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  • Опубликовано: 13 авг 2019
  • Parenting 112 - How To Make Your Child Independent And Responsible
    Every parent wants their child to be more responsible and independent but their strategies often fail, or worse, cause conflicts. Here are some wiser ideas. Hope they help.
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Комментарии • 180

  • @Shridharlifeschooling
    @Shridharlifeschooling  4 года назад +5

    If you need counselling, fill the form: link.shridharlifeschool.com/yt/counsel
    To share your problems or feedback fill the form: forms.gle/n3SAakwChceESJp47

    • @preeteshkote5212
      @preeteshkote5212 3 года назад +1

      From what age v should give kids their independence? I have a 2 year old child. How to make an independent 2 year old child to have bath on her own, to eat , to sleep on her own, to say rhymes or her wish don't say rhymes.

    • @Godsdaughter530
      @Godsdaughter530 Год назад +1

      I made that mistake and now I have an adult child who is not independent how can I change it now is it possible?

  • @user-ps5un1xv3l
    @user-ps5un1xv3l Год назад +8

    I am child listening to this . Now I don't fear taking my own decision as it will only make me stronger and wiser

  • @hamsaraju8421
    @hamsaraju8421 4 года назад +27

    Great work. U should do one talk for especially father's, who pamper the daughters so much it becomes very hard for the mother's to discipline them

  • @rsuresh29
    @rsuresh29 3 года назад +2

    I stumbled upon one of your videos about a pampered child a few months ago and I absolutely loved it. You dont beat around the bush....to the point...explaining how to address them and so beautifully explained in simple language . I really enjoy and learn from every single video of yours...you are doing a wonderful job by helping parents and individuals lead a better life...thank you

  • @vedu8326
    @vedu8326 5 дней назад

    Thanks alot.. I overparent my boy.. I have learned so many things from u❤❤

  • @paromitadasgupta1616
    @paromitadasgupta1616 4 года назад +48

    Please give a talk on mothers who are bringing up special kids.... To keep them motivated. They are really tired parents mentally & physically

    • @lijohnyoutube101
      @lijohnyoutube101 Год назад +1

      Asperger experts has some fantastic resources in this arena a book, several classes etc

    • @user-sn3ek4vj2j
      @user-sn3ek4vj2j 2 месяца назад

      This!! 💯💯💯 It's hard. It's trying. Especially trying to get them independent.

  • @humerashahez779
    @humerashahez779 4 года назад +1

    Sensational speech for parents.

  • @aditi7375
    @aditi7375 4 года назад +1

    Thank you very much for guiding us to the right path.

  • @nmenon09
    @nmenon09 4 года назад +3

    So well explained! 😊 Thank you so much.

  • @sreedeviharidas6625
    @sreedeviharidas6625 4 года назад

    Perfect message..Thankyou ,love and gratitude,😇🙏

  • @mahalakshmee2543
    @mahalakshmee2543 4 года назад +1

    Thank you sir god bless you always

  • @specygirl85
    @specygirl85 2 года назад

    Thanks Good for me as a daughter to be responsible and independent..
    I facing issues because I was always overprotected by parents and in adult hood facing depression..
    Really helpful 😊

  • @athmajwala
    @athmajwala Год назад

    What an excellent video !!! Thank you so much Shridhar Maheswari Sir for this wonderful piece.

  • @iviaqua
    @iviaqua 3 года назад

    I needed this talk a few years back. Thank you

  • @vidya2271
    @vidya2271 4 года назад +15

    Sir..am feeling happy to say that i hve made my son independent,though my friends at times think am rude n they think I don't love my child jus coz I don't allow my son to depend on my for each n everything!!! but as u said sir, making a child independent is the first duty that nowadays parents must do for their own child's well-being...thank you for the video..stay blessed and happy.

    • @ta5379
      @ta5379 4 года назад +4

      Exactly. There vl definitely b a place or day wen v can't b with them. That time they should nt feel hopeless abt themselves.

    • @preeteshkote5212
      @preeteshkote5212 3 года назад

      From what age we should give them independence? Bcoz I have a 2 year child. How can I make an independent 2 year old child to have bath on his own, to eat on his own and many more

    • @kamalkumar7978
      @kamalkumar7978 2 года назад +1

      Have you let your children do the followings on his/her own ? Be honest.
      1. Choose career own his/her own.
      2. Choose schools, colleges on his/her own.
      3. Choose life partner on his/her own.
      4. Find any options related to anthing on his/her own.
      5. Let him/her deal with his/her own mistakes of life on his/her own.
      I would appreciate your answer.

    • @tinarentas-stewart4170
      @tinarentas-stewart4170 4 месяца назад

      Same!

  • @yamoh6613
    @yamoh6613 4 года назад +1

    The way u talking English tats really admire me lot very simple ,clear and most decent English.....

  • @avivic7177
    @avivic7177 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for the video it's really awesome thought.

  • @kavithabillimoria151
    @kavithabillimoria151 4 года назад

    Your views and ideas are really good and helpful. Thank you!!

  • @Stephen_Strange
    @Stephen_Strange 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much sir for your advice - we appreciate you being you !

  • @melodies-of-life654
    @melodies-of-life654 4 года назад +5

    Felt happy and assured listening to you that i am in the right track of parenting. Because i have spent sleepless nights for being strict, rude, purposely neglectful at times to raise my 2 kids to be strong and independent. Thankyou so much sir.

  • @nasemachethil9956
    @nasemachethil9956 4 года назад +1

    Great help sir thank you

  • @hsemumtaz7866
    @hsemumtaz7866 4 года назад

    Highly appreciated Sir

  • @A.Delizia
    @A.Delizia Месяц назад

    God Bless you for help us

  • @vaishali1051
    @vaishali1051 4 года назад +1

    Very informative and practical approach

  • @vidyamasanapalli7597
    @vidyamasanapalli7597 4 года назад

    Thankyou sir. Very informative and explaining in simple terms. Iam very much thankful to you for helping us. To help myself to be with my children. Once again thank you.

  • @ta5379
    @ta5379 4 года назад

    Absolutely right.

  • @ruth-bl5wv
    @ruth-bl5wv 4 года назад +1

    Nice talk...words of wisdom...

  • @muktasachdev2427
    @muktasachdev2427 4 года назад +2

    You are a wise person..Keep rising..🌟👍

  • @unsheladcyberninja5066
    @unsheladcyberninja5066 10 месяцев назад

    Awesome speech i ever heard

  • @nishakhan2721
    @nishakhan2721 4 года назад

    Thank you! I learn a lot from your videos thank you!

  • @shantinair1576
    @shantinair1576 3 года назад

    Good morning . U r very right..

  • @UmaMaheswari-xx8ti
    @UmaMaheswari-xx8ti 4 года назад +1

    It was very good. Thank you Sir

  • @anuprabha5733
    @anuprabha5733 4 года назад

    Thank you

  • @nainachawla2424
    @nainachawla2424 4 года назад +2

    Thanks Bhai👍

  • @suvarnapatil2979
    @suvarnapatil2979 4 года назад

    Thank you Sir

  • @nvHumanist
    @nvHumanist 4 года назад +2

    Beautiful tips Sridhar. I loved the few videos I watched of yours

  • @dipikachokshi7212
    @dipikachokshi7212 7 месяцев назад

    Thank U 🎉

  • @swetarai6674
    @swetarai6674 4 года назад

    Very much appreciated

  • @DeepikaSharma-ti4dw
    @DeepikaSharma-ti4dw Месяц назад

    Great🎉

  • @preethikeloth3504
    @preethikeloth3504 4 года назад +1

    Thanks u Shidhar, seeing this video I rectify my mistakes.

  • @shrutisaxena8177
    @shrutisaxena8177 4 года назад +1

    I am really great full to you..

  • @karmanjyotsingh4940
    @karmanjyotsingh4940 4 года назад

    Nice. Thanks

  • @manishapatnaik5506
    @manishapatnaik5506 6 месяцев назад

    excellent Sridhar...always crisp, to the point n clear....

  • @aminahussein1303
    @aminahussein1303 4 года назад

    Yes you are right

  • @swethapv1186
    @swethapv1186 9 месяцев назад

    Hi, Your explanation on each topic is much worthy and easily understand by anyone who listens.
    Thank you Sridhar..! ❤

  • @umakittu1982
    @umakittu1982 4 года назад

    Great job

  • @kiranfatepuria2604
    @kiranfatepuria2604 2 года назад

    Thank you for the video

  • @Modest_U
    @Modest_U Год назад

    Very insightful and helpful👌🏽

  • @tsedeyseyoum1001
    @tsedeyseyoum1001 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks sooo much vital lessons customised to my gaps

  • @rahamathkhan9964
    @rahamathkhan9964 4 года назад

    Excellent ..I feel like to listen ur parenting class....more.

  • @theindianpressurecooker7414
    @theindianpressurecooker7414 3 года назад

    My first comment ever on you tube for a topic like this........I really liked it ....well.said .....

  • @fairahere
    @fairahere 3 месяца назад

    super helpful

  • @loveparenting
    @loveparenting 5 месяцев назад

    Good information ❤❤❤❤

  • @CMwithCMchinchumathew
    @CMwithCMchinchumathew 4 года назад

    Great wok, thank U so much

  • @Muhammed_Hisham99
    @Muhammed_Hisham99 3 года назад

    Thank you for your useful video

  • @romabhatia4350
    @romabhatia4350 4 года назад

    I am glad I already do all this. 😇

  • @jettyguliani7076
    @jettyguliani7076 9 месяцев назад

    Very good and informative.

  • @sanbrunofriend5968
    @sanbrunofriend5968 10 месяцев назад

    great advices!!!

  • @sowmyar124
    @sowmyar124 4 года назад

    You are just awesome.

  • @ayemyatmon6022
    @ayemyatmon6022 Год назад

    love this!

  • @haritham4495
    @haritham4495 4 года назад +1

    Ur second idea is much useful to me... I fear and worried much for their security ..

  • @loveparenting
    @loveparenting 6 месяцев назад

    excellent😍😍😍

  • @muktavaramvinodkumar3995
    @muktavaramvinodkumar3995 Год назад

    It's really good sir very helpful

  • @taylorthomas3372
    @taylorthomas3372 Год назад

    I’m ever so grateful to have found this

  • @tabassumstatus
    @tabassumstatus 4 года назад

    Jazakallahu khaira (tq) bro

  • @eazypeazyhacks
    @eazypeazyhacks 3 года назад

    Very informative...very beautiful...you deserve millions of subscribers 👏 thank God I found your channel.

  • @sairaalshubaily6067
    @sairaalshubaily6067 4 года назад

    Nice video

  • @dinufathima5856
    @dinufathima5856 4 года назад +1

    Nice

  • @andreareedy2043
    @andreareedy2043 7 месяцев назад

    Informative , simple , relateable. Really enjoyed this presentation, thankyou from a mum of 4 in nz 😊.

  • @Lifecoach_Kawaljeet
    @Lifecoach_Kawaljeet 10 месяцев назад

    Very True 🎉

  • @riteper6714
    @riteper6714 Год назад

    thanks Kohli sir

  • @babygyrl182
    @babygyrl182 4 месяца назад

    Ong, 4minute mark you described me. 😢😢😢😢. I didn’t realize I was doing this. I definitely don’t let my kid play with the neighbors kids. This was a hard pill to swallow, definitely making changes on my parenting. Thanks you

  • @KumarGNagendra
    @KumarGNagendra 4 года назад +17

    Such high quality life counselling given free of cost. He truly loves helping people. Kudos Shridhar :)

  • @madhu25apple
    @madhu25apple 4 года назад +3

    You take simple examples to convey correct message. Really appreciate your work! Good luck.

  • @nishaa.b4730
    @nishaa.b4730 4 года назад +17

    Please start a session for teachers,Issues in class rooms creative teaching,developing critical creative thinking life skills...

  • @sajanasyed5179
    @sajanasyed5179 2 года назад +1

    This is the main problem of my 13 year old matured girl child. For each thiing she keep on asking my help. If l don't do she started shouting and even curse me

  • @lalalanding234
    @lalalanding234 2 года назад

    Decision making practice

  • @romabhatia4350
    @romabhatia4350 4 года назад

    Do come to lucknow for seminar on parenting and relationships. Especially how to deal and look forward in life after divorce.

  • @mamatasharma3747
    @mamatasharma3747 4 года назад +1

    You are gonna be good father😉😉😉😉

  • @tsanwangompo
    @tsanwangompo 3 месяца назад

    Thanks very much ❤same here

  • @Jesdance4378
    @Jesdance4378 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for making this video....when r u coming to Bangalore .karnataka

  • @Nature-qp8sl
    @Nature-qp8sl 11 месяцев назад +1

    👏👏👌👌😊

  • @arymamta
    @arymamta 4 года назад

    Hiii shridhar
    I liked ur videos very much... Very helpful for parenting.... Thnx
    Please post video on how to stop child being a copy cat. I have 7 old son he copies almost everything he see. M worried cause he copies all the bad behaviour and bad mouthing from other kids.

  • @10akanksha
    @10akanksha 4 года назад

    Please make videos on overcoming negligent childhood in later years of life

  • @vineethravindran8058
    @vineethravindran8058 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @vidhimaniar19
    @vidhimaniar19 4 года назад

    Who are those people who dislike these kind of videos !!!??

  • @nicsilvestroni9221
    @nicsilvestroni9221 4 года назад +1

    I admire your talk about parenting and 99% are right about it. But I can’t agree with one thing. If my child, especially in a young age like 9-10 or even grown up, bullied from someone either at school or from teachers or anyone , I will always stand up for him!
    It’s nothing to learn in there for kids by ignoring the kid to figure it out alone or suffering alone with bullies!
    After all my experiences in my life, I have realised one thing: 99% of kids or grown ups are always survive any circumstances with or without Parents in their lives. So, I think that being supportive as a Parent by standing up against the bullies , is the best support I can give to my child while I am alive, especially in Kerala, India. Because unfortunately there are so many uncivilised people including teachers regardless of their job or positions, are communicating wrongly with children in Kerala . They are communicating with children in daily basis, without taking any consideration of their psychological status and most of their comments are seriously abusive towards children. For that reason,
    it’s very important that a child feels protected from Parents by standing against their bullies. When they see that their parents are standing with them against bullies, it will increase their confidence and will help to grow up them without any defensive mechanism.
    Because 99% of kids will grow up with a defensive character if no one stand up with them against bullies or nasty people in their childhood period . At the end of the day, each Parent should act for the best interest of their kids. It’s easy to say all these good parenting advices , but it’s very hard to follow it all the time. Then, I would say that let it as a flow of life and do your best until your last breath!
    Because their life will go on with or without our (Parent’s ) presence. So, I can’t be so perfect like you saying , but I will parenting from my good instinct really , and the rest leave it to God.

  • @naziayousuf3183
    @naziayousuf3183 4 года назад +1

    Plz do video on parenting with boarding child

  • @sowmyar124
    @sowmyar124 4 года назад

    Do come to Bangalore sometime

  • @drravibhatagunaki9771
    @drravibhatagunaki9771 4 года назад

    Please come to karnataka also sir..

  • @ansuabraham5584
    @ansuabraham5584 4 года назад

    Thank you for great lessons sir..have one doubt.can we use these tips with very young children like 2 or 3 years??

  • @priyas5856
    @priyas5856 4 года назад +1

    👍👍👍👍

  • @neelamshukla8214
    @neelamshukla8214 4 года назад +1

    You are doing good job . Keep it up.

  • @niranjana_lohithvlog8906
    @niranjana_lohithvlog8906 4 года назад

    You are so handsome I really like u, lovely video ❤️

  • @diptigohil3414
    @diptigohil3414 4 года назад +1

    Hello sir ... do u hav any seminar in Mumbai??

  • @Siminarakazi
    @Siminarakazi 4 года назад

    So good sir. Your videos are too good for today's parents. But some of things are have to change with age group. Ex my child is 9 months old but i have to treat her different so can you please mention age group on your videos

  • @Ben-jq5oo
    @Ben-jq5oo Год назад

    Thankyou for this excellent presentation. I still struggle with my lack of emotional resilience, and subsequent lack of responsibility, even in late middle age.
    I was raised by a dominant mother and a lovely but emotionally absent father. I didn’t ever truly connect with him.
    Our mother constantly told us “don’t do this, don’t do that”.
    She was obsessed by me coming into to contact with a paedophile. I’m not sure where, as I wasn’t allowed out anywhere on my own until I was in my mid teens!
    I was never allowed to spend time with my father doing things I was interested in, like attended a vintage car rally or motor museum. Instead, my mother always dictated the direction of family activities.
    Well intentioned, but misdirected parenting can leave lifetime scars which need constant self management. Very sad.
    More worryingly this female domination has left me with “an issue with women”. Whenever I have had a female manager it has inevitably resulted in very unpleasant conflict down the line.

  • @sandhyaachary8419
    @sandhyaachary8419 Год назад

    Sir ur class was really good my niece dosent write any notes &just wants to play she also gives blank answers papers plz giv some suggestions about this matter she is a 3rd std student of kv

  • @Akshatha_Ravikumar
    @Akshatha_Ravikumar 4 года назад +1

    Hi ..
    Any great solutions for already over pampered and over cared SPOILT child. Who is very very dependent, irresponsible, laziest girl

  • @jagruti153
    @jagruti153 4 года назад

    When it will be for Mumbai.....