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They see your sickness as an inconvenience. They will either ignore your or completely make it all about them. They will get upset and blame you, saying that all their plans are ruined because of you.
Absolutely true, Elizabeth. When you're ill they show no support and will complain disgusted or they might even dissappear. They hate doing things for others unless they can get some benefit as mentioned. They're horrible and despicable. Thank you 🙏🏻
The narcissist will accuse you of lying about your health and claim you are crazy and drag you to the mental health team. In my experience I was accused of lying about my health and was used against me claiming I can not look after the kids. When I lost my legs in 2018 I did not tell her. However a year later she found out and claimed I had to inform her after she accused me of lying about my health. The worst thing was she knew I had issues. The narcissist said I was a burden when she found out I lost both my legs this is why I say 'who would want me in a wheelchair and with no legs. Thank you Elizabeth for this video 💜
One time I thought I was having a literal heart attack. I was suffering from symptoms and it was terrifying. I came out of the bedroom and thought I was gonna collapse because I so weak. My partner was sleeping on the couch and I slid to the floor and woke him begging him to call an ambulance. He got up and yelled at me told me to go to the f*cking hospital if I didn’t feel good.. he then proceeded to open the refrigerator while I barely was able to dial 911 on the floor and call an ambulance myself. When the ambulance came to get me he sat there while they took me out and didn’t even ride with me or come to the hospital after. Nothing. I will never forget that. Sadly I’m still trying to get away but I’ve learned not to even bother letting him know when I’m not feeling well because it just causes me more discomfort.
My ex narc was slipping sleeping tablets into my drink and then turn the heating up. I would wake the next day, with no cover on, freezing cold and an awful taste in my mouth. Then he would pick an argument with me the next day for falling asleep. I only found this out when I put the glass besides the sofa and because he didn't see it he forgot to take it out. when I was cleaning HIS house the following day, I found the glass and spotted the residue. After that I stopped eating or drinking anything in his..and I never fell asleep again. I should have reported him, but when a narcissist is in your head, the most simplest common sense things are sometimes difficult to do cos you are always second guessing yourself, am I overreacting? I've not been with him for years now but can't bring myself to be with anyone else.. I'm still in the healing process. Having good friends around me has been my Lifesaver. I'm at the stage now where I will accept that invitation to a function, knowing he will be there. You have to face your demons at some point, so you can move on.
I was going through Cancer Treatment and was taken to the American Cancer Society ,and overheard the Lady being told I was in denial of my Cancer . STOP !!!!! Really!!!!????
Elizabeth everything you have said the ex did, nearly died, home nine weeks and then he left. He was supportive for a week then the verbal and emotional abuse started, he lied to his family, his solicitor and a couple of his friends. His brother came to see me and i told him the truth. I am healing thanks to family and friends and a good councillor.
I tried to unalive myself before,as i was in hospital my narc friend at the time told me "have you any idea what this does to me" never mind i nearly died he made it all about him not the fact i was struggling with mental health problems
Too many stories that could be told, here, but the reality is you don't matter. Only the narcissist matters to the narcissist. You will be causing them to suffer if u r sick. They will use guilt trips, gaslighting, pretend that that they are worse off than you are & still demand u do their bidding.
I went to visit my x-narc in italy (long distance relationship). It was my 6th visit to see her in 3yrs. I started to feel sick the same day i was scheduled to fly out. Since i was already suspecting something about my x-gf, i was a little hesitant to go, but i would lose out on the flight and airbnb. When i was on the plane, i felt very sick, i also have diabetes and felt my blood pressure dropping. When i arrived in italy i was looking very sick. She wasnt looking to happy to see me that way. She would get moody and we fought a couple of times because of her attitude. And i noticed how she never acted like this before because i was never sick around her. Well that was the last trip i am ever planning to see that Narc. I actually discarded her 2wks before her regular summer trip to chicago which is where i live but she wasn't coming to visit me. She comes to work (exotic dancer 🚩) and to visit her family in Chicago. I was still not 100% sure of her being a narc, i even told her i believe she is a narc and obviously she flipped it on me. She meet up with my sister to exchange bags as she took one if my moms luggage last summer. She told my sister son, theres a few gifts in the luggage for you guys. And when my sister opened the luggage there where 2 🍆🍆 that i had bought her last year and she has used as recently as june before i discarded her. I now know she did this on purpose and to tell a kid there are gifts in the luggage for them to open n see tbe sex toys. That was a new low for her, but now im 100% sure she is a toxic covert narc. And im never going to take her back.
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For more information about understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse, click the links below.
overcoming-narcissist-abuse.teachable.com/p/break-free-from-the-narcissist
Check these out!
15 Rules To Deal With Narcissistic People.: How To Stay Sane And Break The Chain.
www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0BYRLLGRJ/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1679325458&sr=8-1
Narcissists Handbook: The ultimate guide to understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse.-1
www.amazon.com/dp/B0C87NNBNP?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_dp_VKQZHN0VXE8W4WXTQQ20
Boundaries with Narcissists: Safeguarding Emotional, Psychological, and Physical Independence.
www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ583RL8
Hilarious (and Horrifying) Narcissistic Memes And Their Meanings. a.co/d/03hzL8Zx
(Sponsored.). betterhelp.com/elizabethshaw
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They see your sickness as an inconvenience. They will either ignore your or completely make it all about them. They will get upset and blame you, saying that all their plans are ruined because of you.
Absolutely true, Elizabeth. When you're ill they show no support and will complain disgusted or they might even dissappear. They hate doing things for others unless they can get some benefit as mentioned. They're horrible and despicable. Thank you 🙏🏻
They really are. They are pure evil.
The narcissist will accuse you of lying about your health and claim you are crazy and drag you to the mental health team. In my experience I was accused of lying about my health and was used against me claiming I can not look after the kids.
When I lost my legs in 2018 I did not tell her. However a year later she found out and claimed I had to inform her after she accused me of lying about my health.
The worst thing was she knew I had issues. The narcissist said I was a burden when she found out I lost both my legs this is why I say 'who would want me in a wheelchair and with no legs.
Thank you Elizabeth for this video 💜
One time I thought I was having a literal heart attack. I was suffering from symptoms and it was terrifying. I came out of the bedroom and thought I was gonna collapse because I so weak. My partner was sleeping on the couch and I slid to the floor and woke him begging him to call an ambulance. He got up and yelled at me told me to go to the f*cking hospital if I didn’t feel good.. he then proceeded to open the refrigerator while I barely was able to dial 911 on the floor and call an ambulance myself. When the ambulance came to get me he sat there while they took me out and didn’t even ride with me or come to the hospital after. Nothing. I will never forget that. Sadly I’m still trying to get away but I’ve learned not to even bother letting him know when I’m not feeling well because it just causes me more discomfort.
Good Topic. Definitely run from these unfixable non-humans.
My ex narc was slipping sleeping tablets into my drink and then turn the heating up. I would wake the next day, with no cover on, freezing cold and an awful taste in my mouth. Then he would pick an argument with me the next day for falling asleep. I only found this out when I put the glass besides the sofa and because he didn't see it he forgot to take it out. when I was cleaning HIS house the following day, I found the glass and spotted the residue. After that I stopped eating or drinking anything in his..and I never fell asleep again. I should have reported him, but when a narcissist is in your head, the most simplest common sense things are sometimes difficult to do cos you are always second guessing yourself, am I overreacting? I've not been with him for years now but can't bring myself to be with anyone else.. I'm still in the healing process. Having good friends around me has been my Lifesaver.
I'm at the stage now where I will accept that invitation to a function, knowing he will be there. You have to face your demons at some point, so you can move on.
I was going through Cancer Treatment and was taken to the American Cancer Society ,and overheard the Lady being told I was in denial of my Cancer . STOP !!!!! Really!!!!????
Thank you Elizabeth
Elizabeth everything you have said the ex did, nearly died, home nine weeks and then he left. He was supportive for a week then the verbal and emotional abuse started, he lied to his family, his solicitor and a couple of his friends. His brother came to see me and i told him the truth. I am healing thanks to family and friends and a good councillor.
I tried to unalive myself before,as i was in hospital my narc friend at the time told me "have you any idea what this does to me" never mind i nearly died he made it all about him not the fact i was struggling with mental health problems
Too many stories that could be told, here, but the reality is you don't matter.
Only the narcissist matters to the narcissist.
You will be causing them to suffer if u r sick. They will use guilt trips, gaslighting, pretend that that they are worse off than you are & still demand u do their bidding.
I’m not fawning on ya but it’s helped me more than any veterans hospital pasty vegan telling me to stop eating meat. I can’t listen to them weirdo’s.
I went to visit my x-narc in italy (long distance relationship). It was my 6th visit to see her in 3yrs. I started to feel sick the same day i was scheduled to fly out. Since i was already suspecting something about my x-gf, i was a little hesitant to go, but i would lose out on the flight and airbnb. When i was on the plane, i felt very sick, i also have diabetes and felt my blood pressure dropping. When i arrived in italy i was looking very sick. She wasnt looking to happy to see me that way. She would get moody and we fought a couple of times because of her attitude. And i noticed how she never acted like this before because i was never sick around her. Well that was the last trip i am ever planning to see that Narc.
I actually discarded her 2wks before her regular summer trip to chicago which is where i live but she wasn't coming to visit me. She comes to work (exotic dancer 🚩) and to visit her family in Chicago.
I was still not 100% sure of her being a narc, i even told her i believe she is a narc and obviously she flipped it on me. She meet up with my sister to exchange bags as she took one if my moms luggage last summer. She told my sister son, theres a few gifts in the luggage for you guys. And when my sister opened the luggage there where 2 🍆🍆 that i had bought her last year and she has used as recently as june before i discarded her. I now know she did this on purpose and to tell a kid there are gifts in the luggage for them to open n see tbe sex toys. That was a new low for her, but now im 100% sure she is a toxic covert narc. And im never going to take her back.