'Pocketing'? Am I in a SECRET relationship? | Hush Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
  • While on a date, you bump into your partner's friend for the first time and instead of introducing you as their partner, they suddenly pretend like you didn't exist. "Am I a secret?," you ask yourself, not realising that you're being pocketed in this relationship.
    In this episode of Hush, we discuss "pocketing" and the choices we make when it comes to the pace of our relationships. Whether you're just dipping your toes into the dating pool or have been in a committed partnership for a while, we can’t agree more that understanding pocketing and how it affects both individuals and couples is essential.
    Featuring:
    Hazelle - / heyhihazelle
    Germaine - / germaineleonora
    Azura - / azuragoh
    About Hush Podcast:
    At Hush, hosts & Radio DJs Germaine Tan, @HazelleTeo and Azura Goh, discuss relationships, health and wellness topics that may be taboo or just plain paiseh to talk about.
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Комментарии • 16

  • @itsclarityco
    @itsclarityco  10 месяцев назад +3

    Are you 'pocketed' or the 'pocketer'? Share with us your stories below 😬

  • @sizzleyou
    @sizzleyou 10 месяцев назад +17

    I got "pocketed" in a 4 years relationship😶. I really wanted to meet his family but he kept giving excuses. I felt i deserved so much better and left that relationship. Now I'm in a relationship with a guy who loves to introduce me to all his family members, friends and colleagues.
    I recently stalked my ex and found out that he introduced his new gf to his family within 2 years of dating, and he's now engaged.
    The simple reason why i was pocketted was coz I wasn't the right one. He straight up told me that he was unsure that I was the one🤷🏾‍♀️ Just wished he had told me earlier as I felt I wasted 4 years of my life. Nevertheless, I'm glad that I knew my worth and left the relationship.

    • @itsclarityco
      @itsclarityco  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your story! And we're glad you found someone who treats you better ❤️

    • @AgentJ2007
      @AgentJ2007 3 месяца назад

      4 years is way too long. If by 1 year, he hasn't done so, it's a red flag. If it's serious, why wouldn't he want to declare it to the family.

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 10 месяцев назад +10

    We appreciate how well you've articulated your insights. Keep working hard.

  • @Splashhhh
    @Splashhhh 10 месяцев назад +2

    What’s wrong with telling your super close friends and family (of course not extended family) you are going on a date?? The guy could just have an amazing relationship with parents and wants to share his happiness together

  • @bgbk910
    @bgbk910 13 дней назад

    Too fast bring home red flag, don’t bring home red flag …. 太难了

  • @meatyypasta
    @meatyypasta 10 месяцев назад +4

    ya'll r so cute!! cutest besties, feels like im hanging out w my friends over a bottle of wine everytime i watch u guys.

  • @gracetan509
    @gracetan509 10 месяцев назад +1

    LOL i got so many empty promises! he just said ya definitely~ but nahhh it didnt happen.

  • @1991Depa
    @1991Depa 10 месяцев назад +3

    I am like Hazelle.

  • @JuzNicky
    @JuzNicky 10 месяцев назад

    That last part.
    happens alot back in the 90s of mcq
    PTSD war time flashbacks.
    also,
    Hey Hush crew !

    • @itsclarityco
      @itsclarityco  10 месяцев назад

      Hey! 👋🏼 Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

  • @cuthbertyeo4717
    @cuthbertyeo4717 10 месяцев назад

    Hazelle should also elaborate on 三观一致 🤣

  • @libraries144
    @libraries144 10 месяцев назад

    gallss yall always hit the spot with the topics omg!!

  • @chenace
    @chenace 10 месяцев назад

    Wah 😮