You're not joking! And you're constantly plagued with "What mood is he/she going to be in today? Am I going to be accused of something for being a few minutes late getting home?" I couldn't do ANYTHING without the constant worry and stress that my ex caused. That's just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Yeah, get out, get away, and get happy again! Don't let them destroy you! Trust me, that's not a place that I want for anyone to be in. Trust your own strength because it takes a strong human being to survive these evil creatures.
I have my own way of getting rid of the pain. I have a few supportive friends on FB who know the situation. I write lyrical poems to fight this battle. I have friends who are struggling with their own battles. I'm trying to show them, in my own way, that they're not alone. You're not alone. (I Apologize) I apologize for being so broken, For being so forward and open, For the craziness that I've been showing, I understand, sometimes it's just overflowing, I apologize if you don't understand, I gotta empty it every chance I can, When the pain becomes physical, It's more than just miserable, It becomes a weight upon my chest, I can't shut off my mind when I try to rest, I apologize for my brokenness, I'll keep quiet, it's for the best. I DON'T THINK SO! I apologize for nothing! I didn't ask for this! Gotta live for something, No matter what it is, I'm doing no harm, Just releasin my pain, I belong on no farm, And I'm not insane, I apologize for nothing, Just walk on by, I have to stand for something, Everything that I I got inside, I apologize for nothing, I'm not a coward, Gotta feel something, My God given power!
@keithstewart7514 All high level politicians lie. They can't get to that power level unless they push some group of motivated yet ill-informed people to go too far. That's where the most power comes from.
From my own experience, narcs can't/won't give you; Kindness. Peace. Respect. Equal consideration. Reciprocity. Honesty. Integrity. Themselves. Vulnerability. Praise. Appreciation. Genuine compliments. Support. Love. Care. Empathy. Compassion. Sincerity. Real connection. Intimacy. Hope. Positivity. Happiness. A good pep talk and hug when you need it. Protection. Safety (emotional and physical). A bright future...
It is heart breaking to see that we have spent one second with such devilish people. This video is a Masterpiece Clarice. I will keep this sentence:" Narcissists cannot give what they do not have". That totally true! Thanks a lot once again.
When it comes to stability and loyalty, being with a narcissist is like faithfully depositing money into a bank every week for years on end and being told at the end by an angry teller that you have a negative balance. I mean, who would keep putting money in after that? That's what you have to ask yourself...
I didn't recognize a lot of these until I got out. Narcissists like to keep their partners overwhelmed with activities and responsibilities while they do next to nothing. Excellent video, Clarice.
I wish more people understood this very important message about Narcissists. At the end, Narcissists just don't care...about you...your emotions...your material things (unless they want 'It' for themselves...your freedom...or even who you are...they just want to take..control...destroy...everyone & everything in their path.😢 Clarices, you do a very good job at explaining how Narcissists are and what they are not. I'm so thankful that I found your channel. Thank you! I will be recommending this video to people. God bless.❤
This is ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON! If there were only one video in the world for a victim of a narcissist to watch, it is this one. Thank you Clarice for creating this video.
Number 11: A narcissist will never be able to provide resolution. There will always be strings attached. Things they may depend on in the future from you, hoping you have forgotten about the past.
I've been trying to regain my self after a failed relationship. I did not know who or what I had been dealing with unto I can into the awareness of a narcissist WHOA! After listening to countless videos and presenters it was such a relief, insightful, validating, and directional. This information right here was icing on the cake- much appreciation
Mine always paid for everything when we wld go eat or to the bar that he loved to stay, but I never asked for anything. He dumped me 7yrs in and right after I lost my dear sweet mom! I was devastated at that time and he did it anyway telling everyone that losing her had taken a toll on me so he was giving me space! I needed him more than ever and he cld care less! I won’t be able to forgive him for that along with many other things he did to me! Now He is smearing my name because I have not answered his texts and I’ve stopped reaching out to him! They are so crazy/evil!! Love your videos
Could you share more details about this experience of abandonment in the most painful phase of your life ?Going through a similar one, so just wanted to connect.
When you needed him he dumped you because you were in pain no empathy. The narc near me wanted to take selfies at our mothers funeral. But in front of relatives was so attentive to my sister. It may hurt but you will get better not being near him and sorry about your mum
@@poojachanana2889 I stayed with my mom and took care of her so that was taking time away from him. He wld drop by for 15mins with a beer in hand just so he wldnt look like the POS he was to our friends. He wld then run to the bar to flirt with whoever he cld get attention from, preferably younger bartenders. Anyway, he was pulling away acting so disconnected for months and then after my mom passed, he rlly started the discarding. Ghosting me because he said that I was not as fun since losing her took a toll on me so he was being thghtful by giving me time to grieve. It was discussing how he did me. The pain I was and still am feeling from missing momma, has helped me to get over him, but I need help with not caring what people are hearing from him because it’s all my fault now since I’m not answering his messages or calls. I hope you can get something good out of my story and if you need to vent, I’m here. 🙏🌺
@@zeinmohamedali1976 thank you so much! My mom is definitely giving me strength and helping me to get through this. I talk to her all the time. She wld be so disappointed in him because myself and my family treated him so good, even thgh they didn’t rlly care for him. Lol! He was an alcoholic and thght he was too good for us. We will all get through these times and be stronger than ever!🙏💪💛
This is the husband the narcissist for 21 years found out about narcissist 9 months ago if only I knew what I no now I feel like a dam fool for real thank for this on point message!!!!
Thank You Clarice for once again affirming what we all have discovered and endured via a devastating relationship with a narcissist. On every point ....you nailed it!!!!
This is a good one. I wish it wasn’t this way, I cared for her so much. All she seem to enjoy was making things difficult for me though. Thank you for the videos.
Hi Clarice, I am stuck by always thinking of her but...but your explanations and every word you say ...thank you it's an exact science...that will give me total closure, thank you Clarice❤.
@04:45 you’ll have to fight the battles the narcissist created alone as she tiptoes away from the guy she gave a suggestive look to in order to triangulate him with you!
I am having a relationship with the these type of person aroun 1 and half year😢always no reason he hurts me as usual and go thrue with a mood swings always. And also he blocked my mom also. He never listen to anyone and always like to cover their guilty with put it on me and covering them selves with lies. He always force me to break and end the connection with me. In every time keep fighting for no reason. After stressed out and away from communicating with me week or two weeks and then come back around and ghosting . Im tired of this connection and his rude words what i didnt have done. Dont know what to do ? Can anyone give me a kind word for this what should i do ? Um a undergraduate and cause of this problem i cannot do my studies as well😢please help me with some advices😢
It's not one thing on that list that I have received from the narc. I mean at a time I thought I was getting them but now I know I never did. I guess I felt that I was getting bcoz I was the one doing all the giving and I was equipped with enough for the both of us.
Ny younger sister brought the devil into our home. Cannot get him out. Gone through hell. He has convinced her they are soulmates. Only he loves her and wants her to b happy. Am the monster the idiot who doesn't know how to behave just overemotional and crazy and useless. They make auch a big deal about maintenance of the house even when i clean its not good enough nothing is because they want me dead or disappear from their perfect lives
The narc says it's his house. Thinks he is entitled to do that. Wants to mock me and tell me to throw him out. Because sister is legally allowed to stay there he does too. Cannot afford to pay lawyers to get him evicted
my narc will be 79 yrs old shortly he is not working right as in his sexual duties nor does he ever like to sit and talk oh he will if I have great gossip about some one else.. I see a lot of stirring up things his and I can be chatting and all of a sudden he will start hitting me why is that???? I am doing no contact now it has been 3 weeks now..
Yes that's correct they are mentally imbalanced once you can find them in pensive mood then suddenly for no reason you can find them in a bad disinterested mood NEVER HURT THEM SPECIALLY THE COVERT ONES TACTFUL WITHDRAW IT IS VERY PAINFUL TO FORSAKE A CLOSE FRIEND OTHER WISE GET ALONG WITHOUT EMOTIONAL BOND
Maybe the narcissist should be given a Rx of micro dosing .. it might help to heal their sick minds and cold hearts the 4th dimension is where they will land …
A narcissist will drain you mentally. They are very argumentative and they will stress you out
True
💯
You're not joking! And you're constantly plagued with "What mood is he/she going to be in today? Am I going to be accused of something for being a few minutes late getting home?" I couldn't do ANYTHING without the constant worry and stress that my ex caused. That's just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Yeah, get out, get away, and get happy again! Don't let them destroy you! Trust me, that's not a place that I want for anyone to be in. Trust your own strength because it takes a strong human being to survive these evil creatures.
I'm involved with a narcissist and I'm extremely drained,at my wits end,non stop drama.
I have my own way of getting rid of the pain. I have a few supportive friends on FB who know the situation. I write lyrical poems to fight this battle. I have friends who are struggling with their own battles. I'm trying to show them, in my own way, that they're not alone. You're not alone.
(I Apologize)
I apologize for being so broken,
For being so forward and open,
For the craziness that I've been showing,
I understand, sometimes it's just overflowing,
I apologize if you don't understand,
I gotta empty it every chance I can,
When the pain becomes physical,
It's more than just miserable,
It becomes a weight upon my chest,
I can't shut off my mind when I try to rest,
I apologize for my brokenness,
I'll keep quiet, it's for the best.
I DON'T THINK SO!
I apologize for nothing!
I didn't ask for this!
Gotta live for something,
No matter what it is,
I'm doing no harm,
Just releasin my pain,
I belong on no farm,
And I'm not insane,
I apologize for nothing,
Just walk on by,
I have to stand for something,
Everything that I I got inside,
I apologize for nothing,
I'm not a coward,
Gotta feel something,
My God given power!
Honesty is a foreign language to a narcissist
And far to many Republicans
@keithstewart7514 All high level politicians lie. They can't get to that power level unless they push some group of motivated yet ill-informed people to go too far. That's where the most power comes from.
"Run run as far away as you can".😕
From my own experience, narcs can't/won't give you; Kindness. Peace. Respect. Equal consideration. Reciprocity. Honesty. Integrity. Themselves. Vulnerability. Praise. Appreciation. Genuine compliments. Support. Love. Care. Empathy. Compassion. Sincerity. Real connection. Intimacy. Hope. Positivity. Happiness. A good pep talk and hug when you need it. Protection. Safety (emotional and physical). A bright future...
It is heart breaking to see that we have spent one second with such devilish people. This video is a Masterpiece Clarice. I will keep this sentence:" Narcissists cannot give what they do not have". That totally true! Thanks a lot once again.
When it comes to stability and loyalty, being with a narcissist is like faithfully depositing money into a bank every week for years on end and being told at the end by an angry teller that you have a negative balance. I mean, who would keep putting money in after that? That's what you have to ask yourself...
Perfect description
OMG!! THIS NEEDS TO BE PUT ON BILLBOARDS ALL OVER THE WORLD FOR EVERYONE TO READ!! SO TRUE!! PEACE AND LOVE BE WITH US ALL....
Here is my list 1) love 2) say thank you 3) praise 4) empathy 5) freedom 6) honesty 7) stability is non existent.
I didn't recognize a lot of these until I got out. Narcissists like to keep their partners overwhelmed with activities and responsibilities while they do next to nothing. Excellent video, Clarice.
Thank you for your generosity🤗
I wish more people understood this very important message about Narcissists.
At the end, Narcissists just don't care...about you...your emotions...your material things (unless they want 'It' for themselves...your freedom...or even who you are...they just want to take..control...destroy...everyone & everything in their path.😢
Clarices, you do a very good job at explaining how Narcissists are and what they are not. I'm so thankful that I found your channel. Thank you! I will be recommending this video to people. God bless.❤
Run for the hills as fast as you can
This is ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON! If there were only one video in the world for a victim of a narcissist to watch, it is this one. Thank you Clarice for creating this video.
Number 11:
A narcissist will never be able to provide resolution.
There will always be strings attached.
Things they may depend on in the future from you, hoping you have forgotten about the past.
I love intimacy with people and it fills me up, and any kind of intimacy is what I never had!
There are so many around now.I can count 4 in my circle of friends that you describe as narcs.I am a magnet for them.
it's like they were spoilt and deprived at the same time as a child, one parent being bad and the other over compensating 😮
I’ve experienced every single one of these. Makes complete sense.
I've been trying to regain my self after a failed relationship. I did not know who or what I had been dealing with unto I can into the awareness of a narcissist WHOA! After listening to countless videos and presenters it was such a relief, insightful, validating, and directional. This information right here was icing on the cake- much appreciation
Great videos.. Clarice pls keep them coming
Mine always paid for everything when we wld go eat or to the bar that he loved to stay, but I never asked for anything. He dumped me 7yrs in and right after I lost my dear sweet mom! I was devastated at that time and he did it anyway telling everyone that losing her had taken a toll on me so he was giving me space! I needed him more than ever and he cld care less! I won’t be able to forgive him for that along with many other things he did to me! Now He is smearing my name because I have not answered his texts and I’ve stopped reaching out to him! They are so crazy/evil!! Love your videos
Yes they are very evil people i had one for 10 years thank God imma away from from he was a sick man
Could you share more details about this experience of abandonment in the most painful phase of your life ?Going through a similar one, so just wanted to connect.
When you needed him he dumped you because you were in pain no empathy. The narc near me wanted to take selfies at our mothers funeral. But in front of relatives was so attentive to my sister. It may hurt but you will get better not being near him and sorry about your mum
@@poojachanana2889 I stayed with my mom and took care of her so that was taking time away from him. He wld drop by for 15mins with a beer in hand just so he wldnt look like the POS he was to our friends. He wld then run to the bar to flirt with whoever he cld get attention from, preferably younger bartenders. Anyway, he was pulling away acting so disconnected for months and then after my mom passed, he rlly started the discarding. Ghosting me because he said that I was not as fun since losing her took a toll on me so he was being thghtful by giving me time to grieve. It was discussing how he did me. The pain I was and still am feeling from missing momma, has helped me to get over him, but I need help with not caring what people are hearing from him because it’s all my fault now since I’m not answering his messages or calls. I hope you can get something good out of my story and if you need to vent, I’m here. 🙏🌺
@@zeinmohamedali1976 thank you so much! My mom is definitely giving me strength and helping me to get through this. I talk to her all the time. She wld be so disappointed in him because myself and my family treated him so good, even thgh they didn’t rlly care for him. Lol! He was an alcoholic and thght he was too good for us. We will all get through these times and be stronger than ever!🙏💪💛
This is the husband the narcissist for 21 years found out about narcissist 9 months ago if only I knew what I no now I feel like a dam fool for real thank for this on point message!!!!
Don't feel like a fool. Better late than never. Good luck with your journey to healing and building yourself again
Took me over 20 years as well...almost cost me my life no joke .....
the truth being proved is a narcissist worst nightmare
I love listening to this woman. She is very smart. Makes you feel like she is just talking to you.
WONDERFUL! 💯 TRUE! But, unfortunately I learned the hard way. I lost EVERYTHING due to the Narcissist 's lies.
100 % Correct
Thank You Clarice for once again affirming what we all have discovered and endured via a devastating relationship with a narcissist. On every point ....you nailed it!!!!
Very beneficial video thanks ❤
You are always on point Clarice! ❤
I am reparenting myself
Thank you for sharing ❤
The sad thing, is that they are close to me.
You are true Clarice 🕊🙂
🤗💖
This is a good one. I wish it wasn’t this way, I cared for her so much. All she seem to enjoy was making things difficult for me though. Thank you for the videos.
Hi Clarice, I am stuck by always thinking of her but...but your explanations and every word you say ...thank you it's an exact science...that will give me total closure, thank you Clarice❤.
Make a list of all of her toxic traits and read them whenever you miss her. That should help
@@Unbreakablechic Thank you...
This is EXCELLENT and 100% on target!💯💯💯
It so true thanks I ❤❤
So essential for me to know this. I chased his love. Consistent valuing of me was what I needed so I could believe it. This video is a gem for me.♦
@04:45 you’ll have to fight the battles the narcissist created alone as she tiptoes away from the guy she gave a suggestive look to in order to triangulate him with you!
Absolutely 💯% true
A narcissist love is not true, love is what you do PS these are the facts
Wow so true
So much true 💯 thanx for sharing ❤️🙏
Very GOOD Video !!!
👏👏👏👏
Thank you! Glad it was useful🙏💖
I would like you to talk about why scammers are narcissist.
EXCELLENT INFO
Must read Alexander's Long Gravel Road Journey of Hope. Great book about bullying and narcissism. Very insightful
I am having a relationship with the these type of person aroun 1 and half year😢always no reason he hurts me as usual and go thrue with a mood swings always. And also he blocked my mom also. He never listen to anyone and always like to cover their guilty with put it on me and covering them selves with lies. He always force me to break and end the connection with me. In every time keep fighting for no reason. After stressed out and away from communicating with me week or two weeks and then come back around and ghosting . Im tired of this connection and his rude words what i didnt have done. Dont know what to do ? Can anyone give me a kind word for this what should i do ? Um a undergraduate and cause of this problem i cannot do my studies as well😢please help me with some advices😢
All spot on! 💯
Exactly!!!
It's not one thing on that list that I have received from the narc. I mean at a time I thought I was getting them but now I know I never did. I guess I felt that I was getting bcoz I was the one doing all the giving and I was equipped with enough for the both of us.
Facts.
All so true....
Hi you are 100 percent correct thank you for helping me to know that I'm not crazy ❤
What a narcissist can never give you.
Anything REAL.
💯correct..love from INDIA🇮🇳🕊
Thank you.
MY MOTHER WAS A MASSIVE NARCISSIST 😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢😢 AND MY DAD AND I WERE HER NUMBR 1 TARGETS AND VICTIMS
Great video.
Thanks for listening.
Ny younger sister brought the devil into our home. Cannot get him out. Gone through hell. He has convinced her they are soulmates. Only he loves her and wants her to b happy. Am the monster the idiot who doesn't know how to behave just overemotional and crazy and useless. They make auch a big deal about maintenance of the house even when i clean its not good enough nothing is because they want me dead or disappear from their perfect lives
Tell them to leave
The narc says it's his house. Thinks he is entitled to do that. Wants to mock me and tell me to throw him out. Because sister is legally allowed to stay there he does too. Cannot afford to pay lawyers to get him evicted
a genuine hug
So true❤
Good evening Clarice ❤
Good evening!😊
Excellent 💯📌📌
Thanks🙏
This is so true
Quite true
Thanks!
Thank you so much!
Is it wrong, for we who suffered/suffer at the hands of the narcissist, to wonder what the grass is like on the other side?
my narc will be 79 yrs old shortly he is not working right as in his sexual duties nor does he ever like to sit and talk oh he will if I have great gossip about some one else.. I see a lot of stirring up things his and I can be chatting and all of a sudden he will start hitting me why is that???? I am doing no contact now it has been 3 weeks now..
In case I did not now thad ! 5:04
True!
💯 true✅️✍️
My narcissist told me that he is critical and sinical!
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
❤❤❤
💯💯
👍
Not Nick Cannon. He's making babies and money. So maybe the curse started after him or He's a more powerful warlock than they are witches🤷🏾♀️
😢😢😢😢
But why can’t they are they mentally ill
Yes that's correct they are mentally imbalanced once you can find them in pensive mood then suddenly for no reason you can find them in a bad disinterested mood NEVER HURT THEM SPECIALLY THE COVERT ONES TACTFUL WITHDRAW IT IS VERY PAINFUL TO FORSAKE A CLOSE FRIEND OTHER WISE GET ALONG WITHOUT EMOTIONAL BOND
Maybe the narcissist should be given a Rx of micro dosing .. it might help to heal their sick minds and cold hearts the 4th dimension is where they will land …
Kicked out of HELL!!!
Not on does this apply to every Narc of my entire family...
It also cleary applies to the Former President of whom s last name rhymes with
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