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Will NO CONTACT ruin my ex's Rebound Relationship?
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In today's video, Coach Courtney Gatlin answers the question will NO CONTACT ruin my ex's Rebound Relationship?
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1:13 HOW LONG AGO DID THEY LEAVE MENTALLY?
2:07 ATTRACTION IS GONE!
3:22 HOW MESSY WAS THE BREAKUP?
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Your ex will feel guilty because you can heal by your self and your ex can't heal by themself get into rebound relationship to seek happiness but deep inside they are sad and start thingking of you again because you don't care what their doing.
I like this
Karma is huge
Is it? I’m losing faith in karma.
There’s no such thing
There is no karma. Life is unfair.
No contact will not ruin the rebound it will make it easier for them! If they come to feel for you in the way they used to then there might be a chance of them contacting you but never contact them and never take your ex back after a rebound because then they are rebounding with you
I agree
No contact won’t make it easier bothering them will.
Things happen for a reason. People seem to forget that they dont own their exes..holding on to some one that doesnt want them means that they need to come to reality.. they just dont want to feel the pain.. theres a shit load of people out in this world to choose.. the main root problem people hold on like a kid smothering a balloon, is that they put their exes on a pedestal and your exes know this, making you weak in their eyes... have pride and respect for yourself. Dont make another person be your happiness.. love yourself instead of giving to someone that tossed you like trash... let them have their rebound..you in the other hand sculpture yourself to be a better and improve new version of yourself.. learn to be alone.. being ina relationship makes you have tunnel vision...the way to get your power back is to just walk away and dont look back go no contact. They are dead to you.. let people that truelly want to be with you come to you.. know your value. Be the prize be the gem be you and live life to the fullest instead of dwelling on a person that tossed you like a aborted fetus...really think hard on that!!! You have a choice to be there waiting and hurting or you can just turn around and leap back into reality and life and just execute your goals and dreams..
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I understand what you saying is true but everyone is different everyone love makes you do the dumbest thing..Some people just can't move on as fast as others..sorry to say
Respectfully, all of that "make yourself into a better version of yourself" is a big fat insult. Huge. Humongous and utterly degrading. The simple truth is that one person no longer desires being with the other person. The person being broken up with should NOT feel as if they weren't good enough. 😡
I can tell your the dumper. 💀💀
Actually it is really hard to find a good suitable woman for a man. Because 80% of women are below average in everything. So the break up is a real tragedy for a man.
I just came across your channel today on my recommend and I am so grateful I did. You stand out to me because you give honest truth and I can tell you’ve put work and time into everything you’ve learned. When you are able to provide clarity on these issues it helps me look at my life in a different perspective and to see things for what they really are instead of working from an emotional and delusional place. I never leave comments like this but I want to just thank you for creating this channel. You are amazing and much love to you.
That means a lot. Thank you for that That! 🙏🏾
I stepped back as soon as I found out my ex was lying when he said he wasn't with anyone when all he did was hide her from me but he didn't hide it from everyone else. no one else did he hide it from. Now I stay far away of them it just hurts too much.
Going through the same thing. My ex even contacts me while in the rebound relationship and wants to be friends with me, but I can’t do that, too painful. Walking away.
Went through the exact same thing in January. He was texting me everyday, even had sex with me a few times and phone calls late into the night (like 2am calls). Turns out he was seeing someone in the background and was bringing her to parties and events. I hope you're doing better now.
Working with a DA ex, who now dates one of my coworkers 3 months after the no reason at all breakup. Completely brutal and currently job searching. Thanks again for the work Court
You’re welcome!
Same boat
Thanks for the like coach… to be perfectly honest too… I was engaged 2 years prior before meeting this girl. I thought then I knew what love was. IVE WAITED 35 years (I’m 35) to feel the things I’m feeling about this current girl. She knows how I feel. I’ve changed this girls heart. I know she’ll be coming back. Trust the process.
Keep us posted man best of luck
Update?
@@SeethingOne-s6d we been back together for over a month. She’s in bed with me right now watching tv
@@italian76boi not that your message gives me hope, I’m simply just gonna salute to you good sir.
@@SeethingOne-s6d thank you sir
You're so right about the long-distance relationships. My gf moved to another city and cheated on me with a guy that is basically her neighbor. She decided to stay with that guy after I found out. I just have to accept it is better for both of us as well
A girl tried monkey branching onto me and I shut it down last week. She has a long distance boyfriend and I don't fuck with women who have 0 integrity. 🤣
This is EXCELLENT ADVICE! I love the let it be and be happy for them aspect. I’m getting there as I allow the pain and then it dissipates. It has nothing to do with my worth.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes it will have effect if you stay away and quiet. Worried about you they won't be fully invested in new person.
Worried about you? Are you kidding?
My ex didn’t give me a fair shot.. he completely hid the fact that he had someone else already. We had talked, we told each other feelings, but I never did the recommended steps in letting go with a rebound. So we have been broken up for 6 months and they’ve been together at least 4 of those months. I just now feel like I can do things properly but feel that I already pushed him closer to her because he hid it for so long. Do I have any prayer?!
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
Very good points!! First Coach I've seen describe certain things this way. Very good!
Appreciate you taking the time to comment Joseph!
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
My ex bf rebounded 5 was after our breakup and stayed w/ her for 2 mos. I did no contact but he kept reaching out to me. I started reaching out to him toward the end of their relationship w/ angry texts and nice texts. He then came back to me. Must’ve not been greener grass over there.
What is the other option? What if I neglected her towards the end of our relationship, we had a mutual breakup but then I changed my mind and overpersuded her? Should I use N.C?
Idk… our break up wasn’t bad. We decided to take time apart. I wanted her to come home. That’s when I was doing my begging and pleading. Few weeks go by and that when she said “we aren’t together right now” she wasn’t coming home. Stayed at her dads. We talked. She didn’t want me completely out of her life. So we would talk here and there. She reached out for some things. We talked once and she said she never ruled out getting back together. She just didn’t know what the future holds. Then I found out about her rebound and that’s when I packed her clothes up and brought them to her moms. Her mom talked to her she told her mom she thinks about getting back with me all the time but the timing isn’t right. There’s things she wants to do for her. She hasn’t told her mom about this dude or even posted him or nothing. Mom knows about him cause of me. I said told her “imma let u be for a while. U do u and I’m gonna do me, I hope u figure everything out and if the universe brings us back together, it’ll be better the second time around.” She never told me we were thru or nothing like she did with people from her past. She’s keeping the door open according to her mom and friend. So now she got to miss me and wonder what life is really like with me not in hers. Imma be ok.
My advice is not to wait for her and date another girls. You can say what u want but she is getting f hard by another dude and you are letting her know that you ll wait for her with your actions. Man up and date another chicks and U'll see her reaction then my friend. Like this she think you are not even worth her time and in her eyes U are beta guy....
@@crnivuk7092 you’re an idiot. that’s not what you say to people in this situation just bc YOUR ex was getting rawdogged..
Can you please cover more on monkey branching? I feel that is more common than rebound imo. It just happened to me and i have no many answer questions.
Coach. Me and my gf broke up 2 months ago. She found someone else a few days later. Thanksgiving rolls around. There’s a thanksgiving post on Instagram of them. Now she made Xmas cards with him. We were together for 2 years. She only posted me once on her Instagram. She’s done this before. Back in may. We broke up, she started dating someone else, posted him fast on her social media. And she ended up coming back.
I’m just wondering if this is a repeat mistake.
Well, at this point it’s not a mistake, it’s a pattern. Twice in 2 years would be enough for me.
Same shit happened to me but I was in a 6 year relationship. Every time we split there would be a new rebound smh 🤦🏻♂️
Update?
Thank you for your work
Good video.. honestly they are a better fit, and my ending was really messy… I just can’t believe she would do me as dirty as she did left me for a friend within a week…
I broke NC after 3 months bcos he has said to best friend to msg me, he recently personally reached to see me to an event where I am, he was missing me badly. so after 3moths NC I msgd him, sent a gift on his bday. But he didnt even reply, but showed he read it. Also he uses a new WA ,which I cant access . He was deeply in love wit me after he reached to me after our 2nd harsh breakup . But he felt rejected for a quote I shared. Thats Y he started a rebound for pain, anger , to show off. Now he hifdes it to me. Bcos I sent a vulnerable msg on his bday last week, will he get mo closer to his rebound ? Or wil it fail in 6-7 months? Now its the 5th month & he is a 100% FA / BPD . I cant eat or sleep these days..
Was with my ex for 3 years and she broke up with me and monkey branched to another guy. After two months she broke up with him and came back for two weeks and then said I’ll never change and went back to him. I’ve been in no contact for almost a month and I don’t know what to do
I hope by now, you have moved on, considering how she is just going back and forth with the two of you.
@@bpoydras1503 totally, I’m done playing games
So basically yes or no ? It just depends how fed up they were ?
Yes it works
Great video coach. What if we’ve been together for 12 years, married for 4, and she wants a divorce. She’s been having an emotional affair with someone in Guatemala (where she’s from) and we live in the states. Will that relationship with him last???
I have to admit:
I learned that he had been checked out for months
I begged a little when he first broke the news
She does seem like a better fit for him
Thanks for commenting that!
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
We barely ever fought. He just doesn't communicate and he won't tell me. It came out of the blue but I don't know how long he checked out for. And at first he just said he wanted to be single. But since he keeps giving me different reasons.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship..
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈..
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
I told mine that if he feels his path is somewhere else, I wish him well. I said I have my path I will follow as well. Was that bad?
I don’t perceive that as bad
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
🤝🤝🤝best advice.
🙏🏾
What if you did beg her to reconsider and write her a letter already within the first few weeks of the break up? Is it too late for no contact to work?
That’s a hard one to call
The rebound is a distance relationship will it last?
My exboyfriend told me that he is talking with someone else :(, I did not say anything I just walk away. Is it too late to get back together? We were together 1 yr and half it was a healthy and stable relationship.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
What if they didn’t lose attraction? He never seemed unattracted to me even up until the end just tired and confused of our fighting and unwilling to work on anything or talk things through.
Then it must’ve been really stressful and non peaceful
@@IamCoachCourt thank you. I think in his mind yes. He saw bringing up anything as the relationship being flawed 🤷🏻♀️ He would stonewall, leave the room, turn up the music, etc when I would bring anything up - even in the calmest way and that would really hurt. He was terrified of emotions and would avoid communication.
She said she doesn't feel for her ex anymore, and also deleted his pictures from social media but is guilty that she left him first and is the reason for his misery. She has introduced me with her close friends and her family too. Saw future with me too. But when her ex cries she feels guilty and gets confused for me but still does not wants to go back to him. Now she doubts that she loves me or not, and asked me to move on amd doesn't want me to be part of her unstable life.
Will no contact work for me to get her back?
You are her rebound. Go no contact and don't wait for her. Date another girls
Man ! Move on ! Give her homeworks to choose.
You have to look at the whole... what is her private situations, does she has her shut together ? Single mother or maybe no kids? How is her family? Its about the whole... because if her new guy will see all the negative stuff , the new guy will probably try to find a better one and break up...
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
how long is "months" when it comes to the loss in attraction
Depends in the length of the relationship. Some can lose it within 5 days, others 5 months.
@@IamCoachCourt is it too late to get your ex back if they lost attraction say a month before the breakup. btw THANK YOU so much for the reply, your vids have really been helping me through this
Im my case, I saw all the negative stuff, like smoking, drinking, depression, aso and after 4 months I felt something strange....
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
What do you mean? My ex also did all of this stuff but kind of since the beginning
Karma is a bitch. Remember
Never. Life is deeply unfair.
We had a bad break up where I begged and pleaded for so long after 9 months split up she's now engaged to her rebound.... I am in 1 weeks no contact so far. Have I left it to late to go no contact and win her back?
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
What’s your opinion on this Coach? My ex left me for someone else, i did no contact and he came back twice, saying he still loves me and misses me, but won’t break up with the new girl. We were even planning a trip for me to visit him.. but he just won’t leave her.. so the last time he texted me i asked him not to contact me anymore unless he truly wants to work on our relationship, he saw the text but didn’t respond. After that i blocked him everywhere. Do you think i did the right thing? Cause it seamed like he was confused about his feelings, and im afraid that he wont say anything even if he realizes I’m the one he wants to be with
You did the right thing. People will be with the person they really want to be with
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's.
So will this help me get my Ex back?
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
Does this mean you can still text them playing it cool?
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
Aren’t you risking that they just never come back to you forever ?
Hi my relationship is fixed back again
my ex is back to me we loving and
happily together, I got help from a
man who brought us back together. he helped me in getting rid of third party that was involved in my relationship.
@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..
I don't think this channel specializes in getting exs back lol
That’s manipulative. I’m here to challenge thinking and helping people gain clarity. If you manage to get your ex back in the process, that’s great.