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  • @rainbowwolf5177
    @rainbowwolf5177 3 года назад +5148

    Emotions is what makes us human, emotions doesn't make anyone weak.

    • @raz4sh1
      @raz4sh1 3 года назад +103

      I would like that my classmates knew this 😔

    • @stupidass69420
      @stupidass69420 3 года назад +56

      FACTS

    • @xxcamelia
      @xxcamelia 3 года назад +234

      Emotions are supposed to help us survive, they actually make us smart

    • @hekaterinedragon8776
      @hekaterinedragon8776 3 года назад +145

      @@xxcamelia exactly! There is a reason why we still have them, and they're in constant evolution and adapt themselves for surviving in different settings

    • @user-wy9fb5dp2j
      @user-wy9fb5dp2j 3 года назад +93

      Don’t forget that if you lack emotions it doesn’t make you any less human neither

  • @willowthewolf4144
    @willowthewolf4144 3 года назад +3495

    "Women are incapable of logical thought... Women are hiveminded"
    We love dating guys that dehumanize us 😍😍😍

    • @solseclipse
      @solseclipse 3 года назад +312

      Same, guys that dehumanize us and treat us as if we're not living beings are _so_ cute

    • @silu3737
      @silu3737 3 года назад +269

      And that, my friend, is why I am so glad I'm Lesbian.

    • @iveeg.1515
      @iveeg.1515 3 года назад +107

      And that, my friend, is why im glad im spectrasexual and love everyone but men.

    • @celestialsoph
      @celestialsoph 3 года назад +51

      @@iveeg.1515 What does spectrasexual mean? /gen

    • @novasapphire8900
      @novasapphire8900 3 года назад +105

      @@celestialsoph I just searched it up, it means that someone is sexually attracted the a various genders, but not necessarily all. Its probably deeper than that, but that's all I got :)

  • @dawndoe11
    @dawndoe11 3 года назад +93

    The "men don't approach women at night" story reminds me of a story I read a few months ago. It was about a guy who said he'd started to realize that women would cross the street before getting near him, so he started crossing the street first to make them feel a lot more comfortable. It was kind of neat.

    • @legrandliseurtri7495
      @legrandliseurtri7495 3 года назад +10

      Yeah I do the same, but also in day time, because I have social anxiety.

  • @rosem4ry610
    @rosem4ry610 3 года назад +371

    “not all men” yeah kim namjoon wouldn't treat me like that

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 3 года назад +24

      All of BTS wouldn't they have beautiful souls

    • @brick7515
      @brick7515 3 года назад +1

      so you can excuse the racism and the dreads,,, lmao

    • @brick7515
      @brick7515 3 года назад

      @@pax9821 I'm making fun of namjoon for the racism and the dreads

    • @ash-kc7bx
      @ash-kc7bx 3 года назад +6

      neither would Kim Seokjin, Min Yoongi, Jung Hoseok, Park Jimin, Kim Taehyung, or Jeon Jungkook

    • @user-mt7xe3bq3h
      @user-mt7xe3bq3h 3 года назад

      @@brick7515 um?

  • @maggs810
    @maggs810 3 года назад +626

    A man I dated for a while told me that he "kept an eye" on a woman at night by following her from afar... when I asked what he would have done of she did get attacked he said he maybe would have done something it the attacker was alone.i had to explain to him what the woman must have felt for him to understand how wrong it was to good her, like she was probably keeping an eye on him (the creep following her) rather than some one else who might also be around in the dark. Such a stupid thing to do!
    Great video. The ignorance is baffling.

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 3 года назад +118

      I respect his concern, but jesus, I would've had a heart attack!

    • @maggs810
      @maggs810 3 года назад +116

      @@reharm_reality good intentions, very poor execution. Hopefully I taught him something

    • @g0oberdm417
      @g0oberdm417 3 года назад +13

      I feel like context matters of course but I'd say more often than not guys are looking out for their friends/acquintances. By context he might've been awkward or something. Usually I only watch out for those I personally know to some degree (on a night out) unless I see anything unusual (ie if I see a drunk guy/girl unaware of their surroundings I'll either call out to see if their friends are around or get them stationary and ask if they need help)

    • @min_nad
      @min_nad 3 года назад +7

      I'd be so scared ffs

    • @maggs810
      @maggs810 3 года назад +9

      @@min_nad I know right?! A colleague of mine tapped my shoulder IN BRIGHT DAY LIGHT and I jumped so hard 😂

  • @thelolitasystem6403
    @thelolitasystem6403 3 года назад +466

    Okay, but girls these days are just being raised to fear men
    Like, I remember when I was like 13 or smth and my chest and hips were growing (mind you I'm genderfluid, so it was a terrifing experience in itself), my mom wuould start like warning me to keep away from vans and men I don't know. She still warns me about that when I'm wearing tighter clothes, or a skirt. Yesterday I had a mental breakdown and went for a walk in a bad state of mind at the middle of the night and got chased down a street by three drunk foreign men.

    • @solarium_self
      @solarium_self 3 года назад +50

      Heyyyyyy genderfluid pride !! (I'm sorry you are the first genderfluid person other than me that I've come across, just your existence makes me feel valid) 😅

    • @landy9345
      @landy9345 3 года назад +68

      I'm so sorry that happened to you. Humans suck. 😔

    • @thelolitasystem6403
      @thelolitasystem6403 3 года назад +21

      @@solarium_self Eyyy, we exist :D

    • @hazeltrainer1111
      @hazeltrainer1111 3 года назад +17

      Are you okay?

    • @thelolitasystem6403
      @thelolitasystem6403 3 года назад +48

      @@hazeltrainer1111 Thanks for asking, sweetie. I'm fine. Thankfully I started running really early and managed to lose them. Yesterday was an absolute trainwreck. I walked around the city at night and then confronted my mentally abusive granpa, who is responsible for my trauma surrounding Christmas and practically ruined my life with his bullshit.

  • @47ratsinahoodie
    @47ratsinahoodie 3 года назад +494

    "People can be slim and unhealthy"
    Absolutely. For a lot of my childhood, I ate _a lot_ and a lot of junk food. I was one of the slimmest people amongst my peers for a while. By HS, that changed 😅

    • @spencerwagner903
      @spencerwagner903 3 года назад +9

      SAME!!! But my last year In college is when the body type changed on me

    • @47ratsinahoodie
      @47ratsinahoodie 3 года назад +24

      @Eliza Walker Obese and overweight are two different-similar, yes, but still different-things.

    • @spencerwagner903
      @spencerwagner903 3 года назад +22

      @Eliza Walker are you stupid? I know plenty of “obese” people who are some of the healthiest people I know! Just because someone has a poor metabolism or on the case of some a thyroid problem doesn’t magically make them unhealthy. I’m healthier now being over weight than I EVER was when I was skinny and anyone who knows me can tell you that.

    • @moi-manda4648
      @moi-manda4648 3 года назад +20

      @Eliza Walker By BMI, a lot of bodybuilders are obese. And as a child, i was technically obese (kids BMI is technically lower than adults), but I guarantee you I was healthy.

    • @moi-manda4648
      @moi-manda4648 3 года назад +7

      @Pen Bashiro, MD I wasn't talking to you, nor did I ever doubt that you know what you were talking about. Anyways, they didn't specify whether they were talking about body fat percentage or BMI. They have been rude under other comments, so I replied to them.

  • @eric6cartman9
    @eric6cartman9 3 года назад +53

    "you can't tell a persons health based on the way they look" THANK. YOU. this needs to be posted on a billboard or something

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад

      Except you can?

    • @EmmyJeanBean
      @EmmyJeanBean 3 года назад +2

      I saw a billboard that says "bullying hurts, please be nice" and honestly I respect that

  • @theroboticcat1370
    @theroboticcat1370 3 года назад +56

    "Fuck being the bigger person, I'm just going to start biting people" This quote embodies me about all these people

    • @adrih8694
      @adrih8694 3 года назад +1

      that is a gorgeous quote

  • @fluffysocks6321
    @fluffysocks6321 3 года назад +1779

    Transphobes: "tRaNs WoMaN Only gO iNtO tHe bAtHrOoM tO wAtCh mE"
    Oh honey
    Don't flatter yourselves.

    • @allijo28
      @allijo28 3 года назад +130

      omg literally like..you’re not that hot 🧍‍♀️

    • @SLYKM
      @SLYKM 3 года назад +72

      Yea good point. Why would anyone want to watch women while they take a piss or dump in public bathroom?

    • @indigotrails353
      @indigotrails353 3 года назад +36

      I’m sorry hun, what’s attractive about your flatulence? 🤣

    • @animatorblueberrysans7896
      @animatorblueberrysans7896 3 года назад +22

      yeah like... no one wants to watch you in the bathroom... especially not trans women

    • @snowflowersuna
      @snowflowersuna 3 года назад +40

      They have standards you know

  • @silvercandra4275
    @silvercandra4275 3 года назад +315

    Dear men,
    If you're scared showing emotions makes you seem weak, you should try to think like this: Being abled to show emotion shows others that you are so strong, you don't need to hide them to be strong. You can have emotions, show them and still be the strong, desirable person you are. If you have to cry and need someone to support you, that's okay and it doesn't make you any worse than anyone else.
    Sincerely, someone who likes men who show their feelings

    • @euphoria7372
      @euphoria7372 3 года назад +6

      _YessSss_

    • @somewhereinbetween
      @somewhereinbetween 3 года назад +12

      awh i needed this lol :,)

    • @shrek8339
      @shrek8339 3 года назад +8

      also if u don't like crying or sum just jump around, it helps

    • @sugar-and-stardust
      @sugar-and-stardust 3 года назад +10

      @@euphoria7372Exactly! Nothing wrong with expressing emotions! I feel that men are told that expressing emotions isn't a good thing, but that simply isn't the case! Please don't feel bad about it! You're a human! Humans feel emotions! Express yourself! Forget what society says. You and your feelings matter :)

    • @anthk.4846
      @anthk.4846 3 года назад +1

      @@sugar-and-stardust were not it is just that we have to be careful who we show are emotions to.

  • @imperfect_star8025
    @imperfect_star8025 3 года назад +195

    “Messy room is a reflection of a messy mind”
    Me, who just doesn’t have the will to do anything wondering if there is something up with me; 👁👄👁

    • @kittyplayz1480
      @kittyplayz1480 3 года назад +12

      Sounds like ADHD executive dysfunction. Because same

    • @rm2915
      @rm2915 3 года назад +2

      Sameeeeeee thooooooooo

    • @fizzles4393
      @fizzles4393 3 года назад +3

      If you think something is wrong mentally, please see a psychologist.

    • @sugar-and-stardust
      @sugar-and-stardust 3 года назад +4

      Me, who's entire desk looks like a junkyard puked on it, while I sit around listening to My Chemical Romance all day and stressing about school work that I don't even try to finish: that makes sense

    • @Min-qp9hv
      @Min-qp9hv 3 года назад +3

      When you don't have enough time to clean your room: ︶👄︶

  • @jadenmartin6856
    @jadenmartin6856 3 года назад +81

    I’m trans and if I HAVE to use a public bathroom it feels like playing a horror game. Like if I come out of that stall at the wrong time I might get attacked

    • @reneebear3641
      @reneebear3641 3 года назад +13

      I’m not even out & just happen to look feminine (again, AMAB, no transitioning) & honestly same when I go to the men’s bathroom.

    • @eldron29-a54
      @eldron29-a54 3 года назад +10

      I'm sorry that you have to endure day by day this horrible situation. Things gonna get better, trust me.

    • @vesperiamorningstar3785
      @vesperiamorningstar3785 3 года назад +13

      I almost used to never use the bathroom for this reason at school and in public. I’m too nervous to use the boys so I either use the disabled toilet/gender neutral or I don’t.

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад

      You should see a therapist then.

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад

      Baseless anxiety can be aided by medical professionals

  • @gerardsleftsock3946
    @gerardsleftsock3946 3 года назад +57

    Gotta love the passive aggressive "sir," titles :D

  • @lottie822
    @lottie822 3 года назад +16

    11:11 I remember one day my teacher was talking ab how men were usually valued more than woman, and talked ab female infanticide, and the only problem he saw with it was that not enough men could get married. 😕it just never sat right w/me

  • @babs_barbarian3778
    @babs_barbarian3778 3 года назад +101

    My 8-year-old self is quaking at your LPS earings

  • @scarlett3772
    @scarlett3772 3 года назад +36

    I just got done seeing this video of Ally Hills reacting to a “ How to Pick up Women” seminar for straight misogynistic men and I am shooketh.

  • @minerexsss
    @minerexsss 3 года назад +17

    14:30
    "We do not need men approaching us!"
    Me who is scared of every person at night: Or women?

    • @notoriousnosk8876
      @notoriousnosk8876 3 года назад +2

      yeah honestly just nobody should approach anyone at night

  • @Midas-cb1pe
    @Midas-cb1pe 3 года назад +6

    “Emotional men are gay” - A random jack@ss in my school that objectified his girlfriend. I’m a man, I have emotions. I was woman. I had logic. Sue me

  • @rae-n6c
    @rae-n6c 3 года назад +10

    my diet isn't necessarily healthy and i don't exercise (other than in school but since we're in quarantine, not so much) .. yet i still have a really small waist- doesn't mean im healthy or whatever.

  • @tori9197
    @tori9197 3 года назад +9

    daily reminder that only respecting women you’re attracted to isn’t respecting women💖💖

  • @cyanidesmile7263
    @cyanidesmile7263 3 года назад +12

    I find it funny when people argue that trans women shouldn't use the women's bathroom because then a predator claiming to be trans could go in and assault someone because those are the same people who will immediately cry out "not all men!" when you ask "so you agree, men are more likely to assault someone?"

    • @ira__s
      @ira__s 3 года назад +4

      Yeah, and the argument of "then anyone can go in and claim to be a woman then assault them" is so telling, cause a) they don't really think trans women are women b) it sounds like a predator cis men problem and not a trans women problem.
      Do something about the predators and don't discriminate against trans women over something they do not do.

    • @cyanidesmile7263
      @cyanidesmile7263 3 года назад

      @@ira__s its like they're trying to solve a problem by creating another problem. Plus they really think a sign is the only thing that will stop a predator?

  • @adelinereacts
    @adelinereacts 3 года назад +9

    “Women by nature are emotional and feeling based in their thought processes”... Bro we all have amygdalas, it’s literally human nature. I’m just picturing this guy being like “Each sex must have either an amygdala or a prefrontal cortex, nonexistent impulse control or nonexistent emotions, but never at the same time bc that’s how basic neurobiology works”

  • @seran3638
    @seran3638 3 года назад +11

    All boys should have to watch videos like this in health class. Even half of this information would help everyone so much.

  • @MEDSZ13.08
    @MEDSZ13.08 3 года назад +19

    ✨It’s the not letting men have emotions for me✨

  • @emmabutler1433
    @emmabutler1433 3 года назад +2

    As someone who came from a council estate/social housing background/family, why the ever loving hell is poverty a 'turn on' for some people???? Mad lad

  • @rhysqwerty8116
    @rhysqwerty8116 Год назад +4

    Don't approach anyone alone at night PERIOD

  • @Moo-2310
    @Moo-2310 3 года назад +6

    If loneliness was a choice I'd be much happier. You can choose to be alone, but not lonely. I am not alone, I try to make friends. I feel lonely because I know all but a few are fake.

  • @half-dollar-yorkie4839
    @half-dollar-yorkie4839 3 года назад +5

    15:07 Honestly a seemingly wealthy man is scarier to me. Means he could afford more things to hurt me with. Better quality weapons, restraints, etc that could be used against me. :/

  • @EternalDensity
    @EternalDensity 3 года назад +4

    When a guy says men's choices and actions are governed solely by logic, never emotion:
    Sir, what broke you? (Probably his dad.)

  • @lyricsman8498
    @lyricsman8498 3 года назад +9

    Her hair looks brighter than my future 😔👍

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 3 года назад

      Why do you think that did someone hurt you?

  • @figmentoffairies
    @figmentoffairies 3 года назад +5

    16:00 I was going to say how would a woman see a trans women's genitals unless the cis woman was creeping on her. Like you have to be looking over the stall

  • @DiMagnolia
    @DiMagnolia 3 года назад +2

    My attraction to men is proof that sexuality is not a choice. Maybe that's where my masochism stems from...

  • @mnstrchkn136
    @mnstrchkn136 2 года назад +1

    I would actually get more scared if a rich guy approached me alone in an alley way, because if he murders me, he has the money to keep it a secret.

  • @jrdnlyr
    @jrdnlyr 3 года назад +4

    "i can tell i'm depressed when my room becomes very very messy"
    me: *hasnt cleaned my room in 11 months and my floor has been piling up consistently with rubbish and clothes and assignments i dont do and theres deadass 2 spiders living under there*
    huh

  • @thegreatgoldensnitch9276
    @thegreatgoldensnitch9276 3 года назад +1

    You saying "Your body shape does not reflect your health" just really made me tear up as a recovering person with an eating disorder.

  • @mapletooth
    @mapletooth 2 года назад +2

    "Not all men" yeah Matthew Williams wouldn't treat me like that-

  • @oceanspace7671
    @oceanspace7671 3 года назад +2

    "poverty hasn't corrupted them." I'm pretty sure having too much money has corrupted you sir

  • @maishak06
    @maishak06 3 года назад

    dude, I'm like the most organised when my room's messy and it isn't how it works. It's person to person, seriously!

  • @lilyann1644
    @lilyann1644 3 года назад

    There are a few in this video that
    I think may have been taken a bit differently than they were intended to (like the dad bod one) but your discussion towards the way you thought they were written was on point, so I'm not really mad about it lmao

  • @lynn-qw3yu
    @lynn-qw3yu 3 года назад +7

    we sexualizing poverty now?!?!?

  • @hubbabubbabubbletape4696
    @hubbabubbabubbletape4696 2 года назад +2

    Are those my little pet shop earrings? I love it so much, your earrings are so amazing, it adds so much fun to your videos, like seeing what outfit mrs. Frizzle wears each episode

  • @eloidasarmi6815
    @eloidasarmi6815 Год назад +3

    When I'm alone at night time walking home or smt, can we agree to NOBODY approach me? xd

  • @ninac1954
    @ninac1954 3 года назад

    no way you have LPS hanging from your ears... nothing short of iconic

  • @hunibun2909
    @hunibun2909 3 года назад +1

    I'm trans (MtF), so I know how it feels to "Not be allowed to cry". It hurts.

  • @wyattcastle7225
    @wyattcastle7225 3 года назад

    I think something else that should be pointed out about the second post is that being logical and being emotional aren’t mutually exclusive. I know people that are amazing arguers but still cry at the end of Disney movies.

  • @thequeenofmags
    @thequeenofmags 3 года назад +5

    Could i vent a little? Ok, thanks.
    So i recently found out my hair is short enough to tie into a teenie tiny ponytail, and it's super masculine, yet cute, which fits my gender identity (don't ask me how something can be so manly looking while still being adorable cuz idk). So i figured that i'd wear it to school tomorrow! BuT, today is friday. We don't have school on saturdays. So i decided to wear it on monday, since we'd have school then, BUT WE WON'T HAVE SCHOOL THEN, winter break exists. So now i have to wait until january till i can show it off 😭

  • @raspberryy_jamm
    @raspberryy_jamm 3 года назад +2

    just because you are alone doesn’t mean you are lonely.
    and just because you’re lonely doesn’t mean you are alone.

  • @quantumgroovytime
    @quantumgroovytime 3 года назад +8

    Social experiment:
    So many people reply to my comments talking about my pfp. So respond to this comment if you recognise the characters

    • @milakaralejic8404
      @milakaralejic8404 3 года назад +1

      Nice choice

    • @djcherry3827
      @djcherry3827 3 года назад +1

      Mondo and Taka from Danganronpa?

    • @tryingmybardest4985
      @tryingmybardest4985 3 года назад +1

      Ishimaru Kyotaka and Mondo Owada from Trigger Happy Havoc

    • @Hana_H
      @Hana_H 3 года назад +1

      Mondo & Kiyotaka from Danganronpa 1

    • @AMA-bg3bn
      @AMA-bg3bn 3 года назад +1

      hi 👁

  • @MetallicPetals
    @MetallicPetals 2 года назад +1

    Sumo wrestlers are proof that sometimes, weight doesn't equate to health, God knows they could yeet me without issues lol

  • @rivkavermeij
    @rivkavermeij 3 года назад +2

    15:25 women's bathrooms have closed stalls usually, not urinals, so there's a really small chance such a girl will see an actual penis? It's not such a hard concept to grasp. (This in addition to what she said ofc.)

  • @a.kitcat.b
    @a.kitcat.b 2 года назад +2

    🌍I wanna create a world where everyone is androgynous until they can choose what they like. No one ever knows someone elses body parts or nothing. They just love who they love.🏳️‍🌈

  • @farookhabeba5398
    @farookhabeba5398 3 года назад +2

    2:32
    Me being a women and having INTJ personality type: BITCH HOW TF

  • @AnuraArtz
    @AnuraArtz 3 года назад +1

    If anything, being poor means you're a better person because chances are you aren't a greedy person...
    Heck, the *Bible* literally condemns people who are rich. "It's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." I'm majorly paraphrasing, but yeah, and there's plenty of other places. And I would know, I was raised in a conservative Christian house.
    I also wasn't raised in a super-wealthy household; I wouldn't say we were impoverished, but my mom was a stay at home mom, and my dad was the only source of income. He was a truck driver who worked 70+ hours a week just to keep us afloat. We've been renting the same place for 11+ years because it's the cheapest townhouse complex in our city. All of my friends growing up had more money than us. If I had to put us on a "class rank", I'd say we're lower middle class. (That being said, I'm much luckier than a lot of people, and my heart goes out to everyone who goes to bed hungry because they have no food in the house or who grew up in a household with abusive/alcoholic/drug-addicted families.)
    My dad wants me to marry some doctor dude and have a really nice house and car and live on an acreage on the outskirts of a really nice city, but I'd be perfectly content staying middle class and just having a moderate house in a small town. I also don't particularly want to marry a guy.... I'm pansexual with a feminine preference, which my parents don't know. My current girlfriend is trans, but my parents think she's a guy because they don't know she's trans, and probably won't be accepting of her when they find out heh. I'm nonbinary myself, which they also don't know. (And the ironic thing is, the Bible doesn't even speak at all against trans people. Also, if you do a little digging about the places in the Bible that could at all be used against people who aren't straight, then you'll quickly find that things aren't as simple as they appear. I will link some informational sites if anyone wants to in the replies.)
    So yeah. If anything, I'd say it's better to be on the poorer side, but we should definitely help people who are homeless or orphaned or even those that just need a friend. I hope you all stay safe out there and I love you regardless of who you are. ❤

  • @thequeenofmags
    @thequeenofmags 3 года назад +1

    Savannah saying messy rooms could be a sign of a messy mind and maybe depression:
    *Me whose room is constantly extremely messy, and that also has multiple signs of major depression and doesn't get sleep because of insomnia and negative thoughts, which makes me nauseous during the day making me feel terrible therefore creating an endless cycle of sadness:* no i think i'm ok 🙃

  • @ariangelcub1695
    @ariangelcub1695 3 года назад

    Not even just men approaching. The feeling over dread I get when a car pulls over is horrible (even if they are just trying to ask directions or get into thier driveway) i get so relieved when i see a woman or a couple in the car, because of way to many experiences with men in them...the fact that I have actually lost count...yikes

    • @ariangelcub1695
      @ariangelcub1695 3 года назад +1

      @Blu Cherries this is sadly true. But because men alone are the only ones who ever have (to me personally) I do physically relax upon seeing the driver is a woman or more then one person are in the car

  • @notcompletelynormal
    @notcompletelynormal 3 года назад +12

    This might be the point in history where we can just all agree that sexuality is not a choice. If they had the option to change, heterosexual women would not exist.

  • @charliecaturnip4438
    @charliecaturnip4438 3 года назад

    Some of those are legit scary that actual people think that ...

  • @VoltieBird
    @VoltieBird 3 года назад +1

    As a nonbinary pal who was assigned male at birth I feel like I constantly need to apologize for men. Please, men, stop.

  • @lxver777
    @lxver777 3 года назад +1

    Ok but those earrings 🥺💞💞I have the same butterfly one in my LPS collection

    • @lxver777
      @lxver777 3 года назад

      And he doesn’t have a name yet so if anyone has any name ideas I need suggestions 😌😌

    • @violence3919
      @violence3919 3 года назад +1

      Jeffery™️

  • @olivia0843
    @olivia0843 3 года назад +4

    girls with messy rooms have the best 🐱 (thats what i keep telling myself)

  • @moonbaby6813
    @moonbaby6813 3 года назад +1

    The national average for sexual partners in life is like 8. My guy.

  • @oliverkristensen6091
    @oliverkristensen6091 Год назад +1

    I just came home from a long walk and this video was suggested in my feed and I got so excited because it was a video I haven't seen before from you :D i'm binge watching your videos these days because you make me feel safe. Yay for you!! :D

  • @starsandcosmos31
    @starsandcosmos31 3 года назад +1

    7:49 i don’t know, bro, i guess it’s a common thing among a lot of men that basic kindness is a thing that should be celebrated,, i’m a guy too, and sure, i was raised in a shit household, but there have been so many other guys that i’ve just shown basic human kindness, and they think they owe me something? like??? just let me be nice to you, dude

  • @RADIOBAILEYofficial
    @RADIOBAILEYofficial 3 года назад +2

    Some of these men honestly make me ashamed to have he in my pronoun set (they/he) 🥰

  • @cristianabraham384
    @cristianabraham384 3 года назад +1

    I mean, most of the times women will see men as "weak" and "unattractive" when we show our emotions.

    • @dewpebble5980
      @dewpebble5980 3 года назад +1

      You just need to find some better people to talk to dude. I, personally, don’t know anyone that would judge someone for being human so I feel like you’ve cornered yourself with some bad souls. It is not the majority of women.

  • @leeminsung8312
    @leeminsung8312 3 года назад +53

    Oof I wasn't planning to be so early today but here I am 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  3 года назад +21

      fantastic
      (i like your pfp 👀 , loml)

    • @leeminsung8312
      @leeminsung8312 3 года назад +8

      @@TheQueerKiwi ack omg 😮 me too 🤧 idk what to say when you reply I get flustered brain go whoosh 🌬🍃

    • @boraanna_
      @boraanna_ 3 года назад +4

      @@TheQueerKiwi oh my god you are a stay too? how can you still be getting more and more perfect??? im so in love
      (edit: how the hell did i not see the video from few days ago??? youtube is a snake for not sending notifs but wbk 😐)

    • @judea9763
      @judea9763 3 года назад +3

      @@TheQueerKiwi my respect for you went ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

  • @nymphwtte
    @nymphwtte 3 года назад +766

    You've heard guys, gals, and non-binary pals
    Now get ready for: Kings, queens, and non-binary beans

    • @britishsongbird
      @britishsongbird 3 года назад +97

      I don't use pronouns, can I just be the ethereal being that watches over the world?

    • @marchistastygacha_6465
      @marchistastygacha_6465 3 года назад +53

      Me: Don’t call me she, him, or they. Just don’t refer to me :))
      (Not trying to offend anyone. Idk my gender yet but it’s along the lines of agender)

    • @hxneybeeceoofroseschannel1670
      @hxneybeeceoofroseschannel1670 3 года назад +106

      @@britishsongbird "Hello Kings, Queens, Nonbinary Beans, and raffledog, the dark void that oversees us :D"

    • @nymphwtte
      @nymphwtte 3 года назад +11

      @@britishsongbird sure why not

    • @hxneybeeceoofroseschannel1670
      @hxneybeeceoofroseschannel1670 3 года назад +16

      @Zac M nobody cares Zac, stfu please.

  • @Mothy2003
    @Mothy2003 3 года назад +2

    storytime: I'm the second most muscular out of my friends (Yes, including my guy friends). I can kick harder than a donkey and potentially crush melons between my thighs. I am also extremely out of shape and lazy as hell. I look like i could kick anyone's ass and send them crying to the ER, but i can barely walk 4 flights of stairs. Visually I look healthy, save for a little bit of acne. Physically, I have the stamina of a wet paper towel. You cant tell someones health at a glance

  • @danielle539
    @danielle539 3 года назад

    i can never stop staring at kiwi's eyeshadow. like, it's just done so well ?? it looks so good ???

  • @lilhedgehog8576
    @lilhedgehog8576 Год назад

    Na my messy room is a product of not knowing where to put all my stuff! Lol

  • @silu3737
    @silu3737 3 года назад +5406

    TW//: mentions of rape, shooting, and abuse
    The one about poverty bringing out the best qualities in people made me so mad. My mom immigrated from a part of Brazil that was really badly in poverty. She didn't have running water, she didn't have a car, she had to walk 3 hours roundtrip to go to school, her dad made the equivalent to 10 US dollars a week, her mom died when she was 8, her siblings abused her, she was raped by her older brothers, and she endured gang shootings. She still has trauma. Poverty is not a kink. It's a real problem that affects real people.

    • @juliasayuri7075
      @juliasayuri7075 3 года назад +517

      Oh man... What a strong woman 💛
      Greetings from Brazil

    • @smileofadreamer
      @smileofadreamer 3 года назад +329

      Hey um I am sorry that happened and I really don't wanna sound rude but please put a tw before that threw me off guard

    • @silu3737
      @silu3737 3 года назад +304

      @@smileofadreamer It's okay, sorry I didn't think about that

    • @anjaligangal8563
      @anjaligangal8563 3 года назад +176

      Omg, I'm so sorry she had to go through that, I hope she is fine now ( Ik these kind of things aren't easy to overcome) but I wish her good luck for her future❤️

    • @yumi-fn8ve
      @yumi-fn8ve 3 года назад +124

      Omg soooo sorry it’s not sexy or a kink it’s a problem sending her love 💕

  • @Rose-e4o1h
    @Rose-e4o1h 3 года назад +3131

    Man: *dehumanizes all women*
    Also man: why you reject me?:(💔

    • @isi100
      @isi100 3 года назад +161

      me is being so nice by dehumanising you :(

    • @captainsimbadog8347
      @captainsimbadog8347 3 года назад +28

      Ya he’s pretty dumb

    • @belengonzales3742
      @belengonzales3742 3 года назад +93

      "I'm a nice guy😭"

    • @min_nad
      @min_nad 3 года назад +84

      Lmao can you believe this happens to me almost every time? And the classic "ur cute but ur a feminist 🤢" And that, my pals, is how you select people

    • @eldron29-a54
      @eldron29-a54 3 года назад +59

      And them, this man blames feminism... That kind of man have no logic.

  • @FallenShadowwalker
    @FallenShadowwalker 3 года назад +4962

    "Women choose to be lonely" Dude you cannot choose to be lonely. You can only choose to be alone, but they are two different things. You don't choose emotions.

    • @iclynnx
      @iclynnx 3 года назад +270

      If loneliness was a choice, I would have tons of friends by now. Because I sure didn't sign up for this crap. But _nooo,_ I want to be lonely, right? It's not like I don't have a choice!
      But seriously though, it's so hard to find good people to become friends with. Especially when you feel like a loser compared to them, and doesn't go out much. My awkward personality gets in the way. It's not even funny or cute, I feel like people just get uncomfortable around me. I guess this gives me more time to myself at least... I have so much time I don't know what to do with it.

    • @catprincess2429
      @catprincess2429 3 года назад +125

      @@iclynnx So true! My classmates think my shy and awkward personality is cute. It really isn't. One time I was so scared and kept trying to hide behind my classmate because they were introducing me to someone and he just laughed and said "She's just being cute and adorable." I was in so much pain and trauma and I can relate to the "I have so much time I don't know what to do with it" part. (I have no idea why I typed this I just did)

    • @kxc7580
      @kxc7580 3 года назад +32

      @@iclynnx when you said you didn't sign up for this crap i felt that

    • @redpanda6497
      @redpanda6497 3 года назад +21

      @@iclynnx You're not alone with this feeling.

    • @ChelDorado
      @ChelDorado 3 года назад +30

      @@catprincess2429 before quarantine I would hide in the bathroom during lunch, and if I was late to class I'd just hide in the bathroom in fear of all the kids staring at me when I came into the room. And I never want people to think it's cute cause it's not. I always feel terrible when I hide away from my problems.

  • @cutaleenamirandeena4702
    @cutaleenamirandeena4702 3 года назад +926

    In Fact, a Friend of mine was flashed by a Cis Man in a woman's bathroom when she was 9.
    She was really traumatized by it and it was a really disgusting thing that happend. She just CAN'T go to the bathroom alone now. So the real issue here are Cis men doing things to harrass women
    Fun fact, this is the reason why we are so used and tought to always go to the bathroom in groups as girls that it became ''Quirky'' and something we do and don't really know why.

    • @Roselily-sj7dd
      @Roselily-sj7dd 3 года назад +44

      I can actually kinda relate to this. When I was younger my family was traveling and we were at this outdoor market thing and I had to go to the bathroom so my mom asked around to find one. When we walked in we saw some guy peeing and my mom immediately dragged me out to find another bathroom. I was too young to remember much about it. I don't know if we had walked into the wrong bathroom or if they had like share bathrooms or something but it was weird.

    • @lasofi5510
      @lasofi5510 3 года назад +11

      He's dead right?

    • @ZoobiethePopplio
      @ZoobiethePopplio 3 года назад +28

      How did a CIS man get into a girl's bathroom? Men and women have separate bathrooms for a reason!

    • @cutaleenamirandeena4702
      @cutaleenamirandeena4702 3 года назад +130

      @@ZoobiethePopplio he walked through the door... its kinda funny how easy it is for people that want to do bad shit to do bad shit

    • @cutaleenamirandeena4702
      @cutaleenamirandeena4702 3 года назад +10

      @@Wishtelle exactly

  • @Mel-kh2jn
    @Mel-kh2jn 3 года назад +437

    "Body count doesn't matter at all."
    *blushes* Aw, thank you! I really needed that today.
    *_hides the last corpse in my closet_*

  • @humbleproduction2045
    @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +2202

    So I'm married. To a burlesque dancer. But we just wanted a party to celebrate our love. Hence the wedding. Our marriage agreement is as long as we both want to be married and it's the best thing for us and our child we will remain married. If any of that becomes a no we divorce.

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  3 года назад +783

      yes! i 100% think that that’s what marriage should be , the celebration of love. it’s when it’s made to sound like it’s the most important event in your life and something to strive for rather than a celebration ? i’m not opposed to myself getting married in the way you’re describing , there’s just a very large ideology from so many that surrounds it.

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +269

      @@TheQueerKiwi we both agree completely. People that get married as a moral. Or for religious reasons scare me.

    • @hln9394
      @hln9394 3 года назад +101

      @@humbleproduction2045 I agree with you if by "religious reasons" you refer to people who, because of their religion, think marriage is an obligation. But as long as you choose to marry someone because you love each other, you both want it, and you think god can help you in your relationship, then I don't see any problem.

    • @ashleymusicx
      @ashleymusicx 3 года назад +42

      @@hln9394 I think he meant an obligation to because of your religion

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +57

      @@hln9394 as a devout athiest my marriage has nothing to do with god. However, if your faith strengthens your relationship (regardless of marital status) then beautiful. It's one more thing for you to bond over. I hope this answers your question. If not I'm happy to answer any questions you might have.

  • @bonzedemon3402
    @bonzedemon3402 3 года назад +2400

    The single dislike is a man who can't get a girlfriend

    • @icantplaythepiano6396
      @icantplaythepiano6396 3 года назад +31

      there are three of them...

    • @jayanthis947
      @jayanthis947 3 года назад +18

      @@icantplaythepiano6396 oooof

    • @billieeyelashextensions6622
      @billieeyelashextensions6622 3 года назад +8

      Bots Maybe 🤣

    • @allmakotosarebestmakotos4261
      @allmakotosarebestmakotos4261 3 года назад +76

      I don't see why I'm single, I'm a gEnTlEmAn!! I dehumanize, bully and try to control pretty much every woman I meet (especially the ones who won't sleep with me instantly). I only have feeeeemale friends in hope's of screwing with them. I'm a NICE GUY! Why are you all so rightfully repulsed by me >:(

    • @roro6320
      @roro6320 3 года назад +27

      So they hate women and call them whores if they don’t find them attractive

  • @salinasoderberg7009
    @salinasoderberg7009 3 года назад +4053

    "Not all men" You're right, Harry Styles wouldn't treat me like this

    • @veronikaduchajova589
      @veronikaduchajova589 3 года назад +243

      Yes but Harry Styles is Harry Styles

    • @alienindisguise5546
      @alienindisguise5546 3 года назад +462

      Hades wouldn't treat you like this. Zeus would though, and Poseidon...

    • @ddjsoyenby
      @ddjsoyenby 3 года назад +111

      tr@ns men too.

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 3 года назад +101

      None of my space bae's would either .. and then people wonder why i'm not interested in real people

    • @alienindisguise5546
      @alienindisguise5546 3 года назад +87

      @@litchtheshinigami8936 Gomez Addams

  • @izziealice932
    @izziealice932 3 года назад +420

    “Women are incapable of logical thought”
    Our frontal lobes: are we a joke to you

    • @Hellcat755
      @Hellcat755 3 года назад +10

      I don't know why I laughed so hard at this 🤣🤣

    • @notoriousnosk8876
      @notoriousnosk8876 3 года назад +4

      @@Hellcat755 same almost woke up my family

    • @ashitakedia5814
      @ashitakedia5814 Год назад

      Men: women are incapable of logical thought
      Also men: women mature faster than men

  • @probablysomeidiot1066
    @probablysomeidiot1066 3 года назад +1969

    do men believe that we don't close the doors in women's bathrooms ? like just walking around all lips out ? wtf wtf wtf

    • @Romanticoutlaw
      @Romanticoutlaw 3 года назад +378

      personally I don't get how men are just chill with urinals. Just sidle right up next to another person and pee?? Are they out of their MINDS??? If I was born with the kit that put me in male bathrooms, I'd be using the stall every time no matter what

    • @kurokasteele4830
      @kurokasteele4830 3 года назад +255

      As someone who's been of the men's-bathroom-goer variety, urinals are just as weird and gross when you're 'meant' to use them.
      Also a fun fact, depending where you're at, sometimes there are just less toilets to make room for urinals. I remember a friend saying the local park has three stalls in the women's, but the men's has one stall and two urinals. _And the rooms are the same size._ So they legitimately just cheaped out to get two urinals instead of two _whole_ stalls.
      Turns out all the jokes about women not pooping are wrong, it's the _men_ who don't poop.

    • @donotgotthis
      @donotgotthis 3 года назад +185

      "Just walking around all lips out-" THAT'S THE FIRST TIME I'VE SEEN IT REFERED TO LIKE THAT😂😂💀💀

    • @Xxsorafan
      @Xxsorafan 3 года назад +107

      They say this crap about women’s bathrooms yet have urinals like inches apart from eachother 🙄

    • @normanjessicaj
      @normanjessicaj 3 года назад +97

      Yeah, I was thinking "If you're letting your daughter is crawling under the stalls, its your fault what she sees."

  • @sarahbarabe8470
    @sarahbarabe8470 3 года назад +1185

    The transgender bathroom debate has made me believe that there are men who literally do not know how women's bathrooms even look like.
    Guys. We have only stalls. You will never see anyone's genitals ever. We don't stand near each other at urinals. Everyone is blocked off from each other.

    • @Min-qp9hv
      @Min-qp9hv 3 года назад +272

      Why do they even care about ""protecting women""? They act as if they NEVER sexualize everything we do 😣
      (Sorry for the disgusting english, it's not my first language lmao)

    • @leiacartier2259
      @leiacartier2259 3 года назад +89

      @@Min-qp9hv EXACTLY!!!! Also ur english is great 😊

    • @No-oj5ow
      @No-oj5ow 3 года назад +150

      All of a sudden they care about women and them not getting herrased...yyyet they will harras you if you wore a tank top 😩👌 chefs kiss

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад

      @@No-oj5ow wow, every man?

    • @No-oj5ow
      @No-oj5ow 3 года назад +105

      @@alecmullaney7957 just the fact that you commented that already tells me you might be one of them. If what I wrote makes you mad cry about it.

  • @wyld_wolfwin
    @wyld_wolfwin 3 года назад +2468

    Random incel: The majority of people sleep with 3 people a week
    Me (an ace): You guys are sleeping with people?

    • @spillingink5159
      @spillingink5159 3 года назад +81

      Ace Friend!

    • @terezakostacka3572
      @terezakostacka3572 3 года назад +77

      SAME! Love to see fellow ace people 💜🖤

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 3 года назад +96

      Me, a pan: you guys are sleeping with people?

    • @cary1056
      @cary1056 3 года назад +128

      I'm demi and I'm just as confused as you. I don't understand people that can just have sex with people, without knowing them really well. I will never understand the concept of a one night stand or a rebound.

    • @Alex-cm2ix
      @Alex-cm2ix 3 года назад +32

      Bi and also confused

  • @theturniptress805
    @theturniptress805 3 года назад +1327

    Oh I'm early, so anyway people:
    Sometimes you can get overwhelmed by negative stuff you see on the internet. Every time that happens, just get away from your device and do something you like. You can cook, draw, sew whatever.
    Yes, you should help to solve issues, but just stressing about it isn't doing anyone any good.

    • @iwillcry
      @iwillcry 3 года назад +24

      Thank you!

    • @silu3737
      @silu3737 3 года назад +4

      @@iwillcry Your name is iconic lol, my lil sis' bias is Yoongi

    • @silu3737
      @silu3737 3 года назад +16

      @@rosiebellamy3018 That's awesome! Lol, now I want a drawing of a frog🥺

    • @greysonseymour8185
      @greysonseymour8185 3 года назад +3

      Hey, thanks for saying this

    • @hekaterinedragon8776
      @hekaterinedragon8776 3 года назад +5

      @@rosiebellamy3018 AWW I like that!

  • @snoreze7117
    @snoreze7117 3 года назад +370

    An old man looked at me and said “Jesus is coming be prepared” and my witch ass just laughed-

    • @kittyplayz1480
      @kittyplayz1480 3 года назад +13

      You excited for the solstice? Or is it more something to be worried about

    • @rm2915
      @rm2915 3 года назад +17

      Hello there fellow witch

    • @johannaweichsel3602
      @johannaweichsel3602 3 года назад +7

      Do I need a rain poncho or something?

    • @nessyness5447
      @nessyness5447 3 года назад +12

      I would have said " ok, i'll buy tea and pastries then"

    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker 3 года назад +9

      I would love to be a witch, but I don't know how. lol

  • @Shoulderpads-mcgee
    @Shoulderpads-mcgee 3 года назад +2980

    “Women are incapable of logical thought” I guess we didn’t actually get men on the moon then.

    • @daddythanos9062
      @daddythanos9062 3 года назад +244

      @Eliza Walker the men aren't going to fuck you eliza

    • @hekaterinedragon8776
      @hekaterinedragon8776 3 года назад +93

      @@daddythanos9062 that's a big oof to her!

    • @Shoulderpads-mcgee
      @Shoulderpads-mcgee 3 года назад +116

      @Eliza Walker honey that’s some cringe

    • @loafabun3566
      @loafabun3566 3 года назад +107

      @Eliza Walker You might want to fact check before saying shit on the internet. www.theguardian.com/global/2019/jul/19/apollo-women-man-walk-on-the-moon

    • @meganbarber1713
      @meganbarber1713 3 года назад +221

      @Eliza Walker Stop with all of this internalized misogyny, it's just bringing everyone down. Women are just as capable as men when it comes to logical thinking, this is not a gendered thing. Come on, let's have a conversation, you never reply to any of my comments

  • @jaxb4500
    @jaxb4500 3 года назад +1834

    the littlest pet shop earrings give me the will to live

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  3 года назад +273

      😌🥰

    • @maxXxine0101
      @maxXxine0101 3 года назад +57

      @@TheQueerKiwi littlest pet shop was my childhood-

    • @jaxb4500
      @jaxb4500 3 года назад +10

      @DESTINY RODRIGUEZ right

    • @sadiesavanna8369
      @sadiesavanna8369 3 года назад +27

      Yup lps was my childhood it was really nostalgic to see those earrings lmao

    • @kaimoosie6866
      @kaimoosie6866 3 года назад +5

      Literally same cjjcdnsm

  • @alexrose20
    @alexrose20 3 года назад +1575

    men: women are too emotional
    LOGIC = MAN
    also men: 5 min rage attacks every time a woman rejects them

    • @rageshreesengupta552
      @rageshreesengupta552 3 года назад +13

      Lmao 🤣

    • @blueberrycowboy
      @blueberrycowboy 3 года назад +58

      i think you meant to say 5h

    • @silliestgoober69
      @silliestgoober69 3 года назад +7

      its more like overwhelming sadness and disappointment, and then a week+ long self evaluation of what is wrong with them, then an attempt to change, then they find a girl they like and repeat

    • @blueberrycowboy
      @blueberrycowboy 3 года назад +55

      @@silliestgoober69 incels don't change, love

    • @silliestgoober69
      @silliestgoober69 3 года назад +1

      @@blueberrycowboy not with that attitude

  • @chibicheri
    @chibicheri 3 года назад +3314

    What sort of adorable being is on your ears in this video?

    • @TheQueerKiwi
      @TheQueerKiwi  3 года назад +1591

      theyre littlest pet shops!

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +491

      @@TheQueerKiwi can you post a picture of them on Instagram? My daughter has been looking for crafts to do with hers.

    • @excadriean
      @excadriean 3 года назад +83

      20 hours ago but this video just came out

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 года назад +45

      They're so cute

    • @juliaconnolly5870
      @juliaconnolly5870 3 года назад +131

      @@excadriean it’s because they’re a member of the channel you can tell because of the little icon they have next to their name

  • @carly6013
    @carly6013 3 года назад +424

    I feel like the “I like people in poverty” is sort of equivalent to “I like trans people”, fetish wise. You are not attracted to the person, but instead that one specific aspect. You don’t care about their personality or all of the hardships that it brings upon them, just that you find it hot. You can of course be attracted to them, but when you would only exclusively date that group or people from that group solely because they’re from that group, then it’s a problem.

    • @youreoffline4934
      @youreoffline4934 3 года назад +38

      Actually. Like, poverty is a serious condition and it needs to be alleviated. It's not a good thing to fetishize.
      Smh p°rnhub influence...

    • @Elliott_101
      @Elliott_101 3 года назад +8

      this world is so messed up

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 3 года назад +16

      @@youreoffline4934 Porn is a brainwashing tool it's awful

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 3 года назад +2

      @@Elliott_101 Yeah I wish someone could put it in order

    • @Min-qp9hv
      @Min-qp9hv 3 года назад +1

      They could date Kenny from south park 🥺😳

  • @munkhbolorbukhchuluunsukh2568
    @munkhbolorbukhchuluunsukh2568 3 года назад +199

    “UNleSs heS wEll SpoKEn, rIch and whERes a SuiT rIgHt?”
    My man described a stereotypical sex trafficker

    • @bradwiehn6448
      @bradwiehn6448 3 года назад +47

      And serial killers.

    • @elsiest.irvyne9515
      @elsiest.irvyne9515 2 года назад +25

      And spoiled sons of rich families with no boundaries at all.

    • @nito575
      @nito575 Год назад +5

      And they be saying "well spoken" like if people shouldn't talk with education and respect by standar lol

    • @jsas2047
      @jsas2047 Год назад +3

      ​@@elsiest.irvyne9515 because they know they won't get punished like normal people.

  • @user-liv470
    @user-liv470 3 года назад +1292

    Do men forget that being angry is an emotion too?

    • @user-vt3ce3my5l
      @user-vt3ce3my5l 3 года назад +164

      If anyone is way too emotional, it's men lol

    • @aceatlasska4343
      @aceatlasska4343 3 года назад +104

      Ikr, I thought they were always going on about being manly and reckless and angry cos of testosterone? Ah, the lack of logic.

    • @rageshreesengupta552
      @rageshreesengupta552 3 года назад +69

      I don't think that's in their LoGiCaL ThOuGhts

    • @user-liv470
      @user-liv470 3 года назад +7

      @@rageshreesengupta552 lmfao

    • @existenceispain4333
      @existenceispain4333 3 года назад +42

      One thing my therapist told me was actually that anger isn’t an emotion itself, but rather a reaction to some other emotion. So if you’re angry, you have to look underneath that reaction, and realize what emotion you’re actually feeling and why. Just thought that was interesting

  • @liviahorowitz2225
    @liviahorowitz2225 3 года назад +467

    Person: “wOmEn arE IncApAble of lOgicAl thOught”
    Me: * looks over at my medal for winning k-8 school spelling bee, which I won in 4th grade *
    Me: * looks over at my dozen or so math medals from statewide math competitions that I won, despite COOPER being useless *
    Me: * sees my 4.0 GPA *
    Me: “seems legit”

    • @luvbug_m
      @luvbug_m 3 года назад +12

      source: just trust me

    • @alias4795
      @alias4795 3 года назад +1

      Weird flex but ok

    • @mshaqed2538
      @mshaqed2538 3 года назад +53

      @@alias4795 Its not a flex, its Livia saying that women are logical, and proving it with her achivements.

    • @alias4795
      @alias4795 3 года назад +8

      @@mshaqed2538 I'm joking lol. Just thought it was weird with how oddly specific it is.

    • @ludameri1384
      @ludameri1384 3 года назад +8

      Wow, great job queen

  • @iwillcry
    @iwillcry 3 года назад +507

    if a limo parked right next to me while i was alone at night I would probably think I’m getting trafficked

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 3 года назад +139

      Fr, like honestly I'd be more scared of a rich man. Rich men have power, are more likely to get away with it if I press charges, are less likely to look suspicious/be fought against if I scream for help, etc.

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 3 года назад +25

      Also stan min yoongi!

    • @iwillcry
      @iwillcry 3 года назад +23

      @@reharm_reality yea way more scarier. also hi!

    • @swarnaparnibiswas5038
      @swarnaparnibiswas5038 3 года назад +23

      If someone doesn't find this entire limo parking situation under this context even a little scary, I don't know what to say. Also, yes, stan Min Yoongi for better mental peace.

    • @rivkavermeij
      @rivkavermeij 3 года назад +6

      Yes honestly same, I'd probably be more scared if I was approached by a rich man alone at night. Especially in a limo.

  • @wafsack270
    @wafsack270 3 года назад +492

    As a gay guy, I really like laughing at these types of guys. Like I'm friends with a lot of girls and they're literally just people. I don't understand why so many straight guys act like they're a different species. The thing I always say to people that think it's hard to talk to girls is "just talk to them like a normal human."

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад +18

      Lots of guys believe women are different creatures because they spend their childhood being screamed at for being disgusting and inferior to girls who are above reproach.

    • @princeOpalite3650
      @princeOpalite3650 3 года назад +7

      This comment is criminaly underrated

    • @nohemizamudio1208
      @nohemizamudio1208 3 года назад +21

      @@alecmullaney7957 No, not at all. I mean i'm sorry if that happened to you in your childhood but I think that as a child myself I have never seen that behavior with any parent or my own parents. It's actually kinda the opposite, I mean I have seen many parents shame their sons for doing something that is seen as femmenine or if they arent brave ir strong enough they get called "baby" or "what are you, a girl?"

    • @alecmullaney7957
      @alecmullaney7957 3 года назад +2

      @@nohemizamudio1208 teachers all throughout my schooling made sure to remind us how much better our female peers were than us, and tried to condition things like "its never OK to lay hands upon a woman, even in self defense" on us. It's pretty standard.

    • @EzequielMartin55vf
      @EzequielMartin55vf 3 года назад

      Underrated comment

  • @haz.fellie
    @haz.fellie 3 года назад +465

    Hello, I'm married. My husband and I often talk about how strange the construct of marriage is, and concur that neither of us really care to be married-we just want to be together.
    But, ya know, taxes.

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +21

      Hi. Welcome to the club. We meet never and appreciate this similarity. Have a nice day.

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +29

      @Timmy L I am. I ended up an extremely masculine cishet man. So I just try to be there best ally I can.

    • @xmoonilyx2977
      @xmoonilyx2977 3 года назад +15

      @@humbleproduction2045 lol that rhymed

    • @humbleproduction2045
      @humbleproduction2045 3 года назад +12

      @@xmoonilyx2977 pure accident. But I'll take it.

    • @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404
      @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 3 года назад +5

      @@humbleproduction2045 we need more people like you

  • @s.sprotectionsquad8880
    @s.sprotectionsquad8880 3 года назад +958

    my parents will say that “Women already have plenty of rights and that’s all they need” when this shit still happens and it happens a lot i’m ashamed to live in my republican homophobic household while i be over here a democratic homosexual who believes in black lives matter and feminism
    edit:Thank you all for all the support ngl i didn’t expect people to see this! :)

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 3 года назад +50

      I love you, you're valid, and I'm proud of you. We will be your family!!! You belong here with us!!!

    • @jinglez6973
      @jinglez6973 3 года назад +26

      I'm so sorry! I know somewhat what it's like to be in your situation (off of what you described) and I know it doesn't feel good....but it's ok! We, the random people on the internet, care for you! 😺

    • @kittyplayz1480
      @kittyplayz1480 3 года назад +11

      Same boat fam, we'll be free eventually

    • @captainsimbadog8347
      @captainsimbadog8347 3 года назад +4

      I’m sorry you have to go through that but just look at the progress feminism has made theirs right women have the men don’t even have and doing a great job for their cause

    • @captainsimbadog8347
      @captainsimbadog8347 3 года назад +1

      @Twinkle Toes all right if I want to vote in America I have to sign up for the selective service
      If you don’t know what that means it means the government can send me to war without my consent and women they don’t have to sign that now I believe there is there for a reason men are generally tougher so if they would be better soldiers history has shown us that but it’s still if we’re trying to get full equality then you’ll have to give rights like that
      Also this is a very controversial but men have been put in jail for rape accusations even when there was no evidence that is kind of an unspoken right that women have it’s a little iffy because nothing legally says that but still
      Also general mutilation my parents can cut up my dick and circumcise me without my consent but you can’t do anything like that for a girl which makes sense but still it’s all right
      Women have the right to assume caregiver caregiver in a divorce so if someone’s mom and someone’s dad got divorced the woman would be the assumed caregiver even if they’re not a better parent
      I hope I explain that pretty well if you have anymore questions feel free to ask me
      Have a good day

  • @my-lady-greensleeves5831
    @my-lady-greensleeves5831 3 года назад +148

    I remember when I was younger, when people talked about their body count, I always assumed they were out killing people, lol. Wasn't until a little later I found out what it actually meant.

  • @ghostlystarsss
    @ghostlystarsss 3 года назад +613

    My sister literally sits around doing nothing, and she's just naturally always had a six pack. I do a lot of sports, and I still have stomach fat. Really like so much of it is just your body and how you are.

    • @existenceispain4333
      @existenceispain4333 3 года назад +61

      Yes! Honestly I eat like shit and don’t really exercise but I’m still slim and muscular (I’m female) But I am not healthy.

    • @spicytoes9174
      @spicytoes9174 3 года назад +19

      This is my brother omg for years this man has had abs but literally drinks Mountain Dew everyday and eats a lot like make it make sense

    • @derpyderp7269
      @derpyderp7269 3 года назад +20

      @@existenceispain4333 i would get your hormone levels and fat levels checked.
      Some people have too high testosterone and thats why they are muscular, and others that never move have fat around their organs in a way that makes them look muscular, when they are not.
      i am weak as shit and have literally no endurance, but i look very fit due to my fat distribution.
      damn i gotta live healthier e_e

    • @existenceispain4333
      @existenceispain4333 3 года назад +9

      @@derpyderp7269 that’s interesting. I was an athlete most of my life so I’ve built up a lot of strength and have maintained it after I quit playing sports. Despite not working out very much. My moms the same way in that once she gains muscle mass she can maintain it without doing much.

    • @candy-coatedrose513
      @candy-coatedrose513 3 года назад

      Omg your profile pic is god tier

  • @dilya5097
    @dilya5097 3 года назад +707

    “So how inclusive and validating do you want to be?”
    Savannah: *”Yes.”*

    • @serpentgoat6875
      @serpentgoat6875 3 года назад +30

      Our queen

    • @001simp
      @001simp 3 года назад +44

      I keep forgetting her name is Savannah

    • @serpentgoat6875
      @serpentgoat6875 3 года назад +23

      @@001simp such a beautiful name!

    • @rachellgomez8644
      @rachellgomez8644 3 года назад +13

      i didnt even know her name till now

    • @KinjiroTheThunder
      @KinjiroTheThunder 3 года назад +6

      @@rachellgomez8644 I just call her by her RUclips handle