How To Deal With Midlife Crisis | Rebuilding The Relationship When He's Going Through It
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- How To Deal With Midlife Crisis | Rebuilding The Relationship When He's Going Through It
If you have a husband or boyfriend, and he ends the relationship because he is going through a midlife (or quarter life) crisis, today's video is just for you.
Simply put, he is not happy. He lost his sense of happiness and does not know what to do for the future. He's going out too much with his friends, picking up bad habits, and you need to understand that he is lost.
You want to help him, but you can't! You should never communicate with him or try to be his source of happiness because he doesn't know what he wants. So its important that YOU are happy so that you can inspire him out of his rut.
Do not play this game in his arena. Inspire him to exist in yours, instead! You need to get him to value you. Be confident, be happy, and show him that HE has to come back to you, not the other way around. Your job is not to take care of him, it is to show him the man he can be.
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He broke up with me because of this crisis. I really miss him...but I think we need this time apart.
Hey thanks this is the second of the two vids I've watched on your channel that makes sense. It is nice to hear logical thought process not just man or woman hating!
Wow m just over whelmed to C this video as an Answer for My Question, Thank you so much for this Advice Coach.
My man is currently is having MLC after doctor warned him about his health, it burst his bubbles which made him think about life. He is confused, scared, dont know what to do and his thought process has gone murky. He felt unhappy about his hectic shift job and felt like his job dictates his life which it doess. He has been working in the same company for 14yrs with little or no progress on his position. He asked me that he needs a break, he doesnt want me to wait and just stay as a friend for awhile. I didnt like the idea of being friends because I didnt see him that way. I was anxious for a few days and gradually lean back to have my own time and rethink why he wanted it. In our final tx msg, he told me how he cant focus in our relationship because he needs to find him self, have time for his kids, juggle ridiculous hours and totally his life is in a lot of pressure. Ive taken myself out and given him space. My heart is in pain but I still care about him, I love him so I have to let go. I have enforced the no contact rule and im not trying to message him anymore. I feel like doing NC made him think that I didnt care but also at the same time, it help me to be aware of myself Nd find my own happiness. Ill stay single for While and see my career progress. I love him so much that even though it breaks my heart to see him struggling and step away from the relationship, if it helps with his happiness and peace of mind, I’ll give him the opportunity to grow while I’ll handle my own stuff. Maybe in time we can see each other in a different light, maybe rekindle our relationship or be happy and move on with someone else
I needed to hear this. He’s been in for 3 years. He isn’t working through anything. And now my anxiety and fear of abandonment is sky high.
What u say makes sense. I'm tired of chasing him...he goes camping, fishing,rides on his new electric bike,and eats out for breakfast, lunch,and dinner. I just let him go but after weeks of him not paying me a second thought I just lose it! I've made a full recovery from a traumatic brain injury and just can't do the things he does.
I would like to see more on this subject. Going through this now.
Wow. Well watching that was helpful. Also. You're so attractive that I forgot about my problems for a moment.
Ah I needed this. My ex (as of 3 weeks ago) is 23 and according to my friends is going through this “quarter life crisis.” He’s moving to Los Angeles right now to pursue a cinematography career, and I’m moving there in December (I work in film as well). Moving to LA has been a dream and goal of mine since I was 15, but it’s a new development in his life. He’s been very privileged to not have experienced any sort of hardship or adversity in his life so far, and I’m realizing that this big move as well as the breakup have been his first taste of difficulty. I’m coming to realize that he needs the chance to fall on his face a bit, and that I can’t be around to support and encourage him during this process, though I want to so badly. He needs to know that he can do this on his own. Still have so much hope that once I get out there he will have had the time to think and realize that we can do this thing together while still valuing our individuality. Maybe I’ll keep you posted. Thanks Love Advice TV 💕
Hey KC,
It's totally possible to be going through a quarter life crisis. That is around the age we have to start realizing which direction we will go in and have a lot of pressure on ourselves. Moving to LA is a great opportunity to try new things and explore together. This will help you form a new bond. I can help you navigate this in a 1 on 1 session.
Coach Samira
Oh, wow! I haven't considered it... very interesting... =D
first of all a big thankyou to all coaches . You’ll have amazing advice . So the thing is my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and he went to Canada for a course and might settle there , but nothing is sure yet . And I’m in India . So basically doing long distance. So he broke up mainly because he didn’t know where exactly he would be in the next few months and didn’t know when we both get to see each other .He didn’t want me to leave my business based in India and migrate to Canada for him. But I told him I don’t mind since my business is flexible. We both love each other a lot and our long distance was going very smooth too . But after begging and pleading him i saw your videos and went into no contact . But he adores me absolutely already . So I’m not able to figure out if no contact will work !??
Please help
This is very good advice and has come at a very good time. My ex is very confused on what to do woth his life and is extreamly unhappy. He continues to make the worse decisions that makes his situation worse. When he's really down, he calls or texts me how hes a bum and how he's pathetic. How do I respond to this? He seems to reach out a lot when he is in a really bad place then takes off for a few days with no contact with me.
My husband is going through midlife and Im hurting
I feel like my (ex)boyfriend is going through a quarterlife crisis... he left me all of a sudden really out of the blue. everything was perfect and I felt so loved and happy. Im in the worst pain right now... He doesn't know what he wants I feel like and maybe he feels like missing out on something. We have been together for over 5 years and he has just turned 28... any thoughts? :(
going through mid-life crisis myself, with unsupportive wife she dumped me suddenly. im sad, hurt and confused
Makes sense
Caoch, how to show the happiness even if we are not in any social media, no contact from his friends or been months of no contact. Please reply.
Hello coaches!
Thank you for your videos, they’ve been really helpful throughout my breakup recovery. I’d love some more insight on short term relationships.
My ex and I matched on a dating app and we had instant attraction. We talked on the phone everyday for three months, for hours on end before I finally committed to meeting up with him.
Once we met, we were inseparable for another three months. His 30th birthday was approaching and he freaked out on me. Basically he’s not where he wants to be in life and he needs time and space to figure himself out and advance his career. He said I didn’t do anything wrong, I was the perfect girlfriend and he loves me and wants to be with me, just not at this time. I think this is what I’m struggling with most - his reason... what am I supposed to correct, if he felt I was already perfect. Does this mean I have no chance of getting him back?
This was about a month ago. I impulsively blocked him from my social media 7 days ago out of irritation that he was keeping tabs on my life by watching my Instagram stories. I felt like, he ended our relationship because he didn’t want me in his life, then why did he deserve to know what I was up to? How could he miss me if he was still able to “see” me on a daily basis? I have since come to realize that this may not have been the smartest move, and most definitely came off as petty... I’m currently on day 7 of NC and I’m struggling. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you for your time. Wishing everyone the very best in their breakup recovery.
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Hey Taryn,
If he told you the timing is not right then that means he is not ready for a relationship. Now, this does mean you have no chance - you do in fact! He would miss you more during your no contact which you did right by beginning it! You need to stick to it so that he sees his loss. You also should focus on yourself and maintain happiness for yourself so he will want to be a part of that.
Coach Samira
Excellent advice!
Always happy to help! Thanks for tuning in Nun Ya!
Coach Samira
Its been almost a month since my ex broke up with me and we have been in no contract since then. Today my ex deleted all photos of me on instagram ( she deleted some after we broke up 2 or 3 days ) but some how she still keep our photos together on facebook. What does that mean? Do I have any chance to take her back?
What if your ex thinks you have moved on, she told my mom and friend that she loves me but I am better without her, that I moved on already, broken up 4 months, this is the 2nd time with NC, 3 weeks NC so far, I ignored her phone call 3 weeks ago. Any tips? Thank you!
I did no contact from July to September with my ex girlfriend, since then me an my ex talk regularly talk on the on text message like every two days and she or so but whenever we text she stops making an effort after the first few texts even though she's usually the one to reach out. What should I do to get her back?
Wow this is so on point! My boyfriend ghosted me after two years with no explanation and everyone has been saying “he is going through something you just don’t know about.” However, after no contact for a month and half and nothing on either side, he liked my instagram picture yesterday. I’ve been posting since the breakup. For a ghoster-what does this mean?
Hannah Looper keep going to ignore him and try to be happy! Hopefully he will wake up 👍
Mine flipped out after three years. I was completely blindsided by it. I felt like I was hit by a mac truck. I listened to this guy, what he says makes sense and boy was he spot on.
how can he see or be inspired by me if he’s not following me on any social media? i think my ex is facing this and i tried to care for him which now i know is a mistake and he’s also said that it makes him feel pressured. when i realised i told him that i’ll give him space but he replied harshly and said “since you don’t like it and you’re not happy then just leave” so i’m unsure what he wants from me? giving him care and concern makes him annoyed but giving him space makes him think that i no longer want this. what should i do?
You can not pressure him by not initiating with him. Let him come to you. In terms of not having social media mutual friends sometimes spread the good word that you are doing well :)
Coach Samira
Hi my ex keeps posting stuff on Facebook which I think are digs at me and hopes my family tell me about because i dont have her on it, like posting pictures of the flowers she got off who she's seeing even though she dont even really like getting them and wrote how she's happy and content now after feeling low and worthless for so long, she's only been seeing the guy about 3 weeks. Am I right in thinking they are just a front and to get at me?
What do you think about the law of attraction when getting ex back? :)
Hi Love Advice Tv, I've seen many of your videos, they have been very helpful for me ! I'm not sure if any of the coaches will read this, but anyway: my ex broke up with me a year ago. I never heard of her until we went on a ski trip we had planned for a long time with other friends as well. We sort of bonded again in that week and we even slept together agian... Afterwards, when we got home she slowly went "cold" on me again. That's been 5 months now... When I try to make contact with her through text message , she tends to respond late and VERY short... Should I let go or what is your guys advice ? Thanks for your very informative channel again. x Renzo
She slowly went cold on you because now she doesn't know what you want or what you want from her. If she is short and responds late then you should stop initiating. Let her come to you. Also, don''t be intimate unless you are back together.
Coach Samira
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity What if I'm sure she won't initiate herself ? Should I just let go then, even if I think she's the one for me ? Thanks for your answer, it's really appreciated!
My ex said he loves me but told me I can find a better guy. He still wanted to celebrate our 2nd year anniversary on december 1st. He's on rebound relationship. I'm still on my NC period, I know I still have time to build myself but I dont know where to start.
Hey Ayla,
If your ex told you he loves you but you can find better then he is being insecure about himself. He is in a rebound because he is searching for validation in meaningless encounters. Don't worry just stay in NC and he will feel the loss and come back.
Coach Samira
Are you still seperated?
Can you go through a mid-life crisis at 33? I tried way too hard to help him fix his job situation. I’m sure he felt like a failure.
It is definitely possible. You don't need to try harder than your partner in order to help them with his job. Don't take on his responsibilities.
Coach Samira
is this the same if your wife is in midlife crisis?
What if he abandons you the wife, cheats with the coworker and moved in with her? How do you come back from that?
What if we're divorcing because he is nearing 40 and he is scared and confused? He's already filed for it and wants to go through with it. He's not happy and thinks that I'm the fault, that he needs a different partner?
Thank you for reaching out, Idalia. I understand you're unsure what to do.
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can you do one for a woman?
Help! My Ex boyfriend thinks I'm crazy... How do I make him think different?
Champagne Pud You are crazy 😜 just be good with who you are 😂
What if my ex isn't in contact with me but sticks around my cousin's and old bestfriend? She tells them "she just has nothing to talk about with me". Kinda confused.
Then she is still keeping tabs on you by hanging out with them.
Coach Samira
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity even if she's not asking about me a ton? And should I break no contact for it?
Hey. I was in No contact. But saw my ex at the gym today and we talked. Now were talking again. Texting again. Showing interest. Should I go back to No contact? Or should I just Dont text her first and let her Come to me
No, keep talking since you were already in no contact. Now you let things progress slowly.
Coach Samira
My husband doesn’t talk to me and blames me for everything. He has recently changed his bank account for payroll deposit so I won’t have access to it. His behaviors seem very childish and I am wondering if a man ever comes out of midlife crisis, would that happen at any random time?
Hey Jessica Ren, men most certainly come out of midlife crises, but most of the time, it requires a man to realize the absurdity of his own childish behavior to get him to snap out of it - Coach Alex
Love Advice TV Snap out, hope that will happen to my husband
During a crisis, you need to "face your dark side"...you have to face your desires that you have repressed in your unconscious mind in the previous life stage. That`s why people act "crazy" and doing things they don`t normally do. Because it is time for them to change and to develop a new way of living, being...and this can come with a lot of experimentation. The sooner he satisfies these deep desires and the sooner he finds a new direction, or find his true self, the sooner he will come out of the crisis. (But some people turn to escape mechanisms...start drinking, develop addictions, watch videos nonstop etc...and so their crisis will last longer, because they don`t face the truth, they don`t face what is inside deep down).
What if this particular mistake had happened?
Hey Soumya,
What kind of mistake are you referring too?
Coach Samira
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity we both are going through this crisis and I have asked or tried to help him that what is going on???