Interesting fact! Thanks for being honest. My ex hasn't put his new relationship up yet either. It's still all me....and, and a pic of a carp fish! Mind you, looking at her, I prefer the carp photo! 🤣
Facts. Everything you said is so true. My ex spouse did everything you said to a tee. I love her and hope we can get back but at the moment I need to back off, live and let go
I feel like the dumper doesn’t even suffer the breakup at all.. they chose it and had time to get over you. When they jump into a « rebound » it might just be a new person, not a painkiller. In my case It looks like my ex was over me the day she broke up with me… what do you guys think?
I don’t care what my ex is doing, our relationship is over and therefore it is not my responsibility or business. I’m owed nothing, and she is owed nothing. Work on improving and control what you can control-you!
What if it’s the “female friend” they told you not to worry about . They live together after 2 weeks up break up. But he still swore that they’re just friends and not together!
I find it really sad that modern relationships ‘for some’ are so ‘casual’ .. that they can just switch off, not put in effort., and move on even after years.. and it is becoming the norm perhaps. Fair enough, up to a year., while getting to know someone., but (in my case) after 4 years - it just makes no sense., and when they can’t give closure, it tells me that they are weak.. just sparing your feelings? - that just adds to the pain long term in my opinion.. their idea of ‘kindness’ is really an act of extreme cruelty in my eyes. I value trust and loyalty - and I don’t want to have to go from one to another every few years.. I want stability.
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I am dealing with the exact same thing. I learned that love is a choice and the same with loyalty, commitment etc. Even though I know what I have to improve, the fact that he went back on his words is just crazy likehe just flipped a switch. Sure, I was the one initiating the break and breakup, but that was because I saw that the relationship pressure was way too much on him. I was willing to still be there for him emotionally on a partner level without the title. His actions tell me he doesn't want me, as simply as that. I never block communication, so him not reaching out is already the closure I need.
My exgf left me over a week ago, due to my stupid female friend telling a flirty joke about me where she called me sexy. My exgf played it off like she was fine with it but the next day she left me and blocked me on most apps including my phone number. But I can still see her on a few other apps. After a week passed she started dating a new guy she met on April 17, 2024 through Facebook. It's just turned May, how tf she gonna act like she loves him and wants to commit to him but she barely knows him. The only place she mentioned about her relationship was on Snapchat. Which is odd when she met him on Facebook. There on Facebook neither of them made it official,no status change, no shared posts. They didn't even like or heart each other's pictures. Their families are on Facebook. So I'm mad she is making a bad choice. She knew me for five years, we dated for like five months on and off. She has a bad habit of rebounding. But this is the shortest time it took for her to rebound. She left me thinking I cheated on her but I never cheated on her. My female friend is already married with kids. I barely ever talk to my female friend and when I do it's amongst a group of friends. I never asked for any pictures and never gave her any. When my exgf left me she said nothing to me. But she private messaged my female friend and told her she can have me. My friend immediately told it that it was a joke and that she is married. Now I'm in no contact wondering if my exgf will see the truth. 😢
In marriage you are owed a commitment because you both vowed for better or worse, for richer or poorer, through sickness and health until death due you part…just saying sometimes especially with kids you are owed time maturity and responsibility but that doesn’t mean you’re going to get it
I got into a rebound relationship less than a week later after my DA ex ghosted me. The rebound was a Anxious type and in the beginning I thought the rebound was the one. A month in I was absolutely disgusted by the rebound because I am a FA. I did not post the person who was the total opposite of my ex. I didn’t want my ex to think I was dating someone new just in case my ex wanted to come back. The rebound gave me too much and it made me completely cut them off and it was such a relief. I never stopped thinking about my DA ex the entire time and still think of my ex. My DA ex doesn’t have a rebound but a 4 year relationship that was hidden from me the entire time we were together for a year. I know my ex is unhappy there but is staying because it’s stable and loyal meanwhile her partner cheats on her all the time and they’ve broken up multiple times.
Great video man, i can relate to your words. My ex started seeing an old flame when i think she realised the single life wasn't all that. I never liked this guy and she kept the new relationship a secret until i accidentally found out. I lost my shit with her because she'd made me feel like we could reconnect. I apologised later. We have a kid together so i don't want problems for my little lad's sake. She's still seeing this guy. She told me it can't last! He's taking her out all the time, paying for everything, taking her to concerts etc. She's self employed and starting to skip work to do things with him, but also more worryingly, not spending time with our son when she has chance, again so she can do things with this guy. I don't want her back, but it's tough to watch her have this mid life crisis!
She is not hiding it from me, she post stuff saying she’s with a guy, doesn’t show him, but she post him on her private story that I’m still in, she started doing this one week after we broke up, makes me thing she been had talking to him
I broke up with her in an argument and came back 3 days later to say sorry . She said she needs time to think but she don’t want me to waiting for her . After 3 days of begging tells me that she’s talking to someone . I ask some friends and they tell me that she’s dating the dude one day after the break up. I mean wtf.? Why she let me beg all this nights if she’s already dating ?
Yeah rebound is 21 years younger than him and has an OnlyFan page and is a ‘model’ - all the things he couldn’t stand before meeting her. They were ‘friends’ for a year behind my back. I think they slept together just before my birthday last year. This guy put me through HELL by discarding me on a weekly basis and hooking up with her while I was homeless living in temporary accommodation. 🤷♀️
What does it mean if his rebound blocked me on insta? On her public (and abandoned) professional account, private isn’t blocked. Mine is open. This is a circus, she can see my posts still, I can’t see hers lol Is she jealous because she is a downgrade? And possibly insecure? They both sure I don’t know about her.
My son is non-verbal autistic and he refused to go in his dad’s house all week. I found long strands of the hair every now and then tracked in my house and my ex brought my son’s clothes back and there was a woman’s shirt mixed in his stuff. It could have been my ex’s mom’s shirt but it didn’t smell like her. I’m asking him if someone has been in the house hanging with them and he said no. So I rephrased the question and ask tonight if he has someone living with him or that’s is there regularly. My son’s behavior is strange and so we need to know what’s going on. My son is very particular about who he is around, but if the person has a good vibe he will be happy to be around them, but he is kind of territorial of his dad. I don’t think his dad would let anyone harm him, but we need to understand our son’s behavior because it is throwing everything off. I haven’t heard back from his dad yet. Also want to add he was emotionally and verbally abusive to me. We’re still not divorced yet. He moved out a year and a half ago. He suddenly started acting decent. So I’m not sure what’s going. I just don’t want my son to be affected by whatever is going on over there.
My ex went to a new relationship exactly 5 days after our breakup. I believe they grew emotional bond before he decided to breakup with me. They were friends before.It’s been a year now and he often calls me with the guilt of dumping me. All our mutual friends know about their relationship but my ex never posts a single picture of her in the social media. Is he trying to save it from evil eyes and make it work? Or he’s not sure about it?
Same situation but mine is a fresh incident. He went to her and prolly living with her now. Well, I guess they are taking some timr until it is safe to be out in social media
Your ex is feeling ashamed of themselves and the fear of being judged or perceived negatively by revealing their rebound relationship is holding them back from making it public. It’s also likely that they feel uncertain about the longevity of the rebound relationship so it’s not worth making themselves vulnerable by putting them out there with their new partner only for it to more than likely fail in the end.
What about if the rebound is very similar to you? Same likes and interests. And she told me we had nothing in common yet dates someone with those same interests she told me she faked and liked.
I had a relationship with this girl for seven months. I left her, and regretted it only to find out that 4 months later she got into a relationship. She's a very clingy person, and I'm confused as to whether the new is a rebound
Honestly, I caught my ex on Christmas day spending time with another woman in his work colleagues home and to this day he is refusing to give me her name. He is still coming around me and trying to show he's trying to compensating by turning up with little goodies etc.... I just don't feel happy. He painted a disgusting picture of me to his friends, humiliated me in the past, and tries to make me feel crazy for questioning him since its his colleagues home. ...however, he allowed them to disrespect me and hunt me away at the door when I came looking for him. I feel something more happened between him and her... And I still question him but he says he doesn't remember her name, hate it so much!
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Hi Coach, i need help. What if she already updated her facebook status to in a relationship with that guy? Also, she's posting him on her instagram story. We just brokr up a month ago. Is that a rebound or real shit?
She went to homecoming with some guy that’s the opposite of me he’s a little fat has a baby face and has a combover while I’m fit have facial hair and have curly hair and she even admitted im her type more than anybody else but she is I think Inna rebound with this new guy but im not sure
@@hecticsheff1 this is what just happened to me today…I seen her today with her baby father and she hides her face when they drove pass me…why would she be guilty?
If have notice that i was in a rebound relationship twice with my ex. When she divorce her husband after 1month we start dating and it last for 1yr than she dumped me and after 3month she came back and now she dump me again after 8months. Yesterday i ask her what is the reason you dumped me and her answer was simple i don't know..i said ok success
Allow me introduce you to Mr Kenneth an ex back spell caster and manifestation coach. He helped me get my ex back, he has over 20yrs of experience he has helped many people over the years to manifest their ex back permanently✅✅✅
Allow me introduce you to Mr Kenneth an ex back spell caster and manifestation coach. He helped me get my ex back, he has over 20yrs of experience he has helped many people over the years to manifest their ex back permanently✅✅✅
“You’re not owed anything.” Time is the most precious and valuable resource, it affects women’s ability to have kids. Sorry but I can’t take advice or opinions from this young, immature guy.
I hid my rebound relationship because she wasn’t that cute like my ex lol lol . I downgraded
Wow 🤣
😂 wow that’s honest
Interesting fact! Thanks for being honest. My ex hasn't put his new relationship up yet either. It's still all me....and, and a pic of a carp fish!
Mind you, looking at her, I prefer the carp photo! 🤣
@@lizp637 😂 love it
This seems more likely than the videos reason.
Facts. Everything you said is so true. My ex spouse did everything you said to a tee. I love her and hope we can get back but at the moment I need to back off, live and let go
I feel like the dumper doesn’t even suffer the breakup at all.. they chose it and had time to get over you. When they jump into a « rebound » it might just be a new person, not a painkiller. In my case It looks like my ex was over me the day she broke up with me… what do you guys think?
Most likely she grieved the relationship long before she told you she wanted to break up. This is why it seems like she moved on so easily.
I don’t care what my ex is doing, our relationship is over and therefore it is not my responsibility or business. I’m owed nothing, and she is owed nothing. Work on improving and control what you can control-you!
NPD2024.... denial... you wouldn't be here watching these videos
@@DIHIAIMAZIGHAN-jx7pn facts jack. Grow up. Move on. Find love. Be as happy as possible
@@DIHIAIMAZIGHAN-jx7pn and I watched the video because it randomly popp d into my feed
What if it’s the “female friend” they told you not to worry about . They live together after 2 weeks up break up. But he still swore that they’re just friends and not together!
Wow that's what he said, "just friends" and they live together,, 😮 divorce papers in the mail
I find it really sad that modern relationships ‘for some’ are so ‘casual’ .. that they can just switch off, not put in effort., and move on even after years.. and it is becoming the norm perhaps. Fair enough, up to a year., while getting to know someone., but (in my case) after 4 years - it just makes no sense., and when they can’t give closure, it tells me that they are weak.. just sparing your feelings? - that just adds to the pain long term in my opinion.. their idea of ‘kindness’ is really an act of extreme cruelty in my eyes.
I value trust and loyalty - and I don’t
want to have to go from one to another every few years.. I want stability.
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I am dealing with the exact same thing. I learned that love is a choice and the same with loyalty, commitment etc. Even though I know what I have to improve, the fact that he went back on his words is just crazy likehe just flipped a switch. Sure, I was the one initiating the break and breakup, but that was because I saw that the relationship pressure was way too much on him. I was willing to still be there for him emotionally on a partner level without the title. His actions tell me he doesn't want me, as simply as that. I never block communication, so him not reaching out is already the closure I need.
My exgf left me over a week ago, due to my stupid female friend telling a flirty joke about me where she called me sexy.
My exgf played it off like she was fine with it but the next day she left me and blocked me on most apps including my phone number. But I can still see her on a few other apps.
After a week passed she started dating a new guy she met on April 17, 2024 through Facebook. It's just turned May, how tf she gonna act like she loves him and wants to commit to him but she barely knows him.
The only place she mentioned about her relationship was on Snapchat. Which is odd when she met him on Facebook. There on Facebook neither of them made it official,no status change, no shared posts. They didn't even like or heart each other's pictures. Their families are on Facebook.
So I'm mad she is making a bad choice. She knew me for five years, we dated for like five months on and off. She has a bad habit of rebounding. But this is the shortest time it took for her to rebound.
She left me thinking I cheated on her but I never cheated on her. My female friend is already married with kids. I barely ever talk to my female friend and when I do it's amongst a group of friends. I never asked for any pictures and never gave her any.
When my exgf left me she said nothing to me. But she private messaged my female friend and told her she can have me. My friend immediately told it that it was a joke and that she is married.
Now I'm in no contact wondering if my exgf will see the truth. 😢
In marriage you are owed a commitment because you both vowed for better or worse, for richer or poorer, through sickness and health until death due you part…just saying sometimes especially with kids you are owed time maturity and responsibility but that doesn’t mean you’re going to get it
This vow means nothing literally. You could equally good vowed to yourself.
I got into a rebound relationship less than a week later after my DA ex ghosted me. The rebound was a Anxious type and in the beginning I thought the rebound was the one. A month in I was absolutely disgusted by the rebound because I am a FA. I did not post the person who was the total opposite of my ex. I didn’t want my ex to think I was dating someone new just in case my ex wanted to come back. The rebound gave me too much and it made me completely cut them off and it was such a relief. I never stopped thinking about my DA ex the entire time and still think of my ex. My DA ex doesn’t have a rebound but a 4 year relationship that was hidden from me the entire time we were together for a year. I know my ex is unhappy there but is staying because it’s stable and loyal meanwhile her partner cheats on her all the time and they’ve broken up multiple times.
Thanks for sharing that
misery loves company.
Shes only hiding it from me 😅
Great video man, i can relate to your words. My ex started seeing an old flame when i think she realised the single life wasn't all that. I never liked this guy and she kept the new relationship a secret until i accidentally found out. I lost my shit with her because she'd made me feel like we could reconnect. I apologised later. We have a kid together so i don't want problems for my little lad's sake.
She's still seeing this guy. She told me it can't last! He's taking her out all the time, paying for everything, taking her to concerts etc. She's self employed and starting to skip work to do things with him, but also more worryingly, not spending time with our son when she has chance, again so she can do things with this guy. I don't want her back, but it's tough to watch her have this mid life crisis!
That’s tough
She is not hiding it from me, she post stuff saying she’s with a guy, doesn’t show him, but she post him on her private story that I’m still in, she started doing this one week after we broke up, makes me thing she been had talking to him
What about I caught up cheating with the rebound, he left me for her but still denied the relationship with her and said He didn't choose her ???
I broke up with her in an argument and came back 3 days later to say sorry . She said she needs time to think but she don’t want me to waiting for her . After 3 days of begging tells me that she’s talking to someone . I ask some friends and they tell me that she’s dating the dude one day after the break up. I mean wtf.? Why she let me beg all this nights if she’s already dating ?
Yeah rebound is 21 years younger than him and has an OnlyFan page and is a ‘model’ - all the things he couldn’t stand before meeting her. They were ‘friends’ for a year behind my back. I think they slept together just before my birthday last year. This guy put me through HELL by discarding me on a weekly basis and hooking up with her while I was homeless living in temporary accommodation. 🤷♀️
😕
What does it mean if his rebound blocked me on insta? On her public (and abandoned) professional account, private isn’t blocked. Mine is open. This is a circus, she can see my posts still, I can’t see hers lol
Is she jealous because she is a downgrade? And possibly insecure? They both sure I don’t know about her.
I have a similar situation. I would love to know why as well.
@@ayshabowling5685 they broke up just a month in lol
Maybe this will cheer you up 🙂 He is not back tho and I moved on.
My son is non-verbal autistic and he refused to go in his dad’s house all week. I found long strands of the hair every now and then tracked in my house and my ex brought my son’s clothes back and there was a woman’s shirt mixed in his stuff. It could have been my ex’s mom’s shirt but it didn’t smell like her. I’m asking him if someone has been in the house hanging with them and he said no. So I rephrased the question and ask tonight if he has someone living with him or that’s is there regularly. My son’s behavior is strange and so we need to know what’s going on. My son is very particular about who he is around, but if the person has a good vibe he will be happy to be around them, but he is kind of territorial of his dad. I don’t think his dad would let anyone harm him, but we need to understand our son’s behavior because it is throwing everything off. I haven’t heard back from his dad yet. Also want to add he was emotionally and verbally abusive to me. We’re still not divorced yet. He moved out a year and a half ago. He suddenly started acting decent. So I’m not sure what’s going. I just don’t want my son to be affected by whatever is going on over there.
My ex went to a new relationship exactly 5 days after our breakup. I believe they grew emotional bond before he decided to breakup with me. They were friends before.It’s been a year now and he often calls me with the guilt of dumping me. All our mutual friends know about their relationship but my ex never posts a single picture of her in the social media.
Is he trying to save it from evil eyes and make it work? Or he’s not sure about it?
Same situation but mine is a fresh incident. He went to her and prolly living with her now. Well, I guess they are taking some timr until it is safe to be out in social media
Your ex is feeling ashamed of themselves and the fear of being judged or perceived negatively by revealing their rebound relationship is holding them back from making it public.
It’s also likely that they feel uncertain about the longevity of the rebound relationship so it’s not worth making themselves vulnerable by putting them out there with their new partner only for it to more than likely fail in the end.
Any update?
@@nicaviolet update?
Update?
What about if the rebound is very similar to you? Same likes and interests. And she told me we had nothing in common yet dates someone with those same interests she told me she faked and liked.
I had a relationship with this girl for seven months. I left her, and regretted it only to find out that 4 months later she got into a relationship. She's a very clingy person, and I'm confused as to whether the new is a rebound
How long after did you regret it?
Me currently
He hasn't post her on social media and they been together for 5 months now however she met his family and they live together
Give us an update
All I asked was honesty
Honestly, I caught my ex on Christmas day spending time with another woman in his work colleagues home and to this day he is refusing to give me her name.
He is still coming around me and trying to show he's trying to compensating by turning up with little goodies etc.... I just don't feel happy. He painted a disgusting picture of me to his friends, humiliated me in the past, and tries to make me feel crazy for questioning him since its his colleagues home. ...however, he allowed them to disrespect me and hunt me away at the door when I came looking for him. I feel something more happened between him and her... And I still question him but he says he doesn't remember her name, hate it so much!
Praying for healing for you Eva
My anxious ex in rebound and hiding him
Exactly the same situation. Only hiding it from me and my circle though. Flaunting it elsewhere.
He flaunting it on Facebook like a teenager for everyone to see after long-term 4 years with me.
That can hurt.
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What happened?
Hi Coach, i need help. What if she already updated her facebook status to in a relationship with that guy? Also, she's posting him on her instagram story. We just brokr up a month ago. Is that a rebound or real shit?
The guy is my opposite. I look like a bad boy but im good and that guy is a good guy and he's giving her the attention that she likes. Am i doomed?
Any update?
She went to homecoming with some guy that’s the opposite of me he’s a little fat has a baby face and has a combover while I’m fit have facial hair and have curly hair and she even admitted im her type more than anybody else but she is I think Inna rebound with this new guy but im not sure
What does it mean when your ex see you and hide.?
Guilt more than likely
@@hecticsheff1 this is what just happened to me today…I seen her today with her baby father and she hides her face when they drove pass me…why would she be guilty?
If have notice that i was in a rebound relationship twice with my ex. When she divorce her husband after 1month we start dating and it last for 1yr than she dumped me and after 3month she came back and now she dump me again after 8months. Yesterday i ask her what is the reason you dumped me and her answer was simple i don't know..i said ok success
Allow me introduce you to Mr Kenneth an ex back spell caster and manifestation coach. He helped me get my ex back, he has over 20yrs of experience he has helped many people over the years to manifest their ex back permanently✅✅✅
✝️ Contact him on WhatsApp... He can also help you to.
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Haha I love it!🤣… all I have to say is, I guess that’s an enjoyable way to live life lol
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I thought this was going to be negative buttt it’s not as bad as I thought it was going to be LOL
Hahaha. 🤷🏾♂️
What's your situation
What if they told you they're seeing someone? Does that mean they're are sure about that relationship?
That’s a hard one to answer
@@IamCoachCourt What could be the possible answers in your opinion?
Let her go and upgrade yourself. You'll see the miracle.
What up Coach!?
What up!
“You’re not owed anything.” Time is the most precious and valuable resource, it affects women’s ability to have kids. Sorry but I can’t take advice or opinions from this young, immature guy.
Exactly. So walk away