Relationships in Crisis in the Philippines/Why Did She Leave Us?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июн 2024
  • Relationships in Crisis in the Philippines/Why Did She Leave Us?‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ This is my candid chat with my friend Juells, who has found himself raising 3 kids alone in the Philippines after 18 years of marriage.
    Juells in the Philippines
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Комментарии • 52

  • @assocrec
    @assocrec Год назад +94

    great interview, Jules appears to be very transparent but most important a solid dad!

  • @ivoted7199
    @ivoted7199 Год назад +137

    Seems like the age old cliche': "Don't bring your Filipina back home". This guy seems like a good dude who fell in love with the mountain girl and then she changed. That must have been rough...

  • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
    @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +70

    This video just sucked me in, Jules seems like such a nice man. A really good family man, the world needs more guys like him

  • @darylhunt9070
    @darylhunt9070 Год назад +106

    I am a single dad with kids full time feel for this guy. At least his kids are older. Not all women are great and a lot are selfish and self entitled and want no responsibility

    • @sandy-quimsrus
      @sandy-quimsrus Год назад +13

      Good on you for doing the right thing.

  • @intuitivesean443
    @intuitivesean443 Год назад +204

    Yep NEVER bring them too America

    • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
      @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +24

      I would argue that point. We have a wonderful marriage and travel back and forth. Our son when he reaches college, we will continue, the Philippines will only be 7 or 8 months a year, our hearts are with our children in America

  • @youtubehandle-
    @youtubehandle- Год назад +44

    Seems there is more to this story, wish them all the best. ❤

  • @happylohomestead6323
    @happylohomestead6323 Год назад +108

    I told my Filipina wife several times during our marriage of 27 yes she decides to leave there is no coming back because I will have moved on and would not think of her again. Some might think I am hard but I do not deal with things like this. Still married and living in Philippines in the province where live moves at a slower pace and less stress.

  • @plantworks100
    @plantworks100 Год назад +51

    Hey Paul my dear friend, what an awesome video brother! I have nothing but total respect for this gentleman and how he raised his children. And I really loved how he never bashed his wife, and he even defended her in some of her decisions. I wish nothing but the best for this beautiful family. May God bless them always. Thank you Paul my dear friend for sharing this awesome video. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you, Baby Mae, Riza, Jennifer, and your cute little dog.😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @AidaJof
    @AidaJof Год назад +36

    Hi Paul,
    Wow - this is a great video. Jules is in a great & healthy place emotionally. He seems to have a great relantionship with his children but more importantly towards his wife.
    His wife is trying to find her legs in terms of reconnecting with herself after years of sacrifice; she may have had a let down by life in the Philippines but eventually realize that life in the US without those she loves & love her is not worth it.
    I wish them the best whatever the outcome🙏🙏🙏

  • @hawkkim1974
    @hawkkim1974 Год назад +37

    Love is like a flower. It comes, blossoms, and goes. You don't have to stick to a dead flower since new flower is on the way.

  • @psp8788
    @psp8788 Год назад +31

    Hopefully shes going true a discovery face in her life and will realized how important you and the kids are.If its not the case it will take you a few years to get over it and you will move on, kids are for life , the rest not so sure..Good luck brother , ive been there so i know the pain.

  • @michaelcassidy1864
    @michaelcassidy1864 Год назад +22

    He seems like a very good person. Id imagine he may be in demand from other Pinays.

  • @tinaraphael9783
    @tinaraphael9783 Год назад +18

    Dude seems a cool guy Wifey will come back to her family.

  • @RetireandGo
    @RetireandGo Год назад +33

    Thank you for this video.
    This is a reality and it’s good to talk about it.
    In any country the search for love and a relationship can go wrong and it’s painful.
    I hope only the best for this man.

  • @oahuguy3918
    @oahuguy3918 Год назад +30

    He doesn't feel as devastated as you would expect. I guess all is well.

  • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
    @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +17

    I can't imagine how this must feel, such a sad story Paul

  • @mitchbarredo3990
    @mitchbarredo3990 Год назад +56

    I was expecting my Filipino wife to leave, we had a terrible beginning to our marriage and we almost didn't make it several times. But for some reason she never left, at least not physically. After fifteen years though our end might be near.

  • @gibblespascack1418
    @gibblespascack1418 Год назад +10

    I can see the Lincoln Town car. It would be the right move, if it was available.

  • @perry8498
    @perry8498 Год назад +11

    Paul the counsellor

  • @jspice-kl2wc
    @jspice-kl2wc Год назад +7

    Super great interview, and a never done before topic. Thank you for sharing. 👍👍👍

  • @whatyourlifestyle998
    @whatyourlifestyle998 Год назад +5

    Well I said all t but I say to him. Best of luck. I wish the best for him

  • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
    @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +30

    I married a single mother and the gift of love I receive everday from my stepson is amazing!!!

    • @markbrown8793
      @markbrown8793 Год назад +7

      Did the same thing bruv the respect is unbelievable would never change a thing living like a king in Australia

    • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
      @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +5

      @@markbrown8793, Amen brother

  • @msd6105
    @msd6105 Год назад

    Great interview and wishing the best to the gentleman who seems like a great dad and person!😊😊

  • @everyonehasadream
    @everyonehasadream Год назад +11

    Well done, Paul. My best to Juells and his family. 🙂

  • @Francesc661
    @Francesc661 Год назад +26

    Did she go back to the US to file divorce? I mean all respect with my question, I am worried about this because my wife and daughter is there in cebu, daughter is citizen of USA, wife wants to come here, she has already wanted to walk 3 times. Because I have not brought her here yet

  • @Tech_Publica
    @Tech_Publica 11 месяцев назад +7

    How many times do these dude need to hear "do not bring your foreign wife to the US" before they finally get it?

  • @sowhat7472
    @sowhat7472 Год назад

    Absolutely great dad from what we have been told ❤

  • @Pr3ct
    @Pr3ct Год назад +111

    Never take your Filipina to America.

    • @oahuguy3918
      @oahuguy3918 Год назад +14

      yes, that's the first thing that came to mind.

    • @dumaguetedreaming
      @dumaguetedreaming Год назад +16

      Why are you afraid she will find more freedoms and opportunities that the US promises?

    • @marriedtoafilipinachannel
      @marriedtoafilipinachannel Год назад +25

      I would argue that point of view, I literally know dozens that have and have wonderful marriages. It's all up to the individuals

  • @joeknight3269
    @joeknight3269 Год назад +6

    already a subscriber of juells love the guy

  • @samlolham2327
    @samlolham2327 Год назад +96

    The once great America has been heavily contaminated by destructive ideologies and strange new societal norms which have also been spreading to most of the western world. Don't risk it, don't take your Filipina to the West.

  • @bobbiestephen6021
    @bobbiestephen6021 Год назад +10

    I’m wondering what type of Job she has????

  • @sandy-quimsrus
    @sandy-quimsrus Год назад +17

    Ouch, that's a long marriage to lose, sorry for your troubles.
    On a side note his accent is like Matthew McConaughey. Remember a lovely story where an interviewer asked him why it's always Mathew, not ever Matt. When he was at kindergarten and his mother was a teacher there a friend grabbed his hand and said, Hey Matt let's go play outside. His Mother/teacher grabbed him by the neck landing him on his butt, said I gave you your name from the Bible, your name is Matthew. He said, yes ma'am and never let anyone call him Matt again.
    Edit sorry Americans your school system sucks, my Mum sent my brother and sister back to Australia to finish schooling for their last 2 years when we lived in D.C. because our Universities wouldn't reconise the qualifications.

  • @Richierich2025
    @Richierich2025 Год назад +12

    I love Jules man he’s a good good dude real good dude man glad I found his channel 1st channel ever found about the Philippines that turned me onto the Philippines was this channel old dog 🙌🏻👍🏻

  • @gunasekaran8309
    @gunasekaran8309 Год назад +6

    good job paul

  • @whatyourlifestyle998
    @whatyourlifestyle998 Год назад +5

    I was surprised to here that the school was 7 to 5. Here in Tacloban it only half days and serious are home by 3

  • @nevergiveup-db6fp
    @nevergiveup-db6fp Год назад +2

    Yup

  • @Smiling_mike
    @Smiling_mike Год назад +4

    Thanks guys! I sub to both channels, all the best to you both! 🙏

  • @Francesc661
    @Francesc661 Год назад +5

    I am coming in to see my wife and daughter

  • @Francesc661
    @Francesc661 Год назад +3

    Paul can we meet in august when I come home?

  • @suzannahoffman-he3yj
    @suzannahoffman-he3yj Год назад +10

    Paul: It is a shame you don't give people the proper advice. The elephant in the room is that this did not work because he married a 20 yr old, then kept her barefoot and pregnant. Her mind was not even fully matured yet. How could she even know what she wants?? He wanted someone very young, which is great for him, but unfair for everyone else.