Is cheating in relationships ever justified? | Hush Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
- Are we slowly becoming more desensitised to cheating? It seems as though every few months, there will be reports on cheating cases. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls discuss the issues and reasons for infidelity and beyond. Why do people cheat even when they are presumably in happy & fulfilling relationships? Is nothing sacred anymore? Or is monogamy simply dead?
Timestamp:
00:00 Introduction
01:10 Is monogamy dead?
03:12 What constitutes cheating (Emotional and physical cheating)
03:58 Why do people cheat?
05:38 Do you think cheating is ever justifiable or acceptable?
09:27 Recounts and stories on cheating
11:51 Discussion on temptations to cheat
16:16 Has technology made cheating easier?
21:56 Boundaries when it comes to cheating
24:05 Can you heal from the trauma of cheating?
26:50 Ways to maintain trust even after committing infidelity
32:16 Ways to heal and move on after being cheated on
Featuring:
Hazelle - / heyhihazelle
Germaine - / germaineleonora
Azura - / azuragoh
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I have zero tolerance for cheating. I would have higher respect for someone who if they are unhappy or unsatisfied, they request to break off first before pursuing something new.
I definitely agree with you! Breaking up with someone atleast allows you to give the respect to the other person. Whereas with cheating, you're completely disrespecting your partner and affecting their sense of self esteem and self worth.
Cheating should never be justified. It’s just immoral to cheat in general. It’s also unfair in more ways than one. Your conversations as a group have always been impactful. May God bless all of you.
Moral values are so horrible these days. Esp with such people/celebrities esp media protraying " cheating" is okay, normalize what is actually wrong to become ok and spreading the bad influence to the younger generation. Seriously, what is this world becoming?
I think you guys should be careful when justifying that affairs/cheating could be ok. Because definition of toxic is pretty vague, subjective and can apply to the mildest of reasons. Was communication initiated to let the person know that he or she was toxic?
There are people who have been deemed toxic just for asking for expressing concern when being close to someone of the opposite gender and even considered themselves to be in a toxic relationship because of pressures from the In-laws.
Morality posturing shows immaturity. Out of the 3 , one of the ladies is most likely to cheat.
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LOL
so all 3 of them cheated before?
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Being contented with what you have works well too instead of trying to always find something/someone better.
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19:15 Everything in a relationship takes two hands to clap. The cheating happens because something is not right or some needs are not being met in the relationship. However, it doesn't validate or justify the cheating. We can all be tempted at times, but it doesn't mean we need to give in to the temptation. Honest, open Communication is the correct "C" in a relationship that has needs unmet, not Cheating.
This!
Why cheat? if you can just break up.
Cheating is an immoral act that i think is not justifiable.In my opinion.
You can't break up if you don't want to hurt your spouse and family.
Cheating is cheating in whatever reason, being in a long-term relationship requires something more than pure surprises, it needs responsibility, tolerance & persistence 🙏
The way Germaine in the same breath explained sometimes people cheat for justifiable reasons (I.e not getting their needs fulfilled) vs quoting how her ex bf “cheated” by going on tinder while they were still in a rs and it was “shit” lol contradicting
What she meant was it is okay and justifiable for women to cheat but not men 😂
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Please don't cheat. It's probably fine to have fantasies but making that a reality comes with a heavy price. Unless you don't actually love your partner. You can fool around while single but never when in a relationship. People who have cheating tendencies, aren't ready for relationship. Also value your partner enough to visualize the damage you can inflict to him/her whe you cheat. I have a friend who cheated on his GF and the next thing we knew, her GF commited suicide. Trust that's broken by cheating is almost impossible to fix.
On the topic of hiding a broken relationship from children, I believe kids often are sensitive enough to tell and it may be better to be honest with them, but handle the differences maturely so they'll learn from it. Because even if the parents are great actors, would it then in a way gas light the children as they eventually realise that it was all an act, an illusion?
A year ltr I came back.. in hopes of a more rational thinking. But at 6:00 send me when she says that if the relationship is toxic then its justified to cheat...
She is such a red flag.. If the relationship is toxic. End it first.. because if you cheat.. then maybe you are the toxic one..
facts
Lack of affection from one partner..
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17:44 when did drinking heavily become purposely opening yourself to be taken advantage of / take advantage of others?
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Germaine broke up with Asaph? :(
I think so. She unfollowed him on Instagram. He wasn’t there at her birthday party.
Interesting topic but maybe should get a few guys in the podcast as well. Just my 2 cents. Hehehe
ya'll better stop this cheating thing pls, enough
They look like cheaters themselves.
@@user-kd2ez2mb3c Precisely.
I feel that they are trying to justify what they did...
@@jasminetay9820 for sure :)
Surprised, this does not get them "canceled" by netizens 🤣
If the gender were reversed confirm get canceled
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that's some of the biggest L mindsets ever
Every action will have a reaction. Cheaters have to bear the brunt of their actions, usually no good ending.May God have mercy on your souls, particularly the lady who swore in the name of God.
Germaine’s hair suits her soo well
doesnt mean you have a mic mean you can start a podcast
doesnt mean you have ears mean you have to listen to this podcast
@@koon2038 lol you defending these bimbos? ok buddy
@@koon2038 L comment
You guys should talk about OPEN relationships. will be an interesting topic
I have very serious doubts about the first time I hired *usespy online* to help get electronic evidence. I am experienced in law enforcement, my family is a law enforcement family, and I have access to the Internet just like anybody else does. Conspiracy to cheat is a very serious deal beaker, and there's no way I could see any attorney that actually claims to be on your side saying it's inadmissible, or this is not something actionable.
Alt title: Reasons you can use to justify cheating.
Cheating is the most cowardly thing you can do. You are so terrified at confronting the core issues of the relationship that you decide to do things behind your partners back. Despicable.
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I'm aware that cheaters would usually get the short end of the stick in the Internet. I've cheated once and I regretted it so much that I hate my past self and the affair partner who was part of it. Back then, I was vulnerable and not aware of the mistakes that I was going into. I wish to do everything I can to get back to my ex but I know it won't help us both emotionally. It is just best to find a hobby that I love to try to replace my broken heart, acknowledge my mistake and get past the cheating guilt. I still have lingering hopes to get back to my ex to fix the trust that I've broken
I kind of cheated once. No one knows. It didn't go too far. I only regret it because I still miss the person who ghosted me 3 years ago. Mentally that's the biggest burden. I sent a message to wish her well after 3 years, yesterday.. yea she's not going to reply and I know better than to have tried.
It's odd because I wasn't loyal, but also I'm so loyal so that I wouldn't ever leave my partner no matter what.
Eh it feels you guys are just justifying cheating for your own actions.
You want sexually need, better company leave the relationship and find another.
Nonsense please.
The fakuh? If guys were the one saying all these nonsense, they be canceled fr.
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Not a blind eye per se
More like what Agent K says,
"Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to."
but that's how I would tell others. If she cheated on me.
Still on that line of urges and doing things with others.
Its kinda sure.
some people for buffet
some people for movies.
I can have a plan out for different things
but physical intimacy isn't that different from it.
however I still find emotional stuff more damaging.
If you can bare your soul and mind and be vulnerable, I find that more of a ouch.
whereas sure you can take her body but not her choice cos sex is just the motion of motions.
Just another angle of this PoV. its not an excuse for cheating cos I find it very tiring to work all that effort to build a relationship just to burn it in one moment in time.
Cheating is not "morally wrong but justifiable". Punishing someone like a pedo is considered morally wrong BUT justifiable.
If you ever need to justify cheating to make yourself feel justified, then don't get into a monogamous relationship and save both parties' time.
Love hearing the perspectives of this episode!! There's really a lot of dimensions of cheating even though it is immoral, and it boils down to how the person can manage it and who they affect down the road with their decisions
Lol so cheating is ok la..
Did Germaine say "...there's been a SLEUTH of cheating incidents.." when she meant SLEW?? hahahaha...
How come you girls fail to mention Adam Levine relationship where both him and his wife have agreed on not having an exclusive relationship? Also Ned was drop from the Tri guys because HE HAD A RELATIONSHIP IN THE WORKPLACE. Can you guys explore the cases in detail than to just take whats on the surface? Dafuq.
Too many commenters here sitting on their high horses. Let me guess, Christians?? 🤦🏼
Frankie Kao Ling-feng says it best. For ladies, Open your eyes WIDE before marriage but close one eye after marriage if you want it to last.
If you're smart, you can tell these ladies most likely guilty of cheating as well. Alot of what they're sharing also seem like their own experiences.(in which they were the cheater)
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Not all women are disgusting like them. As a woman, I have 0 tolerance for cheating, whether male or female. If you are not loyal, STAY SINGLE.
Please rmb faces like her and do not ever be with such people. Cheating is always wrong and is just purely disgusting. Such people will have karma slapped to their faces.
Absolutely agree with your stand on cheating and I really respect you for that as well❤ but I don’t think these girls were agreeing with/advocating cheating? perhaps just trying to provide an alternative viewpoint/ talking abt past mistakes (we all learn & grow) so let’s not be too harsh on them too😢
@@vl8051 they are trying to find ways to justify the act of cheating. They know it is morally wrong yet said cheating is justifiable? They contradicted themselves a lot too.
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