8 Lessons You Should Avoid Teaching Children
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- Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
- How to Raise Kids. Some parents can’t stop worrying that they’re gonna mess it up or that their kid’s gonna have it tough. According to some statistics, though, most parents are confident in their skills. However, parents often teach their kids the wrong lessons that influence them in the worst way. We’ve checked with the best psychologists to come up with a list of 8 bad lessons a lot of parents unknowingly teach their kids. We’ve also provided some healthy alternatives that’ll help you raise your kids to become strong, confident, and self-sufficient adults.
TIMESTAMPS
Bad Lesson #1: Snitching is wrong. 1:02
Bad Lesson #2: Children shouldn’t express their negative emotions. 2:27
Bad Lesson #3: You should try to make people like you. 4:38
Bad Lesson #4: Get good grades or you’ll never get a good job. 6:14
Bad Lesson #5: “Always the best for my baby!” 8:03
Bad Lesson #6: Making a mistake means losing something. 10:13
Bad Lesson #7: Children should never be idle. 12:44
Bad Lesson #8: Children must always share their toys. 14:09
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SUMMARY
-Parents should teach their kids to talk openly about unfair or difficult situations and be patient if some of the stories they tell don’t really seem like a big deal through the eyes of an adult.
-Encourage your child to express their feelings in a safe way.
-A child should not have to sacrifice their own interests and goals to please others, and they shouldn’t let anyone force them to do something they don’t want to do.
-Tell your child to work hard to gain knowledge, but don’t wrap themselves up in good grades.
-Financially responsible parents make great role models for their children, who learn the value of money and use it as a tool, not as entertainment.
-Honest mistakes don’t need to be punished. If your child gets a bad grade or flunks a test, that might mean they just need help with a tough subject.
-Many psychologists claim that children won’t learn to rely on themselves if their parents don’t give them some alone time. Provide them with toys, books, and other activities, but let your child choose how to entertain themselves.
-Encourage your children to share their toys while instilling in them a sense of fairness. If another child wants to borrow the ball they’re playing with, it’s reasonable for the kids to play with that ball together.
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TIMESTAMPS
Bad Lesson #1: Snitching is wrong. 1:02
Bad Lesson #2: Children shouldn’t express their negative emotions. 2:27
Bad Lesson #3: You should try to make people like you. 4:38
Bad Lesson #4: Get good grades or you’ll never get a good job. 6:14
Bad Lesson #5: “Always the best for my baby!” 8:03
Bad Lesson #6: Making a mistake means losing something. 10:13
Bad Lesson #7: Children should never be idle. 12:44
Bad Lesson #8: Children must always share their toys. 14:09
My mom does most of them
jyothsna samala O
BRIGHT SIDE once I was at a water park this boy wanted the ball and I gave it to him my mom gave me a compliment me
oml my mom does all of these XD
BRIGHT SIDE is the best
Who not a parent but still watching
Me.
me
Ayriel's World me lol
Ayriel's World I am on my mum's account but I do not have kids because I am a kid myself. 10 years old.
me, but I have a Goddaughter so still helpful.
I'm a kid and just watching to see how much my parents failed me
they taught me most of these bad lessons....
I am also an adolescent human let us conferce
Yeah
Same
@@cheryl9228 same
@@cheryl9228 hi im arabic lol
i was so used to being told to please others that
when i was in first grade i didnt even have my own opinions anymore
Same
Me now an Indecisive person
You had an opinoun once in your life luckyyyyy
same but i was a people pleaser from kindergarden to secound grade
also in kindergarden i let myself get bullied by a group of girls that i called my "friends" back then
Yeah same
This is how my parents treated me most of my life:
- Compared me to professionals and people who are better than me
- Never let me get away with a lot of things
- Treated me different from my younger siblings
- Made me help my siblings more just because I was taller than them
- Never allowed privacy
- Made me feel like I was never the way they wanted me to be
Same
I WANT TO BE FREE
Same...
same but more privacy
Same I have no privacy at all.....
man i feel bad because thats the exact things i went through
Here's another one don't "compare children" am I right
Edit:thank you all for likes y'all are so nice. Also I guess we all have this problem😅😅
I know it is annoying
Ye
smug assassin yeah, they would always compare me 😒😒
Sooo true 😭
I mean like dude it's a different story
Me: *tells the truth*
My parents: “Stop lying”
Me: ...
This happens to my sister, it used to be funny but now it's just sad, I'm gonna show them this video, I will edit when they have told me
@OLIVIA VALENTIN same
Lol Lol so what happend
Ikr
Relatable. Also, is "I don't know" an answer to why questions? Because my dad says it isn't 😢
As a single father of three boys , I was totally in shock after watching this video ! I also showed this to my son's school psychologist and she was also in a state of shock !
Are you saying this true or not
@@ursamajor6727 i think it’s true
My pediatrician was Dr. Rosenberg 🤔
Who cares
Why?
My mom always tells me to communicate, but communicating is like exercising for me cause I'm an introvert
as a kid, i always did stuff so my dad didn't get mad, or sad. it was all about that. even lying so he didn't get disappointed.
Me too especially lying so I didn't get yelled at or punished.
that's the reason why i am superstitious on honesty
Me to but I am teenager and only live with by dad
Same, but with my mom
same
Parent: *yells at kid*
Kid: *crys*
Parent: “WHY ARE YOU CRYING?!”
😒
😑😑😑
My mom told me it was rude to cry so I don't
:o
My
My mom sometimes gets mad at me when I cry sometimes she is nice and cheers me up
My parents always yell at me if my school teacher tries to talk about my bad behaviors at school.
Then don't behave badly at school.
I feel guilty every time I remember my childhood because I lied so much wanting to please my dad...
Yep, the parents suppress their children’s feelings too much.
Duh they only care about getting money from you when you have a real job. And if you dont they just have another baby
Same
Its bc parents have more power so If we talk back to defend our self they get angry so end up hitting us and I have taught myself to hold my tears so just go to my room to cry myself out
Continue being righteous. Be kind and respect others. But also learn how to protect yourself by avoiding bad things.
True
This video makes me proud of myself. I don't have kids, I'm only 17, but I teach kids around me these lessons the right way. It makes me feel amazing that I've been doing right these past 5 years.
Excellent 😊
Past 5 years?!! Woah!
And you will make a good parent
You'll make a good parent
angela deleon yes you definitely will be a wonderful parent so keep doing what you are doing😊👍
My mom taught me to do all of this, therefore i was the weird kid at school
1:55 my dad saw me crying and has a problem he ask "why are you crying?" I said nothing and it looks like he doesn't cared🙁
Did he say it forceful or actaully in a asking way?
Of course he wouldn’t with that grammar, toughen up wussy
@@-_prankster104kogama_-3 I remembered my mom told me to get out of her house cause I cried... She literally kicked me out of the house and left me traumatised 😔
@@gamepixel5904 Wow you can only express emotion with the correct grammar.
Also you're one to talk, not using punctuation at the end of their sentences, one of the first things they teach you to do when writing at school!
@@zeezeecupidz Aahhh armyyyy purple you 💜💛
Im a young parent my son is 4 and this actually was a huge eye opener for me and makes alot of sense
Irvin Perez I’m a kid and my Aunty is mean and my mom and dad are in California
finally a parent that actually listens
I wish my mom had taught me this stuff. It's a bit too late now though. I'm over 12.
Lucky son
Atleast u have accpetance. parents don't even accept instead blame me for whatever goes wrong in d house even if the fault is theirs. Every child deserves some parent lyk u.
I'm over here crying because a lot of the psychological issues I have stems from 95% of these bad parenting skills. Thank you for opening my eyes.
They might change?
Rude mind
How about you try my way..
I know it's hard to speak the truth to our parents
But maybe by writing it in somewhere like your diary or you can talk to someone that you trust
The last thing, I know it seems weak, but crying might help you out
@Mindfulness Organics rude much
@Mindfulness Organics well you never know how the world is??
Single dad with a 6-year-old. Although I think I'm doing a great job, I know there's so much to learn. This video encouraged me to reassess and focus on those things that's just slip by you.
Parents: *yelling at kids*
Kids: *cries*
Also parents: WHY ARE YOU CRYING?!? 🙄
Me: disagrees with mother
Mother: STOP ARGUING WITH ME IM RIGHT
Yup
I thought I was alone
Yup
Also mother: 2+2=5
Facts
Parents need to teach their children that mistakes are okay otherwise the children will become perfectionist.
That’s what happened to me. I am still a perfectionist even in my adulthood.
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Joaquin Sanchez you are an awesome person! All people have equal value regardless of if it's a homeless person or the president, we are all the same. You are worthy and deserve to feel good about yourself.
I'm a perfectionist because I used to be abused for a lot of petty stuff. I'd developed a lot of disorders like PTSD, but I always try to keep myself positive and happy. I want to help everyone out too.
That is what happened to me. I am 17, and my parents always put pressure on me. Especially in school. I want to be a musician, and I also get super nervous for auditions and performances because I want things to be perfect. You can thank my strict, overprotective parents for that. #firstgenerationmusician
I’m a divorced, mother of two. I only see them 1/2 the time so I try to do my best to get them what they like. Especially if it is something they are collecting like books etc.
I’m in tears, and guilty of some bad decisions I’ve made. However, I would never send my child to bed without eating. Since my daughters passing, my only child, I tend to want to please my grandchildren and I’m guilty of taking away their phone or can’t play outside. It breaks my heart to see the wrong I’ve done. I’m going to work on me so I can be better. Thank you for sharing and the lesson. 😞
Child : I failed a test, sorry:(
Mother: At least you get an A for Effort ;)
Child : Thanks :)
"an A for Effort" what-
Aww!
Wish this was true. Even tho i usually get high marks, like 19/20, my mom is like why did u get this? Be better!
If only
Yes, this might be sweet, but do this too much and the kid will step on your head
me: tells the truth
my parents: angry yelling
me: wants to live with no problem
relatable
Same
So relatable
Does bright side not know we kids tell the truth and then what happens
Same
If your parent says DONT CRY when your crying it makes you more sad because they don't care about what happened and they don't want to hear it
This gives me a lot of lessons. This made me say sorry to my 4 year old toddler tonight and hugged her again and again tightly while sleeping. There are some things I'm doing it wrongly. This is an eye opener for me. wew! thanks bright side.
I wish my parents and my teacher knew this stuff
I think I related to all of these
Same.....
Me too
Same as a 6 year old I was shouted at every day for no reason at school and my mum used to slap me for doing something by accident
I do too
Adding on to #8, if the child buys it with their own money, it’s theirs, they do not have to share
if its a toddler and wants to borrow your $250 Nintendo Switch (Lets say) then breaks it, the parents will do nothing. you will just save again back to $250 Switch
my parents said if u live in this house its mine so i can take it away but if u live in ur own house then u keep it its urs like i bought it i-
@@Riya-zm7td i use to hear that line when i was growing up and it's getting old now and outdated
@@Riya-zm7td by that logic tho... Its wrong either way. Cuz they created us.
Yes when I get birthday or Christmas money and buy things like chips or candy they force me to share
Today at school I got bullied from a child called Faye and she upset me I cried 😭
Also you should include excuses for younger siblings like "He's only 4!" or "You're 12, be responsible!" These excuses are extremely toxic and all they teach to kids is that younger siblings get away with everything.
For real. Sometimes parents expect the big siblings to be perfect when they’re just human themselves. There have been moments when my older sister was accused too much for how we acted (she’s the oldest) and being a middle child I would sometimes get too much blame about the example I was setting for my little sister. Though my parents have been fair to me on the whole.
Kids are our mirror. What we do reflect how kids behave.
Eh, you could be perfect and your kid would still make a ton of bad decisions.
Air Elegant yes yea yes
Well said
That's something I don't think my sister understands. Her first son acts just like her when she was his age. And she was a total brat! How does she fix it? By yelling...
Bax xtab If you're perfect in parenting, they'll be perfect in life. Sure, they'll have their own personality but they'll be the best they can be. Don't underestimate the power of parenting.
I think one thing parents shouldn’t do is force their children to hug or kiss people they don’t want to. They should be respectful, polite to them, but to teach consent at an early age is what I think should be done in this little way.
Excellent thought. You are so right. There may be good reason they don't want physical contact. Never be afraid to ask your child, "Does it make you uncomfortable to hug Aunt Greta?" Give them time. They will open up.
Also, children should be made known that it is their body and no one is allowed to touch them unless they are comfortable with the situation.
Hugging family members is expected
Because ordering a kid to make physical contact when they don't want to could yield some very, very bad results.....
Bax xtab Kids should be expected to be respectful to family members not hug. It sounds extreme but many kids who are sexually abused don’t see it as abnormal because they think their family members are allowed to have physical contact with their bodies behind their control
Tana Ngo Then teach them the difference? I don't see the problem with telling your child to hug their grandma.
As I was listening I looked back on my childhood and you literally hit every nail on the head I am so grateful I was able to teach my children different than what I learned
Me: tries to tell my dad what happened My dad: screams over what I say right when I try to say it
This video gave me anxiety. I remember a few of those bad lessons my parents used, especially when my dad would tell me and my brother that we weren't allowed to be mad at them cause we were the kids. And now I'm a parent. I started crying earlier because I snapped at my daughter for something that wasn't even that bad. Of course I hugged her tight and apologized for it. But it is definitely tough trying to raise them right, I don't really know how to do everything the right way.
It's good that you apologized. Many parents just flat out deny that they did any wrong.
I commend you for apologizing to your daughter for being angry with her. I wish my parents had done that for me when growing up. It sounds like you're a loving, responsible parent who is just trying to do the right thing by your children. And that is truly awesome! Not a lot of parents these days own up to and admit that they make mistakes. We are all human, we are far from perfect and we will all make mistakes at one point or another. Letting your kids know that we're all human is the first, huge step in helping them to become confident and responsible adults one day. I truly wish more parents were like that! Just know that you're doing the best possible job you can. Parenting is far from easy. There's no manual or easy button, although I know all parents wish there was, lol! All you can do is your best, and when you do your best, that IS good enough! 🤗😊
Just know you're not on your own
you are not alone there really isnt a perfect parent out there parenting is hard still learning everydau
Schools sucks
Don't tell a child they are perfect all the time! We need to understand our mistakes and learn from them.
but they are.
Michael Jay - Value Investing H
Please help me reach 1000 subs 😢 i do make funny videos
Michael Jay - Value Investing yep it's good you remember them
Tor Adejola same
when i found out i was abused the whole time..
I wish I was treated like this! I’m an education major so I teach these lessons to other kids. All these information actually makes perfect sense to me!
Same
"they shouldn't let anyone force them to do something they don't want to do"
yeah... school
I feel your pain bud
Agree
i liked my old private school, but they forced me to go to public. I missed my old classmates :(
@@combatsjunklist6853 you poor soul :(
@Clayton Blakely there’s a thing on google that explains how homework is basically illegal (since it’s kinda slavery)
My Mom: “Because I said so!” “I know everything!”
“Nothing is not an answer!”
Me: “You need to stop saying that stuff, it’s making my self esteem and self confidence go down.”
Most moms : don't talk back to me you live in my house yada yada yada .....
You know the drill
Yet they wonder why you don't express your emotions to them
Mom: Dont talk back! Its disrespectful! I am the parent you are the child! I have the rights while you have no rights!
@JAZMIN MORENO-ALEMAN yeah my dad hits me too when i cry.. he thinks im faking it to "manipulate him into forgiving me" but hes just screaming and hitting so much how can i not cry what-
@@Cereal0606 everyone has human rights, even 1-year-olds.
BRIGHT SIDE: **makes the video for parents**
Children who have 19 years to get a wife and be married and have children: write that down, WRITE THAT DOWN.
that would make them negative 19
@@NinjaXavier2 smort
I just do the opposite of what my parents did.....
Be there for my kid
ShiftingGear OTP
Me, too. I’ll be there emotionally, and physically.
Awww, I'm sorry❤️ I mean, at least u had parents...I'm in foster care
Oof i feel bad for you i will like as prayer
@Jade Isla what happened
BRUH GIVE HIM LIKEES >:c
I'm 13 and i want to be a parent so thx for this i will try to remember in 10 years
Remember
I have anger issues and I thought I was my fault and after I watched this video I felt better about myself lol.
The "STOP CRYING!" Always makes me cry MORE! Thanks for this video, my mom does all of these
ikr
Or the classic "I'll give you something to cry about "always lead to more crying
Same
Yea one of my parents (not naming which one) said: STOP CRYING! In a loud, angry voice. And that made me even more sad because I thought: “Is crying bad?”
Same...
Around last year, my family from Ireland came to stay at ours for 2 days & brought his 3 kids with him. Whilst they were here the woman staying at ours literally told my 11 year cousin to move OFF the sofa so she can have that seat (she's not disabled or old). & I just looked at her & just said that he had just as much of a right to sit there as she does & that if she wanted a chair to sit on she'll have to get another chair by the table. I'm sick of people treating kids like they can just order them around for their own benefit.
emolgachu 37 And people wonder why they call us Rude Americans.
Children should give up their seats for adults though. It teaches them to be kind to elders
Bax xtab No they shouldn't, not unless they're very old, disabled (like back problem or struggle to stand up for long) & when a woman is heavily pregnant. Otherwise why should you move if you're already sat at that seat? Ordering kids like that turns them into pushovers & not knowing when to say no, trust me, I'm that kid 😕
emolgachu 37 It teaches the kid respect. So a 40 year old should sit on the floor while a 10 year old sits on the couch? That's how you raise entitled brats.
Bax xtab I agree about teaching kids to respect, but what about respect in return? Respect has got to be earned. It's not just a one way street, despite how old you are.
The best thing you can do to raise a child, is to respect the child as an individual, and never expect a child to know better. Anything a child says or does, look for an innocent reason behind it.
I'm 19 years old & ngl I have emotional issues sometimes & it's hard to tell my dad most of the time & it doesn't help when he yells
When I was little, i was always told to hide my negative emotions until i was alone. Therefore in results in me having trust issues when it comes to talking about my personal feelings.
Same.
Same experience I had when I was a kid.
If only you could look at stuff from out point of view, you'd see how many mean things we've been called by parents.
I just want to have a kid to show my parents that u can raise a kid with out constantly yelling at them and degrading them ! This totally ruins the relation !
Agreed
Same
Why, you should stand up for yourself. I’m a kid and I did it. It works veeeeeery well.
I am a child and I have been watching your videos since 2weeks and the bad lesson #6 broke my heart. It touched my emotion .
Great video!, I suggest to add that the original approaches are the ones that have been passed on throughout the years. Thankfully, we’re at a time where they may no longer be relevant thanks to our study and understanding of behavioral psychology. Sharing the information is great, but incomplete without an analysis of where the prior way stems from, in doing so people being informed won’t grow grudges because they can’t comprehend “why” their parents disciplined them this way.
I wish my mom never would say " stop making a scene!! " when i cry , i just wanna cry more..
I cannot & never could stand someone telling me something like this! Whether it was my Mom..Dad..Fiance' or Husband.
I always felt invalidated with my feelings.
Now I have grown up so to speak & I speak my mind..transparency..honesty..with my feelings & words. I have so much to give & so little time..it is so short that I do not waste it on B.S. anymore
We are not guaranteed tomorrow....
...so we should make the best of every day..as it comes & be grateful
@Rubi Selwyn stop what?
Me too
@Taing Sovannpanha ye
Parents please I am just sad why can‘t I express it
When I was a child, I felt I was too self-reliant, my parents had already so much past neglecting me, so I became very independent.
Jeriel Kwok
Nevi s child Called Ashley and Carrie
i'm a bigger sis here trying to help understand my small sister.After watching this I feel like I need alot of improvement
This is sooo great..I'm going to listen again and write notes ..I love kids. .I'm just a young girl.a teacher hoping to give kids a great experience
It pisses me off when parents send there kids to bed hungry, its a form deprivation
Harbringer that is abuse if someone does that.
Mel B, Thats a common punishment
@@MelB868 my parents do snacks about 2 hours after each meal so if we dont behave she takes some away.
For the most part I agree that sending a child to bed hungry is not a suitable punishment, but I do believe in one exception, being when the child is being a picky eater. In this case it is less of a punishment and more of a natural consequence. In this case, it is entirely on the child whether or not they go to bed hungry. If they truly don't want to eat what is in front of them, they don't have to eat it, but they'll have deal with being hungry. At any point they can choose to eat what they've been given, but they won't be offered anything else until the next scheduled meal time. I'm not a parent, but I have been a nanny and the tactic works. If a 3 year old refuses to finish her lunch but then asks for a snack an hour later, I presented her with what remained of her lunch, which I would have saved in the fridge. I think a major bad lesson is teaching kids that if they won't eat their broccoli they will be rewarded with mac'n'cheese.
Medieval
This video is such a blessing.
All of these bad lessons was thought to my ex husband, which resulted in him turning into a Narcissistic Abuser and criminal.
I sent this video to pre- schools and all secondary schools in Trinidad and Tobago.
Thank you
If they didn't know-
Now they know !!!
I'm much obliged, this video has helped me become more aware of my mistakes in parenting to my daughter. Very informative and helpful, much appreciated.
My mom teaches me that I have to feel bad and care when she’s upset no matter what or she’ll be more upset and call me selfish
Holy gaslighting
Everything here I was taught. When I became a brat in my youth my parents wondered why I became that. Bad teachings create bad children.
John Brett same :(
I am parent of a 3 year old boy and I am grateful for watching this video at an early stage THANK YOU much needed!
I am also on my spiritual awaking ❤️ If you are reading this Know that You are loved and you deserve everything your soul desires and know that you will get it.. let those negative thoughts go ❤️ they are not you . They only want to control you with fear, DONT let them!
Is this the only adult that I can find in this whole comment section
@@efficiencyboy2458 lol
I'm so glad a parent watched this because from my life and this comment section it seems like most parents teach these bad lessons so much. I'm only 14 but I've always known I am gonna be a mother, and I want to have all the knowledge I can about what's the best way to parent before I grow up and have a child. You're definitely on the right track and I'm confident that your child will turn out amazing! :)
This is such an eye opening video. Thank you! I am always willing to learn how to be the best dad I can be.
i am so lucky my parents say its ok when i break things and if i fail on my test they say its ok too they love me so much
My parents will just straight get angry at me when I do those things
They don't love me that much
Same
Oh um cool
This is the most important lesson everybody needs to learn. When I was growing up, I got scolded and punished too much. It didn’t improve my situation neither did the spankings. Yelling and hitting a child during aggression could be severe very horrible. I know this for a fact because I’ve been through this. When I have kids, things are going to be different
Have you ever wonder WHY they Don'T teach How to be a good parent at school....???? Fortunatly Bright Side is there... THANKS
I think it is a good comment
That's one good thing I have is confidence in the schools here CT for my children I've had to move here by force so I've made a way but is it too much in guessing? Hopefully not.
Jérôme Carrier appreciate it
Actually public schools teach what those who are in control of the money want public citizens to learn in order to stay in control.
Where would they teach it ? high school ? If you teach in high school, by the time they actually become parents they would have forgotten it all.
I am terrified to "snitch" even when someone does something I know I should really tell somebody about.
This video was intersting to watch, it practically highlighted the problems I have as an adult from what terrors I faced as a child
My parents always tell me that they had a bad childhood and that I shoud be happy that I have what I have... But the point is that the things I have, they are not completly mine... Because I cant use those things when i do something wrong... Also when I want to tell my parents what bothers me when they yell at me and punis me, they just dont care!!! They say Im the bad and wrong person In my family!!!
Aww, I'm sorry❤️ how old r u? I don't really have a relationship with my "parents" because we just met, I'm in foster care btw
Why is this so relatable
Ik how you feel
@@jadeisla5421 Hey! Im also sorry for your situation with parents. you didnt have your family days and I think that everybody should have those days.. I bet it was realy hard to meet your parents for the first time. Im 14 now, and things are still not better. in what situation are you now? How are your parents? were you happy when you met them? (Im sorry for my bad english)
@@techd7387 oh cool, I'm 13, my mom, I had lived with before...she just was never fully there bc all of the dugs she did, and I haven't met my dad since I was little, because he's in jail now, I'm in a foster home now, I'm doin ok, kinda sad tbh, and I have contact with my mom, and also thx for asking
I identify a lot with #2. When I was little, I was constantly yelled at by adults at home and school whenever I began tearing up, them saying I was acting like a baby or spoiled brat, or that I had only myself to blame for my problems. This caused me to forcefully plug up my tear ducts, and also led me in later years to make fun of other kids in school who were crying, which obviously didn't turn out for the best. Only recently did I start to accept that sadness and crying is a natural human emotion, not just for babies.
That's so right. I'm touched.
Wow.. mkay very smart lol
Right crying is not just for babies
@1717Dave . . . ALL EMOTIONS are part of human nature. No need for shame.
How am i going to express my feelings, mom doesn't understand, and i showed her this. What do I do?
As a 13 year old, I have been going through all of that. But will my parents watch and react to all this? I don't think so!
This video is important because there are perfectly fine individuals that won't think this way at all, and that's what makes the information so golden.
*Points at car picture*
_"You already have a bear. We're not buying this one."_
drive
CAR?
@@NotnormLOL RUclips veteran
I'm so freaking speechless abt ur mom.....
@@jdhrje He is talking about Mother in the video
I'm just terrified by parents who just let their kids stay on the phone at the age of 2. Makes me cringe.
Harshil Patel what do you mean
SO ME!😂😂😂
Same here. My neighbour is seven, has devorsed parents, a bunk bed, two bedrooms, two phones, a tablet and a computer. I tend to avoid her, not only beacause of that, I'm just kind of scared of children.. XD
Berry Allen MEEEE 😂😂😂
I dont see it as bad. They are the generation that will grow up with vast amounts of high tech which will be used in education and in the workplace. Thats actually good that they learn that at an early age.
With the first one: I was taught that it's only wrong if it doesn't hurt anyone. So for example, snitching that someone ate a gummy bear off the ground is wrong, but saying that someone hit you is not wrong. I like that and I don't understand why that would be wrong.
Just found out I’m expecting and it’s so interesting seeing how parents forget they were once children. It’s possible to heal from toxic parents but why put your children through that? You should always want better for your child than what you had and for them to succeed in different ways. Being able to express emotions is one of my biggest things I want to instill into my baby, and also to not people please
One time my sister came to my parents saying that she was bored, and they said she was spoiled. Even I was offended. They give her all of these electronics, and then they claim she’s spoiled. Um, who’s doing the spoiling?
She just wants them to spend time with her that is all.
Mel B
I know, and they couldn’t. They never had enough time to hang with us. They did it, but it wasn’t enough.
Weird parents
WHAT MAKES PARENTS SO ANNOYING?????!
3:40
Have you met my little brother? He doesn't stay, he runs away. He isn't even a baby anymore. He drives me crazy.
My younger sister will actually scream for no reason or tell me to pinch or hurt her so I'll get blamed on 🤠
So even if I taught her this, she'll never be able to get it inside her non-existent brain 😃
mine one's brother's the same.
when my arm hurt:
my parent: its your elstrontic..,
me: no its not its a rock
who's not a parent but still watches because it's interesting
This is so right no parent should do any of those to there child/children I'm a kid by the way 😡
Same
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Same
Me too, im a kid oof
grrrrr sMe
Always be fair to kids someday they will pass it on to there own
1:47 this is so true. I am 12, and few weeks ago I cried at school in front of all my classmates and my substitute teacher, because a student seated in front of me(who is my friend who likes teasing) I was writing something personal in my diary and she took it away from me and started reading it loudly. I felt overwhelmed at that moment and bursted out in tears. But none of my family members know about it. I feared that I will be a scolded that I am weak.But if I tell them about this, they will take it lightly.
as a single father myself, sometimes I find it difficult to contain my own emotions when you cannot reason with the kids because they simply wouldn't understand and even wronged you.
Wow. That explains why I am the way I am.
Parents, step up ya game. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD!!!!
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Diamond Bunnie
@@Jbjbbibi what does
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@@devonoknabo2582 long story: depends on just _what_ you "communicate".
Ya man
3:22
Okay he just broke his hockey stick why are u gonna yell at hin
@@george_bungot шhу
but there are parents like yelling at their children just for sneezing in front of some important respected persons
@@george_bungot thats toxic
@@janellewright3830 what did he say?
that's honestly makes me cry..i'm not ok..bye
I'm here and early my daughter is 9 months just trying to avoid the mistakes my dad made and be a better father
Well I'm a kid and I wanna show this to my parents even my grandmother. She's sometimes like this.. 😓
Same (expect for grandmother)but...I'm scared my mom will misunderstood then she'll be mad
@@angelaassain9450 Me too
If I showed this to my mother I would be set up for adoption.
Me too. My parents would be like whatever
Me tooo
My mom has taught me everything bad it shows specialy the one when I am crying she ignores and now I always say to myself I am the mistake for everything and I'm over thinking...THANK GOD I DON'T LISTEN TO HER AND NOW I AM INDEPENDENT AND STRONG😡
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Bravo buddy, bravo
YOU GO.
ahem- *thank you for your time*
Just dont forget fully about your parents please..
I've learned a lot from this. I've been told sharing is caring, but really it's not fair for the other child who has to.give up their favorite toy.
I plan to use this in my LIFE SKILLS class. Great Work! Thank you
No name your right
Some of these made me almost cry. My parents didn't teach me that well, and I see how now
Im not a parent im a child but this is helpful for when i grow older
Frisk Determination you will go far in life. Your curiosity about this subject shows that you are a problem solver wishing to strengthen your own skills or to help others with theirs.
Kathleen Muchka thanks
doger 1up5 im 11 too XD
true :3... I am only 11 ;-;
Same here
My parents did all the don't with me and my brother but we turned out to be compassionate and empathetic. We share wonderful bonds with our parents especially my brother and my mother are like now tea and biscuits since i got married. My brother is 30 and i am 33 now.
When I was small my parents always screamed at me for breaking something and when we moved to another country it stopped but I still cried every time I broke something thinking they were going to scream at me
My school years were horrible, I got bullied and when I told my teachers they just said: stop telling tales
Same to
If your getting bullied and no body cares you need to learn how to fight and show them how the strongest in this school
Hey still in school nowadays most kids who are bullied just say nothing and hope it resolves itself
It does not
@@catcream6525 When i did this, I broke a bullies ankle because of taking self defence way too far and got in big trouble