One day you’ll get up, brush your teeth, eat breakfast and go about your day. Then you’ll realise you haven’t thought about them once. Then you know you can start to forget
I’ve been there since this time last year. He was IT for me. The minute I saw him. Talked to him. DONE. I felt it in my gut. I tried for 5 years I don’t think he really did ever love me and that’s what really hurts. I was doing ok for a little bit but In December we lost a very mutual friend. We I saw him I collapsed in his arms. He held me both of us crying. Then here walks over his new girlfriend that I sorta new about from Facebook but that’s when I knew it was real. She had already moved In his house. In less then one year he moved on to a girl( with zero personality I may add but it’s true I’m sorry ) he gave her one of his vehicles ( bc apparently she did not have one ) and let her and her 3 children move in his house. Its sad It’s embarrassing. It’s heartbreaking it’s lonely. It’s ultimate depression. And now a year later when I sit home alone and she has him I can’t stop my mind or tears. My heart hurts so bad physically from all this it may actually be broken permanently this time.
I feel so broken and alone. I keep crying at random moments, in random places like on the train or at work. I was the one who ended things, because I realised I deserve to be with someone who truly loves and appreciates me and my ex wasn’t like that. It still hurts like hell though, and I don’t remember the last time that life was so much of a struggle. I wish I could give all you heartbroken people a hug and tell you you’re not alone.
Worst feeling when you have to leave , I left my ex to for the same reason . It hurts because you still love them but you know it won’t work . Stay strong
him n i agreed to end things because i deserved more and he wanted to experience more than being tied down. I can’t sleep, can’t get up, cry at random, and can’t think of what’s past this. My first semester is just starting and we broke up the day before my 18th birthday, on our anniversary. I wish he came to me sooner and we could’ve worked on things. I tried really really hard. He’s been pulling away since april and i’ve been trying to have open communication to work on this pulling away. We planned our futures together, we planned to grow old together. I still love him and will always love him. but he wants to be friends but he’s also not talked to me since. my heart yearns for my baby again :((
I’m going through the same thing right now. It’s hard to let go of someone especially when you still love them. But the relationship became toxic. And I don’t think we can move forward with our goals if we’re together.
Same here bud. One day, it’s like I don’t love you anymore, i have feelings for someone else. And it’s all my fault too. Lol. Crying myself to sleep every night. Why? Why? Just keeps drowning me deeper and deeper. And she doesn’t even care.
@ahmed hakeem it'll heal buddy.time heals everything.i know you feel like its end of everything but its not,we all think this way.You'll heal just like everyone else.face everything fearlessly.😎
@ahmed hakeem I feel you.yeah every heartbroken person has to go through this. We try to fake everything to ourselves to let everyone see that we are not that affected. But deep inside, it's the opposite. We suffer. Not only can time heal but I guess distance too.
It's not always temporary, people hope that its temporary, just like one hopes that they'll come back with a clean bill of health after a check up and in many cases they do, but in many cases they don't. The reality of the situation it is either temporary, and if it isn't you're going to have to live with and it might never go away, but you're still going to have to live with it even if it doesn't.
My ego took control Jennifer , it was the best fairy tale it was the best love and yes both sides want it the same but when there is family that comes between and one have to choose between me and her family everything changed and I wasn’t going to fight for the 6 time all I want is her to be happy.....
Let’s just hope you never come back to this comment because you’ll be so healed and happy in your life that you’ll never have to remember or listen to this video again.
I just had a breakup yesterday at 2 days ago and I can’t eat, sleep, or even workout. I loved this girl so much and I feel lonely. I’ve been getting heartburns and heart aches from my anxiety of thinking of her moving on. It sounds selfish, but I thought we would last. To anyone feeling what I’m feeling. I hope you find peace throughout your pain.
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So beautifully said, Apil. A rare gift that is, but it is my wish for all of you. Hoping that this August has been less painful. They say it gets better? I don’t know how...but they say it. Sending virtual love and support to all members of the heartbreak club. The WORST club to be in. But at least we’re here together.
@@maricarmanon-og2012 I can feel it my ex just left me because of his parents and he didn't even try one 💔💔 I am now feeling so alone even no one to talk but hoping that I will survive ...
I just discovered my ex is already dating after a month of our break up, we dated for over a year and it makes me feel unwanted or useless when she just forgot about me like that. This truly is one of the most intense pains I have felt in my life, I will pray for everybody who got their hearts broken and felt useless because of it. Stay strong and keep moving, even though I feel like crap now, I know someday I’ll be with someone who loves me for me.
When things happen like this it just puts you in the position to know what is not for you. Honestly fake people move on real fast. They have no remorse whatsoever for their actions and you just wonder how you fell in love in the first place! Take heart. Sending you lots of love!
Same thing happened to me. Within a month someone from her past happened to come back. They were talking about kids and everything. We were together for 6 yes. I feel your pain 1,000,000,000%. Hope you're doing better my friend 🙏🏾🙏🏾
that's rebound don't panic, love yourself first don't think that you are shit because of you think that she moved that easily. Go to the GYM and we will make it bruh.
same here mate, 5 months was getting into it, with the normal unsecurities at first, but then, she dumped me and 3 weeks after when I asked if she could feel again the same, she just replied things have changed, I am.with someone else. God, feel most useless thing alive, unable to enjoy company, family or friends focus at work just take some drugs to sleep and hope another day goes on ...
Im here scrolling through the comments, finding comfort in the fact that im not the only one who feels like their heart has been ripped put of their chest. 5 days post-breakup, im hoping things will start to get easier soon.
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It's been two months and it feels like my heart is literally shattered to pieces. Whenever I remember of him (almost all the time) I cry until I throw up. I'm crying right now. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I miss him every second of every day. I've been having panic attacks lately and it's getting worse. I can't express how much I love him still. He means the world to me. So if you're going through this, just know that you are not alone. Hopefully everyone will heal. Sending you hugs and stay strong!
@@RazzorTM thank you! I'm not better, but I try to distract myself. I go to the gym, I go to interviews and try to find a better job... Otherwise I'd go crazy. Take care! :)
And for me, it's not like it goes away quickly. I'm 50 and this is the fourth time in my life I've been seriously heartbroken. I'm at four months and still crying daily. Even though I know without question that he is not right for me, I still truly love him and the suffering continues. I'm just not willing to let the thoughts go yet...it's all I have left of him. Ridiculous waste of my precious time on Earth. It's an addiction.
it hurts when only one of you love the other and the other literally hasn’t felt upset since the day it happened. it’s been 3 months since it happened and he’s doing great but I’ve been feeling awful since
carmen lara it would have been better if he was a dick - then it would be easy and you could just leave him .. but because you love each other and get each other... it’s like the hurt is in the skin :( it hurts so fucking bad
My wife of 7 years doesn't love me anymore and left me. I shared my best memories with her and did so many things for the first time with her. My bond is so strong and i just feel dead inside and don't have anything to distract me or anyone to talk to. I sit and think of memories and I can't stop it. I've gone through this many times but this time as I'm an adult it's so hard to even smile and say I'm fine. To anyone that's going through heartbreak your not alone be strong with me and well learn to live again.
I am in the same boat. I work out 4-5 times a week, get on the treadmill 4 days a week, go to church on Sunday, eat right. It's been 5 months (after 15 years together) and I feel better and look better. Not saying it's easy but it gets better.
@@badlander6369 happy to hear it gets better, it just feels like the pain will never go away. One week in and all I want to do is to forget. 20 years of marriage.
@@divorcejournal7961 Keep watching Michael Hussey's videos. Focus on taking good care of yourself. Like I said, eat well, exercise, go to church. Buy some new clothes. Find a new hobby. It all adds up to a new you.
Hey brother, I'm right there with you. This type of pain is different and unbearable especially during a separation with them and you haven't moved out just yet.
I lost my mate to death four mos ago. I have an otherwise good life in a lovely place and am financially secure but he was everything to me...for decades. I dont know if I will ever feel SINGLE again. I am not a young woman but men often say to me including today "beautiful" as they come towards me on the street. These are men of a certain age, the appropriate age for me, yet I never see anyone who attracts ME. Im not ready for a relationship...conversations yes, but as I say, no one moves me. It is like I died too. No one is asking me out, so I must be giving off unapproachable vibes. I am socializing but with married friends..,couples over the holidays. The funny thing is I approached HIM all those years ago and we hit it off and were an item right away and we were always great together. I'm a very positive and otherwise happy person, but I really, really feel lost..not like I only lost HIM, but myself as well. And the really odd thing is I am a professor of clinical psychology and have worked with many people in my exact situation. I am using all the insight and advice on myself. I know I will be in a better place psychologically a year from now, but right now is awful.
I felt this 😭 we have a son together so I took her back after the first break up, after 13months back together she decided to leave me once again after promising she wouldn’t again
I watched this video 5 years ago … now I’m back watching it because my heart got broken again by the same person. Time doesn’t change people, you just go round in circles
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I’m so sorry to hear that. Often time, the pattern implies that there’s more lessons that we haven’t learned. So it replays for us to really learn. Take the time for self-reflect and learn the lesson. We usually take an easy route to distract and numb ourselves that I neglect to learn from the painful experience. I wish you a quick healing.
@@teresapower1495 I wrote a letter to myself, listing everything he did, how I felt, every awful, mean, hurtful thing, all the lies. When I feel myself slipping down, I read it, reminds me that even though it hurt so badly and I’ll still have parts that hurt, I don’t want to have that pain in my life or the person who caused it. I know I’m happier without and will be happier with someone who doesn’t do all those things. It’s a fight but reading the letter to myself, makes me stronger and keeps me looking forward because backwards just opens old scares.
I’m hoping this helps someone out there going through a horrible breakup. I know you’re feeling like it’s the end of the world or that someone died. But trust me!!!!!! Had I not gone through it once I would’ve never met the woman and companion of my dreams. We’ve Ben together 23 years and I’m still in love today like I was 23 years ago. In fact we just both retired and are more in love than ever. I say this to say, you never know what’s around the corner and when that someone will change the way you see life.
How beautiful...I was a young widow when I met him and now HE too has died...life is so unfair...I envy people who never lose a love to death amd to have it happen twice in one lifetime seems so unfair, but we had decades together. I am SO grateful. I COULD have been alone all this time instead of with him. I tell myself this all the time trying to make myself feel better...I AM grateful, but I dont feel better.
To everyone who's heartbroken, please be strong. You are not alone. I know it's painful but time will come we'll get over this. Edit: Hello! How's everyone doing especially those who commented on my post? I hope you're all doing better now. It's been a good 3 years. 😊
I liken it to asking someone to change their skin. when people tell me "just get over him", I compare it to asking me to switch out my skin, I just can't, it's that difficult, the heartache, the pain, because he's just everywhere, he was my everything, he is a huge part of who I was. going 2 years now and he has slowly faded in the background, in my past.
Reading all the comments down here I actually feel less lonely. I mean, I'm not the only one who has been through a pain like this and this kinda conforted me.
Giulia I have also been through this n it happenes to everyone but heres the good thing good times dont last forever and even bad times....nothing lasts....cheers
To whoever is going through this...I swear you will overcome this pain. I had the worst anxiety and panic attacks and my heart was on auto pilot I had zero control over my anxiety I could be in a room full of people but felt so lonely and was scared to be alone. But honestly what helped me was going to the gym and working out (focusing on a goal is a brilliant idea, find something with purpose and will make you feel good) I am now in the best shape of my life and I feel good about myself. there is no easy fix all I can say is, in time the pain will pass and you will regain control over your heart but you just got to be patient. Honestly I honestly wish I could take away that feeling from you, it's the WORST!!! But Inn Shaa Allah you will be fine ❤
@@madipennington6457 It is rough as shit right now but honestly I promise you it will get better in *TIME*. Just navigate yourself and surf 🏄♂️ 🌊 this Ginormous wave and *YOU WILL* come out stronger for it you will see. And *WHEN YOU DO* please message me so I know you made it through the storm. *Luv YOU Buddy* 😊❤
We were soulmates. He left me so suddenly and never gave me proper closure. He went from hot to cold in an instant. I’ve never loved anyone like him. And I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life before. Being all alone in lockdown makes it even worse. This is way too hard.
We are all in this together. We need to stay strong no matter how hard seem to goin’ ... the process of healing is not easy .. it s a rollercoster of emotions ... the heart aches 😥 and the brain loses control... how you all are fellin now ?
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I’m going through my 2nd breakup with the same person after about 10 years together. So devastated and sad. Terrified that I’ll be alone forever and unable to heal from this pain. I’m grateful to have found this video.
Me too. This time, he left in the worst way imaginable. A month to our wedding. He is treating me like an enemy including his family. Which surprises and confuses me.
The amount of broken hearts in this comment section is making me sad. I hope all of you find the right match, and that the feelings you are felling right now are worth the experience you got and the lessons you learned.
@@Vis89 i know but keep moving. It's been a week for me of not talking to him, 2 weeks since the break up and it kills me. I miss him everyday for sure. But I've already tried my very best to keep the relationship and you really just cant force people to stay in your life. And then i realized my self worth. I stopped pursuing and now, i may still not the old me but im somewhat better. Love yourself!
@@judeogieuhi1189 i am sorry youre also in a heartbreak now, i know how desperate you can feel at this point, please hold on because this heartbreak will go away and you will find somebody that loves you regardless
@@judeogieuhi1189 i am going through this exact same thing. I am depressed and hardly eating and don’t want tk get out of bed. I know he dosent love me and it kills me everyday after trying so hard for someone to love you. I was just a stupid toy.
@@remsislamus5131 this is exactly how I feel right now 😭it’s been a week now 💔I did nothing wrong to he just woke up and decided to break up with me and talked to me very rudely 💔it’s like a nightmare. Praying for Devine healing
Honestly, when i was going through heart break, i genuinely believed it was never going to get better and that i’ll always miss them, turns out that wasn’t true, time truly does heal
It will get better. It wasn’t meant to be. That isn’t your person. No matter why it ended it was for a reason. Don’t hate them. Wish them luck and let it go. Holding on to something lost is so draining.
I feel you, I really do. The amount of pain it takes to let go of someone you loved so much is horrifying and potentially one of the worst feeling ever but we got this. The first step to letting go is realizing that you have to let go, we got this
I’ve been dumped after 6 years by the person I thought was my soulmate. The pain is brutal and relentless. I have never felt so small and insignificant in my life.
Stefanie Costa Same thing just happened to me 3 days ago. 6 years and I feel like they died and I’m in mourning🥺😔 The worst pain I’ve ever felt. How are you now?
R R It still hurts but not as badly as it did before. Every day comes with a different struggle or hurdle but the pain isn’t as constant as it once was. I hope you’re doing okay. Please feel free to message me. I know what it’s like. Sending all the positivity I have to you x
Stefanie Costa Thank you so much for responding. It makes me feel better talking about it and even typing about it in this case. It’s been horrible for me. Hopefully I can say I’m ok soon😔
Just watched this and I think I'll rewatch it again. My husband of 16yrs just left me and our girls and I'm still in love with him and we are broken. I'm struggling to function. So I'm going to give this a try. Thank you
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The grief process after a break-up is very much like when someone dies. I found learning about the Five Stages of Grief very helpful. It's also a lot like withdrawing from a substance. Being in love floods the brain with as much dopamine as crack cocaine! I'm in withdrawal from a relationship, and find it also helps to make a list of everything that was wrong and toxic about the relationship. Remembering the good times, wishing it could be like that again, is called "Euphoric Recall." Healing takes time. It's a bitch, for sure. But time does enable us to eventually accept the loss and move on ...
My friend was talking to me about this today. I just want to get there. The thing was I was a person that would never leave. Even if it strain me, even if I knew he didn’t respect me, especially when I would say no. Even when I felt like maybe I couldn’t go any longer. But he left me. And he didnt want me. He left me and replaced me with different girls. And its not like the usual toxic relationships that I had in my past when we continue the toxic cycle and ignored the bad. He actually just left and I know he’s never gonna reach out. And I felt like he was important to me. And he’s just gone. And I have no option but to move on.
He left yesterday after 7 years... and I feel like I have only one lung... my sight has lost the hability to see colors.. everything is grey. I only keep crying and crying...
It's been 4 days since we broke up, the hardest part is we still love each other. She just wants to work on herself and be independent..sucks after 4 years and now an engagement ring that won't be used. We were each other's rocks. Now I'm living in a friends basement crying my eyes out and writing a comment on youtube
Hello y'all, thank you for your wishes, Im really feeling better ... kind of numb maybe? idk ... being free of ties to do what I want when I want to feel's good ... I think I'm realizing now I had a toxic relationship, but I was just thinking that it took me 7 years and being dumped for me to realize that scares me A LOT about going out to the jungle of dating again...
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Heartbreak is another level of pain that I did not know existed. But it is comforting to see that we really are sharing this human experience together. This video is the first time I've felt peace and a little bit of relief since my breakup almost a week ago. So thank you to Matthew for making this video, may God bless you. I hope everyone who is suffering right now can become stronger and happier after going through it.
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I’m fresh on this break up (happened yesterday) what hurt the most is loving someone the most but you know you’re not meant for each other . Also after realizing , I loved her so much I lost myself . I’m using this opportunity to better myself and what I loved most about this video is to start a project that would bring lots of meaning to your life . Thanks for the advice . Made me feel a lot better .
Same here. Worse is he told me he loves me now he's talking about not loving me the same anymore. And I'm about to write final exams. I pray for us all to get through on the other side of this.
this happened two days ago but I'm realizing how I deserve better I deserve to be loved just as much as I love and that was something I lacked to understand about our relationship I thought I'd give him time to realize this sit down and talk to him but it's not worth it having been together for almost 5 years and still feeling like I'm not being loved the way I want to be loved says alot but I'm letting him go and learning to understand that if he was the man of my dreams like I painted him out to be then this wouldn't have been the case but it's okay I'm a lover by nature I believe that love heals all wounds any kind of love. sending my love to everyone going through this
How are you now? My heart has just been broken.... I was with someone for over three years and he ended things with me over a text message and no explanation.
This goes to anyone out there who is heartbroken. "This too shall pass." No condition is permanent. Allow yourself to cry and grieve the loss of someone you love/still love. But be rest assured that you will be just fine. Hang in there, the best is yet to come❤️❤️❤️
ive never felt such pain from a breakup. I truly was in love this man filled a void,he completed me,its been moths and my brain rewinds to the memories.He promised to ever leave and yet he still did :(
Same here. After 7 years. He told my mum "our relationship will last, I don't want to leave her, it will end only if she leaves me". Yeah. He broke up with me one month ago 3 days before our dream travel which we booked 3 weeks prior. I feel like shit and like I won't be going on with my life ever.
@@jessicacorradini7644 Ok. I'm sorry for what your ex did, but you have to realize that he was a person of poor character, and is not worth crying over. Maybe watch some videos about narcissists because he might have been one. A man should not "fill a void". If you're walking around like an open wound who needs a void filled, you are just gonna get hurt by the next user. Fill your void with God and self worth. Go through all of these comments. All this crying and wasted energy over these losers is a pandemic. One day we females have to wake up. I do suggest therapy and wish you the best.
A dude here. You will be fine, TRUST ME!!!. - Embrace the pain. - Take out time to grieve everyday - DO NOT CONTACT THEM, I Repeat, DO NOT CONTACT THEM. This does not help You AT ALL. You'll feel worse after you drop that phone (unless it's very important) - Spend your time doing something that gives you daily rewards of that sense of accomplishment. - If you are religious, do not engage in the "please bring him or him back to me and I promise I'll never do this or that " prayer. - Create new memories, cause when you really look at it, this is what causes the hurt right? -Take good care of yourself.Start working out, buy new clothes, get a makeover and don't engage in excessive use of cigarette and alcohol like I did.In fact, now is a good time to get rid of those bad habits. This will give you something else to be proud of. - Although it might not feel like it right now, you will find love and happiness again.The odds are in your favour on that one.
But I don't think that I will get a person who is better than him.. I know that in the world there are many good people but what if it's just an illusion and what if he was the best one.. he had not loved anyone but he found me pure n loved me but I think he thought I ignored him as I really did but I didn't want him to fall for me as I am having bad days n now I love him but he is gone.... 🙃
Thank You so much! But I feel like contacting him. I feel like telling him how I feel and why we’re good together. And his response or lack of response will be my closure...
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Would’ve never thought I needed to watch something like this. Never thought I could get hurt this bad I feel absolutely horrible life seems so grey at the moment.
I was lying numb till now. After watching this video, I slowly rose up from my bed and opening my notebook. Small progress. Yet a progress. Thanks Matthew.
I'm going through it now too. Husband after 18 yrs left me and my daughter who is 15, yesterday. He left 4 weeks ago and came back home. Hooked up with someone at his work staying in a hotel. Stayed home for 10 days, and I knew something wasnt right. I think hes drinking again. Hes back with that same woman who is on methadone. I met her HUSBAND. She has a teen as well, and keeps leaving her family. Sad part is, our daughters went to school together. Watching this video, I started crying, especially at the end. Why cant all men be like this. Open, Honest, Loyal, And trustworthy? I'm 49 yrs old, been through a real tough marriage with my 1st husband who was a physical and mental abuser since I was 17. We have a son together who is now 21. I left him when our son was born. Then I met Chris. My son was 3. We married 1 yr later, and then 1 yr after that we got pregnant with our now 15 yr old daughter. It's been a really rough road with him cheating throughout the yrs. I kept taking him back. It's been over 5 yrs ago since his motorcycle accident, and hes been a good boy....I think anyways. Well, he fiannaly went back to work, and met this lady Tammy. Went right back to his old ways. I'm so hurt and devastated. This video woke me up some. I have to focus on me and Christa now. Mabie we will join a gym! Or something! Thank you Matthew. I'm still crying after watching this.
The crazy thing about breakups is how quick people go into dating apps right after.. and they use hookups to forget the person they once loved. It hurts when you see that happen. 😞
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My girlfriend left me yesterday, the woman I intended to marry. She told me I wasnt worth it anymore, and refused to try and fix the relationship. Only today, I found out that she had cheated on me with one of my best friends. Even so, I still love her with all my heart, and I have never been in so much pain. This video helped me in more ways than I can explain, and I hope it does the same for all of you. You'll get better. We'll get better.
im going through exactly what you are im trying to deal with it but im not sure how im trying to accept things but i cant i wish i could im jealous of my friend for stealing my girlfriend for me she meant so much to me and i dont know what to do anymore its been 4 days and i still am suffering its hard and i need help with this i just dont know how to ask for help or who to ask i just want happiness its rough as he said in the video i need to work on things such as my acceptance and jealousy but i have a big problem there. thanks for whoever is reading this for listening.
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I've been hurt so deeply after putting for so much effort......I don't think I'll ever be able to be with anyone again. I've tried moving on, but so many men are such liars. All I want is to be loved and give love. Its truly that simple for me, but it's like that's too much to ask nowadays. I don't think I can trust anymore. I'm just going focus on building my empire alone.
Just focus on yourself. I have the exact same problem, broke up with my gf 1 month ago. Love is not enough for some people, plus she was a bipolar so yeah she loved me the most and then just hated the most. Just don't forget that there are lots of men outside who just want to love and feel loved. Until you find one, make some progress in your life for YOUR OWN good, not someone elses. Good luck :)
Thanks for your positive words. I've since met someone and he is great and I don't want to waste his time...but it is talking me a bit to really open to him. He does not pressure me to and he is patient and very understanding, but I just didn't think I was going to be so closed. I think I just feel like I don't trust men in general. I've come to this conclusion based on my personal experiences and observations. For example, even when I know a guy is with someone, he will still flirt with me or try to get my phone number. I don't want a man like that, but I also know men light up when they see a woman they are attracted to and they can't really help that. I don't know, maybe I'm just hyper sensitive and just don't need to be with anyone. I just don't feel like it if this is how things are supposed to be.
+Just Found I think it is just an unlucky situation for you, you've just seen lots of disrespectful men who does not have dignity and trust in their own relationship. Don't hurry up to open yourself completely to someone. It's not easy to find that kind of person but when you do, don't hesitate. Believe, trust and have a happy life :)
I'm a sensitive and very loving person and I often feel like a walking neon target. I also know I am strong, intelligent and have a heart worth sharing. I guess I just have to hang in there and try to stay positive. I also need to make up my mind about what I want. Your words are kind. I hope things work out well for you and you find the women of your heart's desire. Take care and thanks for the chat :)
I feel you.... I don't think I can trust anyone again.... The guy who used to love me a lot...cheated on me and became a heartless man... He moved on so easily and now flirting with many girls on fb... how can he throw away everything we had so easily... I've never felt this betrayed.... after trusting him and loving him so much.... I don't think I deserve eveything he made me went through... because of him... I also have a low self esteem right now and very depressed but I'm trying to be okay... I know I will be okay soon... waiting for that to happen.... but trusting any man again? Not sure if that will ever happen.
Four years ago I saved this video because it helped me. Now after a difficult breakup I came upon it again and I understand why I saved it in the first place. Thank you very much for giving us hope and making us feel understood.
If you've been cheated on, LEAVE. Once a cheater, always a cheater. This is something I've learned after a horrible HORRIBLE heartbreak. No matter how much YOU believe they'll change. They won't. They'll just get better at hiding it. Then one fine day they'll dump you and then your entire world comes crashing down. Cry. Scream. Face it. Don't suppress your feelings. Never do that. Never agree to being friends with them. Just leave. Love yourself because no one else will. Help someone else that you might think is going through a similar situation. Share your feelings. Take ALL the time you need. You can do it. Remember you're not alone❤
Saumy Maxwell i was the person who broke up with them and then just days later it turned out they had someone on the side while they were with me and I’m really hung up over it idk why
@@spinone-d2 What was the reason you broke up? Because a lot of times when you find out there was a third person involved already, chances are they must have some part in you two breaking up. Take your time. Healing takes time. Good luck.
That sucks so bad! Like it really does. You just can't process how the other person has moved while you're a total mess. But the truth is we never know if they've actually moved on. If they're with someone else, they've probably made a mistake because they've rushed into it to escape the pain which is definitely not a healthy sign.
Leaving this comment to come back too when I fully heal, this is my first heartbreak and my longest relationship 2 and a half years, honestly nothing could’ve prepared me for such pain, the feeling of literally losing a loved one that you did everything with,I’ve reached out I’ve tried keeping myself busy, some days are good other days I feel like I’m back to square one, constant vomiting,can’t eat,sleep and my mind is thinking about her from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep, I hope I get through this and for anybody else going through this bless you, I wouldn’t wish this on anyone but at the same time I am thankful to experience such distress knowing one day I hope to be happy again.
Same feeling. I hope someday we find our better half. The one that we truly deserves. Im heartbbroken right now. I dont know what to do. Im trying to get myself busy to some other stuff but i cant help myself thinking about him. Specially were on the same company and i get to see him every single day. I. Just want this to end soon. 😥😥😥😥
It‘s been 5 months since my breakup and I‘m still a mess. I never thought it possible to feel like this. I‘m hoping for better days. Next month i will hand in my master thesis and finish my degree. After that i will move and leave this town. I guess it‘s progress. But i can‘t help myself from thinking about her every single day 😢
2 weeks ago and it hasn't gotten any better. It ended because it was toxic and for a year and a half tried everything. At the end we just hurt each other even more and he broke me in every way possible. I don't honestly know what to do with myself, I feel like it might not ever get better.
3 yrs later & I'm back here watching this video again..& I feel so dumb & used. Why does it seem like some people just search out those with the sensitive pure heart to only open it & crush it. Thank you for this video..& I know in little time I'll have my happiness in my heart & it'll feel whole again.
Yeah I know, it's like a broken record of a heart. I'm a serial failure when it comes to picking good partners. I swear there are heart predators out there. I hate to say it, but some people are just dark - meaning lacking light - people. Our intuition is supposed to protect us from them, but if you're vulnerable economically, or some other way, these folk can easily take advantage because we are willing to give them a chance even if we have doubts.
You are right about heart predictors. Never ever say your a serial failure at relationships. Your ex's are the ones who lost coz deep down you are pretty amazing. Just keep on doing you, the world will adjust and know there's someone out there for all of us.
Suffered over months. Then started to set a goal, a lot of people told me, I could never reach. Worked hard for it. Became stronger (physically and mentally), enjoyed the results, became proud of myself, heard comments from others about my process and how impressed they were... and one time I realized: My life is so beautiful. And I am so over him. Was the best feeling, because I finally was free from suffering.... :)
To all my heartbroken people out here, Let's give each other a tight hug and tell ourselves it'll be alright 🫂 Maybe not today, but it'll for sure even though it doesn't feel like it right now. Gratitude 🙏
I really is heart ache! My heart hurts from front to back. Some days are better than others! I love her and told her I always will. She is moving on and that's what hurts the most. Sometimes I feel alone in my heartache. Would be easier if I had someone else to at least get to know like she is.
Yeah..my recent ex is actually a co-worker (mistake, never do that! Lesson learned). Our relationship had been slowly fading. Now we have agreed to "just be friends" Ladies! Let me tell you. Guys cannot be friends with women they have deep love feelings for or have had sex with. It just doesn't work. Now I am working along side her...trying to keep a plastic smile on while she is moving on. Karma! It's what I get for getting involved with a co-worker. Seriously! Never do that.
I've lived the same situation a few times before and worst of all... I think it's happening now again. The only remedy for this is TIME! It heals better than anything on Earth. Be patient it will come to an end believe me 😉
I'm not just praying for you.. if even we dont know each other. we all know the pain.. but i know we can forget and live happily again and 100% sure to the fullest...
Focusing on my studies, working hard in the gym to achieve my body goals and finally getting over my fear of needles to get my first tattoo have really helped me, and I’m only 3 months into my healing journey. Your videos have helped me a lot.
First, thank you Matthew for this wonderful advice. You are a gift from heaven. Im writing this at 8/27/2022 . I have been in No Contact rule for 5 days now. Sometimes I feel confident. Sometimes it hurts like hell. Tears are flowing like shits and it doest care even if Im on something. While Im eating, before I sleep, when Im listening to music and I feel real shit, I wanna hug myself. Unrequited love really sucks. It makes you feel pitiful. It makes you feel unworthy of love. And it makes you question about everything. Am I not good enough? Why cant he love me? When you know you were in your best version and still you were not chosen. But I realized that self respect should be always louder than your love to other person. Your worth shouldnt base upon on if he would love you or not. We are worthy before we try to love them and still worthy after they broke our hearts. Right now Im on my self healing journey. Im gathering myself again after it shattered into pieces. Realizing the world will never give a shit whether I feel shit or not. So theres no other way but to keep going. The next time I visit this video, I hope the reason is not because I’m broken hearted again. I hope that the next time I watch it, I will see my comment here and I’ll just smile coz I have moved on and glad I chose to be strong. Let’s heal ourselves folks. Everything will be brighter soon💛
Your worth was never on trial here - so to speak. Love is not something you earn by being worthy. It's not Thor's hammer. It's a feeling. Your worth as a human was never in play. What was at play was a chaotic, illogical emotion. What was at play were the psyche of the two involved persons, and all the traumas that they both carry. He could have an avoidant attachment style. He could have a fear of intimacy. There are so many possibilities that only involve you because you were there. I'm 6 months into a breakup, and I've never loved like that before. I'm still not over her. I cannot imagine a time that I will be. But something I've learned is that we are like sculptures emerging from marble. We are not destroyed by what is lost. We are defined by what remains. There are always possibilities, and the universe will unfold as it should.
I'm sorry too all of you!! I have been going through it since the 4th of July and she did me that crap hasn't said anything to me I still wake up everyday hurting over her and the kids that isn't even mine but according to her I don't love her and now I see I deserve better than that and I'll get by this pain there is someone for me I hope...
Just amazes me how someone can date for 3 plus years...the one person struggles really hard through everything and the other quickly moves on like you were nothing...
+brandenrhodes26 yes it really hurts when u love someone soooooo deep and they move on like u ment nothing... However in my case I told him he would never replace me.... but what hurts is the weekly/monthly texts... that I ignore of course... But I agree with Matt working and loving oneself really helps to heal the hurt.
+brandenrhodes26 Exactly me. Up till now it has already been over a week since my breakup and I'm struggling to get over the one I Love while i saw how quickly she has gotten over me and got someone else already in her mind, it was like the thing we had never meant to her.
My heart got broken today after 7 years caught her cheating,I've got a little girl with her. I'm ruined. I'm also in a lockdown. I cant just leave. This is torture.
Hey, same thing happened to me recently, broke up with my ex of 7 years who was unsure if he wanted to be with me or the girl he cheated on me with. Trust me, with time you will realize you were in love with the view you had of this person, not the shitty, lying, asshole they are now. And that will help you.
King Tut, please look up narcissistic abuse. You might have been in that situation. In that case, you lost NOTHING in loosing her. I hope you feel better. You deserve far better than her.
You’re situation is very similar to mine. It is torture. Focus on being the best father you can be. I started to workout as soon as I sensed that my ex was doing me wrong. It has helped me a lot. Stay strong 💪🏽
this is so true! I was writing my bachelor thesis the last time me and my ex broke up. However, we got back together after a while. However, we broke up again this fall and it was heartbreaking. But now I am writing my master thesis and I am about to finish my studies, which really means something to me. I am really feeling that I am doing progress, and although there are times when I get sad and feel lonely because of the break up, I still feel that I am going in the right direction. So, I totally support this advice.
When you are heartbroken, first thing is to be easy with yourself, literally taking care of yourself, being gentle with yourself and most importantly be grateful for the relationship, either was good or not, there are always lessons and good memories, gratitude is a powerful state of mind
I decided to go on no dating/relationship/men challenge for a year. I'm taking this time to be with myself, focus on myself, get started on my goals and make progress on these goals.
I thought the love I gave him was enough to make him a better person but it wasnt. I also realized that no matter what I did, they would only do so much. I know I deserved more that he ever was and you do too. Take care of yourself
@@Yk55555 yeah we deserve someone better, not the one who's only good with words. So much love and time was given but that didn't matter to him. I hope he will feel that pain someday. Broken and lost.
@@erizadonoso5854 she was sooo stuck in a bad past that she didn't see the love that i had 4 her. All I can give. All of me. Now, broken, crushed and empty.
Same. I gave 10 years of my life to this man. Always loving him more, giving him more, expecting more. I am now 33 years old and after all the bullshit I put up with, he is the one that cheats on me and decides he doesn’t feel in love anymore. I’m so broken. So lost. And everyone keeps saying time will heal, and let him go, and you will be fine. But it so so so hard. I can’t imagine coming home and him not being there. I can’t imagine not waking up to him every morning. It hurts every inch of my soul. And I I just want to scream and cry and run away! And I don’t know how I am going to get through this. He hasn’t even moved out yet, I can’t imagine what it will be like when he is gone. I pray for all of us that our hearts do heal and that we are blessed with real men, that deserve us, that love us, and that will never hurt us or walk away.
I'm halfway through the video and I can confirm what he says is very helpful. I had this important goal for a few years that I procrastinated on. I finally finished the first big step of this particular goal. It was extremely difficult, but it was huge. I started a couple of weeks after the heartbreak. I was in serious, unbearable, seemingly forever pain. Normally I sleep or date others to cope with things, but it was completely futile. I couldn't even bare to date anyone new because in my mind no one compared. Filling my days with work or activities would not have helped either. Friends and family? Nope. It was this huge personal goal I had set a few years back that I needed to start. Completing the first step was critical in this goal. Now I'm on the path towards this life goal. The heartbreak thrusted me into that. I felt good about myself again. It gave me a huge confidence boost and it made me feel I achieved something. I shared this with everyone and I got positive feedback. I felt great again. This didn't make my heartbreak disappear, but damn it made me feel I could survive. You need to feel as if you could survive in order to give time to heal those wounds. Otherwise you do stupid desperate crap and compromise your self worth. A very serious heartbreak ruins your confidence. Defeats you. I found a way to lift my confidence. This is my story. About almost 3 months after the heartbreak, I'm feeling close to myself again.
Who else Is watching with a heavy heart
I don't even have an appetite.
Im crying while watching
me :(((
Cant eat..just happened yesterday
Realyn Igana Same here,I guess we just have to be strong and accept the truth.im still heartbroken and can’t get over her since last month.
Got my heart crushed 2 days ago, Never felt this type of pain before. Please pray for me
Sorry to heard that..I'm hurting too. It feels horrible. Now she found another guy...
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@@itscandelight1766 shut up please, I don't want her back..
@Kimberley hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@Kimberley welcome to the club..I hope you don't get depression and anxiety like me and some people do..
The pain you are all feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming.
I can’t see that
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I wish oooh God help thru t my mind z so far failing to 4get him
Thank you! A lovely reminder I keep telling myself.
Henrietta Nwokocha that’s bullshit I’ve been waiting 17 years & bad shit keeps happening to me .
One day you’ll get up, brush your teeth, eat breakfast and go about your day. Then you’ll realise you haven’t thought about them once. Then you know you can start to forget
Yes.. eventually... Time heals everything.
Then you Better Call Saul
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I am so broken 💔 😞 😢
Whoever is reading this, lets fight okay?;) we can get thru this painful heartbreak! We can do this. And we deserve better!
gabbygsh you are right. We deserve better.
Thank you
Yes we can
gabbygsh thank you for the psyche..we in this together
Oh gosh mate, thank you so much! You made my morning with your comment! Love to all of you, keep going strong
Who else is heartbroken in April 2020, right during the Corona crisis 😢
Me today... It's hard but we Will be ok
Me ik it’s hard and painful we’ll get better. And we have so much time to think bc of quarantine 🤦🏽♀️
@@dahianmarie8032 yeah it's the hard part. I hope you're ok
Avital Akerman I’m hanging in there
Yep, working hard on snapping back to myself.
The hardest part of being heart broken is that, he is happy and you're struggling on how to move on.
Lian Biss true. That is where i am
@@charlene1264 sorry bout that. Moving on is a process. The longer the process is depends in your personality and environment
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I’ve been there since this time last year. He was IT for me. The minute I saw him. Talked to him. DONE. I felt it in my gut. I tried for 5 years I don’t think he really did ever love me and that’s what really hurts. I was doing ok for a little bit but In December we lost a very mutual friend. We I saw him I collapsed in his arms. He held me both of us crying. Then here walks over his new girlfriend that I sorta new about from Facebook but that’s when I knew it was real. She had already moved In his house. In less then one year he moved on to a girl( with zero personality I may add but it’s true I’m sorry ) he gave her one of his vehicles ( bc apparently she did not have one ) and let her and her 3 children move in his house. Its sad It’s embarrassing. It’s heartbreaking it’s lonely. It’s ultimate depression. And now a year later when I sit home alone and she has him I can’t stop my mind or tears. My heart hurts so bad physically from all this it may actually be broken permanently this time.
It hurts like shit
I feel so broken and alone. I keep crying at random moments, in random places like on the train or at work.
I was the one who ended things, because I realised I deserve to be with someone who truly loves and appreciates me and my ex wasn’t like that.
It still hurts like hell though, and I don’t remember the last time that life was so much of a struggle.
I wish I could give all you heartbroken people a hug and tell you you’re not alone.
Worst feeling when you have to leave , I left my ex to for the same reason . It hurts because you still love them but you know it won’t work . Stay strong
him n i agreed to end things because i deserved more and he wanted to experience more than being tied down. I can’t sleep, can’t get up, cry at random, and can’t think of what’s past this. My first semester is just starting and we broke up the day before my 18th birthday, on our anniversary. I wish he came to me sooner and we could’ve worked on things. I tried really really hard. He’s been pulling away since april and i’ve been trying to have open communication to work on this pulling away. We planned our futures together, we planned to grow old together. I still love him and will always love him. but he wants to be friends but he’s also not talked to me since. my heart yearns for my baby again :((
Howre u now?
I’m going through the same thing right now. It’s hard to let go of someone especially when you still love them. But the relationship became toxic. And I don’t think we can move forward with our goals if we’re together.
Need s hug m husband cheated on m n m daughter is 2 months old
2 years together and it's all gone. I need virtual huggs from you people...
ZAC-TACTICAL sending you hugs. You will get through this! Remember that
@@lilhumblebee thank you
Almost 3 years and its all gone..
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Same here bud. One day, it’s like I don’t love you anymore, i have feelings for someone else. And it’s all my fault too. Lol.
Crying myself to sleep every night. Why? Why?
Just keeps drowning me deeper and deeper. And she doesn’t even care.
Heartbreak is the hardest but we must move on... Life goes on. There is no point wanting someone who doesn't want u.
Glitz Glam this is so trueeeeeee
Wish it was that easy
Glitz Glam its hurts to hear the truth but your right
Glitz Glam thank you
amen
He didn't deserve the love I had for him but I also don't deserve to be hurt like this. Lord, please heal us who are heartbroken. 💔🙏
You'll not be healed, you'll be renewed 😎Just wait n see😎. I'm also like you😂🤦.Just wait, eventually everyone will get their answers😎❣️
@@UtkarshSinghP yeah you're right. Thanks. I know it gets better in time. I am helping myself get through the pain and heartache. I am almost okay.
@@mylasaldasal9029 thats very great ❣️
@ahmed hakeem it'll heal buddy.time heals everything.i know you feel like its end of everything but its not,we all think this way.You'll heal just like everyone else.face everything fearlessly.😎
@ahmed hakeem I feel you.yeah every heartbroken person has to go through this. We try to fake everything to ourselves to let everyone see that we are not that affected. But deep inside, it's the opposite. We suffer. Not only can time heal but I guess distance too.
Hi, if you’re reading this please know that the pain is temporary. I love you, keep going.
Thank you ❤
Thank you
Thank you so much :')
It's not always temporary, people hope that its temporary, just like one hopes that they'll come back with a clean bill of health after a check up and in many cases they do, but in many cases they don't. The reality of the situation it is either temporary, and if it isn't you're going to have to live with and it might never go away, but you're still going to have to live with it even if it doesn't.
thank you 😢💔💔this hurts
The worst kind of heartbreak is when you’re in love with the person to the fullest.
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The hardest part is loving someone who you know deep down inside isn’t meant for you. I think our ego takes control.
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What if deep down knowing he is meant for you
My ego took control Jennifer , it was the best fairy tale it was the best love and yes both sides want it the same but when there is family that comes between and one have to choose between me and her family everything changed and I wasn’t going to fight for the 6 time all I want is her to be happy.....
Its hard to forget someone you thought (and planned) you would spend the rest of lives together.
Agree
That’s true.
So hard and they told you that they loved you and want to spend the rest of their life with you, it really hurts so bad
Enjoy being single
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I’m not okay right now, I leave this message hoping one day I come back and say I’m myself once again.
Mate hope you’ll be better.
You will!
I hope so too🤞🏽
Let’s just hope you never come back to this comment because you’ll be so healed and happy in your life that you’ll never have to remember or listen to this video again.
you better now?
I just had a breakup yesterday at 2 days ago and I can’t eat, sleep, or even workout. I loved this girl so much and I feel lonely. I’ve been getting heartburns and heart aches from my anxiety of thinking of her moving on. It sounds selfish, but I thought we would last. To anyone feeling what I’m feeling. I hope you find peace throughout your pain.
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It's goddamn rare!!
So beautifully said, Apil. A rare gift that is, but it is my wish for all of you.
Hoping that this August has been less painful.
They say it gets better? I don’t know how...but they say it.
Sending virtual love and support to all members of the heartbreak club. The WORST club to be in. But at least we’re here together.
How sweet of you for posting this comment. Blessings
I pray all of the broken hearts can heal today ✨
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@Clinton Ose things happen for reason
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@@maricarmanon-og2012 I can feel it my ex just left me because of his parents and he didn't even try one 💔💔 I am now feeling so alone even no one to talk but hoping that I will survive ...
I just discovered my ex is already dating after a month of our break up, we dated for over a year and it makes me feel unwanted or useless when she just forgot about me like that. This truly is one of the most intense pains I have felt in my life, I will pray for everybody who got their hearts broken and felt useless because of it. Stay strong and keep moving, even though I feel like crap now, I know someday I’ll be with someone who loves me for me.
When things happen like this it just puts you in the position to know what is not for you. Honestly fake people move on real fast. They have no remorse whatsoever for their actions and you just wonder how you fell in love in the first place! Take heart. Sending you lots of love!
Same thing happened to me. Within a month someone from her past happened to come back. They were talking about kids and everything. We were together for 6 yes. I feel your pain 1,000,000,000%. Hope you're doing better my friend 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My Ex Wife rebounded with someone else while I decided to be alone until I felt better. Stay strong.
that's rebound don't panic, love yourself first don't think that you are shit because of you think that she moved that easily. Go to the GYM and we will make it bruh.
same here mate, 5 months was getting into it, with the normal unsecurities at first, but then, she dumped me and 3 weeks after when I asked if she could feel again the same, she just replied things have changed, I am.with someone else. God, feel most useless thing alive, unable to enjoy company, family or friends focus at work just take some drugs to sleep and hope another day goes on ...
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How tf do we get out of this lmao
Lol nice yo know that (sigh)
@@soufbeauti just hang on trust the process
This really means a lot. I’ve never felt this alone and I’m around more people than I can count. Thank you from the bottom of my heart🖤
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It's been two months and it feels like my heart is literally shattered to pieces. Whenever I remember of him (almost all the time) I cry until I throw up. I'm crying right now. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I miss him every second of every day. I've been having panic attacks lately and it's getting worse. I can't express how much I love him still. He means the world to me. So if you're going through this, just know that you are not alone. Hopefully everyone will heal. Sending you hugs and stay strong!
Hope you are better! I d like to see how things are going now. Take care of yourself
how are you doing now?
@@RazzorTM thank you! I'm not better, but I try to distract myself. I go to the gym, I go to interviews and try to find a better job... Otherwise I'd go crazy. Take care! :)
@@ixsane4100 just trying not to think about him, although it's very difficult. But I try to focus on myself, as much as possible:)
I actually have an interview for a job tomorrow. I just found out and I'm really excited about it :D
Heart break is so intense, when you only want to be with that person..
Fucking right
:’(
Amen
Make you drop to your knees
And for me, it's not like it goes away quickly. I'm 50 and this is the fourth time in my life I've been seriously heartbroken. I'm at four months and still crying daily. Even though I know without question that he is not right for me, I still truly love him and the suffering continues. I'm just not willing to let the thoughts go yet...it's all I have left of him. Ridiculous waste of my precious time on Earth. It's an addiction.
it hurts when you both still love each other, but we know it's best to go our separate ways. it just hurts so much
happened to me two months ago, still hurts. praying for you ❤️
it hurts when only one of you love the other and the other literally hasn’t felt upset since the day it happened. it’s been 3 months since it happened and he’s doing great but I’ve been feeling awful since
I am exactly there Carmen! We love each other but are from different planets! And we cannot find a midlle way....
carmen lara it would have been better if he was a dick - then it would be easy and you could just leave him .. but because you love each other and get each other... it’s like the hurt is in the skin :( it hurts so fucking bad
i feel you :(
For everyone who is heartbroken...... *I love you guyzz* ♥️☹️
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Thank you😟
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My wife of 7 years doesn't love me anymore and left me. I shared my best memories with her and did so many things for the first time with her. My bond is so strong and i just feel dead inside and don't have anything to distract me or anyone to talk to. I sit and think of memories and I can't stop it. I've gone through this many times but this time as I'm an adult it's so hard to even smile and say I'm fine. To anyone that's going through heartbreak your not alone be strong with me and well learn to live again.
I am in the same boat. I work out 4-5 times a week, get on the treadmill 4 days a week, go to church on Sunday, eat right. It's been 5 months (after 15 years together) and I feel better and look better. Not saying it's easy but it gets better.
@@badlander6369 happy to hear it gets better, it just feels like the pain will never go away. One week in and all I want to do is to forget. 20 years of marriage.
@@divorcejournal7961 Keep watching Michael Hussey's videos. Focus on taking good care of yourself. Like I said, eat well, exercise, go to church. Buy some new clothes. Find a new hobby. It all adds up to a new you.
Hey brother, I'm right there with you. This type of pain is different and unbearable especially during a separation with them and you haven't moved out just yet.
I lost my mate to death four mos ago. I have an otherwise good life in a lovely place and am financially secure but he was everything to me...for decades. I dont know if I will ever feel SINGLE again. I am not a young woman but men often say to me including today "beautiful" as they come towards me on the street. These are men of a certain age, the appropriate age for me, yet I never see anyone who attracts ME. Im not ready for a relationship...conversations yes, but as I say, no one moves me.
It is like I died too. No one is asking me out, so I must be giving off unapproachable vibes. I am socializing but with married friends..,couples over the holidays.
The funny thing is I approached HIM all those years ago and we hit it off and were an item right away and we were always great together. I'm a very positive and otherwise happy person, but I really, really feel lost..not like I only lost HIM, but myself as well.
And the really odd thing is I am a professor of clinical psychology and have worked with many people in my exact situation. I am using all the insight and advice on myself. I know I will be in a better place psychologically a year from now, but right now is awful.
when you cant even focus on the video because u think of her
Jaafar Bousserra that’s really true for real man
Or him. 😢
That is so sad
I felt this 😭 we have a son together so I took her back after the first break up, after 13months back together she decided to leave me once again after promising she wouldn’t again
Thats fucking sad man. I'm still hurt.
Time. You will not care eventually. Trust me.
Ben Alexander i hope so
Ben Alexander i hope so.
Ben Alexander I wish I could finally say those words.
How long has it been?
Ben Alexander 1 year and counting
I watched this video 5 years ago … now I’m back watching it because my heart got broken again by the same person. Time doesn’t change people, you just go round in circles
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I’m so sorry to hear that. Often time, the pattern implies that there’s more lessons that we haven’t learned. So it replays for us to really learn. Take the time for self-reflect and learn the lesson. We usually take an easy route to distract and numb ourselves that I neglect to learn from the painful experience. I wish you a quick healing.
@@teresapower1495 I wrote a letter to myself, listing everything he did, how I felt, every awful, mean, hurtful thing, all the lies. When I feel myself slipping down, I read it, reminds me that even though it hurt so badly and I’ll still have parts that hurt, I don’t want to have that pain in my life or the person who caused it. I know I’m happier without and will be happier with someone who doesn’t do all those things. It’s a fight but reading the letter to myself, makes me stronger and keeps me looking forward because backwards just opens old scares.
I’m hoping this helps someone out there going through a horrible breakup. I know you’re feeling like it’s the end of the world or that someone died. But trust me!!!!!! Had I not gone through it once I would’ve never met the woman and companion of my dreams. We’ve Ben together 23 years and I’m still in love today like I was 23 years ago. In fact we just both retired and are more in love than ever. I say this to say, you never know what’s around the corner and when that someone will change the way you see life.
He was the one around the corner...
How beautiful...I was a young widow when I met him and now HE too has died...life is so unfair...I envy people who never lose a love to death amd to have it happen twice in one lifetime seems so unfair, but we had decades together. I am SO grateful. I COULD have been alone all this time instead of with him. I tell myself this all the time trying to make myself feel better...I AM grateful, but I dont feel better.
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To everyone who's heartbroken, please be strong. You are not alone. I know it's painful but time will come we'll get over this.
Edit: Hello! How's everyone doing especially those who commented on my post? I hope you're all doing better now. It's been a good 3 years. 😊
James Edward Lawrence Teofilo thank you
James Edward Lawrence Teofilo I can’t wait to heal
Can't wait for that day to come. This pain is becoming unbearable day by day
James Edward Lawrence Teofilo thank you brother, much love ❤️
Can’t wait for that time to come
The pain is beyond compare. It’s like a shadow, never leaving you alone.
No Body
finally someone understands, I don’t stop thinking about her and everything reminds me of her
I liken it to asking someone to change their skin. when people tell me "just get over him", I compare it to asking me to switch out my skin, I just can't, it's that difficult, the heartache, the pain, because he's just everywhere, he was my everything, he is a huge part of who I was. going 2 years now and he has slowly faded in the background, in my past.
Absolutely!
ydmorales hang in there
No Body hope you are feeling better by now
Reading all the comments down here I actually feel less lonely. I mean, I'm not the only one who has been through a pain like this and this kinda conforted me.
World is full of such people
Exactly what i was thinking. Its nice to not feel alone in something this destructive.
Yes bb we are all in this together. Why else would we go to this vid
Me too
Giulia I have also been through this n it happenes to everyone but heres the good thing good times dont last forever and even bad times....nothing lasts....cheers
To whoever is going through this...I swear you will overcome this pain. I had the worst anxiety and panic attacks and my heart was on auto pilot I had zero control over my anxiety I could be in a room full of people but felt so lonely and was scared to be alone. But honestly what helped me was going to the gym and working out (focusing on a goal is a brilliant idea, find something with purpose and will make you feel good) I am now in the best shape of my life and I feel good about myself. there is no easy fix all I can say is, in time the pain will pass and you will regain control over your heart but you just got to be patient. Honestly I honestly wish I could take away that feeling from you, it's the WORST!!! But Inn Shaa Allah you will be fine ❤
Thank you for your postive words ...wish i could chat with you ?
InshAllah . I’m finding comfort in religion.
My gf just broke up with me and I need this thank you :)
going through a bad heartbreak and relate to this so much, thank you❤️
@@madipennington6457 It is rough as shit right now but honestly I promise you it will get better in *TIME*. Just navigate yourself and surf 🏄♂️ 🌊 this Ginormous wave and *YOU WILL* come out stronger for it you will see. And *WHEN YOU DO* please message me so I know you made it through the storm. *Luv YOU Buddy* 😊❤
The pain is truly real.
But we're so strong, every single one of us, and we'll get through it babes!
Helen Valo thank youb
Helen Valo thanks
Thank you
Am going through hell now,everything is seeming like am dreaming,it’s 2 days now
We were soulmates. He left me so suddenly and never gave me proper closure. He went from hot to cold in an instant. I’ve never loved anyone like him. And I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life before. Being all alone in lockdown makes it even worse. This is way too hard.
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Anyone is in tears while watching this vid..
Ray currently? yes
Ray yes sadly
Yes
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Yup
It's this sorrow of not being able to be with someone you had such deep feelings for
It is I know exactly how you feel it's hard to let go !
Who else is heart broken, lost and trying their hardest to keep going in February 2020💔
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Youre beautiful; their loss
We are all in this together. We need to stay strong no matter how hard seem to goin’ ... the process of healing is not easy .. it s a rollercoster of emotions ... the heart aches 😥 and the brain loses control...
how you all are fellin now ?
*I wish that we all heal. We all get better and the we eventually get what we want in life. And all this pain inside our hearts is gone soon*
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We heal together!
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I’m going through my 2nd breakup with the same person after about 10 years together. So devastated and sad. Terrified that I’ll be alone forever and unable to heal from this pain. I’m grateful to have found this video.
I just hope you get over it ...More power to you and you are strong enough to deal with this ...But trust me it will get better
Just did the same this. Its soul crushing. Hope you stay strong🙏🏾
Me too. This time, he left in the worst way imaginable. A month to our wedding. He is treating me like an enemy including his family. Which surprises and confuses me.
I've been through all of this. Zero contact is vital. You at least get your power back. Resist contacting them. Walk away. Teach them a lesson.
@dayna ..did u happen to get over that person?
The amount of broken hearts in this comment section is making me sad. I hope all of you find the right match, and that the feelings you are felling right now are worth the experience you got and the lessons you learned.
It really is heartbreaking.
Depressed asf :(
@Clinton Shaun dude thats crazy. Don't go look into her phone. Confront her and if she doesn't react at all just leave her alone
Thank you so much for saying this
Whoever reading this, let's stay strong. I just lost the love of my life. :(
I'm trying but its so hard. I had to cut communication with her a few weeks ago but i think this will last forever.
@@Vis89 i know but keep moving. It's been a week for me of not talking to him, 2 weeks since the break up and it kills me. I miss him everyday for sure. But I've already tried my very best to keep the relationship and you really just cant force people to stay in your life. And then i realized my self worth. I stopped pursuing and now, i may still not the old me but im somewhat better. Love yourself!
Me too
I've been cheated on :/
@@known9295 sorry to hear. Remember that it's not ur loss; it's theirs. They lost an amazing person who loves them. You'll be fine, babe. 😊
Feb 2021, my goodness it hurts like hell. i embrace the emotions i feel but its so hard to pass the time being.
@Jacklyn Jennifer i dont want him back..
@@judeogieuhi1189 i am sorry youre also in a heartbreak now, i know how desperate you can feel at this point, please hold on because this heartbreak will go away and you will find somebody that loves you regardless
@@judeogieuhi1189 i am going through this exact same thing. I am depressed and hardly eating and don’t want tk get out of bed. I know he dosent love me and it kills me everyday after trying so hard for someone to love you. I was just a stupid toy.
@@remsislamus5131 this is exactly how I feel right now 😭it’s been a week now 💔I did nothing wrong to he just woke up and decided to break up with me and talked to me very rudely 💔it’s like a nightmare. Praying for Devine healing
Feeling the same here. After 7 years of relationship we broke up, it's just one and half month now and he is already in relationship 😌
Honestly, when i was going through heart break, i genuinely believed it was never going to get better and that i’ll always miss them, turns out that wasn’t true, time truly does heal
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The hardest part is not moving on, it's that you don't want to move on.
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It will get better. It wasn’t meant to be. That isn’t your person. No matter why it ended it was for a reason.
Don’t hate them. Wish them luck and let it go. Holding on to something lost is so draining.
This is the best comment for this video! Thank you! I needed to read your words tonight.
She stole that line from another speech im trying to find actually. Was in the radio this morning
Ted s - I don’t care if she “stole” what she said. I needed to read it.
Such an awesome attitude x
Thanks alot
We're all gonna make it
Yes we are, sooner or later!!!
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I hope I make it through this
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My heart is like aching at random moments and it hurts so much
I get this )): its been a month for me and it feels exactly what u said but im getting better
I feel you, I really do. The amount of pain it takes to let go of someone you loved so much is horrifying and potentially one of the worst feeling ever but we got this. The first step to letting go is realizing that you have to let go, we got this
Who else is watching this while in Quarantine & Going through a breakup in March?
Darshini Rajawati me too hurts so bad.
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Me. Getting harder everyday lol
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Who else is heartbroken in October 2019?
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@@itsbritneybitch5350 it's feels good to know I'm not alone in this 😅
Got rejected today. Yaaay.
I’ve been dumped after 6 years by the person I thought was my soulmate. The pain is brutal and relentless. I have never felt so small and insignificant in my life.
Stefanie Costa Same thing just happened to me 3 days ago. 6 years and I feel like they died and I’m in mourning🥺😔 The worst pain I’ve ever felt. How are you now?
R R It still hurts but not as badly as it did before. Every day comes with a different struggle or hurdle but the pain isn’t as constant as it once was. I hope you’re doing okay. Please feel free to message me. I know what it’s like. Sending all the positivity I have to you x
Stefanie Costa Thank you so much for responding. It makes me feel better talking about it and even typing about it in this case. It’s been horrible for me. Hopefully I can say I’m ok soon😔
I’m in the exact same boat. It’s been 2 months and I still think of him everyday. Praying for healing for us all.
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Just watched this and I think I'll rewatch it again. My husband of 16yrs just left me and our girls and I'm still in love with him and we are broken. I'm struggling to function. So I'm going to give this a try. Thank you
How do you feel today?
I am so sorry for your recent loss.
Pls pray God will help
I can relate … it’s so difficult ,,But I believe time has to heal
hang in there, going through it too.
I hate drowning in my thoughts of him 😢 i just want to be free.
@Bianca Cortez i dont want him back. I want to forget him
Same here.
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Agreed I'm alone with my thought
@@TinaKai25 Well alone besides the millions of people that feel the same way right now
The grief process after a break-up is very much like when someone dies. I found learning about the Five Stages of Grief very helpful. It's also a lot like withdrawing from a substance. Being in love floods the brain with as much dopamine as crack cocaine! I'm in withdrawal from a relationship, and find it also helps to make a list of everything that was wrong and toxic about the relationship. Remembering the good times, wishing it could be like that again, is called "Euphoric Recall." Healing takes time. It's a bitch, for sure. But time does enable us to eventually accept the loss and move on ...
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My friend was talking to me about this today. I just want to get there. The thing was I was a person that would never leave. Even if it strain me, even if I knew he didn’t respect me, especially when I would say no. Even when I felt like maybe I couldn’t go any longer. But he left me. And he didnt want me. He left me and replaced me with different girls. And its not like the usual toxic relationships that I had in my past when we continue the toxic cycle and ignored the bad. He actually just left and I know he’s never gonna reach out. And I felt like he was important to me. And he’s just gone. And I have no option but to move on.
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He left yesterday after 7 years... and I feel like I have only one lung... my sight has lost the hability to see colors.. everything is grey. I only keep crying and crying...
The color will come back...you will wake up some day and it will be there...
I see u wrote this a week ago..I do hope your pain has eased somehow...somewhat. So sorry your heart has been broken.
@@gh1214 Awesome response. I hope the colors come back for her sooner rather than later. So sad....
It's been 4 days since we broke up, the hardest part is we still love each other. She just wants to work on herself and be independent..sucks after 4 years and now an engagement ring that won't be used. We were each other's rocks. Now I'm living in a friends basement crying my eyes out and writing a comment on youtube
Hello y'all, thank you for your wishes, Im really feeling better ... kind of numb maybe? idk ... being free of ties to do what I want when I want to feel's good ... I think I'm realizing now I had a toxic relationship, but I was just thinking that it took me 7 years and being dumped for me to realize that scares me A LOT about going out to the jungle of dating again...
First love is the sweetest but that first cut is the deepest
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Heartbreak is another level of pain that I did not know existed. But it is comforting to see that we really are sharing this human experience together. This video is the first time I've felt peace and a little bit of relief since my breakup almost a week ago. So thank you to Matthew for making this video, may God bless you. I hope everyone who is suffering right now can become stronger and happier after going through it.
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How are you feeling now? My breakup happened just a week ago man...
I’m fresh on this break up (happened yesterday) what hurt the most is loving someone the most but you know you’re not meant for each other . Also after realizing , I loved her so much I lost myself . I’m using this opportunity to better myself and what I loved most about this video is to start a project that would bring lots of meaning to your life . Thanks for the advice . Made me feel a lot better .
Same here. Worse is he told me he loves me now he's talking about not loving me the same anymore. And I'm about to write final exams. I pray for us all to get through on the other side of this.
It happened 1 hour ago, and it s my first one
how are you three months later
this happened two days ago but I'm realizing how I deserve better I deserve to be loved just as much as I love and that was something I lacked to understand about our relationship I thought I'd give him time to realize this sit down and talk to him but it's not worth it having been together for almost 5 years and still feeling like I'm not being loved the way I want to be loved says alot
but I'm letting him go and learning to understand that if he was the man of my dreams like I painted him out to be then this wouldn't have been the case
but it's okay I'm a lover by nature I believe that love heals all wounds any kind of love.
sending my love to everyone going through this
How are you now? My heart has just been broken.... I was with someone for over three years and he ended things with me over a text message and no explanation.
It’s a long process you spend whole day working, and then when the lights are low and your alone it hurts.
It honestly hurts so bad. I am definitely lonely and I need someone to talk to
Just recently got brutally dumped and I feel like my soul has left my body :(
:(
It also hurts during the whole day of work, unfortunately
Find someone to talk to, it helps me a lot
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3 months later and I’m still in love after being heartbroken…I’ve never loved anyone more. This is an absolutely brutal feeling.
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You idealise this person. That's normal. Three month are nothing.
How are you now, Cam?
@@diezuckerbackerin5112 is it same when u been w a person for 5 months? I never felt that much loved and I healed him. At the end he broke up
I'm a year in and only just processing the break up now ,it's so brutal it vile ❤️
ive never felt such pain from a breakup. I truly was in love this man filled a void,he completed me,its been moths and my brain rewinds to the memories.He promised to ever leave and yet he still did :(
Same here. After 7 years. He told my mum "our relationship will last, I don't want to leave her, it will end only if she leaves me". Yeah.
He broke up with me one month ago 3 days before our dream travel which we booked 3 weeks prior.
I feel like shit and like I won't be going on with my life ever.
@@jessicacorradini7644 Ok. I'm sorry for what your ex did, but you have to realize that he was a person of poor character, and is not worth crying over. Maybe watch some videos about narcissists because he might have been one. A man should not "fill a void". If you're walking around like an open wound who needs a void filled, you are just gonna get hurt by the next user. Fill your void with God and self worth. Go through all of these comments. All this crying and wasted energy over these losers is a pandemic. One day we females have to wake up. I do suggest therapy and wish you the best.
@@jessicacorradini7644you will move on with your life
This is just so true. I'm dying right now. I lost the most important person in my life. I miss my havey baby. I hate how she is with another man.
austin mattingly sorry to hear that bro 😞
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" Time. You will not care eventually. Trust me. " - by Ben Alexander (youtube comment)
Same thing here..... :(
austin mattingly same here OMG. I don't want to be alone. 😓
same here, saw her cheating infront of my eyes :( i have never been this much attached with anyone in my life
A dude here.
You will be fine, TRUST ME!!!.
- Embrace the pain.
- Take out time to grieve everyday
- DO NOT CONTACT THEM, I Repeat, DO NOT CONTACT THEM. This does not help You AT ALL. You'll feel worse after you drop that phone (unless it's very important)
- Spend your time doing something that gives you daily rewards of that sense of accomplishment.
- If you are religious, do not engage in the "please bring him or him back to me and I promise I'll never do this or that " prayer.
- Create new memories, cause when you really look at it, this is what causes the hurt right?
-Take good care of yourself.Start working out, buy new clothes, get a makeover and don't engage in excessive use of cigarette and alcohol like I did.In fact, now is a good time to get rid of those bad habits. This will give you something else to be proud of.
- Although it might not feel like it right now, you will find love and happiness again.The odds are in your favour on that one.
100% correct. Wise advise!
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But I don't think that I will get a person who is better than him.. I know that in the world there are many good people but what if it's just an illusion and what if he was the best one.. he had not loved anyone but he found me pure n loved me but I think he thought I ignored him as I really did but I didn't want him to fall for me as I am having bad days n now I love him but he is gone.... 🙃
OMG!!!! This is perfect!
Thank You so much! But I feel like contacting him. I feel like telling him how I feel and why we’re good together. And his response or lack of response will be my closure...
When he says he knows what we are going through, and looks us right in the eyes I just start to cry. What a sweetheart to try to help the rest of us.
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Would’ve never thought I needed to watch something like this. Never thought I could get hurt this bad I feel absolutely horrible life seems so grey at the moment.
I’m with you brozay don’t worry this month my ex girlfriend left me. Been going through it
I was lying numb till now. After watching this video, I slowly rose up from my bed and opening my notebook. Small progress.
Yet a progress.
Thanks Matthew.
you can do it!
I pray that you are still doing better in Jesus name.
I'm going through it now too. Husband after 18 yrs left me and my daughter who is 15, yesterday. He left 4 weeks ago and came back home. Hooked up with someone at his work staying in a hotel. Stayed home for 10 days, and I knew something wasnt right. I think hes drinking again. Hes back with that same woman who is on methadone. I met her HUSBAND. She has a teen as well, and keeps leaving her family. Sad part is, our daughters went to school together. Watching this video, I started crying, especially at the end. Why cant all men be like this. Open, Honest, Loyal, And trustworthy? I'm 49 yrs old, been through a real tough marriage with my 1st husband who was a physical and mental abuser since I was 17. We have a son together who is now 21. I left him when our son was born. Then I met Chris. My son was 3. We married 1 yr later, and then 1 yr after that we got pregnant with our now 15 yr old daughter. It's been a really rough road with him cheating throughout the yrs. I kept taking him back. It's been over 5 yrs ago since his motorcycle accident, and hes been a good boy....I think anyways. Well, he fiannaly went back to work, and met this lady Tammy. Went right back to his old ways. I'm so hurt and devastated. This video woke me up some. I have to focus on me and Christa now. Mabie we will join a gym! Or something! Thank you Matthew. I'm still crying after watching this.
The crazy thing about breakups is how quick people go into dating apps right after.. and they use hookups to forget the person they once loved. It hurts when you see that happen. 😞
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Yeah..but that doesn't work. She dumped me, and she started dating to fill the gap I made to her.
That's what I am about to do
My girlfriend left me yesterday, the woman I intended to marry. She told me I wasnt worth it anymore, and refused to try and fix the relationship. Only today, I found out that she had cheated on me with one of my best friends. Even so, I still love her with all my heart, and I have never been in so much pain. This video helped me in more ways than I can explain, and I hope it does the same for all of you. You'll get better. We'll get better.
TheRandomPost she's the one who is not worth it if she cheated even cheated at you.
*same
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im going through exactly what you are im trying to deal with it but im not sure how im trying to accept things but i cant i wish i could im jealous of my friend for stealing my girlfriend for me she meant so much to me and i dont know what to do anymore its been 4 days and i still am suffering its hard and i need help with this i just dont know how to ask for help or who to ask i just want happiness its rough as he said in the video i need to work on things such as my acceptance and jealousy but i have a big problem there. thanks for whoever is reading this for listening.
there is no greater pain than remembering happiness in a time of misery
"My heart is at ease, knowing that, what missed me, was never meant for me, and what meant for me, will never miss me."
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I needed that so bad! Thank you
I am at this dark place right now.... it’s so hard. No words to describe how I feel. Thank you for this video of yours..
Me too. Neither of us are alone.
You're not alone
Me too!
You're not alone in this
I take life minute by minute not day by day. Its too hard 💔
I've been hurt so deeply after putting for so much effort......I don't think I'll ever be able to be with anyone again. I've tried moving on, but so many men are such liars. All I want is to be loved and give love. Its truly that simple for me, but it's like that's too much to ask nowadays. I don't think I can trust anymore. I'm just going focus on building my empire alone.
Just focus on yourself. I have the exact same problem, broke up with my gf 1 month ago. Love is not enough for some people, plus she was a bipolar so yeah she loved me the most and then just hated the most. Just don't forget that there are lots of men outside who just want to love and feel loved. Until you find one, make some progress in your life for YOUR OWN good, not someone elses. Good luck :)
Thanks for your positive words. I've since met someone and he is great and I don't want to waste his time...but it is talking me a bit to really open to him. He does not pressure me to and he is patient and very understanding, but I just didn't think I was going to be so closed. I think I just feel like I don't trust men in general. I've come to this conclusion based on my personal experiences and observations. For example, even when I know a guy is with someone, he will still flirt with me or try to get my phone number. I don't want a man like that, but I also know men light up when they see a woman they are attracted to and they can't really help that. I don't know, maybe I'm just hyper sensitive and just don't need to be with anyone. I just don't feel like it if this is how things are supposed to be.
+Just Found I think it is just an unlucky situation for you, you've just seen lots of disrespectful men who does not have dignity and trust in their own relationship. Don't hurry up to open yourself completely to someone. It's not easy to find that kind of person but when you do, don't hesitate. Believe, trust and have a happy life :)
I'm a sensitive and very loving person and I often feel like a walking neon target. I also know I am strong, intelligent and have a heart worth sharing. I guess I just have to hang in there and try to stay positive. I also need to make up my mind about what I want. Your words are kind. I hope things work out well for you and you find the women of your heart's desire. Take care and thanks for the chat :)
I feel you.... I don't think I can trust anyone again.... The guy who used to love me a lot...cheated on me and became a heartless man... He moved on so easily and now flirting with many girls on fb... how can he throw away everything we had so easily... I've never felt this betrayed.... after trusting him and loving him so much.... I don't think I deserve eveything he made me went through... because of him... I also have a low self esteem right now and very depressed but I'm trying to be okay... I know I will be okay soon... waiting for that to happen.... but trusting any man again? Not sure if that will ever happen.
Four years ago I saved this video because it helped me. Now after a difficult breakup I came upon it again and I understand why I saved it in the first place. Thank you very much for giving us hope and making us feel understood.
If you've been cheated on, LEAVE. Once a cheater, always a cheater. This is something I've learned after a horrible HORRIBLE heartbreak. No matter how much YOU believe they'll change. They won't. They'll just get better at hiding it. Then one fine day they'll dump you and then your entire world comes crashing down. Cry. Scream. Face it. Don't suppress your feelings. Never do that. Never agree to being friends with them. Just leave. Love yourself because no one else will. Help someone else that you might think is going through a similar situation. Share your feelings. Take ALL the time you need. You can do it. Remember you're not alone❤
Saumy Maxwell i was the person who broke up with them and then just days later it turned out they had someone on the side while they were with me and I’m really hung up over it idk why
@@spinone-d2 What was the reason you broke up? Because a lot of times when you find out there was a third person involved already, chances are they must have some part in you two breaking up. Take your time. Healing takes time. Good luck.
So much wisdom in this comment..👌👌👌@Saummy maxwell..
Saumy Maxwell thank you
You are absolutely right.... I'm also facing the same situation now........ 😢😢
hardest part is knowing that she moved on so quick and you’re laying in bed not knowing how to move on
That sucks so bad! Like it really does. You just can't process how the other person has moved while you're a total mess. But the truth is we never know if they've actually moved on. If they're with someone else, they've probably made a mistake because they've rushed into it to escape the pain which is definitely not a healthy sign.
I will introduce you to someone who help me restore my relationship with my love and now we are happy together again
He will surely help you
This shit hits in all other level
Ugh that’s really hits deep to the core :(
Lord, heal us.
Amen!
Amen!
Mich Silvestre Ameen
Mich Silvestre what lord?...
Who would break your heart😞 its the worst feeling
Leaving this comment to come back too when I fully heal, this is my first heartbreak and my longest relationship 2 and a half years, honestly nothing could’ve prepared me for such pain, the feeling of literally losing a loved one that you did everything with,I’ve reached out I’ve tried keeping myself busy, some days are good other days I feel like I’m back to square one, constant vomiting,can’t eat,sleep and my mind is thinking about her from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep, I hope I get through this and for anybody else going through this bless you, I wouldn’t wish this on anyone but at the same time I am thankful to experience such distress knowing one day I hope to be happy again.
Same feeling. I hope someday we find our better half. The one that we truly deserves. Im heartbbroken right now. I dont know what to do. Im trying to get myself busy to some other stuff but i cant help myself thinking about him. Specially were on the same company and i get to see him every single day. I. Just want this to end soon. 😥😥😥😥
It‘s been 5 months since my breakup and I‘m still a mess. I never thought it possible to feel like this. I‘m hoping for better days. Next month i will hand in my master thesis and finish my degree. After that i will move and leave this town. I guess it‘s progress. But i can‘t help myself from thinking about her every single day 😢
How are you doing so far? :)
who else have heartbroken in November 2019? I got you 😭
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I did. How are you all getting on? I’m feeling rough.
5 days back
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2 weeks ago and it hasn't gotten any better. It ended because it was toxic and for a year and a half tried everything. At the end we just hurt each other even more and he broke me in every way possible. I don't honestly know what to do with myself, I feel like it might not ever get better.
3 yrs later & I'm back here watching this video again..& I feel so dumb & used. Why does it seem like some people just search out those with the sensitive pure heart to only open it & crush it. Thank you for this video..& I know in little time I'll have my happiness in my heart & it'll feel whole again.
You will overcome
Yeah I know, it's like a broken record of a heart. I'm a serial failure when it comes to picking good partners. I swear there are heart predators out there. I hate to say it, but some people are just dark - meaning lacking light - people. Our intuition is supposed to protect us from them, but if you're vulnerable economically, or some other way, these folk can easily take advantage because we are willing to give them a chance even if we have doubts.
You are right about heart predictors. Never ever say your a serial failure at relationships. Your ex's are the ones who lost coz deep down you are pretty amazing. Just keep on doing you, the world will adjust and know there's someone out there for all of us.
@@qarenlee254 yes you're right, well said, I will rephrase that, I WAS a serial failure at relationships.
Same here
Suffered over months. Then started to set a goal, a lot of people told me, I could never reach. Worked hard for it. Became stronger (physically and mentally), enjoyed the results, became proud of myself, heard comments from others about my process and how impressed they were... and one time I realized: My life is so beautiful. And I am so over him. Was the best feeling, because I finally was free from suffering.... :)
Tanja Kapunkt wow
Tanja Kapunkt that's beautiful. Congratulations
This is so inspiring girl, congrats!! 👌
Happy for you...
Wow well done! I hope I’ll feel like that one day xx
To all my heartbroken people out here,
Let's give each other a tight hug and tell ourselves it'll be alright 🫂
Maybe not today, but it'll for sure even though it doesn't feel like it right now.
Gratitude 🙏
Very true 😊
Heartake is literally the worst feeling ever
Lauren Woods u ain't lying sister
yea the worst that pit in your stomachs you visualizing them e some1 else that
I really is heart ache! My heart hurts from front to back. Some days are better than others! I love her and told her I always will. She is moving on and that's what hurts the most. Sometimes I feel alone in my heartache. Would be easier if I had someone else to at least get to know like she is.
Yeah..my recent ex is actually a co-worker (mistake, never do that! Lesson learned). Our relationship had been slowly fading. Now we have agreed to "just be friends" Ladies! Let me tell you. Guys cannot be friends with women they have deep love feelings for or have had sex with. It just doesn't work. Now I am working along side her...trying to keep a plastic smile on while she is moving on. Karma! It's what I get for getting involved with a co-worker. Seriously! Never do that.
I've lived the same situation a few times before and worst of all... I think it's happening now again. The only remedy for this is TIME! It heals better than anything on Earth. Be patient it will come to an end believe me 😉
Super painful. I did not think I would go through this again and then bam. Please pray for me.
Joahnna Paula Horca We shall weather the Strom together. I'm going through hell. can't eat, wanna vomit and just bad bad urgent bathroom visit. Day 3
I'm not just praying for you.. if even we dont know each other. we all know the pain.. but i know we can forget and live happily again and 100% sure to the fullest...
Same here
Focusing on my studies, working hard in the gym to achieve my body goals and finally getting over my fear of needles to get my first tattoo have really helped me, and I’m only 3 months into my healing journey. Your videos have helped me a lot.
You got a ‘tramp stamp’? 🥺
hope you get thru it asap, i'm struggling tbh x
Good luck
Hey , hope your over comming your fear of needles , maybe chill on the tattoos , men don't take these type of women seriously
I admire that, I’m going through the same exact thing.
First, thank you Matthew for this wonderful advice. You are a gift from heaven.
Im writing this at 8/27/2022 . I have been in No Contact rule for 5 days now. Sometimes I feel confident. Sometimes it hurts like hell. Tears are flowing like shits and it doest care even if Im on something. While Im eating, before I sleep, when Im listening to music and I feel real shit, I wanna hug myself. Unrequited love really sucks. It makes you feel pitiful. It makes you feel unworthy of love. And it makes you question about everything. Am I not good enough? Why cant he love me? When you know you were in your best version and still you were not chosen.
But I realized that self respect should be always louder than your love to other person. Your worth shouldnt base upon on if he would love you or not. We are worthy before we try to love them and still worthy after they broke our hearts.
Right now Im on my self healing journey. Im gathering myself again after it shattered into pieces. Realizing the world will never give a shit whether I feel shit or not. So theres no other way but to keep going. The next time I visit this video, I hope the reason is not because I’m broken hearted again. I hope that the next time I watch it, I will see my comment here and I’ll just smile coz I have moved on and glad I chose to be strong.
Let’s heal ourselves folks. Everything will be brighter soon💛
Damn! This encapsulates how I’m feeling and I hope I can do this cuz ..
Well said. We are always worthy, that feeling is just blurred for a while.
Your worth was never on trial here - so to speak. Love is not something you earn by being worthy. It's not Thor's hammer. It's a feeling. Your worth as a human was never in play. What was at play was a chaotic, illogical emotion. What was at play were the psyche of the two involved persons, and all the traumas that they both carry. He could have an avoidant attachment style. He could have a fear of intimacy. There are so many possibilities that only involve you because you were there. I'm 6 months into a breakup, and I've never loved like that before. I'm still not over her. I cannot imagine a time that I will be. But something I've learned is that we are like sculptures emerging from marble. We are not destroyed by what is lost. We are defined by what remains. There are always possibilities, and the universe will unfold as it should.
Update
Any one else heartbroken in July 2019?
Me, so bad :(
@@Headniz I feel you man it suck I feel like I can't even keep going on it is so hard and she she doesn't even give a crap about me?
My boyfriend just left me, when my dad is in hospital and I become a bit “too emotional” for him. He never truly cared for me
Torn into a million pieces bro...
I'm sorry too all of you!! I have been going through it since the 4th of July and she did me that crap hasn't said anything to me I still wake up everyday hurting over her and the kids that isn't even mine but according to her I don't love her and now I see I deserve better than that and I'll get by this pain there is someone for me I hope...
Just amazes me how someone can date for 3 plus years...the one person struggles really hard through everything and the other quickly moves on like you were nothing...
Yeahh for real ... So weird ... I feel you brotha
+brandenrhodes26 Yeah exactly , my girlfriend left my heart in peaces and I tried everything but she ignors me and its seems she has moved on .
+brandenrhodes26 yes it really hurts when u love someone soooooo deep and they move on like u ment nothing... However in my case I told him he would never replace me.... but what hurts is the weekly/monthly texts... that I ignore of course... But I agree with Matt working and loving oneself really helps to heal the hurt.
Same here. 3 years. She moved on and got intimate with someone. I am a complete stranger now. This broke me so bad. Trying to be the best I can be.
+brandenrhodes26 Exactly me. Up till now it has already been over a week since my breakup and I'm struggling to get over the one I Love while i saw how quickly she has gotten over me and got someone else already in her mind, it was like the thing we had never meant to her.
My heart got broken today after 7 years caught her cheating,I've got a little girl with her. I'm ruined. I'm also in a lockdown. I cant just leave. This is torture.
Hey, same thing happened to me recently, broke up with my ex of 7 years who was unsure if he wanted to be with me or the girl he cheated on me with. Trust me, with time you will realize you were in love with the view you had of this person, not the shitty, lying, asshole they are now. And that will help you.
King Tut, please look up narcissistic abuse. You might have been in that situation. In that case, you lost NOTHING in loosing her. I hope you feel better. You deserve far better than her.
You’re situation is very similar to mine.
It is torture. Focus on being the best father you can be. I started to workout as soon as I sensed that my ex was doing me wrong. It has helped me a lot. Stay strong 💪🏽
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Exactly same as me including having a daughter with her.
this is so true! I was writing my bachelor thesis the last time me and my ex broke up. However, we got back together after a while. However, we broke up again this fall and it was heartbreaking. But now I am writing my master thesis and I am about to finish my studies, which really means something to me. I am really feeling that I am doing progress, and although there are times when I get sad and feel lonely because of the break up, I still feel that I am going in the right direction. So, I totally support this advice.
When you are heartbroken, first thing is to be easy with yourself, literally taking care of yourself, being gentle with yourself and most importantly be grateful for the relationship, either was good or not, there are always lessons and good memories, gratitude is a powerful state of mind
I decided to go on no dating/relationship/men challenge for a year. I'm taking this time to be with myself, focus on myself, get started on my goals and make progress on these goals.
Life is love. I will introduce you to someone who help me restore my relationship with my love.
He will also help you out
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@@mrmarco259 what is this a scam
I thought the love that i gave is enough for him to stay.
I thought the love I gave him was enough to make him a better person but it wasnt. I also realized that no matter what I did, they would only do so much. I know I deserved more that he ever was and you do too. Take care of yourself
@@Yk55555 yeah we deserve someone better, not the one who's only good with words. So much love and time was given but that didn't matter to him. I hope he will feel that pain someday. Broken and lost.
Me too.
@@erizadonoso5854 she was sooo stuck in a bad past that she didn't see the love that i had 4 her. All I can give. All of me.
Now, broken, crushed and empty.
Same. I gave 10 years of my life to this man. Always loving him more, giving him more, expecting more. I am now 33 years old and after all the bullshit I put up with, he is the one that cheats on me and decides he doesn’t feel in love anymore. I’m so broken. So lost. And everyone keeps saying time will heal, and let him go, and you will be fine. But it so so so hard. I can’t imagine coming home and him not being there. I can’t imagine not waking up to him every morning. It hurts every inch of my soul. And I I just want to scream and cry and run away! And I don’t know how I am going to get through this. He hasn’t even moved out yet, I can’t imagine what it will be like when he is gone. I pray for all of us that our hearts do heal and that we are blessed with real men, that deserve us, that love us, and that will never hurt us or walk away.
I'm halfway through the video and I can confirm what he says is very helpful. I had this important goal for a few years that I procrastinated on. I finally finished the first big step of this particular goal. It was extremely difficult, but it was huge. I started a couple of weeks after the heartbreak. I was in serious, unbearable, seemingly forever pain. Normally I sleep or date others to cope with things, but it was completely futile. I couldn't even bare to date anyone new because in my mind no one compared. Filling my days with work or activities would not have helped either. Friends and family? Nope. It was this huge personal goal I had set a few years back that I needed to start. Completing the first step was critical in this goal. Now I'm on the path towards this life goal. The heartbreak thrusted me into that. I felt good about myself again. It gave me a huge confidence boost and it made me feel I achieved something. I shared this with everyone and I got positive feedback. I felt great again. This didn't make my heartbreak disappear, but damn it made me feel I could survive. You need to feel as if you could survive in order to give time to heal those wounds. Otherwise you do stupid desperate crap and compromise your self worth. A very serious heartbreak ruins your confidence. Defeats you. I found a way to lift my confidence. This is my story. About almost 3 months after the heartbreak, I'm feeling close to myself again.