • @danelhernandez4875
      @danelhernandez4875 5 лет назад +7

      @@robertswift6101 neither are the benefits you can gain from that pain

    • @SolidMixedo
      @SolidMixedo 5 лет назад +35

      @@danelhernandez4875 the benefits I've gained are not to fall in love again, rock solid heart and cold blood. To control the emotion of "love".

    • @youredxspanktube
      @youredxspanktube 5 лет назад +2

      Its so painful bro..

    • @IsaiahUchiha24
      @IsaiahUchiha24 5 лет назад +5

      Naruto quote?

  • @kunwarsharma336
    @kunwarsharma336 2 года назад +3

    Thanks alpha for helping me as a kid to get the confidence to improve myself, to upscale my personality, to help me grow as a person.
    And now helping me as an adult to get over relationships, thanks for helping me relearn the meaning of life, thanks for helping me ease up my pain.
    You are a legend. Idk if you will ever read this comment or not, but you have touched and changed my life in so many better ways. I am watching your content after life 2-3 years and it still feels like you are the only saviour. The saviour that once helped a kid and now the savious that is helping an adult. You are doing some awesome work. I love you brother! ❤️

  • @milspic74
    @milspic74 Год назад

    Those were the best words i heard. I too am going through this now and I know time will remove this pain.
    Thank you sir!

  • @tenaciousadagio
    @tenaciousadagio 5 лет назад +1162

    I just got dumped by this girl that I've been dating for a year. And i gave her everything she was my world. Its hard to get over someone that you thought you had a future with.

    • @jordonbarry6569
      @jordonbarry6569 5 лет назад +66

      I know exactly how you feel

    • @kevinp.8407
      @kevinp.8407 5 лет назад +38

      I feel you man.

    • @jordonmerrick3229
      @jordonmerrick3229 5 лет назад +48

      Same thing literally just happended to me yesterday and it feels so fucking terrible

    • @mrbigshot150472
      @mrbigshot150472 5 лет назад +52

      Take it easy. I went through something similar and it taught me to never depend on other people for happiness or to make someone the sole purpose of my life. Take his advice and don’t self sabotage yourself. It’s painful but don’t run away from that pain, face it and use it to propel you forward in life

    • @scatty1355
      @scatty1355 5 лет назад +23

      Same shit happened to me three weeks ago, she said "she needed time" but we all know that time doesn't exist, but the way that she's acting makes me feel like this isn't over...

  • @fidelmartinezjr
    @fidelmartinezjr 5 лет назад +1137

    Imagine losing someone you really loved and their not even dead

    • @izzyDbuzzin
      @izzyDbuzzin 5 лет назад +15

      I got to experience both. I'm broken man

    • @fidelmartinezjr
      @fidelmartinezjr 5 лет назад +8

      izzyDbuzzin - Same bro, best thing to do is turn your pain into strength
      Stay up brother 💯

    • @subzero9024
      @subzero9024 5 лет назад +3

      FM Chico she is dead to me now

    • @jermainabdin5364
      @jermainabdin5364 5 лет назад +2

      No one realized this is a gates lyric

    • @fidelmartinezjr
      @fidelmartinezjr 5 лет назад +1

      jermain abdin - Glad you did tho lol

  • @hoatheflower9532
    @hoatheflower9532 2 года назад +2

    it hurts when you see something interesting and you want to share it with them as you usually did but then you realize that theyre not there anymore

  • @yaxshilikizlab
    @yaxshilikizlab 2 года назад +1

    Thank uu maaaaaan !!! Thank u a lot. APPRECIATE IT. I almost forgot her ). That was so supportive of you.

  • @ysf2143
    @ysf2143 4 года назад +950

    The worst thing about it is that she not only broke my heart, but she made me feel unwanted after everything i did for her

    • @dannyboi4272
      @dannyboi4272 4 года назад +26

      Death Scar I feel the exact same I hope your doing better Keep your head up & stay strong

    • @yozzahuges9282
      @yozzahuges9282 4 года назад +26

      I feel your pain bro I’m going through the same thing right now,I feel so stupid!

    • @crust8450
      @crust8450 4 года назад +8

      Jesus this is relatable af

    • @gonzalosaavedraalban
      @gonzalosaavedraalban 4 года назад +24

      Fuck her, you are much better but you have to do EVERYTHING for yourself and make sure to fuckin' see it in front of the mirror. Stay clear!

    • @ritamhalder3201
      @ritamhalder3201 4 года назад +5

      Same here

  • @chickenfingers7177
    @chickenfingers7177 4 года назад +1674

    When your girlfriend becomes your best friend, then your friend, then a complete stranger. Happens in two days. Then she gets a new bf. EDIT: Just keep going you'll make it through king.

    • @jasonhussong1378
      @jasonhussong1378 4 года назад +25

      Keep your head up man, that SUCKS to hear I'm praying for you!

    • @camdonhurst676
      @camdonhurst676 4 года назад +17

      These comments are two relatable 😓🤧

    • @neerajrawat6354
      @neerajrawat6354 4 года назад +6

      @@iojDRE may god bless you Brother......... May u will get the right one for you...... If she did that.... She's not the right one for u........ Atleast she broke up with you before coming in relationship with another guy.............

    • @animalcracker1455
      @animalcracker1455 4 года назад +15

      Wow. This exactly what happened to me🥺😔

    • @zaink7037
      @zaink7037 3 года назад +3

      Everything happens for a reason but it really does hurt and mess your head up. My crush got married to a distant relative who isn't even in the same country we're in. Anyway haven't heard anything good about her and she'd be a financial weight on me if I did get with her so thank god I didn't get with her

  • @Satchel1992
    @Satchel1992 Год назад +6

    Yeah breakups suck and even taking the advice is a challenge in itself because naturally you want to express your sorrow. However much you loved that person your pain will equally match it. But in the end brothers you have a choice and that’s to sit at home in your own pity and be undesirable to anyone and just feel awful or go out and start working on yourself and either you’ll win that person back or attract a new girl that’s everything you ever wanted. Coming from a person who was just dumped yesterday I just went out and got a gym membership and I’m gonna start playing my guitar again and do things to work on myself. Life will bless me with the right one someday.

    • @legacy4548
      @legacy4548 Год назад

      I got dumped yesterday and we had a bond more than sex like laughing best friends.. it does suck but we must go forward. Stay blessed

  • @jcent9913
    @jcent9913 5 месяцев назад +2

    Damn, I came back to this video twice now over the last 6 years. Relationships are tough

    • @Pikachu-Gaming1764
      @Pikachu-Gaming1764 4 месяца назад

      😂 Ha my first but j Hope you heal bro they hard yes

  • @nickandolino4821
    @nickandolino4821 7 лет назад +872

    Why the fuck am I here? I'm not even in a relationship lol

    • @kailen98
      @kailen98 7 лет назад +12

      Nick Andolino well now ur prepared 😂😂😂

    • @Martuxaable
      @Martuxaable 7 лет назад +6

      thank you. You made me laugh

    • @vishvendrasingh6972
      @vishvendrasingh6972 7 лет назад +2

      Nick Andolino same here bro

    • @manodyamalagala4609
      @manodyamalagala4609 7 лет назад +3

      Nick Andolino it'll give you tips for when you do break-up, should that occur :) I'm in the same boat man :( haha

    • @m0m0206
      @m0m0206 7 лет назад +3

      😂😂😂 same here

  • @obieobie5226
    @obieobie5226 4 года назад +1807

    To all my brothers out facing this struggle... My wife of 21 years left me 5 yrs ago. The pain was unbearable. However, I am in a much better place now... It takes time. It will get worse before it gets better, but it will get better. The beauty of rock bottom is, there's nowhere to go but up....
    Peace... Stay strong... Good bless

  • @fsfbart
    @fsfbart 3 года назад +11

    My fiancee (which I had honestly been really really good to) ended our engagement in starbucks a few days ago.
    As I sat down (already anxious and stressed), I tried to take a sip of her coffee and she responded by putting her hand up as a stop sign and went "ehh, social distancing"...
    I just can't imagine the level of cold and heartlessness when you already know you're about to hurt someone this much and just strip them of every bit of dignity and treat them like an infectious disease!!!
    It made me feel not only sad that the engagement had ended, which was hard enough to deal with on its own, but just made me feel so so worthless.
    And then she even went on to block me and call my best friend to say she "200% didn't love me", "didn't want to see me" and "the whole relationship was one-sided" that I loved her so much but she didn't love me at all.
    My self worth hit rock bottom and it sickens me that even after how she treated me I still love her and deep down I still crave her approval and validation... but it's the truth and I gotta find a way to fix that as its surely not healthy
    But am doing the right things:
    - Accept the suffering as it comes and not get a quick fix by sleeping around or finding a rebound etc. like i usually might have done.
    - no alcohol
    - eat healthy
    - Proper sleep
    - work out or do sports every day
    - Work on my self growth and try to learn from the experience and find validation in myself rather than from her or anyone else
    - Focus on a new project of my own
    Basically just treat myself as someone who's valuable despite her clearly thinking I am not.

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      @nicolesandy6814 3 года назад +1

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      @nicolesandy6814 3 года назад

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    • @fsfbart
      @fsfbart 3 года назад +1

      @@nicolesandy6814 no, I don't need help to get my ex back...
      A woman who leaves me in the heartless the way that she did clearly isn't the woman I thought she was and isn't the kind of woman that I'd want as a mother to my children anyway.

  • @nephatkomu678
    @nephatkomu678 2 года назад +3

    I was really attached and in denial but now i think that the world has given me time to work on me

  • @SuperkenGaming
    @SuperkenGaming 9 лет назад +3243

    Going through a horrible break up right now.
    Really needed this. Thank you.

    • @SuperkenGaming
      @SuperkenGaming 9 лет назад +19

      Thank you, you too!

    • @dumitrupopamd
      @dumitrupopamd 9 лет назад +11

      Woss.....=D.....just kidding, The little guy up the page talks some good things. Work out, go out, say Yes to everything, and without noticing, you will be over that mess in a moment ;) . You are awesome guys! Don”t forget that =D

    • @SuperkenGaming
      @SuperkenGaming 9 лет назад +33

      dumitrupopamd hahaha I wont deny, heart break turns me into a little girl lmfao

    • @Ilovel11t
      @Ilovel11t 9 лет назад +2

      SuperkenGaming Same situation.

    • @SuperkenGaming
      @SuperkenGaming 9 лет назад +7

      Pallavi Mukherji I luckily got over this nonsense :P
      Now its your turn! :D

  • @joshs8704
    @joshs8704 6 лет назад +725

    So many guys being brave enough to be open here. It's good to see.

    • @shqiperia60
      @shqiperia60 6 лет назад +7

      Thank you.

    • @PCISFEAR
      @PCISFEAR 5 лет назад +2

      Real men right here!

    • @dekudesu1735
      @dekudesu1735 5 лет назад

      You my sir are a god

    • @awwman240
      @awwman240 5 лет назад +2

      Because this is the only place where we can share our pain.

  • @AG-vb6vv
    @AG-vb6vv Год назад +2

    Had my first breakup today, first girl I’ve loved.. and Alpha M is a legend!

  • @howlinberry1645
    @howlinberry1645 2 месяца назад +2

    Just what I needed to hear. Thought things were going well and then BAM! I get the we need to talk text.

  • @Nb_edu
    @Nb_edu 6 лет назад +456

    8 years relationship, ive never felt so broken and lonely. Wanna come here after a year and see how ive improved.

    • @joeyvieira9618
      @joeyvieira9618 6 лет назад +4

      Edu Nb same for me. 8 years.

    • @amateruss
      @amateruss 6 лет назад +10

      Hi, a year has passed already. What are you up to?

    • @_allcap
      @_allcap 6 лет назад +17

      9 years for me.. It's tough bro, keep your head up.

    • @amateruss
      @amateruss 6 лет назад +2

      HAHAHAH!

    • @melkroll6962
      @melkroll6962 6 лет назад

      Super Swag Bwoy how you doing king

  • @Brian-zc2ip
    @Brian-zc2ip 7 лет назад +307

    my wife just left me after a 7 year marriage. took our 3 year old baby girl. I'm in a city that I hate far from home but I'm determined to stay close to my child. if nothing else when im an old man I want to know I did my best as a father. I've very little support here, none really. so I've been staying away from the drink and working out every day and I'm determined to dig myself out of this. I can't let it beat me. I won't spend the rest of my life in misery.
    to all my brothers going through the same. chin up. as the saying goes. "this too will pass" 💫

    • @6TeenGuy
      @6TeenGuy 7 лет назад +12

      Brian O Shea God Bless you, sir. We will get through this!

    • @ishotguntrolls
      @ishotguntrolls 7 лет назад +14

      your hard work won't be wasted. don't worry

    • @1010nedim
      @1010nedim 7 лет назад +12

      good luck man, you deserve all the happiness in the world. im going through a tough break up too but i wont let it break me

    • @Brian-zc2ip
      @Brian-zc2ip 7 лет назад +11

      1010nedim stay positive man. make life about you. make your life the way you want it to be. walk out of that burning building and thank God you've another chance at happiness. best of luck brother.

    • @vlermler6823
      @vlermler6823 7 лет назад +3

      Going through a break up, too. it sucks, but i don't have it as bad as you, so i feel weaker,lol. i hope your situation has gotten better. best of lucks, dude.

  • @Ozmni11
    @Ozmni11 9 месяцев назад

    GREAT POINT!!!! If you have great confidence it will hurt less.
    The less confident, the more it will hurt.

  • @ryuanhansin6357
    @ryuanhansin6357 2 месяца назад +2

    As I sit here and sweat my emotions out though a workout I know the pain will subside but it’s still there. I know I must be my best before I find my next best.

  • @craigmerighe8742
    @craigmerighe8742 5 лет назад +321

    I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and 7 months on February. I'm still trying to heal, I'm still trying to manage. I promise all of you, it'll get better.

  • @ryanf7441
    @ryanf7441 5 лет назад +529

    I watched this video literally 2 years ago and here we are again

  • @beatmaker24x73
    @beatmaker24x73 2 года назад +2

    I come here after every break up. It helps

  • @kimogomez
    @kimogomez Год назад

    Thanks for the words that i know is true. The reminder is welcomed!

  • @aleksanderreberg
    @aleksanderreberg 5 лет назад +623

    5 years we have built up, 5 minutes to end it all... I do love her, and I want the best for her... but this hurts like nothing else.

    • @alexpescaru7891
      @alexpescaru7891 5 лет назад +22

      Fuck

    • @MrBlue-me9cd
      @MrBlue-me9cd 5 лет назад +9

      It's been 2 years here since she left 💔

    • @aleksanderreberg
      @aleksanderreberg 5 лет назад +24

      Well... she was with a guy before she broke up with me... they're together now. Cool, I got cheated on

    • @MrBlue-me9cd
      @MrBlue-me9cd 5 лет назад +2

      That sucks, I'm really sorry i hope it wont take you so long like whats happening with me

    • @MrBlue-me9cd
      @MrBlue-me9cd 5 лет назад +3

      Let's talk about it when you feel like it. i can be a good listener. My instagram is @ahmad_basil

  • @duplicateyeti6883
    @duplicateyeti6883 7 лет назад +95

    Feeling a messy breakup coming up very soon... wish me luck boys

    • @theprovincial
      @theprovincial 6 лет назад +2

      I'm in the same position now man, relationship is on the rocks. Through past experience I've noticed that the natural emotion is empathy, but this will ALWAYS ruin whats left if you act upon it. Instead of softening your resolve toughen it and stand by your principles. Firmness in the face of break up can reassert respect between partners and potentially save things from ending.

    • @Fruitpunchyearsago
      @Fruitpunchyearsago 6 лет назад +1

      Give ya luck

    • @KILLEDxYODA
      @KILLEDxYODA 6 лет назад +4

      How you doing bro

  • @GEORGIABOY23
    @GEORGIABOY23 Год назад +2

    Pretend you don’t care and fake it until you make it. It help! Don’t let anybody you know that you are hurt!!!!!

  • @mikegagnon6538
    @mikegagnon6538 2 года назад

    Thanks for that vidéo. You really put things in a positive perspective, and it helped me through a break up with this woman I was with for 4 years.

  • @GeekIntel
    @GeekIntel 9 лет назад +61

    A good quote comes to mind: "pain is temporary. It may last a minute, and hour, a day, or even a year but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If you quit however it will last forever"

  • @jasonhunt4249
    @jasonhunt4249 8 лет назад +464

    I'm here cus I just got dumped by a girl I dated for 2 years, this guy makes it feel better 👍🏼

    • @giakhanhtran2116
      @giakhanhtran2116 8 лет назад +14

      3 years here and this guy really helps me a lot too. Keep yourself together bro, whatever you and your girlfriend have done in the past does not mean anything anymore, it's just you making yourself better from now on. Hope you get well soon :))

    • @jasonhunt4249
      @jasonhunt4249 8 лет назад +5

      +Gia Khanh Tran I'm fully fine, fuck that bitch lol

    • @jarry1595
      @jarry1595 8 лет назад +7

      Just happened to me, same story

    • @leoncharles1431
      @leoncharles1431 8 лет назад +1

      listen to music... like 'let her go'

    • @daltondavis171
      @daltondavis171 7 лет назад +23

      Same 2.5 years
      Practically deleted everything off my phone

  • @zak5062
    @zak5062 2 года назад

    @alpha.m you are a true guru...idk what to say but you helped alot..idk if you will ever see this message but you got your legacy brother..the best and the most rewarding thing you can do in life is help and be a positive contributer to someone's life..i love you brother ❤ 💙 .

  • @VanQuishMk
    @VanQuishMk 3 года назад +2

    to everyone dealing with a breakup rn you’re not alone and me and the people in the comments have your back. me and my gf broke up after a year and a half basically because she didn’t wanna be in a relationship anymore and wanted to be single shit fucking sucks it’s bens two months and i’m still not over her i gave my everything to this girl and just like that without thinking twice it was gone. you aren’t going through this alone confide with us it’s better to stick together now that we feel alone and abandoned, i thought it couldn’t get better and i would always feel like shit without her but u gotta push through and keep your head high even tho it seems hard because at the end of the day the tunnel ends and the suns shows up and at the end of the day after night comes the daylight. there’s brighter days ahead of u i promise

  • @Ryan-jx4vh
    @Ryan-jx4vh 6 лет назад +62

    The pain is so raw. When you want something to work and it just won’t. It feels like a death. It may be worse, because that person lives on and you know they are out there. Ugh

  • @Pauahi4
    @Pauahi4 4 года назад +135

    Hooked up a few times to try and get over a break up within the week. Cried and felt like shit for hours after every single one. DO NOT sleep around until you’re ready, bro.

    • @skyejacques
      @skyejacques 2 года назад

      Hope you're healing now and in a better place. There's a lot going on for humanity now. Heartbreak became the final cue for a spiritual awakening for me, every single time. Especially when family and friends were the ones hurting me

    • @PeacefulPariah
      @PeacefulPariah 2 года назад

      Word, agreed. There is a place and time for the rebound, but down the line. It's unfair to the woman you doing too. If they're f'ing you, they like you. They're in a different place.

  • @samlee93
    @samlee93 2 года назад +1

    She's just ended it after 7 years. Got to sell up the house. My dreams of us together are crushed. I needed this video.

  • @gravlessdragon2865
    @gravlessdragon2865 Год назад +1

    Thanks for this video I actually needed this

  • @mohamedaashiq462
    @mohamedaashiq462 4 года назад +524

    Love is all beautiful in the beginning but so painful in the end....Sleepless happy nights to sleepless crying nights. Time changes

    • @LennyCash777
      @LennyCash777 3 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/LgaHfc2eaSo/видео.html

    • @bhavyapatel8102
      @bhavyapatel8102 3 года назад +1

      Once a legend said Love is dagger. - Loki

    • @alfauno1255
      @alfauno1255 3 года назад

      Spot on my bro.

    • @lolmaster4908
      @lolmaster4908 3 года назад +1

      true. y miss her laughs. dude im sad becas im thinking y cant find such girl anymore. that pain is crazy like totaly crazy. respect for people who moved trough that shit

    • @suhashr4298
      @suhashr4298 2 года назад

      True bro

  • @debadreeto
    @debadreeto 4 года назад +513

    What we all need to understand is, we should never be invested in any person to such an extent that our own existence comes at a stand still. Always be selfish enough to prioritize your hobbies and passion, every single day.

    • @mrsanti_history
      @mrsanti_history 3 года назад +1

      Best comment 👏🏼

    • @FATKASH77
      @FATKASH77 2 года назад +1

      Facts , thank you 🙏🏽

    • @manilanoakes3966
      @manilanoakes3966 2 года назад +9

      Without your romantic partner your hobbies and passions are meaningless.

    • @insidethekult1521
      @insidethekult1521 2 года назад +3

      That’s what I had in my mind during all my last relationship. « Don’t let her become your priority you will suffer». Now I realised I treated her like disposable, rejected her many times, and now I feel like the biggest loser/odiot on earth. She was the only good thing in my life and I said I don’t want it. Now I’m back in hell and it feels deeper than ever

    • @MOREBEATSTV
      @MOREBEATSTV 2 года назад +2

      Most definitely. Do not fall in love with these women because they are not designed to love the way you love. Yes love and cherish them but do not be so overreaching to the extent that you put your mental state into question because you don’t work out. You have to stay on your purpose because life moves forward at all times. Good look fellas!

  • @mdimotionproduct1440
    @mdimotionproduct1440 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for being honest dude needed this

  • @aasyed
    @aasyed 10 дней назад

    The way you talk is funny, lifted my mood

  • @kamikaze01239
    @kamikaze01239 4 года назад +186

    Scary how you think someone is your soulmate and they tell you they want forever and theyll never leave you only to never talk ever again, only leaving memories that could never be.

    • @yolevi8829
      @yolevi8829 3 года назад +2

      This just happened to me man..i feel that

    • @amanksingh04
      @amanksingh04 3 года назад +2

      Just going through this right now 😭😭

    • @ashishtiwari1912
      @ashishtiwari1912 3 года назад +9

      Happened to me. It's painful. Love is great at the beginning and painful in the end. Women tend to become very cold when they end this relationship. They do recover fast unlike men who feel distressed about it for a really long time. But yes men have to become more supportive of each other.

    • @BasketballSWAG123
      @BasketballSWAG123 3 года назад +2

      Will never understand how someone can tell you everything still infinity for you love hasn’t changed just to wake up 2 days later and walk away without a argument even the day before she walked away she was worried about what I was doing ? Asking me what I did last night was I home alone why’d I stay up so late etc obviously u still gaf so how you walk away literally a few hours later during that same exact convo for no reason as if I did something to u I asked her why she asking so much she said ok so and then I didn’t respond cuz I fell asleep n I woke up to a second message from her saying I’m not feeling this nomore ? I feel so lost I couldn’t even get a reason why women are cold creatures never again once I get over this breakup I’m never emotionally connecting to another female they are not shit especially today’s women

    • @altonthedisreserved-9352
      @altonthedisreserved-9352 2 года назад

      I definitely felt this hard

  • @ralphdavid4448
    @ralphdavid4448 4 года назад +365

    It's hard to forget someone who gave you a lot to remember. I just want to say for all the guys out there that their girl broke up with them, we're here, you're not alone, we can recover from this.

    • @mrali6904
      @mrali6904 2 года назад +2

      thx man

    • @bryanmelendez6403
      @bryanmelendez6403 2 года назад

      Thank you man.

    • @tyrobouman1074
      @tyrobouman1074 2 года назад

      ❤️

    • @MrM4X0N3
      @MrM4X0N3 2 года назад +1

      How man, how.

    • @endryl08
      @endryl08 Год назад +1

      I much rather have her breaking up with me, my situation is diferent and it make me extremelly sad too but in a diferent way, its because I had to break up with her, because I know I was threathing her like shit and she did not diserve it, and I didnt had feelings for her, but its very hard for me, because I know she have nobody, and that its hurting way more on her right now, she really loved me, but sadly I didnt share the same feelings, so Im feeling extremelly guilty and sad...

  • @ingodwetrust3138
    @ingodwetrust3138 2 года назад

    Thank you bro. Everything was wisdom from experience.

  • @willbuckshorn
    @willbuckshorn Год назад

    I needed this

  • @Ciaranmcl2108
    @Ciaranmcl2108 4 года назад +801

    “Last thing you should do is isolate yourself” currently watching during coronavirus self isolation period 2020 😂👎

    • @christianvilleda7163
      @christianvilleda7163 4 года назад +1

      Ciaranm2108 MANNNNNN

    • @djack1170
      @djack1170 4 года назад +12

      Yep it's a lot harder when you cant go anywhere

    • @trxndesign3331
      @trxndesign3331 4 года назад

      LOL me too 😂😂

    • @Ciaranmcl2108
      @Ciaranmcl2108 4 года назад +4

      TRXN Design we get through it together bro😎👌

    • @miketang9647
      @miketang9647 4 года назад +7

      Ciaranm2108 I just broke up with my 5 yr gf. Now I’m stuck home alone

  • @Brandonian3030
    @Brandonian3030 9 лет назад +50

    I'm 2 years deep, it hasn't gotten any easier. Don't let the one you love go, you'll never forgive yourself.

    • @frostwerewoof
      @frostwerewoof 9 лет назад +21

      Keep on brothers! There is no shame in how you feel!

    • @hasansbehi7662
      @hasansbehi7662 9 лет назад +4

      im 1 year deep but i keep watching comedy it helps me alot

    • @sumayyakhan1877
      @sumayyakhan1877 7 лет назад +3

      wat if the one u love doesn't want u...

  • @romainvicta4610
    @romainvicta4610 2 года назад

    Thank you for starting my life back up again

  • @percyjacksonsbathroomfloor3419
    @percyjacksonsbathroomfloor3419 2 года назад

    Omg i didnt know the lead singer from maroon had his own RUclips channel
    🤟😎 keep on rocking it dude!!

  • @ItsJustAdrean
    @ItsJustAdrean 4 года назад +399

    To everyone out there who needs to hear this video, it's going to be okay

    • @deadshot112
      @deadshot112 3 года назад +5

      Thank you sm you have no idea how much this helps

    • @gabeadams2926
      @gabeadams2926 3 года назад +1

      Do you promise?

    • @MrPoppy-nt5vr
      @MrPoppy-nt5vr 3 года назад +3

      @@gabeadams2926 Yes, take it as an opportunity, I know it's impossible to think that right now, but as soon as you heal, you will be stronger than ever.
      I have been in a 5 year relationship, she sent me a text message that she wants to break up.. After 5 years, from a person you wanted to marry.. I cried over and over, didn't eat nor sleep for 2 days straight.. It sucked and I thought I won't find any other like her and guess what 😁 I did, and it was the first girl I talked to 3 weeks after the breakup.
      We had a date and I went there with zero expectations. The moment I saw her she blew my mind. It went all perfect, I thought it would be a 1 hour date.. We talked for nearly 5 hours, she is such a nice person inside out.
      Today is our second date, I'm totally happy to see her again and I'm getting her a rose. Good things come gentlemen, just be patient, there really are other fish in the sea. 😉 And eventually, you will find hapiness.

    • @gabeadams2926
      @gabeadams2926 3 года назад

      @@MrPoppy-nt5vr wow so inspiring to hear this story! Thank you for taking the time out of your busy schedule to help a brother out!
      Do you have any tips for how to meet women from your experience? I live in a large metropolitan city so I suppose for me it is a little bit more of a challenge.
      Nevertheless, good luck with your second date and I hope you guys have an awesome time!
      P.s. I hope she is the “one” for you :)

    • @MrPoppy-nt5vr
      @MrPoppy-nt5vr 3 года назад +2

      @@gabeadams2926 Thanks for the positivite wishes! I hope too!
      Every girl I dated was from social media / dating site.
      Well, I downloaded some dating apps, I think Tinder is widely renowned, and Badoo (not sure if you know that one) so I added some of my photos and some brief but honest text. The thing is everyone is different and most people behave differently. I am a very easy-going person, very honest, I never lie even though it's sometimes really hard. We had a match so I texted her and from her replies I could already tell she is different than other women. Few days later, I think it was 2 days of texting and then I decided to invite her out and she said yes - that was the 1st date.
      From my experience what I can recommend you to do is:
      - talk to people A LOT to gain some (conversation) confidence, my family, especially my grandfather really helped me, I had no idea how much he has to offer. He even predicted the breakup, but didn't sat at the time. So I took some valuable advice from him (how to react in certain situations, what to say, etc.)
      - be polite and fun,
      - be confident about yourself,
      - be yourself,
      - be honest, never ever lie
      - don't brag about yourself
      - groom,
      - bring her flowers, she will love it
      - the last and most important - be gentlemen (open doors or car doors and so on..)
      - I almost forgot, DONT SPEED when she's with you in your car 😀
      I hope this helps, text me anytime, I'm glad to help. 😁

  • @anthonycastillo1213
    @anthonycastillo1213 5 лет назад +259

    My girlfriend of 5 years left me she said she lost feelings for me I thought everything was perfect 😔 everything seemed good

    • @jacobfuchs962
      @jacobfuchs962 5 лет назад +17

      Anthony Castillo it’ll get better man

    • @weirdchannel4428
      @weirdchannel4428 4 года назад +25

      atleast you've had sex like a bunch of times lol

    • @yourdaughter2001
      @yourdaughter2001 4 года назад +2

      Breaks my heart for you man . Prayers my man

    • @TasosJoker
      @TasosJoker 4 года назад +1

      Stay strong

    • @DustinIsCool
      @DustinIsCool 4 года назад +15

      Mine cheated on me and a week later had a new boyfriend after telling me she loved me.

  • @oli7356
    @oli7356 Год назад +3

    Just ended my 7 yr relationship 1 year engagement because respect for me was never her priority. At a certain point you realize you can do everything for someone you love and they’ll still just treat you like a doormat. I hate this, but I had to finally stand up for myself.

  • @EricFranksSon
    @EricFranksSon Год назад

    I would binge watch Swinger.
    Thanks for the tips. I'm in need of some.

  • @squarepixelscanada2567
    @squarepixelscanada2567 5 лет назад +366

    Drinking actually makes it worse. I almost ended my life.

    • @kae-xf3hm
      @kae-xf3hm 4 года назад +18

      Square Pixels Canada shit bro u good

    • @Dontreadmyprofile0.0
      @Dontreadmyprofile0.0 4 года назад +7

      Square Pixels Canada I can relate

    • @kwijaeboner
      @kwijaeboner 4 года назад +16

      Square Pixels Canada if it comes to that, PM me. I can’t promise anything but, we can talk it through bro. I’m here for you.

    • @squarepixelscanada2567
      @squarepixelscanada2567 4 года назад +5

      @@kwijaeboner Thank You very much I really Appreciate That.

    • @magallonakirkadrianem.6040
      @magallonakirkadrianem.6040 4 года назад +6

      @@kwijaeboner Can u talk to me? Lol I don't wanna kill myself but I just don't wanna wake up.

  • @DeanB23
    @DeanB23 5 лет назад +510

    I've tried my best. I love her so much, but I cant deal with all her bs, I feel like the bad guy all the damn time.

    • @rest3140
      @rest3140 5 лет назад +37

      Same boat brother. Going through it right now.

    • @joshm684
      @joshm684 5 лет назад +23

      You're not alone brother. Read/Listen to the rational male by rollo tomassi it'll change your life and perspective of women

    • @Jdb63
      @Jdb63 4 года назад +3

      @@joshm684 ^Great advice right here guys

    • @ArtOnTable
      @ArtOnTable 4 года назад +25

      Same here bro...my girlfriend always blames me like all dirty deeds are mine and she's the fairy from a land of innocence!!!

    • @MohitKumar-mq4bz
      @MohitKumar-mq4bz 4 года назад +13

      same with me brother.. i had to break up with her coz she never really cared about me and blamed me everytime we fought. Had to pull the plug ... but i still do miss her ..

  • @blainecunningham1599
    @blainecunningham1599 2 года назад

    Awesome advice bro

  • @olivernorstrand3745
    @olivernorstrand3745 2 года назад

    Great video👍👍

  • @GeorgeMazur29
    @GeorgeMazur29 8 лет назад +136

    I was dating this girl for a while but she turned into a cold hearted bitch. I wanna keep it together but she wasn't making it difficult. After we broke up, I felt a weird mix of numb, hurt, and self-loathing. It all came to a moment where I started watching this guys videos and it inspired me to actually move on and grow up. I started working out so I had to buy new clothing. I got the motivation to excel academically. I felt a little bit insecure, like I was cool on the outside so I had to back it up on the inside. As a result, I picked up all these hobbies and read awesome books. Months later, I realized I changed for the better. Now every night before I hit the hay I pray a bit, hoping she and I could reconcile things but at the same time hoping I never meet her again because I surpassed her greatly

  • @MrStano-jy3ts
    @MrStano-jy3ts 4 года назад +122

    Don't sleep arround! Biggest mistake, focus on your self and train, sleep, eat well.
    Fall in love for yourself😁

    • @michael567jober
      @michael567jober 3 года назад +1

      but I need to get laid lol

    • @MrStano-jy3ts
      @MrStano-jy3ts 3 года назад

      @@michael567jober well...get yourself what you need bro, you can do it!

    • @michael567jober
      @michael567jober 3 года назад +1

      @@MrStano-jy3ts problem is I'm not really attractive and my social/ confidence levels suck because of it so it's hard for me to get laid in general especially with the ones I actually want vs the ones I get

    • @MrStano-jy3ts
      @MrStano-jy3ts 3 года назад

      @@michael567jober then you need tiege hanley my friend 😉

    • @michael567jober
      @michael567jober 3 года назад

      @@MrStano-jy3ts que lol what's that mean

  • @couldbeyazan
    @couldbeyazan 3 года назад +33

    Just broke up not 30 mins ago, and my heart isn't hurting, my eyes ain't blurring, and my tears ain't dropping, but i really loved her, i really did, guess my heart is dead? Idk

    • @yassinejaziri4921
      @yassinejaziri4921 3 года назад +5

      You re just still angry . Anger makes all thos feelings disappear

    • @couldbeyazan
      @couldbeyazan 3 года назад +2

      @@yassinejaziri4921 well no shit, i cried for 2 months and even today i'm not over her

    • @Sami-sv4tp
      @Sami-sv4tp 3 года назад

      @@couldbeyazan how isit foing now?

    • @couldbeyazan
      @couldbeyazan 3 года назад +1

      @@Sami-sv4tp got over her, no more relationships

    • @BlinkedMyCart
      @BlinkedMyCart 3 года назад

      @@couldbeyazan you good now ?

  • @HaulywoodReviews
    @HaulywoodReviews 3 года назад

    Thank you for posting this. I am going through a break up and you right, it’s not fun, but this was helpful.

    • @taylorphina2295
      @taylorphina2295 3 года назад

      Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick

    • @taylorphina2295
      @taylorphina2295 3 года назад

      What'sapp him

    • @taylorphina2295
      @taylorphina2295 3 года назад

      +2349066185737🙏🏾🙏🏾.

  • @justinwilliams8915
    @justinwilliams8915 5 лет назад +361

    I’m man enough to admit my heart has just got broken 😪

    • @seanodwyer305
      @seanodwyer305 5 лет назад +1

      Booty Quesò same

    • @El_Topo19
      @El_Topo19 5 лет назад

      F

    • @francisrommelligsay8218
      @francisrommelligsay8218 4 года назад +1

      Im broken too, And honestly there was no closure and all. planning to talk it out with this person before i really start moving on, but rereading all our conversation i realized the tone and the things she was saying that she doesnt really want to commit bt she will stay and be the same. I made it my decision to just move on,not bc i wnt to jump or smethng bt its more of its clear that shes nt rlly ready at anythng. :/ and i can also see that i cnt even say anythng to be proud of myself. so i thnk ill jst go on my way and get my life together idk where it will take me. idk hayyss

  • @dakotaporter3148
    @dakotaporter3148 7 лет назад +119

    My ex broke up with me very suddenly after a year and a half. I immediately cut contact and forced myself to go to the gym with friends, hang out with them, go to some parties. Within about 2 weeks I was over it all. Met another girl a month later, we hit it off and now we're both happily in a new relationship.

    • @alexisnavarro3975
      @alexisnavarro3975 6 лет назад +3

      Seth Ames im glad a happy ending

    • @oinkoink6628
      @oinkoink6628 6 лет назад

      Nice

    • @axel7801
      @axel7801 6 лет назад +1

      But... what about your feelings or her?

    • @SpyHams
      @SpyHams 6 лет назад +3

      Seth Ames Trying to follow your steps. A few days into it. No contact and no real intention to have contact. Hope things go as well for me as they did you. Congrats.

    • @t-gmailaccount6796
      @t-gmailaccount6796 6 лет назад

      Chris Harmon how’d it go?

  • @sujal_07
    @sujal_07 3 года назад +18

    I love her so much, she was everything for me, she forgot every our moments in a second, ... Why God?

    • @momovictoria9596
      @momovictoria9596 3 года назад +1

      True love never dies, don't give up someone you love, all hope is not lost

    • @momovictoria9596
      @momovictoria9596 3 года назад

      I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay

    • @momovictoria9596
      @momovictoria9596 3 года назад +1

      Text him on what sap

    • @momovictoria9596
      @momovictoria9596 3 года назад

      ✝2⃣3⃣4⃣9⃣0⃣5⃣8⃣6⃣2⃣6⃣0⃣6⃣3⃣

    • @momovictoria9596
      @momovictoria9596 3 года назад

      He help me bring back my ex also can help you immediately without stress and delay okay

  • @liamhandville6107
    @liamhandville6107 3 года назад

    Thanks man I appreciate the video

  • @Mlee.
    @Mlee. 4 года назад +154

    Heartbreak is not a nice feeling. I never imagined myself feeling like this.

    • @15carrots
      @15carrots 3 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @Mlee.
      @Mlee. 3 года назад

      @@15carrots 😢

    • @kamjatakar6301
      @kamjatakar6301 3 года назад +1

      same pattern same routine, feel like shit

    • @Mlee.
      @Mlee. 3 года назад

      @@kamjatakar6301 Sorry about that, hope you find healing with time

    • @mattlouw9671
      @mattlouw9671 3 года назад +1

      Sorry madoda

  • @ajunteburns6894
    @ajunteburns6894 5 лет назад +815

    She broke up with me. I'm sad, but God got me. I'm leveling up.

    • @thomaswilliams7212
      @thomaswilliams7212 5 лет назад +20

      Too right bro..God is our father who never breaks his promise

    • @foxbody-bt4cu
      @foxbody-bt4cu 5 лет назад +4

      @@thomaswilliams7212 yeah! I've been confused sometimes before about how never brought a girl into my life but the bully got the girl (I'm 18 btw) but now I have this girl in my life and shes just amazing (like so amazing I'm speechless) we both go to church believe in God laugh, smile hangout all the time make future plans to hang out all the time. She knows I like her but she said she likes me as a friend for now so God willing we end up together.

    • @nuggboy1035
      @nuggboy1035 5 лет назад +2

      Amen fellas

    • @nuggboy1035
      @nuggboy1035 5 лет назад

      1991 foxbody good luck my guy

    • @foxbody-bt4cu
      @foxbody-bt4cu 5 лет назад

      @@nuggboy1035 thanks man!

  • @hossm1808
    @hossm1808 2 года назад

    Great video man! What I thought was the love of my life just left me! We hadn’t been together for very long but it still sucked and hurt!

  • @chrissharkey9644
    @chrissharkey9644 2 года назад

    Exactly what I needed to hear today! God works in mysterious ways! Thank you so much!

  • @TosTinMan
    @TosTinMan 6 лет назад +617

    Good video! My wife died 3 weeks ago so it's tough.

  • @lbg5317
    @lbg5317 5 лет назад +200

    20 yrs ended in 20 seconds 😔 it’s not what I did, it’s what I didn’t do.

    • @williamsantiago9284
      @williamsantiago9284 5 лет назад +13

      man i’m sorry to hear that that’s crazy! 20 years man she just broke up with me man it crushes me

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 4 года назад +7

      Same situation, I lacked in our relationship.

    • @Jitendrapas1
      @Jitendrapas1 4 года назад +6

      Sorry for for 20 years it must be devastating for you.

    • @realmboy9086
      @realmboy9086 4 года назад +11

      Same but for nearly 9 years, so I feel you a pretty big deal of those 20 years despite us being two separate human beings. Take care, it will get better from here

    • @Bigboss-xe6lm
      @Bigboss-xe6lm 4 года назад +5

      @@realmboy9086 Me too. Soon 10 yrs. Still dont have the balls to tell her I need to GTFO

  • @pampa5500
    @pampa5500 2 года назад

    Thank u Alpha🥺

  • @josueamaya5516
    @josueamaya5516 2 года назад

    Dude thanks your amazing. I really needed this

    • @enwee2665
      @enwee2665 2 года назад +1

      man, stay strong