Bring Up Your Kid with Positive Discipline | Parenting Tips Malayalam | Dr. Mary Matilda

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • Parenting has become highly challenging in the current scenario. Parents find it very difficult to cope up with the fast changing world which highlights individual freedom and rights of children. For the wellbeing of our society, we have to set norms and limits for children. This becomes highly challenging when we deal with kids during these challenging times. Modern psychology gives a solution for this problem namely Positive Discipline. In this parenting video, Asha illustrates the concept of Positive Discipline by sharing her personal experience as the mother of a 2 year old kid.
    #positivediscipline #positiveparenting #MaryMatilda #gentleparenting #parentingtips
    Dr. Mary Matilda is the former Principal of Maharajas College Ernakulam. She is a well known motivational speaker, corporate trainer & life skills/soft skills coach. She has Master’s degrees in Mathematics (MSc & M.Phil), Education (M.Ed), Business Administration and Management (MBA), Women Studies (MWS), Applied Psychology (M.Sc), and Ph.D. in women’s studies. She is also a Graduate in Law (LLB).

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  • @omanaroy8412
    @omanaroy8412 2 года назад +14

    അമ്മ യും മകളും കൂടി നല്ല നല്ല കാര്യങ്ങൾ പറഞ്ഞു. കുഞ്ഞു മക്കൾ ഉള്ള മാതാപിതാക്കൾ എല്ലാ വരും ഇത് കേട്ടിരുന്നെക്കിൽ...!!!!

  • @balkiisyasiin4524
    @balkiisyasiin4524 3 года назад +13

    ചെറുപ്പക്കാരായ മാതാപിതാക്കൾക്ക് വളരെ ഉപകരിക്കും.. രണ്ടാൾക്കും 👏👏👏🙏

  • @sanvi1997
    @sanvi1997 2 года назад +17

    ഇതിൽ വീട്ടിലുള്ളവരുടെ സപ്പോർട്ടും ആവശ്യമാണ്‌. അടിച്ചു വളർത്തണം എന്നു പറയുന്നവരാണ് ഇപ്പൊഴും കൂടുതൽ ...

    • @pachusvlog675
      @pachusvlog675 2 года назад

      Kuttikal enthenkilum cheythal ammamarkk valarthan ariyilla enne parayu. Nammal enth cheythalum avar kuttam mathre parayu. Nammal cheyyunnath onnum avar kaanilla. Ath nalla oru sensil edukkukayum illa. Ingane okke aavumbol aanu ammamarkk sangadam varunnath

    • @sanvi1997
      @sanvi1997 2 года назад +1

      @@pachusvlog675 സത്യം. ഹസ്ബൻഡ് പോലും ഇങ്ങനെയാണ്

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +2

      Yes, it can be a challenge.

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  2 года назад +2

      അവർക്കു ഈ വീഡിയോ ഒന്ന് share ചെയ്തു നോക്കാമോ?

    • @sanvi1997
      @sanvi1997 2 года назад +2

      @@MaryMatilda ഗ്രാൻഡ് പേരെന്റ്സിന്റ കാര്യമാണ് mam പറഞ്ഞത്. അവർക്ക് അടിച്ചു വളർത്തുകയും പേടിച്ചു വളരുകയും ചെയ്താലേ കുട്ടികൾ നന്നാവൂ എന്നുള്ളത് മനസ്സിൽ ഉറച്ചുപോയി

  • @neetanair4225
    @neetanair4225 2 года назад +2

    Positive discipline is truly effective. I did it 20 yrs back. The circumstances were not fully conducive. What all I did was effective in long run .In short, it's proved in my life . The presentation was superb.

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  2 года назад

      ❤❤

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you for the lovely feedback and the reassuring comment🙂

  • @drgeenageorge3914
    @drgeenageorge3914 2 года назад +7

    Maam, i remember attending ur classes when I was in 8th -9th std part of PBU program. Recently i was thinking about that and surprisingly this channel came in my suggestions out of nowhere. Thank u maam for the beautiful videos

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  2 года назад +1

      Hai Geena great to hear from you. Thank you❤❤🙏

  • @hannahmk3200
    @hannahmk3200 2 года назад +6

    I watched the video and loved the concept of firm but gentle..... and I used to be so when I was having my first child alone..I very much cared while behaving and talking to her...now I'm a mom of three(5y,2.5, and 3months).... no way I can handle the situation in gentle manner....I would like you do video about dealing with more than one child with less age difference.....

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +1

      Hi Hannah. Thank you for watching and commenting. I can imagine how tough it must be for you. It's quite natural to get angry and stressed but learning and practising ways to manage it may help. Also getting support from others in whatever ways possible can bring some relief. Since I don't have experience parenting siblings, I have little to share.

    • @shameenashihab7321
      @shameenashihab7321 2 года назад

      Super asha...

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      @@shameenashihab7321 Thank you🙂

  • @sudhinvijayan9474
    @sudhinvijayan9474 3 года назад +4

    Gentle but firm.
    ഞാൻ ഒരു parent അല്ല. പക്ഷെ പഠിക്കാനുണ്ടായിരുന്നു ഇതിൽ.
    Parenting ഒരു കടമ എന്നതിലുപരി passion ആയി enjoy ചെയ്യുന്ന ഒരു വ്യക്തിയെയാണ് ആശയിൽ കാണുന്നത്. ഒരേ സമയം കുഞ്ഞിനോടുള്ള സ്നേഹത്തോടൊപ്പം പേരെന്റ്റിംഗിന്നായി ഇടുന്ന effort inte റിസൾട്ടിൽ സന്തോഷിക്കുന്നുമുണ്ട്.
    Keep up the good work both of you 👏

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  3 года назад

      Parent അല്ലെങ്കിലും ഇതൊക്കെ അറിയാനുള്ള താല്പര്യം ഉണ്ടെന്നറിഞ്ഞതിൽ വളരെ സന്തോഷം. ഒരു regular viewer എന്ന നിലയിൽ താങ്കളുടെ ഓരോ വിലയിരുത്തലുകളും വളരെ വിലപ്പെട്ടതാണ്.

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you so much for the constant support.🙂

  • @passiontotravelbykarthika9441
    @passiontotravelbykarthika9441 3 года назад +9

    Thanks again,loved both u r daughter's session.As a mother of 3year old I understand what I have to change..very useful 👍and a fact is still many people think that parenting is only mother's responsibility

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  3 года назад +2

      Definitely we have to change the system slowly and steadily.❤❤

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +1

      Thank you🙂

  • @mereenjoe6525
    @mereenjoe6525 3 года назад +6

    The most waited video... Expecting more related topics😄😄😄

  • @WithLuvRia
    @WithLuvRia 2 года назад +3

    Mam, valare nalla channel.. I came across your channel only yesterday and I am loving every video.. been binge watching.. being a millennial parent, we wish and try to change many traditional parenting methods.. it is so relieving to see our moms support and acknowledge the new ideas..
    One thing I have heard that helped my attitude towards our child is, 'treat your child like you would treat your guest'.. like you mentioned, less commands more explanation and patience.. Thanks alot for sharing..

  • @SS-bt1ro
    @SS-bt1ro 3 года назад +16

    I’m a mother of a 7 year old boy. I am practicing positive discipline till now… but recently I noticed that my son is feeling too sad for small corrections or criticism from someone.. how can I make him emotionally strong to bravely face the difficulties of life?
    Expecting more videos on parenting. Thank you

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +6

      I will try to do a video on it. But I think it's ok to be sensitive. Afterall it's a quality that seems to be lacking in today's world. Only sensitive people can be empathetic towards their fellow beings. As a child, feeling sensitive or feeling any emotions is a part of healthy development. Studies say that having a positive parent or any positive adult for that matter helps the child to cope with such challenges in the long run. So positive parenting acts as a buffer against negative experiences. By listening to their woes empathetically and validating their feelings, they will feel better and will slowly learn to handle such emotions by themselves. At the same time, as parents we can also give opportunities and have conversations to increase their self confidence. We can also share similar stories that we experienced and how we dealt with them. Above all, we can be good role models in how we handle criticism.

    • @bindutv4847
      @bindutv4847 2 года назад +2

      Try to teach him karate practice

    • @fasilapppp2708
      @fasilapppp2708 2 года назад

      I've 6 yr old girl n 8yr oldboy
      I'm a commanding parent or mother to them. How can I change my attitude towards them.... Pls reply

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +5

      @@fasilapppp2708 Hi Fasila! I think all the points in my video are more or less related to that. Also, if you replace phrases like "DO THIS", "DON'T DO THAT" etc. with "How about doing it this way?" or "Come, let's clean up the toys" in respectful tone, it will be half the job done. Instead of giving orders, we can try asking for their cooperation. While enforcing rules, what has worked for me is validating their feelings and supporting them while they have an emotional outburst, instead of blaming or ignoring or distracting. For example, when my daughter says she wants to watch more TV and cries, I tell her that I understand how bad she feels etc. but TV time is over and that I will comfort her. So she feels better. Also I give her heads up before it's time to switch off the TV. That is, I tell her "We will switch off after 5 min" or "after this song". Also, I give the remote to her to switch off. That's like giving her the power and she feels good about it. These are some everyday examples. Hope it was helpful. Thanks much for watching my video.

  • @happylifeofsafu4877
    @happylifeofsafu4877 2 года назад

    Angane nalloru channel kandethi...thanks Amma and chechi..iniyum orupad ithpolthe vdios idanam..orupad arivukal njnglilek pakarnn tharanam..aarogyavum aayusum undavatee

  • @lakshmikuttan2076
    @lakshmikuttan2076 2 года назад +1

    I think this is the best parenting video or advice that I have seen ever in mu life. Very true, meaniful and practical things to try in our life.. Thanks a lot👏👍

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you so much for such encouraging words.❤

  • @krishnanmg1234
    @krishnanmg1234 3 года назад +5

    Beautiful presentation and informative. It will very helpful for all parents 💖🌹🙏🙏🙏

  • @anilsirscommerceclass6844
    @anilsirscommerceclass6844 3 года назад +9

    Yes Mam, tone is very important while talking with all humans

  • @sri6591
    @sri6591 2 года назад +9

    യ്യോ, ഞാൻ full wrong ആയിരുന്നോ. പാവം എന്റെ കുഞ്ഞു. ഇന്ന് മുതൽ തിരുത്താൻ ശ്രെമിക്കാം ❤

  • @saranyaaneesh7274
    @saranyaaneesh7274 2 года назад

    Ente kuttik 4 vayasayi,..e video nerathe kanandatharunu.. ethil paranja palathum njan follow cheyarund.. but commanding tune anu enikum.. short tempered anu njn. Prayam polum marannu kunjine palapozhum adikarund.. adich kazhinj orkum vendarunu enu.. but desyam control cheyan palapolum sadhikarila.. eniyum sradhikum. Thanku dears..

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

  • @graceammapappachan2608
    @graceammapappachan2608 2 года назад +3

    Thanks a lot. Good experience and good explanations. Value it more.

  • @sureshbabu3794
    @sureshbabu3794 3 года назад +4

    Very informative and very true in life.
    Excellently presented. 🙏🏽

  • @Ayisha6639
    @Ayisha6639 2 года назад

    ഞാൻ ആറും മൂന്നും വയസ്സുള്ള രണ്ട് കുട്ടികളുടെ അമ്മയാണ്,കല്യാണത്തിന് മുൻപ് ഞാൻ വളരെ active ആയ ചുറുചുറുക്കുള്ള ഒരാൾ ആയിരുന്നു, എന്തു സിറ്റുവേഷൻസിലും matured ആയി പെരുമാറാൻ എനിക്ക് കഴിയുമായിരുന്നു, എന്നാൽ ആദ്യത്തെ മോൾ ജനിച്ച ശേഷം എനിക്ക് post patrum deppression, thyroid problems, pcod എല്ലാം വന്നു, അതുകൊണ്ടാണോ എന്നറിയില്ല ഞാൻ ആൾ ആകെ മാറി, മോളെ വളർത്തുമ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് ഒരുപാട് താ ളപ്പിഴകൾ പറ്റി,ഞാൻ ഒരിക്കലും എന്റെ മോൾക് നല്ല ഒരു അമ്മയായിരുന്നില്ല. ചേച്ചി മുൻപൊരു വിഡിയോയിൽ പറഞ്ഞത് പോലെ അവളെക്കുറിച്ച് എനിക്ക് ഒരുപാട് expectation ആയിരുന്നു, but അവൾ അതിനു വിപരീതമായി പെരുമാറുമ്പോൾ എനിക്ക് ദേഷ്യവും സങ്കടവും ഒന്നും control ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റാതായി, തോന്നിയപോലെ മോളോട് പെരുമാറി. അന്ന് എന്റെ parents എന്നെ ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങളിൽ തിരുത്താൻ ശ്രമിച്ചെങ്കിലും എനിക്ക് അതൊന്നും ഉൾകൊള്ളാൻ ആയില്ല, പിന്നീട് രണ്ടാമത്തെ കുഞ്ഞുണ്ടായപ്പോഴേക്കും എനിക്ക് എന്റെ mistakes മനസ്സിലാവാൻ തുടങ്ങി പക്ഷെ അപ്പോഴേക്കും എന്റെ മൂത്ത മോൾ ആകെ മോശമായിപ്പോയിരുന്നു, ഏതു കാര്യവും അടി കിട്ടിയാൽ മാത്രമേ ചെയ്യൂ എന്ന അവസ്ഥയിലാണവൾ ഇപ്പോൾ.ഒരുപാട് കുറ്റബോധം തോന്നുന്നു, പക്ഷെ എങ്ങനെ ഇതിൽ നിന്നും പുറത്ത് കടക്കുമെന്ന് അറിയില്ല, ഇനി ഒരു അമ്മയ്ക്കും ഇതുപോലെ ഒരു അവസ്ഥ വരാതിരിക്കാനാണ് ഞാൻ ഈ എക്സ്പീരിയൻസ് share ചെയ്യുന്നത്.
    ചേച്ചിക്ക് എന്നെ ഒന്ന് help ചെയ്യാമോ.... Reply please

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +2

      Hi Izza! Thank you for sharing this. Please do not blame yourself. This realization and the willingness to change itself makes you a parent no less than anyone else. It's never too late. Establishing a strong connection is the foundation and we can do it at any age, just that the earlier the better and the easier. Since kids are naturally inclined to be attached to parents, we can regain the connection even after it's lost. I'll soon do a video on it. I hope it will help you.

    • @Ayisha6639
      @Ayisha6639 2 года назад

      @@ashamathew8981 Thank you for your valuable words, it means a lot to me, waiting.... 🤞🏻

    • @sarithapm2097
      @sarithapm2097 2 года назад +1

      എന്റെ അനുഭവം ഇത് തന്നെയാണ്.. ഞാൻ ഇപ്പോൾ മകളോട് കൂടുതൽ സ്നേഹം കാണിക്കാറുണ്ട്. അവളെ ഒരു കൂട്ടുകാരിയായി കാണുന്നു.

    • @Ayisha6639
      @Ayisha6639 2 года назад

      @@sarithapm2097 മോൾക് എത്ര വയസ്സുണ്ട്

    • @sarithapm2097
      @sarithapm2097 2 года назад

      @@Ayisha6639 8 year

  • @piusdane
    @piusdane 2 года назад

    Matilda Teacher , Asha and Niya
    3 Angels 😇
    God Bless you ☺️

  • @Elizabeth-xr3re
    @Elizabeth-xr3re 2 года назад +5

    മുത്തശ്ശി യുടെ പലഹാരകഥ കേട്ട് 😄.. Thank you vry much for this episode.. God bless you both of you...

  • @SUDHANYAJIJO
    @SUDHANYAJIJO 2 года назад

    വളരെ നന്നായിട്ട് പറഞ്ഞു തന്നു thanku dearzz ❤

  • @indurajesh1269
    @indurajesh1269 2 года назад +2

    Ma'am, teenagers ine kurichu parents sradhikanda karyangal detail aayi oru video idaamo... Orupad parents inu helpful aakumaayirunnu

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Mom has done a video on it. ruclips.net/video/YtZsBbFnaNk/видео.html

    • @indurajesh1269
      @indurajesh1269 2 года назад +1

      @@ashamathew8981 thank you dear

  • @yogamalayalamasha
    @yogamalayalamasha 3 года назад +1

    Good topic 🙏🏻

  • @nishaneelakantan7874
    @nishaneelakantan7874 2 года назад +2

    I am so proud that I know you Asha ❤️I can’t express how happy I am to see you and mom talk such sensible points to deal with kids. I am someone who follows gentle parenting a lot and you have put everything in a nutshell in your 10 points 👍👍👍

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      This is such a sweet surprise Nisha! So glad to hear such lovely feedback from fellow mommies. Thanks much for the support🙂

  • @padmamk4164
    @padmamk4164 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Asha. Your ideas are really helpful in looking after my Granddaughter. Padmam ❤

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you so much aunty❤ Glad to know that.

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  2 года назад

      Padmam so happy to hear from you. ❤🙏

  • @soumyajinson
    @soumyajinson 2 года назад

    I have attended few parenting sessions here and trying to follow , and your video was more simplified and easy to follow , I also wish to know how I deal with sensitive kids

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for such encouraging words and for the feedback.

  • @beegumhashimuddin4187
    @beegumhashimuddin4187 2 года назад

    👏👏 so impressive as it is practical and hence subscribed

  • @kavyajayakumar111
    @kavyajayakumar111 2 года назад

    mam pls do more videos on gentle parenting, dealing tantrums ,

  • @anilsirscommerceclass6844
    @anilsirscommerceclass6844 3 года назад +4

    Proactive handling.
    It's useful in many circumstances, even in official life

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  3 года назад

      Dear Anil thank you. ❤❤🙏

  • @rohinivk5259
    @rohinivk5259 3 года назад +1

    Yes.I understand. What i have to change.Thank you.super Session

  • @sudhaanaghs9517
    @sudhaanaghs9517 2 года назад +1

    Very much interested wounderful explanation l

  • @sanvisayusvlog6737
    @sanvisayusvlog6737 2 года назад

    Very informative .Thank u for ur valuable advice

  • @nebinthomas5011
    @nebinthomas5011 3 года назад +1

    Very useful message..God bless you

  • @anilsirscommerceclass6844
    @anilsirscommerceclass6844 3 года назад +3

    Very useful video for parenting

  • @catharinecheriyan2536
    @catharinecheriyan2536 2 года назад

    Very informative and useful

  • @pmmohanan660
    @pmmohanan660 2 года назад

    Daughter is just like mother thanks for the video

  • @yesodharank7510
    @yesodharank7510 2 года назад +1

    More thanks.....Teacher

  • @dr.ajmalaboobacker9491
    @dr.ajmalaboobacker9491 2 года назад

    Amma and Amma very inspiring......

  • @sujasara6900
    @sujasara6900 2 года назад

    Very informative thank you both of you

  • @anniejoseph8336
    @anniejoseph8336 2 года назад +1

    Very helpful message 👍

  • @haridas6666
    @haridas6666 3 года назад +1

    Right roles!

  • @nithyasnuances2100
    @nithyasnuances2100 3 года назад +3

    Wonderful work my dear teacher ❤❤❤ stay blessed and charming as always.

  • @nalinakumari3
    @nalinakumari3 2 года назад +2

    TV കാണിച്ച കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങൾ ടീവി ഉണ്ടെങ്കിലേ ഉണ്ണുള്ളൂ ഉറങ്ങുള്ളൂ. മറ്ജ്രമല്ല ഈ കോവിഡ് കാലത്ത് സംസാരംപോലും ഇല്ലാത്തവരായി തീരുന്നു. ഇതിനെന്തു പ്രതിവിധി?

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Oru fixed time il mathram TV kanan anuvadikua. Njan evening 1 hour aanu TV kanikaru. 1 hour avumbo off cheyum. Off cheyunnathinu 5 or 10 minutes munbu kuttiyodu parayum off cheyarayennu. Avar athinu prepared avan vendi. Ennitu paranjathu pole thanne off cheyum. Karanjalum pinne kanan sammathikilla. Pakshe karayumbo njan kshamayode koode irunnu avale ashwasipikum. Chila divasam aval ravile thanne TV kananamennu parayum. Apo njan ravile TV kanichitu evening kanikilla. Oru divasam 1 hour il kooduthal kanan sammathikilla ethra vashi pidichalum. Pakshe vazhakkum parayilla. Pinne food kazhikumbo oru karanavashalum TV vaykarilla. Allathe food kazhikillennu paranjal "saramilla, ipo vishappu illayirikum, pinne food kazhicha mathi" ennu parayum. Ennitu kurachu kazhinju food kodukum. Mikavarum vishappu undenkil apo food kazhikum. Pinne kunjine vere karyangalil engaged aakkan nokum. Purathu nadakan kondu povum, koode kalikum, books vayikum, drawing cheyum, stories parayum, paattu paadum etc..

  • @kkitchen4583
    @kkitchen4583 2 года назад

    Valarie upakarapradhamaya video aayirunnu 👌👍👍👍

  • @alphonsalatheesh9718
    @alphonsalatheesh9718 2 года назад

    Wht u shared is effective.i practice this as much as i can

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you so much for sharing your feedback🙂

  • @raheenamk7303
    @raheenamk7303 2 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @mohaep7391
    @mohaep7391 2 года назад

    Good മെസ്സേജ് 👍👍👍👍

  • @muthulakshmir6625
    @muthulakshmir6625 3 года назад +1

    Super presentation Asha

  • @ponnusvlog3876
    @ponnusvlog3876 2 года назад +1

    Mam grandparents nu matramay oru vedio cheyyuo, nammal parayumbo avark eshtapedunnilla kuttikalkk ella vashiyum sathichu kodukkum ammamar jolik poyal avaranu makkale nokkunne, so kuttikalkk vashi kudi kudi varunnu avar ellam sadichu kodukkumbo

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thanks much for watching and commenting. We will try to do a video. Pakshe grandparents ine correct cheyan paadayirikum. Especially kuttiye nokaan avare depend cheyendi varumbo avarodu inganeye cheyavunnu parayunnathu avarku vishamamavum. Mathramalla, kunju vashi pidichu karayumbo enganeyum karachil nirthane avar nokku. Athu avarude nature aanu. Nammude part nammal cheyuka, avarude part avar cheyate🙂 ithu oru challenging situation aanu, I agree.

    • @ponnusvlog3876
      @ponnusvlog3876 2 года назад

      @@ashamathew8981 k mam

  • @annievx9816
    @annievx9816 3 года назад +1

    Very helpful video and beautiful presentation for kids lifestyle

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  3 года назад

      Thank you very much Annie.

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you🙂

    • @sherint.p3108
      @sherint.p3108 2 года назад

      Thank you for the valuable information

    • @sherint.p3108
      @sherint.p3108 2 года назад

      @@ashamathew8981
      Thank you for the valuable information.

  • @divineinspiration6426
    @divineinspiration6426 Год назад

    Thank you teacher ammaa❤

  • @syamvidya
    @syamvidya 2 года назад

    Mother and Daughter - very good

  • @annajohn1066
    @annajohn1066 3 года назад

    Video assalayirikunnu. Ashakuttikum ammakum abinandanangal. Ee arivukal ini grandchildren il apply cheyam.

  • @nalinakumari3
    @nalinakumari3 2 года назад

    Very good presentation.

  • @bincysuresh4188
    @bincysuresh4188 3 года назад +4

    Hi ma'am good topic 2perum adipoli auntto eniyum nalla videos ayi varanam ketto.god bless you dears.

    • @MaryMatilda
      @MaryMatilda  3 года назад

      Hai Bincy thanks for being so encouraging. ❤❤🙏

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you so much🙂

  • @johnsonauso5507
    @johnsonauso5507 3 года назад +3

    Super

  • @milsdevvibes9983
    @milsdevvibes9983 2 года назад

    Thanks mary teacher and asha... Teacher can you suggest techniques applicable to teens?

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thanks for watching and commenting. ruclips.net/video/YtZsBbFnaNk/видео.html
      I hope this helps.

  • @girijav2496
    @girijav2496 2 года назад

    Asha njan Aryayude Amma.Asha parayunnathe valare correct aane.

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much aunty. Ithu valiya surprise ayi. Video kandathilum comment cheythathilum orupadu santhosham❤

  • @muhammednas3574
    @muhammednas3574 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this video its very useful 🥰🥰🥰

  • @priya3542
    @priya3542 2 года назад

    Waiting for more parenting videos

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you🙂 Will definitely come up with more.

  • @sumik7643
    @sumik7643 2 года назад

    Thankyou😍...

  • @geethasasidharan601
    @geethasasidharan601 3 года назад +2

    Wonderful presentation 👏👌👍, than you teacher for introducing your daughter once again. It's true that nurturing should be according to the temperament of child

  • @sharonmaria2744
    @sharonmaria2744 2 года назад

    Hi mam. Lovely video. Is your daughter Montessori trained ? I am trying so hard but sometimes I lose my cool so often because I feel they don’t listen at all.

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you Sharon. My daughter is my trainer and parenting experience is my training 🙂 It's quite normal to get angry. But thinking from the kid's perspective may help to remain calm. When I realised that it's not easy for them either, having to always seek permission, to hear 'no' many times, to live each day as decided by someone else, I was able to change my ways.

  • @shineyk5304
    @shineyk5304 2 года назад

    Very informative

  • @sruthikv3371
    @sruthikv3371 2 года назад

    Mam... Ente 6 years ulla mon nalla freedom koduthanu valarthiyath.. So he is very smart.. But very weak in studies..so I am tensioned... Enik avante padithathil lock down time l school l pokathond serikk nokkan pattilaa.. Because I am also a student.. Njn ente padithathil kooduthal sredhichu.. Mon ipol padikkan theere interest illa mam.. Athilek thirich konduvaran enthanu njn cheyyandath?? Padikkunna time verenthello karyamgalil aanu sredha so enik deshyam varum adichu pokuem cheyyunnu.. Ipo avan vilichal padikkan varillaa escape aavan sremikkum

  • @devinaanna1283
    @devinaanna1283 2 года назад

    god bless u mam very very truth speaking

  • @jomyjose9400
    @jomyjose9400 2 года назад

    Thank you…..

  • @funnyworld205
    @funnyworld205 2 года назад +1

    വളരെ ശരിയാണ്. പത്ത് വയസ് വരെ കുട്ടികളേ അടിക്കുകയോ ചീത്ത പറയുകയോ ചെയ്യരുത് എന്നാണ് പ്രവാചകൻ മുഹമ്മദ് നബി (സ) പറഞ്ഞിരിക്കുന്നത്.

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Thank you for watching and commenting🙂

  • @anilar7849
    @anilar7849 Год назад

    Thanks 💐👍✌

  • @ancyjohn3510
    @ancyjohn3510 2 года назад

    Maam 👌
    Expecting for teenagers

  • @giftycv5280
    @giftycv5280 2 года назад

    Very very useful video 😊👍👍👍👌👌👌

  • @dr.pvjoseph-lifeskilltrain720
    @dr.pvjoseph-lifeskilltrain720 3 года назад +2

    👍All the tips are relavent, effective because from own experience

  • @priyaravi9791
    @priyaravi9791 3 года назад +2

    Very interesting mam. Informative. Asha doing great work..👏👏

  • @sophiasusanpaul3756
    @sophiasusanpaul3756 2 года назад

    Very useful

  • @shymaashuaib1136
    @shymaashuaib1136 3 года назад +1

    Oru ADHD Childne engane deal cheyynm ennathin kurich oru video idumo plss

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      I'm sorry Shymaa. I'm not equipped for it.

  • @remyakmkm9260
    @remyakmkm9260 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤️🩷💜

  • @APSArts
    @APSArts 2 года назад

    Nicepresentation❤️🙏🏻

  • @geethu891
    @geethu891 2 года назад

    Mam kuttikalude deshyam control cheyan tips paranju tharamo..

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      I can share what I do. I try to make sure that my daughter gets enough time for free play and physical activity. I also try to reduce the number of times I say no to her. I try to say yes and let her do things according to her wish whenever possible. Also, when she is angry or upset, I show empathy and validate her feelings. I tell her I know how it feels for her etc. That makes her feel better. Then I hug her and console her. Sometimes when she is very angry she doesn't like me hugging her. So I sit with her and wait until she is ready for a hug. If the child is trying to hurt herself or someone else, she has to be immediately removed from the situation before trying the above things.

  • @anishavineesh584
    @anishavineesh584 2 года назад +1

    Tq mamm

  • @kmlaly1
    @kmlaly1 3 года назад +1

    Shariyanu asha. 👍👍👍

  • @DaughterofRainNishamadhushree
    @DaughterofRainNishamadhushree 3 года назад +1

    Wellsaid👏👏👏👏

  • @sarithachacko252
    @sarithachacko252 2 года назад

    Very true

  • @bindutv4847
    @bindutv4847 2 года назад

    I'm your follower, Mm

  • @momsgaudium1157
    @momsgaudium1157 2 года назад

    Super👍👍👍❤️

  • @rincyrichard6044
    @rincyrichard6044 2 года назад

    It's really a useful video for all the mothers. Thank you so much for all the points.❤

  • @sonyjames561
    @sonyjames561 2 года назад

    Ethu parayam mutual anu positive discipline start cheyyendathu?
    Plz replay
    Nte kunju 1.5 yr akunnathe ullu

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      Ethu prayathilum thudangam. The earlier the better.

  • @sahadvmd3531
    @sahadvmd3531 2 года назад

    super

  • @gireeshgireesh4232
    @gireeshgireesh4232 2 года назад

    👍👍👍👍👍👍ഗുഡ്

  • @noreply_youtube
    @noreply_youtube 2 года назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @jayalakshmigk386
    @jayalakshmigk386 2 года назад

    Lucky daughter

  • @aiswaryanair6683
    @aiswaryanair6683 2 года назад

    Hi mam I have a 3.5 year old daughter. She is hyperactive n does not listen at all now a days.means full day she is having an answer as no. I am trying to give options to her, even telling side effects but she's just denying. I'm very much concerned about her

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад

      It's quite normal for a child of this age to be rebellious. I believe that a child cannot be tagged as stubborn or misbehaving just because she doesn't obey her parents. Say yes to her demands whenever you can. And be gentle and firm in setting boundaries. Having said that, if you are really concerned, please consult an expert or talk to her paediatrician first.

    • @aiswaryanair6683
      @aiswaryanair6683 2 года назад +1

      @@ashamathew8981 thank you

  • @meenanandan6359
    @meenanandan6359 2 года назад

    👌👌👌

  • @sreejaanandram6446
    @sreejaanandram6446 2 года назад

    👍👍👍

  • @aswaniakhilan1050
    @aswaniakhilan1050 2 года назад

    Epozhum gentle handlingnu purame chilapo oke kunju kunju cheethakalum nallathalle allekil aarekilum onnu cheruthayi deshyapettal polum vallathe feel cheyunna tharathil aayi poyalo

    • @ashamathew8981
      @ashamathew8981 2 года назад +1

      As a child, feeling sensitive or feeling any emotions is a part of healthy development. They will definitely face a lot of challenges and setbacks from the real world. So I don't see the need for parents to throw such challenges to them. Studies say that having a positive parent or any positive adult for that matter helps the child to cope with such challenges in the long run. So positive parenting acts as a buffer against negative experiences. By listening to their woes empathetically and validating their feelings, they will feel better and will slowly learn to handle such emotions by themselves. At the same time, as parents we can also give opportunities and have conversations to increase their self confidence. We can also share similar stories that we experienced and how we dealt with them. Above all, we can be good role models in how we handle setbacks.

    • @aswaniakhilan1050
      @aswaniakhilan1050 2 года назад +1

      @@ashamathew8981 👍👍

  • @padmajapk4678
    @padmajapk4678 2 года назад

    👌👌👌👌

  • @anilsirscommerceclass6844
    @anilsirscommerceclass6844 3 года назад +1

    Very nice presentation

  • @yamika8728
    @yamika8728 2 года назад

    How old is ashas daughter?

  • @augustinekurian7844
    @augustinekurian7844 2 года назад

    🌹👌