Parenting: Raise Yourself Before You Raise Your Kids - Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
  • Sadhguru looks at how a child needs a friend, not a boss. If we enforce our ideas upon a child, he will lose his sense of independence, and this could result in rebelliousness later on. Once you become a parent, the most important thing is that you have to be 100% straight. You just have to protect them from the wrong influences, the rest let them free, he says. At the same time, they should remain free from your influence, he points out.
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Комментарии • 94

  • @SunGodNika-bi2jr
    @SunGodNika-bi2jr 6 лет назад +715

    I wish I had a father like sadhguru

  • @Hollowdarling
    @Hollowdarling 4 года назад +187

    Speaking as a Latino raised in Puerto Rico, this was so beautiful to hear and see. I wish more elders had the intellect and empathy this person has.

  • @kavitaverma9929
    @kavitaverma9929 4 года назад +324

    I wish my parents can listen to you Guruji 😣

  • @Ggdivhjkjl
    @Ggdivhjkjl 8 лет назад +459

    Marvelous to see a man talking sense about parenting in today's world.

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 Год назад +25

    My narcissistic mother and sister became toxic because they never take the time to raise themselves. That is why I watched this video. To avoid becoming them.

  • @marianap1121
    @marianap1121 3 года назад +357

    children are not your property! love that - you are so right

  • @8270361507
    @8270361507 6 лет назад +435

    Major respect to this man. A very good and true genuine human being. All people before planning to have children should watch this because there are plenty of people who have children as some kind of asset to fulfill something rather than allowing them to grow and flourish themselves.

  • @adriansherlockdamondark.1094
    @adriansherlockdamondark.1094 4 года назад +253

    Best words I've ever heard on the topic of parenting.

  • @duuuuuuuuuuuup
    @duuuuuuuuuuuup 6 лет назад +192

    I'm experiencing such deep love towards this being. He is lovely and incredibly precious

  • @melanie6697
    @melanie6697 7 лет назад +322

    He is so correct! I try to practice this with my kids and so far it is working well. It builds confidence and a sense of self.

  • @faza553
    @faza553 8 лет назад +147

    Most will misunderstand the deep truth of this sage advice.

  • @deepanagaraj2072
    @deepanagaraj2072 7 лет назад +229

    some parents really need this!!
    excellent one..!!thank you sadhguru :-)

  • @malcontent6303
    @malcontent6303 7 лет назад +292

    Sometimes Parents need to make decisions which their child doesn't agree with but they should always include their children in decisions which affect them. Many parents think they listen to their kids when in fact what they are really doing is telling their kids what to think. They conflate respect and obedience when the two are entirely separate concepts

    • @thedarknessofnana
      @thedarknessofnana 6 лет назад +11

      Mal Content agreed. I feel what you described in the beginning of your reply goes along with that 'guiding them from negative influences' bit that he said.

  • @bhoopalsinghRoheria
    @bhoopalsinghRoheria 7 лет назад +115

    Beautiful. I never heard anything like from any other eminent people.

  • @maxifernandes2654
    @maxifernandes2654 2 года назад +35

    Hope my husband could know about being a parent is such a blessing

  • @savoryicon
    @savoryicon 7 лет назад +174

    In western countries they let their children go to work and earn their money, makes the child independent. Even better, I feel, introduce them to success philosophy which they can understand at their pace. Most children have learned behaviour, which is what they learn looking at their parents, we cannot teach what we do not possess. Let them learn from able masters.

  • @terigopula
    @terigopula 6 лет назад +74

    Haha my life would have been absolutely miraculous, if I had 1/100th of Sadhguru's wisdom.
    Goosebumps every single time whenever I hear u Sadhguru.
    #respect #youAreTheBest :)

  • @warrior7478
    @warrior7478 6 лет назад +25

    He is a true guru with natural n real solutions without any conflicts. Bcoz today's we all r leading a fake n artificial life n going into a dark cell n he is a light. Plz listen sadguru n remove all darkness from yor life.try to be natural n honest with yourself n live n love natural life n follow law of nature.

  • @naniroda495
    @naniroda495 6 лет назад +53

    Best speech ever on parenting! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @tierax8992
    @tierax8992 Год назад +12

    It was like talking to my father I never had

  • @yasaswisriram1285
    @yasaswisriram1285 8 лет назад +90

    A wonderful explanation. Every parent should watch this

  • @shivabr3112
    @shivabr3112 8 лет назад +42

    Most comforting message for parents ......

  • @harsha9792
    @harsha9792 7 лет назад +52

    Humour in serious talk... Simply liked it..!!

  • @miha3847
    @miha3847 2 года назад +21

    I think I found my best life advice in the moment , thank you so much Sr !!!!!

  • @drjaya8838
    @drjaya8838 7 лет назад +59

    Grateful to you guruji... This is true spirituality. different from mere devotion. Thank you.

  • @nishthamishra7573
    @nishthamishra7573 7 лет назад +39

    I love him he is superb

  • @bhaveluthra
    @bhaveluthra 7 лет назад +28

    so beautiful.... This is a true path.... Hail to you. Respect!!!

  • @tanmayeevishwanath1266
    @tanmayeevishwanath1266 Год назад +2

    It's so into reality , and I am surprised to see that sadhguru is little older than my parents but they really understand the present generation .👏💥

  • @snr5950
    @snr5950 7 лет назад +25

    Thanq Sadguru for the sagely n precious advice to all parents.

  • @harinesriramoju5340
    @harinesriramoju5340 7 лет назад +29

    thanq sadguru.i think i feel like iam understanding something.

  • @PriyaSharma-jq5zn
    @PriyaSharma-jq5zn 5 лет назад +45

    Very supportive for children 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thank you Sadhguru

  • @artikaintura5846
    @artikaintura5846 7 лет назад +31

    guruji, i want hindi version of all your vedios for my mother . is that possible?

  • @HamzaKhan-lm8yz
    @HamzaKhan-lm8yz 4 года назад +16

    Whatever Sadhguru has said in this video is happening to me by my parents.

  • @shreeaum
    @shreeaum 7 лет назад +185

    Sadguru thrashed stupid minds of parents. Jai sadguru maharaj. Your blessings brings well being of society.

  • @AnanttNagarkar
    @AnanttNagarkar 5 лет назад +13

    Sadhguru personifies Clarity and wisdom!

  • @stm32user
    @stm32user 7 лет назад +10

    nice my sadhguru grandpa. I love you so much...

  • @TheOvaisshamsi
    @TheOvaisshamsi 7 лет назад +12

    Excellent
    A very Good Massage for Parent

  • @mariasimic2271
    @mariasimic2271 7 лет назад +27

    Thank You ! ❤️

  • @SujataMukherjee01
    @SujataMukherjee01 8 лет назад +33

    guruji many people just become parent just to become one without knowing what it really takes to become a true parent,some become helicopter like,they must listen to this session

  • @renuchhawal9875
    @renuchhawal9875 8 лет назад +16

    Bless me God with such a wisdom all z time

  • @kathleenvang2339
    @kathleenvang2339 7 лет назад +11

    absolutely right.

  • @michaelfraser3991
    @michaelfraser3991 8 лет назад +10

    Dwarpa Yuga 315 ascending; I wrote a long paragraph at how wrong I thought you were. Who am I to judge you? Glad to see you know all the answers to parenting. The bits of good advice you shared I will try to assimilate and the rest will leave to the streets and prison systems.

  • @lilil2081
    @lilil2081 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏
    Namo Amituofo 🙏

  • @jandepajanostan7086
    @jandepajanostan7086 5 лет назад +10

    Wow absolutely right❤. His wisdom is awesome...

  • @prachikhirwadkar6870
    @prachikhirwadkar6870 7 лет назад +5

    awesome....intended to learn a new things about life..

  • @satminderkaur5344
    @satminderkaur5344 8 лет назад +11

    beautiful ...

  • @renusingh4629
    @renusingh4629 5 лет назад +20

    You always have cool ways to make us understand anything

  • @KillerFaceification
    @KillerFaceification 7 лет назад +9

    I definitely agree

  • @anuradha-zd8kn
    @anuradha-zd8kn 6 лет назад +7

    very nice explanation.

  • @akankshamaurya6456
    @akankshamaurya6456 5 лет назад +16

    Thankyou so much for sharing this wonderful knowledge.

  • @frankiebrooks641
    @frankiebrooks641 8 лет назад +6

    Awesome thanks

  • @jean-francois5505
    @jean-francois5505 8 лет назад +5

    Thank's Good reflexion

  • @nielaniela3900
    @nielaniela3900 8 лет назад +9

    sadhguru jou are amazing

  • @ishaveer
    @ishaveer 6 лет назад +32

    Do Inner Engineer program conducted by Sadhguru in your city! Its can take you a long way :)

  • @ItzKyra_seyz
    @ItzKyra_seyz 7 лет назад +6

    makes sense !!!

  • @ramyasharma2008
    @ramyasharma2008 3 месяца назад

    Every parent should listen this, also elder siblings

  • @ashaservanda8861
    @ashaservanda8861 8 лет назад +10

    that's right!!!

  • @rambhakthanumanram4330
    @rambhakthanumanram4330 6 лет назад +5

    Very true

  • @favouriteworld3702
    @favouriteworld3702 7 лет назад +12

    perfect and very great speech

  • @MeenakshiAnantram
    @MeenakshiAnantram 8 лет назад +18

    I admire the thoughts...fantastic stuff

  • @palashbiswas8936
    @palashbiswas8936 6 лет назад +7

    Namashkaram sadhguru🙏🙏🙏

  • @RiteshAgarwalGwalior
    @RiteshAgarwalGwalior 8 лет назад +47

    I am strongly influenced by your words.. I would like to have you as my Guru...

  • @kaivalyasiddhi195
    @kaivalyasiddhi195 8 лет назад +7

    great words....

  • @farhad56560
    @farhad56560 8 лет назад +12

    totally agree 100%

  • @vahn883
    @vahn883 6 лет назад +15

    This guy looks so cool and hes so cool🤓🖒

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Год назад

    Yes a child needs it!!!

  • @blessedarethebroken3089
    @blessedarethebroken3089 5 лет назад +11

    💙

  • @chandini8833
    @chandini8833 6 лет назад +7

    Perfectly said

  • @mitchellknight1852
    @mitchellknight1852 Год назад

    Thank You Sadhguru 🙏🌄🎉

  • @gigraphickinstallers
    @gigraphickinstallers 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @johnraju1
    @johnraju1 8 лет назад +15

    Wonderful thought

  • @menenaanee818
    @menenaanee818 Год назад

    Timeless

  • @karna6651
    @karna6651 8 лет назад +3

    Superr

  • @suleymanartun8932
    @suleymanartun8932 5 лет назад +18

    But there is no guarentee.😂
    Very good speech, thanks.

  • @elennabaron1465
    @elennabaron1465 4 года назад +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @arielsuralta3998
    @arielsuralta3998 2 года назад +6

    Damm its right

  • @Sheebakumar
    @Sheebakumar 4 года назад +1

    very well said
    #sheebakumar

  • @flamechick6
    @flamechick6 8 лет назад +29

    excellent

  • @huaren6229
    @huaren6229 8 лет назад +4

    😢

  • @ojasvijain9477
    @ojasvijain9477 Год назад +1

    10:44 - 11:22

  • @jitanderkumarkhurana672
    @jitanderkumarkhurana672 6 лет назад +10

    Teachings worth their weight in gold

  • @joeslob1199
    @joeslob1199 6 лет назад +4

    and so the story would continue...plus or minus .

  • @ee_30_harshitaarya33
    @ee_30_harshitaarya33 Год назад +1

    RESPECT THE SACRIFICES OF OUR PARENTS BUT TOXIC PARENTING IS NOT GOOD. PARENTS ALWAYS COMPLAIN THAT CHILDREN SHOULD BE AS OBEDIENT AS LORD RAMA BUT PARENTS SHOULD NOT FORGET THAT HE ALSO GOT FATHER LIKE KING DASHRATH WHO WAS NON ABUSIVE AND WHO USED TO RESPECT HIS WIVES INSTEAD OF BEATING AND ABUSING THEM AND HE WAS A GREAT HUMAN BEING TOO 🙏🙏

  • @viyyapusaratchandra
    @viyyapusaratchandra 10 месяцев назад +1

    Children aren't your slaves, love them don't put your stupidity ideas on them because they forget to love people 💔

  • @shilpamarudha5732
    @shilpamarudha5732 4 года назад +18

    Typical Truth, but ‘easier said than done’ in the current generation of so unsafe, unstable and judgemental people around!
    Hope things would change with more practicality and sensible enough if the future generation kids are lucky /blessed enough.

  • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
    @MISSMADISONMEDIA Год назад +1

    Allow me to offer a teacher’s perspective: …..PLEASE

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 Год назад

    #Sadhguru🙏
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  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 8 лет назад +4

    ...

  • @pandurangasmaladakar8105
    @pandurangasmaladakar8105 3 года назад +2

    Kannada dub maadi plz

  • @mokesuvik5980
    @mokesuvik5980 Год назад +2

    But sadly most parents take us as their property..I am being beaten up throughout my childhood for marks & mentally abused too & all by parents..They r frustrated & if I m going for playing, they slapped me-this was the regular scene..Indian parents suck..sorry but not sorry…

  • @rajnishah2214
    @rajnishah2214 7 лет назад +14

    Thought is good . But not practical

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Год назад

    He is wrong. Easy for him to say what he says cuz his daughter is well behaved. Not West Indians. If you dont teach they will make your life a hell.
    Most people who talk abt parenting have well behaved children

    • @mamtasingh4723
      @mamtasingh4723 11 месяцев назад +1

      He is not wrong. Children become adults and those adults be the way they were treated in their childhood. If his daughter is well behaved then it must be because he was a good father, it must be because he never was toxic with his daughter. Listen, parents need to accept this.