10 Micro Habits of Successful Women (Over 40 Edition!)

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @DiakaMelendez
    @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +18

    What’s your go to micro habit? ❤

    • @kelmorvibes5345
      @kelmorvibes5345 Месяц назад +10

      I've tried all of them. My issue has been consistency. I'm working on it. Especially the movement and eating clean one. 💪🏽

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      @@kelmorvibes5345Love it! makes a huge difference!

    • @watchmethriving
      @watchmethriving Месяц назад +3

      I stopped hanging out as much at a place that stresses me out. I'm finding I'm much more positive and less anxious

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      @@watchmethrivinglove this!

    • @lesliecolson6174
      @lesliecolson6174 Месяц назад +2

      My monthly massage.

  • @treluvstrees999
    @treluvstrees999 Месяц назад +89

    My micro habits include..
    1. Fresh air- getting outside even in winter. Deep breaths.
    2. Fasting- taking time to fast from food, social media, constant noise- learning to be soft, gentle and quiet at times. Refresh and resets my mind and soul.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Oh fasting! I do it once a year for church. How long do you fast?

  • @sadieg3264
    @sadieg3264 Месяц назад +38

    I think finding something to look forward to is essential for you. I told myself that I must leave my house on the weekends and once every other week during the week.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +3

      Essential! Everyone needs to just get out and enjoy life!

  • @debbiemize2269
    @debbiemize2269 Месяц назад +9

    I am a retired teacher, 72, and I follow a morning routine and an evening routine (thanks to Flylady!). By doing these routines, it gets me dressed in the morning and to bed at a decent time. It may not seem like much, but it is a big deal for me!
    Thanks for this video! You have gained a new subscriber ♥️

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much!

    • @islandprincess9666
      @islandprincess9666 28 дней назад +1

      I stopped following Fly Lady because of her extreme political views. I can’t listen to someone who supports candidates that the KKK and Neo nazis endorse.

    • @Paulohlsson7
      @Paulohlsson7 10 дней назад

      Hi Debbie, how's your day going with you?

  • @wassabilove1111
    @wassabilove1111 Месяц назад +18

    Feeling grateful for you putting out this video because I do not have many female role models. As a 27 year old I feel ahead of the game because of woman like you ❤

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +4

      This comment made my day! 27 was a big year for me figuring things out! So glad you found me!

    • @DivineTai
      @DivineTai Месяц назад +2

      This comment was felt 💐

  • @taebond007
    @taebond007 Месяц назад +8

    Smell good look good feel good. I love you sister. Yes yes yes I agree you are amazing.💜✨🙏🏽👑😊

  • @tynishamalone1668
    @tynishamalone1668 Месяц назад +4

    Having just turned 40. This could not have come to me at a better time. I’ve been in a place where my mind, body and soul are screaming for a change. I’ve always been a dive head in kind of person. I tend to get so overwhelmed very quickly. Thank you for this video. Truly inspiring

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so glad it helped thanks for watching!

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 10 дней назад +1

    This was a wonderful video full of positive reinforcement. I’ve planned a week’s worth of clothes/accessories ahead of time for over 20 years. It’s a great feeling just knowing what you’re wearing in the morning.

  • @madwithmadhu
    @madwithmadhu Месяц назад +3

    Valid points put together well. 'How dare you don't move when you can!'.....loved this ❤

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you for watching! So blessed to be able to move!

  • @nicholebryant7359
    @nicholebryant7359 Месяц назад +7

    My weekend alone time is coffee, Home Depot and target.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      @@nicholebryant7359 I think we all have Target on the list. Thanks for watching!

  • @April-tn7zz
    @April-tn7zz 16 дней назад +1

    36 an prepping for my 40’s, thank you for this

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  16 дней назад

      Awesome just uploaded a video on lessons I learned in my 30s.

  • @tessawilliams261
    @tessawilliams261 Месяц назад +33

    Thumbs up from a 30-year old.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +6

      @@tessawilliams261 Thank you! 30 is the beginning of an amazing journey!

  • @coralswans-pdmanagementand901
    @coralswans-pdmanagementand901 Месяц назад +2

    Great video. Am 58, and I fund these tips so useful. I do almost all of them sporadically, but now I will do it regularly

  • @sabrinagoodman582
    @sabrinagoodman582 Месяц назад +3

    Wonderful refresher from a 60 yr young Contessa

  • @mangayakposowa4334
    @mangayakposowa4334 12 дней назад +1

    Great advice and beautiful space, love the furniture and decor

  • @eleaseedmontson1510
    @eleaseedmontson1510 Месяц назад +8

    I absolutely loved this. Each day, it is good to have something to look forward to and it does not have to be anything spectacular. Sometimes it is and sometimes it is and as simple as your morning coffee.

  • @Mommysodes
    @Mommysodes 17 дней назад +1

    Refreshing list! Truly enjoyed this video.

  • @mystiquatrinette
    @mystiquatrinette 5 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing! I’m a new subscriber. From a 48 year old wife & mom…(from Louisiana😊) My micro habits have been slow mornings, intentional self care, effortless style & skin care routines in the morning and evenings. ❤

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  5 дней назад +1

      Love this! I’m striving for effortless styling but still trying to figure it out.

    • @mystiquatrinette
      @mystiquatrinette 5 дней назад

      Oh yes! I just started my RUclips channel to share these tips. I’ve been inspired by my over 40 sisters on this journey. ❤️

  • @Angelina-gt5ex
    @Angelina-gt5ex 27 дней назад +1

    First time seeing you. Absolutely loved this video, especially the statistic of 45 years (old) being the median age women reach success, and also your 3 barometers of success (health, fulfillment & joy) - definitely adopting that!
    New subbie from London 🇬🇧 💜💫

  • @xploradora8099
    @xploradora8099 22 дня назад +1

    Really good video. I like what you said ‘you don’t have to go broke to have fun’

  • @NickyT876
    @NickyT876 Месяц назад +8

    Absolutely love every micro habit and wrote them down so I can actively incorporate them into my life. New sub. Love your energy and vibe 🎉

  • @sharellgeddins9472
    @sharellgeddins9472 25 дней назад +1

    I’m grateful that I found this video. Thank you. New subscriber.

  • @julieinfante22
    @julieinfante22 25 дней назад +1

    I concur everything you’re saying.

  • @LifeLessonsWithFionaB
    @LifeLessonsWithFionaB Месяц назад +7

    Love it, great list. Thank you for #7 do not apologize for being strong and ambitious and for the gifts god put in us. I like to splurge on skin care travel and fitness/nutrition. And one of my micro habits similar to being grateful is being contented with what I have and who I am Now as I work to being better. Thank you so much, new subscriber :)

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! Spending on travel is so important to me. Experiencing the world is overlooked. Thanks for watching and subbing!

  • @juliaorpheus
    @juliaorpheus 28 дней назад +1

    Wow! Great video. It’s so helpful to me to watch other powerful women unapologetically model self care, confidence and spiritual connection. A lot of ppl in my life aren’t particularly centered in the ways you talked about in this video and I’m getting some pushback for stepping it up and trying to be a better version of myself bc ppl are comfortable when you don’t grow so they don’t have to think about what they can do to improve their own lives. Until I find my higher vibe tribe I’ll be watching your videos a lot lol ❤

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you for watching! Evokution is exciting and scary! You got it!

  • @johannellagracian3566
    @johannellagracian3566 Месяц назад +4

    Nice and useful advises. I am not 40 but I am here to learn how to be my best version of myself to support my family and hopefully be a example for me children

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Yes they work for any age! So glad you watched! Thank you 😊

  • @PricelessPeace85
    @PricelessPeace85 Месяц назад +7

    I absolutely LOVE your content! I had to go ahead and subscribe as one of your Day One's because you'll be at 100K in no time! ❤

  • @denversunday
    @denversunday Месяц назад +3

    I’m 38 and I’ll taking notes. Loved this! Definitely sharing with my girls.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thats awesome. 38 was an age were life really clicked for me!

  • @instruments_gold8412
    @instruments_gold8412 Месяц назад +2

    You nailed it. This video was so on point! Precise eloquent, salient execution of important tips.

  • @Idksedona
    @Idksedona Месяц назад +5

    this was such wonderful advice, your powerful feminine energy radiates through this video! thank you!!

  • @treluvstrees999
    @treluvstrees999 Месяц назад +5

    Sensational video! Love the emphasis on move more!

  • @stephanieg2000
    @stephanieg2000 Месяц назад +1

    First time I've seen your content and I've saved this to watch again. Wonderful points! Thank you!

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for subbing!

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 10 дней назад +1

    I’d love a video on women who love football. For real.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  9 дней назад

      Football is life! Unfortunately my team is trash right now. 😩

    • @susanr791
      @susanr791 9 дней назад

      @ I hear you - mine the Chiefs are doing awesome

  • @Southlagal26
    @Southlagal26 27 дней назад +1

    Great message!❤️

  • @latashiaabrams2600
    @latashiaabrams2600 Месяц назад +1

    Your content is always filled with 💎s! Thank you.

  • @HomewithCheryl
    @HomewithCheryl Месяц назад +1

    Love this!! I will rewatch and take notes! Wish I had this advice a long time ago ❤

  • @HomewithCheryl
    @HomewithCheryl Месяц назад +2

    Would love to see how you eat clean!

  • @CL-do5eq
    @CL-do5eq Месяц назад +2

    Love these in my early 30’s ❤. Can you please do a video on friendships like how to build them and release some.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Great idea! I will see how I can loop in relationships!

  • @NtathuAllen
    @NtathuAllen Месяц назад +1

    Thank you. I appreciate your clarity

  • @joyceayala2656
    @joyceayala2656 Месяц назад +4

    So glad I came across your page!! 🥰

  • @SPCHANGES
    @SPCHANGES Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this video

  • @ps_herserenity
    @ps_herserenity Месяц назад +2

    Love this video, definitely gave me points to ponder. ❤

  • @lesliecolson6174
    @lesliecolson6174 Месяц назад +3

    I enjoyed this video so much I viewed it twice 😊

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so glad it was helpful! Thank you for watching!

  • @kelmorvibes5345
    @kelmorvibes5345 Месяц назад +3

    Great video! Thanks for sharing.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      @@kelmorvibes5345 Thank you for watching!

  • @stephanieh5216
    @stephanieh5216 Месяц назад +1

    You are stunning! New listener here❤

  • @eminaroses2138
    @eminaroses2138 Месяц назад +1

    Love this 👏

  • @RichardFeldman-wd2dz
    @RichardFeldman-wd2dz 29 дней назад

    Just found you tonight! So excited!

  • @Laura-rx9mp
    @Laura-rx9mp Месяц назад +3

    great video. thank you, subscribed!

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thanks for the sub! I appreciate it!

  • @yensiskos
    @yensiskos Месяц назад +2

    ❤❤❤ thank you for this video!

  • @AnitraSargent
    @AnitraSargent Месяц назад +1

    Congratulations on having over 1,000 subscribers 🎉

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you it’s been an amazing week! 🥰😊

  • @saroyo2687
    @saroyo2687 Месяц назад +1

    Those Saints season tickets made my husband and I laugh. Big fans too but we love watching the games at home (Texas)

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      I have a love hate relationship with the Saints lol! Thanks for watching!

  • @kenyasimmons6316
    @kenyasimmons6316 Месяц назад +1

    I love this video!! Thank you

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you for watching glad it was helpful!

  • @deluxecoco2789
    @deluxecoco2789 Месяц назад +2

    Amazing tips I was hooked after #1.

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      @@deluxecoco2789 thank you for watching 🩷

  • @belleparlor
    @belleparlor Месяц назад +3

    Excellent video.

  • @ericaherndon7228
    @ericaherndon7228 Месяц назад +1

    Great list!

  • @lynnykhoury
    @lynnykhoury Месяц назад +1

    Great video! ❤

  • @avery0704
    @avery0704 Месяц назад +1

    Who dat!!❤. Great video!! I’m glad I found your channel!

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Rough weekend for us against the Eagles but glad you found the channel!!

  • @mogulmade
    @mogulmade Месяц назад +1

    Wow. This was really a great video❤

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much!! Thank you for watching!

  • @awanderfullifeblog
    @awanderfullifeblog Месяц назад +3

    Fabulous Video

  • @MissElisxmiss
    @MissElisxmiss Месяц назад +1

    Life is simple

  • @NokulungaMacu-uq8qu
    @NokulungaMacu-uq8qu 4 дня назад

    I subscribed immediately 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @Mo11.11
    @Mo11.11 Месяц назад

    Thank you❤

  • @alexandrajlovesyou
    @alexandrajlovesyou Месяц назад +1

    Hello new here love this video thank for sharing ❤❤

  • @lovinglife3954
    @lovinglife3954 Месяц назад +1

    Love the content. The music made it hard to listen to the speaking.

  • @theresaholmes4427
    @theresaholmes4427 Месяц назад +2

    Wholesome, God-centered wisdom …. 49yr old

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much he is at the center of it all!

  • @Denisebemmett
    @Denisebemmett Месяц назад +2

    🙏😊

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  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 Месяц назад

    Fasting Alhamdhulilah and reading and listening to Quran recitations

    • @DiakaMelendez
      @DiakaMelendez  Месяц назад

      I’m considering fasting as well. Thanks for watching.

  • @pretti_dope
    @pretti_dope Месяц назад +2

    Lml. I'm 45. Yay me!🤌🏽🙌🏾😊😢