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  • Опубликовано: 28 мар 2020
  • In this video, Coach Courtney Gatlin gives tips on how to handle your ex's rebound relationship. Tips as in going no contact, finding yourself again after the breakup, and how to act on social media. #REBOUNDRELATIONSHIP #NOCONTACTRULE #COACHCOURT
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Комментарии • 88

  • @luiseleon93
    @luiseleon93 2 года назад +69

    The sheer thought of her enjoying intimate time or even initiating it with someone else completely sickens me and that’s a reason I could never take her back .

    • @dlavalle21
      @dlavalle21 2 года назад +20

      i feel you, just the thought of another man being inside her and her enjoying it, her giving her body like that intimately to someone else, is the absolute WORST feeling ever, wouldn't wish that feeling on my worst enemy.

    • @bryanunion5110
      @bryanunion5110 Год назад +3

      @@dlavalle21 they was enjoying someone before you

    • @bryanunion5110
      @bryanunion5110 Год назад +1

      only reason we think like this is because how everyone else think especially if everyone knows they’re with someone else.

    • @beats-by-skrill8925
      @beats-by-skrill8925 Год назад +3

      @@bryanunion5110 True. Once a man reach a certain maturity you're able to think more logically. Her sleeping with someone after you is know different than before you logically. It's really about where she ends up at and tht goes for us men too. It's all about what's happening now in the present rather so than the before or the past.

    • @mmosley8492
      @mmosley8492 8 месяцев назад +1

      Right she wasn't a virgin when you met her. So that's just insecurities and ego on your half. And if your relationship was based only on sex that's how your going to look at things

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 2 года назад +48

    it hurts but it was the final push I needed to move on and let go of the false hope I’ve been holding on to. one day I will look back at this time and realize it was a blessing in disguise, I just know it. 🙏🏼✨

  • @ms.beautifullyflawed247
    @ms.beautifullyflawed247 2 года назад +17

    At 1st I was hurt when I found out through others,but when I really stepped back and work on me,I realized he is my ex for a reason....He was never worth any goodness from me,he is someone else problem ......

  • @Mayra6138
    @Mayra6138 8 месяцев назад +1

    I was with my fiancé for 17 yrs and I helped build him up, literally I was the only one who had his back, the problem is he was verbally abusive especially when he would drink and that was every weekend it was very toxic that our kids will tell us it’s better we weren’t together so I broke up with him this February and he kept coming and going finally in April I said he needed to leave during that time we were in no contact for 1 months in a half, we were trying to work it out and going on vacation and I was already going to therapy the months of June July and August we were together and he literally was cheating I caught him and she knew about me and she’s also married. It’s soo much more but I’m thankful today I’m in a better place I can’t wait a yr from now to be able to come here and say I’m officially good 🙏

  • @ABREDI10
    @ABREDI10 2 года назад +5

    Some solid advice💯💛✌ thanks for sharing!

  • @marisaviljoen8103
    @marisaviljoen8103 2 года назад +3

    Dear Coach Court, I came across your videos only today. I want to thank you sincerely. I am currently shattered. Me and my boyfriend were together 9 months, we had serious future plans, met each others family etc. He was still busy with his divorce finalization from his wife of 16-17 years. It was not even 2 months after he left me and moved out, he posted on Facebook a profile of his and his new girlfriend, status: "In a relationship". He could never post us, because he was still busy with a divorce. It felt like a carpet was ripped out underneath me.

    • @laracovey5032
      @laracovey5032 2 года назад +1

      When it comes to spells casting I've not seen anyone who does it more than *Dr Sabo love* 💛❤ he's the best only legit man who saved my relationship today found out he's genius page....

    • @MsLovelylady32
      @MsLovelylady32 Год назад +2

      this is so fuccing crazy to me... can't post you but posted the new women.....Crazy at its finest

    • @marisaviljoen8103
      @marisaviljoen8103 Год назад

      @@MsLovelylady32 I am telling you! People are so strange. I never felt so small and nothing all at once the day I saw that

  • @antoniosciara7322
    @antoniosciara7322 2 года назад +11

    How do I wish them the best when I can barely stand not going and tearing this guys head off. The only thing keeping me from doing that is I don't want to get arrested.

  • @mumof5leeleex875
    @mumof5leeleex875 Год назад +4

    Me and my guy got back together today. He left the rebound told her. He sorry but he loves me and wants me back he heart picks me. They had a big argument today about me she wasn't happy..I already tryed to explain to her that he was just using her to distract from me. Clearly if you was a rebound before thats what u was again to him , dont get into realtionships with people who have not healed from the last person

  • @jakobdueck7491
    @jakobdueck7491 2 года назад +2

    good pieces of advice.

  • @janzedwicksantos6015
    @janzedwicksantos6015 Год назад

    Thanks man now I know why my rebound girl friend say sorry for me when she ask for cool off

  • @RichardSmith-yl6wo
    @RichardSmith-yl6wo 3 года назад

    Thank - You!!! The best advice 👍

  • @willajenkins5427
    @willajenkins5427 2 года назад +3

    You have such an engaging Smile!

  • @RoberstonGrind
    @RoberstonGrind 2 года назад +3

    Me in my ex gf has been broken up almost two months now. We were in a LDR for 10 months She said some hurtful things at the end of the relationship and then she told me she was talking to somebody else, I believed she monkey branch to him because it was within a month they where dating but she said she started talking to him after we broke up not while we was together so it might be a rebound relationship. She blocked me on everything then she would unblock me but not follow me back, just recently she followed me then unfollowed me a day after then just a couple days ago she followed me back in i followed her back in i seen she had post her in him on her ig story.

  • @joshuajames673uu5
    @joshuajames673uu5 2 года назад +4

    They are so fast to do things that if we would do they would want to break up they always initiate The Break-Up and monkey branch to someone esle always.

  • @leont4062
    @leont4062 4 года назад +3

    What if she follows me on social media while still dating this person? I unfollowed her and kept on moving but is curious why she follows my siblings on their social media.

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  4 года назад +10

      It’s important to understand that just because they are in a rebound doesn’t mean she has no more feelings for you. She’s must likely still curious about you

  • @janzedwicksantos6015
    @janzedwicksantos6015 Год назад

    I believe man on what youre saying if that girl or guy was realy for you she or he will com back

  • @boteaandrei
    @boteaandrei 2 года назад +1

    Coach I have a question, I was with a girl for 5 years, all these years we lived together, we broke up in August 2021, and 2 months after the breakup, she started dating again with a guy with whom she been together 6 years ago! the relationship with this guy lasted a year, I was blocked on all social networks and on the phone number! is there any hope of ever contacting me?and now, a friend told me that she and that guy have posted pictures of them 2 on facebook, her status to the relationship on facebook looks like it's single but the pictures of her and that guy prove something else, can you explain to me please?

  • @kyrianjoseph1403
    @kyrianjoseph1403 Год назад +1

    what if that person was cheating with whomever he rebound with.

  • @abhishekekka9000
    @abhishekekka9000 3 года назад +1

    i found out that she was in rebound i can't control my self and reached out to her after 2 months of no contact she responded with anger (leave me alone.i don't want any type of relationship with you I'm happy with my new bf) what should i do know ?😓 and we had four years of relationship.

    • @kari.m4607
      @kari.m4607 2 года назад +4

      Delete and block her , she is in a point she doesn't have no respect no empathy for you , she's taken you as a shit , so do u still want her? She is sleeping with another guy buddy , are you serious ? Throw away this shit , you can do better without her actually its your biggest chance to get the best version of yourself , transform your negative energy to positive motivation to revenge , and never take her back if she come back dont even hope of she comming back .......
      RUN RUN RUN

  • @janzedwicksantos6015
    @janzedwicksantos6015 Год назад

    What if your ex girlfriend who rebound you is your ment to be. Because i expirience this before she ask for cool off. We actualy meet each other on a place wothout no telling each other that we actualy have to meet on that place.

  • @AmyD
    @AmyD 2 года назад +2

    I would’ve fixed the picture behind you, too.✌🏼😆

  • @jessepushor9967
    @jessepushor9967 3 года назад +2

    day 107 no contact I don't know if I will Ever Hear from Her again she seems happy with the Rebound

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  3 года назад

      How quickly did she rebound?

    • @jessepushor9967
      @jessepushor9967 3 года назад

      @@IamCoachCourt 28 days after are break up

    • @TheMoka4
      @TheMoka4 3 года назад +2

      I'm in the same boat it's hell and the sad thing is you love them and they couldn't care how you are or anything it's a cruel world :( was with that so called person for 7 years

    • @vintagebabyseventythree6244
      @vintagebabyseventythree6244 3 года назад +3

      Hang in there. It hasn’t been that long. The processes are taking place trust it. But maybe stop counting.

    • @gagerdrg
      @gagerdrg 3 года назад

      @@IamCoachCourt funny mines was on tinder a month after then she blocked coming to find out she posted his name on her account

  • @Sabbisworld
    @Sabbisworld Год назад

    How do you go no contact when you live with someone? Not renting but purchased a home together. How do you do no contact in this situation?😢

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  Год назад

      That’s really tough. Don’t do couple things together or talk about the relationship. Live in separate quarters if you can

  • @PhuongLe-di8ou
    @PhuongLe-di8ou 2 года назад +1

    Coach Court, what if you have kids together? We're in the process of getting a divorce and she's moving out but we are very friendly and cordial to each other. While she is still living here we are doing things with the kids and hanging out together but just not intimate. Still no contact after she moves out?

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  2 года назад

      Is she seeing someone else?

    • @PhuongLe-di8ou
      @PhuongLe-di8ou 2 года назад

      @@IamCoachCourt she is but I don't ask her details. She stays out a couple nights a week but comes home early next morning to help get kids ready for school. We've been separated for almost 3 months. I know she cares deeply for me but just doesn't trust me with her emotions. It's not infidelity. I've just been very defensive and always thought I was right about everything. And she's had enough.

  • @olsonbrandon91
    @olsonbrandon91 4 года назад +2

    What if.. I lost my cool and got angry because she lined up the guy behind my back (cussed her out ECT) but then turned it around and supported her choice and wished her the best after apologizing for my anger.. but telling her I can't do friendship and I need time to heal and focus on myself.. then no contact? 3yr relationship btw..

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  4 года назад +2

      Yes. She won’t be able to burry or mask her feelings too long!

    • @olsonbrandon91
      @olsonbrandon91 4 года назад +1

      Thanks man.. I'm just hurting really bad.. you've been so kind talking to me, how much is it for a coaching lesson? Maybe I can talk with you through email or something..

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  4 года назад

      Brandon Olson let’s talk. Courtney@fruitfulseedz.com

    • @olsonbrandon91
      @olsonbrandon91 4 года назад

      @@IamCoachCourt okay emailing

    • @leont4062
      @leont4062 4 года назад +9

      I say work on yourself and love yourself and do better. Any ex that rebounds is emotional depending on others for validation and is a distraction from actually working on themselves.

  • @Joshuamiro
    @Joshuamiro 3 года назад +2

    What if they break up - reconnect with you but gradually - rebound reaches out and they go back to them? (Start talking again) I decided to give space even though she wanted to continue what we had but still continue what she’s doing with the rebound, emphasizing that she’s not in a relationship “or anything”. I told her it just wouldn’t be right / feel right

    • @gagerdrg
      @gagerdrg 3 года назад

      Good way to approach it. She has to decide what she wants. I would’ve walked away because that rebound will keep coming back.

  • @jiu-jitsu8234
    @jiu-jitsu8234 Год назад

    What if she said she was done but continued to text and FaceTime me after the breakup and now she’s in a rebound should I go no contact with her

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  Год назад

      Go no contact, she was weaning herself off of you

  • @antoniosciara7322
    @antoniosciara7322 2 года назад +1

    What if you cursed them out and burned some bridges? Later apologized in person. Is it still possible?

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  2 года назад

      If they’re physically scared of you, chances are slim

    • @antoniosciara7322
      @antoniosciara7322 2 года назад

      @@IamCoachCourt No, she's not physically scared of me. I've never ever been violent with her or even close to it. Plus we both said things that were harsh, not just me. We have talked a few times on the phone. She is still kind of angry at me. So she must have some feelings.

  • @flat4wankel
    @flat4wankel Год назад

    They never come back

  • @Iwant2BHipster
    @Iwant2BHipster 4 года назад +1

    Do you do coaching for women?

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  4 года назад

      I do. I replied to your email ☺️

  • @iiheartdrake
    @iiheartdrake 2 года назад +2

    Are you a Virgo? asking based on your perfectionism straightening the poster 😂

  • @joshuajames673uu5
    @joshuajames673uu5 2 года назад +1

    I'm done with women!

  • @elroyjetson6380
    @elroyjetson6380 3 года назад

    Fresh8

  • @brucepiggot9915
    @brucepiggot9915 2 года назад

    Hi Coach , just sent you an email.

  • @annnee6818
    @annnee6818 7 месяцев назад

    Oh this content is curated only for men? Ok, guess "don't recommend" then. Saying "women want" is a red flag anyway tbh, we're not a homogenous monolith

    • @IamCoachCourt
      @IamCoachCourt  7 месяцев назад

      This was literally 4 years ago. I’ve evolved