Are labels important in relationships? | Hush Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
- So you’ve hit it off with someone and things are going pretty smooth. But how do you ensure that you’re both on the same page? Do you put labels on your relationship, and if so, what and why? In this episode of Hush, we’re laying out the base for all the complicated romance situations you’ve ended up in.
0:00 Intro
1:00 What is a 'situationship'?
3:47 But why would people choose to stay in a situationship?
7:52 Is it important to put labels in relationships?
9:09 What good can labels bring?
11:17 What are the different types of labels?
16:31 How do people feel about the concept of labels in relationships?
18:55 Hazelle's situationship experience
20:20 First situationship after a 10-year long committed relationship
22:13 [BONUS: Phone call with Ze Liang] Why do guys find it hard to communicate?
25:34 Figuring which label best fits your situation
26:57 Taking ownership of your relationship
28:17 Compromising with people who don't do labels
Featuring:
Hazelle - / heyhihazelle
Germaine - / germaineleonora
Azura - / azuragoh
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To me, these newer relationship terms and jargons are coined to satisfy people who are confused about the circumstances in their life or who wanted to have less of a stigma attached to them for not wanting to commit to a long term relationship which can easily fail.
To put it even more bluntly, some people refuse to put in effort, time, sweat and tears into a long term relationship because their hearts don't want to settle down in this cupnoodle relationship era. It's the dilemma of choices. Too many choices. And always thinking that the pasture is greener on the other side.
And I agree with the host that marriage is no longer seen as be-all and end-all of a romantic relationship. This opens up the can of worms for couples regardless of sexual orientation.
End of the day, it requires two people who are ready for a long term relationship to commit to a long term relationship. Any lacklustre performance by either party will just cause the relationship to fail.
Agree!!
The thing is people complain about labels only to label themselves into other more confusing categories and they are just doing this because they have options.
Some people are different (have a different self) when in a relationship vs not in one. Maybe it would help knowing if that is the case.. and how different it may be. at least for me, it will let me understand what is stopping the other from going into a labelled rship. Or if there’s no difference to them, then the reason could be something else.. hope I make sense?
Really thoughtful and important topic!
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Will be nice to include both sides into the conversation, in a separate video!!!
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Is there growth in non-commital relationships? Without the investment in the relationship, I believe it is hard to understand the other half to build stronger and deeper bonds. So much of my commited relationship is built on that invested connection and it is hard for me to fanthom what sort of good can come out of these new label relationships...
at this rate ill just stay single forever
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Either its a relationship or it is not a relationship that's it..all the labels things..just seems like an overly complicated way to say it is not a relationship..by using labels aren't you just following the norms?...hence you are no longer just doing your thing..but confined to the said labels?....lol..then you cannot say just do your own thing?...just stay alone easier then can do whatever & piak (safely - condom) whoever you want & no responsibility to no one. 😂
I miss old time
You either “in relationship” or “in friendzone category”…
nowadays relationship is “i kindda like you, but I swipe dating app yesterday and there is one guy/girl cuter than you, but I don t want to lose you - let s like be in probational relationship”
Why ?
One perspective is the bad connotation with the term FwB perhaps ?
Cos that usually meant the benefit is sex.
Why not the girl just enjoys the guy's company and has higher earning power ?
Then they will call the guy a sugar baby... but I am fine with that.
On the other hand enjoy that special bond to the level of meeting the parents is really something special that the parents think I am the BF.
But am just one of her many. but I am the few the parents allow me to stay over. the dad even bought rubber for me. lol
The term commitment also ties in with the contract of marriage.
Throw in all the terms and conditions for bto money for the grand 100 tables that the parents always want depending on the era and mindset of said parents.
Yea I agree G man. the future is scary,
people change time changes things.
No matter how much you say you love the person can a person change and continue to love the said person till death.
Another PoV is can u tahan the person's bad habits till as long as it gets.
There was a point I was saying wanting to date to know the person,
now its call a trial period before the want to be bf /gf phase.
The labels of master key and broken lock. If you ladies know.
I would let the lady put a label on us to ward of unwanted attention cos
societal conforms to norms ... is just like that ...
Yeap G man's example is just complicated... but it happens.
Haz, Its not so much of where got time to see so many ppl,
from another PoV its what you enjoy with curtain ppl.
One to mukbang with.
Another to gym with,
that sort of thing more like.
or one that only prefers vanilla in bed.
another with more than just vanilla...
Yea I do enjoy label-less r/s like some one always say... you do you.
Being jealous is tiring...
Yes I do let her know but I prefer girls who say what they mean and not mean what they say.
i never heard of such terms.....idk if its cuz im male or im old.... lets just say cuz im old 😂😂
Wait so Hazelle dating Ze Liang or just going out or what. I very kapoh. Cause got another video he did, I think he said he was single
This situationship almost found in bangkok
at 9:00 it is frowned upon because for girls to be laid it is as simple as going down the street and putting it out there they don't have to work for it there's no skill involve whereas for guys to get laid you have to get ur money up ur funny up ur looks everything hence why