Why Detachment is NOT THE ANSWER to healing
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In today's video, Coach Court talks about Why Detachment is NOT THE ANSWER to healing.
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I hear you. I'm not sure I'm all in with your definition of attach and detach, but I get the essence. One may have to go through the fire to get to the peaceful place of security within one's self, and just doing what society would have you to do, which is 'treat folks the way that they treat you', does resemble more of a trauma response than a forward-moving life mantra. I agree with that and I'm glad to hear it come from someone other than myself.
Yes, Balanced perception is key in everything. Balance of emotions and logic is needed in relationships is one thing I have learned on this journey to earned secure. Where as I only used logic and disregarded all emotions as a DA. No more polarized thinking!! lol
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Yes, being balanced; a balanced perception. It's what leads me to send my ex avoidant partner a birthday card every year even though he doesn't do the same for me and, indeed, doesn't even acknowledge the gesture. My spirit just tells me it's a kind thing to do and so, with my definition of grace in my heart and hand, I send a card. It's a selfish thing on my part too because I do it, even though he doesn't respond, to let him know, since he has no close family, that he is not alone in the world.
@@sherrymshephard-massat5929 awwww that is so sweet and thoughtful even though he may not see it that way, hopefully so. 🩷
You definitely have no control, but we seek to get things done. If your.camera doesn't work you wont say ah well I jhave no control. You will attempt to teoible shoot. Detachment isnt the solw answer in life but you do need to detach from that person and learn lessons. Learning how to spot things sooner and not making excuses. I've learned so much from you and others on attachment styles. I feel a bias on DA. I don't see much on DA healing probably because rhey aren't watching these videos or trhing to change. I would love to know the percentage of people trying to earn secure attachment. I bet a low amount are DA. They blame others. I don't see iit as they have a flaw that they remotely acknowledge.