Good is subjective. Nazis thought they were good. Liberals who want to mutilate genitals think they are good guys. I like Stoics. It’s a cool quote. But it implies we all seek the same good.
thats honestly the worst part.. the commercials are PART of the videos now..i get it, everyone wants to get paid.. but when you pay for YT Premium and STILL have to watch ads... really makes me second guess my subscription...@@genekookang8935
Never clicked on a podcast so quick. A Scholar and a Warrior (truth be told, there's an element of each within either man) both unite in Truth and Courage. The full embodiment of the healthy masculine spirits that stand up against tyranny and chaos
@@cjjohnson7095 I wasn;t understimating Jocko's brain power at all, the opposite actually. Which is the foundation of their message of the proper leadership that Jocko preaches and embodies. You don't just become a platoon commander of two joint unit task forces of SEALS by shear brute force and top down enforcement. Jocko's intelligence and understanding of human behaviors (especially under stress) supersedes the average person, but he also can take the average Joe out via combat if necessary.
“A leader is best when people barely know he exists. Of a good leader, who talks little, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, They will say, “We did this ourselves.” -Lao Tzu
yeah, tell me about it and you can never expect anyone to remember what you did and help you when you need it either its why im done with the world ya'll can kiss my ass
That is a good definition of what a leader should aspire to be that we should try to be like too, however what we presently see happening around the world of humans is bad leadership (Globalists), bad managers (Presidents) who do the orders from bad leaders, and people who blindly or unquestionably follow these bad managers. If more people would practice what Lao Tzu advise and do leadership not only for ego reasons then maybe the world of humans can grow into a system that's more ethical and more beneficial to participate in.
When Jocko was talking about the mutual connection, I literally broke into tears... I have alone felt alone my whole life. Being on my on since 16 has had its challenges. Podcasts and good genuine human beings have been my only companion through my darkness. .. but I'm a recovering addict who have given up smoking and who is back to fitness everyday and becoming more and more a person I can be proud to be Thank you
I'm a 32 year old man that has worked in mental hospitals. I'm an avid JBP fan, and there are many struggling young men that I have shared his pearls of wisdom with, and it always seemed helpful. Except for one patient, he seemed to already know what I was emanating about JBP. He was avid about me looking up Jocko Willink, and studying some of his concepts. I never got around to consuming content in time to share any of it with him. This one's for you bud 💯
Thank you Peterson, I was a nobody 8 years ago when I stumbled upon your lectures at a low point in my life. Now I've started two companies both with successful exits. Telling the truth, adopting responsibility, and aiming upward toward the highest good. It just works.
Jordan, just wanted to tell you, that you were ON FIRE last night in Providence! My partner and I were in the 2nd row. I was wearing the red lobster tie during meet and greet. Unbelievable experience. Thank you.
@BLAISEDAHL96 it was electrifying, engaging, authentic, and motivational, to say the least. Having consumed just about every piece of peterson content available, I'd assumed the kickoff to this tour might be a bit scattered, but he was very much on the ball and came out swinging for the fences! The conclusion was an explosive, no... a thunderous standing ovation! If you haven't decided whether it's worth the money to go? Spend the money! You will NOT regret it.
@@cormQerTHEworlddo you think it will be as easily accessible for someone less versed in his work? What were some of the topics? Debating on getting tickets as he’s coming to my state soon.
Jordan's innocence in being transparent about his thoughts and passion on the subject is the irrefutable proof of his honesty and authenticity. Love to hear it!
My children are at the age where they explore on their own without me there. I continuously get compliments from the parents of the children they play with about how kind, respectful, and polite my daughters are. I don't take much pride in things, but every single time I hear that from another parent, my heart balloons with joy and contentment. ❤ I have gotten a lot of slack for being a stay at home parent throughout the years from my own peers & family members. I stick it out and still only work occasionally, because I've learned from my own childhood that if a competent adult was present before and after school to help me grow, I would've been able to take on challenges better than I had in my young adult life. My goals aren't material. They are maternal. ❤
I loved reading this so much. Thank you for sharing. “My goals aren’t material. They are maternal.” …That was so well said! I decided that a while back, even without children. Especially as women, we need to define our own measurement of success, instead of just absorbing the world’s goals, which tend to be more masculine. (And that’s totally ok, it just is.) So many of us just internalize what the world says is important. For example, I decided at a certain point some years ago, that I would rather not have a brand new car, work less, and have more time and space to be a peaceful, non-stressed force in the life’s of my friends, family, and anyone I’m of service to. Thank you for being a stay at home mom. Our most important resource as a country is having securely attached good kids that turn into good adults. 💗
@leahrush8545 Good for you for taking care of yourself and knowing what is best for you! 🦋 Yes, we have an obsession in this country, especially in certain states, that "keeping up with the Jones's" is the main focus. Unfortunately, our children suffer in most of these circumstances. Take care. Keep up the good work! 😊
@47:50 “the safest way to store your wealth is in your reputation” - this is pure gold. No currency can measure a man’s value to his own environment. I mean I’ve witnessed millionaires go bankrupt and come back strong. Not because they are motivated by money, but because they’ve kind of built their life and relationships to where it will always take care of them. And they weren’t born into this, this is isn’t a “privilege”.. blessings are just more frequently bestowed upon them because of their ethics. These are truly good people, who people would trust with their lives, and because of this, they become care takers of more valuable opportunities.
At 4 minutes in I can say I have already been preaching this at my corporate job. The most manipulative and least best to lead are those that seemed to get into leadership and corporate America.
Its so annoying when that happens in the military. Its like having a professor that never did a day's work in his field. He is there because he can't make it out in civilian life and managed to stick around the longest ( ie. He was a paperpusher, maybe never deployed anywhere, his knees still work and his back aint broke)
It’s like that in the military also. Bullied in school i enlisted thinking it would be different but it just ended up being the same azzholes just in a uniform now. After 22 years it ended up being a cool kids club where the useless ones with manipulative personalities and a pretty smile got promoted, and fast. I would watch them slack off and not do their job then leaving it for the next shift to pick up and it would be viewed as “leadership, he gets others to do his work for him”. Boom achievement medal or commendation medal then promotion. It’s 100x worse in the officer ranks where they become sniveling yuppies claiming credit for things they never even touched and then become worthless politician yes men with stars on the collar. It’s bad in the military too, likely worse because that’s where you want the qualified manning the guns not miss congeniality.
I lived in a corporate company entry level position; the ones who get promoted are the ones who are not the best qualified, it's the ones who kiss ass and don't have a IQ level of 101
Both of these guys have this unique ability to, when presented with a difficult or complicated question, to pause and silently contemplate a answer in a way that is incredibly rare. People so often hurry to fill the silence with words and so rarely take the time to consider what they're about to say. Both Jocko and Dr. Peterson do the opposite so often it's such a contrast compared to 99% of people.
“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work, and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.”Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. Thank you for this conversation 💪
These two helped me change my life around this year i get to celebrate 5 years without alcohol and 4 years of a being a plumber if your in a dark place definitely listen to what these men have to say you can change and life will get better
Im humbled by this whole 420 podcast. I've learned so much about my own demons. Accountability is humbling. Faith & true leadership @ its best. Thank You Jordan & Jocko along with 4:33am Team
I have PTSD and when Jordan said, “if you’re trying to overcome PTSD assume innocence and that there were situational factors” paraphrasing obviously, something in my brain clicked. What if we started from that assumption? Not meaning we haven’t done anything wrong. But we can decide situational factors played a major, if not, the main role. Thank you Dr. Peterson and Joko for such an eye-opening, transformative, participatory (learned that word from Vervaeke) discussion.
My nickname was Caveman i came with very little and i was demoted and on extra duty for my first 45 days of employment. I took this as a badge of honor to show other my strength is when I'm weak praise be to God❤
I feel like people in my city need to hear you speak. I live in clovis new mexico and there is a lot of violence that happens here and its mostly people my age 18-20 and sometimes even younger that are either the cause or the victim of gun violence and other forms of violence and idk how much people here would come to see you and hear you speak but i sure would.
Jordan Peterson always explains the disadvantages of being agreeable but rarely talks about the disadvantages of being disagreeable. I find some people who are being too disagreeable have problem in personal development because they don’t do stuff that they don’t want to do. Thus, skills in interpersonal relationship communication and self-care can’t be developed and the disagreeable people become too dependent. I’m glad Jocko Willink mentioned having the balance is the way out.
As much of this type content I consume, I’m rather shocked that this is my first introduction to Jocko. And at 28 minutes in, I have to say that I’ve got another new favorite.
Jocko is something else, his background as a seal is remarkable. He has his own “Jocko Podcast” which there are an incredible number of profound conversations & stories to be found. The first podcast Jocko was ever on is his 2015 appearance on the Tim Ferriss show. I would recommend giving that a listen.
I came across them both about the same time, saw a couple of short things from each. I can't remember which of the two I was looking up to find more of, but I found an early Jocko Podcast with Peterson as his guest. I watched it and immediately became a huge fan of both of them. I think it was this episode that I'm linking below or possibly Jocko Podcast Episode 112 that I first saw (one of the first two times they talked). I think Jordan has been on Jocko's show three times, and now Jocko's been on Jordan's about the same number of times. ruclips.net/video/23dArPpXgCM/видео.html And yes, as others have said, you'll definitely want to check out more of Jocko. He's outstanding!
I would love to see these two do more together. They could be such a force for positive change in people’s lives. Especially in a world where there is insufficient roll modeling. I love them both. Jocko for president!
Was very fortunate to have attended his "12 Rules for Life" tour a few years ago. So much has changed since then! Even though I didn't discover JBP until my early-40's, very grateful to have done so. Thank you for all of the great lessons Dr. Peterson!
It was nice to hear a little bit more on the idea of "no difference between thinking about yourself and being miserable". I've been very curious about it since hearing it on Chris Williamson's conversation with JBP.
The way Jocko does his tours proves his intent perfectly. The fact that before the show, during, and after, he immersed himself with the audience is amazing. He also makes sure he is available for everyone who would like to speak with him. I really love that he does this. He also does that because he wants to full stop. It was actually a little shamful to hear Jordan say that he does 15-second formal meet and greets and only for those who can pay extra on top of ticket price. People always think someone's lying when they say their intent is to help others. I think Jocko is an example that shuts down that idea very clearly in this conversation.
Yeah it sounds like JBP simply ran into logistical issues trying to make time for everyone, so his team streamlined the process for the live meet and greets and QAs. His audience is massive so it allows him to meet with more people and respond to the best questions.
Shameful seriously? Grow tf up. He has thousands of people to talk to you think he can give them each a bunch of time? There could be chaos without streamlining it
I freaking love this show Jordan! You have made RUclips more than a decent place to be but a place to learn fun and exciting things. I’m a business owner 4th generation and I rely on the inspiration I get from people like you to make it happen and carry it to my son when he’s ready to take it over. Just thank you thank you thank you on so many levels. Love you brother! 😊
I'm looking forward to your academy Mr. Peterson, I've wanted to pursue psychology for a while and can't wait to see what you have in store for your school
Insanely good! I laughed so loud cos Jordan is so energetic and frenetic with his thinking that he consciously or subconsciously keeps expanding and contracting his body language that this Beast of a man Jocko actually pulled back his legs at 1:21:21
Wow, I can't believe this is free. Jordan is so sharp mentally in this. I'll going to rewatch this. I run a long and after being consistent, my legs have gotten used to whatever mileage I put on them. All these podcasts and talks he's given and his better health have really strengthened his (already good) ability to communicate and articulate his thoughts. Just WOW! THANK YOU BOTH!!!
Both of these men are helping to shape lives for the better. Especially for us men and those of us who need modern examples to follow. Thank you Jordan and Jocko!!!
Unbelievable conversation, so many beautiful points I learned from this conversation, how to look at things from a different perspective " as everyone looks at a tree differently" however sometimes others can help you to see the beauty or something that you missed or how to look at the bigger picture..Pure love for those who put themselves out there to inspire and help others👏🙏
Ive been saving this one. I was being taught by a great teacher today. She had the quiet demeanor, the eye contact, the even tempered speaking voice. I was impressed. Some other students were immediately submissive and brown nosing. She wasnt moved. I had the pleasure of engaging her as an equal status student to teacher. So i knew it was time to listen to these great leaders. Soaking the wisdom all up 💪🔥
@@carolinekerr9950 thank you! I'm 38 years old and have never gone anywhere or done anything without my parents or husband taking the lead....so, I see this as a worthy "adventure" for me to get myself there on my own, as embarrassing as it is to admit. But I know I have to, and it's thanks to JP's personality lectures and books that I finally understand this.
The opposite of love is apathy. My entire life has been surrounded by apathy. Having been neglected since birth I have reached out countless times for help to get over my debilitating social anxiety, to become independent, to become responsible and in control of my life but it is always met with apathy. I once had Elliott Hulse almost help me, but it quickly turned to apathy as well. Dr. Taylor Marshall told me to pray, which is what I've been doing my entire life. I've never been loved, not even once. I think I'll leave this world never knowing what it's like.
Dude, I have said that for 40 years. My formulation is, "Hate is not the opposite of love, its indifference.". That happened when my wife and I split up, who I dearly loved, and left with my daughter back to her parents across the country. I was lucky enough to have a stepdad (the only dad I ever have known) who I know loved me but was stoic, for many reasons, growing up poor and other things. The first time he opened up was when I was an adult and told him I loved him. He opened up so much about his feelings with me after that. I would shed tears when out of the blue he would say "I love you son". I don't know much but maybe loving someone, you trust, and letting them know, maybe with out hope of reciprocation. I am quite a loner now, my dad died and I hardly see my Mom or brothers, and I they don't reach out. I know I feel love for them.
As a jordan peterson fan and a major interest in dogs, dog training and dog psychology Would be very interested to see a dog psychologist and jorden sit down and talk about the relationship with humans and dogs it's a many many thousands of year coexisting there something very special about dogs
Your discussions involving leadership have been as useful as those on parenting and Mr. Willink has been a very interesting and informative guest. Could you two arrange another discussion to cover topics you guys didn't get to today?
Just watched Jordan Peterson last night live on his tour and man…this individual in person is even more astonishing. The way he breaks things down and has a 15 minute answer for each question is just amazing. He takes so many pauses and actually thinks before he speaks.
Mr. Peterson, I think I speak for many when I say I would love to sit and watch you and former secretary James Mattis have a conversation. I could watch that all day. I find your content incredible and insightful, it is very much appreciate it.
The ultimate purpose of a leader isn’t to create followers of his teachings but to instill into those that listen that they too have the power to become leaders in their own walks of life. Apply, critique and spread the gospel.
I got to ask you a question during the VIP Q&A at your Phoenix lecture about 28 months ago regarding how to overcome PTSD related to things people have done. I work with an intensive inpatient military PTSD unit and many have returned from duty having done things they deeply regret. The answer you gave (which is covered in the first minutes of this episode) have subsequently helped many of my patients. Thank you 🙏 so much for helping me to help others. I’m looking forward to seeing you front and center in Sioux Falls in two weeks with my daughter. Thank you again.
congrats, Doc. The fact that you’re getting out with your next series is a great inspiration to everybody else, especially when we see what’s going on with you in your life. And I can’t blame you for keeping your series below the border. I just hope we get to see it online. Thanks for everything you do. Best stuff ever.
These two have a bizarre chemistry going back to Jordan's first appearance on Jocko's podcast. What the world needs more of, is these two working through topics.
One of the few bits of wisdom my father gave me is to seek the opinions of others and then make my own decisions. I enjoyed hearing two great minds explore that a little bit.
Hey Jordan, just wanted to say that the first segment where you talk about forgiveness and mistakes was beautifully said and articulated so good! I swear you're painting a picture like picasso whenever you speak.. Glaze done But, that segment is so important for people to hear and understand that, that message is what Christ is about! And I pray that our nation and the world continue to seek our Lord and Savior. He has given me purpose, peace, hope, and a family and much more. NOTHING is impossible for our God and I pray someone sees this (who needs it) and has a seed spurt in their mind and they try and seek for the Lord "On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick." MATT 9:12 (when questioned by the "self-righteous" about why Jesus was eating with sinners) Thank you JBP and God Bless you
Really helpful, balance is so key. I had moved away from Jocko, Goggins and others content as it started to feel like the tools being offered were all about a crushing, breaking and bringing into submission my outer life, the human shell. ‘If it’s raining and you don’t want to run, run further and longer than the day before.’ That’s a hammer for nails. But sometimes I’m not leading or working with nails, it’s marshmallows. Or whatever. For me, leading well, as I try and do with men in my command is hinged on a deep investment in the secret spaces of my life where I get vision, balance, inspiration, rest, kindness and love.
01:03:33 - General Stanley McChrystal covered his experience implementing this distributed decision making in the Military in his book "Team of Teams".
Looks like it's going to be a good episode. Always enjoyable stimulating and refreshing. Thank you Dr.Perterson you are a shining example of what it means to be Canadian.
I just saw Jordan for his we who wrestle with God tour in Manchester NH last night. I would highly suggest going to see him. It's extremely informative, with a great environment of other individuals/intellectuals eager to learn.
Hi Dr. Peterson, please could you invite Paul Washer onto your podcast? His insights are brilliant and I believe he’s a voice the world so much needs to hear. Thank you and I’ve been making my bed everyday since last year. I am very honest, responsible and trying my best to get to the apex of the competence hierarchy 😊 Regards, Steve
I saw you in Columbus last night - you have saved my life - your words move mountains as evidenced by your following - I may try to get to you after another show to thank you and shake your hand if I can during vip meet and greet (I picked the wrong vip package lol - it was the merch!) thank you!
“Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.”
- Marcus Aurelius
I'd love to see Jordan and Marcus Aurelius do a podcast together ... if only Marcus were still alive 😭😅
AI Marcus to keep us on track 😅
@brianbachmeier34 - I just shared that quote with my grandson. He's a good young man.
Good is subjective. Nazis thought they were good. Liberals who want to mutilate genitals think they are good guys.
I like Stoics. It’s a cool quote. But it implies we all seek the same good.
Jacko's arms won wars...
The fact that we can listen to this essentially for free is revolutionary.
Amen. We are watching philosophers, the Socrates of our time.
Time buddy. We are paying for it with our Time. Investing time. Vs spending it 🫂
And watching commercials
thats honestly the worst part.. the commercials are PART of the videos now..i get it, everyone wants to get paid.. but when you pay for YT Premium and STILL have to watch ads... really makes me second guess my subscription...@@genekookang8935
The price is we are all on a Government watch list deemed intellectuals.
This should be called Reacher and the preacher
Underrated af 😂
😂😂😂😂 love it
Just finished watching Jack Reacher. 😁
lol
Sir who are you and shake on it
Jordan: Clean your damn room.
Jocko: at 4:00 a.m.
His watch, the same Ironman watch he tweets out every morning.
hahahahahaha
It’s a goddamnd good time to rearrange your flat or tidying up everything. Only my neighbors s*cks lol 😂🤷♂️
David Goggins: And make sure to do no less than 974 pull-ups after you're done 😂
Jocko looking constipated AF....😂😂
For those who are fatherless, those 2 men are good examples to follow and thrive
Education is the best father and the best mother.
Both are leaders to follow, especially we fathers of sons and daughters
Both remain with their heads screwed tightly on.
Wow, they are both really high.
Yes, the kid will learn how to talk for an hour without saying anything
Never clicked on a podcast so quick. A Scholar and a Warrior (truth be told, there's an element of each within either man) both unite in Truth and Courage. The full embodiment of the healthy masculine spirits that stand up against tyranny and chaos
@@cjjohnson7095 I wasn;t understimating Jocko's brain power at all, the opposite actually. Which is the foundation of their message of the proper leadership that Jocko preaches and embodies. You don't just become a platoon commander of two joint unit task forces of SEALS by shear brute force and top down enforcement. Jocko's intelligence and understanding of human behaviors (especially under stress) supersedes the average person, but he also can take the average Joe out via combat if necessary.
damn this comment is gay
Jocko is very unpopular in the SEAL community
@@dundabird3203 your mother did not love you, did she?
@@dundabird3203 I don't believe it
Jocko and Jordan.. What an epic duo.. The absolute thinker and the absolute doer.. We're here for it.
None of them is an absolute anything. Still, a good conversation. (Jocko Willink is a writer and a thinker as much as a doer for example.)
@@xyxy5978 You make a valid point
“A leader is best when people barely know he exists. Of a good leader, who talks little, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, They will say, “We did this ourselves.” -Lao Tzu
yeah, tell me about it
and you can never expect anyone to remember what you did and help you when you need it either
its why im done with the world
ya'll can kiss my ass
@@ProfessorToadstool that is a very bad attitude
That is a good definition of what a leader should aspire to be that we should try to be like too, however what we presently see happening around the world of humans is bad leadership (Globalists), bad managers (Presidents) who do the orders from bad leaders, and people who blindly or unquestionably follow these bad managers. If more people would practice what Lao Tzu advise and do leadership not only for ego reasons then maybe the world of humans can grow into a system that's more ethical and more beneficial to participate in.
Jocko is such a great guest allowing Jordan to talk uninterrupted.
When Jocko was talking about the mutual connection, I literally broke into tears... I have alone felt alone my whole life. Being on my on since 16 has had its challenges.
Podcasts and good genuine human beings have been my only companion through my darkness. .. but I'm a recovering addict who have given up smoking and who is back to fitness everyday and becoming more and more a person I can be proud to be
Thank you
Good job man!
good for you, brother
@michaelsiegfried3878 thanks man....everyday day I get stronger. I truly believe that if I can do it....anyone can
@admtech69 thanks buddy! Means a lot bro
Keep it up. 💪🏻
2 guys that changed my life in 1 podcast. Much respect to you both.
I'm a 32 year old man that has worked in mental hospitals. I'm an avid JBP fan, and there are many struggling young men that I have shared his pearls of wisdom with, and it always seemed helpful. Except for one patient, he seemed to already know what I was emanating about JBP. He was avid about me looking up Jocko Willink, and studying some of his concepts. I never got around to consuming content in time to share any of it with him. This one's for you bud 💯
Thank you Peterson, I was a nobody 8 years ago when I stumbled upon your lectures at a low point in my life. Now I've started two companies both with successful exits. Telling the truth, adopting responsibility, and aiming upward toward the highest good. It just works.
Nice!
Then you woke up
@@JuntusOrothon haha, wide awake here.
@@JuntusOrothon haha, I’m wide awake.
Jordan, just wanted to tell you, that you were ON FIRE last night in Providence! My partner and I were in the 2nd row. I was wearing the red lobster tie during meet and greet. Unbelievable experience. Thank you.
Thats awesome. How would you describe the talk?!
@BLAISEDAHL96 it was electrifying, engaging, authentic, and motivational, to say the least. Having consumed just about every piece of peterson content available, I'd assumed the kickoff to this tour might be a bit scattered, but he was very much on the ball and came out swinging for the fences! The conclusion was an explosive, no... a thunderous standing ovation! If you haven't decided whether it's worth the money to go? Spend the money! You will NOT regret it.
@cjjohnson7095 his opening statement was something like "whether you realize it or not, we are all wrestling with God."
@@cormQerTHEworlddo you think it will be as easily accessible for someone less versed in his work? What were some of the topics? Debating on getting tickets as he’s coming to my state soon.
Makes me wanna see ya, in Phx - JBP
Jordan's innocence in being transparent about his thoughts and passion on the subject is the irrefutable proof of his honesty and authenticity.
Love to hear it!
My children are at the age where they explore on their own without me there. I continuously get compliments from the parents of the children they play with about how kind, respectful, and polite my daughters are. I don't take much pride in things, but every single time I hear that from another parent, my heart balloons with joy and contentment. ❤
I have gotten a lot of slack for being a stay at home parent throughout the years from my own peers & family members. I stick it out and still only work occasionally, because I've learned from my own childhood that if a competent adult was present before and after school to help me grow, I would've been able to take on challenges better than I had in my young adult life.
My goals aren't material. They are maternal. ❤
I loved reading this so much. Thank you for sharing. “My goals aren’t material. They are maternal.” …That was so well said! I decided that a while back, even without children. Especially as women, we need to define our own measurement of success, instead of just absorbing the world’s goals, which tend to be more masculine. (And that’s totally ok, it just is.) So many of us just internalize what the world says is important. For example, I decided at a certain point some years ago, that I would rather not have a brand new car, work less, and have more time and space to be a peaceful, non-stressed force in the life’s of my friends, family, and anyone I’m of service to. Thank you for being a stay at home mom. Our most important resource as a country is having securely attached good kids that turn into good adults. 💗
@leahrush8545 Good for you for taking care of yourself and knowing what is best for you! 🦋
Yes, we have an obsession in this country, especially in certain states, that "keeping up with the Jones's" is the main focus. Unfortunately, our children suffer in most of these circumstances.
Take care. Keep up the good work! 😊
@47:50 “the safest way to store your wealth is in your reputation” - this is pure gold. No currency can measure a man’s value to his own environment. I mean I’ve witnessed millionaires go bankrupt and come back strong. Not because they are motivated by money, but because they’ve kind of built their life and relationships to where it will always take care of them. And they weren’t born into this, this is isn’t a “privilege”.. blessings are just more frequently bestowed upon them because of their ethics. These are truly good people, who people would trust with their lives, and because of this, they become care takers of more valuable opportunities.
Two of my favorite minds together again. Philosopher and Warrior
At 4 minutes in I can say I have already been preaching this at my corporate job. The most manipulative and least best to lead are those that seemed to get into leadership and corporate America.
Its so annoying when that happens in the military. Its like having a professor that never did a day's work in his field. He is there because he can't make it out in civilian life and managed to stick around the longest ( ie. He was a paperpusher, maybe never deployed anywhere, his knees still work and his back aint broke)
@@cjjohnson7095 A whole lot more trying to be there in middle management
Yep
It’s like that in the military also. Bullied in school i enlisted thinking it would be different but it just ended up being the same azzholes just in a uniform now. After 22 years it ended up being a cool kids club where the useless ones with manipulative personalities and a pretty smile got promoted, and fast.
I would watch them slack off and not do their job then leaving it for the next shift to pick up and it would be viewed as “leadership, he gets others to do his work for him”. Boom achievement medal or commendation medal then promotion.
It’s 100x worse in the officer ranks where they become sniveling yuppies claiming credit for things they never even touched and then become worthless politician yes men with stars on the collar.
It’s bad in the military too, likely worse because that’s where you want the qualified manning the guns not miss congeniality.
I lived in a corporate company entry level position; the ones who get promoted are the ones who are not the best qualified, it's the ones who kiss ass and don't have a IQ level of 101
Two great men in one place. What a blessing!
Both of these guys have this unique ability to, when presented with a difficult or complicated question, to pause and silently contemplate a answer in a way that is incredibly rare. People so often hurry to fill the silence with words and so rarely take the time to consider what they're about to say. Both Jocko and Dr. Peterson do the opposite so often it's such a contrast compared to 99% of people.
“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work, and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.”Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. Thank you for this conversation 💪
The exact opposite of who you’d expect as a guest for episode 420.
Snoop Dog had a prior engagement.
My thoughts
We could expect him on episode 430
The exact opposite of 420 is exactly what this country needs.
Cause this guest is dope
Can’t wait to see Dr. Peterson next month in Phoenix.
Are tickets still available?
These two helped me change my life around this year i get to celebrate 5 years without alcohol and 4 years of a being a plumber if your in a dark place definitely listen to what these men have to say you can change and life will get better
Always enjoyed how deep the Jocko Podcast episodes with JBP were. So glad you're collaborating again. 🙂
Im humbled by this whole 420 podcast. I've learned so much about my own demons. Accountability is humbling. Faith & true leadership @ its best. Thank You Jordan & Jocko along with 4:33am Team
The physical presence and might of Jocko is matched equally by the intelligence and will of Jordan. Love these two guys.
I have PTSD and when Jordan said, “if you’re trying to overcome PTSD assume innocence and that there were situational factors” paraphrasing obviously, something in my brain clicked. What if we started from that assumption? Not meaning we haven’t done anything wrong. But we can decide situational factors played a major, if not, the main role. Thank you Dr. Peterson and Joko for such an eye-opening, transformative, participatory (learned that word from Vervaeke) discussion.
Dr. JP giving me tools to heal my self-inflicted traumas again. Thank you sir. This was a big one. You are a miracle.
My nickname was Caveman i came with very little and i was demoted and on extra duty for my first 45 days of employment. I took this as a badge of honor to show other my strength is when I'm weak praise be to God❤
Awesome to see these two great men speaking together in person!!
I feel like people in my city need to hear you speak. I live in clovis new mexico and there is a lot of violence that happens here and its mostly people my age 18-20 and sometimes even younger that are either the cause or the victim of gun violence and other forms of violence and idk how much people here would come to see you and hear you speak but i sure would.
Jordan Peterson always explains the disadvantages of being agreeable but rarely talks about the disadvantages of being disagreeable.
I find some people who are being too disagreeable have problem in personal development because they don’t do stuff that they don’t want to do. Thus, skills in interpersonal relationship communication and self-care can’t be developed and the disagreeable people become too dependent.
I’m glad Jocko Willink mentioned having the balance is the way out.
I love hearing Jordan Peterson speak. I wish Jocko, the guest, spoke more....
My first impression from this episode is “gosh, Jocko is quite a wonderful listener…”
Well, it's hard to talk if Jordan keeps going and going....
While I completely agree about wanting to hear more from Jocko here, listening more and talking less is one of Jocko's principals of leadership.
He puts out four or more hours of podcasts a week if you want to hear mote
yes! Jordan talked way too much
As much of this type content I consume, I’m rather shocked that this is my first introduction to Jocko. And at 28 minutes in, I have to say that I’ve got another new favorite.
Jocko is something else, his background as a seal is remarkable. He has his own “Jocko Podcast” which there are an incredible number of profound conversations & stories to be found.
The first podcast Jocko was ever on is his 2015 appearance on the Tim Ferriss show. I would recommend giving that a listen.
@@BLAISEDAHL96 I absolutely will!! Thank you for replying!!
I came across them both about the same time, saw a couple of short things from each. I can't remember which of the two I was looking up to find more of, but I found an early Jocko Podcast with Peterson as his guest. I watched it and immediately became a huge fan of both of them.
I think it was this episode that I'm linking below or possibly Jocko Podcast Episode 112 that I first saw (one of the first two times they talked). I think Jordan has been on Jocko's show three times, and now Jocko's been on Jordan's about the same number of times. ruclips.net/video/23dArPpXgCM/видео.html
And yes, as others have said, you'll definitely want to check out more of Jocko. He's outstanding!
Get the Discipline Equal Freedom. Beautiful book of man poetry. Then listen to Jocko read it. Don’t worry if Your balls drop a bit. That’s normal.
@@tinytim71301 thank you for the recommendation thrash metal head. Testament is my underrated favorite.
I would love to see these two do more together. They could be such a force for positive change in people’s lives. Especially in a world where there is insufficient roll modeling. I love them both. Jocko for president!
Wish we had men like these leading my country
Was very fortunate to have attended his "12 Rules for Life" tour a few years ago. So much has changed since then! Even though I didn't discover JBP until my early-40's, very grateful to have done so. Thank you for all of the great lessons Dr. Peterson!
It was nice to hear a little bit more on the idea of "no difference between thinking about yourself and being miserable". I've been very curious about it since hearing it on Chris Williamson's conversation with JBP.
Jocko is a MAN. Something that the country and world desperately need right now. God bless you both.
The way Jocko does his tours proves his intent perfectly. The fact that before the show, during, and after, he immersed himself with the audience is amazing. He also makes sure he is available for everyone who would like to speak with him. I really love that he does this. He also does that because he wants to full stop. It was actually a little shamful to hear Jordan say that he does 15-second formal meet and greets and only for those who can pay extra on top of ticket price. People always think someone's lying when they say their intent is to help others. I think Jocko is an example that shuts down that idea very clearly in this conversation.
Yeah it sounds like JBP simply ran into logistical issues trying to make time for everyone, so his team streamlined the process for the live meet and greets and QAs. His audience is massive so it allows him to meet with more people and respond to the best questions.
Shameful seriously? Grow tf up. He has thousands of people to talk to you think he can give them each a bunch of time? There could be chaos without streamlining it
Jordan, as someone who loves and deely appreciates your work I have to request that you leave more space for guests like Jocko to speak
I freaking love this show Jordan!
You have made RUclips more than a decent place to be but a place to learn fun and exciting things.
I’m a business owner 4th generation and I rely on the inspiration I get from people like you to make it happen and carry it to my son when he’s ready to take it over. Just thank you thank you thank you on so many levels. Love you brother! 😊
0:4:36 knowledge plus understanding equals Wisdom. I would guess that's why people are drawn to both of you. Well all three, shout out to Mr Charles 🥰
I'm looking forward to your academy Mr. Peterson, I've wanted to pursue psychology for a while and can't wait to see what you have in store for your school
Insanely good!
I laughed so loud cos Jordan is so energetic and frenetic with his thinking that he consciously or subconsciously keeps expanding and contracting his body language that this Beast of a man Jocko actually pulled back his legs at 1:21:21
Lifting up others is more rewarding than helping yourself
Wow, I can't believe this is free. Jordan is so sharp mentally in this. I'll going to rewatch this. I run a long and after being consistent, my legs have gotten used to whatever mileage I put on them. All these podcasts and talks he's given and his better health have really strengthened his (already good) ability to communicate and articulate his thoughts. Just WOW!
THANK YOU BOTH!!!
Why is RUclips censoring this channel?? It's fantastic! I have been helped so much by these videos.
Both of these men are helping to shape lives for the better. Especially for us men and those of us who need modern examples to follow. Thank you Jordan and Jocko!!!
Awesome combination of two great men. Would also love to see Jordan and David Goggins have a discussion
Unbelievable conversation, so many beautiful points I learned from this conversation, how to look at things from a different perspective " as everyone looks at a tree differently" however sometimes others can help you to see the beauty or something that you missed or how to look at the bigger picture..Pure love for those who put themselves out there to inspire and help others👏🙏
2 of my favorite people on the planet in one interview. I cant wait to see how this rolls out
Scholar and Warrior connect, deeply. What a blessing to the world. Thank you for making this happen and sharing you words with the world.
I got chills the moment I seen this posted
Jocko has a calmness and a studious demeanor about him when he's with Jordan. It's neat to see.
You could no doubt run a country with their combined knowledge.
Jordan/Jocko2024?
@@armouredjester1622that would be fascinating
@@armouredjester1622 both he said
It's being run by far less!
Ive been saving this one. I was being taught by a great teacher today. She had the quiet demeanor, the eye contact, the even tempered speaking voice. I was impressed. Some other students were immediately submissive and brown nosing. She wasnt moved. I had the pleasure of engaging her as an equal status student to teacher. So i knew it was time to listen to these great leaders. Soaking the wisdom all up 💪🔥
I cannot wait to see Dr. Peterson tomorrow evening ❤ very excited for this tour
I’m Jelous!
Yes a special moment hope it hits the mark for you ❤
@@carolinekerr9950 thank you! I'm 38 years old and have never gone anywhere or done anything without my parents or husband taking the lead....so, I see this as a worthy "adventure" for me to get myself there on my own, as embarrassing as it is to admit. But I know I have to, and it's thanks to JP's personality lectures and books that I finally understand this.
The opposite of love is apathy. My entire life has been surrounded by apathy. Having been neglected since birth I have reached out countless times for help to get over my debilitating social anxiety, to become independent, to become responsible and in control of my life but it is always met with apathy. I once had Elliott Hulse almost help me, but it quickly turned to apathy as well. Dr. Taylor Marshall told me to pray, which is what I've been doing my entire life. I've never been loved, not even once. I think I'll leave this world never knowing what it's like.
Dude, I have said that for 40 years. My formulation is, "Hate is not the opposite of love, its indifference.". That happened when my wife and I split up, who I dearly loved, and left with my daughter back to her parents across the country. I was lucky enough to have a stepdad (the only dad I ever have known) who I know loved me but was stoic, for many reasons, growing up poor and other things. The first time he opened up was when I was an adult and told him I loved him. He opened up so much about his feelings with me after that. I would shed tears when out of the blue he would say "I love you son". I don't know much but maybe loving someone, you trust, and letting them know, maybe with out hope of reciprocation. I am quite a loner now, my dad died and I hardly see my Mom or brothers, and I they don't reach out. I know I feel love for them.
Holy cow it's Christmas in February!
As a jordan peterson fan and a major interest in dogs, dog training and dog psychology
Would be very interested to see a dog psychologist and jorden sit down and talk about the relationship with humans and dogs it's a many many thousands of year coexisting there something very special about dogs
Your discussions involving leadership have been as useful as those on parenting and Mr. Willink has been a very interesting and informative guest. Could you two arrange another discussion to cover topics you guys didn't get to today?
Just watched Jordan Peterson last night live on his tour and man…this individual in person is even more astonishing. The way he breaks things down and has a 15 minute answer for each question is just amazing. He takes so many pauses and actually thinks before he speaks.
This is amazing! Thank you for this amazing episode. I bought my son Jocko’s children’s book. ❤ very happy with it.
Mr. Peterson,
I think I speak for many when I say I would love to sit and watch you and former secretary James Mattis have a conversation. I could watch that all day. I find your content incredible and insightful, it is very much appreciate it.
Great interview! Jocko and Jordan complement each other very well.
The ultimate purpose of a leader isn’t to create followers of his teachings but to instill into those that listen that they too have the power to become leaders in their own walks of life. Apply, critique and spread the gospel.
Love this! 2 great men keeping me sane!
I never miss a Peterson & Jocko line-up! I've been following them both for years. I adore them both.
That is why there is the sacrament of confession
I haven't watched past a few minutes... what do you mean?
I got to ask you a question during the VIP Q&A at your Phoenix lecture about 28 months ago regarding how to overcome PTSD related to things people have done.
I work with an intensive inpatient military PTSD unit and many have returned from duty having done things they deeply regret. The answer you gave (which is covered in the first minutes of this episode) have subsequently helped many of my patients.
Thank you 🙏 so much for helping me to help others.
I’m looking forward to seeing you front and center in Sioux Falls in two weeks with my daughter.
Thank you again.
The first Jocko-Jordan podcast literally changed my life. It had an unbelievable effect on me.
🙏
*a believable
congrats, Doc. The fact that you’re getting out with your next series is a great inspiration to everybody else, especially when we see what’s going on with you in your life.
And I can’t blame you for keeping your series below the border.
I just hope we get to see it online.
Thanks for everything you do. Best stuff ever.
I haven't seen a Jordan video recommendation this year. Not even notifications. Plus the censorship in the search bar.. We need to stop this virus.
These 2 talking together almost make the adds tolarable 2 legends right here 👌👌
I just realized for myself Jocko Willink book and here your video is coming out that's incredible.
These two have a bizarre chemistry going back to Jordan's first appearance on Jocko's podcast. What the world needs more of, is these two working through topics.
GRATEFUL AND BLESSED to make time to learn! u2 ROCK!
One of the few bits of wisdom my father gave me is to seek the opinions of others and then make my own decisions. I enjoyed hearing two great minds explore that a little bit.
I am here at 6am listening during my workout.
Where in the world are you located? Somewhere in the pacific or something
Hey Jordan, just wanted to say that the first segment where you talk about forgiveness and mistakes was beautifully said and articulated so good! I swear you're painting a picture like picasso whenever you speak.. Glaze done
But, that segment is so important for people to hear and understand that, that message is what Christ is about! And I pray that our nation and the world continue to seek our Lord and Savior. He has given me purpose, peace, hope, and a family and much more. NOTHING is impossible for our God and I pray someone sees this (who needs it) and has a seed spurt in their mind and they try and seek for the Lord
"On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick." MATT 9:12 (when questioned by the "self-righteous" about why Jesus was eating with sinners)
Thank you JBP and God Bless you
Now it's only a matter of time until Jordan Peterson does a podcast with David Goggins...
Really helpful, balance is so key. I had moved away from Jocko, Goggins and others content as it started to feel like the tools being offered were all about a crushing, breaking and bringing into submission my outer life, the human shell. ‘If it’s raining and you don’t want to run, run further and longer than the day before.’ That’s a hammer for nails. But sometimes I’m not leading or working with nails, it’s marshmallows. Or whatever. For me, leading well, as I try and do with men in my command is hinged on a deep investment in the secret spaces of my life where I get vision, balance, inspiration, rest, kindness and love.
Finally someone succeeds in looking angrier than JP in the thumbnail
01:03:33 - General Stanley McChrystal covered his experience implementing this distributed decision making in the Military in his book "Team of Teams".
Lets freaking go!! Another excellent discussion.
For a guy that is looking to establish a business this year, Jocko's woodwork analogy was very very insightful. Thank you, sir!
Looks like it's going to be a good episode. Always enjoyable stimulating and refreshing. Thank you Dr.Perterson you are a shining example of what it means to be Canadian.
I just saw Jordan for his we who wrestle with God tour in Manchester NH last night.
I would highly suggest going to see him. It's extremely informative, with a great environment of other individuals/intellectuals eager to learn.
Hi Dr. Peterson, please could you invite Paul Washer onto your podcast? His insights are brilliant and I believe he’s a voice the world so much needs to hear. Thank you and I’ve been making my bed everyday since last year. I am very honest, responsible and trying my best to get to the apex of the competence hierarchy 😊
Regards,
Steve
The best part of this video is the non-verbal communication dynamics between those two admirable men.
Just the episode I needed for today👍👍
I could listen to these 2 have a conversation every week until i die.... and beyond
Love when JP hits the accelerator
I saw you in Columbus last night - you have saved my life - your words move mountains as evidenced by your following - I may try to get to you after another show to thank you and shake your hand if I can during vip meet and greet (I picked the wrong vip package lol - it was the merch!) thank you!
Love you and jocko together
God is Love and Love is Life❤. Praise God🙏
This one deserves a second listen for sure