@@vermilionskin next week will be two months. Unfortunately in my situation, it's over forever with her. I'm still struggling, but not nearly as bad as I was in the beginning. 3 weeks in was when I was at my worst. 6 weeks in I was at my best. It's a roller coaster ride of emotions. I've been doing video blogs every Monday, reflecting on where I'm at with the break up. They are on my RUclips channel. If you want to watch them, it might help you. I will be posting a new one tomorrow. Tomorrow night I will relock all of them. A.T.B. (accepting the breakup) are the videos. Keep your chin up brother
If you play your cards right they always come back.Remember no matter how hopless you are keep your head up things can change out of the blue.I chased my ex,been weak and clingy,tought they will never come back then been quiet for 2 months ,worked on myself and my goals and then boom she contats me with more interest then ever.No contact,move on,be strong, work on yourself and they are back just like that.Bealive me I been thru it 100 times even with the same person,always works🤷♂️Good luck guys🙌
Ledeno Nebo you said you’ve been through it 100 times with the same person. That just shows she has a low self esteem. Doesn’t mean this works. Women with a low self-esteem will come back over and over again. I’ve seen some guys get their ex back after cheating and physically abusing her time and time again. Yet I’ve seen guys never get a girl back over 1 stupid text they sent to another girl. It’s all due to her self-esteem and pride. If she has a high self-esteem and lots of pride she will move on no matter how many of these tips you use. She won’t care. She will be done and move on with no problem over the smallest mistake you make; even if she loves you with all her heart. That’s because her high self-esteem will always hold her above you. No matter how much she loves you she will always love herself more and leave you if you wrong her even in the smallest form. Then theirs girls who have a low self-esteem who keep coming back because they need you to reinforce that they’re valued. Daddy issues sometimes play a huge role.
NC and working on ourselves can be really easy. But it might harden things if your ex-partner is codependent and jumps into another relationship after the breakup.
Most dating channel videos dealing with special circumstances: "my ex is very stubborn" Craig's video: "so my ex is a pathological liar and has tons of baggage and can't deal with being alone at all, and I am so paranoid about her bicurious fantasy I'm installing cameras"
Yep. Trust is key. I never thought she'd leave like she did. My feelings are mixed. We would have to talk & certain things MUST change. Our marriage was long so at this point I'm not closed off.
My ex is in a relationship with someone from 20years ago three weeks after we broke up. 😒 still doing the work and no contact, I never begged and chased. but I don’t even want him back... I do really wish them the best. So honestly my success story is a better and healthier me:) There has been so much growth and I love it 🥰
Omg! 😍😍 Thank you so much Craig. I followed your advice. Been watching your videos almost a month my bf broke up with me july 16th and I begged and chased him for like a a week after a break up and I did no contact at all! guess what! Today I deleted his phone number and boom He just reached out just today August 16th ♥️♥️♥️ I am so happy!!
Craig your a God sent ! I don’t have insurance to see professional so your videos are helping me so much . My friends I can tell are tired of me with my whining
My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me because of my anger issues. At the end, she said she felt like I never really loved her because of some of the things I said. Other than my mouth, we were a perfect couple. I was devastated. I have since sought out therapy and have learned to communicate my feelings better. Wouldn’t no contact enforce her idea that I don’t care about her? I don’t know how to go about showing her how I’ve changed.
It's true it happened to me 2 times, last time the day before she left she said " this is where I want to be, I don't want to be anywhere else" and she was making plans for a wedding she was going to attend to get ideas for our wedding , next day she said she was leaving lol
I feel like I’d rather get the “we will never be together again” than the “I don’t know what the future holds” excuse. That’s what I got and it’s killing me
@@ShadowKiller571 I’m sorry to hear that. My ex determined that life was better without me. I’m doing my best to move on. I hope everything works out for you, never stop loving yourself
My ex broke me up 2 months ago, just slight mistake that i asked him just a little bit of his attention. He left me witout telling something, he just sent message to me. I begged and pleaded to him after breakup. Now he started sending messages to me. But sometimes, i didnt recieve any reply, i think he is still struggling with his emotion. Well im working within myself, watching some break up vids, while giving him space and hoping him to come back. But he will make wait for a long time, i have to move on, focus my own life. Wish that its not too late for him to decide to come back to me.
I talked to my ex about a month ago and the conversation went well. He said he wants to hang out but not right now because he is working through his issues. Is there still a good chance?
Just remember , giving an ex a second chance is like giving them a second bullet for a gun when they missed you with the first bullet ... use no contact to get some clarity and reality ✊🏻
Ericka T if it’s meant to be it will be , you have to go through the emotional rollercoaster, but time is your new best friend . The dumper has to reach out . Stay strong 💪🏻.
That's not always the case! Remember what C. Craig said "Every relationship and break up is different" it really depends on how they or you treated them or who ended the relationship. Look Ik you got hurt but you did it to yourself. NC rule is for you to grow as whole new person, it's not for you to wait for her. Take NC to grow and reflect and even plan things out for when she reaches out. You have to be ready even if she doesn't reach out, you still have to grow and reflect on everything that has happened to you. Remember "Every relationship and break up is different" stay strong my people! One more thing, I'm going through the same thing rn. Wish me luck :)
Unfortunately, I have heard from the parents' mouths that they treat children differently or poorly because they look like the former spouse. Disgusting as it sounds, people are that petty.
I know a woman who treats one child differently because he looks a lot like her ex. She loves the child, but it's definitely unfair because he looks so much like the father.
Glad to see you back and safe Coach. I was going to send you an quick email tonight to make sure you were okay. By the way this is Josh from Los Angeles.
because hurting people makes them bind you more , human nature bro , logicly you are right but emotionally you are feeling the lost the hate so you are always thinking about them and take things personal so you became addicted to drama and at the same time you feel like you can fix , you can correct the wrong again , it feels it becomes your porpuse , and what human needs to feel completed in this world? the purpose
Every time a woman has told me they loved me then shut me out (twice) I’m pretty sure they were avoidant. One came back for a short time and the other one hasn’t come back yet as it has been pretty recent.
@@BeanieNinjay0 Not yet but she made a fake Instagram account to watch me. Called her out on it and of course she gaslighted me into think I’m crazy. She’s with another guy so what does that say about him if she’s still watching me? I don’t think I could take her back anyway.
@@samuelmoss9487 Thanks bro and I’m doing ok, hanging in there and healing slowly. Still going through separation anxiety especially at night, because I have no one to talk to and I miss holding her and cuddling together.
@@ponokunishima1 Congratulations on having a 5 years relationship bro. If y'all lasted for 5 years that means y'all definitely had something special. People wouldn't spend all that time with someone who they don't truly connect with. If y'all had a good relationship, and had something real, which the 5 years points to, the odds are really in your favor that she'll come back. I hope mine of a year comes back. She's all I can think about. I really miss her, but We're all in this together. Good luck my friend
@@samuelmoss9487 Thanks for the kind words my friend and yes, I do think and believe that if a relationship lasted for over a year, and the relationship was very meaningful, then they will reconsider and reconcile, even if they tell us in the beginning that they’re done. I too can’t stop thinking about my ex, day in and day out. I even had dreams about us, sexually which I hadn’t before when we were together, only she did. I still have reoccurring thoughts about us, even when I want to “let go to get her back” and I say a mantra about letting go.
It does happen. My mother hated my father a lot n said I reminded her of him n I wasn't treated well. It also explains why I'm a avoidant emotionless type. I got use to being closed in mentally
Hi Coach Craig, love your videos! I'm hoping you will do a video on what to do when/if they come back you're not either over them or ready for them to reach out?
she met another guy.. we been together for 6 years. Its been 2 years since the break up and she still with the same guy , i did nc since , never bothered her she reaches out here and there but not to reconcile. we had 2 dogs that is staying with me , I still have dreams/nightmares about her. I miss her so much but i can never tell her that
If it's been 2 years after your break up and she's been with another guy all that time, I sincerely don't understand why you want her back. You had a 6 year relationship, of course she's gonna check in with you, but she has shown that she has no interest in being with you again. I would love a man who waited that long for me, many women would. I bet you're a very nice guy. Love yourself much more and work hard to let her go. I understand that you love her, but she moved on, maybe you should do the same. My best wishes and a huge hug for you.
@@leilawni thanks needed to hear from someone , it's just she was such a big part of my life. We were our first loves and we lived together the entire relationship. Maybe it's easier for her since I have the 2 dogs we had , that I'm still taking care of is reminding me what it was like. But I'm over the break up I just haven't let go my thoughts of her. It hurts that I want to see her and talk her but i cant. I cant reach out im trying to let go. I'm working on myself at the gym , getting better job , drive nice car have high status friends I did everything I'm supposed to do but I'm not happy and still feel cold and dead inside.
@@trichromatic5717 wow haven’t been here in awhile lol . Been great , still been working in myself and everything I mentioned 3 years ago. Dated a lot of girls that I can’t even keep track and I’m not trying to brag. As for my ex no contact and it’s better that way. I bump into her once in a while at the clubs but we don’t greet each or say anything I respect her and her life decisions I’m not gonna force anything. Do I feel the same as before? Yes but what I learned through all these years is that your never gonna lose feelings over someone if they really meant alot to you, you just learn how to live and deal with it. And I’m ok with that
I listened to the entire video and failed to see how much of it was relevant to the title question :( It didn't really discuss options or the tendencies in different relationships... just this one specific email.
It's very tough especially when you fell for that person and just want to be with her and her 3 kids. Yes I'm a fool in love and still working on myself. Diet. Gym. New job. Making my apartment more child friendly. Quit smoking weed. Yeah major overhaul on my life
Craig I live in Florida as well and the best investment I ever made was an emergency generator that comes on when grid poser drops. Trust me given the likelihood of a hurricane this generator makes all the difference. I hope and pray my lady will give me another shot with her.
My ex and I broke up almost two weeks ago. She said its because she was bored. She broke up with me and we argued a little bit and she said she didn't want to do anything with anyone. A couple of days later she was hanging out with another guy and she started dating him. We've had an on off relationship. We were together for 3 years and 5 months. She blocked me on facebook, snapchat, and my number. Idk what to do I miss her so much. Is there a chance of her coming back? I've been in no contact for one week and so far nothing. I appreciate any help anyone provides thanks.
@@jwil9000 just move on an better yourself bro and i know its hard but just work through it , analize what mistakes you made and strive to become a better person
Ok so does a past as friends affect the narrative? I was friends for almost four years before we realized we were good together and dated. Anyone have a success story or perspective on this?
So same position as you. Friends and coworkers for 4 years. Started dating and everything seemed fine...she broke up with me a month later. Guess time will tell if a success story comes.
Same thing happened with me. Was friends with someone for 10+ years and we finally had a chance to date each other things were great, and an odd coincidence happened where I planned a trip and it so happened to be the same as my ex. Well she thought I was trying to go meet up with her to which I canceled the trip after I asked her to come and after she claimed thats what I was doing. She distanced herself I got whiney when she didn't wanna see me and she said fuck this. I begged somewhat for a week or so then went into no contact. It's been 2 weeks now. I notice her looking at my fb stories from time to time but my hopes that she'll contact me are pretty low. Yet she doesn't want anything serious and I told her I did she's kept me on fb and I'm not sure why. She restricted me though, reason I think is cause I liked and commented on alot of her posts. Well here's to waiting.
If she tells everybody she don't want nothing to do with me then why does she call me private when I post a picture of me doing something or when I post a picture with the opposite sex a couple of minutes later or like maybe 45 minutes later she'll call and that's because she blocked me on social media everywhere but when she calls you don't answer the last time she called private would like three times and I didn't answer is this a good sign or a bad
Thank you for your advice and all the efforts you put into your videos 🎉may you be blessed abundantly 😊❤he texted back I was extremely afraid to reply incase another argument would spark . I said "Good Night " switched my phone to silent and went to bed, he messaged the next morning and said I am ready to give us another try if you would let me .
Hi. There is this girl who i dated recently who told me that she wants to take things slow and be friends first (coz shes a single mom and things wer shaken up coz of external forces) ( things got serious by the way when we were together) She wants to hang out with my friends and that includes me. Should i go or not? I havent been contacting her for 2 weeks now. Coz when i do talk to her she stops me when i get sweet to her.
A brief wonderful relationship that was put on hold for him to deal with extreme grief over the loss of a child... I feel like I should be asking him how he's doing now and again. The silent treatment seems like I don't care, doesn't it? He said he needs to feel whole again and hopes we can come together again one day
Hey coach, I'll be brief. I had a one year long dinstance relationship with my ex girlfriend, we would see each other every 12 days, my most serious relation so far. We broke up beacuse she got scared on the idea of having kids and getting married, I ignored the no contact rule and tried working things out for 2 months, everything was going well, or I thought so, but then she had a sudden change and decided it be better for us to not go back. I saw her 15 days ago. I started the no contact until then, 6 days ago I discovered she had been loging in into my facebook account constantly, so I sended her a screenshot of it, she apologized for it. I'm suspicious of her seeing someone else already, what steps do I follow for the no contact for it to work?
Where are the lines between “taking a woman’s emotions seriously”, catering to a woman’s emotions, manipulation (intentional or not), putting her emotions on a pedestal, and reinforcing unhealthy behaviors? Is this another double bind men are put in…. Bad if you don’t respond, enslaved if you do?
Great video. All I could think of from the story was this song though, lol. 🎵 I could be a better boyfriend than him I could do the shit that he never did Up all night, I won't quit Thinking I'm gonna steal you from him I could be such a gentleman Plus all my clothes would fit 🎵
@TR3WAY RED PILL GANG heartbreaking... I won't get him back. He disappeared after telling me I was the best thing that ever happened to him blah blahblah.
I can confirm that parents who are resentful of their ex will treat the kids badly if the kid looks like the ex; my aunt and uncle got divorced years ago and they had two boys Daniel and Samuel (not their real names) Daniel looks exactly like my aunt but has my uncle's personality (very reserved) where Samuel looks exactly like my ex uncle with my aunt's personality (very outgoing and social) My uncle always favoured Samuel because he looks like him and brushes Daniel aside still, they're adults now. It's odd
If only I could stop thinking about her. That would make this whole process 1000X easier
The same problem here, it's so painful, I cannot eat, sleep or think.
@@vermilionskin next week will be two months. Unfortunately in my situation, it's over forever with her. I'm still struggling, but not nearly as bad as I was in the beginning. 3 weeks in was when I was at my worst. 6 weeks in I was at my best. It's a roller coaster ride of emotions. I've been doing video blogs every Monday, reflecting on where I'm at with the break up. They are on my RUclips channel. If you want to watch them, it might help you. I will be posting a new one tomorrow. Tomorrow night I will relock all of them. A.T.B. (accepting the breakup) are the videos. Keep your chin up brother
@@danielosmon Thank you so much, I will definitely watch them. In my case it could forever too. Sigh.
@@danielosmon but why didn't you contact her again, if you brokeup
Its rough. It just takes time.
If you play your cards right they always come back.Remember no matter how hopless you are keep your head up things can change out of the blue.I chased my ex,been weak and clingy,tought they will never come back then been quiet for 2 months ,worked on myself and my goals and then boom she contats me with more interest then ever.No contact,move on,be strong, work on yourself and they are back just like that.Bealive me I been thru it 100 times even with the same person,always works🤷♂️Good luck guys🙌
Fabrizio Corona i needed to hear this
Ledeno Nebo you said you’ve been through it 100 times with the same person. That just shows she has a low self esteem. Doesn’t mean this works. Women with a low self-esteem will come back over and over again. I’ve seen some guys get their ex back after cheating and physically abusing her time and time again. Yet I’ve seen guys never get a girl back over 1 stupid text they sent to another girl. It’s all due to her self-esteem and pride. If she has a high self-esteem and lots of pride she will move on no matter how many of these tips you use. She won’t care. She will be done and move on with no problem over the smallest mistake you make; even if she loves you with all her heart. That’s because her high self-esteem will always hold her above you. No matter how much she loves you she will always love herself more and leave you if you wrong her even in the smallest form. Then theirs girls who have a low self-esteem who keep coming back because they need you to reinforce that they’re valued. Daddy issues sometimes play a huge role.
Thanks bro!! This helped me out.
@@shelbylvr198420 they will move on if your partner cheats. if that person is loyal they will come back because they know they have high value.
NC and working on ourselves can be really easy. But it might harden things if your ex-partner is codependent and jumps into another relationship after the breakup.
Most dating channel videos dealing with special circumstances: "my ex is very stubborn"
Craig's video: "so my ex is a pathological liar and has tons of baggage and can't deal with being alone at all, and I am so paranoid about her bicurious fantasy I'm installing cameras"
Yep. Trust is key. I never thought she'd leave like she did. My feelings are mixed. We would have to talk & certain things MUST change.
Our marriage was long so at this point I'm not closed off.
My ex is in a relationship with someone from 20years ago three weeks after we broke up. 😒 still doing the work and no contact, I never begged and chased. but I don’t even want him back... I do really wish them the best. So honestly my success story is a better and healthier me:)
There has been so much growth and I love it 🥰
Any update?
Update
Guys this always works. They always come back. Sometimes sooner then later but they do.
Yes true
Omg! 😍😍 Thank you so much Craig. I followed your advice. Been watching your videos almost a month my bf broke up with me july 16th and I begged and chased him for like a a week after a break up and I did no contact at all! guess what! Today I deleted his phone number and boom He just reached out just today August 16th ♥️♥️♥️ I am so happy!!
How has you guys situation going so far?
You’re lucky i hope i get my chance...
@@kenouk6183 Don't lose hope.
@@Ki77a_WhSpRz it was great but something happened again.
Craig your a God sent ! I don’t have insurance to see professional so your videos are helping me so much . My friends I can tell are tired of me with my whining
My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me because of my anger issues. At the end, she said she felt like I never really loved her because of some of the things I said. Other than my mouth, we were a perfect couple. I was devastated. I have since sought out therapy and have learned to communicate my feelings better. Wouldn’t no contact enforce her idea that I don’t care about her? I don’t know how to go about showing her how I’ve changed.
Update?
SHE said she couldn't trust HIM??????!!!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.
So glad to hear that you're safe and you have power back! 😌
Well he did hide a camera to spy on her lol
It's true it happened to me 2 times, last time the day before she left she said " this is where I want to be, I don't want to be anywhere else" and she was making plans for a wedding she was going to attend to get ideas for our wedding , next day she said she was leaving lol
"That is just weird" hahaha Craig you are making my days 10/10 with your dry-humor comments LOL!
I feel like I’d rather get the “we will never be together again” than the “I don’t know what the future holds” excuse. That’s what I got and it’s killing me
Usually means they want to test and see if life is better without you or not. It sucks. I'm in the same boat
@@ShadowKiller571 I’m sorry to hear that. My ex determined that life was better without me. I’m doing my best to move on. I hope everything works out for you, never stop loving yourself
same
Well, I got both. First one last July a month after the break up, second one last September, NC since
My ex broke me up 2 months ago, just slight mistake that i asked him just a little bit of his attention. He left me witout telling something, he just sent message to me. I begged and pleaded to him after breakup. Now he started sending messages to me. But sometimes, i didnt recieve any reply, i think he is still struggling with his emotion. Well im working within myself, watching some break up vids, while giving him space and hoping him to come back. But he will make wait for a long time, i have to move on, focus my own life. Wish that its not too late for him to decide to come back to me.
Update?
Relationships are too complicated. I’m done.
I talked to my ex about a month ago and the conversation went well. He said he wants to hang out but not right now because he is working through his issues. Is there still a good chance?
Kayla Hughes So what happened - did you hang out? 🦋
What happened?
Update
Just remember , giving an ex a second chance is like giving them a second bullet for a gun when they missed you with the first bullet ... use no contact to get some clarity and reality ✊🏻
Damn your right 🥺 I know my ex won’t ever reach out but apart of me wishes he would.
Ericka T if it’s meant to be it will be , you have to go through the emotional rollercoaster, but time is your new best friend . The dumper has to reach out . Stay strong 💪🏻.
That's not always the case! Remember what C. Craig said "Every relationship and break up is different" it really depends on how they or you treated them or who ended the relationship. Look Ik you got hurt but you did it to yourself. NC rule is for you to grow as whole new person, it's not for you to wait for her. Take NC to grow and reflect and even plan things out for when she reaches out. You have to be ready even if she doesn't reach out, you still have to grow and reflect on everything that has happened to you. Remember "Every relationship and break up is different" stay strong my people!
One more thing, I'm going through the same thing rn. Wish me luck :)
Unfortunately, I have heard from the parents' mouths that they treat children differently or poorly because they look like the former spouse. Disgusting as it sounds, people are that petty.
I know a woman who treats one child differently because he looks a lot like her ex. She loves the child, but it's definitely unfair because he looks so much like the father.
That’s a great mix of stupid+evil
Glad to see you back and safe Coach. I was going to send you an quick email tonight to make sure you were okay. By the way this is Josh from Los Angeles.
Why would anyone want to go back to an ex that abandoned you
Sometimes you deserved it.
I ask myself that every day.
These types of break ups contain the best personal growth and lessons as bad as it feels .
Who knows ugh
because hurting people makes them bind you more , human nature bro , logicly you are right but emotionally you are feeling the lost the hate so you are always thinking about them and take things personal so you became addicted to drama and at the same time you feel like you can fix , you can correct the wrong again , it feels it becomes your porpuse , and what human needs to feel completed in this world? the purpose
My relationship and break up with my DA ex look pale compared to this really crazy story…
Man, I wish I found Craig before my ex broke things off
Me too
Every time a woman has told me they loved me then shut me out (twice) I’m pretty sure they were avoidant. One came back for a short time and the other one hasn’t come back yet as it has been pretty recent.
Been through something similar? Did the one come back?
@@BeanieNinjay0 Not yet but she made a fake Instagram account to watch me. Called her out on it and of course she gaslighted me into think I’m crazy. She’s with another guy so what does that say about him if she’s still watching me? I don’t think I could take her back anyway.
@@juggernaut5523update?
I always have faith that my ex girlfriend will come back! We’ve been together for over 5 years and we loved each other.
good luck man. How's it going?
@@samuelmoss9487 Thanks bro and I’m doing ok, hanging in there and healing slowly. Still going through separation anxiety especially at night, because I have no one to talk to and I miss holding her and cuddling together.
@@ponokunishima1 Congratulations on having a 5 years relationship bro. If y'all lasted for 5 years that means y'all definitely had something special. People wouldn't spend all that time with someone who they don't truly connect with. If y'all had a good relationship, and had something real, which the 5 years points to, the odds are really in your favor that she'll come back. I hope mine of a year comes back. She's all I can think about. I really miss her, but We're all in this together. Good luck my friend
@@samuelmoss9487 Thanks for the kind words my friend and yes, I do think and believe that if a relationship lasted for over a year, and the relationship was very meaningful, then they will reconsider and reconcile, even if they tell us in the beginning that they’re done. I too can’t stop thinking about my ex, day in and day out. I even had dreams about us, sexually which I hadn’t before when we were together, only she did. I still have reoccurring thoughts about us, even when I want to “let go to get her back” and I say a mantra about letting go.
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It does happen. My mother hated my father a lot n said I reminded her of him n I wasn't treated well. It also explains why I'm a avoidant emotionless type. I got use to being closed in mentally
Hi Coach Craig, love your videos!
I'm hoping you will do a video on what to do when/if they come back you're not either over them or ready for them to reach out?
Even if he did try to come back, i cant be bothered any more and im going for divorce... i dont have the energy for people like him any more..
she met another guy.. we been together for 6 years. Its been 2 years since the break up and she still with the same guy , i did nc since , never bothered her she reaches out here and there but not to reconcile. we had 2 dogs that is staying with me , I still have dreams/nightmares about her. I miss her so much but i can never tell her that
If it's been 2 years after your break up and she's been with another guy all that time, I sincerely don't understand why you want her back. You had a 6 year relationship, of course she's gonna check in with you, but she has shown that she has no interest in being with you again. I would love a man who waited that long for me, many women would. I bet you're a very nice guy. Love yourself much more and work hard to let her go. I understand that you love her, but she moved on, maybe you should do the same. My best wishes and a huge hug for you.
@@leilawni thanks needed to hear from someone , it's just she was such a big part of my life. We were our first loves and we lived together the entire relationship. Maybe it's easier for her since I have the 2 dogs we had , that I'm still taking care of is reminding me what it was like. But I'm over the break up I just haven't let go my thoughts of her. It hurts that I want to see her and talk her but i cant. I cant reach out im trying to let go. I'm working on myself at the gym , getting better job , drive nice car have high status friends I did everything I'm supposed to do but I'm not happy and still feel cold and dead inside.
@@maxhedge9535 How you doin now?
@@trichromatic5717 wow haven’t been here in awhile lol . Been great , still been working in myself and everything I mentioned 3 years ago. Dated a lot of girls that I can’t even keep track and I’m not trying to brag. As for my ex no contact and it’s better that way. I bump into her once in a while at the clubs but we don’t greet each or say anything I respect her and her life decisions I’m not gonna force anything. Do I feel the same as before? Yes but what I learned through all these years is that your never gonna lose feelings over someone if they really meant alot to you, you just learn how to live and deal with it. And I’m ok with that
I listened to the entire video and failed to see how much of it was relevant to the title question :( It didn't really discuss options or the tendencies in different relationships... just this one specific email.
Glad you're safe coach!
I’m trying to do this NC rule and it’s not easy but I need to do this so that he will realise my worth.
It’s so very difficult. Especially right after the break up.
Jose Ramos yes!! But I keep praying and hopefully I can do this..
It's very tough especially when you fell for that person and just want to be with her and her 3 kids. Yes I'm a fool in love and still working on myself. Diet. Gym. New job. Making my apartment more child friendly. Quit smoking weed. Yeah major overhaul on my life
And so you will realize your worth too. ❤ I wish you love and luck.
My avoidant told me Never contact me again. I never want to see you or talk to you again. You took my precious time. He’ll be back.
DId he come back?
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Oath means swearing in...as in citizenship oath...
Craig I live in Florida as well and the best investment I ever made was an emergency generator that comes on when grid poser drops. Trust me given the likelihood of a hurricane this generator makes all the difference.
I hope and pray my lady will give me another shot with her.
What about the introvert type? I don’t have this big social network and ok being alone and I might come off creepy to some.
I am an INFJ and I stay away from online dating. I am a walking dichotomy and it just doesn't translate non verbally.
I don’t think she will come back..she looks very happy on social media..posting photos everyday.....
Towfiq Islam everything she posted on social media are fake and pretending to be happy! That’s what happened to my ex
Message her , Talaq
I did the no contact rule and he comes back in 2 weeks and indirectly ❣️
My ex and I broke up almost two weeks ago. She said its because she was bored. She broke up with me and we argued a little bit and she said she didn't want to do anything with anyone. A couple of days later she was hanging out with another guy and she started dating him. We've had an on off relationship. We were together for 3 years and 5 months. She blocked me on facebook, snapchat, and my number. Idk what to do I miss her so much. Is there a chance of her coming back? I've been in no contact for one week and so far nothing. I appreciate any help anyone provides thanks.
mr man thanks man I’ll try. It’s been one month since we broke up and I’ve been in no contact for three weeks.
Have been in no contact for one month and still nothing. I learned that she is going to prom with her new boyfriend💔
@@jwil9000 just move on an better yourself bro and i know its hard but just work through it , analize what mistakes you made and strive to become a better person
@@jwil9000 did she ever come back?
Ok so does a past as friends affect the narrative? I was friends for almost four years before we realized we were good together and dated. Anyone have a success story or perspective on this?
So same position as you. Friends and coworkers for 4 years. Started dating and everything seemed fine...she broke up with me a month later. Guess time will tell if a success story comes.
Same thing happened with me. Was friends with someone for 10+ years and we finally had a chance to date each other things were great, and an odd coincidence happened where I planned a trip and it so happened to be the same as my ex. Well she thought I was trying to go meet up with her to which I canceled the trip after I asked her to come and after she claimed thats what I was doing. She distanced herself I got whiney when she didn't wanna see me and she said fuck this. I begged somewhat for a week or so then went into no contact. It's been 2 weeks now. I notice her looking at my fb stories from time to time but my hopes that she'll contact me are pretty low. Yet she doesn't want anything serious and I told her I did she's kept me on fb and I'm not sure why. She restricted me though, reason I think is cause I liked and commented on alot of her posts. Well here's to waiting.
Love your videos....it's keeping me sane❤ God bless you
If she tells everybody she don't want nothing to do with me then why does she call me private when I post a picture of me doing something or when I post a picture with the opposite sex a couple of minutes later or like maybe 45 minutes later she'll call and that's because she blocked me on social media everywhere but when she calls you don't answer the last time she called private would like three times and I didn't answer is this a good sign or a bad
Thank you for your advice and all the efforts you put into your videos 🎉may you be blessed abundantly 😊❤he texted back I was extremely afraid to reply incase another argument would spark . I said "Good Night " switched my phone to silent and went to bed, he messaged the next morning and said I am ready to give us another try if you would let me .
Hi. There is this girl who i dated recently who told me that she wants to take things slow and be friends first (coz shes a single mom and things wer shaken up coz of external forces) ( things got serious by the way when we were together)
She wants to hang out with my friends and that includes me. Should i go or not? I havent been contacting her for 2 weeks now. Coz when i do talk to her she stops me when i get sweet to her.
A brief wonderful relationship that was put on hold for him to deal with extreme grief over the loss of a child... I feel like I should be asking him how he's doing now and again. The silent treatment seems like I don't care, doesn't it? He said he needs to feel whole again and hopes we can come together again one day
Dr wilson willock he is the best is 💯 percent sure
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Trust me No contact rule works....always
Guys come back?
I’m cry very bad I can’t sleep
Are you ok now?
Any update?
Hey coach, I'll be brief. I had a one year long dinstance relationship with my ex girlfriend, we would see each other every 12 days, my most serious relation so far. We broke up beacuse she got scared on the idea of having kids and getting married, I ignored the no contact rule and tried working things out for 2 months, everything was going well, or I thought so, but then she had a sudden change and decided it be better for us to not go back. I saw her 15 days ago. I started the no contact until then, 6 days ago I discovered she had been loging in into my facebook account constantly, so I sended her a screenshot of it, she apologized for it. I'm suspicious of her seeing someone else already, what steps do I follow for the no contact for it to work?
Mr. Craig you’re so great!
omg the girl in the story has almost the exact same life story as I do, parents divorced at the same age and everything
I love Craig! I want to marry him
U have great taste :)
Me too he so adorably, handsome 😘
My relationship with merried men. He leave 3 time I know he come back I accept him or not
Email coaching is for how many days? Thanks
You are excellent.
Good Evening Sir.
Do narcissists who have smeared and tarnished your image come back????
She cheated on me, and invented lots of excuses to put all guilt on me.Never cared for me anyway.
She only cared of herself
What if they moved to another state?
Lol, the story in this one is crazy
Where are the lines between “taking a woman’s emotions seriously”, catering to a woman’s emotions, manipulation (intentional or not), putting her emotions on a pedestal, and reinforcing unhealthy behaviors? Is this another double bind men are put in…. Bad if you don’t respond, enslaved if you do?
Great video. All I could think of from the story was this song though, lol.
🎵 I could be a better boyfriend than him
I could do the shit that he never did
Up all night, I won't quit
Thinking I'm gonna steal you from him
I could be such a gentleman
Plus all my clothes would fit 🎵
Only way is hire you if my wife would even consider reconcile
I'm in so much fucking pain
be calm darling, i have a good news for you
i know of a man who can help you get back your ex without any delay in less than 24 hours
whtz>app him
You're not alone!
@@1337Hawkeye can I ask what is your situation? I don't know how to get out of this pain, my mind is constantly going round in circles
The oath is the Citizenship oath I think.
great video
She Sounds exactly like my ex
wait, Craig, lol, this is an extraordinary circumstance... it sadly doesn't address the question, "Will They Come Back?" I want my man back.
@TR3WAY RED PILL GANG heartbreaking... I won't get him back. He disappeared after telling me I was the best thing that ever happened to him blah blahblah.
Can I respond to his indirect k place
"This is a new one.." hahaha
I can confirm that parents who are resentful of their ex will treat the kids badly if the kid looks like the ex; my aunt and uncle got divorced years ago and they had two boys Daniel and Samuel (not their real names) Daniel looks exactly like my aunt but has my uncle's personality (very reserved) where Samuel looks exactly like my ex uncle with my aunt's personality (very outgoing and social) My uncle always favoured Samuel because he looks like him and brushes Daniel aside still, they're adults now. It's odd
*Ross geller alert*
The more the merrier lol 🙃