Everything you’re describing - not having motivation to do anything, but also not feeling sad or necessarily having other signs of depression - yeah that’s me. Most of the time. You’re not alone! Also love the doing what my brain wants not what I want to want.
Try Escape to Rural France. The chateau was destroyed in a fire in the 30s leaving only most of the walls standing. warning - it is another Brit. Setting small achievable goals is a great way to ease back into getting (whatever ) jo functioning again. Good luck.
Noel, I hope you are starting to feel better physically and mentally since you filmed this video. Our brains are wonderful machines but wow can they mess us up as well. Sending you love, joy and positive energy.
I caught covid twice, once with long covid symptoms that lasted in some form for roughly 9 months. I completely understand and empathize with the lack of motivation and extreme fatigue. Both were super not cool and (for me at least) the worst part of the experience. There's a kind of lingering brain fog/malise that just makes everything unsatisfactory and finding motivation for anything is a serious act of willpower. I hope these smaller projects help and I'm rooting for you. Edit spelling
I feel you. I haven't drawn anything in almost a year. If you like the Pethericks, then you might want to watch The 2nd Empire Strikes Back, if you are looking for more restoration channel distractions.😉
Your hair has gotten so long and so pretty. Thank you for your words on anxiety. It sucks. I try to refocus my anxiety into productive activities like sewing or gardening. I have learned these as coping techniques. I'm not always successful. Normalizing talking about mental health is great. Thank you.
September got fired because it was an awful month. 102 degree fever flu, my 10 year old rescue dog crossed the Rainbow Bridge during a hurricane when my home was without power and I had only a lantern to see by. I have no sew jo either and have six major projects to do for Christmas gifts. I am re-reading series that I love because I don't have the umph to read anything new. I am also re-watching The Great British Sewing Bee from the beginning to try to get a bit of jo back too. Glad you're checking in because it helps to remind us that "celebs" have real lives too.
I hope you're feeling better! If you like The Pethericks and the Convent reno, Escape to Rural France is renovating an entire late 19th century chateau from burnt out rumble! It's weirdly fascinating.
I’ve also recently lost my sew-jo which has really been a bummer. Engineering school is kicking my butt (I hate 8 ams) but my school offers counseling so that’s cool. I’m working on a rayon skirt (got fabric for $3/yd at hobby lobby. Slay) and learning to sew snaps for the first time by hand Edit: wanted to add that I’m glad you’re posting videos again! Yours are my favorite to watch while I’m working on projects
I’m glad that you posted. Was missing you !! I am busy doing a community theatre show and also working on a children’s ballet . Very stressed about my lack of motivation as well. I watched the wheel of time on Netflix.
Chronic "stuff" (physical illness, mental illness, situational difficulties) can cause havoc on us, so knowing what helsp and trying more things that might help sounds like an excellent plan going forward. I'm glad you're getting your sew-jo back! I was laid off at the beginning of this month, and just about at the point where i'd decided to take some time without working to gather myself together and a consulting opportunity through the end of the year presented itself, so I'm doing that. I'm not sure it's the best thing for me, except financially, but we'll see. It's contract, so I can always pull away if it all becomes too much.
I HIGHLY recommend the Monk and Robot book series by Becky Chambers. Reading them makes me feel all warm and fuzzy like my brain is all snuggled up in a cozy blankie. I'm so proud of you for finding ways to get those little dopamine hits. Executive disfunction is awful.
I'm so sorry! I hope you feel better. I have struggled off and on with sew-jo too. I had long covid myself and a concussion and it took me a real minute to get back to myself. I appreciate you sharing your struggle.
It's so good to see you again 😊 So many people have been struggling with their health this year, including me. I'm sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. I know it's not long cov!d, but it still sucks waiting to see a specialist. Good luck with your trip and all the planning 🤞 feel better soon.
I lost my sew jo about a year ago. I appreciate this video knowing I'm not alone. I never had covid so I dont think my mood is physiological. I dont know why I cant sew. I began making a trench coat and now that feels totally overwhelming to get back to. But I understand your lack of motivation completely. Hope you feel better soon Noelle. Glad to see you again.
Man! Long covid sucks! Please carry on taking your time, taking it slow and steady! Love, light and spoons to all those suffering with long covid, me-cfs, pots... any energy limiting chronic illness!
Noelle, I was so happy to see your smiling face this morning! You know, it doesn’t matter to me what you post or when…I am here for ALL of it, no matter what! ❤ I have not been making costumes at all. I may make a video about that for my channel. There are very few costume events in Alaska and I am not a Con person. So I have turned to quilts. It’s a great community of folks and the creativity is truly inspiring! I am challenging myself to try more and more difficult techniques! Plus, the greatest joy is making a giving a quilt to someone. It’s pretty darn special. So that’s what is up from me in my sewing room in Alaska! Love you! -Kelley❤
I watch the Petricks too. Be careful or some you’ll be watching his brothers channel and Ryan’s channel and Phil’s channel. Glad you feeling better. Take your time we will all still be hear waiting 😊
I would just like to say that you are not alone is having lost ones Sew Jo. I have been very overwhelmed and not wanting to sew the things on my table or work through my work piles. Here is to us finding our sew jo.
Reading C.J. Archer’s The Glass Library series. I also recommend her The Watchmaker’s Daughter series. As for watching, it’s the time of year for Arsenic and Old Lace!
As someone who has Fibromyalgia I understand the lack of motivation; foggy, blah brain; tiredness; and limited emotional and physical energy. No fun at all! Do take your time to rest as you need to and nurture yourself. We appreciate you too much to have you be naked at your event. 😉 I'm still reading through Patricia Cornwall mysteries and watching Touch of Frost series, though I've just finished watching Stephen Fry and Hugh Laurie in Jeeves and Wooster for some fun. Sounds like you're watching the Pethericks? I'm mostly working on a crochet throw for my hubby and other smaller projects like learning a new pattern for a crochet scarf. It's spring here so my thoughts are turning to the need for soft and sweet dresses and things for the warmer weather.
Watching you work while I am not well is so awesome. I'm convalescing from a nasty cold/virus/?, alternately knitting and just laying on the couch while I watch youtube. Sending you good vibes!
To answer your question, emotionally I am okay, I spent the last few days grieving the missed goal of getting my Glinda Bubble dress done and now I am just really focused on enjoying spooky season costume making and working towards being kinder to myself about missed goals. I'm also happy to have a new Noelle video to watch
I make original quilts, just finished a magic one, with top hats, magic wands etc, because everyone deserves a little magic in their lives. Smiles happened, in my friends too. I liked my underwear one the best.
You are always a bright light. So sorry you are suffering. I see that in my future as there are family medical issues weighing on me. 18 hours in the ER in a chair of torture derailed me. Even though all is well, I worry about medical issues and my formerly productive sewing is floundering. I slept all day on Monday in an effort to get back on track. Time will tell. Sleep well, eat well, know you are loved and appreciated. Love the black petticoat. Can't wait to see the pocket and the dress. Sending healing thoughts.
Glad to hear you and your doctor have a plan! I have anxiety, and I gotta tell you, there is far too much 'white knuckling'. I'm looking for a therapist to see if I can improve that. Book recommends: Tanya Huff, the Blood series is modern day horror, and it has a spin off series called the Smoke series. She also has the Keeper Chronicles which is urban fantasy and very funny. It features a cat. TV recommends - the various historical series with Ruth Goodman, Alex Langsands and Peter Ginn. They live on various historical farms so you get a feel of what life was like in that time. There is also a series about steam trains and a Victorian Pharmacy. Hope you trips are fun and you can get enough rest!
I hope you find a therapist that helps! Or anything really yhat cN help. I've been in the white-knuckling phase, and it's not fun. Giant hugs. You're not alone. You are worthy. ❤
I am taking the year off from teaching high school and am on some great meds, so life is good! I want to sew, but am remodeling my house right now. I too, though, am a bed bear. I’m glad that you’re doing what you feel is best for you. Sending lots of good vibes!
I have watched the Petherick's for years they started on their chateau first, its stunning. I'm looking forward to the double story library which will start next year at the convent . Billy's brother Michael has many talents, art, music, design, he is not vloging so much now but in the past he published a lot of vlogs. Michael is renovating the glass house at the chateau outside his cottage at the moment. Another quiet achiever is Billy and Michaels Dad he is not on the vlog often but if you spot him he is working hard driving a machine. I'm learning to knit socks for my swollen feet, its been a learning curve to work with negative ease, sewing you add ease but socks need to stay on! Noelle i'm sorry you are feeling bad hope your doctor can solve it. hugs
Love the Pethericks, very British lets try hitting it with a hammer style of restoration - I know, they are really skilled at what they do - while being so enthusiastic about the history of the place. If you like interesting stuff podcasts I can recommend Histories of the Unexpected, two adorable academics going off on tangents from the chosen topic. Way more fun that it might sound! All facts, all friendly and lots of knowledge. I'm mostly knitting at the moment so need plenty of good audio to keep me going as I unravel every other row because I always manage to lose count
Hello! Happy to see you sewing and chatting! Chronic procrastinator here, I have an annual studio tour ( im a visual artist) the 14/15 then a week later also heading for StLouis ball...thought it would be fun to hand paint the silk for my robe a l'anglais...it IS fun but geez, I actually still need to make it! Slightly stressed but always optimistic!
Would you believe I watched the convent video directly before this one? Really, hahaha! His brother Michael is a brilliant creative and I love his channel as well (though he is way less active recently). I was a happy little paper crafter and card maker. Then stumbled upon fabric designer Tula Pink whose colors burst joy in my heart and soul, and I leaped from paper to fabric. How far did I jump? I bought a new sewing machine and am getting into quilting again after 40 years!! Modern tools make it so much easier and more precise. I hope your energy returns a bit more each day. I wish I could hang out with you watching videos together. Sending you so much love…. 🤗 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷 (Tula is all about rainbows ☺️)
Ahhh! I’m also way invested in the convent. So glad to find out you (and many of your fellows commenting here) are in the same boat. Happy to see your face. I was having many ups and downs as I was affected by the writers/actors strikes. Totally relate to the “meh”. Feeling hopeful now that progress is being made. I’ll be here for whatever level of posting you wind up at. All success to you.
I'm trying to make Sophie's green dress from the Studio Ghibli version of Howl's Moving Castle in the next few weeks. I do hope these little projects helped you get your sew-jo back a bit. And that the eventual trip proves to be enjoyable as well.
Those pockets and petticoat look great! Doing something small is always so satisfying when you have been struggling to find motivation or energy to create. I suffered a head injury in a car accident 10 years ago. I am noticing that alot of people with long Covid seem to have similar things happening to them. It will be interesting to see what we learn as time goes on about the longterm effects. I struggled with energy and motivation for nearly 2 years until an Occupational therapist suggested a pacing schedule. I had a daily allotment of energy points and I had to assign point values to activities based on how much mental and physical energy they drained. Once I used up my allotment, I was required to have a nap to refresh. I thought "what a bunch of hooey!" but I did it. In the end, it saved me, I think. It gave me permission to say "no, sorry, I am done for today..." instead of feeling pressure from myself and/or others to keep doing... It taught me alot about how my brain functions and what can happen when I don't listen to it. I couldn't read, sew, knit, etc for about 2 years. Knitting actually took about 4 years.... I am happily doing all of those things again. I do still struggle if I don't pay attention to my pacing(usually because I think "I'm doing better, I can manage without keeping track..." Hah!, for a little while, yes...) I just started reading The Fourth Turning is Here by Neil Howe. Normally, I am a regency romance reader but this one caught my attention. It's about the cyclic nature of history and the generations as each travels through life. Very interesting food for thought... Oh, and I have Fantastic Beasts going at the same time... Best wishes for you as you work to find your Sewjo!!!! Take care.
I can relate to such much of this. I got covid in that first round of it, back in March 2020,from a friend whose neighbours had just returned from skiing in Italy... Sadly, after that, I got covid again, despite being really careful around people (but when they're not even trying...). So, I have a lot of those "long covid" symptoms too. It really sucks! You have my sympathy. I love making things but it's so hard to find the energy to actually do it. Everything takes at least four times as long as it used to do, and it just feels as if it's a constant state of uphill and against the wind... I've just started sewing my mother an autumn coat, but I think it'll turn out to be a spring coat. ;) But she found these lovely curtains at a thrift store that now wants to wear, and I think it'll be an awesome, whimsical and fun coat. So that's what I'm working on. After that, or as a little side thing when I just can't do a big project, I just might make one of those pockets, because that looks fab.
Have just invested in 5 metres of wool tweed to make a coat with, plus cerise cotton to flatline it, cerise silk to line the sleeves with, and some striped lining for it. The wool is a herringbone pattern in raspberry and damson :)
Great to have you back! If you are enjoying the daily vlog style, you might also enjoy Escape to Rural France with an Englsih guy who is restoring a chateau. I've been developing the direction of the medieval reenactment group I started -up last year. Had a promotion at work and loving my job. Moved for the job... Life is busy which makes my ADHD squirrel happy. Hope it eases for you soon. The Brits were buying property because when they were part of the EU they didn't need visas (they do now) and while the price of property in the UK is thru the roof, you can buy a chateau for the same price as a terrace house in the UK. So a lot of people with serious skills moved to France. They tend to hire English trade out of sheer lingusitic challenges.
I honestly just thought you had better things to do! Long ago in a state far far away...a friend had a baby. She was the prefect little stash buster/"pallet cleanser"/quick project victim. Her mother and I shared a slightly warped sense of humor. Which just means she was down to put everything I ever made for that little munchkin on her at least once. There was a bright orange prison romper with a fake fur mullet wig (her mom is from Canada and introduced us to Trailer Park Boys), a denim "suit" with a flannel button down, and a Grateful Dead romper complete with fringe. There were actual wearable clothes too, but those are less fun to talk about. I do not want to think about how old she is now. But she is well past putting up with her mom's and my shenanigans! The simple little projects were a nice little break from the bigger projects. I like the chattiness of your videos. You keep doing you chica! I’ll be over here not remarking the corset pattern piece I totally screwed up while one cat lies on whatever I am working on, another head butts me and drools on my pattern, and the final and most princessy lightly claws me in the butt asking for pets (not all at once, it’s more of a parade).
Brain weasels are the worst. Glad to see you back again. Half way through my first semester of nursing school. It’s been 15 years since I was last in college so it’s been an adjustment.
I'm actually making a set of petticoats/skirts for my cousin at the moment! Two plaids, three stripes, with three lighter-weight flannelly brushed cottons and two heavier (and crazy soft!) flannels. (All from Thrifty Notion, if anyone's curious.) Even though I'm repeating a lot of the same steps, it's been really helpful as an exercise in building a semblance of routine (I've never liked having a schedule/routine, so it's a bit of a challenge). It's actually kind of nice being able to put one skirt down if I need a break and either work on a different step on another skirt, or just do something else for a while. It's been good practice toward sewing quickly. To quote a wise robot, "I am not fast." Have I spent multiple afternoons meticulously pleating every panel? Yes. Do I know that's probably overkill in this instance? Yes. Am I going to do it anyway? Absoflippinlutely. I willhappily accept imperfections, but sewinggods help me if my plaids and stripes aren't reasonably aligned.
I suffer from depression too, I’m going thru a hard time myself. I keep busy doing cross stitch, it’s very relaxing for me. Keeps my mind off things. What I watch is you and other designers like you. I enjoy watching you and everyone else. Take care.
Noel, you are a darling and perk me up. Even now, your giggle is contagious. I am so proud of you for having good personal boundaries. I will be praying for you. I know not everyone is religious, but I do think that keeping our fellow people in our hearts and thoughts is healing. I hope that's not weird.
Ah the Pethericks. When you said crack on, it suddenly dawned on me 😂 yup, following Billy and his family too. If you want truly relaxing videos, try to find Martijn Doolaard.He is a Dutch guy who bought a property in Italy in the mountains of the Dolomites and is renovating the place (of course😂) Puts out videos once a week of his progress. Really beautiful photography of the area and such. and I hope you will be making progress on your health.
If you like Martijin's stuff, have you looked into ateliermavi? They are a French/Italian couple that are rebuilding a stone house in Italy, not far from the sea on the French/Italian border. Be sure and turn on the CC because the narrative is in either French or Italian, depending on who is doing it.
So great to see you ❤️ Sorry to hear you're lost in the fog ! I too was stumbling around in for a while ...do what you need to do ..find what works for you hun...this too shall pass . Glad to see you're being kind to yourself. Slow and steady 👍 Xx
Hi Noelle! Thank you for sharing. You are not alone in Funk town. I've been struggling with health issues too recently. I also have a gown to get done in the next few weeks! No sew-jo ..... however seeing what you are accomplishing as side projects is a great idea. I will follow in your footsteps. Pettycoat here I come! Book recommendations: Dungeon Crawler Carl. In audiobook form it's simply the best! The narrator is incredible! 6 book series so far but it's definitely not finished. Wishing you all the best and some virtual hugs ❤
Noelle! I have not sewn a single thing in years, but i love watching your channel for your genuine, laid back style, honesty and interest in very similar things to me!! I have followed The Pethericks since before 2020, and the convent renovation is absolutely enthralling to me! I have also followed Anna and Phillip (with a side serve of Benoit) since i discovered them a year or so ago, and i love The Chateau Diaries, as well! In addition, I watch Dan on Escape to Rural France, and Sean (who worked on the convent for months) renovating his derelict cottage on his property, Phil (who often pops up on The Pethericks) with his chateau and, of course, lots of cos tubers!! I also have struggled with depression and anxiety for years, and i thank you for talking about the weird lethargy of it all. I am passionate about so many things, but the past few years i have spent more time in bed, than not. (Which is probably why i follow so many RUclips folk!! Thank you for this vlog! It resonated with me and i always love seeing you pop up on my TV! ❤
Glad to see you back. Definitely go with the flow when it comes to your sewing. I’m sitting her with one of the litter of kittens I found in my garage sound asleep in my lap. Couldn’t confirm that mom was still around, so I’ve been hand rearing them since about 3 weeks old. They’re now 7 weeks old, so no hand feeding thank goodness, but I’d forgotten how much time is consumed just watching kittens or puppies sleep and play.
I need to entirely rearrange my space since I figured out that’s why I haven’t wanted to do anything so, yay for progress! Sending you all the best wishes ❤
Wishing you well🤗 Just finished pants, soon to finish a shirt(self drafted and not for me). Recently came across Ruby Dixon’s Ice Planet Barbarian series. Loving it so far.
I had Covid two months after having my baby last December. So I don’t know if how I’m feeling is normal postpartum or if it’s long Covid. I feel so different than I used to. So I can totally relate.
Nice to see you again Noel. Sending hugs! I reccomend anything by Taylor Jenkins Reid. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, Carrie Soto is Back, and Malibu Rising are are super fun and different.
Thank you for being honest about your struggles. It's very easy to retreat and become invisible (I do it all the time) but harder to put yourself out there. I love the idea of doing some quick projects to get yourself back in the swing of sewing again, and I'd like to see more frequent, shorter, videos if that works for you.
It is so-o important to be open about our mental health. And I sure hear you on the 'executive function' disfunction situation! My method is quite similar to what you are doing - make the list, pick the simplest/easiest/least objectionable task, cross it off, recover, &then try it again...yeah. You can do it! ❤🥴❤
That’s so funny you watch some of the same RUclipsrs as I do. I started a few years ago and in fact I hardly watch tv anymore. Only period drama series. Which is probably what got me interested in sewing 18 century clothing.
‼️I was so excited to see your post! Firstly, because it’s wonderful to see you again. Secondly, because I just made a black renaissance petticoat for myself last week for the NorCal Renfaire, cartridge pleats and all. Thirdly, I have your company as I sew my first corset. I finally narrowed down my first Victorian and that’s what I’m currently working on. I feel that I can relate to the no sewjo. I see this for myself when finishing a big project. Like, I just need some downtime from the big push. For me, it’s like a withdrawal. I hope you find your sewjo when you’re ready. Alas, lest we forget, all hallows eve is upon us soon. 🎃
At 11:37 when you were like... "So I don't know if you want to look at me or not" I was totally freaking out squealing over your math equation GaGa shirt. I needs it.
I'm sorry to hear you've been down lately. I hope your kitties are giving you a lot of love on days you don't want to get out of bed. I am working on so many projects that I don't want to do any of them. One of the things I'm doing is all of the Burnley and Trowbridge sew alongs in order. So far, I've made two pockets, an under petticoat, and an over petticoat. Next on the list is an apron. It turns out I really like making petticoats. I'll probably wind up with 20 eventually.
Glad to see you! I've spent the summer with an ear infection that wiped me out and may not be fully resolved yet. Also working on my dissertation and a variety of logistical roadblocks, but making progress. I made a basic Elizabethan shift as a nightgown for my daughter, and she loves it. And today I finished pulling the noxious weeds that were taking over my yard. I've currently been reading hard depressing books, but Legends and Lattes is a super sweet fantasy about an ogre who opens a coffee shop. And the other book I always recommend is Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik, sort of Russian fairy tales retold. (I hope that's not too much fantasy--those are just the two that come to mind). Hope your mojo keeps coming back!
awesome - more things to binge watch on youtube!! I have a horse channel that I watch and I don't love the person but I totally adore the way she trains her horses and what she does with them. It sucks to not be feeling like yourself, especially without *reason*. I've been having to work extra hard lately and that kind of bites but since I spent a few weeks kind of doing nothing, I can't complain. My boss is away for a month overseas and that puts an extra strain on me, so I've been being VERY gentle with myself. Also my boy cat caught a mouse this morning and that makes me both happy and anxious...
Totally understand lack of motivation. I have chronic fatigue from various sources. Have for years. I have only one piece of advice - give yourself grace. You can only do what you can do. Don't beat yourself up for having to rest. Okay, two pieces - Don't over-schedule. Some days I feel lucky to accomplish one thing. Especially if it involves going out somewhere. I am currently re-reading the Kate Daniels series by Ilona Andrews. It is written by a husband and wife team. I really enjoy their writing. They have several series to choose from. Hope you are feeling better soon.
Hope you get to feel better soon.😊 Love the pettycoats and pockets. I started on the era of choice. Got the under garment patterns and then no "sew-jo". I had gotten co-vid after my shots, and it took a while to get over the effects of it. This came after purchasing my patterns. You have given some great advice. I will start on something small. Thank you for this video. Hugs, feel better soon. Love pockets.😊❤❤
Afternoon, I finally got a space in my home for sewing/ crafting so that has helped. My Furbabies are my rock when I'm having a bad brain day. I'm about to get married in Sept 2024 and love to make my own wedding dress but due to personal reason I'm not able to, so I'm going to make my petticoat etc instead. I keep a journal, I find writing things down helps and keeping to a routine. You are loved. True friends etc will be understanding. big hugs to you
Everything you’re describing - not having motivation to do anything, but also not feeling sad or necessarily having other signs of depression - yeah that’s me. Most of the time. You’re not alone! Also love the doing what my brain wants not what I want to want.
I can't believe the crossover of The Pethericks haha That was such a funny moment to realise who you meant!
Same!! Really interesting content. Almost like YT tags history for those of us who follow this channel and others.
Same!! I never miss Billy's updates! ❤
Me too..
Try Escape to Rural France. The chateau was destroyed in a fire in the 30s leaving only most of the walls standing. warning - it is another Brit.
Setting small achievable goals is a great way to ease back into getting (whatever ) jo functioning again. Good luck.
Noel, I hope you are starting to feel better physically and mentally since you filmed this video. Our brains are wonderful machines but wow can they mess us up as well.
Sending you love, joy and positive energy.
I caught covid twice, once with long covid symptoms that lasted in some form for roughly 9 months. I completely understand and empathize with the lack of motivation and extreme fatigue. Both were super not cool and (for me at least) the worst part of the experience. There's a kind of lingering brain fog/malise that just makes everything unsatisfactory and finding motivation for anything is a serious act of willpower.
I hope these smaller projects help and I'm rooting for you.
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I haven't drawn anything in almost a year.
If you like the Pethericks, then you might want to watch The 2nd Empire Strikes Back, if you are looking for more restoration channel distractions.😉
Your hair has gotten so long and so pretty. Thank you for your words on anxiety. It sucks. I try to refocus my anxiety into productive activities like sewing or gardening. I have learned these as coping techniques. I'm not always successful. Normalizing talking about mental health is great. Thank you.
September got fired because it was an awful month. 102 degree fever flu, my 10 year old rescue dog crossed the Rainbow Bridge during a hurricane when my home was without power and I had only a lantern to see by. I have no sew jo either and have six major projects to do for Christmas gifts. I am re-reading series that I love because I don't have the umph to read anything new. I am also re-watching The Great British Sewing Bee from the beginning to try to get a bit of jo back too. Glad you're checking in because it helps to remind us that "celebs" have real lives too.
I hope you're feeling better!
If you like The Pethericks and the Convent reno, Escape to Rural France is renovating an entire late 19th century chateau from burnt out rumble! It's weirdly fascinating.
I’ve also recently lost my sew-jo which has really been a bummer. Engineering school is kicking my butt (I hate 8 ams) but my school offers counseling so that’s cool. I’m working on a rayon skirt (got fabric for $3/yd at hobby lobby. Slay) and learning to sew snaps for the first time by hand
Edit: wanted to add that I’m glad you’re posting videos again! Yours are my favorite to watch while I’m working on projects
You like the Prethricks too?❤
I’m glad that you posted. Was missing you !!
I am busy doing a community theatre show and also working on a children’s
ballet . Very stressed about my lack of motivation as well.
I watched the wheel of time on Netflix.
Anna and Philip! I LOVE them. He is very funny and I love Benoit.
Chronic "stuff" (physical illness, mental illness, situational difficulties) can cause havoc on us, so knowing what helsp and trying more things that might help sounds like an excellent plan going forward. I'm glad you're getting your sew-jo back!
I was laid off at the beginning of this month, and just about at the point where i'd decided to take some time without working to gather myself together and a consulting opportunity through the end of the year presented itself, so I'm doing that. I'm not sure it's the best thing for me, except financially, but we'll see. It's contract, so I can always pull away if it all becomes too much.
Pink is worth it! I saw her in London, and it was amazing!!!
I HIGHLY recommend the Monk and Robot book series by Becky Chambers. Reading them makes me feel all warm and fuzzy like my brain is all snuggled up in a cozy blankie. I'm so proud of you for finding ways to get those little dopamine hits. Executive disfunction is awful.
I'm so sorry! I hope you feel better. I have struggled off and on with sew-jo too. I had long covid myself and a concussion and it took me a real minute to get back to myself. I appreciate you sharing your struggle.
So glad to see you again. I always enjoy my time with you. Hope you feel more like your wonderful self soon.
Thank you so much!
It's so good to see you again 😊
So many people have been struggling with their health this year, including me. I'm sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. I know it's not long cov!d, but it still sucks waiting to see a specialist.
Good luck with your trip and all the planning 🤞 feel better soon.
Enjoy Vegas and PINK!!! Awesome
I lost my sew jo about a year ago. I appreciate this video knowing I'm not alone. I never had covid so I dont think my mood is physiological. I dont know why I cant sew. I began making a trench coat and now that feels totally overwhelming to get back to. But I understand your lack of motivation completely. Hope you feel better soon Noelle. Glad to see you again.
Man! Long covid sucks! Please carry on taking your time, taking it slow and steady!
Love, light and spoons to all those suffering with long covid, me-cfs, pots... any energy limiting chronic illness!
I love Billy and his family! And I love chateau dairies!!!!!!!
Noelle, I was so happy to see your smiling face this morning! You know, it doesn’t matter to me what you post or when…I am here for ALL of it, no matter what! ❤ I have not been making costumes at all. I may make a video about that for my channel. There are very few costume events in Alaska and I am not a Con person. So I have turned to quilts. It’s a great community of folks and the creativity is truly inspiring! I am challenging myself to try more and more difficult techniques! Plus, the greatest joy is making a giving a quilt to someone. It’s pretty darn special. So that’s what is up from me in my sewing room in Alaska! Love you! -Kelley❤
I watch the Petricks too. Be careful or some you’ll be watching his brothers channel and Ryan’s channel and Phil’s channel. Glad you feeling better. Take your time we will all still be hear waiting 😊
I would just like to say that you are not alone is having lost ones Sew Jo. I have been very overwhelmed and not wanting to sew the things on my table or work through my work piles. Here is to us finding our sew jo.
Reading C.J. Archer’s The Glass Library series. I also recommend her The Watchmaker’s Daughter series. As for watching, it’s the time of year for Arsenic and Old Lace!
As someone who has Fibromyalgia I understand the lack of motivation; foggy, blah brain; tiredness; and limited emotional and physical energy. No fun at all! Do take your time to rest as you need to and nurture yourself. We appreciate you too much to have you be naked at your event. 😉
I'm still reading through Patricia Cornwall mysteries and watching Touch of Frost series, though I've just finished watching Stephen Fry and Hugh Laurie in Jeeves and Wooster for some fun. Sounds like you're watching the Pethericks?
I'm mostly working on a crochet throw for my hubby and other smaller projects like learning a new pattern for a crochet scarf. It's spring here so my thoughts are turning to the need for soft and sweet dresses and things for the warmer weather.
Brains are dumb, can relate. Hope what you're doing gets you feeling better.
Watching you work while I am not well is so awesome. I'm convalescing from a nasty cold/virus/?, alternately knitting and just laying on the couch while I watch youtube. Sending you good vibes!
To answer your question, emotionally I am okay, I spent the last few days grieving the missed goal of getting my Glinda Bubble dress done and now I am just really focused on enjoying spooky season costume making and working towards being kinder to myself about missed goals. I'm also happy to have a new Noelle video to watch
Understand the lost of sewjo and other 'jo' stuff. Lovely to see your beautiful face again! hugs and positive thoughts to you!
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That purple fabric. Oh my! Fabric lust!
I totally feel the loss of sew-jo. Hugs! You got this!
I make original quilts, just finished a magic one, with top hats, magic wands etc, because everyone deserves a little magic in their lives. Smiles happened, in my friends too. I liked my underwear one the best.
😂Crack on, I’ve been binging Doc Martin, and anything on Acorn tv, I have found the little voice in my head now has a British accent now, Cheerio mate
You are always a bright light. So sorry you are suffering. I see that in my future as there are family medical issues weighing on me. 18 hours in the ER in a chair of torture derailed me. Even though all is well, I worry about medical issues and my formerly productive sewing is floundering. I slept all day on Monday in an effort to get back on track. Time will tell. Sleep well, eat well, know you are loved and appreciated. Love the black petticoat. Can't wait to see the pocket and the dress. Sending healing thoughts.
Glad to hear you and your doctor have a plan! I have anxiety, and I gotta tell you, there is far too much 'white knuckling'. I'm looking for a therapist to see if I can improve that. Book recommends: Tanya Huff, the Blood series is modern day horror, and it has a spin off series called the Smoke series. She also has the Keeper Chronicles which is urban fantasy and very funny. It features a cat. TV recommends - the various historical series with Ruth Goodman, Alex Langsands and Peter Ginn. They live on various historical farms so you get a feel of what life was like in that time. There is also a series about steam trains and a Victorian Pharmacy. Hope you trips are fun and you can get enough rest!
I hope you find a therapist that helps! Or anything really yhat cN help. I've been in the white-knuckling phase, and it's not fun. Giant hugs. You're not alone. You are worthy. ❤
Yes to Ruth Goodman, Alex Langsands and Peter Ginn. They also have separate shows as well. Thank you for taking care of yourselves
I am taking the year off from teaching high school and am on some great meds, so life is good! I want to sew, but am remodeling my house right now. I too, though, am a bed bear. I’m glad that you’re doing what you feel is best for you. Sending lots of good vibes!
I have watched the Petherick's for years they started on their chateau first, its stunning. I'm looking forward to the double story library which will start next year at the convent . Billy's brother Michael has many talents, art, music, design, he is not vloging so much now but in the past he published a lot of vlogs. Michael is renovating the glass house at the chateau outside his cottage at the moment. Another quiet achiever is Billy and Michaels Dad he is not on the vlog often but if you spot him he is working hard driving a machine.
I'm learning to knit socks for my swollen feet, its been a learning curve to work with negative ease, sewing you add ease but socks need to stay on! Noelle i'm sorry you are feeling bad hope your doctor can solve it. hugs
See you at the ball in St.Louis!
I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/Myalgic Encephalitis. The symptoms are very much like you describe. I empathize and hope you feel better soon..
Yay, nice to see you back! I'm glad you got to finish a couple of projects
Love the Pethericks, very British lets try hitting it with a hammer style of restoration - I know, they are really skilled at what they do - while being so enthusiastic about the history of the place. If you like interesting stuff podcasts I can recommend Histories of the Unexpected, two adorable academics going off on tangents from the chosen topic. Way more fun that it might sound! All facts, all friendly and lots of knowledge. I'm mostly knitting at the moment so need plenty of good audio to keep me going as I unravel every other row because I always manage to lose count
Good to see you again.
Love the Pethericks!
SYSK is awesome. I have learned so much from them, about things I never even thought about!
I'm so glad you are getting good care and finding ways back into your joy.
I absolutely love black silk! I just wish I had a really good excuse for making a black silk gown!
Lovely to see you.
Ooh. I love that hem sewing music.
Hello! Happy to see you sewing and chatting! Chronic procrastinator here, I have an annual studio tour ( im a visual artist) the 14/15 then a week later also heading for StLouis ball...thought it would be fun to hand paint the silk for my robe a l'anglais...it IS fun but geez, I actually still need to make it! Slightly stressed but always optimistic!
In the words of Dory "Just keep sewing, Just keep sewing" 🪡🧵
Would you believe I watched the convent video directly before this one? Really, hahaha! His brother Michael is a brilliant creative and I love his channel as well (though he is way less active recently). I was a happy little paper crafter and card maker. Then stumbled upon fabric designer Tula Pink whose colors burst joy in my heart and soul, and I leaped from paper to fabric. How far did I jump? I bought a new sewing machine and am getting into quilting again after 40 years!! Modern tools make it so much easier and more precise. I hope your energy returns a bit more each day. I wish I could hang out with you watching videos together. Sending you so much love…. 🤗 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷 (Tula is all about rainbows ☺️)
It's nice to see you, Noelle! Always happy to have sewing chats, they have been a big comfort to me over the years.
Ahhh! I’m also way invested in the convent. So glad to find out you (and many of your fellows commenting here) are in the same boat. Happy to see your face. I was having many ups and downs as I was affected by the writers/actors strikes. Totally relate to the “meh”. Feeling hopeful now that progress is being made. I’ll be here for whatever level of posting you wind up at. All success to you.
I'm trying to make Sophie's green dress from the Studio Ghibli version of Howl's Moving Castle in the next few weeks.
I do hope these little projects helped you get your sew-jo back a bit. And that the eventual trip proves to be enjoyable as well.
Those pockets and petticoat look great! Doing something small is always so satisfying when you have been struggling to find motivation or energy to create. I suffered a head injury in a car accident 10 years ago. I am noticing that alot of people with long Covid seem to have similar things happening to them. It will be interesting to see what we learn as time goes on about the longterm effects. I struggled with energy and motivation for nearly 2 years until an Occupational therapist suggested a pacing schedule. I had a daily allotment of energy points and I had to assign point values to activities based on how much mental and physical energy they drained. Once I used up my allotment, I was required to have a nap to refresh. I thought "what a bunch of hooey!" but I did it. In the end, it saved me, I think. It gave me permission to say "no, sorry, I am done for today..." instead of feeling pressure from myself and/or others to keep doing... It taught me alot about how my brain functions and what can happen when I don't listen to it. I couldn't read, sew, knit, etc for about 2 years. Knitting actually took about 4 years.... I am happily doing all of those things again. I do still struggle if I don't pay attention to my pacing(usually because I think "I'm doing better, I can manage without keeping track..." Hah!, for a little while, yes...) I just started reading The Fourth Turning is Here by Neil Howe. Normally, I am a regency romance reader but this one caught my attention. It's about the cyclic nature of history and the generations as each travels through life. Very interesting food for thought... Oh, and I have Fantastic Beasts going at the same time... Best wishes for you as you work to find your Sewjo!!!! Take care.
I can relate to such much of this. I got covid in that first round of it, back in March 2020,from a friend whose neighbours had just returned from skiing in Italy... Sadly, after that, I got covid again, despite being really careful around people (but when they're not even trying...). So, I have a lot of those "long covid" symptoms too. It really sucks! You have my sympathy. I love making things but it's so hard to find the energy to actually do it. Everything takes at least four times as long as it used to do, and it just feels as if it's a constant state of uphill and against the wind... I've just started sewing my mother an autumn coat, but I think it'll turn out to be a spring coat. ;) But she found these lovely curtains at a thrift store that now wants to wear, and I think it'll be an awesome, whimsical and fun coat. So that's what I'm working on. After that, or as a little side thing when I just can't do a big project, I just might make one of those pockets, because that looks fab.
Feel better soon! Thanks for motivating me as well in the process.
Have just invested in 5 metres of wool tweed to make a coat with, plus cerise cotton to flatline it, cerise silk to line the sleeves with, and some striped lining for it. The wool is a herringbone pattern in raspberry and damson :)
Great to have you back! If you are enjoying the daily vlog style, you might also enjoy Escape to Rural France with an Englsih guy who is restoring a chateau. I've been developing the direction of the medieval reenactment group I started -up last year. Had a promotion at work and loving my job. Moved for the job... Life is busy which makes my ADHD squirrel happy. Hope it eases for you soon. The Brits were buying property because when they were part of the EU they didn't need visas (they do now) and while the price of property in the UK is thru the roof, you can buy a chateau for the same price as a terrace house in the UK. So a lot of people with serious skills moved to France. They tend to hire English trade out of sheer lingusitic challenges.
I honestly just thought you had better things to do!
Long ago in a state far far away...a friend had a baby. She was the prefect little stash buster/"pallet cleanser"/quick project victim. Her mother and I shared a slightly warped sense of humor. Which just means she was down to put everything I ever made for that little munchkin on her at least once. There was a bright orange prison romper with a fake fur mullet wig (her mom is from Canada and introduced us to Trailer Park Boys), a denim "suit" with a flannel button down, and a Grateful Dead romper complete with fringe. There were actual wearable clothes too, but those are less fun to talk about. I do not want to think about how old she is now. But she is well past putting up with her mom's and my shenanigans! The simple little projects were a nice little break from the bigger projects.
I like the chattiness of your videos. You keep doing you chica! I’ll be over here not remarking the corset pattern piece I totally screwed up while one cat lies on whatever I am working on, another head butts me and drools on my pattern, and the final and most princessy lightly claws me in the butt asking for pets (not all at once, it’s more of a parade).
Have missed you🎉
Brain weasels are the worst. Glad to see you back again. Half way through my first semester of nursing school. It’s been 15 years since I was last in college so it’s been an adjustment.
Have you read the House of Night series? By PC Cast and Kristen Cast
I'm actually making a set of petticoats/skirts for my cousin at the moment! Two plaids, three stripes, with three lighter-weight flannelly brushed cottons and two heavier (and crazy soft!) flannels. (All from Thrifty Notion, if anyone's curious.) Even though I'm repeating a lot of the same steps, it's been really helpful as an exercise in building a semblance of routine (I've never liked having a schedule/routine, so it's a bit of a challenge). It's actually kind of nice being able to put one skirt down if I need a break and either work on a different step on another skirt, or just do something else for a while. It's been good practice toward sewing quickly. To quote a wise robot, "I am not fast."
Have I spent multiple afternoons meticulously pleating every panel? Yes. Do I know that's probably overkill in this instance? Yes. Am I going to do it anyway? Absoflippinlutely. I willhappily accept imperfections, but sewinggods help me if my plaids and stripes aren't reasonably aligned.
I suffer from depression too, I’m going thru a hard time myself. I keep busy doing cross stitch, it’s very relaxing for me. Keeps my mind off things. What I watch is you and other designers like you. I enjoy watching you and everyone else. Take care.
I hope you are feeling better at this point
Noel, you are a darling and perk me up. Even now, your giggle is contagious. I am so proud of you for having good personal boundaries. I will be praying for you. I know not everyone is religious, but I do think that keeping our fellow people in our hearts and thoughts is healing. I hope that's not weird.
Ah the Pethericks. When you said crack on, it suddenly dawned on me 😂 yup, following Billy and his family too. If you want truly relaxing videos, try to find Martijn Doolaard.He is a Dutch guy who bought a property in Italy in the mountains of the Dolomites and is renovating the place (of course😂) Puts out videos once a week of his progress. Really beautiful photography of the area and such. and I hope you will be making progress on your health.
If you like Martijin's stuff, have you looked into ateliermavi? They are a French/Italian couple that are rebuilding a stone house in Italy, not far from the sea on the French/Italian border. Be sure and turn on the CC because the narrative is in either French or Italian, depending on who is doing it.
I also watch him….it seems like I found my people! All I need is a fellow Hoof GP fan and all mine are covered
Ive been watching the convent show too! since the beginning!
So great to see you ❤️
Sorry to hear you're lost in the fog !
I too was stumbling around in for a while ...do what you need to do ..find what works for you hun...this too shall pass .
Glad to see you're being kind to yourself.
Slow and steady 👍
Xx
I love the expression "lost in the fog" ❤
100% ❤
Hi Noelle! Thank you for sharing. You are not alone in Funk town. I've been struggling with health issues too recently.
I also have a gown to get done in the next few weeks! No sew-jo ..... however seeing what you are accomplishing as side projects is a great idea. I will follow in your footsteps. Pettycoat here I come!
Book recommendations: Dungeon Crawler Carl. In audiobook form it's simply the best! The narrator is incredible! 6 book series so far but it's definitely not finished.
Wishing you all the best and some virtual hugs ❤
I'm going to try that audio book. Thanks ❤
I'm so sorry that you are still dealing with the effects of covid.
Sending good vibes!
So glad you're back! But sad to hear that you've lost all your -jo. Glad you have a plan to try and regroup for yourself.
Noelle! I have not sewn a single thing in years, but i love watching your channel for your genuine, laid back style, honesty and interest in very similar things to me!! I have followed The Pethericks since before 2020, and the convent renovation is absolutely enthralling to me! I have also followed Anna and Phillip (with a side serve of Benoit) since i discovered them a year or so ago, and i love The Chateau Diaries, as well! In addition, I watch Dan on Escape to Rural France, and Sean (who worked on the convent for months) renovating his derelict cottage on his property, Phil (who often pops up on The Pethericks) with his chateau and, of course, lots of cos tubers!!
I also have struggled with depression and anxiety for years, and i thank you for talking about the weird lethargy of it all. I am passionate about so many things, but the past few years i have spent more time in bed, than not. (Which is probably why i follow so many RUclips folk!!
Thank you for this vlog! It resonated with me and i always love seeing you pop up on my TV! ❤
I watch all of those too, such fun to hear of other fans. :)
I watched the same couple and their chateau renovation.
Glad to see you back. Definitely go with the flow when it comes to your sewing. I’m sitting her with one of the litter of kittens I found in my garage sound asleep in my lap. Couldn’t confirm that mom was still around, so I’ve been hand rearing them since about 3 weeks old. They’re now 7 weeks old, so no hand feeding thank goodness, but I’d forgotten how much time is consumed just watching kittens or puppies sleep and play.
I need to entirely rearrange my space since I figured out that’s why I haven’t wanted to do anything so, yay for progress! Sending you all the best wishes ❤
Wishing you well🤗 Just finished pants, soon to finish a shirt(self drafted and not for me). Recently came across Ruby Dixon’s Ice Planet Barbarian series. Loving it so far.
Thank you ❤
I had Covid two months after having my baby last December. So I don’t know if how I’m feeling is normal postpartum or if it’s long Covid. I feel so different than I used to. So I can totally relate.
Nice to see you again Noel. Sending hugs! I reccomend anything by Taylor Jenkins Reid. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, Carrie Soto is Back, and Malibu Rising are are super fun and different.
Welcome to Missouri! I hope you enjoy St. Louis!
Thank you for being honest about your struggles. It's very easy to retreat and become invisible (I do it all the time) but harder to put yourself out there. I love the idea of doing some quick projects to get yourself back in the swing of sewing again, and I'd like to see more frequent, shorter, videos if that works for you.
I've been watching the covent reno too!
It is so-o important to be open about our mental health. And I sure hear you on the 'executive function' disfunction situation! My method is quite similar to what you are doing - make the list, pick the simplest/easiest/least objectionable task, cross it off, recover, &then try it again...yeah. You can do it! ❤🥴❤
That’s so funny you watch some of the same RUclipsrs as I do. I started a few years ago and in fact I hardly watch tv anymore. Only period drama series. Which is probably what got me interested in sewing 18 century clothing.
Welcome back. I go through similar periods occasionally.
I think we have the same bodies, the lethargy is in attack mode. I’ve missed you ❤️🔥
‼️I was so excited to see your post! Firstly, because it’s wonderful to see you again. Secondly, because I just made a black renaissance petticoat for myself last week for the NorCal Renfaire, cartridge pleats and all. Thirdly, I have your company as I sew my first corset. I finally narrowed down my first Victorian and that’s what I’m currently working on. I feel that I can relate to the no sewjo. I see this for myself when finishing a big project. Like, I just need some downtime from the big push. For me, it’s like a withdrawal. I hope you find your sewjo when you’re ready. Alas, lest we forget, all hallows eve is upon us soon. 🎃
At 11:37 when you were like... "So I don't know if you want to look at me or not" I was totally freaking out squealing over your math equation GaGa shirt. I needs it.
I'm sorry to hear you've been down lately. I hope your kitties are giving you a lot of love on days you don't want to get out of bed.
I am working on so many projects that I don't want to do any of them. One of the things I'm doing is all of the Burnley and Trowbridge sew alongs in order. So far, I've made two pockets, an under petticoat, and an over petticoat. Next on the list is an apron. It turns out I really like making petticoats. I'll probably wind up with 20 eventually.
Glad to see you! I've spent the summer with an ear infection that wiped me out and may not be fully resolved yet. Also working on my dissertation and a variety of logistical roadblocks, but making progress. I made a basic Elizabethan shift as a nightgown for my daughter, and she loves it. And today I finished pulling the noxious weeds that were taking over my yard. I've currently been reading hard depressing books, but Legends and Lattes is a super sweet fantasy about an ogre who opens a coffee shop. And the other book I always recommend is Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik, sort of Russian fairy tales retold. (I hope that's not too much fantasy--those are just the two that come to mind). Hope your mojo keeps coming back!
Missing your smiling face. Completely understand the mental block. Hope you are starting to feel better. Good to know you have support.
awesome - more things to binge watch on youtube!! I have a horse channel that I watch and I don't love the person but I totally adore the way she trains her horses and what she does with them. It sucks to not be feeling like yourself, especially without *reason*. I've been having to work extra hard lately and that kind of bites but since I spent a few weeks kind of doing nothing, I can't complain. My boss is away for a month overseas and that puts an extra strain on me, so I've been being VERY gentle with myself. Also my boy cat caught a mouse this morning and that makes me both happy and anxious...
Take care sweetie! I need to find a good book!
Totally understand lack of motivation. I have chronic fatigue from various sources. Have for years. I have only one piece of advice - give yourself grace. You can only do what you can do. Don't beat yourself up for having to rest.
Okay, two pieces - Don't over-schedule. Some days I feel lucky to accomplish one thing. Especially if it involves going out somewhere.
I am currently re-reading the Kate Daniels series by Ilona Andrews. It is written by a husband and wife team. I really enjoy their writing. They have several series to choose from.
Hope you are feeling better soon.
Hope you get to feel better soon.😊 Love the pettycoats and pockets. I started on the era of choice. Got the under garment patterns and then no "sew-jo". I had gotten co-vid after my shots, and it took a while to get over the effects of it. This came after purchasing my patterns. You have given some great advice. I will start on something small. Thank you for this video. Hugs, feel better soon. Love pockets.😊❤❤
Afternoon, I finally got a space in my home for sewing/ crafting so that has helped. My Furbabies are my rock when I'm having a bad brain day. I'm about to get married in Sept 2024 and love to make my own wedding dress but due to personal reason I'm not able to, so I'm going to make my petticoat etc instead. I keep a journal, I find writing things down helps and keeping to a routine. You are loved. True friends etc will be understanding. big hugs to you
oh, making your petticoats is such a wonderful compromise!