If a child has taken the time to say “hey daddy”, that means they feel like what they have to say is important enough for you to listen to them. Stop what you’re doing and LISTEN. I live by this for my 7 & 8 year old boys. I dont care what I am doing, what I am reading, or what I am watching. I stop and give my son the attention he is asking for.
My son started spraying the hose into the air. Its windy. I wanted to yell at him, "Don't do that because you will get wet." But, I thought for a second. He can be wet and cold. Who cares? We are always dry! And I watched him enjoy the water spraying. It was pure JOY!
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
How refreshing that he could have this conversation with his daughter. The parenting that so many of us, (especially girls), experience is physical abuse. Parents and older siblings beat girls down to instill fear, to make sure she stays in the place they want her to stay in.
When we have a dream or goal we must be like a kid. They just take action and will never fear of rejection. They never fear anything. That the mentality we need to have. 👍
I have always been put down by all my family. I've never been good enough. I worked hard at my job. I started from all the way in the bottom and now I am a supervisor reaching for the manager job one day and still not good enough. But thanks to them I know what NOT to do. And I raise my child the way I wish I was raised.
My dad always told me that as long as I graduated high school he didn’t care what I did after that. Always grateful that he didn’t try to control my life
This is SO what I try to get across to the parents I coach! Sometimes, I get to see sunshine emerge, but regretfully, I do see the parents who cannot accept their children the way they are, so my job is to build the organic confidence of the parent, as an individual, in order to see growth as a parent!
I appreciate your response, and truly appreciate your passion for children. I rarely meet pwople who have an equal passion for children, that matches mine!@@stevepinckney7998
Kids are the little Scientists,let them play, let them experiment and help them in doing all stuff. They only deserve love and care♥️. We compell them to follow your rules of life , let them make their own rules of life.👍
What she said was golden alot of us think we understand love but nobody does most people can't love people for who they are and what they bring so u don't really love that person 💯
Yeah narcissistic parents tend to be very controlling over their children, they don't let them find out who they are for themselves, and they always put them down if they don't do what they want you to do, or be who they want you to be. People tend to raise their children how they were raised, and that is the problem. A lot of parents was taught to suppress their feelings.
kids will go in future in their parents' footsteps and become future adults, mistakes are tools to fix now and in future, so live love and laugh, I can't make any babies anyway, so I am just giving everyone helpful messages , I am helping them of how they could learn their child and the next generation
You got this, ma'am. Just being open to learning as much as possible believe it or not is MORE THAN half the battle. So many parents are unconsciously locked into patterns of raising children that they themselves experienced, that they don't even realize they are passing down old (sometimes really old) traumas. The best (admittedly, unsolicited) advice I can give is to extend yourself the *highest* amount of grace possible. Don't beat yourself up when you inevitably make mistakes. Say "doh!" and then move on. I'm the father of 2 amazing little girls. Some days I feel like I have this "daddy" thing down cold. Other days I feel like "WTH are you doing???" The thing I try to keep in mind is that every day is a new day...a new opportunity to try something different...to connect with and learn from these precious little beings. Oh, and also listen to the short clip by Thomas S. Monson about raising young children. Search YT for "Monson If you are still in the process of raising young children." In my mind that's what this moment you're in is all about, and something to constantly keep in mind. I try really hard to listen to that quote or read it at least once a month. I don't know you and can tell you're a great mother. My hope and wish for you is that you also believe this.
I never said the words , NO & CANNOT to my One only son. He will be 20 years old next month. And we still communicate each other as he is first day he calls me Da...
Honest question here as i am raising two young girls. When you say you never said "No" can you say a little more? Does this mean that you did whatever he wanted to do? I am sincerely asking as I say "No" alot and have been feeling like this is something I need to change.
@@stevepinckney7998 my son is now 23 years old & he still communicating with me on everything... my method is understand his needs balance on what is the truth. Truth only comes from knowledge. if you are sure, you can talk it over, negotiate. if you not sure, ask for time for you to find out the truth & talk to them again. Do not give false assumptions or promise, stay on the truth path. they may not except your explanation now but later on, they will remember & understand. Lose the battle but win the war..
my son is now 23 years old & just started working in Japan. we still communicate everything in our life. not to say no is avoid any mental blockage. to understand their needs balance with the truth. truth comes from knowledge to build trust in a relationship. if you are very sure the truth, explain to them, negotiate, let them how to think... if you are not sure, ask for time, seek the truth & talk to them again. lose the battle win the war.
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Beautifully said,I tell this to my folks everyday.its good to save money but most people don't understand how the market moves and tend to mislead in facts like this and always depend on money in the bank.
@@eliasreuben7974 I understand the Facts that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but Investing today is a hard thing to do because i have no idea of how and where to invest in these?
Hey this is a computer age, peeps who aren't even trader's make money from the crypto and forex markets, how many millionaires do you know who have become wealthy by Investing in savings accounts? I rest my case.
need help to find a motivational video. i saw the video on Instagram and a black Man with a beard who is at his middle age was giving a motivational speech to a TV presenter. i checked the entire videos of this channel but couldnt see hım. he was saying at the end "you should have a plan" or smthg. the video came to my mind but couldnt find the video. that is why i went crazy :)
Why do some cultures (most notably Arab, American and Japanese) breastfeed their daughters longer than sons? I read somewhere that some moms will nurse their daughter's longer so that they will grow up more pretty /cute etc. Granted my cousin sister was breastfed for nearly 4 years and her facial features are so angelic. Obviously these American, Japanese and Arab mothers must be on to something as they probably want their little girls to grow up into cherubic, small nosed hollywood actresses, belly dancers and cosplay models respectively!
The loud soundtrack at the background is disturbing. That type of "hero"-music is also annoying and makes it hard to focus on what the people has to say.. :P
Yes, that great but we parents just trying to survive and not clean whole day long🤣 I have most curious and active 4 year old ever, it' get really hard sometimes... Literally I can't turn around and do sh* 🤣 beacuse new experiment is taking place🤣
They grab the egg, the let it drop, it breaks and THEY KEEP DOING IT. Lol. I want him to babysit my kids and I want him to make sure my house is clean before he lives.
If a child has taken the time to say “hey daddy”, that means they feel like what they have to say is important enough for you to listen to them. Stop what you’re doing and LISTEN. I live by this for my 7 & 8 year old boys. I dont care what I am doing, what I am reading, or what I am watching. I stop and give my son the attention he is asking for.
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Wish I could be your son🥺
Unless I'm taking with an adult or on an important phone call. I tell them, hold on a little.
My son started spraying the hose into the air. Its windy. I wanted to yell at him, "Don't do that because you will get wet." But, I thought for a second. He can be wet and cold. Who cares? We are always dry! And I watched him enjoy the water spraying. It was pure JOY!
Good for you!!! Excellent way to handle that situation!
I’ve been struggling with how to balance technology and faith in our home, and ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ provided some amazing insights that we’ve already started using
I'm expecting my first child in a few months! Can't wait to meet him and I know he's gonna teach me way more than I could ever teach him!
What a beautiful and accurate perspective
Enjoy :)
Congratulations dad.. your comment was nine months ago.. hope your bundle of joy is healthy and happy
@@بندهخدا-ي2ي Thankyou so much! I forgot about this comment I made! He is an extremely happy boy! Has so much energy to give to the world 😊
@@g0rd3nvad3r7 thankyou so much ❤️ he sure has changed my life and my perspective on what’s important 🙏🏻
@@Michelle-qb4kl thankyou 😊
Whoever reading this I love you soo much! Have a great beautiful day hon!
You too love 💘💘🤗🤗
@@arianayazmim177 love youuu
@@ShatabdaRoy115 beautiful❤️
@@olleolausson6934 you are wonderful!
How refreshing that he could have this conversation with his daughter. The parenting that so many of us, (especially girls), experience is physical abuse. Parents and older siblings beat girls down to instill fear, to make sure she stays in the place they want her to stay in.
Im here for my future babies💗
Me too
You’re off to a great start honey 🦾👍🏼🫡
When we have a dream or goal we must be like a kid. They just take action and will never fear of rejection. They never fear anything. That the mentality we need to have. 👍
I have always been put down by all my family. I've never been good enough. I worked hard at my job. I started from all the way in the bottom and now I am a supervisor reaching for the manager job one day and still not good enough. But thanks to them I know what NOT to do. And I raise my child the way I wish I was raised.
❤❤
My dad always told me that as long as I graduated high school he didn’t care what I did after that. Always grateful that he didn’t try to control my life
Great share. As a father currently trying to navigate lockdown with my son at home, this feels like it came at the right time
Came for dr tyson. He does not disappoint.
me too
I asked my daughter who is a farmer. She told "old MacDonald". I felt happy after listening to it.
I’m in tearing that’s my dream to have confident discipline loving kids. Just happy kids
Thank you Neil, you've truely opened my mind, thing's are changing!
This is SO what I try to get across to the parents I coach! Sometimes, I get to see sunshine emerge, but regretfully, I do see the parents who cannot accept their children the way they are, so my job is to build the organic confidence of the parent, as an individual, in order to see growth as a parent!
So you’re a parenting coach? How does one get qualified for that😂
@@TonyPproduction i am. There are several ways to become credentialed.
@@teach4him2 i think you forgot the part where you explained🤣
"I get to see sunshine emerge..." My God... what a lovely way to describe the aha / breakthrough moments our clients have.
I appreciate your response, and truly appreciate your passion for children. I rarely meet pwople who have an equal passion for children, that matches mine!@@stevepinckney7998
Kids are the little Scientists,let them play, let them experiment and help them in doing all stuff. They only deserve love and care♥️.
We compell them to follow your rules of life , let them make their own rules of life.👍
What she said was golden alot of us think we understand love but nobody does most people can't love people for who they are and what they bring so u don't really love that person 💯
Loved all four lessons!
remember today´s kids in life prepare build an future , you know that generation of adult have a lot of infromation about everything.
Kids are people too. They come first. Regardless. I love this!!❤️
Very good video. Lesson learned. Thank you.
Yeah narcissistic parents tend to be very controlling over their children, they don't let them find out who they are for themselves, and they always put them down if they don't do what they want you to do, or be who they want you to be. People tend to raise their children how they were raised, and that is the problem. A lot of parents was taught to suppress their feelings.
Children must be taught and nurtured.
✔️
Wish my parents understood and agreed with this video
Let’s get this shared everywhere
LOVE THE CHANNEL! STAY SAFE EVERYONE 🙏😍
Thank you so much
Music makes average speech epic.
Love this.
kids will go in future in their parents' footsteps and become future adults, mistakes are tools to fix now and in future, so live love and laugh, I can't make any babies anyway, so I am just giving everyone helpful messages , I am helping them of how they could learn their child and the next generation
superb.
Good information, but the background music is too loud.
Thank you so very, very much!!!♥️♥️♥️
Awesome video
I'm a first time mom and sadly became a single mother after giving birth I'm trying to learn as much as possible
You got this, ma'am. Just being open to learning as much as possible believe it or not is MORE THAN half the battle. So many parents are unconsciously locked into patterns of raising children that they themselves experienced, that they don't even realize they are passing down old (sometimes really old) traumas. The best (admittedly, unsolicited) advice I can give is to extend yourself the *highest* amount of grace possible. Don't beat yourself up when you inevitably make mistakes. Say "doh!" and then move on. I'm the father of 2 amazing little girls. Some days I feel like I have this "daddy" thing down cold. Other days I feel like "WTH are you doing???" The thing I try to keep in mind is that every day is a new day...a new opportunity to try something different...to connect with and learn from these precious little beings. Oh, and also listen to the short clip by Thomas S. Monson about raising young children. Search YT for "Monson If you are still in the process of raising young children." In my mind that's what this moment you're in is all about, and something to constantly keep in mind. I try really hard to listen to that quote or read it at least once a month. I don't know you and can tell you're a great mother. My hope and wish for you is that you also believe this.
Love 💗 this!
Watch this video many times but everytime seems my first time to watch this one. Very useful and interesting. 아주 좋아요. 😍😍
I am a kid watching this and this is so true
The last person hit the nail on the head.
Your right about that
I never said the words , NO & CANNOT to my One only son. He will be 20 years old next month. And we still communicate each other as he is first day he calls me Da...
Honest question here as i am raising two young girls. When you say you never said "No" can you say a little more? Does this mean that you did whatever he wanted to do? I am sincerely asking as I say "No" alot and have been feeling like this is something I need to change.
@@stevepinckney7998
my son is now 23 years old & he still communicating with me on everything...
my method is understand his needs balance on what is the truth. Truth only comes from knowledge. if you are sure, you can talk it over, negotiate.
if you not sure, ask for time for you to find out the truth & talk to them again.
Do not give false assumptions or promise, stay on the truth path. they may not except your explanation now but later on, they will remember & understand.
Lose the battle but win the war..
my son is now 23 years old & just started working in Japan. we still communicate everything in our life.
not to say no is avoid any mental blockage.
to understand their needs balance with the truth.
truth comes from knowledge to build trust in a relationship.
if you are very sure the truth, explain to them, negotiate, let them how to think...
if you are not sure, ask for time, seek the truth & talk to them again.
lose the battle win the war.
Wow!!!! It’s so me!!!
My parents are controlling af! And I’m 22
I mean you can CHOOSE to move on with your life. It is your life. You can set boundaries with them, and get your own place.
Yup
Funny. My kid was experimenting with squeezing an egg late last night. He made and mess and followed rule #1 “you make a mess, you clean it up”.
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John 3:16
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
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🙏🏿 G2💚🌎💚2G 🙏🏻
Am I the only kid watching this?
I don't know who needs to hear this but stop saving all your money. Venture into Investing some, if you really want financial freedom.
Investing for today is priceless because tomorrow isn't promised, trading bit-coins,gold,silver and crypto secures a better tomorrow
Beautifully said,I tell this to my folks everyday.its good to save money but most people don't understand how the market moves and tend to mislead in facts like this and always depend on money in the bank.
Great facts 👏
@@eliasreuben7974 I understand the Facts that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but Investing today is a hard thing to do because i have no idea of how and where to invest in these?
Hey this is a computer age, peeps who aren't even trader's make money from the crypto and forex markets, how many millionaires do you know who have become wealthy by Investing in savings accounts? I rest my case.
need help to find a motivational video. i saw the video on Instagram and a black Man with a beard who is at his middle age was giving a motivational speech to a TV presenter. i checked the entire videos of this channel but couldnt see hım. he was saying at the end "you should have a plan" or smthg. the video came to my mind but couldnt find the video. that is why i went crazy :)
found him, Chris Gardner :))
Kids being kids now a days are living behind their phones or watching RUclips shorts..
Good thing I have 10 chickens on the back yard.😊
Money does not buy happiness
It does. Don't make much money your enemy.
Money can buy happiness. You're lying
Why do some cultures (most notably Arab, American and Japanese) breastfeed their daughters longer than sons? I read somewhere that some moms will nurse their daughter's longer so that they will grow up more pretty /cute etc. Granted my cousin sister was breastfed for nearly 4 years and her facial features are so angelic. Obviously these American, Japanese and Arab mothers must be on to something as they probably want their little girls to grow up into cherubic, small nosed hollywood actresses, belly dancers and cosplay models respectively!
Hello there. I want to communicate with you. how can I reach
The loud soundtrack at the background is disturbing. That type of "hero"-music is also annoying and makes it hard to focus on what the people has to say.. :P
👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes, that great but we parents just trying to survive and not clean whole day long🤣 I have most curious and active 4 year old ever, it' get really hard sometimes... Literally I can't turn around and do sh* 🤣 beacuse new experiment is taking place🤣
Uff same here 😃
They grab the egg, the let it drop, it breaks and THEY KEEP DOING IT. Lol. I want him to babysit my kids and I want him to make sure my house is clean before he lives.
I didn't need the music
Neil God is real. wake up.
Number 2, is a half baked potato
TELL IT TO JB'S IMMIGRATION CHILDREN.....SEE HOW 'SCIENTIFIC" KIDS ARE!!!!!!
No thank you, I'm more interested in what Supernanny
Step 1: be wealthy.
..thats it, thats all it takes lol especially in the caste system the US has created for itself
No duh
NONSENSE - children do NOT know 'who they are' - that depends on the guidance of the parents, especially in an age of vicious crony capitalism.
Jesus is coming
These people are trying to apply adult reasoning .....