Good to see you, brotha. Just a lil update, 7 months removed from the Anxious Avoidant trap, I've met someone amazing. Nothing forced. I attribute it to a lot of the work I put in with help from people like you. Wishing you more and continued success
Just started watching. Holy crap, every video has been enlightening. I could never figure out what i’m doing wrong. I am an anxious attacher recently broken up by a dismissive avoidant. Thank you for educating me, My healing can begin
My story has so many turns..& all of them have to do with men. My biological father, step father, exposure to certain types of men when I was younger…and I don’t remember many positive experiences. I have only become aware of my anxious attachment in the last 4 years. It’s been incredibly hard to navigate
I recently ended a talking stage, I got so attached to this person within a span of a month(we had an on and off thing like a year ago) I came across your channel and binge watched your entire playlist regarding anxious attachment and also consulted a psychiatrist. It all makes sense now, like I found the final piece of puzzle.
Thank you man! For sharing, for the content, for the wisdom. Im 33 and divorced, just finding out about my possible ptsd and the trauma i lived through and then inflicted on others. I thought my life was over. Why keep going if I've fucked up such a large portion of my life? But to hear you talk about it 10 years in my future, and the progress you've made, it gives me some hope i will come back from this.
I am anxiously attached and currently am going through a recovery process of losing an avoidant long term partner. It's one of the most difficult things to get through but videos like these are really helping me cope and heal. While also finally seeing a therapist as well. Thank you for sharing your experience 🩷
A big THANK YOU ... just what I needed!! I am in the middle of a anxious avoidant trap. Looking much forward to see more videos from you. all the best to you
You basically described my story wow. Now finally at 41 im starting to understand all this going thru a breakup with a DA doing no contact with her and understanding what wen wrong and where to go from here. What if she calls or doesnt call? But definitely helpful understanding both our styles and what im in store for if she does call.
Omg, yes I’m an anxious attacher and I grew up in a rough neighborhood. The environment was very unpleasant and it turned me into fearful too. Especially, I started school in a nice community suburb in Denver, when we moved back to Los Angeles (right outside of Compton) my world changed. I wasn’t accepted, we couldn’t go outside and play, the schools in our neighborhood were bad so my Mommy obtained permits for us to go to schools outside local school district, but often times the kids in the other communities didn’t accept me or the other kids. Let me not get started about Middle School. I would’ve been better off homeschool from elementary school until the start of high school, those places are traumatizing.
Good to see you, brotha. Just a lil update, 7 months removed from the Anxious Avoidant trap, I've met someone amazing. Nothing forced. I attribute it to a lot of the work I put in with help from people like you. Wishing you more and continued success
I appreciate that a lot brotha
Just started watching. Holy crap, every video has been enlightening. I could never figure out what i’m doing wrong. I am an anxious attacher recently broken up by a dismissive avoidant. Thank you for educating me, My healing can begin
Hello, Coach Court. Thank you for more insight as I continue my healing journey.
Thanks for watching!
My story has so many turns..& all of them have to do with men. My biological father, step father, exposure to certain types of men when I was younger…and I don’t remember many positive experiences. I have only become aware of my anxious attachment in the last 4 years. It’s been incredibly hard to navigate
thanks for sharing that
I recently ended a talking stage, I got so attached to this person within a span of a month(we had an on and off thing like a year ago)
I came across your channel and binge watched your entire playlist regarding anxious attachment and also consulted a psychiatrist. It all makes sense now, like I found the final piece of puzzle.
@@Skrullx273 thank you for watching! 🙏🏾
@@IamCoachCourt i should be the one thanking you for such amazing content for free ❤️
Thank you man! For sharing, for the content, for the wisdom. Im 33 and divorced, just finding out about my possible ptsd and the trauma i lived through and then inflicted on others. I thought my life was over. Why keep going if I've fucked up such a large portion of my life? But to hear you talk about it 10 years in my future, and the progress you've made, it gives me some hope i will come back from this.
You absolutely can!
I am anxiously attached and currently am going through a recovery process of losing an avoidant long term partner. It's one of the most difficult things to get through but videos like these are really helping me cope and heal. While also finally seeing a therapist as well. Thank you for sharing your experience 🩷
This experience happened FOR you 🙏🏾
I’m in exactly the same situation as you right now! Sending you all the healing ❤
Me too
Thank you so much you helped Mr to heal I'm secure was with an avodent for 2 years. You helped me to walk away and heal its a wonderful place to be.
Thanks a lot for your comment🙏🏾
A big THANK YOU ... just what I needed!! I am in the middle of a anxious avoidant trap. Looking much forward to see more videos from you. all the best to you
Absolutely. Thanks for being here ❤️🩹
You basically described my story wow. Now finally at 41 im starting to understand all this going thru a breakup with a DA doing no contact with her and understanding what wen wrong and where to go from here. What if she calls or doesnt call? But definitely helpful understanding both our styles and what im in store for if she does call.
Turn 41 tomorrow, isn't it a powerless place to be?
Omg, yes I’m an anxious attacher and I grew up in a rough neighborhood. The environment was very unpleasant and it turned me into fearful too. Especially, I started school in a nice community suburb in Denver, when we moved back to Los Angeles (right outside of Compton) my world changed. I wasn’t accepted, we couldn’t go outside and play, the schools in our neighborhood were bad so my Mommy obtained permits for us to go to schools outside local school district, but often times the kids in the other communities didn’t accept me or the other kids. Let me not get started about Middle School. I would’ve been better off homeschool from elementary school until the start of high school, those places are traumatizing.
Something to remember for sure. Thanks for sharing your story 🙏🏾
I love your videos! ❤
Thanks for watching them ❤️
It’s amazing how many people share similar stories… sheesh, it would be nice if we were all securely attached.
One day, relationship at a time. The process of getting there has been priceless
Thank you for the insights!
Thank you for watching!
Sometimes i read a text and think what a psycho. Then i hit send
Man you in my business
I’m nosey 🤷🏾♂️😂
okay im sorry but hearing him talk about the pillow pet was so wholesome and vulnerable
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