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Do THESE Five Things before breaking NO CONTACT with a Dismissive Avoidant

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  • Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
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    In today's video, Coach Court advises you to Do THESE Five Things before breaking NO CONTACT with a Dismissive Avoidant.
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Комментарии • 17

  • @upperiscopeUK
    @upperiscopeUK Месяц назад +5

    Sound practical wisdom, invaluable and worthy of consideration.

  • @NewyJon7787
    @NewyJon7787 Месяц назад +16

    Honestly, don't reach out. It only sets you back months in healing. If they wanted you, they would do the reach out.

  • @sadiqua7
    @sadiqua7 Месяц назад +12

    What about when they reach out to you only to continue breadcrumbing you?? It’s bizarre

  • @ijustneedmyself
    @ijustneedmyself Месяц назад +6

    If he wasn't in the process of ghosting me then we'd be talking still, but we would not be anything more than friends. It has been interesting learning about avoidant attachment and coming from a totally different place than most people in the comments. Our relationship was casual. He couldn't even handle that without disappearing. I was as empathetic and understanding as I possibly could be, but at a certain point I had to put myself first. After the first time he ghosted, we both agreed that if he felt he needed space he could just tell me, but he couldn't resist disappearing again 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @margreetweistra1538
    @margreetweistra1538 Месяц назад +8

    I dont want a relation with him anymore, but I did see him at concerts etc and we get along fine. I dont want to never see him again.

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Месяц назад

      I'm in the same boat. I still want to be friends. I guess we'll see.

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 19 дней назад

      Please don’g remain friends with an AVPD they will get you back please don’t the cycle is hard to get out of

  • @margreetweistra1538
    @margreetweistra1538 Месяц назад +2

    great vid by the way!

  • @Cre8Fire34
    @Cre8Fire34 Месяц назад +1

    Not with any lies or mean words...just...
    The truth as it was acted out from her end.

  • @CeeP211
    @CeeP211 Месяц назад +2

    Coach Court, my ex who is a fearful avoidant broke up with me 4 months ago and we havent spoken since. A couple of weeks ago his sister-in-law sent me a friend request on Facebook. I accepted and she commented on my photos saying that she was so happy to see i was doing ok.
    1. Why do you think she would do this after all this time?
    2. Was it a bad idea for me to accept her? We did get along well.
    3. I want to respect my exes boundaries and i feel like he would be upset if he knew we were connected. Is this something that would make an FA really angry?

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 25 дней назад

      He/she obviously wants to get back

    • @KurtLeeMusic
      @KurtLeeMusic 13 дней назад

      Put yourself first. If you want to be friends with her, be friends with her. If the guy that ditched you isn't happy with it too bad for him. Live your life for you not for pleasing him.❤
      Someone who truly wants you to be happy would want you to have the freedom to choose your friends.

  • @teresalopez5683
    @teresalopez5683 28 дней назад +1

    What if were married. Im on my way to becoming more secure. Hes been with someone else for 3yrs on n off.Weve been separated for 3yrs. Hes come back into my life every 10 months. Ive asked him for a divorce but he said hes not ready. Im doing myself always n working hard.

    • @Nono38-jj1tk
      @Nono38-jj1tk 3 дня назад

      @@teresalopez5683 Is this for real? You don't give him the chance to toy with you and keep you as an option any longer. You file for divorce and serve him with papers while he is laying next to the other woman. He us keeping you around in case it doesn't work out with her. He comes back to you every 10 months because they fight and she leaves. Have some self respect and allow for a new man to come into your life and treat you like a queen.

  • @YashManjalkar
    @YashManjalkar 25 дней назад +1

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