Dearly Loved: Dealing with the Death of A Parent
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
- This video is helpful for adult children who have experienced the death of their parent. You will hear how four adult children have experienced their grief, what has helped them and ways they honor and keep connections to the memories of their parents.
Nostalgia took on a whole new meaning after my mom died; I just want to go back in time.
I can totally relate. I lost my mom last year and just want her back. This life without her is so empty it just doesn't seem real sometimes.
@@LBart218 I know what you mean ive felt like that for the past months..... i lost my mom November 21 2019
@@artcruz5603 Thank you for commenting and I'm very sorry about your mother. It's a terrible thing we all have to go through (unless we go first, which would be awful for them) but no time ever seems like the right time to lose them. Maybe if my mom had hit 100 years old but even then I'd still miss her.
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I'm so sorry! I held my My precious Daddys hand as he took his last breath 1 year ago. It's still unreal
This is exactly how I feel. My mom just died on July 21st less than a month after being diagnosed. All I want to do is go back in time before that day.
I lost my mom 11 days ago from cancer. I quit my job to be with her everyday and take care of her. I don't regret that one bit. It was time I would never get back. I miss her so much! This pain runs deep! 💔🙏🏼
I watched my mother die as they removed her from the machines after open heart surgery. I tried to bend down while speaking to her and thanking her for everything she ever did for me. Then nearly 2 years later I went to my parents home and found my father dead in the bathroom. And it was horrible but I felt blessed that I was there to be with both of my beloved parents. I told them both that I loved them and that we would meet again. When this happens and you are close to your parents you just can't fathom that they are dead and you are not able to talk with them anymore, take them out for hot fudge sundaes or sit on their deck and watch the hummingbirds. Your whole world really comes crashing down when you lose people like that. And I am still not over the loss and suddenly I start to cry if reminded of them both if I look at a photograph or read a christmas card or something like that. There are no steps to grieving. One minute you SEEM to accept the situation and the next you are wailing like a baby. And I don't feel any guilt at all that I am this way - grief counselling is for the birds. The loss is real, they cannot be replaced, and there is no getting over it. I will miss them until the day I die and I am not embarassed at all. They were my world.
This is what I am going through now. Lost my Dad 2 Sundays ago and now no more Dad and mum. I can't control my emotions. I cry everyday and broken. I don't know how to live anymore
Just lost my mom 4-24-19 shes all I ever had and now I'm alone and I miss her so much 😔 found her that morning unexpectedly.doesnt seem real 🦋🐬⚘ I love you mom rest in peace! 😢
I am so so sorry. I lost my dad 5-20-19. I wish the world could know the people that are lost.
@@stephaniec8816 I'm losing my dad right now, and I'm devastated. I dont know how we are gonna get through this.
My dad also died on this date and im STILL not able to get over it ig we all just grieve differently and in our own times
My love and strength with you, my mum was murdered yesterday at 60yrs old and it’s so hard to deal with as we had fallen out around a year ago which is making me feel 100 times worse. Stay strong
I’m trully sorry
I lost my Beloved Dad of a sudden heart attack when I was 12. It was surreal. He was my protector, I loved him Dearly. At the time there was nothing for children. I wanted to talk about him all the time, but my family took his pictures down and his name was not mentioned again. Please join a group. You feel like you are the only one. No one in school talked to me, just sad and scared of what to say.We could look at each other and know what the other one was thinking. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him, and I am 60 years old now
I lost my father 5/5/2019 and he was 56 and I’m 14, and i miss him so much. It doesn’t seem real it seems like a nightmare, he passed away from epilepsy and acute liver failure and it’s killing me. (Christopher Dean Atkinson) and I loved him more than anything on this earth
As I continue to grieve and grieve and look at all those who we have lost I’ve come to the realization that or departed ones are in better place. Free from pain and life burdens. One day we will meet them and it will be the happiest day of our lives
i lost my mom today i was at my cousins house and she died of cancer i thought everything was alright and i thought she was doing better but she wasn’t i didn’t even to say my final words
I just lost my dad 7 month ago. I'm 12 and I'm really lost...
I’m 12 too and my dad died on 11/18/20 of a heat attack while he was in the hospital for an asthma attack. Rest in piece dad
I lost my dad at 5 am this morning and don't know what to do. I'm confused, shocked. He died prematurely and healthily, his 50th birthday is soon. I am a senior in high school struggling as it is and this is... i don't even have words to express my thoughts or feelings. I'm lost
ニコル *I feel so sad for you. I lost my mom back in April, and I wasn’t able to even to stay in class without having a breakdown, do what you can. Don’t let the teachers persuade you to get back to class. Talk as much as you can. I was actually getting Ill from keeping it in. So please talk to everyone you can*
tuvwxyz21 I’ve been sick and still am accepting it as reality kind of... it’s honestly hard but I don’t cry as much because my body and mind are tired. Thanks for the message
*Bitch * thanks, I’ll go back to school on Monday but if I need to go home I will, it’s really hard. I totally feel you and thanks for the advice
ニコル No problem. I didn’t even go to school till 2 weeks. So your really strong💖
hi there! so, I’m watching this video about 8 and a half years later after my dad passed away. I’m a senior in high school and I was 9 when he passed away. of course, it is a very different experience being that we were/are very different ages at their time of death, but there is always comfort in the fact that we, along with many others, share such an experience. my dad passed away quickly and suddenly as well - over the course of a week or two, except we had no idea he would pass away. please, if you can, seek therapy or something like that. process your emotions now instead of later, if you can. the grief process doesn’t end, and it is so hard, but I can assure you that there is a time where it will start to get easier. and you will be able to look back on memories and smile. it’s still hard for me now, but I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and I am proud of you for processing this event as best you can. 💗
When i lost my dad, even today, i still think that my parents are invincible. How can he die? But you soon understand and accept that they are people like any other. Such an enormous pain.
That was my issue as well. Instead of just spending time with my mom, I tried to fix her cancer. She was mom.. She's always been here, and always will be. Sorry mom...
Sorry for your 'loss' Chris.
@@redshift6743 And i'm sorry for yours... x
@@chrismlt7150 Thank you.
My mom passed away 4 weeks ago. She would be 48 this November. I'm now 30 yrs old with an 18 yr old brother and second cousins. She was laid to rest next to my grandma whom passed in 2007. A very difficult time, no doubt. I hope that people who have lost loved ones find some kind of peace within themselves. 😇✌
Your mother must of has you early in life just as my own mother had me early in life. I am so very sorry that you lost her just as I lost my mother. I can't speak for others, but I have peace inside of me. I am just saddened that she is gone. The sadness is there but I do have peace. Again, I grant my condolences to you and your family for losing your mom The loss of a parent is very sad, especially when you are older. It makes us think of our own mortality as well. That was strong inside of me and I will make efforts to keep our family together so that we won't lose one another so suddenly. My brother lived with my mom and he was not there that morning to save her life. I guess it wasn't his fault but he was supposed to be there for our mother because she was sick and went through dialysis and had cancer. So she was strong about life but her body was weak from these diagnosis that she had. It is a very difficult time. She was the center of our family and she brought us together and that was the reason that we were able to see one another and now that will change. Your mother died at a very young age. What did she die from if you are able to tell me. Please be Blessed in your soul from Grace and Peace and may each of you become closer as a result. Please write back.
I've lost a grandpa before i still cry for him. And the worst thing is that i was a baby. So i barely got to know him. And i also kindof can't put myself in that situation. Because i can't remember him.😔
@anne smith i know i will
I just lost my father, I'm 34. I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope you have peace in your heart
I’m gonna pray in November for your mum asking God to say happy bday to her from me. And so I don’t forget imma put it in my calendar
I lost my mom about a month ago. She was 49 and I’m 26 it is extremely hard lately this has really helped me.
I'm 26 too and lost my mom this last summer at age 60. Love and miss her very much.
I lost my mom June 12 2019. ATV accident. She was 50 years old. Im 25. Youngest of four. I still miss her always will. Talk to people. Join a grief support group. That has helped me a lot.
Sorry for your loss.. i hope you can find peace someday i know how it feels im broken i lost my mom November 21 2019 she meant the world to me ❤💔
My mom died at age 48 from cancer. I miss you mom, and I love you. I just wish I could have seen your smile again.
I lost my father last month. Losing a parent is one of the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with with.
I lost my best friend my Mom on June 4, 2020 due to Covid-19. I did not get to see or talk with her 3 weeks before she passed. I still hear her walking around the house. I am heart broken. I love you Mom.
Lost my mom unexpectly 22 mths ago. We were VERY, VERY close, and for awhile I thought I was doing OK with the loss. But lately, I am struggling again; I feel a tremendous sadness and loss, and nothing brings me joy anymore. I miss her so much. It's a physical pain.
I miss my loving momma too. Our bond was like no other...
You gotta call out to GOD ENTREAT HIM TO REMOVE THE UNBEARABLE PAIN OF THE MOMENT. He will.. He will.. that's the only way I made it through
To the beautiful souls in the comments section, you make me feel so much less alone in the common struggle we are all battling. Take care of yourselves today.
I lost my mam 8 months ago .. when I realise that I'm never going to see my mam again I get panicky & a horrible feeling that I can't explain , now i no what a broken heart is 😢
Joanna Jess Therapy or grief groups helps a lot for that, panic attacks usually comes from holding in feelings. I have had a lot of panic as well after my close grandpa died, but talking to people and crying helps a lot on the stress. Panic and stress is very treatable when it comes from grief.
May Jesus bless you with peace. 💖
Thank you both x
i feel you..same here.
I’m right here with you i lost my mom 5 months ago and i honestly don’t know what to do
I remember when it was my granny, my mum and me. now its just me. I have a daughter and my heart breaks for her knowing that if nature takes its course, she'll be grieving next. its so inevitable, but feels so wrong.
If i had been there i would huged and cried with you. Stay as strong as possible. Better days ahead
God bless you 🙏
I lost my mum a week ago suddenly,she died of a heart attack . I just hope she's not worrying anymore and safe , I'll love her forever ,my wee mammy ,my best friend xxx
I watched my mum die from cancer at 10 years of age. I never truly got to say goodbye, and it will always hurt.
Liam my heart goes out to you
Liam my dad is dying and in hospital he has cancer and he has been put on pain killer and drugs to make him comfortable for when he passes, i am only 13 and my dad is my best friend
Sorry....
@@robertapage7474 I'm so sorry you're going through this. My mom just passed 2 months ago. I hope you and your family have a really good support network. I'm struggling alot right now but I know it has to get better. Do your best to get those important conversations in. Know that it's okay to be scared, confused, angry, sad, or any other emotion. You will go through many. How are you doing this week?
I understand your pain I lost my mom to cancer at that age and 18 years later that pain is still there. Getting older doesn’t make it easier it makes it harder, but we get through the day and do our best. God bless.
I lost my Dad on Jan 7 th 2019 My Dad was everything for me. My hero, my life , my everything.. No one else in this world would love me as much as my Dad loved me. After he left me, My life turned upside down . Everything changed. I lost all my happiness. His memories are killing me. I have a 2 year old son.. it’s for him am still alive. I am totally depressed. I am unable to bear his loss.. want to see him , want to talk to him, want to hear his voice, though I know that it’s impossible. I couldn’t control myself. I lost everything.My life is shattered. If anyone read this please let me know if there is anyway to see my Dad.. I have my Dad’s dresses, chappal, watch mobile and his books with me.. I always hug all that and cry whenever I feel I can’t. Don’t know how am going to lead this life. If there is a life after death, I want to see him soon. I am praying daily to Jesus to show my Dad in my dreams and let him talk to me.. love u Dad.. miss u.. I am shattered. It’s going to be 5 months. Day by day ur memories are making me to cry more and more. time doesn’t heal anything. This pain will be there with me until I die and meet u.. no one is there to understand me. Only my father understands me and he s no more..
So very sorry. I lost my mother 2 years ago, and she was the most important person in my life since I was born in 1979.
I understand that you are longing to hear from your father. I begged God every day just to know she was okay. What I would say is don't try too hard. I know that sounds counterproductive, but when WE do all WE can to contact those that have passed, we don't really allow them to contact us. Or, maybe God wants us to just trust him.
I haven't spoke with my wonderful mother like l would like, but she has certainly contacted me.
Maybe try to let go a little bit. I know right now that seems impossible dor you(I still cry every day). But maybe finding joy in your child or a bird singing will refocus you on love of the living.
Another thing I recommend is going to the www.nderf.org website and reading some of the thousands of near death experiences people have submitted there. It is the largest actual study on NDEs. Anytime I get really down, I go there and read the "exceptional NDE" ones. They remind me that mom is in a place where she is no longer in physical or emotional pain. She is finally home... Just like your father. And we will see them again.
(((internet hugs)))
Josh
Mr Incognito Thank u so much brother for ur kind words.. really means a lot at this time.. soo sorry for ur mom also. I can feel ur pain too. As U said, i definitely go through the website . Though u don’t know me , u felt my pain and consoled me with ur kind words. Once again thank u so much brother. God bless you
@@jpdivya17 You're most welcome my friend. Also, thank you for the condolences.
I hope you're hanging in there. I lost my dad a couple days ago. Your comment reminds me of how I feel about my dad. I'm so sorry for your loss
I understand. I feel everything you write here. The thing that makes me feel better is the thought that they are happy where they are. Many years ago before I knew of NDEs, my former boss told me of meeting a most wonderful being of light that radiated a love that cannot be described by any words in this world. He was dead 15 minutes due surgery and successfully brought back . He was a good person that did not understand anything about religion. I now think meeting and hearing his story was a gift from God to help me through this most difficult lesson. Take courage that Your father met this being and is very happy now. I do.
I lost my mother one month ago to cancer, and my world has been changed forever. She was 63, an animal lover and truly my best friend. I will NEVER, ever get over it. But I'm honestly trying to make peace with it. Losing a parent is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through and one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know. I'm so glad I saw this, it was informative and comforting.
Sorry for your loss.
Hi I hope everyone is well. Just lost my dad on Sept 22. I'm 47 and my dad was 71. I am absolutely devastated by this loss. He was such a nice guy and such a great dad. I miss him and there really isn't much more I can say.
Matt E S I'm so sorry! I know your pain
Matt E S, I just wanted to say that I hope you are further along on this never ending journey of healing.
I’m approaching the 5 year anniversary of my fathers passing next month and dreading every moment of it.
May you continue to heal my brother in pain. 🤍
@@StarAnnasDream Thank you!!! Sorry just seeing this now.
@@chrisc4903 Thank you for taking the time to write this. We are built to withstand these types of things, they definitely do make us stronger. It's just a horrible way to get strong. I hope you can tell some funny stories about your father on the day of his passing. Learn to enjoy his birthday, anniversary in Heaven, and the holidays. When you talk about him on those days, you will feel his presence.
How are you doing now? I just lost my mom and feel absolutely destroyed and devastated. I have no relationship with my family and have no siblings and no wife & kids. All alone. Don’t know what to do.
My mum committed suicide when I was only five and now that I’m 14 I really just want to shout at everyone I see, trying to deal with the stress of school and family life and everything all piling up on top of me, I just can’t figure out why she had to do it, I have to go to counciling to deal with my anger and I wish had a mum like everyone else. If I’m on a phone call with one of my friends I always hear to them talking to their mum like shit and I always think that if I had my mum back, I would never speak to her like that because you never know when you can lose them
R.I.P ROSION NIXON❤️ I love you mum xx
Did she ever get mad at you cuz maybe you were too much for her when you were newborn do you have any brothers sisters
@@IAm-zo1bo wtf are you trying to say, that this was my fault, I wasfive. How fucking dare you put the blame on me
@@JackWilliams04 what you said is just wrong in many ways.grow a heart
I’m sorry for the loss of your Mum. I wish all kids could respect their parents, I’m glad you feel the way you do. I’m grieving for the loss of several family members now and it’s really kicking my ass.....I’m fighting it but it’s rough! Love to YOU!!!!
NextGen EU internet hugs to you
I still remember it like it was yesterday. I was finally getting over my mums death, I was doing really well after also dealing with depression for three months. I still remember my phone ringing and my sisters shaking voice that told me that my dad had a heart attack. I miss him everyday. I miss them everyday. There’s something about losing your parents you only understand when you lost them...
Thank you God for this message.. I am truly grateful...Amen..
It feels so bad how do people think we can just carry on???
Thanks for this video. My dad died suddenly at 63 years old...and although his death was painless and fast...we all still can't understand what happened. This video helped a lot. Thanks.
My mother passed away in August 16th 2016 at the age of 62. She was my life. Life is so tough even 2 years later but I wanted to say I understand your pain and hope some day you find peace with all of this..
MY NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE.
I just lost my dad a month ago today. He died on June 18, 2019 of bladder cancer. The surgeon took out a small tumor in his bladder and it came back. The same doctor removed another one. Thing is, he never saw the large one to the left of it. Another surgeon found it clear as day. The bladder had to be removed. The doctors were 100% sure they got all of the cancer, and yet he is gone. They were all wrong. The tumor was a beast, and spread everywhere including his brain. My dad was a human calculator. Such a kind, brilliant man. I know all of your pain. I am experiencing it to my core. I am on an emotional roller coaster myself. I am going to tell MY STORY of my NDE. I want to give every single one of you hope. It is long.I wish I could use words that would even honor this experience. Thing is, words to absolutely describe what I experienced aren't as powerful as I would like them to be. I've been reading all of your comments. As someone who cares for each and every one of you, and all of those you have lost recently or long ago, typing all of this will be worth it even if it helps just one of you. I wish I could have known every single one of yours that has returned HOME.
MY STORY
On July 4, 1989, I died on the operating table. I was having and emergency C section. I was brought back OBVIOUSLY. I remember everything. I remember telling my x husband and the anesth. that I was leaving. X said, "You are not leaving." He didn't believe me. I could feel myself going backwards. I was so scared because no one could stop it and I knew it. I left through the crown of my head, and went backwards with such speed. I remember hearing the muffled voices of all the people in the operating room and the clanging of the instruments. I left in excruciating pain. All of a sudden there was no more pain. It was quiet where I was. I was in a place that had no boundaries. I remember that clear as day. I remember standing but not touching the ground because from what I remember there was no ground. I researched this from stories of others who had near death experiences and one woman said she was , "hovering." That is the exact word. I too was "hovering." I remember being able to see myself which was extremely weird and not a reality here. It was like say standing in front of you and looking at you head on and seeing what you can only see in a mirror. I was able to see me like someone standing right in front of me would see me. I cannot remember what I was wearing but it wasn't even a thought in my mind. I do remember that I wasn't of solid mass. There was transparency and a glow. I remember that glow. It was the color orange. Like a creamsicle color. I KNEW EXACTLY WHO I WAS MORE THAN I KNEW WHO I WAS ON EARTH. I was solid in my knowledge of who I was. So hard to explain. Thing is I was not aware of having a name, I had no idea where I had just come from. I had no idea the excruciating pain and screaming that I had just left. No idea at all. What I did know is that I knew my eyes were open and it was dark all around me. I wasn't scared at all just frustrated because I was looking around and wondering where were the people. I remember thinking I am talking and no one is answering me. I couldn't understand that AT ALL. What I can understand now is that I was not talking through my mouth but through my thoughts and it was natural. Very natural. Immediately I was screaming bloody murder. I was brought back.. I went from no pain, quietness, and then without any warning I was back in my body. I didn't sense at all how I got back in. I felt how I had left and sensed the speed but there was nothing no transportation back. What I know for sure is that I was in a holding pattern if you want to call it that. I was being worked on by the doctors to bring me back. I truly believe I was on my way and then came to an abrupt halt. Time here is well time. Where I was there is no time. It is the "NOW." What could have been a minute, two minutes of being gone is NOT what it is in the other dimension. In that dimension it is endless. Again, I don't want to supplement "IT" with the word "TIME," because it doesn't make sense to do that. I know it is confusing but unless you experience it, you won't know AT ALL what I mean. It wasn't until about eight years later that I even remembered this experience. Up until that point, never once did I have any knowledge of what had happened to me, what I experienced. It was when my x mother-in-law told me that one of the nurses came out to her and my x, and told her that they are trying to save me. Then it all came back as clear as anything. I went to the hospital weeks later to medical records. I requested copies of that day, and when I saw the records I was numb. I couldn't even make sense of them because the majority of what was written had been blacked out. The main doctor screwed up royally and she knew it. So didn't every doctor and nurse in that operating room that day. They knew she screwed up. That operating room was filled with so many people just for me that day. Things went wrong and were bad. A nurse who was with me before I went into the operating room came to me four days later and said, "I have been doing this for 30 years and I have never seen anything so morbid." I remember the fear from the nurses and anesthesiologist in my room. Everyone was there but the doctor. She had been paged and paged. The anesth. couldn't wait any longer to numb me from the chest down. He had to do it in a room where I was instead of the operating room. I remember looking towards the door as he was putting the needle in my back and one nurse said angrily, "where is she??" My whole point here is that your loved one is more alive than he could ever be here. He or she KNOWS exactly who they are. They are just on a different plane. That is it, a different plane. Time doesn't exist. There is no past or future. It is always NOW. We as humans are so small. It is like living on Earth is fake. Again, until you experience a NDE it is difficult to know exactly what I am talking about because I don't have the capability to put it into the "RIGHT" words. To feel you leave your body at an incredible speed through your head is beyond words. You have no control at all because there is no control. Our bodies are just portals. It's what is inside that is solid what means everything. Walking this earth is like being in a pool of water and opening your eyes. That is the only way I can word it. Things are never clear. I will never forget that feeling of KNOWING who I was. You are not able to do that here for whatever reason. So humans here stopped me from going on in the other realm. How long I was gone from here I will never know. It couldn't have been long whatsoever. It just seemed longer where I was because I was able to think and feel and wonder. I have no clue what the line of the two worlds means as far as time goes. Believe me, your love one is at peace. He/she lives and don't ever think "do you really go on?" You absolutely without doubt do!!!!!!!!!!! It's brutal for the ones left behind but I truly believe when you get to where they are, it will be like you were never apart.
Thank you for telling your story. 💗
I lost my Dad almost 1 years ago. In the beginning, it was hard. Some people at work didn't really understand. But, I ignored them. It took me a while to be able to go through the day without crying. I can now go through many days without crying. I still have those moments, but, I take and turn them around and make them positive instead of so sad. Now, I have decided and will be certified tomorrow as a Spiritual Care Visitor. Going through the classes has given me more understanding to go through each day and be a comfort to others who need someone to give them comfort. I agree that everyone grieves in their own way, just as everyone is different and unique in their own way.
It’s a sudden shock that ONLY YOU feel and no matter what other people say or try to comfort you, it’s something that amplifies as time goes by remembering the times you spent together. Losing my dad felt like a big part of me died with him and I feel guilt from it.
I lost my mom 2 years ago and I still can`t deal with the fact that she is gone , I feel so lost , i miss her so much , I need her so much , she was the only one who could understand me and comfort me all the way through the tough times.
R.I.P mom
I am so sorry for your loss 💔 I lost my dad recently and I am completely lost.
I lost my father 12 days ago and right now I am feeling like I'm alive but I'm not able to breath. I still wish it to be my nightmare.
Stan EXO I keep having dreams where I try to wake myself up cos I feel like there’s no way I lost my mom, that it’s just a nightmare. And then I wake up and it’s real
I lost my Dad. It is one month now. I still feel there was a mistake in the treatment. I can't believe he is gone. I am miserable and in pain.
recently lost my 32 year old dad from a drug overdose yesterday , today is thanks giving and it kills me not being able to see my father on this beautiful thanksgiving day , I’m 15 years old , and I really need prayers , I found my father dead in his truck slumped over , Me and my mother are not taking it well at all, we both need prayers , thank you ❤️🕊 RIP : Ian Miller
I'm an orphan (well not in the case of having God) but honestly I know mom and dad are in a better place. They show up quite a bit too, which gives me comfort. I'm going through Grief Share. Unfortunately, due to grief I lost my job but I have interviews coming, so not all hope is lost.
RoseofSharon I lost my mom last month to cancer and it’s so hard everyday I think about her and it always makes me cry cause of how I miss her I was 14 during the time this month I turned 15 and it hurt so much that she wasn’t here how could I get better cause I feel like I get worse everyday
God isn’t real. But I’m sorry for you.
Pro Platinum everything you believe in is real for you. It’s your reality. I don’t believe in god either but I totally accept people’s faith as long as no one gets harmed and it helps them in some way
@@dingkong5034I’m so sorry. I hope you find him.
One of the hardest things in life is to lose a parent. It puts a whole new perspective on life. I lost my dear dad last month.
My mom just went to Glory a few days ago. I was with her when she took her last breath here on earth. 😢 God showed me that day (especially) He was there; and my mom was getting ready to go to Heaven.
Holy Spirit held me up during the time I needed to be strong. I was joyful for my mom that she won the race and she finished strong like the Apostle Paul talks about in scripture, but, I miss my mom TERRIBLY. I have a deep sorrow right now that hurts pretty bad... I took care of my sweet mom for 4 1/2 years. I did it with excellence: I didn't take short cuts or gave her less than my very BEST. I am thankful that I had the privilege and honor to be the one to take care of my mom, and I got to show her how much she is LOVED. I will have those beautiful memories etched in my memory forever.💞
I have two brothers and two sisters and they did not help take care of our mother. I don't know if that guilt and selfishness will catch up to them, but it doesn't really matter now. I got to have those KISSES 😚, LOVE 💗, HUGS 🤗 and WONDERFUL MEMORIES of my BEAUTIFUL, SWEET and LOVING 💗 MOM 💓.
I am grieving, but, I do know I will see my mom again; and that brings me comfort. Almighty God has been in this, and He is carrying me through this time of sorrow. Being a Christian brings me so much comfort because I know my mom is in glory with our Lord. 😁
🙏💕I LOVE YOU FOREVER MOM. 💕🙏 I WILL BE WITH YOU AGAIN SOMEDAY.💖🙏
As a Christian we rejoice when a Christian goes to heaven, but we grieve because we love and miss the person God has taken home.
iChristian Channel Thank you so much for this post. I am so encouraged. My mom too was a Christian and I know she’s happy with Jesus but I miss her just the same, like you
I lost my father 2 weeks ago at 66. It was out of no where. The pain and depression I feel is so strong. He was my best friend. Hoping the days will get better.
Lost my dad close to 3 months ago. Still really miss him. Although it's a relief that he's no longer suffering, everything still feels unreal. I still tear up when I think of him.
This video resonates so much. Thank t whoever put out. My mum died 13 May 2019. I am now just existing whiling away the time until I leave also. In the meantime it’s horrible every day. I am still stuck on the events leading to her death and the horrible way she died in so much pain and no help from the hospital staff. I am angry and sad at the same time. I panic a lot especially in the evening and on waking up. I listen to NDE and heaven videos and it calms me down. Then I panic when I remember I will not see her in 5, 10, or even 30 years if I live that long. Am 50. My mum was what anchored me my go to person and the perfect example of unconditional love. All that is gone. I am now existing nothing is as before.
If I saw you at the airport I would have hugged you and give you hope. It’s unacceptable fir people to ignore. I grieved everyplace on public when I lost my spouse. And yes people came to my rescue, strangers. My so called friends were no place to be found. Today I grieve and grieve and why not? It makes me feel better Heals me . Grieving is fir life
Casey Richards God bless you
I’m 11 and I just lost my mom to colon cancer after 9 years of her fighting it I am so saddened 😢
M3TR0X sorry to hear that, stay strong.
M3TR0X my dad is dying of cancer and i am 13,i am so sorry for ur loss
I just lost my mother im 33 she was 63 she was so happy woman i didnt see her ididnt say goodbye last time i kiss her was 2 years ago because im far from my country and i cant believe that she just left... God with you honey ...be strong even im not
I hate U bro my mom died of cancer in the hospital last month she was so close to seeing my birthday
My mom died unexpectedly yesterday and im 10, im still crying.
I lost my father this morning. It wasn't sudden but it still hurts. These videos help!
Last year, on August 16th, I woke up to get some breakfast, I was about to say good morning to my mother, I looked over to the couch, and saw her on the floor completely passed out. I was horrified, as I shook her to try to wake her up, but nothing happened. I checked her pulse, I didn’t feel anything. I was completely terrified about how the worst was yet to come, so I called my sister to see if she could help me, after a couple minutes, we called 911. The paramedics came and tried to resuscitate her. We were in another room hoping for a miracle. After 15 or 25 minutes of attempted recovery, the medics told us they’re going to call it. It hit me straight into the heart that they couldn’t save her. Tears were about to come out of my eyes as soon as I heard the bad news. Before they took her, I cried over my mother’s corpse, and gave her one last hug. It was so unbearable. Few days later at a mortuary, I saw my mother for the last time, and I started crying again because I lost someone I love with all my heart. I should have said something nice at her funeral, but I was about to cry again and didn’t have the words to speak up. I still can’t get over her death. But most of the time, I would get to see her again in my dreams. I still can’t get over the loss of my own mom. I miss you so much mother. 😢
So very sorry... I pray you have a supporting family that can help you grieve.
Im so sorry man
😢😢😢 I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 and the way you described it is heart 💔. My father is extremely ill and each day passes he's getting worse 😢 I'm loosing my mind as I have no idea what to do to comfort him. God bless you and may your beloved mother rest in peace 🙏
Damn I'm so sorry to hear that, October 1st this month I had got up to go to work and saw my Dad, who has been sick for a couple months now from liver Failure on top of drinking and etc., Told me he was gonna just get some rest, I said I love and you and I'll be back later, came home at about 4:30 and came home to him sprawled on the couch Pale as day, didn't hit me til I went over to him and saw his pal face, no Veins, blood flow, it's still is a nightmare running through my head every damn day knowing he was only 46 and had so much love and gave so much love!! I miss his ass so MF much it hurts!!
I lost my mom a few days ago, she was my best friend and I didn't get to tell her goodbye or be with her when she passed like I had promised her and it feels like everything is falling apart around me. I wish you were still here with me mom
I just lost my Dad 1/10/20 after a battle with Cancer. I hadn't been in touch with my dad for over a year prior to. I didnt know the extent of his illness. He wasnt an emotional guy. He wasnt a " talk out my feelings" kinda guy. I was carrying hurt from growing up without him. He wasnt in my life until I was 21 years old, I am now 36. I let anger define me. I felt that he should of been more protective of my feelings. I was always glad that he was a great Pop Pop to my child when she was born. I also have a 2 year old baby brother that he absolutely adored. I felt slighted that I never got that. But, I got my closure. It was only Me there when he took his last breath. I didn't know that I was going to see him that day. Something told me to go see him at that day and time. I believe it was my angel, telling me. I got there, he didnt look like himself. That was my time to let it out. I prayed and 10 minutes later.... He took his last breaths. The Nurse said He waited for me 😢😢 That was his way of saying he was sorry.... I found my peace. Im still so sad tho. For my baby brother and daughter. It's crazy how we share the same hurt but, for different reasons.
😭😭😭😭Im so full of grief and regret but, knowing God lead me to him in his final moments is the closure I needed. I know he is with Us.
I love You Dad
I love you mom😭 my mom died today at 4am and I am heartbroken ... lost for words 💔❤️ I love you so much
My mom is in the icu right now and they said the best option is to let her go peacefully I'm only 14. I'm so sorry for your moms loss if you need any support I'm here
I’m glad I have an alter in my room cos I’m about to start praying for everyone on the planet now.
I lost my mum 12th August 2019 from Alzehmiers. I'm so grateful I was with her in the care home massaging her painful back the day before she died. I loved her. I still wish I had one more moment to hug her and tell her I love her despite telling her I loved her at the time. Xx
just lost my dad on july 4th. hes been sick for years & knew this day would come but i thought we had more time. i had just seen him within the hour. suddenly he suffered a heart attack. got woken up & couldnt believe it. i love you dad. i miss you so such. ima make you proud
i just lost my mommie i am 40 and im still dealing with it Martina Moreno born March 5th 1947 and passed way on May 13th 2014 and i cant find comfort in anything i talk to her out loud and then i feel crazy im just lost
Angelique Moreno I hope you found some peace. I’m losing my daddy right now, I’m 45 but I feel like I’ve turned into a child. I came across your comment and it hit me so hard because I feel it deeply. I just pray you found some peace.
@@ClownWorldRebel If age would only allow us the preparation needed for the loss of a parent. (Internet hugs)
Mr Incognito thank you ❤️❤️❤️😪😪😪
@ Angelique Moreno My youngest sister Camille feels the same way. She talks to our mother aloud and she has a photograph sitting in the middle of her dining room table, my sister invested the most in my mom because when our dad died he told Camille to take care of our mom and she did. She talks to our mom every where she goes. Our mom was 66 years old and we think that it was too young for her to pass away. She was on dialysis and she had cancer but she fought hard to live. She followed everything that the doctor told her to do and it was hard but she did it. Our mom died from extreme blood loss through the port in her arm and she had very little time to reach the phone and couldn't even type in her pass word on the cell phone to call 911. We called her Mommy too even at my age and I am 50 and I feel like a child right now. I feel quiet as I often do. This will be really hard for all of us as a family. We will all miss our mother just as you do. I know this has been a long time ago, but how are you doing now? I hope you answer this because I would like to know how you have been holding up? I hope that you have had Peace and relief as the years have passed for you and I give my condolences for your loss even though it has been 4 years, Blessings to you.
How you doing now
My dad does yesterday and I’m 12 and I still can believe that he is gone. I just keep on telling my self that I will see him tomorrow morning
I’m gutted. I’m 54, dad was 88, he died of lung cancer at 6am this morning, doesn’t matter or how old you are, when you lose a parent that you love that much, you feel like a helpless 10 year old child…..I didn’t just lose my father, I lost my best friend. It feels like half of me has been ripped away, and I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to move forward without him. I feel like I’m dying inside right now. This is without a doubt the worst day of my life, and I can’t stop crying, I feel like I should be strong for my family, but my emotions are just overwhelming. I feel totally helpless. It’s not even been 24 hours yet, I’m hoping it will get better, but we still have to plan the funeral. I pray that the funeral will bring some closure. The hospital chaplain brought us into the room where dad’s body was, we all held his hands, and the chaplain begin to pray, I fell off my chair onto the floor, sobbing uncontrollably. I had to leave the room, and momentarily passed out in the hallway. I came too in the quiet room, just down the hall, I don’t even remember walking there. I never thought I would fall apart like this, but it’s so true that you don’t realize how much you love someone until they’re gone. I don’t want to go on without him….I want to join him😰😰😰😰
I lost my beloved mother in 2017, stomach cancer. I quit working for 3 years to spend the rest of her days with her. It was so hard seeing my mother go through it, just slowly deteriorating. I'm still heartbroken in 2019, can't sleep, can't really get it together. I miss her more than anything. I cry everyday.
Hey Vic:
I hear ya man. It's been 2 years since I lost my mother to *ancer, and the shit they have to go through is just horrible. Just doesn't seem right.
I still cry every day as well. I guess that is why both of us are watching this video.
Have you ever checked out the NDERF website? It is the largest study of near death experiences. I go there and read their "exceptional" ones when I am having a very difficult time. Reminds me that she is in a MUCH BETTER place, and that we will see our moms again. Maybe check it out, or watch some of the NDE videos on RUclips.
I pray you find some peace.
Josh
@@redshift6743 thanks Josh
@@vmarshall0302 You are most welcome my friend.
I am extremely sorry for your loss Vic, I'm dealing with a lot of the same things as you, but the cause of my father's sickness is unknown, he's 91, and within 2 months or so, he was like a wild mustang and now he's lost so much weight and he's deteriorating fast! Basically all bones with little muscle. He used to be full of life and now he says kill me! It's absolutely horrible and heart 💔 to hear that from someone who you ❤️ dearly. God bless you and your family and hopefully you are doing a little better.
I lost my mom to the same illness and year as your mom.I been drunk everyday ever sence.Just got out of detox.I miss my mom.
I loss my mom June 2019, it's so hard to accept, I miss her, there are no words to describe the pain in my heart, soul.
I have some very bad days. 🙏😔😏
May God bless your hurting soul
I recently lost my Mom and I'm still in shock. Mostly disbelief! My heart is with you. No words can describe the pain of losing someone you loved beyond. But you are not alone. I send this message to you. To let you know, you can reach out to me if you choose. It's always good to have a Support system. Extremely sorry for your lost.
I recently lost my Mom and I'm still in shock. Mostly in disbelief! My heart is with you. No words can describe the pain of losing someone you loved beyond. But you are not alone. I send this message to you. To let you know, you can reach out to me if you choose. It's always good to have a Support system. Extremely sorry for your lost.
My father passed away a month ago he died due to lung and brain cancer. We were relieve he had passed his suffering and in agony was over with. It isnt easy at all it takes time to heal from it. I cry all the time and i see his clothes and his way of life and its like a movie that plays in my head over and over!! Hearing his voice i love you mija
Mum I really miss you. You are my everything. It has been almost half a year, I still cannot forgot how much you have loved me. I wish I have spent more time with you, I will forever miss you Mama.
Both my parents are gone. I’m so lonely without them!
Stay Strong
Even though their gone your parents are still watching over you🙏
Nahhh your parents ain’t gone! Look to your right or left.
I know that the Lord led me to this RUclips video. I was listening to the young woman Leona tell the story of losing her parent unexpectedly. The irony of this is that my mom's name is Leona and she died unexpectedly in her sleep. Thank you Leona for sharing. It has helped me cope with my Leona going from labor to reward.
I just lost my Father who was 76, 3 days ago this is by far the hardest thing I've ever done 😔
I lost my Dad 2 Sundays ago and I an completely broken
@@christalmayokosun4645 I'm so sorry for your loss, you will feel broken, lost, nothing will make you happy, but with all that said trust me the pain will pass if you let it, cry as much as you want don't let anyone tell you otherwise. The pain will ease, the tears will slow, the heartbreak will mend, but it takes time, and don't feel bad as well for not being sad after time it doesn't mean you're not carrying it means you're healing
Thank you
Thank you all so much for sharing so openly. Love to you all.
I Lost My Mom From Cancer. I miss my mom so much. ❤
She knows you do. You will see each other again.
I lost my dad in Aug of this year now I'm losing my mom. She has cancer and is on hospice. It takes a piece of you that you cannot imagine. Bless the ones who lost their parents.
stacy lynn my mom has the same thing going on its so hard damn
@@andrewmaize9581 I know I'm sorry. My mom is doing good right now but just knowing the out come is a nightmare. I'm sorry prayers for you and hang in there.
Mom died today 1/25/24 I have had her and Dad living with me for almost 20 years now. She passed quickly(heart attack) and I am missing her terribly already. I didn't want her to go through a long period of suffering, but to lose her so fast is just heart breaking. Even worse is to watch my Dad the strongest man I know break down and cry because the love of his life is gone. They were married for 67 years and dated 2 years prior to getting married, so 69 years together. I know we will get through but right now it seems so overwhelming and my role of caregiver is going to change dramatically. I feel very lost.
May Jesus Christ support you through your grief and sadness. God bless you
Lost my Nan on November 1, She raised me and was all I had for a long time. I did good until today when I completely feel apart. The video hit home as ive already heard many of the cliches stated and all the literature on grief isnt really speaking to me. Its good to hear im not alone.
I lost my mom in August of 2020. It was unexpected and a shock. She had something similar to a stroke and a week later she was gone. Her last words to me were "I love you too". 19 minutes later she had that event happen to her. I'm grateful that she said that to me just before it happened, but I am still beyond grief stricken. The holidays are approaching. I am trying to just get through them. I am in denial. I keep thinking that this is temporary. When it hits me that I will never see her again, I feel like I have been punched in the stomach. I'm angry because I promised her I would keep her safe from COVID, but it was something unexpected that got her. She was 73 and in great health otherwise. I have had a few dreams where she has visited me. One of them she told me that she misses me. I am an only child and have never had to deal with something like this before.
My sincerest and deepest sympathies/condolences to you... @Lord Scorch I am so sorry.💔🥀😢 It’s indeed, very hard, I am struggling with deep dark grief myself lately... I wish I could be with my dad, hurts to the core.
@@michaeld.williamsiii9026 Thank you for your kind words. You mentioned your father. Sorry to hear of your loss. I wish I could say that time is healing but it would not be true, for I am still very lost.
I just lost my mom 7-20-19.she had copd and lung cancer she believed in the lord with her whole heart the only thing she told me she was afaid of the unknown.she was one of the bravest person i know she fought until she could no longer fight.she is with the lord Jesus.i talk to her every day and every night i know she is around me i feel her all the time.i took care of her i have no regrets i would do it again.i love you mama see you when i come home🙏💖
Thank you so much for this loving and informative video. My dad is dying as I write this message; I am crying for my own selfish reasons for my dad to wake up from being Comfortably sedated “daddy I’m thinking of you please don’t forget me.” Dad I will see you in God’s Providence
I pray the lord brings you peace and calm in this difficult moment. Stay strong.
ERachel P that sedation is making me struggle.,the what if s, I'm sorry
I didn't lose my dad like a hat that can be found again. He was in a car accident and laid brain dead for 2 weeks before he died. A piece of my soul was taken from me and will never again be living on this earth in this form with me.
I lost my mum 4th of September 2019 I lost her to cancer, she was stage 4 gastric cancer she was fighter my beautiful sweet angel
Im sorry, I lost my mom today, to ALS
Im 24 and lost my mum to cancer last year then 18 months lost my dad and my home. I find people avoid talking to me about it coz it will put a downer on their day. The one thing i have learnt is that it doesnt easier you just learn to put on a better show.
+Jazz Brooks you are so right, after the funeral people think you are over it, they actively do not want to talk to you about it. I am also good at putting on a better show. I miss my mum :( sending you a hug Jazz x
I lost my mom several years ago. Everyone who says "get over it" gets told off. I have a right to my grief, and the depth of my grief is the same as the depth of my love.
I lost my mum and dog just 2 weeks ago..this pain is unreal. Don´t give up, i wish all the best for you rooloo blu
I miss you grandma, even though I lost you today, I felt like I lost you too long ago.
That's how I feel. I just lost my mom Jan 22, 21. She lived with dementia for quite a few years. I feel like it's been a decade of losing my mom every day.💔
I’m 12 and on July 1st, 2019 I lost my dad. He was a farmer but one of his favorite hobbies was flying. He had a small aircraft and he loved flying it, he had just built a building for it, a runway, etc. It was a normal day and me, my brother, and my mom where outside while my sister was inside. I saw his plane approaching from a wrong angle. I thought it was odd. Then I heard the engine shut off in mid air. I looked at my mom and went, oh shit. His plane then went tip down and crashed. I ran to it and tried to pull him out but he was belted in. He passed on impact. The passenger side was already on fire and I knew I had to get back before the final explosion. As I ran back the whole thing burst into flames. It’s been 6 months and I still don’t want to believe he’s gone. I really don’t know what to do with my life. I’ve dropped out of school and am starting online school bc I got bullied by people, mainly one of my “best friends” I’ve said fuck it and I’m living how I want now. Anyone that has lost a love one, just know you’re not alone.
Addison Hill I just lost my momma and I’m 19, I’m so sorry for what you went through I know the memories of that event must burden you. If you ever want to talk to someone that understands I’m here
Brionna chantel thanks, I’m sorry for your loss and I hope things get better for you.
I have just found out my mum has terminal cancer. She had a seizure on New Years Day and my world has been turned upside down. They scanned her, saw mass on the pancreas and stomach lining. Next day they spotted blood clots on the lung, and then spots on the brain. It just gets worse and worse. I am watching this preparing myself for what is next. We were so close. Connected like no other. She is home to me and I know I will be now forever lost. I don’t think I can carry on.
2 weeks ago we took Dad into hospital because he was unwell & not looking the best.
1 weeks ago we find out he has cancer and he wants to go home.
3 days ago we bring him back home.
2 days ago (March 4th) he's gone.
Absolutely heartbroken 💔 but he didn't suffer as far as we know but I take comfort in knowing he's now with mum.
But sweet Jesus it hurts so much 😢
I lost my mum today 29/03/21 She is my hero!I still can't believe it...
Losing my mom has been the most painful loss of my life. 💔😭
Me too.
Not one person can understand what you feel, only until they have experienced the same! You can then try to help someone by saying "i did this when i......" to help them go trough it. The only good thing that comes out of a situation like this is that you can help others who are going through it. I hope you understand what i mean with that. The passing of my parents, i will probably never get over, but i try to cope. So cry, shout and kick that trash can, but do not bottle it up! They watch over us, and we will see each other again! Till then, your loved ones would not want you to grieve, they want you to go on with life! Honour them by doing that! Do not forget them, think of good times not bad, and talk about them an TO them. They can see and hear us! Love!!! ❤️
I wish I knew that was true. I hope you don't take that the wrong way.
Thank you
Lost my dad in 2017. He lived in Georgia after him and mom split up. My uncle called one night as I was drinking with my friends. He said my dad had died in his sleep almost 8 days ago. No one knew. He died of cirrossis of the liver. I still break down knowing I could have at least called him more. He loved me dearly as I loved him. It's been the worst Pain I've ever felt. He left behind 8 children. He was only 55. I stopped drinking as much and I've almost cut it out completely. He still appears in my dreams about every night.
I lost my father at 13, my mom suffered a heart attack this week and it’s not looking good. I’m 26 now, From my experiences with my father I realize that you can never be prepared for the loss of a parent. No matter what the circumstances are.
Remember the good times and cherish those. Remember who they are as a person. How they use to kiss your forehead or rub your eyes until you fall asleep.
I’m devastated today, but certain that I will come out of this a stronger person. Don’t give up on yourself ever! Life will do things to you and you might find yourself in a hole. It’s okay to feel stuck these are some of the most crucial times of growth. Just listen to what I’m saying and don’t dwell. Do not dwell. Life is going to take its course regardless and as much as you or I can say I should have could have would have. We can’t. It’s life. They’re in a better place. Let them fly and watch you grow as their child into a beautiful adult.
My sister called me this evening to tell me our mom died a little while ago. I just feel angry. I feel so broken, numb, sad. This grieving is going to be very difficult.
On January 28th 2024, while watching football with my dad, he had a massive heart attack and died in my living room. It was traumatic watching the process of the heart attack and watching him die. The first few weeks, I have no idea what happen. I don't remember making funeral arrangements, I barley remember the funeral. I cried all day, everyday for the next few weeks. Then about week 5, I felt my fathers spirit and since then I have been ok. I feel he is ok. However, I have really bad anxiety now. I actually physically shake when I have to be IN front of people. I am working with a therapist but the trauma is still here.
I lost my mom last year in may due to cancer.shes truly missed.i felt like a part of me die that day.but I meet her again someday on the other side.sometime I still cry
My mother passed when I was little I cry to this day every day. I can’t get over it no matter how hard I try. I ask the lord to take me so I can be home with both my parents 😢♥️
I lost my Dad to stage 4 prostate cancer. He fought for 7years. I am also “the oldest “,lots of responsibility. However, it was an honor. I miss him. It all seems like a bad dream. There isn’t a day that goes by I don’t say “I want my Dad back” . Death is unfair. Society unfairly places rules on grief. It is so hard to grieve “quietly “.
I lost my father 1/17/20 over the weekend. It has been very difficult situation but just seeing these videos and comments I feel like now I’m not alone. I’m still in denial but hopefully it will get easier. I miss him so much 😞
I'm sorry for your loss, maybe instead of being sad about his death you could be happy about his life.
PS sorry if that's not helpful I'm not that wise yet
Lost my mom 2 weeks ago. She was 72. It was hard to lose someone who love you dearly.
I lost my father at age 2 or 3, I didn't understand what death meant. when I'd realised I was never going to see him again, I couldn't believe it. he died in his 20's, too young. my mother was actually supposed to be with him he night he died, but she was angry at him since he didn't come to something. He died in his sleep, he was drunk, and had to throw up. he didn't turn over in time, and he choked on his on vomit. Still to this day I hold anger to my mother and I have a deep hole in my heart that should be filled in, for my dad.
I have just lost dad 3 days ago. I feel broken. My wife and I have looked after him for 7 years as he had dementia and Alzheimer’s. Watching him fade away was heart breaking. I was with him all through his final days. 😪😪😪😪
My mom’s dad died in 2015 from several different illnesses at only 55 years old, and I was 7 when he died. miss you grandpa 😢
My Mother was the most gentle and loving woman. As her son I helped her to fight cancer each day for 10 years. The evil cancer took her life on 2/28/2019. She died in agony & it was so terrible. She's with The Lord now, I miss her so much.
Thanks for this video, I lost my Dad 6 weeks ago. It's the toughest most rotten thing one has to go through
I just lost my dad a week ago. Still trying to sleep without nightmares that he is still alive, just to wake up to the truth.
@@stephaniec8816 If you are dreaming of him, maybe he is contacting you the only way he can. A lot of people never get to dream of their loved ones that have passed.
I lost my father this morning due to a motorcycle accident in san diego. He was such a great man and everybody misses him so much. He is my best friend and everything and idk how to deal with this huge loss. He was helping me get my life together after I recently left the marine corps but now...im so lost and wish he was still here.
hope you are doing fine..
Thank you for your service... Last thing he would want is for you to go backwards. I know your pain is not something anyone could put into words, but I was there 2 years ago - just know that time does help a little bit.
I regret not doing any grief counseling, so maybe if you haven't already, you could look into it.
Prayers my man.
Josh
I lost my dad just this night. I don’t know what to do. I feel lost... so I tried to watch something like this. Because I don’t really know what to do....
alfred sarmiento I am here for you.. I am scared of losing them I am losing them slowly they’re getting old and they’re getting tired I can feel the change.. My biggest fear is happening I love you you’re strong u can go through it
I am here with the same thing my dad died yesterday right infront of me he passed out in the laundry room and I was freaking out trying to do CPR.... But he was already gone and all my family is super religious so they're holding on to "he's with God now" mindset and I'm isolating myself just fucking loosing it. I can't get those final moments out of my head.
@@aprilgibson817 i feel u
Wow its your foundation being pulled away your patents are part of you they fill your heart up with unconditional love and admeration berry hard
Miss my mum. Its been 5 months since she left. Only forever to go 😢
My Mom died May 2nd, 2019. I am alone. And the man that promised my mom he would not mistreat me, as bailed on me an is mistreating. Told me he as someone else all the time while he was telling me and my mom he is single. I miss my Mom so so so very much....every day I cry....at times I am confuse people just pissing my off because people just want me to end my grief. My Mother died!!! She was my whole world...she is all I know!!!
I lost my mom on Sunday feburary 2, 2020. She was only in her 40s. I am so confused and shocked that it had happened. We never saw each other that much, but she was my mom and I still loved her very much. It's just hard to realize that she died. It makes it even more sad to know that she just got better from being sick in the hospital. She just got her driver's license back after trying for 5 years. It made her so happy to have accomplished that.
my dad died four days ago, he was healthy and it was unexpected. now i am a thirteen year old not knowing how to live anymore without my dad, i saw him today for the last time and i am just so scared to love, live, breathe.
i just lost my father today. i still don’t know what to do. i’m just happy i answered his phone called last night.
Bella Mendoza I feel you pain I just lost my mom 8 hours ago and I’m so lost shock and have no clue what to do for my dad
About six months ago, I found my mother Mom lifeless in her bed. It was the most heartbreaking experience of my life. I just feel so alone without her.
Thank you for posting this. It makes me feel not as alone feeling these terrible feelings after unexpectedly losing my wonderful Mother 2 months ago.
Thank you for sharing your stories. I lost my mom yesterday morning
My Condolences to all of us!!! We suffer in our sadness only we know and understand how our heart feel.
My mom died on July 20 this year and I didn’t see it coming. My mom has gotten breast cancer the second time and the last month or two, she wasn’t getting better and more so the last ninth. Yet I didn’t see the end coming. I had hopes against hope that she would make it. Sadly it didn’t happen. Taking care of her as she decline was demanding and unavoidable and my temper was tested and I wish I had been more even tempered with her and while she forgave me, I feel deep grief and miss her very much. Born in 1959 and died fifty nine years later. I am her only son and a child of divorced parents and this loss has been like a massive earthquake and the shock hadn’t fully healed while the memories of the past come up some good some more painful as I grieve mostly alone and while I have some good support, I really wish I had her back. I want what I can never have: her alive in physical form. I love and miss you Mom.