Also, at the end of the video, if a child shows their parents this video, they will get angry, think that their kids thinks they know more than them, take away internet, or make issues worse
If I showed my mom this she'd be like "You wanna blame ME for your insecurities? All I ever did was take care of you and keep you safe." Raising a kid to have good values doesn't mean you're not making any mistakes
My mom constantly nags at me for being introverted. I hate it. She’s made me hate people. She’s made me want to stay as far away from people as possible.
Sprite me to :( I was to scared to even get on a bike or go check the mail And I dislike how rude my parents can be but they have there good days. I feel guilty even talking about them :( but I’m glad I have parents unlike some people
Hate it when a teacher says 'stop laughing or stop giggling' Made me say the other day to a teacher 'sorry I can't enjoy my childhood cause you had a lousy one'
As a teacher - I won't say that there aren't any negative teachers, but not wanting the kids to giggle is less about hating enjoyment and more about needing them to listen and work. There's a time for play and giggle and a time for work. The teacher usually has a plan to stick to and kids "goofing around" in class means you won't get through with it. It's going to be the teacher who'll be in trouble for not meeting the goals. (May depend on where you live, but I think that's the case on most places.) If you're old enough for school, you're old enough to sit still and work for an hour before you play and giggle again.
Ahad Ahmad My mom say "So you don't want loving mother anymore?" Reason:Hugging me until I can't breathe Or die in a game cause of other hand getting restricted
"don't cry, I'll give you something to cry about!" "See my friend's daughter already has a job and a scholorship" "Don't talk while I'm talking!" "You're eating too much!" "nobody wants scars on their skin" what about the scars that you left on my heart? my psyche?
Krystal Endermalie I agree my parents are the same way. That is why I usually just suppress my feelings around them and I depressed, stressed, and paranoid.
Salty Diarrhea Yeah.....Sometimes I wish we can all live freely and just study what we want to learn....me for example,singing is my passion but instead I'm stuck at school studying maths,physics,chemistry,biology and all those pointless stuff we won't even use later in our daily lives.....I wish I can go to an arts school and study music and drama...all those stuff that I like.The only subject I kinda like at school right now is English and Indonesian language.
And the only reason for all of this is because parents seriously underestimate kids and how they know they're being sized up. No matter how young they are, they're still human. And immaturity doesn't equal unintelligent. If only adults could understand, which I find it weird that they can't, considering they were kids once too.
Same, and because of that I am still sheltered to this day. Never allowed to go out of the house unless she knew exactly where I was and if I was leaving that place, I had to to tell her immediately. She also takes a picture of me right before she leaves just in case I go missing. I am 16 years old
*Some "parents" just don´t deserve having kids* . Watching the video made me feel, as if you were talking about my childhood, my "parents" didn´t miss one of the problems (and there was even more). My response was: I hated them. -> But they couldn´t crush my soul, thank God I was strong enough to survive and today I am completely the opposite of them.
That will be my dream: to become the opposite of them (care-free, not yelling, not freaking out over every single little mistake, trying not to assume everything because of habits)
My mom tried to choke me,tie me up with chains ,my dad always hit me with a belt while I Scream what do I do wrong,now the things thats in my mind is,should I take the road or take the knife
And they asked me why I often go out alone without telling them... WELL, cause if I tell you, you won't allow me to go out and look at the world! edit: Also, they often decided to tag along so you still don't have freedom in that place/activity you're going to go/do.
i wish my parents understood this thing. i am afraid they will scold me if i show them this video. but i am showing them today. please pray a lot for me that my parents agree with the fact.😢
If I showed this to my parents they'd give me a lecture on how much of a drama queen I am (even though I barely ever show emotions around them) then they'd tell me to act more mature.
I'm 26....still facing all these things.....even if I show this to my parents they r not going to change.......still waiting to get out of the prison built by my parents for me😔......I'm a bird in a golden cage😭......
ragavi karthiga same age and dealing with it as well. My mom is this way because she dealt with abusive and neglectful parents in her childhood. If I could, I’d escape but I also don’t want to be homeless. Glad I’m not the only one struggling :’) especially at this age! Wishing you the best in your journey! ✊
@@lalam209 Well things happen and sometimes they do not know better how to raise their children. They think they have a way to raise their kids, but they mess it up without knowing it. I wish my parents would have explained things to me in a realistic way rather than prohibiting it.
@@sonianevarez2933 Exactly! At least I know for sure I won't treat my future kids the way I was treated. And I'm really sorry to hear you're going through it too :( hang in there man 🙏
Isabela Rocha okay so i know why your parents said that. they probably think otherwise but they don't wanna say that because they need to be superior as they are older, you are younger. my parents to this all the time. i have a feeling both of our parents are hypocrites.
Sadly, I experienced all this and been depressed and suicidal almost all my life. Mom's sick but I'd die early if I continue living with her. I guess I'm left with no choice but to move out.
I am just waiting for the day when I will move out and do what I always wanted to do , even when I win any competition I keep money to myself to buy things which I always wanted to buy !
Same here man. I wish I could get any job to support myself and leave my parents for good. I don't want their money or their house and no more bad influence. But I am worried about having to live independently for first time. But I will do it.
My parents keep comparing me to oyher children. They keep saying "If only you were as pretty as (insert beautiful girl's name)" or " You're older but (insert name here) is smarter" etc. If only i could show my parents this video.
Unicorn Angela - why can't you? I think they real,y need to see this,,because that stuff they're saying would have to be one of the most damaging things to say to a kid. They need to stop and realise the massive damage they are doing. They speak like you don't have emotions...but you do. They have no right to compare you to anyone. They have to stop. It's abuse.
I agree but it's hard, I relate to her/him but I really don't have the guts to do it. I don't know about her/him but she/he says "if only I could show my parents this video" maybe lack of confidence to show them.
Unicorn Angela - Comparison of beauty?! What do your parents want you for?! Physical beauty is only skin deep, a pretty girl could be a downright abomination that doesn't deserve to be called 'human' under the surface! It's what's inside that counts! And intelligence is one thing, wisdom is another, and you sound pretty wise to me. There is always a kids helpline/teens helpline, and if there is a will, there is a way, and if this gets out of hand, I'll bet you anything you can find a way to make them pay, one way or another because what you give is what you get, and they'll get taught a lesson they'll never forget, by whatever means necessary, karma or not. Rest assured, if all else fails, you can talk to me.
+Unicorn Angela Do the same to them. When they start comparing you to other kids compare them to other adults. Sometimes these things are better shown than told.
The parents who are like the ones in this video will probably watch this, and shout at the screen, "ARE YOU TELLING ME HOW TO RAISE MY KID????!!!!!!!!!" Just saying.... 😐😐
Not all parents who do parental mistakes are toxic parents tho,some simply don't know the best way to raise their children,but always wish for their best.
"If you're a kid, show this to your parents and they'll probably change their behavior" This can be dangerous advice. Sadly , that turns into " Oh, it's all MY fault that you are..blah, instead of * bluck" Kids should have a neutral ground to discuss things with parents but many do not. Just saying, this assumes the kid is in a best case scenario.
A Baker I wouldn't suggest any kids show their parents. It most likely will only upset the parents and they'll take offense... Some will punish their kids for that.
my anxiety is definitely caused by my family. Also it’s like when I stick up for myself they say I’m being rude but when my sister does it she’s being funny or cute 🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽
my brother's 19, but his mind's like a 3 yo's; mom and her bf always treat him like he's a prince or something, always do needy and dependant, he just stresses me out every day by annoying me, it's super hard
I don't know... Kids often behave just like their parents when they get upset at their own kids. The only things that change are the rules that get enforced. Hopefully you're the exception.
Tekashto there is and wil never be an exception,since children think of their parents as a way to true happiness and the mentors of right and wrong,so they try to mimic their parents and will then keep the behavior of their parents into adulthood,because it's human instinct and it's impossible to not follow instinct,since it's hardwired into our minds
Don't listen to the my parents raised me different then they grew up and I didn't make the same mistakes as them. I still made mistakes but not the same ones and not as bad.
my parents always compare me with the others..sometimes it really hurt me because they always say bad things and it make me think that im not their real child...but i still love them.
me too...i think im a little bit crazy,bcz since i was 13 years old..i do wish i have brain tumor but luckily i still can think wisely that i have to repay for every goog things my parents had done to me and i have to support my siblings studies bcz im the oldest...sorry my english are bad..
Teresa Rebelo you still listen to your parents they may do some or all these things but they still love you, just ignore the bad advice and listen to the good ones.🙂
i have become desensitized towards my mothers physical abuse to the point where i don’t cry anymore. also her words still do hurt but at this point i don’t really cry i about it i just internalize it which i know is bad but i can’t seem to let myself cry anymore. i have to physical force myself to cry as i know crying is a good emotional release. however i’ve come to realize that i am unable to express anger which may stem from the fact that whenever i showed that i was angry/annoyed towards her she would slap me to make me cry and it would work. that probably why whenever i subconsciously feel angry i start to cry.
Suzune Ayame cute I'm also 22 years old, gave many advice for my step-mother but no actions, we just have to be patient until some point, but i'm sure the good time is coming...
@@mathewbrigman5592 as you should , as a kid they raise you the best they can . The most filing life is one you work hard for , you struggle ,but you earn pride . A good person grows up independent, not depending on someone else . Wish you a great future , but remember you got put in the effort to have what you want ,not wait for it to be handed to you . It's hard work , best of luck head up !
*my parents always say “look over there, they are much younger than you and they act better.” and they say that i do things wrong when I don’t.* and force me to stop crying when I cry
As a person who has #3 Getting help for suicide tendencies are incredibly hard. The emotions just never gets out even if you want to. Even if they say "talk to someone", you've already naturally learned that your emotions aren't actually accepted, so your brain & heart are now pretty clammed up from letting your emotions out. P.s. I am still trying my hardest :P
MeowingInsanely I have similar issues I can't let out emotional things like crying due to the fact that my parents always told me that it was silly to cry about the things that I did cry about but I only cried about it becouse I'm slightly emotionally unstable. Don't get the wrong idea or anything I still love my parents and I know they still care about me but it's made my life not as normal as others
My parents done all of these to me and now I'm very insecure and care what other people think and sad most of the time and feel like crying but I hate crying
my parents don't know how emotionally depressed I am. I just watch this type of videos to convince myself one day they'll change their behavior an I'll could feel a bit better. I hope that when I grow up I won't commit the same with my children.
It's so sad that when we actually reason out with our parents, they will say "Now you're talking back to me? You have no respect!" The scolding will continue for hours and the won't even listen to our sides
Same when I accidentally made a mistake my mom gets mad at me. when I done something that’s not a big deal I tell her the reason but she doesn’t listen to me like I’m just a loser.
C R Gaming she's not cruel she just doesn't want me to think I'm on her level because I'm not. she's the mother I'm the child. I guess it's just how it is
ponies 122 Awe sweetie I'm so sorry. The hardest pain I've ever known in my life was when I lost a dog. I have the ashes of three of them and I still have two but I will miss them all the days of my life. If it's any consolation or comfort to you I know your dog is playing with other dog's who have already gone to heaven. 🐶🕊💟
I relate to this video so much it's sad... my parents are always comparing me to others and they hate it when I don't tell them all of my secrets. I'm terrified to ask for any help for fear of punishment, I hate doing anything new because if I make a mistake I fear they will punish me. Ever since I was in 1st grade I've been told by my teachers and parents that I should stop crying because I'm to old for that or it's just an over reaction (it's hard to control it now that I have depression). I'm now 14 (15 in November) and this has been happening my whole life, I'm just now old enough to understand it...... I just hate my life right now because I can't trust anyone anymore.... I feel so alone....
I feel you man. I have so many trust issues with my parents. I was always afraid to ask anything or do something because I was scared of my mom judging me. I'm a senior now and I go through a lot of stress. My mom never finished highschool and she gets on my nerves that she knows everything. She doesn't, she'll never understand the stress I have to go through because she never finished the 10th grade. I can never tell them my opinions because I know they'll judge me. It hard and I don't want that for my kids. I don't want them to have the same problem I had with my parents.
Im 3-4 years younger than you, and i think i could add many things if youre just like me. I have huge mistrust issues, im paranoid, lonely, sad but my face looks emotionless. I always compare myself to others and i think that i am worthless.
Pokemon Doge Actually that's not the case, grammar doesn't matter, there's people who's foreign language is English, and plus I'm thirteen and I can relate to her.
It's my mom who gave me depression because she always say "your little sister is gonna be better than you" "your little sister is gonna be more smarter than you" "why do you always make mistakes like this!?" "This has been repeating every day why can't you understand this this to simple!!??" I've been saying to myself "when will I be good enough for my mom?" Leave a like to make me happy......
DRAGONLILY 303 Let's be real, you'll probably never be good enough for your mom. But that doesn't mean you aren't great. Your mother was probably told she wasn't good enough as a child and carried that into adulthood. It might sound hard, but what might help is to make your mother feel great. Tell her how great she is at what she does. Like if she cooks a delicious meal for dinner, tell her how amazing it is. If she looks pretty after looking like she put in a lot of effort, tell her that she's very pretty. If you ever see her doing anything that seems like she's good at, or tries really hard to do, tell her how good she it's at it and how talented she is. Knowing what I know now, we are all basically children, the only thing that separates us is knowledge and experience. But a hurt child becomes a hurt adult and that hurt adult reflects their pain onto their children because it's the only way they know how to raise a child because it's the only example they were given. But just know that your mother loves you and she's saying what she's saying out of love.
I feel u, mine has given me triggered anxiety. They just have wrong notion must nag their pov onto us whichs wrong. At times i feel strongly that I want them to admit they were wrong, but they refuse to. But, some healing is possible. Don't give up
My mom will yell at me for being in there when im clearly doing work than she yells o ur lazy ur in ur room all day doing work she doesn't care if I don't finish my hw she even told me to tell my teachers u can tell them that and than she complains and yells at me when im not in my room
@@patriciastar3283 your mom is the opposite of understanding. First of all your mom does not want you to go past her level of success. So when you are doing homework she tries to stop you from completing it.
I'm 20 now and my dad still wouldn't let me pursue my goals/dreams of becoming a Fashion Designer or just a Designer it's not like I'm requesting to live on the streets or insisting to do an odd job, he even chooses classes for me even when I suggest the type of classes I'm interested in 😢. Worse is when you're constantly compared to others like your younger siblings and friend's children. FML
Do what i did tell them to stop making decisions for you if that doesn't work don't even mention anymore what are you doing with your life just tell them "it's good" for any questions about your life style they are too egoistic to see your personality so don't let see ther verson of you as well
Dude, I bet you’re so creative! I bet you could make anything look better! I’m sure you’ll be the best designer! Just don’t be afraid to make mistakes, and push them out of your mind, I’ve went through something like that and I’m starting to get better! We all believe in you.
It's okay you will eventually become a designer and when you do make sure you comment to my channel so that I can congratulate you my channel is called A Star Television
I almost failed my school year this year because my mom wouldn't let me study by doing other things and distracting me on purpose and she compared me to all of my family, even herself. But I did pass, btw, but barely.
I'm a teenager too and I'm in the same situation as you. I'm looking forward the day when I'm moving out from my prison (my parents house) and I'm NEVER going to come back even if they begging me to come back to visit. Sorry if my english is bad.
@@froilanballera5366 , same here , i am also a teenager facing these all , only effected person can understand others who has been effected with the same problem .
My dad used to cut off all my extracurricular including social activities at school, friends etc saying they r bad fr my studies. I used to b a cheerful n talkative person back then. I couldnt hang out wid my friends cz lack of freedom. others used to hav lot of fun. I used to feel left out n sad. Evrytime they share stories abt their outings n all i used to feel like an odd one out... anyway as a rrsult of all dat.. i hav got smewt gud grades n hav a good course fr career. Bt i hav lost a lot of friends and my cheerfulness. I m basically just a gloomy creature now living lonely life
Iam a 24 year old guy with the same issues. My father was same like what you said about. I know nothing other than simply studying to get good grades. I don't even sing or dance or play any games because he used to tell me it's a distraction for my studies. Now I lost the fun in enjoying anything.
my parents are everyone of these, I didnt have a child hood at all. at 10 I was expected to act like an adult and at 12 I was expected to act like a 36 year old and at 6 u got depression and things
Wish my parents saw this 27 years ago. I've come a long way since this post, check out a few of my comments below if you're feeling this comment. It may just help you, its helping me in a drastic way.
I need help with my mother and her discipline actions it's horrible it literally shuts you down I hate it deeply so now I have Dcf in my life where question comes in is where was Dcf when I was growing up...?
tum ungli karo mein hat daldunga your parents affect your personality, and it’s often seen that kids who suffered from abusive parents, become abusive parents themselves because they know nothing else
what about child abuse in a country which doesn't care about child abuse and thinks that its a way to treat their children. because of that i have low self esteem and im afraid to make any decision cause of an inside fear if i do wrong someone will come with a stick to hit me.
Grandpa: have i grounded you because of that Mom: i i i i (lying) Grandpa: you need to go to a psychologist while i look aftern your kid Mom: what makes you think you have rights to my kid dad Grandpa: i am your dad and i am trying to help you both
I just hate it when my parents are so mean to other people for no reason but in front of their "adult friends" they behave like the best creatures in the world -_-
'You could change this' by not making a kid in the first place when you know you won't be able to handle parenthood. Even if they do change there behaviour now then it's too late later than 5000 year old mummies in coffin
I can realise why iam so depressed. .... If you can show this video to all parents (especially in India) no more kid will go through pain and depression.....
If i show this to my parents they wont be interested this isnt gonna change anything My parents are never interested in my school projects or something else 🙍😔🙅
Danny Horror story I feel so bad for you! Try texting about your school projects to yourself. It makes you feel comforted, and like you get to talk about it with someone.
Same here.. I see kids with straight A's and they say their parents congratulate them When I got straight A's once, my mom threw my grades back at me and went back onto facebook.
Something else to avoid is calling a child a crybaby, I was and have been told that a lot in my life and I find it difficult to find help or cry in front of anyone
*clash with creeper* I can't believe someone would do that, That's ridiculous, Being a girl shouldn't be an insult and you shouldn't be called anything for crying
I was called a crybaby when I was 6/7 and now I’m 13 and I hate crying in front of anyone and if I do, they never notice cause I’ve become good at staying silent
I hear it from my mom but no use, not after all of the harm she has already done. I believe that the praise you say means nothing if the harm you have previously done hasnt been fixed
parents: your room is so messy clean it. what I want to say: well your the one who have me an office for a room get over it. parents: hey missy why are you so lazy your sister is not even that lazy what I want to say: why are you always comparing me to my sister is she better. parents: come talk to me you never talk. what I want to say: you are the ones who make me feel like I can't tell anyone about my life only reason I have not tried to run is because my friends feel me and thousands of other people I hope my parents see this
Charlie Bales Me too...... Mum&Dad: Sleep Destroyerkiller, You need to get up early, stop playing on the lifeboat server! Your eyes will become blurry! I want to talk about: You two always watch your phone in the dark, Even we have a sleeping lamp, it is still to dark in the bedroom, you two even do it every day! Your eyes are even even even more blurrier than once your are in 2001, parents!
Spongey PegasieTM Yes, they think we are too perfect, we always make mistakes in our life , from losing a point from an exam, didn't touch the pool board powerfully in the swimming gala, or even accidentally fall down when in a running competition . Even, some parents like my parents like to compare me with more [accomplished and better] ones. When hearing (Hey Destroyerkiller, why your friend Pikachu is better in exams why you are even worse than everybody?)But what my brain thinks (Destroyerkiller, you are the worse one in class!) then I think I will commit suicide! I live in the Eurasian continent, so my mum and dad's [traditional punishment] is 👨🏻🤜🏻👦🏻 (👦🏻=Destroyerkiller) One day, I will Hit my dad when I see him. I want to live in the U.S.A, In the U.S.A., Parents love their kids!!!! You know, I am in Eurasia , Parents dictate them!!!!!
this is so true. i noticed a while ago that my friends, schoolmates who had strict parents have serious issues to stay away from alcohol, be in relatiosnhip etc. meanwhile those who had less strict parents are getting married, having kids and dont have such problems with mental health.
My mom used to organize my underwear drawer for me and rearrange my things because she told me I wasn't doing it the right way, even into my teens and 20s. I am now in my late 40's, and I dislike organizing things and arranging things to this day.
Retro Gaming Same here. My mom gets angry when my room doesnt fit her standards and it could be compeltely clean and will cry and scream about it if its not her way.
Bastion yeah there is always that one teacher that just purposely makes everything complicated my chem teacher was like that and only one i didn't get an A in
This is what my strict parents mostly say/do.( pros and cons) CONS~ 1. They watch everything single move I do 2. They pressure me to do well in school 3. They think I'm tough and can handle things all by myself( I'm sensitive so I have problems dealing with certain things.) 4. They make me feel like I'm the problem in a subject. example: Let's say I got an F. Parents: Skylar! We expect you to get good grades and you do that but this is unacceptable. Me(on the outside): I'm sorry it will never happen again. Me(on the inside): Why do you make me feel like a huge failure and disappointment. 5. The common phrase they use " Don't trust adults/strangers!" makes me feel as if I can't receive help from a stranger if I'm hurt in a public place and I can't tell anyone to help me out. 6. When I state my own opinion they think I'm sassing them back, it feels as if I can't say my own opinion as I think it'll come out "rude". 7.When I cry they tell me to stop crying, which made me the person who hides their feelings.( I really don't even smile) 8. They are really nosy. example: If I'm being quiet they ask me this " Are you okay." I know that they seem to be concerned with me but they say this way too much as if I'm depressed. PROS~ 1. They believe I can accomplish my dreams. example: I want to be a ballerina( I actually do) they support me for that and see no problem with it. 2. Their humor is really corny but it still makes my day better. 3. They're always there for me. 4. They are proud of my accomplishments. I have 2 other siblings who get it way worse than I do which is even sadder but, over the time you'll learn to forgive them(if they change for the better) THANK YOU FOR READING THIS! I poured all of my emotions for people to see so hopefully someone can relate to me.
U have decent parents. They have really bad problems but the pros outweigh the cons. My parents are somewhat like that too except 3x worse (at least really only dad)
My parents and sometimes my brother are always comparing me to my brother/themselves, it makes me feel like I'm never good enough, I started to cut for a while but stopped at the end of school
potaeto bwi Well then I'm going to pray that you do and pray also that your parents understand and love and respect you for it. Maybe you can say, 'Hey you guy's do you agree or disagree with this video?' good luck
Same especially my dad, I can see it now... "what's the vid u sent?" Me:" um well it's a a kind of parenting vid" dad: "a what? I didn't hear u." Then ill have to repeat again me: " a PARENTING vid" I can't even imagine what would happen after that my dad is like next weeks weather, u think something might happen but it's completely different and unpredictable
"If you're still a child, then show this video to your parents, they'll probably change their behavior for the better" I'M CRYING AHAHAHAHAHAH GOOD ONE. Really? Am I the only one who has parents who would just punish and take the things I like away from me because like they say: "If you want respect you have to earn it, look at all of your friends! Don't you see how they obey to their parents? Why do you have to be the worst of your whole class?" Like yeah, sure, I play a lot of sports (even tho I don't like them), I get really good grades, I'm basically the best kid in math, english and art in the whole school (I'm not kidding, they gave me two medals for this) and it's still not enough. I have to be the best in everything just because my parents don't understand that even tho I'm still 12 I have a social life. I have friends and people I care about, but no, WHO CARES ABOUT THEM, let's just study and play horrible sports for the whole day until I get so frustrated I want to commit suicide! Yeah! Best life EVER! Sorry if my english is bad and sorry for just wasting your time with my problems, I just thought for once I could write them somewhere.
Undyla - Chan Suicide... I couldn't have said it better. I'm an adult but as a kid, specifically your age, I was very depressed. My parents were treating me like I was a dumbfuck. I needed my independence. In my entire life, I have attempted suicide only once, but they never found out. No one did. They were out shopping and I had enough time to get rid of the blood and make it stop bleeding. I even put a bandaid on it so they would think I cut myself accidentally. That scar is long gone now, but the scar in my heart is not healing. They damaged it throughout my teenage years, and made the scar in my heart grow. When they grounded me, they used such words such as, "Shut up or I will show you what hurts." They were relentless. They had no concern on my feelings or my opinions, to the point if I told them my opinion on something, they would start raving and ranting. I had no defense. I was feeling abandoned. They started not trusting me, so when I said something, they thought I was lying, so they punished me instead of my brother. That started making me suicidal. I hadn't talked to them in years now. They left me for dead when I was going to college. They wanted me out. Now, I'm a senior in college doing more years for better job opportunities, around the world, or the country. They still haven't contacted me in a long time. They must have really wanted me out of their place. At least now I'm getting my independence, but it's too late. My childhood is nothing but a blank page. Would they cry if I died? That's the real question. I may never know. Thank you for your time reading all this. It contains a lot of my true thoughts. Elsewhere, I may seem happy and calm, but I am not. That is just my shield. I didn't bring it with me to type all this. Peace.
Eh if I ever show this to my parent I'll probably get a lecture. My whole family just attacked me with words all the time. I felt almost everything on the list and just great. I break down a lot and cry nowadays when I face little problems as I'm stressed
According to my parents only autistic people can get depressed and have those issues described in this video. they really are that narrow minded autistic people are either smart or really dumb it has nothing to do with emotions
@@karmen3652 I understand, I think that people should only parent if they have the mental capacity, and just because something's a two way thing doesn't mean we should treat it like a two way thing.
@@calumbrooknicolson yeah i agree with that. some parents are not fit to raise kids. some parents are amazing at parenting who need to be more appreciated.
A kid that has a speech/language problem, telling them to, "Use your words!" Is so harmful. Both me and my little brother has speech impediments, thankfully I stepped in and helped my brother before my parents could do harm like they did with me 😔 If your kid has trouble speaking, sound out the word for them. Get down to their level. If they've already started taking speech lessons, have them focus on your mouth and the parent say the word slowly. Telling them to use their words, they don't know how. And it's incredibly frustrating to be told to more or less speak right when you can't xc
Great Value Bleach Its okay i kmow the feeling but for me its my dad who is bad to me and my mom, idk why but he loves by brother so much that he lets him do whatever he wants, and i have to do everything my dad says Even if im super busy like doing homework or even late for school.
I like how my Mom gets all mad when I show any form of discontent at being made to do chores (which is usually just a quiet sigh) and goes on this intense tangent of “YOUR FATHER AND I PROVIDE YOUR FOOD, SHELTER, CLOTHING - WE PAY FOR YOUR SCHOOL AND GAS!..” But the thing is, I was almost never made to do any chores when I was younger, so of course I’m going to show mild discontent at being made to vacuum the bathroom floor at a moment’s notice. Also, calm down, all I did was exhale.
Sierra Long I was a failure I still don't do anything bcz I have ld my parents say me don't do anything sit n eat whole life but when I ask money they say see other kids earning n giving to parents .so it's just like that u have to raise voice n be independent
Thank god that bright side made thia video at least the young generation who watched thia video now knows what type of parent they "should not be" in their future. and it will somehow stop this cycle of being these kind of parents😊😊
@@gruyce3448 You can cry let it all out if you need to and this not going to last forever you just have to stay strong do things that make you happy and keep your head up. I'm wishing the best for you
15 and so far I have serious trust issues, let's see I'm sometimes depressed, I bottle all my feelings inside, no one knows about my life at home because I never tell anyone because I'm scared of what they'll think, I come to school being all happy and joyful but once I come home it all changes, and my parents don't realize what their parenting has done to me... I sure do wonder if they raised me right
...I can't believe it... My parents wanted the perfect child. They treated me like piece of ****. Before, I wouldn't even dare to raise my voice, now, I can yell and curse near them. They raised me like this. They hurt me. When I looked upset they would just say "Don't embarrass ourselves in front of them!" It began when I was 7 or eight. Because of those… I had depression when I was 12 for a very long time and was even suicidal, though, I'm still alive. They tell me how they were so "goody good" when they were the same age as me. They say I'm a horrible daughter. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke and I don't drink alcohol. Sometimes, I just have the thoughts of getting "revenge" and showing them my »bad side« (like doing drugs in front of them).
If i show this to my mom and dad.. they'll say "You're so dramatic!! 😂" and laugh. Or "So me and your dad are your problems!??" And get mad. So.. i won't show them because it makes me more sad.. 😢
if I showed this to my parents I would get grounded for life because I'm telling them they are bad parents and I don't like them or something and they are my parents so they treat me how I want
What do you think parents should never do to their children?
BRIGHT SIDE Boi you commented this basically a year after the video
less strict rules
Have them
@@jaranda6913 that's because this whole Internet is fake, it's just a Web to gain information about us, which we gladly give in comments section
Shouldn't hit there child and if they are divorced don't say you can't go with your dad and shouldn't love another lid more than you
Also, at the end of the video, if a child shows their parents this video, they will get angry, think that their kids thinks they know more than them, take away internet, or make issues worse
So true
True
So true
Your parents should take away your internet
@@timmccallum7336 nope yours
I can't show this to my mom, no matter what I do she never changes.
Some parents are just too far gone to be reasoned with.
_전정국 same
Same she hates me.
same with me because shes jamaican she lives under a rock
Yeah
If I showed my mom this she'd be like "You wanna blame ME for your insecurities? All I ever did was take care of you and keep you safe."
Raising a kid to have good values doesn't mean you're not making any mistakes
Tyler Berridge I can understand u! :(
same with me. My mom will say "Oh, now you know anything huh?!" and blame me for something i've never done...
Same here, i'm sure my parents will make me feel guilty if I showed them this. Vicious cycle continuous
Tyler Berridge same ☹️
Will that what all parents will do
My mom constantly nags at me for being introverted. I hate it. She’s made me hate people. She’s made me want to stay as far away from people as possible.
Me too she doesn't let me Express myself my emotions and everything and I cry almost every night lying in my bed
I feel you..
아잇히 Oishi loves BTSpop She would not take me serious and always turn her head away from me with a disgusted face.
I'm so glad to know I'm not alone
Not in a bad way
Ikr
I cried because my parents did ALL of these, No wonder i'm such an anxious, sad, and scared to talk and share what's on my mind.
Sprite I'm sorry for what you went though, but have faith in ur self.I know you can do this 🤗🤗🤗👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Sprite me to :( I was to scared to even get on a bike or go check the mail
And I dislike how rude my parents can be but they have there good days.
I feel guilty even talking about them :( but I’m glad I have parents unlike some people
Same 🙁😢😥😩😞
same. And then when i DONT speak my mind, they try to force me to, so I just lie.
Lylac The Fox Loves Sans They create a very confusing environment which is very frustrating.
Hate it when a teacher says 'stop laughing or stop giggling'
Made me say the other day to a teacher 'sorry I can't enjoy my childhood cause you had a lousy one'
I wish I said that to my 2nd grade teacher she probly would have left me Alone to
(￣^￣゜)
yea
Shush - Can ya hear it yeah once my teacher told me to shut up and I sneezed
Shush - Can ya hear it XM
As a teacher - I won't say that there aren't any negative teachers, but not wanting the kids to giggle is less about hating enjoyment and more about needing them to listen and work. There's a time for play and giggle and a time for work. The teacher usually has a plan to stick to and kids "goofing around" in class means you won't get through with it. It's going to be the teacher who'll be in trouble for not meeting the goals. (May depend on where you live, but I think that's the case on most places.)
If you're old enough for school, you're old enough to sit still and work for an hour before you play and giggle again.
There is a reason why i stay in my room most of the time
Teniath same 😐😑their assumption is that I'm depressed, it's not I just can't stand being judged by my parents
I can’t even stay in my bedroom without my parents barging in without even knocking and monitoring every small little thing I do.
My room is my paradise
I do the same thing mostly to just not have to listen to my dads constant ridicule of me and my family
I am exactly the same! Please let's talk sometime! (Over the internet)
Even a simple "I'm proud of you" would work
My parents never said that to
even after saying that,
mine came back to me telling me I am the one who causes problems in the family.
Yep
My parents never say that
what is your date of birth
The most important thing in parenting is giving your child space.Let them explore things.
them
And let them have their privacy and secrets
in the future i Will be like this (Maybe)
Ahad Ahmad why not her?
Ahad Ahmad My mom say "So you don't want loving mother anymore?"
Reason:Hugging me until I can't breathe
Or die in a game cause of other hand getting restricted
"don't cry, I'll give you something to cry about!"
"See my friend's daughter already has a job and a scholorship"
"Don't talk while I'm talking!"
"You're eating too much!"
"nobody wants scars on their skin"
what about the scars that you left on my heart? my psyche?
"you're a girl you can't dance or hear to music sing see at boys youtuber. and you can't have any bf
Krystal Endermalie sometime earlier, if I would start crying, my mom would give me another "reason" to cry...
Krystal Endermalie im 14 years old and my parents already want me to work
wow, I did not expect this when I posted this
Krystal Endermalie I agree my parents are the same way. That is why I usually just suppress my feelings around them and I depressed, stressed, and paranoid.
Sadly, siblings, peers, and teachers can impart just as much damage.
Ultimate Corgi God tru : (( principals should something abt it
Salty Diarrhea As a older brother (over 10 years between each other) I completely agree
Yeah sumtimes my sister plays around but meanly
Salty Diarrhea bro yojr right
Salty Diarrhea Yeah.....Sometimes I wish we can all live freely and just study what we want to learn....me for example,singing is my passion but instead I'm stuck at school studying maths,physics,chemistry,biology and all those pointless stuff we won't even use later in our daily lives.....I wish I can go to an arts school and study music and drama...all those stuff that I like.The only subject I kinda like at school right now is English and Indonesian language.
Wow and this entire time I thought this was always my fault. :(
Me too buddy...me too...
Yupp, same here.
Yep. The best thing you can do is get into therapy now, whilst you are unpacking this notion. Don't leave it too late.
Me too you are not alone
Ice Heart Radio « yes!! I found someone to blame, now I can proudly be miserable for the rest of life »
And the only reason for all of this is because parents seriously underestimate kids and how they know they're being sized up. No matter how young they are, they're still human. And immaturity doesn't equal unintelligent. If only adults could understand, which I find it weird that they can't, considering they were kids once too.
Anongamer Catlover Also, many adults are or can be immature. Just maybe not as often.
Maybe they never were kids /o\
I agree.
Anongamer Catlover the #9 is tru for me. I also tried suiciding myself.
yup I absolutely agree ! :(
“The world is dangerous“ was and still is my mother's main belief.
That's the conclusion I've come to throughout the years of my life. From childhood to adulthood. To anxious to even leave the house.
Take a self ie at home , not at the edge of a cliff ! Lol
Same, and because of that I am still sheltered to this day. Never allowed to go out of the house unless she knew exactly where I was and if I was leaving that place, I had to to tell her immediately. She also takes a picture of me right before she leaves just in case I go missing. I am 16 years old
@@Pipzip. when ull be a mom one day you will understand why she's doing that!!
Yes! 👌
*Some "parents" just don´t deserve having kids* . Watching the video made me feel, as if you were talking about my childhood, my "parents" didn´t miss one of the problems (and there was even more). My response was: I hated them. -> But they couldn´t crush my soul, thank God I was strong enough to survive and today I am completely the opposite of them.
The government should make a test of the relevance of the parents.
Well, idiotic parents should go to jail or room 101
That will be my dream: to become the opposite of them (care-free, not yelling, not freaking out over every single little mistake, trying not to assume everything because of habits)
My math teacher is all of these
My mom tried to choke me,tie me up with chains ,my dad always hit me with a belt while I Scream what do I do wrong,now the things thats in my mind is,should I take the road or take the knife
Always remember, strict parents equal sneaky children
Haha,i know a few,and they still think the sun shines out of their arses.
Me😂sneaky girl
And they asked me why I often go out alone without telling them... WELL, cause if I tell you, you won't allow me to go out and look at the world!
edit: Also, they often decided to tag along so you still don't have freedom in that place/activity you're going to go/do.
Garrett but they think being strict is for the child’s good💔
My mother once told me that she “didn’t raise a liar” and I almost had to stop myself from laughing out loud.
i wish my parents understood this thing. i am afraid they will scold me if i show them this video. but i am showing them today. please pray a lot for me that my parents agree with the fact.😢
ill pray for you
Jao aj pitai ho gi
How it went?
Oh wow I'll pray for you I'm so sorry
Tulika Manna hallelujah to you
my parents are 2:00 and it just won't stop😢 and such as comparing me to others
ISLANDBOI Barbados me too thay let me choose the hard
ISLANDBOI Barbados same 😧😧
ISLANDBOI Barbados same
ISLANDBOI Barbados
Cheer up 😢
I feel you ~
ISLANDBOI Barbados | same... 😰
If I showed this to my parents they'd give me a lecture on how much of a drama queen I am (even though I barely ever show emotions around them) then they'd tell me to act more mature.
Pixx-E Animations ikr
If they did, I'd be very surprised.
Pixx-E Animations our parents are the same....
Pixx-E Animations same-..
Very true, my parents never defend me when my brothers call me drama queen, and they say the same things
I'm 26....still facing all these things.....even if I show this to my parents they r not going to change.......still waiting to get out of the prison built by my parents for me😔......I'm a bird in a golden cage😭......
ragavi karthiga same age and dealing with it as well. My mom is this way because she dealt with abusive and neglectful parents in her childhood. If I could, I’d escape but I also don’t want to be homeless. Glad I’m not the only one struggling :’) especially at this age! Wishing you the best in your journey! ✊
I’m in my thirties and still dealing with this. I have so many psychological issues my mother just exacerbates them.
@@lalam209 Well things happen and sometimes they do not know better how to raise their children. They think they have a way to raise their kids, but they mess it up without knowing it. I wish my parents would have explained things to me in a realistic way rather than prohibiting it.
@@sonianevarez2933 Exactly! At least I know for sure I won't treat my future kids the way I was treated. And I'm really sorry to hear you're going through it too :( hang in there man 🙏
I feel you
*Helicopter parents sure is one big issue in life✊*
fr :(
True
sometimes when my friends go to malls and they invite me I say I can't go cuz my parents ask what time will I go home who is with me what will we do
@@arustex3493 my parents would stay with us all the time... im 18
iknow right. that is what am dealing with right now
This video totally matches my life situation.😞
my parents must watch this one.
Phoenix Angelus Is I show this video to my parents, they will say this video is idiot and I'm a fool by watching this.
Isabela Rocha exactly what my mom would say
Isabela Rocha okay so i know why your parents said that. they probably think otherwise but they don't wanna say that because they need to be superior as they are older, you are younger. my parents to this all the time. i have a feeling both of our parents are hypocrites.
Phoenix Angelus YES
C R Gaming I agree.
Sadly, I experienced all this and been depressed and suicidal almost all my life. Mom's sick but I'd die early if I continue living with her. I guess I'm left with no choice but to move out.
Hannah Ja - Sorry to hear that .
I've got the same feelings for my dad unfortunately :(
I am just waiting for the day when I will move out and do what I always wanted to do , even when I win any competition I keep money to myself to buy things which I always wanted to buy !
I just moved out of my toxic moms house. I'm so much better now. I hope you find a way out.
I feel like that about both of my parent but i still have to wait till im old enough to leave
Wow my parents did literally everything on this list and still do to this day. Really explains a lot :/
Sad but true.
And Don't make the same Mistake
I feel the same stuff
Same here man. I wish I could get any job to support myself and leave my parents for good. I don't want their money or their house and no more bad influence. But I am worried about having to live independently for first time. But I will do it.
@Evandro Redfield What's your story bro?
My parents keep comparing me to oyher children. They keep saying "If only you were as pretty as (insert beautiful girl's name)" or " You're older but (insert name here) is smarter" etc. If only i could show my parents this video.
Unicorn Angela - why can't you? I think they real,y need to see this,,because that stuff they're saying would have to be one of the most damaging things to say to a kid. They need to stop and realise the massive damage they are doing.
They speak like you don't have emotions...but you do.
They have no right to compare you to anyone.
They have to stop.
It's abuse.
I agree but it's hard, I relate to her/him but I really don't have the guts to do it. I don't know about her/him but she/he says "if only I could show my parents this video" maybe lack of confidence to show them.
Unicorn Angela - Comparison of beauty?! What do your parents want you for?! Physical beauty is only skin deep, a pretty girl could be a downright abomination that doesn't deserve to be called 'human' under the surface! It's what's inside that counts! And intelligence is one thing, wisdom is another, and you sound pretty wise to me. There is always a kids helpline/teens helpline, and if there is a will, there is a way, and if this gets out of hand, I'll bet you anything you can find a way to make them pay, one way or another because what you give is what you get, and they'll get taught a lesson they'll never forget, by whatever means necessary, karma or not. Rest assured, if all else fails, you can talk to me.
Unicorn Angela you're beautiful just the way you are! okay? ❤
+Unicorn Angela
Do the same to them. When they start comparing you to other kids compare them to other adults.
Sometimes these things are better shown than told.
The parents who are like the ones in this video will probably watch this, and shout at the screen, "ARE YOU TELLING ME HOW TO RAISE MY KID????!!!!!!!!!" Just saying.... 😐😐
The Rose Wolf lol “the kid raises his/her parents” can be a headline
Not all parents who do parental mistakes are toxic parents tho,some simply don't know the best way to raise their children,but always wish for their best.
That’s what my mom would say
@@retrogaming5485True af.
True
"If you're a kid, show this to your parents and they'll probably change their behavior"
This can be dangerous advice. Sadly , that turns into " Oh, it's all MY fault that you are..blah, instead of * bluck"
Kids should have a neutral ground to discuss things with parents but many do not. Just saying, this assumes the kid is in a best case scenario.
A Baker I wouldn't suggest any kids show their parents. It most likely will only upset the parents and they'll take offense... Some will punish their kids for that.
@vampire bat ..
Go back.. re- read what I said.
Come back..realize your preachy for no reason..
Seriously..
A Baker What's with the sudden bitterness? I was on your side!
A Baker Just a friendly tip, don't bash those who aren't against you...
my anxiety is definitely caused by my family. Also it’s like when I stick up for myself they say I’m being rude but when my sister does it she’s being funny or cute 🖕🏽🖕🏽🖕🏽
me too
my brother's 19, but his mind's like a 3 yo's; mom and her bf always treat him like he's a prince or something, always do needy and dependant, he just stresses me out every day by annoying me, it's super hard
Ikr
Sounds like narcissism from them and playing favourites. Despicable people.
Alyy I pull the finger at my parents when they aren’t looking
My parents do most of these and now I'm terrified for my future. But in the bright side I know I'll never make these mistakes with my kids
That's what keeps me happy :).
Now you're thinking on the BRIGHT SIDE
I don't know... Kids often behave just like their parents when they get upset at their own kids. The only things that change are the rules that get enforced. Hopefully you're the exception.
Tekashto there is and wil never be an exception,since children think of their parents as a way to true happiness and the mentors of right and wrong,so they try to mimic their parents and will then keep the behavior of their parents into adulthood,because it's human instinct and it's impossible to not follow instinct,since it's hardwired into our minds
Don't listen to the my parents raised me different then they grew up and I didn't make the same mistakes as them. I still made mistakes but not the same ones and not as bad.
my parents always compare me with the others..sometimes it really hurt me because they always say bad things and it make me think that im not their real child...but i still love them.
sometimes I feel like too bad for this life and that I should suicide...
Kamilė same im pretty sure i have brain trauma or something
Nurul Hamizah you should compare your parents to other parents
Nurul Hamizah Stockholm syndrome
me too...i think im a little bit crazy,bcz since i was 13 years old..i do wish i have brain tumor but luckily i still can think wisely that i have to repay for every goog things my parents had done to me and i have to support my siblings studies bcz im the oldest...sorry my english are bad..
lesson learned today:
ignore my parents
Teresa Rebelo you still listen to your parents they may do some or all these things but they still love you, just ignore the bad advice and listen to the good ones.🙂
I wanted to writes something but I felt to guilty and sad.
purpleblueturtl same!
Teresa Rebelo same
Teresa Rebelo same
i don’t think my parents were raised to have kids 🤷🏻♀️
@Aisha Mohamed ikr
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My mom is the definition of all of these
And I suppress my emotions
Same
ME TOO!!!
Same
Same :(
i have become desensitized towards my mothers physical abuse to the point where i don’t cry anymore. also her words still do hurt but at this point i don’t really cry i about it i just internalize it which i know is bad but i can’t seem to let myself cry anymore. i have to physical force myself to cry as i know crying is a good emotional release. however i’ve come to realize that i am unable to express anger which may stem from the fact that whenever i showed that i was angry/annoyed towards her she would slap me to make me cry and it would work. that probably why whenever i subconsciously feel angry i start to cry.
fun fact:
96.69% watching this : Teenage
3.31%: Kids, Children
The rest is parents
My parents forced me to study everything since i was just 2 years old. You heard me right
Suzune Ayame cute im the 3.31%. Trying to grow my child right, and understanding where my depression came from.
Suzune Ayame cute I'm 23, lol. Guess I'm the .001%
D: I am new parent im 22
Suzune Ayame cute I'm also 22 years old, gave many advice for my step-mother but no actions, we just have to be patient until some point, but i'm sure the good time is coming...
If I had shown this to my parents as a kid I would have been yelled at and/or wiped because I was always wrong how dare I question them
Same man
Same G
Darkimon Same here.
I'm a kid now and I feel the same way
@@mathewbrigman5592 as you should , as a kid they raise you the best they can . The most filing life is one you work hard for , you struggle ,but you earn pride . A good person grows up independent, not depending on someone else . Wish you a great future , but remember you got put in the effort to have what you want ,not wait for it to be handed to you . It's hard work , best of luck head up !
*my parents always say “look over there, they are much younger than you and they act better.” and they say that i do things wrong when I don’t.*
and force me to stop crying when I cry
I can actually relate to that
YEAH SAME MY MOM CANES ME WHEN I CRY, now I can’t cry during serious matters and people say that I’m not taking sad things seriously...
Yeah girl I can understand
yeah fr
i understand you... they always compare 😔
As a person who has #3
Getting help for suicide tendencies are incredibly hard.
The emotions just never gets out even if you want to.
Even if they say "talk to someone", you've already naturally learned that your emotions aren't actually accepted, so your brain & heart are now pretty clammed up from letting your emotions out.
P.s. I am still trying my hardest :P
MeowingInsanely I have #3, too.
Erva Asena Bozkurt No u dont! Ur brutal just the way u r!
MeowingInsanely this made me upset
MeowingInsanely I have similar issues I can't let out emotional things like crying due to the fact that my parents always told me that it was silly to cry about the things that I did cry about but I only cried about it becouse I'm slightly emotionally unstable. Don't get the wrong idea or anything I still love my parents and I know they still care about me but it's made my life not as normal as others
My parents done all of these to me and now I'm very insecure and care what other people think and sad most of the time and feel like crying but I hate crying
my parents don't know how emotionally depressed I am. I just watch this type of videos to convince myself one day they'll change their behavior an I'll could feel a bit better. I hope that when I grow up I won't commit the same with my children.
La Rubia same ..
Park Jihoon's forehead is my aesthetic I know how you feel.
Park Jihoon's forehead is my aesthetic I was expecting to see ARMY here, not Produce 101 fans. Glad I found one!
La Rubia exactly my situation 😟😔
excactly
My mom continually tells me to stop being so introverted
WELL MOM IF IT WERE THAT SIMPLE I WOULD BE OUTSIDE INSTEAD OF WATCHING DANK DOODLE MEMES
THANK YOU
INDEED
YES FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT
YES
It's so sad that when we actually reason out with our parents, they will say "Now you're talking back to me? You have no respect!" The scolding will continue for hours and the won't even listen to our sides
"I mEaN wElL"
Same when I accidentally made a mistake my mom gets mad at me. when I done something that’s not a big deal I tell her the reason but she doesn’t listen to me like I’m just a loser.
Ikr my mom canes me when I cry
She is like: YOU CRYING IS SO DISGUSTING
RESPECT is earned. Let others talk, respect their space you will be respect ed back!
Now I know the root for my lack of self esteem ....................
mine too and my loss of will to live and exist
Evanston Conner same 😔
😞
Same
Same
my mom always said she doesn't have to respect me, I have to respect her.
Im A Commenter seriously no offense but tell your mom i said respect needs to go both ways what she is is cruel
C R Gaming she's not cruel she just doesn't want me to think I'm on her level because I'm not. she's the mother I'm the child. I guess it's just how it is
Elizabeth Ford she respects others, don't think she's mean, she just wants me to respect her and to not be selfish
Im A Commenter I would kick her azs
Im A Commenter she has to respect yu jut becuse your the child dosent mean that she can disrespect yiu
if my parents could understand 😧😧😧
Lavendra ros EXO fan yah my parents don't know how emotionally depressed I am
Lavendra ros EXO fan ya I had my dog dided and I'm still crying about it for over 4 mouths it will take like 1000 yes to get over it
Lavendra ros EXO fan (｡•́︿•̀｡) I'm sorry sweetie. I hope they come around and you are happy!
ikr
ponies 122 Awe sweetie I'm so sorry. The hardest pain I've ever known in my life was when I lost a dog. I have the ashes of three of them and I still have two but I will miss them all the days of my life. If it's any consolation or comfort to you I know your dog is playing with other dog's who have already gone to heaven. 🐶🕊💟
Me: *tell my parent how I feel
Parent: *sip coffee
Parent: hmm....taste like disrespect
yeah
I know know what it's like ...believe me I do😞✋
I relate to this video so much it's sad... my parents are always comparing me to others and they hate it when I don't tell them all of my secrets. I'm terrified to ask for any help for fear of punishment, I hate doing anything new because if I make a mistake I fear they will punish me. Ever since I was in 1st grade I've been told by my teachers and parents that I should stop crying because I'm to old for that or it's just an over reaction (it's hard to control it now that I have depression). I'm now 14 (15 in November) and this has been happening my whole life, I'm just now old enough to understand it...... I just hate my life right now because I can't trust anyone anymore.... I feel so alone....
I pray for your life to get better! I know I can't do anything, because we are all behind computer screens, but I'm still praying for you!
I feel you man. I have so many trust issues with my parents. I was always afraid to ask anything or do something because I was scared of my mom judging me. I'm a senior now and I go through a lot of stress. My mom never finished highschool and she gets on my nerves that she knows everything. She doesn't, she'll never understand the stress I have to go through because she never finished the 10th grade. I can never tell them my opinions because I know they'll judge me. It hard and I don't want that for my kids. I don't want them to have the same problem I had with my parents.
|-/ don't worry, tøp will soon release a new album and you won't be alone.
Im 3-4 years younger than you, and i think i could add many things if youre just like me. I have huge mistrust issues, im paranoid, lonely, sad but my face looks emotionless. I always compare myself to others and i think that i am worthless.
u just explaned all of me
i am 10 and sooner or later more hate will come to me
Thats where my depression, wanting to be like other people, and wanting to do adult stuff comes from!!! Now i see it all!!!
elsa awesome no you're are just a moody 10 year old
Pokemon Doge Your grammar and username is cringey.
Gabrielle LBBH so is your grammar good sir or madame.
Pokemon Doge Actually that's not the case, grammar doesn't matter, there's people who's foreign language is English, and plus I'm thirteen and I can relate to her.
Time Lord Wow just Wow my Depression, and Anxiety come from my mom... I can’t believe she threw me in Belmont Pines for something she grew
It's my mom who gave me depression because she always say "your little sister is gonna be better than you" "your little sister is gonna be more smarter than you" "why do you always make mistakes like this!?" "This has been repeating every day why can't you understand this this to simple!!??"
I've been saying to myself "when will I be good enough for my mom?"
Leave a like to make me happy......
DRAGONLILY 303
Let's be real, you'll probably never be good enough for your mom. But that doesn't mean you aren't great. Your mother was probably told she wasn't good enough as a child and carried that into adulthood.
It might sound hard, but what might help is to make your mother feel great. Tell her how great she is at what she does. Like if she cooks a delicious meal for dinner, tell her how amazing it is. If she looks pretty after looking like she put in a lot of effort, tell her that she's very pretty. If you ever see her doing anything that seems like she's good at, or tries really hard to do, tell her how good she it's at it and how talented she is.
Knowing what I know now, we are all basically children, the only thing that separates us is knowledge and experience. But a hurt child becomes a hurt adult and that hurt adult reflects their pain onto their children because it's the only way they know how to raise a child because it's the only example they were given.
But just know that your mother loves you and she's saying what she's saying out of love.
Also if your mom makes a mistake, tell her it's okay because humans make mistakes.
That is my dad. Exactly
Its not about being the best follow your dreams
I feel u, mine has given me triggered anxiety. They just have wrong notion must nag their pov onto us whichs wrong. At times i feel strongly that I want them to admit they were wrong, but they refuse to. But, some healing is possible. Don't give up
These is why I stay in my room all day
My mom will yell at me for being in there when im clearly doing work than she yells o ur lazy ur in ur room all day doing work she doesn't care if I don't finish my hw she even told me to tell my teachers u can tell them that and than she complains and yells at me when im not in my room
Sad to know someone like exist.
SweetPlayz Yt I’m in my room watching this video
@@patriciastar3283 your mom is the opposite of understanding.
First of all your mom does not want you to go past her level of success.
So when you are doing homework she tries to stop you from completing it.
Same.
these videos are only watched by oppressed souls not by their parents
Aniket Adhikary because they think they are always right?
That is true
Aniket Adhikary true
Aniket Adhikary But, it might make a difference when we kids and teens have children of our own
Same I'm too afraid to show my parents
This doesn't apply to children only but teenagers as well. My entire life so far has pretty much been like this and it has never changed.
@Gerby Jerzz seriously 😮
I'm 20 now and my dad still wouldn't let me pursue my goals/dreams of becoming a Fashion Designer or just a Designer it's not like I'm requesting to live on the streets or insisting to do an odd job, he even chooses classes for me even when I suggest the type of classes I'm interested in 😢.
Worse is when you're constantly compared to others like your younger siblings and friend's children. FML
Do what i did tell them to stop making decisions for you if that doesn't work don't even mention anymore what are you doing with your life just tell them "it's good" for any questions about your life style they are too egoistic to see your personality so don't let see ther verson of you as well
Dude, I bet you’re so creative! I bet you could make anything look better! I’m sure you’ll be the best designer! Just don’t be afraid to make mistakes, and push them out of your mind, I’ve went through something like that and I’m starting to get better! We all believe in you.
It's okay you will eventually become a designer and when you do make sure you comment to my channel so that I can congratulate you my channel is called A Star Television
I almost failed my school year this year because my mom wouldn't let me study by doing other things and distracting me on purpose and she compared me to all of my family, even herself.
But I did pass, btw, but barely.
Eliza Khan I wanted to be a professional gamer but I can't cause of my desi parents
I am a teenager and these all are happening to me!!😭😭😭
F____ JUST ARREST YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE THEY ARE ABUSIVE
I'm a teenager too and I'm in the same situation as you. I'm looking forward the day when I'm moving out from my prison (my parents house) and I'm NEVER going to come back even if they begging me to come back to visit. Sorry if my english is bad.
Same
@@froilanballera5366 , same here , i am also a teenager facing these all , only effected person can understand others who has been effected with the same problem .
My parents don’t know the word privacy
My dad used to cut off all my extracurricular including social activities at school, friends etc saying they r bad fr my studies. I used to b a cheerful n talkative person back then. I couldnt hang out wid my friends cz lack of freedom. others used to hav lot of fun. I used to feel left out n sad. Evrytime they share stories abt their outings n all i used to feel like an odd one out... anyway as a rrsult of all dat.. i hav got smewt gud grades n hav a good course fr career. Bt i hav lost a lot of friends and my cheerfulness. I m basically just a gloomy creature now living lonely life
Iam a 24 year old guy with the same issues. My father was same like what you said about. I know nothing other than simply studying to get good grades. I don't even sing or dance or play any games because he used to tell me it's a distraction for my studies. Now I lost the fun in enjoying anything.
Now at this age if I tell this he ask me to leave the house odo whatever I want. Bt Iam unable to decide anything for myself.
Same
what is your date of birth
Same here
my parents are everyone of these, I didnt have a child hood at all. at 10 I was expected to act like an adult and at 12 I was expected to act like a 36 year old and at 6 u got depression and things
at 6 I got depression*****
Why were they so mean?
Melanie Barksdale I really dont know they just were
shinchan 00 I have a fear of human contact ._.
Mayo Really? (Gasps) That's terrible! Oh my gosh, I feel so sorry for you! Here, air kisses! (Blows air kisses at screen)
Wish my parents saw this 27 years ago.
I've come a long way since this post, check out a few of my comments below if you're feeling this comment. It may just help you, its helping me in a drastic way.
Jiboia Jinn atleast u can now be a good parent n show them what did they not
@@pleaseleavemychannel4008 I wish that could be true for everyone... I think I'm a loser parent I as they were
I need help with my mother and her discipline actions it's horrible it literally shuts you down I hate it deeply so now I have Dcf in my life where question comes in is where was Dcf when I was growing up...?
You tube was not made
tum ungli karo mein hat daldunga your parents affect your personality, and it’s often seen that kids who suffered from abusive parents, become abusive parents themselves because they know nothing else
Parents: We’re here for you son, you can tell us anything
Me: (tells them my issue)
Parents: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I felt that
R/Youngpeopleyoutube
😑😑
Me: Gets mad because i'm called son
My Mom: why?
Me, in the closet: 😰
It's sad because most of the people here are children/teens to see what parenting issues caused them to turn out the way they are
sooooooooooooo true 0.0!
Omg. Your comment almost made me cry because I related to it so hard
what about child abuse in a country which doesn't care about child abuse and thinks that its a way to treat their children. because of that i have low self esteem and im afraid to make any decision cause of an inside fear if i do wrong someone will come with a stick to hit me.
Yeah...
Kat Treas same here
Me: mom ur making me sad
Mom:grounded
Someone who feels bad for the child: marries the mom so he can help the child feel better and somehow fixes the mother
Grandpa: have i grounded you because of that
Mom: i i i i (lying)
Grandpa: you need to go to a psychologist while i look aftern your kid
Mom: what makes you think you have rights to my kid dad
Grandpa: i am your dad and i am trying to help you both
Bailujen I wish I could trust my grandparents like that, but no. They are as my parents are. Overprotective
@@theultimatewarlord69420 k
@@bailujen8052 my grandfather is worse than my parents and they are pretty bad so that's saying something
Unfortunately, I grew up going through all that...sigh...😔
and its very harsh to live a life
Inshath Cader Yip.
Same here
X M16 poor you
You’re not the only one. Thanks to my parents, I’m an alcoholic
My mom would say "we didn't raised you that bad! You didn't turn out bad! Some people got it worse!"
Then they're confused why I never called them
I just hate it when my parents are so mean to other people for no reason but in front of their "adult friends" they behave like the best creatures in the world
-_-
MFG IKR
James Redrick ikr its rly upsetting like they wish i died
IK! I HATE IT SO MUCH. LIKE MY PARENTS ARE RUDE TO MY FRIEND'S PARENTS BUT NOT THE SAME TO THEIR FRIENDS
James Redrick my mom is super mean when it's just me and my siblings but when her friends are around she's super nice
James Redrick when my mom's friends are with us she lets me do whatsoever - alone- no freedom
'You could change this' by not making a kid in the first place when you know you won't be able to handle parenthood. Even if they do change there behaviour now then it's too late later than 5000 year old mummies in coffin
Rafia Shemonti I agree with you. Some people are just not fit for parenthood. Their children deserve to be born to other couples.
The dislikes are the angry parents who watches this video.
SO TRUE!
Rania Knave ikr
yup
Rania Knave true
yep
8:15
My mom: collecting my child’s tears so we don’t have to pay the water bill
lolololololololololololololololol
I can realise why iam so depressed. .... If you can show this video to all parents (especially in India) no more kid will go through pain and depression.....
With all due respect my friend, I think it will take a lot more than this video to change lives in India.
I've heard so many horror stories....
Not all parents are like that though...
Followers try living with a chinese family.
Rosiaaa : are you Chinese....??
Followers yup because the main concern of indian parents is what will others say😪😪😪
If i show this to my parents they wont be interested this isnt gonna change anything
My parents are never interested in my school projects or something else 🙍😔🙅
Danny Horror story I feel so bad for you! Try texting about your school projects to yourself. It makes you feel comforted, and like you get to talk about it with someone.
Same here..
I see kids with straight A's and they say their parents congratulate them
When I got straight A's once, my mom threw my grades back at me and went back onto facebook.
Same
Something else to avoid is calling a child a crybaby, I was and have been told that a lot in my life and I find it difficult to find help or cry in front of anyone
The Wolf525 I feel you.
The Wolf525 me too
The Wolf525 I was called a "girl" for crying. Excuse me, a "girl"!?! That's iust wrong on so many levels. I am a male by the way.
*clash with creeper* I can't believe someone would do that, That's ridiculous, Being a girl shouldn't be an insult and you shouldn't be called anything for crying
I was called a crybaby when I was 6/7 and now I’m 13 and I hate crying in front of anyone and if I do, they never notice cause I’ve become good at staying silent
My parents don’t motivate me and think I’m a failure. I’ve never heard.. “ I’m proud of you” “you can do it” “let’s do it together”
I hear it from my mom but no use, not after all of the harm she has already done. I believe that the praise you say means nothing if the harm you have previously done hasnt been fixed
Its sad that my parent got all of these wrong
I hate my life when will it end
i feel you man :((
Same
Same u aint alone 😢
Me too :(
I Literally just want my mum to take my and my brothers away from my dad if she doesn't really want him here. What's the point?
parents: your room is so messy clean it.
what I want to say: well your the one who have me an office for a room get over it.
parents: hey missy why are you so lazy your sister is not even that lazy
what I want to say: why are you always comparing me to my sister is she better.
parents: come talk to me you never talk.
what I want to say: you are the ones who make me feel like I can't tell anyone about my life only reason I have not tried to run is because my friends feel me and thousands of other people I hope my parents see this
Charlie Bales why don't you tell them what you would like to tell them?
Charlie Bales Me too......
Mum&Dad: Sleep Destroyerkiller, You need to get up early, stop playing on the lifeboat server! Your eyes will become blurry!
I want to talk about: You two always watch your phone in the dark, Even we have a sleeping lamp, it is still to dark in the bedroom,
you two even do it every day! Your eyes are even even even more blurrier than once your are in 2001, parents!
Spongey PegasieTM Yeah! If will be a teacher, I will let my students having freedom
Spongey PegasieTM Yes, they think we are too perfect, we always make mistakes in our life , from losing a point from an exam, didn't touch the pool board powerfully in the swimming gala, or even accidentally fall down when in a running competition . Even, some parents like my parents
like to compare me with more [accomplished and better] ones. When hearing (Hey Destroyerkiller, why your friend Pikachu is better in exams
why you are even worse than everybody?)But what my brain thinks (Destroyerkiller, you are the worse one in class!) then I think I will commit suicide! I live in the Eurasian continent, so my mum and dad's [traditional punishment] is 👨🏻🤜🏻👦🏻 (👦🏻=Destroyerkiller) One day, I will Hit my dad when I see him. I want to live in the U.S.A, In the U.S.A., Parents love their kids!!!! You know, I am in Eurasia , Parents dictate them!!!!!
Spongey PegasieTM What?
My biggest problem is being compared to others 😔😔😔
Candy Soto same
Candy Soto yea i, want to cry but god know and god is not compare to other children
I know how you feel I'm on your side we are all diferent
Candy Soto SAME
it happens to all of us kids so ur nit alone
this is so true. i noticed a while ago that my friends, schoolmates who had strict parents have serious issues to stay away from alcohol, be in relatiosnhip etc. meanwhile those who had less strict parents are getting married, having kids and dont have such problems with mental health.
My mom used to organize my underwear drawer for me and rearrange my things because she told me I wasn't doing it the right way, even into my teens and 20s. I am now in my late 40's, and I dislike organizing things and arranging things to this day.
userafw thats caused by ur parents. They probably have ocd when it comes to organization
Retro Gaming Same here. My mom gets angry when my room doesnt fit her standards and it could be compeltely clean and will cry and scream about it if its not her way.
userafw I feel that lol
userafw WOW MY MOM DOES THE SAME
my grades- A, A+, A, A, A+, B+
my mom saw the b and I wasn't allowed to use technology for 3 months
I take all AP classes
Was the B+ in english? Or was it ur blood type
...english....how did you know?
Bastion an old video in 2010 (Asian Dad: B+ Again? (You Die) (this is the title of the video))
lol I watched it quality content right there
Bastion yeah there is always that one teacher that just purposely makes everything complicated my chem teacher was like that and only one i didn't get an A in
This is what my strict parents mostly say/do.( pros and cons)
CONS~
1. They watch everything single move I do
2. They pressure me to do well in school
3. They think I'm tough and can handle things all by myself( I'm sensitive so I have problems dealing with certain things.)
4. They make me feel like I'm the problem in a subject. example: Let's say I got an F. Parents: Skylar! We expect you to get good grades and you do that but this is unacceptable.
Me(on the outside): I'm sorry it will never happen again.
Me(on the inside): Why do you make me feel like a huge failure and disappointment.
5. The common phrase they use " Don't trust adults/strangers!" makes me feel as if I can't receive help from a stranger if I'm hurt in a public place and I can't tell anyone to help me out.
6. When I state my own opinion they think I'm sassing them back, it feels as if I can't say my own opinion as I think it'll come out "rude".
7.When I cry they tell me to stop crying, which made me the person who hides their feelings.( I really don't even smile)
8. They are really nosy. example: If I'm being quiet they ask me this " Are you okay."
I know that they seem to be concerned with me but they say this way too much as if I'm depressed.
PROS~
1. They believe I can accomplish my dreams. example: I want to be a ballerina( I actually do) they support me for that and see no problem with it.
2. Their humor is really corny but it still makes my day better.
3. They're always there for me.
4. They are proud of my accomplishments.
I have 2 other siblings who get it way worse than I do which is even sadder but, over the time you'll learn to forgive them(if they change for the better)
THANK YOU FOR READING THIS! I poured all of my emotions for people to see so hopefully someone can relate to me.
IloveBTS more than anything I don’t smile much but one of my friends smiles a lot
U have decent parents. They have really bad problems but the pros outweigh the cons. My parents are somewhat like that too except 3x worse (at least really only dad)
Nothing outweighs having to hide yourself and be afraid all the time but to each his own...
IloveBTS more than anything Legit my parents (especially my mom) are almost the same way.
My life but without PROS~
I am 21 n still dealing with all of these!
Recipe heaven I'm so sorry (me too btw)
me too
Why do y’all let it happen?
im 29...
You need to run away
I recommended this to my parents and guess what they said
Don't be smart at me
They reason that they're older than me and more experienced in "lIFe"
dang
i feel you bro
BlurryFace203 wow i rly wanna be raised by wolves now more than ever they better parents
0_0 that's messed up
Wow 😳
My parents and sometimes my brother are always comparing me to my brother/themselves, it makes me feel like I'm never good enough, I started to cut for a while but stopped at the end of school
Luck-of-souls my dad always compares me to my friends and himself when he was my age
i want to show this to my parent but im afraid that they might be angry. they wont understand me anyway *sigh*
you can do it man, I believe in you
potaeto bwi Well then I'm going to pray that you do and pray also that your parents understand and love and respect you for it.
Maybe you can say, 'Hey you guy's do you agree or disagree with this video?' good luck
Shell Victory thank u :'))
Xander Norwood thanks :))
Same especially my dad, I can see it now... "what's the vid u sent?" Me:" um well it's a a kind of parenting vid" dad: "a what? I didn't hear u." Then ill have to repeat again me: " a PARENTING vid" I can't even imagine what would happen after that my dad is like next weeks weather, u think something might happen but it's completely different and unpredictable
My mom most of the time: "I've lived longer than you so I know how things work. I know better"
Well then she might know
@@karmen3652 *karen alert*
fire Brawl Stars my kids can’t hear you, they are watching kidz bop.
Mom, Dad, take notes.
Yea Mom and Dad
Eleni MadHatter Haha🤣🤣
Eleni MadHatter that's exactly what I am doing!!! Lol...but seriously...
"If you're still a child, then show this video to your parents, they'll probably change their behavior for the better"
I'M CRYING AHAHAHAHAHAH
GOOD ONE.
Really? Am I the only one who has parents who would just punish and take the things I like away from me because like they say: "If you want respect you have to earn it, look at all of your friends! Don't you see how they obey to their parents? Why do you have to be the worst of your whole class?"
Like yeah, sure, I play a lot of sports (even tho I don't like them), I get really good grades, I'm basically the best kid in math, english and art in the whole school (I'm not kidding, they gave me two medals for this) and it's still not enough. I have to be the best in everything just because my parents don't understand that even tho I'm still 12 I have a social life. I have friends and people I care about, but no, WHO CARES ABOUT THEM, let's just study and play horrible sports for the whole day until I get so frustrated I want to commit suicide! Yeah! Best life EVER!
Sorry if my english is bad and sorry for just wasting your time with my problems, I just thought for once I could write them somewhere.
Undyla - Chan
Oh I'm sorry your parents are like that if I were you I would at least try to talk with them or someone about it
Undyla - Chan
Suicide... I couldn't have said it better. I'm an adult but as a kid, specifically your age, I was very depressed. My parents were treating me like I was a dumbfuck. I needed my independence. In my entire life, I have attempted suicide only once, but they never found out. No one did. They were out shopping and I had enough time to get rid of the blood and make it stop bleeding. I even put a bandaid on it so they would think I cut myself accidentally. That scar is long gone now, but the scar in my heart is not healing. They damaged it throughout my teenage years, and made the scar in my heart grow. When they grounded me, they used such words such as, "Shut up or I will show you what hurts." They were relentless. They had no concern on my feelings or my opinions, to the point if I told them my opinion on something, they would start raving and ranting. I had no defense. I was feeling abandoned. They started not trusting me, so when I said something, they thought I was lying, so they punished me instead of my brother. That started making me suicidal. I hadn't talked to them in years now. They left me for dead when I was going to college. They wanted me out. Now, I'm a senior in college doing more years for better job opportunities, around the world, or the country. They still haven't contacted me in a long time. They must have really wanted me out of their place. At least now I'm getting my independence, but it's too late. My childhood is nothing but a blank page. Would they cry if I died? That's the real question. I may never know. Thank you for your time reading all this. It contains a lot of my true thoughts. Elsewhere, I may seem happy and calm, but I am not. That is just my shield. I didn't bring it with me to type all this. Peace.
Eh if I ever show this to my parent I'll probably get a lecture. My whole family just attacked me with words all the time. I felt almost everything on the list and just great. I break down a lot and cry nowadays when I face little problems as I'm stressed
If I showed to my parents they would say they already are perfect.
That don't explain my depression.
Wow. Are you sure you and I don't have the same parents? Like, wow. Mine are exactly the same!
I’m 17 and I have all these problems, so it’s probably a little too late for my parents to change their behaviour...
According to my parents only autistic people can get depressed and have those issues described in this video. they really are that narrow minded autistic people are either smart or really dumb it has nothing to do with emotions
fluffy mcfluff any child can have these problems it's not a matter whether they have a different or not
Yeah, same, and I'm 12.
Ayesha Nayak you can change and look for loving caring adult around you please!
A. Kid with autism bullies me
The government should make a law saying that parenting requires a license, because children are precious, like if you agree with me!
Welp no humans anymore
So are parents
@@karmen3652 I understand, I think that people should only parent if they have the mental capacity, and just because something's a two way thing doesn't mean we should treat it like a two way thing.
@@calumbrooknicolson yeah i agree with that. some parents are not fit to raise kids. some parents are amazing at parenting who need to be more appreciated.
@@karmen3652 I think licensed parenting would keep people safe, like licensed driving and motorcycle riding would keep people safe.
A kid that has a speech/language problem, telling them to, "Use your words!" Is so harmful. Both me and my little brother has speech impediments, thankfully I stepped in and helped my brother before my parents could do harm like they did with me 😔
If your kid has trouble speaking, sound out the word for them. Get down to their level. If they've already started taking speech lessons, have them focus on your mouth and the parent say the word slowly.
Telling them to use their words, they don't know how. And it's incredibly frustrating to be told to more or less speak right when you can't xc
I have a really bad speech and grammar issue xP
But my parents aren't great in English either, my sister hates me
Well yeah, but getting down to someone else's speech level has always seemed sort of degrading to me. IDK why, it just seems like it.
The most often words i heard from my parents are:-
Failure
Dog
Hope your dead
UR not anything
Last
See your sisters grades
ya at the thing i hear most from my parents is no one wants you here :(
Omg!!!
harshit .funny if u need to talk I'm there
harshit .funny I feel kinda bad
You have horrible parents.
My parents almost do all of these, mostly my mom.
Sad.
No wonder why I hate other women.
You're just like me. No different.
Great Value Bleach me too
Great Value Bleach
Its okay i kmow the feeling but for me its my dad who is bad to me and my mom, idk why but he loves by brother so much that he lets him do whatever he wants, and i have to do everything my dad says Even if im super busy like doing homework or even late for school.
Same
Same but it is my dad and step-dad
My parents: „why wont you talk and open up to us“ „why do you stay in your room all the time“ also my parents:
I like how my Mom gets all mad when I show any form of discontent at being made to do chores (which is usually just a quiet sigh) and goes on this intense tangent of “YOUR FATHER AND I PROVIDE YOUR FOOD, SHELTER, CLOTHING - WE PAY FOR YOUR SCHOOL AND GAS!..”
But the thing is, I was almost never made to do any chores when I was younger, so of course I’m going to show mild discontent at being made to vacuum the bathroom floor at a moment’s notice. Also, calm down, all I did was exhale.
Sierra Long SAME
This is so relatable, my parents never taught me to do chores when I was younger, and I was always compared as well
Show respect , it's earned not given .
Sierra Long I was a failure I still don't do anything bcz I have ld my parents say me don't do anything sit n eat whole life but when I ask money they say see other kids earning n giving to parents .so it's just like that u have to raise voice n be independent
Same
it would be the end of me if I showed this to my dad.
gravityphanschronicals same
gravityphanschronicals UGH same
gravity vs the forces of evil same
Same
iamatschoolrn OMG!! That’s what I look forward to, too! Can’t wait until I move out!
Thank god that bright side made thia video at least the young generation who watched thia video now knows what type of parent they "should not be" in their future. and it will somehow stop this cycle of being these kind of parents😊😊
Whiterun Guard They always can rewatch it or remember it when they actually have kids
With technology we could actually break this cycle. Adults never understand that the next generations behaviour depends on their parenting skills.
Chetna Chauhan True
Grammar
Chetna Chauhan yes
My parents do every one of these I feel like stabbing myself 😭😭
Muffin Time been there!
Don't hurt yourself at all man stay strong you will get through this
@@Kenroy_Tatoute I can't stand it anymore, I am almost 15 and they do everything on this list. I am trying to not cry.
@@gruyce3448 You can cry let it all out if you need to and this not going to last forever you just have to stay strong do things that make you happy and keep your head up. I'm wishing the best for you
Somehow your name and profile picture is now very fitting.
Dont worry about me, Im just a 12 year old checking if my parents raised me right
Shahnaz Sardinha same
Same
Same.
Well, I'm actually 13 but that's close enough.
15 and so far I have serious trust issues, let's see I'm sometimes depressed, I bottle all my feelings inside, no one knows about my life at home because I never tell anyone because I'm scared of what they'll think, I come to school being all happy and joyful but once I come home it all changes, and my parents don't realize what their parenting has done to me...
I sure do wonder if they raised me right
...I can't believe it...
My parents wanted the perfect child. They treated me like piece of ****. Before, I wouldn't even dare to raise my voice, now, I can yell and curse near them. They raised me like this. They hurt me. When I looked upset they would just say "Don't embarrass ourselves in front of them!" It began when I was 7 or eight. Because of those… I had depression when I was 12 for a very long time and was even suicidal, though, I'm still alive. They tell me how they were so "goody good" when they were the same age as me. They say I'm a horrible daughter. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke and I don't drink alcohol. Sometimes, I just have the thoughts of getting "revenge" and showing them my »bad side« (like doing drugs in front of them).
Rocky-Lu Channel for me it was pretty much the same only difference is I'm a boy
Make your child's life a happy one so they will grow up happy and loving people.
Cool Breeze i wish
Viprolox _YT I understand...me too. I didn't have that experience w my mother and crazy step father!
If i show this to my mom and dad.. they'll say "You're so dramatic!! 😂" and laugh. Or "So me and your dad are your problems!??" And get mad. So.. i won't show them because it makes me more sad.. 😢
No use maybe
We can't always change everything We want. It feels sad to see them sad too.
Ain't it?
Yeah same
Exactly
My mom and dad say that I am “WAY TO DRAMATIC”
Yeah.
I feel like the 100 people who dislike this are parents who actually do that :/
Paladin Aru ikr XD
if I showed this to my parents I would get grounded for life because I'm telling them they are bad parents and I don't like them or something and they are my parents so they treat me how I want
Presto Studios same..
I feel u
same :'(
Same:.(..Still don't forget to #celebratelife🆑⚾️
back in my day, this 🖕🏻 was the only thumbs up those parents got
My mom needs to watch this video. Ever since my 11 birthday she's been acting like she hates me. I wish I didn't have to go to her house
Panic!at the Chemical romance Yeah I know how you feel even tho my Mom left me when I was 13 months old
my mom has been 2X worse ever since I turned 12 :c
well i would wish that i didnt have them as my *parents*
Elroy the Dumbest I’m so sorry!
grace Same. My friends parents are amazing. Bad luck I guess.