I think its fair and right to just cut it off - stop thinking of a future with them- Once cheating happens it makes everything feel so dull and sad....
On point I trusted my gut because his behavior including withholding intimacy had changed.And then he started liking other women social media but ignoring mine..I’ve been narc free for 8 months now and thriving
That's what mine did. Blocked me but liking our social media friends in common pics and hearting them. I got in his phone. Everybody he liked or hearted he was messing around with them sending pic of his private part.
@@harmonyvanscott3634one thing I can admit. They love picking the best of the best! They may go below their standards. At times for the far most part! They want the best of everything! That's fine. They are prospecting new supply 24/7.
I treated my ex like a queen. I gave her everything she wanted, and more, but it wasn’t enough. Finding out that she was cheating on me was utterly devastating. The hardest part to accept is that she was in her 50’s, and sleeping with guys in their 30’s. Not because they were younger guys, but because I figured a 50 year old woman wasn’t capable of this. 6 years down the drain, but a valuable lesson learned. Metaspyclub is very calming and your insight is invaluable.
They are never satisfied ever, They're sad miserable ppl, they're at war with themselves Hence they always look for distraction, it's them not u, sad ppl indeed
What u do after wards u have any kids .. I’m 33 with no kids and def feel the his girl cheating now .. but this one I didn’t care the last two exs killed me kinda almost over them now but got a drug problem kinda from it not all the way but long story but i just want one loyal girl feel like I’m running out of time with having kids
@@boxing4life410 yes my ex finally hurt me bad mond games abuse he was druggie alcoholic,, I got anxiety weight loss been since September this year weight is getting lots better tbh I'm healing right now made threats to kill me on day he called me wanted me back lol said sorry I'm quite ill all your games can't , that evening police went to his mother's home arrested him bailed on conditions
No they don’t! A lot of them do not cheat at all! I’ve known a few that will not cheat. My step mom never cheated. Intentionally run my dog over, brag about hitting her horse in the head with a hammer… she was really sick and diagnosed with npd and bpd but she never cheated. My bff has aspd/npd and he will not cheat on his wife ever.
Some narcissists cheat. There a lot of people who actually cheat on narcissists to help build them up and get support of another person to escape a narcissist.
...also with their phone, if you notice them all the sudden leaving their phone open and unguarded its because theyve cleared evidence out of their phone. So when you snoop and dont find anything then you will believe them that you are crazy. Most important thing to remember DONT TELL A NARCHOLE ANYTHING! EVER! Any info you may find out no matter how you find out dont ever reveal anything to the narc. You will be traching them how to better cover their tracks and deceive if you tell them anything!
You can tell who it is. They mirror the other person. Liking new things... they said they hate, in the beginning. They start talking like them as well. Trust your gift and discernment. They don't have that, but you do, use it.
My narc husband would say another woman’s name during intimacy. He did home repair and landscaping majority of his customers were women sometimes I would work with him and these women would be all up in his face one woman rubbed his head in front of me. When I said something he would yell at me and defend the other woman. He would say he didn’t do anything to make those women act that way he was just nice to them and the women takes his niceness as something different . I asked him why are these women comfortable enough to do this in front of your wife. As of yesterday I’m out after 7 years.
They're comfortable doing that bcuz they was intimate with him. I've experienced something similar with my narc soon to be ex husband. Sending you love ❤️
I am so proud of you! If only I had found RUclips self help 3 yrs ago. Mine wld stay out all night-fb msg other women...then say he couldn't trust ME or bring up some random crap to blame me for whatever narc behavior that moment. I get so emotional thinking if only I had the knowledge I have now. 😭 It is so scary how they are ALL the SAME. Like a horror scifi.
@@heatherfeathers I'm telling you. If I knew what I know now I would've never proceeded to get married and having children with him. I don't regret my children. I just regret him.
This is what has been happening with my husband and my younger sister.Iam hurt so hury and people think Iam delusional my sister will come greet him wearing a bra and only and a short right in my presence.I told my Ma but hey noone takes me serious.
My ex certainly cheated. There were signs but I gave the benefit of the doubt. He used to say he “swears by loyalty” but the actions didn’t match. He was secretive. One time he was at a barbecue at his friend’s house and then he didn’t come home that night. Of course he lied and said people got too drunk and he took his friend’s family members home. I said “Why didn’t you call or text me to tell me?” He says “I didn’t want to have my phone in my hand while driving” 😅😂🙄
I don't think being a nigga without morals makes you a narcissist. A niggacist maybe but narcissist has to be a clinical diagnosis for a behavior that is very different
Yeah, forever inseparable with their phones, always taking them to the bathroom, for the shower, always putting the screen facing down. I have never ever encountered his phone without supervision.
@@whyYUbeeI do that but because I'm constantly listening to music and audio books but I'm also not worried about my phone being with my SO if its charging or I happen to not be using it or whatever. He could borrow it anytime, immediately, and I would have no issue. So I'm just saying they may have a phone addiction like me lol but also ask yourself if that necessity is defensive in anyway. Mine is a mindless habit not a safe guarding response
@@mint_soup9743 addiction is different thing I guess like you said. If you don't mind your close one touching your phone then I think there's no issue. I mean addiction isn't good haha but my nex was hyper fixated. He would never let me touch his phone, and he would act secretive, tilting his phone in a weird way while sitting next to me so I wouldn't see it. There were a lot of things he was doing behind my back 🤷♀️ he was the only ex (out of 3) who was "safeguarding" his phone so much.
While the video's demonstration is eye-catching, the ease with which the system is exploited suggests manipulation or pre-prompting of the Metaspyclub . Techniques like custom instructions, hardcoded responses, limited scope, and clever editing could create an illusion of vulnerability, but may not reflect real-world LLM security. It's crucial to approach such claims critically and consider the broader context before drawing any conclusions.
Using new slang, catchphrases, or other words they don't usually use. Listening to very different music from their normal music tastes. Radical changes in hairstyle, makeup, fashion, working out, or other aspects of their appearance. Becoming more secretive with their phone/devices. New interests, hobbies, taste in food, etc. Withdrawing mentally and emotionally. Less sx, or, conversely, tons of sx out of nowhere. A gut sense of sthg being wrong.
They will lovebomb you to begin with. Nice gifts. Nice dates. Charming. Funny. Affectionate. Compliments. They will tell you that they have strong feelings early on. All of this is fake!! Done to lure you in. They cant love anything or anyone (appart from themselves). I felt there was something off at the start. My gut was screaming at me to leave but i didnt listen. You will see the red flags. But choose to ignore them. When everything goes there way everything is good. But if they’ve had a stressful day at work or something happens to p*** them off they will be moody and misserable. They will play hot and cold. One day they are lovely other days they are cold and distant so you never know where you stand with them. Leaving you feeling confused, hurt and not good enough. Dont ever pull them up on their bad behaviour. If you do they will end the “relationship”. They manipulate and gaslight you into taking their bad behaviour and disrespect. How dare you stand up for yourself! You should bow down to them and be a door mat because they are the best thing since sliced bread and you should be greatful that they chose you! They will blame everything that goes wrong in the relationship on you. They are never to blame. They will never appologize. They will manipulate you into thinking its your fault and you will end up appologizing for your reaction to their bad behaviour. Everything will always be on their terms! You will do whatever they want to do when they want to do it. If its not something they enjoy doing they will not do it. And on the off chance that they will they will be misserable the whole time. They will see you when it suits them. They will never plan things in advance or make future plans. They will never fully commit. If your going through a hard time in life they will never be there to support you. They will avoid everything that involves emotional connection. Dont ever cry in front of them because they will think that your crazy for having feelings. They cant even give to a hug if you were to cry in front of them, they will just look at you blankly. They have no empathy what so ever. They are very selfish and only care about their own needs. Your needs mean nothing to them. They are dead on the inside. No feelings. No emotions. Just an empty soul. They are addicts. They drink too much. They gamble too much. They are stuck in their ways. They will never change. They will lie. They will cheat (mine had been a serial cheater in past relationships and i though that he wouldnt be the same with me. I have no proof that he cheated but from his past its very likely). They will use you. All of this will have a negative effect on your mental health. You will loose so much of yourself with a narcissist. They will drain the life out of you. Save yourself. Love yourself. Leave these toxic human beings. Moreover, I could've gotten hurt from the impact of been cheated on. I'm glad that i got to know ASAP, through Barryinvestigation@gmail. com and I appreciate the content you put out for us .
There's a 50/50 chance, perhaps even lower, that this a real person. When someone advertises through comments, they're probably scammers. Don't send emails to the address. Real businesses don't need to gather customers through RUclips comments.
@Orquet-qj2nf slim to none she's real ...similar I've read in comments of many narc channels. The words are REAL, so I think heartfelt comments of real ppl were stolen to advertise for Barry the investigator.
@@Orquet-qj2nfI was impressed abt the long spot on message... thats bcoz its a combination of messages from real ppl , created by the guy or company of investigations who's name is at the end So let's thank him for the great comment .
This is exactly what I did. I trusted my intuition then went from there. I was right about who he cheated on me with. And yes there behaviour changes completely. They go cold on you and the phone is hidden or upside down. It's on silent. They turn off the notifications, they use there phone Less around you, they go out alot more than often, they get stressed if they can't go to a certain place because that's where they wanted to meet the person so they can cheat. And instant anger and frustration if you ask them questions. They will make you think like your getting paranoid but trust in how you feel.
My husband started to change after a really big fight we had so I just assumed he was mad at me for 4 months. And I just took everything he said to me because I felt I deserved it since I had caused the fight. He stopped giving my selfies ❤ when I would send them to him. He used to call me multiple times a day while he was at work then stopped. He stopped calling me babe, stopped telling me I looked pretty. Started answering the phone with “Yo, Sup, instead of the hey babe.” Would hang up on me before saying I love you and when I would ask him why he wouldn’t say it he would lie and tell me he did. When I would hug him he wouldn’t hug me back. When I would tell him “I love you” he would say it back all monotone. Stopped kissing me in the mornings before he left for work and when he would come home. Went out every weekend with coworkers and “his friends.” I would call him and he would ignore my calls or take the call somewhere private when he said he was in a restaurant. He started getting hair cuts every Friday and wouldn’t come home until late. Wouldn’t want to do anything with me anymore, like go out to dinner, the movies, or baseball games. Would spend all his time on his phone cheesing really hard. Stopped sharing his location with me and changed his phone passcode. When I asked him about he just lied and said he didn’t. He used to let me play music on his phone when was connected to aux but then he would just tell me “use your phone.” Would take his phone out to pump gas. Never let me use his phone if I forgot mine at home. Always played music about cheating and would sing it to me. Would have the same songs on replay. He started yelling at me a lot, cussing at me, picking fights. I felt like I was walking on egg shells. He would be overly critical of me. Withdrew affection. Avoided spending time with me. Would spend all day working on his cars in the garage. When I would go to get him so we could have dinner, he would be gone. Would ignore me when I talked to him or if I showed him something on my phone. Wouldn’t even want to watch a movie with me. He started working out which he hadn’t done in 2 years. He would have me take pictures of him working out and would send it to “his friends.” He wouldn’t even pay attention to me when he would spot me because he would be on his phone. Started checking out women right in front of me which he had never done before. One day he snapped at me and told me he didn’t love me anymore. And when I asked him if there was someone else, he looked away then down before looking back at me and saying no. Then the next day when I asked him why his feelings changed about me he said he had been cheating on me for months. It was an awful experience. This is the man I had been dating since I was 15 years old, we had spent almost 16 years together. We broke up and not even a month later he had followed a whole bunch of explicit content on IG before deleted me from all his socials and it’s like I had never even been a part of his life. It literally felt like he hated me/resented me. I couldn’t believe it. It’s crazy because right before he had cheated on me it felt like we were happy. He had gifted me a kitten and an Ipad. We started going to church together to grow our faith to start a family soon. And then one day he had gone out with his coworkers for beers and everything changed after that. He said this chick gave him her number and it just went on from there. The betrayal is honestly the worst pain I have ever gone through.
Intuition! The I love you stopped, the hugging and affection stopped, he started hanging out w coworkers and I couldn't come. I was taking care of his daughter and he got to leave to "hang out" with coworkers. He yelled at ME for hanging out with friends. I never knew what a narcissist was until after I found out he was cheating. We "weren't on the same page" But him and his boss were. He even said out of the blue, "if you want to break up with me just let me know." Projection. Don't settle for this kind of behavior. It's never worth it. I promise. Thank you Lee for this.
You forgot to mention one way they give themselves away. I experienced this with 2 different narcissists: The first just said completely out of nowhere and without any context: “Oh if my sister tells you that I cheated is a lie. She’s just jealous of our relationship!” The second, also without any context at all, and also completely out of the blue: “I had an ex that accused me of cheating, but I never cheated, he had a trauma because he was cheated on so he kept thinking I was cheating on him. Do you have trauma about cheating?” Jeez… how come they don’t see they’re giving themselves away with that? At least they make it easy for us to spot it and move on.
yeah, true, but do we truly ever listen to these little confessions/Red flags?! - typically we don't...only later, after everything is said and done, those phrases comes back to remembrance and we go like oooooofff that was it!!! ⚠️
When they are cheating most of the time they are in love so they show you hate everyday . And that is what happen in my life he was always telling me how ugly I am and bad mom I am and look at me with hate. Working 7 days a week etc. a woman knows when her partner is cheating no doubt about it.
You just made me remember some horrible things..it’s crazy how the kind forget things… he treated me so bad in one of my pregnancies…18 years later I find out why…he got another woman pregnant…(both of us was pregnant at the same time) she was 19 and he was 30…sicko!
My late husband accused me of cheating the whole 20 years we were together, not by choice. I wasnt able to get away safely from him or his family. He came ibto some money snd hired Cheaters to follow me. He blew 2 grand on that. Didnt find out till years later. He also had an old female friend who would come over and hump all over his leg while they both stared at me. Again, it was a dangerous situation all together. I left a couple times and he followed me, it just wasnt safe fornthe people whonwere trying to help. I didnt want them to get hurt. Im so glad that part of my life is behind me. The scars and wounds will always be there.
Always trust your intuition; I had suspicions that my partner was cheating on me [all intimacy stopped & acted like speaking to me was a problem] and found out in less than 24 hours that she was pregnant by another man...I haven't been in a relationship since and this was several years ago.
I knew he was cheating whenever he would accuse me of cheating! Or Out of nowhere he would start doing nice and surprising things, almost as if he felt guilty...
@@heatherfeathers I don't block ppl ❕❕ when you try to block a person don't you understand these people can call you from other numbers 🔢 change your number ppl✌️✌️✌️🎯🎯👏🥱🤣🤣🤣
Mine been cheating the whole 6 year relationship with multiple women, I was so stupid to stay as long as I did because all the signs were there. I've now left and NEVER GOING BACK!
They dont just remove themselves a little bit from you, its alot and very noticeable. I literally feel like I am invisible, like that unwanted soft toy, no longer loved, chucked to the side, not played with and discarded.
My ex used to tell me that I was crazy that my gut was always wrong etc. I could have the proof afteri have a feeling etc. He made sure I doubted myself. Caught him over and over. Not once did he speak the truth.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Present or absent silent treatment that lasts days to weeks is a big clue. When my narc would accuse me of cheating I’d go into a rage because the suspicion was just not warranted at all! The stooge knew where I was every second so his delusional thinking just did nothing but piss me off! Like dude if you think that low of me then get the f out of my house and stop living off my back!!! 🤦🏾♀️no matter how I reacted he’d say my reaction was proof
Currently going through this. Dude, I work 2 damn jobs and 2 young children! When I asked him to leave, it’s turned around on me “you wanted me to Lea s anyways!” I told him No I want you to stop accusing me and stop being verbally abusive!
there's been plenty of times that my intuition told me he was cheating, but when I asked him, he told me that I must be cheating because I asked him out of nowhere. Just saying that sometimes they will switch this on you too.
My narc ex was still contacting me after I blocked all his phony numbers and I took screen shots and recorded one of our conversations saying he loves me didn’t want to leave me alone, denied everything I already knew him being back with his wife. Sent it to the wife 3 times over the course of 1 month and she still will not believe her husband keeps calling me and blames me for our brake up because I kicked him out for lying. And the narrative now is I’m crazy now 😂 I just hope he stops now and leaves me alone 🙏🏽
Do you do videos on covert narcs? Mine would look at me like a deer in headlights and never say a word. I would show him evidence, and show him his own inbox and he would say, that's not flirting. But when I asked him how he would feel if I did it, then only silence. I've never seen this before in a person. He wouldn't say a word. Except deny that he was flirting.
That narcissistic told me that I was his only one, but then turned around and said, I dont want to put a title to the relationship because that feels like being controlled 😂 and when he's with me he's with me, but when he's gone he's gone. What a clown,😅 after 7yrs of checking him out, I just got tired of the BS went no contact blocked him, I feel vigorated free and happy, thank you Lea for all you do in helping us.❤
My guy which I’ve been with for 17 years, confuses the crap outta me , recently started calling me by my name lately and any little thing I do triggers them and they can be like that for days, weeks then outta the random one day just flip the switch.. I have so many gray hairs on my head from this relationship now and walk on eggshells it’s not even funny
i had a dream he got his ex pregnant ... I told him and he said "well the baby would have been conceived in love"... WHAT? yeah that was the beginning of the end
Throughout 10yrs I always caught him flirting it wasn’t until I left I found out with proof he was cheating with prostitutes. I always knew deep down he was sleeping around. Going forward I will forever trust my gut. Never letting someone play in my face again 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Yes ! I definitely dated a narcissist, Omg the worst relationship I’ve ever had, this man love bombed me for a month and then the the following month he started putting up tape recorders behind my bed before he went to work, And started accusing me of cheating, And telling me every woman he ever dated cheated on him. Things we use to do or places we use to go . He chose to go by himself, He went from calling me “Babe” to by my name , And constantly lying about things. And so much more, 2yrs of that was enough. That relationship left me Emotionally, Mentally and Physically drained, very tired and brokenhearted. And now that I know the signs. If I ever see them again from anyone, imma run.
I was with a narc and wasn’t cheating but a lot of these behaviors I exhibited because I was pulling away due to the emotional abuse. He swore I was cheating but I really was just withdrawing due to CONSTANTLY being accused amongst other things
Mine when cheating, would either be sad but wouldn't say why or he would try to find something we would disagree on so he could pin something on me and make it as an excuse. Lol
My husband has done so, so, so many of these things! I'm shocked, but I shouldn't be. Is this for real? My mind is blown 🤯 You have literally named every single thing/way that he has done in the last 30 years.
they are lizard cold ......they have zero empathy and incaplable of love .......I have been married to one for 30+ years . I just got knowledge about narcissists this year ! I am wide awake now . I am in gray rock mode now and happy with myself . I still pray for her because only The Lord can turn her around . Good video brother .
I've been long distance and it was cheating on cheating. Weirdly enough he told me. After the fact but he did. I gave him chances and he moved in with me. I was always wondering, why on earth, after I asked him to talk in person and solve issues eye to eye, he always sent me massive amount of text messages instead.
“Freshly clapped cheeks”😂😂😂😂😂 mine was just bold with it.. he sd, “ yea I stepped out and going to continue to do it and u ain’t going nowhere.” WTF! 😳
This is the channel I never knew I needed. Thank you for doing this work because I took a break from relationships and men for 11 years, and now I’m trying to get back into the game and I ran into some bullshit. It’s a crazy climate we’re in.
My gut feeling and intuition told me 2 years ago about it and i finally caught him . Made a fake number txted him to see if he would respond and boom hooked him..... he was ready to go just needed to know the address . Then called him out on it with screenshots and had the nerve to spin it on me saying i knew it was you ! I was just messing with you to see how far you would take it . Mannnnn the karma he has got coming his way .
Lee, my narc wife cheated on me in the past at least 3 times, but i forgave her. But, days ago i saw a bunch of lingerie underwear in her closet, and she has never used them with me. Is it a sign?
Bro 3 times? You deserve to be cheated on cause the first time it happened I can see forgiveness but after that then that's on you. But simply yes she cheating again and the only one you need to be mad at is yourself
They’ll guard their phone for dear life. Have everything hidden on there. I feel that’s why my ex prefers android phones because it’s easier to do that on there. Sometimes they have secret other phones for their cheating purposes
Thank you Lee for providing me with all the validation for my intuition that essentially I already knew... All the signs were there, he just lied to me, gaslit me & then just led me on playing with me for the last 2 years just wasting my time for a whole 2 years for nothing.. I don't know if he did physically or not, but I have so much evidence online of him cheating on me emotionally in the virtual domain after blocking me, then still keeping me tagging along, making excuses saying he just didn't like me writing too much, before I found a stripper writing to him at 4am when he was in bed with me! He still lied saying she was "just a friend"... Alternatively known as a pile of gaslighting lying BS...
Thank u Lee for all of the helpful info! Mine took his pics of me of me out of his phone. I found this out by accident when I asked him to send me a pic of him n me together. He told me he had to eliminate my pics n the ones of us because his phone was getting too full! I would catch him checking my phone all the time. I had nothing to hide so it didn’t bother me. I left him 12 yrs ago. Amazing what narcissists do!!
WHY am I blocked from all social media??? He says because I looked at his friends list and asked questions about some of the profiles he follows.. Why did some of those profiles just disappear after I asked about them? I've straight up asked- "What are you hiding?" He'll sometimes go into a full blown rage... Guilty much? SMH.
I think its fair and right to just cut it off - stop thinking of a future with them-
Once cheating happens it makes everything feel so dull and sad....
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@@cletiawilliams1436blah blah blah, my Love
Exactamundo! We can only work on ourselves. & we can't change a sow's ear into a silk purse, as the saying goes, anyway.
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They always say they are tired and use sleep as an excuse to not spend time with you.
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@@Lovinglife-i2m always saying there's nothing to do
@@Lovinglife-i2m lol yes 😅
Experienced this with my ex.
OMG that’s exactly what he use to do to me!!!
On point I trusted my gut because his behavior including withholding intimacy had changed.And then he started liking other women social media but ignoring mine..I’ve been narc free for 8 months now and thriving
That's what mine did. Blocked me but liking our social media friends in common pics and hearting them. I got in his phone. Everybody he liked or hearted he was messing around with them sending pic of his private part.
@@lisalchambers1596 these devils are so predictable..sending luv
Congratulations on being set free. I am just starting and the pain I feel is unbelievable.
@@lisalchambers1596 ughh I’m so sorry, this happened to me and it feels disgusting when you uncover
@@shaykay2389 feel for you been there too
When? When they breathe....they always are looking for new supply, online, in person, in their dreams.
So true! N their dreams took me out 😂😂😂
True
In their dreams 😂
even watching tv, all the weather girls, newsreaders, tvc women!!
@@harmonyvanscott3634one thing I can admit. They love picking the best of the best! They may go below their standards. At times for the far most part! They want the best of everything! That's fine. They are prospecting new supply 24/7.
They call you “crazy” when confronted. Talking to their ex behind your back. Treating you with indifference. TRUST YOUR INTUITION.
Oh yes they do
So why not leave if he’s not happy. Go be with the one hrs texting. Now you can be with her everyday.
Amen!!!!
@emmarae4322 yes!!!!! Called me crazy and looney!!! ALWAYS TRUST YIUR INTUITION!! I knew!! I asked so many times!! He still had me doubting my gut 😢
I treated my ex like a queen. I gave her everything she wanted, and more, but it wasn’t enough. Finding out that she was cheating on me was utterly devastating. The hardest part to accept is that she was in her 50’s, and sleeping with guys in their 30’s. Not because they were younger guys, but because I figured a 50 year old woman wasn’t capable of this. 6 years down the drain, but a valuable lesson learned. Metaspyclub is very calming and your insight is invaluable.
They are never satisfied ever,
They're sad miserable ppl, they're at war with themselves
Hence they always look for distraction, it's them not u, sad ppl indeed
What u do after wards u have any kids .. I’m 33 with no kids and def feel the his girl cheating now .. but this one I didn’t care the last two exs killed me kinda almost over them now but got a drug problem kinda from it not all the way but long story but i just want one loyal girl feel like I’m running out of time with having kids
@@estes138 so sorry
@@estes138 I would never sleep with Boyz that age tbh I have 33 year old son we don't get on ,, definitely out question form me I'm 52 January coming
@@boxing4life410 yes my ex finally hurt me bad mond games abuse he was druggie alcoholic,, I got anxiety weight loss been since September this year weight is getting lots better tbh I'm healing right now made threats to kill me on day he called me wanted me back lol said sorry I'm quite ill all your games can't , that evening police went to his mother's home arrested him bailed on conditions
A narcissist will always...always cheat until they go into serious therapy. Cheating is their middle name.
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100%!!
More like their first, middle, and last name. Cheating is a function akin to breathing.
No they don’t! A lot of them do not cheat at all! I’ve known a few that will not cheat. My step mom never cheated. Intentionally run my dog over, brag about hitting her horse in the head with a hammer… she was really sick and diagnosed with npd and bpd but she never cheated. My bff has aspd/npd and he will not cheat on his wife ever.
Some narcissists cheat.
There a lot of people who actually cheat on narcissists to help build them up and get support of another person to escape a narcissist.
Behaviors also includes them saying words/phrases theyve never said in a way theyve never spoke....
...also with their phone, if you notice them all the sudden leaving their phone open and unguarded its because theyve cleared evidence out of their phone. So when you snoop and dont find anything then you will believe them that you are crazy. Most important thing to remember DONT TELL A NARCHOLE ANYTHING! EVER! Any info you may find out no matter how you find out dont ever reveal anything to the narc. You will be traching them how to better cover their tracks and deceive if you tell them anything!
Exactly!!!
@@christymckee8133 I could always tell when he’d been hanging out with “other” because he would do EXACTLY THAT! Drop words/phrases he never says…smh
My ex always wanted to discuss things later because he needed more time to make up a lie.
same :/
Same
Classic line! 👏👏👏
Very sad. This day and age is different.
Same here
You can tell who it is. They mirror the other person. Liking new things... they said they hate, in the beginning. They start talking like them as well. Trust your gift and discernment. They don't have that, but you do, use it.
My narc husband would say another woman’s name during intimacy. He did home repair and landscaping majority of his customers were women sometimes I would work with him and these women would be all up in his face one woman rubbed his head in front of me. When I said something he would yell at me and defend the other woman. He would say he didn’t do anything to make those women act that way he was just nice to them and the women takes his niceness as something different . I asked him why are these women comfortable enough to do this in front of your wife. As of yesterday I’m out after 7 years.
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They're comfortable doing that bcuz they was intimate with him. I've experienced something similar with my narc soon to be ex husband. Sending you love ❤️
I am so proud of you! If only I had found RUclips self help 3 yrs ago. Mine wld stay out all night-fb msg other women...then say he couldn't trust ME or bring up some random crap to blame me for whatever narc behavior that moment. I get so emotional thinking if only I had the knowledge I have now. 😭
It is so scary how they are ALL the SAME. Like a horror scifi.
@@heatherfeathers I'm telling you. If I knew what I know now I would've never proceeded to get married and having children with him. I don't regret my children. I just regret him.
This is what has been happening with my husband and my younger sister.Iam hurt so hury and people think Iam delusional my sister will come greet him wearing a bra and only and a short right in my presence.I told my Ma but hey noone takes me serious.
My ex certainly cheated. There were signs but I gave the benefit of the doubt. He used to say he “swears by loyalty” but the actions didn’t match. He was secretive. One time he was at a barbecue at his friend’s house and then he didn’t come home that night. Of course he lied and said people got too drunk and he took his friend’s family members home. I said “Why didn’t you call or text me to tell me?” He says “I didn’t want to have my phone in my hand while driving” 😅😂🙄
Pathetic excuses they give *sigh*
I don't think being a nigga without morals makes you a narcissist. A niggacist maybe but narcissist has to be a clinical diagnosis for a behavior that is very different
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Oh the excuses are surmountable 😂
Yeah right mine text wile driving all the time
The Narc will get mad, or feel guilty they got caught like have Shouting & Crying Outbursts🤬😢
Yep 💯
So so True
Will they get irritated if you ask him/her why him/her cheated?
@@otiliamanuelajurj Yes Indeed along with the outbursts especially if u caught them red handed!
Or they will laugh in your face after they turn it around on you and play more head games so you are the one crying and not them.
Can't go to the bathroom without the phone. Panic attack if they leave phone unattended.
First thing took it in bathroom 🪥 yep spent ages in there texting saying it was his son
If they do decide to leave the phone out it’s only because they erased everything out the phone before they came home
Putting a phone in their hand under the pillow as they sleep. I knew there was something going on.
my ex did the same
Yeah, forever inseparable with their phones, always taking them to the bathroom, for the shower, always putting the screen facing down. I have never ever encountered his phone without supervision.
Yep money did that too
@@whyYUbeeI do that but because I'm constantly listening to music and audio books but I'm also not worried about my phone being with my SO if its charging or I happen to not be using it or whatever. He could borrow it anytime, immediately, and I would have no issue. So I'm just saying they may have a phone addiction like me lol but also ask yourself if that necessity is defensive in anyway. Mine is a mindless habit not a safe guarding response
@@mint_soup9743 addiction is different thing I guess like you said. If you don't mind your close one touching your phone then I think there's no issue. I mean addiction isn't good haha but my nex was hyper fixated. He would never let me touch his phone, and he would act secretive, tilting his phone in a weird way while sitting next to me so I wouldn't see it. There were a lot of things he was doing behind my back 🤷♀️ he was the only ex (out of 3) who was "safeguarding" his phone so much.
Always feeling sad or bad. Making an excuse for their silence or slow responses
Nahhhh I feel it !! If u know your person then you know WHAT U KNOW PERIOD !!!!
100 percent 😢 they are a lost cause
Exactly! Calling you less, gusrded phone, not answering the phone when you call. Oh yes, the accusing you of cheating.
Mine changed a few months after we were married. It was like a freaking light switch. It was great then it was awful
Easy the pattern changes 😮 You feel it definitely on rhe inside, so yes, Lee is Correct, youll definitely fill it 😮😮😢😢
Inconsistency in any behavior, red flag
Yes and hiding the phone and using my name like a bad word. Angry all the time, said I love u like it was a disgusting thing.
While the video's demonstration is eye-catching, the ease with which the system is exploited suggests manipulation or pre-prompting of the Metaspyclub . Techniques like custom instructions, hardcoded responses, limited scope, and clever editing could create an illusion of vulnerability, but may not reflect real-world LLM security. It's crucial to approach such claims critically and consider the broader context before drawing any conclusions.
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Using new slang, catchphrases, or other words they don't usually use.
Listening to very different music from their normal music tastes.
Radical changes in hairstyle, makeup, fashion, working out, or other aspects of their appearance.
Becoming more secretive with their phone/devices.
New interests, hobbies, taste in food, etc.
Withdrawing mentally and emotionally.
Less sx, or, conversely, tons of sx out of nowhere.
A gut sense of sthg being wrong.
They will lovebomb you to begin with. Nice gifts. Nice dates. Charming. Funny. Affectionate. Compliments. They will tell you that they have strong feelings early on. All of this is fake!! Done to lure you in. They cant love anything or anyone (appart from themselves). I felt there was something off at the start. My gut was screaming at me to leave but i didnt listen. You will see the red flags. But choose to ignore them. When everything goes there way everything is good. But if they’ve had a stressful day at work or something happens to p*** them off they will be moody and misserable. They will play hot and cold. One day they are lovely other days they are cold and distant so you never know where you stand with them. Leaving you feeling confused, hurt and not good enough. Dont ever pull them up on their bad behaviour. If you do they will end the “relationship”. They manipulate and gaslight you into taking their bad behaviour and disrespect. How dare you stand up for yourself! You should bow down to them and be a door mat because they are the best thing since sliced bread and you should be greatful that they chose you! They will blame everything that goes wrong in the relationship on you. They are never to blame. They will never appologize. They will manipulate you into thinking its your fault and you will end up appologizing for your reaction to their bad behaviour. Everything will always be on their terms! You will do whatever they want to do when they want to do it. If its not something they enjoy doing they will not do it. And on the off chance that they will they will be misserable the whole time. They will see you when it suits them. They will never plan things in advance or make future plans. They will never fully commit. If your going through a hard time in life they will never be there to support you. They will avoid everything that involves emotional connection. Dont ever cry in front of them because they will think that your crazy for having feelings. They cant even give to a hug if you were to cry in front of them, they will just look at you blankly. They have no empathy what so ever. They are very selfish and only care about their own needs. Your needs mean nothing to them. They are dead on the inside. No feelings. No emotions. Just an empty soul. They are addicts. They drink too much. They gamble too much. They are stuck in their ways. They will never change. They will lie. They will cheat (mine had been a serial cheater in past relationships and i though that he wouldnt be the same with me. I have no proof that he cheated but from his past its very likely). They will use you. All of this will have a negative effect on your mental health. You will loose so much of yourself with a narcissist. They will drain the life out of you. Save yourself. Love yourself. Leave these toxic human beings. Moreover, I could've gotten hurt from the impact of been cheated on. I'm glad that i got to know ASAP, through Barryinvestigation@gmail. com and I appreciate the content you put out for us .
There's a 50/50 chance, perhaps even lower, that this a real person. When someone advertises through comments, they're probably scammers. Don't send emails to the address. Real businesses don't need to gather customers through RUclips comments.
@Orquet-qj2nf slim to none she's real ...similar I've read in comments of many narc channels. The words are REAL, so I think heartfelt comments of real ppl were stolen to advertise for Barry the investigator.
@@Orquet-qj2nfI was impressed abt the long spot on message...
thats bcoz its a combination of messages from real ppl , created by the guy or company of investigations who's name is at the end
So let's thank him for the great comment .
Shame..I read the whole paragraph to assuming they were a fellow victim 😑
😂😂 the email at the end 😂😂
They say u are CRAZY IN PERSON THEY EITHER TRY TO DEFLECT THE CONVO OR YES NO RESPONSE AND THE BEST I'M SLEEPING😂😂😂😂😂
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It was always "I fell asleep" 😂😂😂 He wasn't very good at anything, including being a liar.
So many things I didn't understand. Even therapists who warned me didn't give me these tools/understanding. Things are so much clearer.
This is exactly what I did. I trusted my intuition then went from there. I was right about who he cheated on me with. And yes there behaviour changes completely. They go cold on you and the phone is hidden or upside down. It's on silent. They turn off the notifications, they use there phone Less around you, they go out alot more than often, they get stressed if they can't go to a certain place because that's where they wanted to meet the person so they can cheat. And instant anger and frustration if you ask them questions. They will make you think like your getting paranoid but trust in how you feel.
@phoenixxx6427 💯 straight facts!
@@phoenixxx6427 yes ma'am all of that
My husband started to change after a really big fight we had so I just assumed he was mad at me for 4 months. And I just took everything he said to me because I felt I deserved it since I had caused the fight.
He stopped giving my selfies ❤ when I would send them to him. He used to call me multiple times a day while he was at work then stopped. He stopped calling me babe, stopped telling me I looked pretty. Started answering the phone with “Yo, Sup, instead of the hey babe.” Would hang up on me before saying I love you and when I would ask him why he wouldn’t say it he would lie and tell me he did.
When I would hug him he wouldn’t hug me back. When I would tell him “I love you” he would say it back all monotone. Stopped kissing me in the mornings before he left for work and when he would come home. Went out every weekend with coworkers and “his friends.” I would call him and he would ignore my calls or take the call somewhere private when he said he was in a restaurant.
He started getting hair cuts every Friday and wouldn’t come home until late. Wouldn’t want to do anything with me anymore, like go out to dinner, the movies, or baseball games.
Would spend all his time on his phone cheesing really hard. Stopped sharing his location with me and changed his phone passcode. When I asked him about he just lied and said he didn’t. He used to let me play music on his phone when was connected to aux but then he would just tell me “use your phone.” Would take his phone out to pump gas. Never let me use his phone if I forgot mine at home.
Always played music about cheating and would sing it to me. Would have the same songs on replay.
He started yelling at me a lot, cussing at me, picking fights. I felt like I was walking on egg shells. He would be overly critical of me. Withdrew affection. Avoided spending time with me.
Would spend all day working on his cars in the garage. When I would go to get him so we could have dinner, he would be gone. Would ignore me when I talked to him or if I showed him something on my phone. Wouldn’t even want to watch a movie with me.
He started working out which he hadn’t done in 2 years. He would have me take pictures of him working out and would send it to “his friends.” He wouldn’t even pay attention to me when he would spot me because he would be on his phone. Started checking out women right in front of me which he had never done before.
One day he snapped at me and told me he didn’t love me anymore. And when I asked him if there was someone else, he looked away then down before looking back at me and saying no. Then the next day when I asked him why his feelings changed about me he said he had been cheating on me for months.
It was an awful experience. This is the man I had been dating since I was 15 years old, we had spent almost 16 years together. We broke up and not even a month later he had followed a whole bunch of explicit content on IG before deleted me from all his socials and it’s like I had never even been a part of his life. It literally felt like he hated me/resented me. I couldn’t believe it.
It’s crazy because right before he had cheated on me it felt like we were happy. He had gifted me a kitten and an Ipad. We started going to church together to grow our faith to start a family soon. And then one day he had gone out with his coworkers for beers and everything changed after that. He said this chick gave him her number and it just went on from there.
The betrayal is honestly the worst pain I have ever gone through.
Intuition! The I love you stopped, the hugging and affection stopped, he started hanging out w coworkers and I couldn't come. I was taking care of his daughter and he got to leave to "hang out" with coworkers. He yelled at ME for hanging out with friends. I never knew what a narcissist was until after I found out he was cheating. We "weren't on the same page" But him and his boss were. He even said out of the blue, "if you want to break up with me just let me know." Projection. Don't settle for this kind of behavior. It's never worth it. I promise. Thank you Lee for this.
My intuition came to me in a dream..I know that this was from the Holy Spirit watching over me and it was completely true..🙌✌️
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This happen to me too!! Thank you YAH!!!!!!
Facts!!! 🔥🔥💯💯
You forgot to mention one way they give themselves away. I experienced this with 2 different narcissists:
The first just said completely out of nowhere and without any context: “Oh if my sister tells you that I cheated is a lie. She’s just jealous of our relationship!”
The second, also without any context at all, and also completely out of the blue:
“I had an ex that accused me of cheating, but I never cheated, he had a trauma because he was cheated on so he kept thinking I was cheating on him. Do you have trauma about cheating?”
Jeez… how come they don’t see they’re giving themselves away with that?
At least they make it easy for us to spot it and move on.
Wow. 😮
yeah, true, but do we truly ever listen to these little confessions/Red flags?! - typically we don't...only later, after everything is said and done, those phrases comes back to remembrance and we go like oooooofff that was it!!! ⚠️
" my ex was a psycho"
Or they will make up a story like I was in the parking lot with a woman but it was my niece. She was picking up my car.
When they are cheating most of the time they are in love so they show you hate everyday .
And that is what happen in my life he was always telling me how ugly I am and bad mom I am and look at me with hate.
Working 7 days a week etc. a woman knows when her partner is cheating no doubt about it.
You just made me remember some horrible things..it’s crazy how the kind forget things… he treated me so bad in one of my pregnancies…18 years later I find out why…he got another woman pregnant…(both of us was pregnant at the same time) she was 19 and he was 30…sicko!
@@klmitch26 OMG!! Same thing happened to me when I was pregnant SMH!!!
Yes when they cheat they fall so in love. Why do they fall in love so quickly and absolutely hate the one they're with? I never understood that.
They are never in love.
@@emmarae4322 they do but is superficial. Like Lee said a new toy to use .
My late husband accused me of cheating the whole 20 years we were together, not by choice. I wasnt able to get away safely from him or his family. He came ibto some money snd hired Cheaters to follow me. He blew 2 grand on that. Didnt find out till years later. He also had an old female friend who would come over and hump all over his leg while they both stared at me. Again, it was a dangerous situation all together. I left a couple times and he followed me, it just wasnt safe fornthe people whonwere trying to help. I didnt want them to get hurt. Im so glad that part of my life is behind me. The scars and wounds will always be there.
Yes this is what my ex did. He accused me of cheating on him even though I never did.
Always its to deflect
Always trust your intuition; I had suspicions that my partner was cheating on me [all intimacy stopped & acted like speaking to me was a problem] and found out in less than 24 hours that she was pregnant by another man...I haven't been in a relationship since and this was several years ago.
I knew he was cheating whenever he would accuse me of cheating!
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Out of nowhere he would start doing nice and surprising things, almost as if he felt guilty...
I’m going through this now 😢
@LeeMarie90 me too,but I got some for his a s s😂
Top yay nailed it
They project on you sins
Facts
You make a very good point there, trust your intuition. I have had many signs but i ignored them .
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If they are breathing, they are cheating
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That guarded shit over the phone is so true! lol 😂😂
Found my husband's old phone, still in service in his car,under alout of stuff with password areas.dont know what to do!😢
Change my number i don't have that problem! Change your number ppl 😂
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Hell no. Just block 🚫! Don't put more work on you that they cause! No!
@@heatherfeathers you do what is best for you ❕✌️✌️
@@heatherfeathers I don't block ppl ❕❕ when you try to block a person don't you understand these people can call you from other numbers 🔢 change your number ppl✌️✌️✌️🎯🎯👏🥱🤣🤣🤣
I changed mine also and was very selective of who has my number now. Blocked on every social media there is. Also email.
Mine been cheating the whole 6 year relationship with multiple women, I was so stupid to stay as long as I did because all the signs were there. I've now left and NEVER GOING BACK!
Thank you for your transparency.
They dont just remove themselves a little bit from you, its alot and very noticeable. I literally feel like I am invisible, like that unwanted soft toy, no longer loved, chucked to the side, not played with and discarded.
If you feel it its happening
Lack of "ACCOUNTABILITY" makes anyone a narc.
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My ex used to tell me that I was crazy that my gut was always wrong etc. I could have the proof afteri have a feeling etc. He made sure I doubted myself. Caught him over and over. Not once did he speak the truth.
@@Futureholdshope yep, when you literally have the proof they will still lie to your face and straight up deny it making you question your sanity
My ex hid it in his drawer in the room up side down when he was next to me
When you check the Verizon bill and theirs another phone number and they say, they didn’t know they had two numbers than watch starts ringing🤦🏻♀️
Effed up completely but kind of funny tho you got to admit. Put that in a movie! But serious F these people theyre demons
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Present or absent silent treatment that lasts days to weeks is a big clue. When my narc would accuse me of cheating I’d go into a rage because the suspicion was just not warranted at all! The stooge knew where I was every second so his delusional thinking just did nothing but piss me off! Like dude if you think that low of me then get the f out of my house and stop living off my back!!! 🤦🏾♀️no matter how I reacted he’d say my reaction was proof
Currently going through this. Dude, I work 2 damn jobs and 2 young children! When I asked him to leave, it’s turned around on me “you wanted me to Lea s anyways!” I told him No I want you to stop accusing me and stop being verbally abusive!
*wanted me to leave anyways. I’m terribly tired
there's been plenty of times that my intuition told me he was cheating, but when I asked him, he told me that I must be cheating because I asked him out of nowhere. Just saying that sometimes they will switch this on you too.
💯👏👏👏 absolutely they change. But you already have a feeling they're cheating.
C’mon now 😂. There’s a difference between privacy and SECRECY. I love this.
This is wild my ex would always say this verbatim. Wild
My narc ex was still contacting me after I blocked all his phony numbers and I took screen shots and recorded one of our conversations saying he loves me didn’t want to leave me alone, denied everything I already knew him being back with his wife. Sent it to the wife 3 times over the course of 1 month and she still will not believe her husband keeps calling me and blames me for our brake up because I kicked him out for lying. And the narrative now is I’m crazy now 😂 I just hope he stops now and leaves me alone 🙏🏽
Yes they will label you as the crazy one of course...
Do you do videos on covert narcs? Mine would look at me like a deer in headlights and never say a word. I would show him evidence, and show him his own inbox and he would say, that's not flirting. But when I asked him how he would feel if I did it, then only silence. I've never seen this before in a person. He wouldn't say a word. Except deny that he was flirting.
Sorry feeling I had reading that. I can relate.
Yes exactly the same here ...
Their breathing is a sign and they're lying when their lips are moving.
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That narcissistic told me that I was his only one, but then turned around and said, I dont want to put a title to the relationship because that feels like being controlled 😂 and when he's with me he's with me, but when he's gone he's gone. What a clown,😅 after 7yrs of checking him out, I just got tired of the BS went no contact blocked him, I feel vigorated free and happy, thank you Lea for all you do in helping us.❤
Yes like mine , not wanting to commit and of course no trace of me on social media . I just appeared occasionally in the odd video call to his family
Sad to hear this hope u have Found a real nigga now. It appears narcissists keep their shit sterile cause it allows them to get new supply.
My guy which I’ve been with for 17 years, confuses the crap outta me , recently started calling me by my name lately and any little thing I do triggers them and they can be like that for days, weeks then outta the random one day just flip the switch.. I have so many gray hairs on my head from this relationship now and walk on eggshells it’s not even funny
Or…. the infamous “I had a dream you cheated on me.”
Anyone else got this one? Gather here… ✍🏾
Idk, I had a dream like that and it turns out he was having an affair 😊
i had a dream he got his ex pregnant ... I told him and he said "well the baby would have been conceived in love"... WHAT? yeah that was the beginning of the end
Omg! Yes I heard that several times from him. And acting very upset about it.
I never caught him cheating but his actions said enough.
Yes! He said this early on... Then in the end, I had a dream more than once he was, and it came true. She sents months of pics and videos.
Yep.
Throughout 10yrs I always caught him flirting it wasn’t until I left I found out with proof he was cheating with prostitutes. I always knew deep down he was sleeping around. Going forward I will forever trust my gut. Never letting someone play in my face again 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Absolutely nailed it!
The changes no matter how small … pet names for instance, subtle changes in regular patterns, totally set off the intuition.
You hit the nail on the head !!! I’ve seen all these signs of the narcissist ! Thanks for pointing this behavior out to me !
Yes ! I definitely dated a narcissist, Omg the worst relationship I’ve ever had, this man love bombed me for a month and then the the following month he started putting up tape recorders behind my bed before he went to work, And started accusing me of cheating, And telling me every woman he ever dated cheated on him. Things we use to do or places we use to go . He chose to go by himself, He went from calling me “Babe” to by my name , And constantly lying about things. And so much more, 2yrs of that was enough. That relationship left me Emotionally, Mentally and Physically drained, very tired and brokenhearted. And now that I know the signs. If I ever see them again from anyone, imma run.
Yes please run. It’s not worth it.
I've been watching your videos for a while and this is definitely one of my favorites! So much useful and true information💯
I was with a narc and wasn’t cheating but a lot of these behaviors I exhibited because I was pulling away due to the emotional abuse. He swore I was cheating but I really was just withdrawing due to CONSTANTLY being accused amongst other things
Mine when cheating, would either be sad but wouldn't say why or he would try to find something we would disagree on so he could pin something on me and make it as an excuse. Lol
That's right wull ALWAYS ,ALWAYS CHEAT
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My husband has done so, so, so many of these things! I'm shocked, but I shouldn't be. Is this for real? My mind is blown 🤯 You have literally named every single thing/way that he has done in the last 30 years.
You got me out here, looking at other women to…( he never finished sentence) was that projection and him telling on himself?
they are lizard cold ......they have zero empathy and incaplable of love .......I have been married to one for 30+ years . I just got knowledge about narcissists this year ! I am wide awake now . I am in gray rock mode now and happy with myself . I still pray for her because only The Lord can turn her around . Good video brother .
My ex literally was crying buckets of tears accusing me of cheating in my room , just for me to find out she was texting an ex supply. two weeks later
They will tell you listen good 😂😂😂😂
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@@MentalHealness Dead serious they will Lee 🤣🤣🤣👍👍🤣
Facts 😂😂😂
Yes, they need to brag about it
This is a fact😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mine always says. If I was going to cheat, I would let you know 😂
I've been long distance and it was cheating on cheating. Weirdly enough he told me. After the fact but he did. I gave him chances and he moved in with me. I was always wondering, why on earth, after I asked him to talk in person and solve issues eye to eye, he always sent me massive amount of text messages instead.
“Freshly clapped cheeks”😂😂😂😂😂 mine was just bold with it.. he sd, “ yea I stepped out and going to continue to do it and u ain’t going nowhere.” WTF! 😳
#1 way to know a Narcissist is cheating... they accuse You of cheating.
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Hi Lee loved ur content/ phone fairy tale hilarious and true as hell. those glasses look very nice.
Just by watching your RUclips videos I have learned soooo much
They are awake🤣😂, if not now BUCKLE UP😂
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This is the channel I never knew I needed. Thank you for doing this work because I took a break from relationships and men for 11 years, and now I’m trying to get back into the game and I ran into some bullshit. It’s a crazy climate we’re in.
I wish I could like this multiple times!
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He said "If i ever cheat, which i wont, it will be with another man."
And he did.
wow wtfff😁😁😁😬🤦🌴
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These ppl by nature are bisexual, like all vampires, they go both ways.
Damn! That flag was crimson, maroon, burgundy and every other shade of red you can think of. 😖
That comment was a major red flag. After making a statement like that, I'd run for the hills, not suprised he did in the end.
Congratulations! I bend my head to your courage and will to change! I love to hear you!
I 'm an empath and was a victim of a narcisist.
You talk about this with such passion it's great your putting this out honestly, it's such a sad subject. Thank you.
you’re welcome
My gut feeling and intuition told me 2 years ago about it and i finally caught him . Made a fake number txted him to see if he would respond and boom hooked him..... he was ready to go just needed to know the address . Then called him out on it with screenshots and had the nerve to spin it on me saying i knew it was you ! I was just messing with you to see how far you would take it . Mannnnn the karma he has got coming his way .
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Lee, my narc wife cheated on me in the past at least 3 times, but i forgave her. But, days ago i saw a bunch of lingerie underwear in her closet, and she has never used them with me. Is it a sign?
Yes.
Oh absolutely. If she's gotten away with cheating 3 times. She'll try to go for more.
Bro 3 times? You deserve to be cheated on cause the first time it happened I can see forgiveness but after that then that's on you. But simply yes she cheating again and the only one you need to be mad at is yourself
You know yourself, trust your gut.
No! At this point it’s not a “sign” … it’s a FACT!
The best way to know a narcissist is cheating: he is a narcissist.
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They’ll guard their phone for dear life. Have everything hidden on there. I feel that’s why my ex prefers android phones because it’s easier to do that on there. Sometimes they have secret other phones for their cheating purposes
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Wow! *Even* easier? Gosh!
I found one of my old phones in his drawer I got rid of didn’t question it but wondered why he was using it I thought it was second phone
Yes, and watch the ones that say "I swear on my..."😑
Exactly!
Privacy is different from secrecy!! Yes!
A narcissist is way way too clever. A narcissist will cheat on you and still text you “love you, thinking of you”.
Thank you Lee for providing me with all the validation for my intuition that essentially I already knew... All the signs were there, he just lied to me, gaslit me & then just led me on playing with me for the last 2 years just wasting my time for a whole 2 years for nothing.. I don't know if he did physically or not, but I have so much evidence online of him cheating on me emotionally in the virtual domain after blocking me, then still keeping me tagging along, making excuses saying he just didn't like me writing too much, before I found a stripper writing to him at 4am when he was in bed with me! He still lied saying she was "just a friend"... Alternatively known as a pile of gaslighting lying BS...
Put God 1 🎯🎯🙏🙏😇💚❕
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Surely some people are really good at hiding it. How easy to say you are going to work but have a day off. Regular dreams of someone cheating
Thank you for saving me from my narc x
That's true that's what my ex accused me of everything what he did
This all so true. The gaslighting is just unreal when U talk to them about this.
I am so happy for your channel
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Thank u Lee for all of the helpful info! Mine took his pics of me of me out of his phone. I found this out by accident when I asked him to send me a pic of him n me together. He told me he had to eliminate my pics n the ones of us because his phone was getting too full! I would catch him checking my phone all the time. I had nothing to hide so it didn’t bother me. I left him 12 yrs ago. Amazing what narcissists do!!
you’re welcome 🙏🏽
The phone and new friends is the biggest thing to look out for . No sex and just missing in action!!!!
WHY am I blocked from all social media??? He says because I looked at his friends list and asked questions about some of the profiles he follows.. Why did some of those profiles just disappear after I asked about them? I've straight up asked- "What are you hiding?" He'll sometimes go into a full blown rage... Guilty much? SMH.
Same
Told my ex narc I started working out. He asked who I’m trying to look good for. Every time we talk just reminds me why it was good I left.