This is one of the best videos I have watched in recent times . I have a daughter who is 2 year old too . The points you have shared here are absolutely right. I follow couple of them as you have mentioned and they really work .
Thank u so much. ഇപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്ന same problem. എന്റെ മകനും രണ്ടു വയസ്സ് ആണ്. അവൻ ഒത്തിരി ഹൈപ്പർആക്റ്റീവ് ആണ്.ഇതിലെ മിക്കതും ഞാൻ ഫോളോ ചെയ്യുന്നതാണ്. എന്നിട്ടും endhe അവൻ ഇങ്ങനെ എന്ന് ഒത്തിരി വിഷമിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട്. But ഇപ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് അതിന്റെ യഥാർത്ഥ റീസൺ കിട്ടി. അവനു അവന്റെ എനർജി റിലീസ് ചെയ്യാൻ വേണ്ടി ആയിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോൾ ഓർത്തു നോക്കിയപ്പോൾ, എന്റെ വീട്ടിൽ ചെല്ലുമ്പോൾ അവിടെ ഒത്തിരി ഉണ്ണികൾ ആണ്. അപ്പോൾ ഫുൾ ടൈം കളിയും ചിരിയും ആണ്. ഒരു വിധ വാശിയും ഇല്ല . തിരിച്ചു വീട്ടിൽ എത്തിയാൽ വീണ്ടും ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾക്ക് പോലും . Really thank u so much for this video
something i use is "diversion". When she goes cracky, i try to divert to some other interesting things,. They forget things fast and situation gets settled in seconds.
Good Morning teacher and Asha Mam. Very Very useful and valuable tips and information really help to deal with children with psychological view. Teacher my humble request is can u give some tips to deal with teenaged children especially in between 16 yrs and upto 19 yrs. We parents feel that our children are very much reserve type, wishing to remain alone and not wish to participate in social functions which invites tension in family. Especially son who s n plus two Always find in furious mood,not taking adequate interest in his studies and all. This tendency put we in tension about his future. I and my wife both are serving. I am requesting some useful tips,guidance or advice on this please.
Hi Hiba! Thank you for the comment. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try: 1. Areyenkilum physically harm cheyumbo udane avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam." Give her a hug if she allows you to. Otherwise just be with her and ensure her safety as well as others'. Physical aggression padillennu parayunnathinte koode deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Hibayodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua. 2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When she is calm and happy, tell them lovingly that hitting others is not allowed because it hurts. Also tell her safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis. 3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts the message that hurting others is bad. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard. 4. Try to engage her in physical activities as much as you can. Let her run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua. 5. Find out the root cause behing agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with her- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when she requests something in a kind tone, appreciate her for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it. 6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips. Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. 🙂 But if you're very concerned, do not hesitate to talk to your paediatrician. It will help to relieve your stress.
@@ashamathew8981 Thanku ma'am for replying , I already watched the video on positive discipline and currently be trying to incorporate the ideas , I can see some small changes in her behaviour ...once again Thanku Ma'am
Valuable msg dear maam ,when i feel demotivated i used to watch maams josh talk episode ,pls do a video like that ❤️🥰...മകൾ ആഹ്ണെങ്കിലും maamite talking oru friendinodu samsaarikunnapole 😄😄😄😄😊☺️🥰🥰🤩🤗
To be very open ente maka 14 months oru tasteum illlathe (sugar/salt/spices)1 um illathe kodthad ..avan athokke kazhiyukkum bt avan bayyynkara picky eater now he is 18 months
Hmm...As per the doctor's instruction, I had introduced the family pot to my daughter by 1 year of age. So around 1 year, I introduced to her whatever food was cooked for the rest of the family, as it is. Kids are generally picky eaters. All we can do is keep offering good food of different kinds and leave the rest to them. Thanks for watching and commenting🙂
I have a query madam... How to smoothly stop breastfeeding.. My child is an active child.. Loves my care and breast milk . Couldn't stop myself from giving him milk. He is 2 1/2 year.. When to stop and how. Tips.
Very informative and useful video. Will try implementing the tips and techniques that you have shared. I am going through similar phase with my 2year old baby boy. Thanks again for posting such videos☺️🙏
Thank u both Asha and Matilda for the useful and informative session As a grandma I also got some tips.May God bless u to present more sessions like this. 👍👍
Iam always a fan of aunty's talk..And Asha...you rocked.Loved the way you both complement each other.Was so natural and could easily relate..Waiting for more videos.Superb dear..Love to you and aunty
നല്ല രണ്ട് അമ്മമാർ. ഇതിൽ പറഞ്ഞ എല്ലാം വളരേ മൂല്യമുള്ളവയാണ്. ചിലതൊക്കെ ഞാനും പരീക്ഷിച്ചു വിജയിച്ചവയാണ്. എല്ലാം വിധ ആശംസകളും 🥰
Thank you🙂
Asha molude ee message kunjungale valarthunna ammamarku othiri prayojanappedum. Thanks molu.
Thank you very much Anna.
Thank you 😊
യൂട്യൂബിൽ വളരെ ഫലപ്രദവും പ്രായോഗികവും ആയ നിർദ്ദേശങ്ങൾ: ''Yes Parenting is a intellectua creative Job......
Thank you🙂
It was a Valuable and informative session...Great Thanks to Dear Mary Matilda Teacher and Asha Mam 🙏🙏🙏
Great to hear from you Mejo. ❤🙏
Thank you so much 😊
അമ്മ മെറ്റിൽഡ, മകൾ ആഷ സൂപ്പർ. അതിലും സൂപ്പർ ആകും കൊച്ചു മകൾ നിയമോൾ. 👍👍 സൂപ്പർ ടിപ്സ്.
Thank you so much😊
This is one of the best videos I have watched in recent times . I have a daughter who is 2 year old too . The points you have shared here are absolutely right. I follow couple of them as you have mentioned and they really work .
Thank you so much🙂
നല്ല അമ്മയുടെ നല്ല മകൾ ,നല്ല മകളുടെ അതിലും നല്ല കുട്ടിയായി നിയ മോൾ വളരട്ടെ .നോ പറഞ്ഞാൽ നോ തന്നെ ആയിരിക്കണം .👌
എത്ര നല്ല വാക്കുകൾ റെജിന. ❤❤🙏
Thank you so much 😊
Nalla oru vivaranagal thankuuu
Well planned, well packed, and very informative to all parents. Thank you teacher and Asha. 🙏👍👍👌
Thank you so much🙂
Thank u so much. ഇപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്ന same problem. എന്റെ മകനും രണ്ടു വയസ്സ് ആണ്. അവൻ ഒത്തിരി ഹൈപ്പർആക്റ്റീവ് ആണ്.ഇതിലെ മിക്കതും ഞാൻ ഫോളോ ചെയ്യുന്നതാണ്. എന്നിട്ടും endhe അവൻ ഇങ്ങനെ എന്ന് ഒത്തിരി വിഷമിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട്. But ഇപ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് അതിന്റെ യഥാർത്ഥ റീസൺ കിട്ടി. അവനു അവന്റെ എനർജി റിലീസ് ചെയ്യാൻ വേണ്ടി ആയിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോൾ ഓർത്തു നോക്കിയപ്പോൾ, എന്റെ വീട്ടിൽ ചെല്ലുമ്പോൾ അവിടെ ഒത്തിരി ഉണ്ണികൾ ആണ്. അപ്പോൾ ഫുൾ ടൈം കളിയും ചിരിയും ആണ്. ഒരു വിധ വാശിയും ഇല്ല . തിരിച്ചു വീട്ടിൽ എത്തിയാൽ വീണ്ടും ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾക്ക് പോലും . Really thank u so much for this video
Asha.Thank u very much for this valuable message
Good practical advices❤❤
When the child is small everything works. But when they grow up they get influenced a lot from outside. Hope even then things work as we plan.
Yes. But at least we can do what's in our hands.
I was glad to watch this valuable video.😊 It was highly informative. Thank you Ma'am &Asha.🥰
Thank you for your valuable information, please please upload a video of " how a working father should be "
Thanks for the feedback.
something i use is "diversion". When she goes cracky, i try to divert to some other interesting things,. They forget things fast and situation gets settled in seconds.
Very good video. This is first time i am commening about a video...on utube
Good Morning teacher and Asha Mam.
Very Very useful and valuable tips and information really help to deal with children with psychological view.
Teacher my humble request is can u give some tips to deal with teenaged children especially in between 16 yrs and upto 19 yrs. We parents feel that our children are very much reserve type, wishing to remain alone and not wish to participate in social functions which invites tension in family. Especially son who s n plus two Always find in furious mood,not taking adequate interest in his studies and all. This tendency put we in tension about his future. I and my wife both are serving. I am requesting some useful tips,guidance or advice on this please.
Thank u mam njanum 3 vayasulla kuttiyude ammayanu njanum ithil paranja pala karyangalum try cheyarullathayirunnu ennal veettil athinulla support vere aarum tharilla njan kuttiyude karyathil vaasi pidikunnathu poleyaa ellarum parayane pothuve kanduvarunna oru reethi athayathu kondum aavam
Hmm..I understand.
It was really good message from both of you 🥰🥰. A big love from NY
Chechee aa rutine enganeyaa onnu vishadheekariko
Nice video..Can u Pls share niya mol's daily routine
I will try to do that in a video. Thanks for watching and commenting🙂
Really wonderful....
Happy to see you both.....
Thank you sir 😊
Ajmal❤❤🙏
സൂപ്പർ very. Useful vidio. 👍👍👌👌👌
Thank you so much🙂
Thank you mam ...very very nice talk
Thank you🙂
madam,teenage conflicts and 3rd child below 10 ,pls explain one episode for good methods.
നല്ല അമ്മ നല്ല മകൾ
Thanks for the suggestion.
@@shailajavg9808 Thank you 🙂
Thank you mam
You are welcome.
Very good information !!
Good video...
My kid is nowadays becoming more aggressive😔
Aval vikruthi kooduthalanu, akramavasana athum ettavum ishtam ullavare nannai vedanippikkum, avalkk ishtam ulla dress mathrame idukayullu ... Snehathode paranju nokki onnilm rakshayillathe vanna situations il thirichu cheria shikshkal koduthu....ennitum prashnam kooduthal vashalakunnath allathe kurayunnilla
Any suggestions ma'am ..she is 2.5 years ols
Hi Hiba! Thank you for the comment. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try:
1. Areyenkilum physically harm cheyumbo udane avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam." Give her a hug if she allows you to. Otherwise just be with her and ensure her safety as well as others'. Physical aggression padillennu parayunnathinte koode deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Hibayodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua.
2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When she is calm and happy, tell them lovingly that hitting others is not allowed because it hurts. Also tell her safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis.
3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts the message that hurting others is bad. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard.
4. Try to engage her in physical activities as much as you can. Let her run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua.
5. Find out the root cause behing agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with her- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when she requests something in a kind tone, appreciate her for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it.
6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips.
Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. 🙂 But if you're very concerned, do not hesitate to talk to your paediatrician. It will help to relieve your stress.
@@ashamathew8981 Thanku ma'am for replying , I already watched the video on positive discipline and currently be trying to incorporate the ideas , I can see some small changes in her behaviour ...once again Thanku Ma'am
@@TechyMom-ft You're welcome🙂
Thank You Mam and Asha. The video is very helpful.
Thank you so much. Glad to know that.
"NO yude ennam kurakkuka" very good point
Ente monk 3vayass avarayi avanu bhayankara vashi upadravam pole anu ... Inikk ippo manage cheyyan pattunnilla engottenkilum povan thonnunu😥
Same . Mom of 3 year old boy.. Njn daily karayaranu avante vashi karaanm. Ipo ok aayo kunj?
Good message but chuttilumullavar aarum sammathikula.. Vaashikoppam nilkum kunjinte achanum achammayum.. Kurachu karayataenu vaeykunath kond kochinae maryadayk valarthan ariyatha amma aanu njan eppo
Very valuable and informative talk. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much🙂
Valuable msg dear maam ,when i feel demotivated i used to watch maams josh talk episode ,pls do a video like that ❤️🥰...മകൾ ആഹ്ണെങ്കിലും maamite talking oru friendinodu samsaarikunnapole 😄😄😄😄😊☺️🥰🥰🤩🤗
I was waiting for your feed back.Thank you very much ❤❤🙏
Thnk u mam for d valuable msg... dis is d situation nw I'm facing.... 🙏
Thank you for watching and commenting🙂
Very informative and helpful in the present day life style🙏
Thank you. ❤❤🙏
Thank you so much😊
The actions we take affect children. Whenever possible we should try to behave in a positive way.
Yes. Thank you for watching and commenting.
Very good talk mam...niya is so lucky to get a good mom like you .and u r very very lucky to b the daughter of your mom
@@amruthas5740 Thank you for the kind words. I hope Nia agrees with you when she grows up😊
Very well explained Asha.
Thank you very much Latha. ❤❤🙏
Thank you so much 😊
Valare nalla msge
Really a useful information. Thank you.
Thank you🙂
Great mothers make great children... madam Matilda and madam Asha are wonderful mom's.....l too long If l were a Niya..
Thank you Anil❤❤🙏
Thank you so much😊
Very useful വീഡിയോ 👍🏻❣️
Thank you🙂
Super asha. Brilliant. Me too tried all these.
Thank you 😊
Thank you so much🙏
You are welcome.
Great tips asha..thank you :)
Thank you so much 😊
Very good parenting tips.. Aa mol nalla kutty ayi valarate.. May God bless your family ❤
Thank you so much 🙂
Thank you. Othiri help cheythu....nerathe ariyan pattiyillallo ennoru vishamamundu
Thank you🙂
One of the best video i ever seen
Thank you so much🙂
I love that postive discipline 👌👌
Thank you 🙂
Excellent talk Asha
Thank you so much 🙂
Very nice and useful tips...
Thank you 😊
Thank you very much Yahyakhaan..
Asha, really loved ur message and these tips or guidelines will definitely help me esp with my kidoos🤗🤗Thankyou soo much👍👍👍
Dear Mereen
Thanks a lot for your support and encouragement.❤❤🙏
Thank you so much dear😊
well said Asha
Thank you 🙂
Nalla topic
Very nice talk
Thank you🙂
100% correct❤️😊
❤❤❤
Good informations
Thank you🙂
Love u bothhhh.😔😔😔😔😔liked this video..ente kunjine ethinte peril njn kollakola cheyyuvaa.
Mam paranja ee karyagl ellamm ente lifel undayitundd...
Very informative from two generations together
Thank you. ❤❤🙏
Very valuable msg.
Thank you❤
Hai Sherine❤❤🙏
Ashamole supper ayittund
Thank you. ❤❤🙏
Thank you😊
Nice tips Asha...keep it up.
Thank you😊
Really superb, I really appreciate your content, beautiful parenting 👍 👏
Thank you 🙂
very informative video
Great to hear that. ❤❤🙏
Thank you so much😊
Ningal oru AMMA aanu 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really wish to be one🙂
Superb asha😍
Hai Deepika thanks a lot. ❤❤🙏
Thank you so much 😊
Well done Asha😄nice topic
Thanks Mini. Love to hear from you.❤❤❤
Thank you so much😊
Today I subscribed this channel
Today I got valuable informations
Thank you mam and asha
@@praseethamohan5716 Thank you🙂
Thank you❤
🙂
ohh god oru pad ariv kittiyadh pole . thank you
Thank you so much🙂
To be very open ente maka 14 months oru tasteum illlathe (sugar/salt/spices)1 um illathe kodthad ..avan athokke kazhiyukkum bt avan bayyynkara picky eater now he is 18 months
Hmm...As per the doctor's instruction, I had introduced the family pot to my daughter by 1 year of age. So around 1 year, I introduced to her whatever food was cooked for the rest of the family, as it is. Kids are generally picky eaters. All we can do is keep offering good food of different kinds and leave the rest to them.
Thanks for watching and commenting🙂
Very good info
Thank you.
Teacher, ente mon 1yr&4month aayi, enne mon upadravikunnu(mudiyil pidikunnu,kadikunnu.. Etc) ath engane ozhivakum,
Athu pothuve kunjungal cheyarullathanu. Ente kunju angane cheyumbo njan udane avale maati iruthum. Angane cheyaruthu ennu deshyapedathe parayum . Kadikan safe ayitulla vere sadhanam kodukum ( anganeyulla teething toys vangan kitum). Ethayalum vere orale hurt cheyunnathu sammathikaruthu. Valuthavumbo ithoke maarananu sadhyatha.
@@ashamathew8981 thank you ❤️
Ente monu ne 1year 5month ayi EEG eduthapo tampertantrum anennu paranju kure time vashi pidichu karayum enit njagal purathoke poyi bikil kodupovumbol kurayum urakka kuravum ude... Pinne normal avum pls reply
Useful video
Thank you🙂
Great msg...
Thank you.
Well done Asha👍🏻👌 very informative & valuable msg. Thank you😄
Dear Lizy thank you very much. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much aunty 😊
Super...Asha...
Thank you so much😊
Chechiyude role model amma aavate.moledeth chechiyum aavate
Niyalk athokke food aane koduthirunnath
Valuable experience 👍
Thank you. ❤❤🙏
Good video ma'am so inspiring my daughter!s name also niya 😁
Thank you so much. Love to Niya❤
Great 😊🥰🥰🥰👏👏👏👏
Food chart idamo for 3, year
Thankyou ❤️ this was very halpful :)
Glad to know that😊
Excellent dear Mam
Thank you😊
But grandparents ellaa karyangalkum support cheythaal nmml enthu cheyyum madam.... 😔
We can just keep doing our part. And try to convince them. But it can be a challenge, I agree.
@@ashamathew8981 ok thnk uuu mam🥰🥰🥰🥰
So simple is your dauhter dear mam
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I have a query madam... How to smoothly stop breastfeeding.. My child is an active child.. Loves my care and breast milk . Couldn't stop myself from giving him milk. He is 2 1/2 year.. When to stop and how. Tips.
Really helpful♥️
Glad to know that🙂
Good video
Thank you Priya❤❤🙏
Thank you😊
Asha is rocking like you Matilda. Keep it up Asha
Thank you so much aunty😊
Very informative and useful video. Will try implementing the tips and techniques that you have shared. I am going through similar phase with my 2year old baby boy. Thanks again for posting such videos☺️🙏
Very usefula
Thank u both Asha and Matilda for the useful and informative session
As a grandma I also got some tips.May God bless u to present more sessions like this. 👍👍
Thank you so much 😊
Hema dear thank you.❤❤🙏
Aarodu parayan aaru kelkaan . grandparents ithinonnum sammathikkillaa
Positive thoughts ..
Thank you. ❤❤🙏
Thank you
Good message
Iam always a fan of aunty's talk..And Asha...you rocked.Loved the way you both complement each other.Was so natural and could easily relate..Waiting for more videos.Superb dear..Love to you and aunty
So sweet of you Hanna. Thank you.
Dear Hanna you made us very happy. Thank you. ❤❤🙏
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