Can you really stay friends with your ex? (ft. Marcus Lee) | Hush Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2021
- It’s no wonder why some say a breakup can be worse than bereavement. When someone leaves you because of death, they are gone forever, whereas, with an ex, they’re still alive when they leave. This makes it harder for those who have seen the end of their relationship grieve the loss as they are able to see and watch in pain as their exes move on without them.
But for some, a break-up isn’t necessarily the end of a relationship. Those who choose to remain as friends still spend time and grow old together. Time heals all wounds, they’ll probably say. Which do you relate to? In this episode Hazelle, Germaine, Azura and our guest, singer-songwriter Marcus Lee, discuss reasons why you can or cannot stay friends with your ex; share their experience healing from breakups and answer why trust between partners is the most important aspect of a relationship.
TIMESTAMPS
00:22 Intro
01:55 What do you think about being friends with your ex?
04:55 Are any of you friends with your exes?
06:25 Why do you choose to stay (or not to stay) friends with your ex?
10:06 Will Hazelle get back together with her ex?
11:07 How Germaine stayed friends with her ex, now boyfriend.
12:03 What happens if you start dating someone else?
14:15 Is it cruel to suggest friendship during a breakup?
16:55 Reasons why people stay friends with their exes
19:18 Breaking up after marriage
20:15 How long ago was Marcus's breakup and the story behind it.
22:42 How do you heal from a breakup?
29:45 Getting over a breakup, and Marcus story of how he wrote a song about his ex
31:32 Other ways to get over a breakup
33:15 Should you be friends with your ex?
38:20 Is it a red flag in new relationships if someone is still friends with their ex?
43:10 Marcus tells us more about his new album
44:22 Marcus sings IDWBTW
45:55 Outro
46:52 Outtakes/bloopers
Featuring:
Hazelle - / heyhihazelle
Germaine - / germaineleonora
Azura - / azuragoh
Marcus - / leejunweimarcus
Listen to Marcus's IDWBTW:
(Eng) Spotify - open.spotify.com/track/62nSMJ...
(Eng) RUclips - • Marcus Lee 李俊緯 - IDWBT...
(Official MV) RUclips - • Marcus李俊緯【i don't wann...
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staying friends with your ex shouldn’t be objectively considered as a sign of emotional maturity - it could just mean that you’re still in a codependent relationship with your ex-partner and may just be keeping them as a back-up, or they’re simply an emotional crutch. it’s misleading to equate staying friends w one’s ex as being mature. sure, it’s an ideal situation because there seems to be a ‘closure’ and everything is still nice and cordial, but only until you or your ex partner begins dating someone new that this all snaps into perspective. toxic partners aside, staying friends with your ex only makes things more messy in the present while both of you are trying to move on with life, and even messier when future partners come into the picture. save yourself the hurt and give yourself time to heal 💯 it’s better to feel the depths of your grief now, than feel a delayed sense of grief or even betrayal (because we might not be on the same page as our ex-partners anymore) next time. some people are meant to be in your past, it’s easier the sooner you learn to accept it. you obviously deserve better!
Love this
Wow..💯
True! im also trying to move on from my crush...
Since, its quite toxic for both of us
Cause we're incompatible
Well said!!!! You can be friendly, but not friends with ur ex.
The no contact is very mature - at least that's the trait I observed in those that so called "succeed" and excel in life. Whereas those that look back have less success
Thank you ladies for this wonderful podcast! You girls talk with such emotionally transparency, it is so refreshing to hear ✨ also loving Marcus' perspective on things
Still friends with several of my exes. Not super close friends because we live a good distance apart but we keep in touch as much as possible.
Always enjoyed hush podcast!!!
Wow its Germaine!! I'm a fan of hers
bruh hazelle is legit!
You’ve never been single for longer than 3 months, wow so you jump into relationships without dealing with your baggage first.