I worked for a big company in my early twenties. Women would cast insults because I refused to date them. What they didn't realize was I was a virgin, and I was intent on marrying a woman who was a virgin. The women also didn't realize I actually paid attention to their conduct and speech and was utterly disgusted by the fact they laid with so many people and would brag about it to other women. Their promiscuity was a lifestyle.
I absolutely hate how normalized it is to sleep around. It does absolutely nothing but damage you in obvious ways and yet people in this generation will only gaslight you and pretend like it’s a necessary, healthy part of life🙄 it’s so frustrating.
Black culture loves shame culture that's all it pushes. Shame culture needs something to shame in order for it to operate. That's why you are constantly discussed by 304s.
I've heard several men online say they want a low body count woman but don't want to wait to sleep with a woman regardless of her sexual past. In Yvonne's case she's mentioned a few times once men realize she's serious about her celibacy they fall off. I don't know what she can do besides having an arranged marriage at this point.
Yes I keep seeing men saying the same thing. It's like she's supposed 2 sleep with a man or else he won't commit but that would lead to more body counts. I don't get it.
@@feefee2 If 80 percent or more women actually held onto virginity until marriage, men would have almost no expectation of sex PRIOR to marriage. Sexual freedom has consequences, and it seems that women have ZERO concern regarding outcomes for engaging casual and reckless sex. You saw the example (in the video) - why marry a woman who ALLOWED 15 or more men to engage casual sex, but did NOT require marriage?
Yvonne has just proved that having a low body count in this messed up world doesn’t necessarily get you wifed up. I don’t think Yvonne did anything wrong. She needs to open up her dating option to other races.
The fact that Yvonne has literally made her "virginity" a talking point speaks to her outlook. If she wants a husband, she needs to be focused and go about it with seriousness. I say this as a Nigerian and a fan.
Feminism got our rights as women to vote, work and exist in this patriarchal society without being disrespected. Feminism is not about having bodies or about being loud. It’s about our rights. I am a feminine woman and believe in feminism at its core. You guys have framed it into something else. Smh
@@LovelyVibrations chicks have been working for thousands of years, way before feminism. The "patriarchy" provided for y'all and kept y'all safe, feminism and the matriarchy has made y'all less safe. Most chicks never wanted feminism nor the right to vote. Feminism got you equal pay, not the right to work.
I have been with my husband since I was 23...fast forward 22 years later and what I have noticed is with other races the women deal with A LOT of men but still find a husband before 30 with no problem and that is because thd majority of them do not have children with ANYONE besides their husband. Also body count is a poor indicator of faithfulness and mentality mainly because people lie, it's as simple as that.
Those women can be free sexually because their men are not as predatory as bm. Those men don't want kids out of wedlock, so they make sure to use protection. They are not trying to trap women with babies. The mentality is totally different.
@@ohanaohana8844 I am going to have to disagree with your statement. First To label Black men as predatory is wrong it demonizes Black men and that is not the case. The truth is that other races put their daughters on birth control at a very early age around 13 with the excuse being it will "regulate their cycle or control acne breakouts"....so my classmates and college roommate popped b.c.pills like Skittles and doubled up on protection (unless the parents were ultra religious) and their activities will make a porn star blush....Most Black and Brown women rely on the man for birth control (condoms, pull out) and for some reason sex and sexuality is not discussed in our household especially if the parent is religious. So when you say trapped it's as if the woman has no choice in the matter. There is also a culture of if you give him a child he will not leave you, some learn the hard way. There are a few men who purposefully get women pregnant but again the choice is ultimately up to the woman.
39 never married no kids & I don’t feel as if I’m missing anything. If I had of gotten married in my younger years I know for a fact I’d be divorced by now like most of my peers. If that’s a red flag or I “messed up” so be it
If you never wanted marriage or children, you're NOT missing anything. You have the rest of your days alone, but fulfilled in other ways. The issue are women who desire marriage, but have issues and problems that DISQUALIFY them as wives. As a virgin (and supposedly religious women), Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones could have (and should have) married years ago. Virgin or not, they've done something - and likely many things - wrong along the way.
@@nawi332 Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones tried to leverage virginity as an "ace card" over non-virginal women. Virginity is an early to late 20s advantage. They're the same as every other 30-plus biological woman, and aging out of the dating market. Virgins must meet the SAME qualifications as every other woman to secure marriage. It seems that these women did NOT meet those qualifications, and chose career over marriage.
@@kevinc3342your sentiment is all the way misconstrued. They stated they dated in their 20s marriage never came. Also, these women are thin and virgins so they should have been at the top of the dating market. It’s more than what you’re implying.
I know a pookie and a ray ray Body counts in the Hi double digits Forty years old and still stay with their mama... I don't think this is accurate for men
Alot of women, and i mean modern. Have to understand. With predicable consistency rate their lives against those of others (women) and focus the majority of their actions to impress their peers. From the clothes they wear, the cars they drive, the jobs they work, even the people they sleep with, based on what their friends and family will think. Also to mention, In the short term it is more satisfying and easier to blame another person for how we habitually feel, rather than to unpack our lives and examine our earliest memories and feelings, to find out what we’ve come to believe about the world from those experiences, and how they gave us our default way of feeling and being.
Feminism is not the problem. And feminism is not about sexual revolution, even though those who demonize it will emphasize that aspect of the movement. You , as a woman, are able to have options - including a RUclips channel and business - because of women's rights movement. Don't ever forget that😢!
Whether it was intended to be about sexual promiscuity or not, I’m telling you, that’s what I’ve observed as a man. I personally don’t care, I’ll sleep with them, but I won’t entertain being in a relationship with them. If y’all wana give it up cool, no problem, but with the attitude and promiscuity, there’s nothing there that says wife to me. I’ve had to walk away from FINE women because they just weren’t worth it to me. So, agree to disagree
Nneka check out the book The 4 Hour work week, see if there is anything there you can apply. Is there away you can outsource some of the things you do. 😊
Nah, it’s something wrong with the men that was pursuing them. Only a small percentage of men are desirable & all women want that one man. Unfortunately, many women would rather die alone than settle.
As far as what the guy in the beginning said, if you look at things from a worldly perspective then his logic would be sound and I'm a guy. However being a man that has committed his life to Christ, I don't follow the rules of the world like that. Sure if you are a man of the world seeking out the money, the Fame and status; sure. And as a woman if your focus is on beauty which is vain and fleeting, you will be caught in this rat race. But I chose to get out of that rat race a long time ago and it paid dividends for me . I wasn't looking for the baddie or the hottie, though my wife is a good-looking woman. My wife wasn't looking for a come up though we made good in our life over time. It depends upon how you want to go about things as a man or a woman. If you want to follow the world's ways then you're ascribed to what that guy in the beginning was describing. But if you want to go about it God's way then those things don't apply because your perspective and your mindset is completely different. Remember Christ said don't be in such a hurry to gain wealth but store up Treasures in Heaven.
The very first step on a woman’s descent from the top of the triangle is physical signs of aging (i.e., physically hitting the wall). I say that because a woman who holds her youth and beauty longer receives more grace for having a higher body count and/or being a single mother. So the first step on the decline in s hitting the wall physically. Second is single motherhood, followed by high body count. If you’re a single mother who looks fantastic, it can mitigate a high body count. It won’t necessarily make you a wife, but you will still have a lot of male attention. If you hit the wall AND have multiple baby daddies, that body count can be low but loom larger as a factor. So, body count is generally third, but the three factors can rotate situationally. (1) Physically hitting the wall (2) Single motherhood (3) High body count! You need proof? Lori Harvey! She still looks good, so her body count is less of a factor right now. Evelyn Lozada Alyssa Milano Rihanna Halle Berry Kim Kardashian Draya Michelle Women who look really good are given more leeway when it comes to single motherhood and high body counts. Bad attitude, lack of submissiveness, lack of domestic skills and the rest fall along the line toward the bottom.
It seems that women have misunderstood virginity as well as high body count. Lolo Jones is also a virgin in her late thirties, who has started freezing her eggs. I would posit that both Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones mistakenly believed that their virginity was an added value that allowed them to be *_extra selective_* in the marriage market. While there is be *_some_* truth to that, virginity is *NOT* the BIG JOKER that trumps everything else and guarantees an "extra top-tier" husband. Lastly, virginity is a lot like wine, if not consumed it eventually turns into vinegar. The value of virginity is strongly tied to *FERTILITY* At 39 how many children can Yvonne Orji give a man? Any thing over 35 is geriatric pregnancy. The study published by the University of St. Andrews and Edinburgh University in Scotland found that women have lost 90 percent of their eggs by the time they are 30 years old, and only have about 3 percent remaining by the time they are 40.
A 40 yr old woman that's a virgin but still single?? This is why being a virgin or having a low body count is not a trophy. Women who have low or high body counts are getting married over a virgin, so why women and males act like virginity or low body count is a prize?
I got the answer 5. A study shows women who has 5 bodies or less are far more likely to get married and stay married. Another study showed you are the sum of your 5 closest friends politically, financially, so on… I think the mind separates halves, thirds, quarters, and fifths well enough. Beyond that the mind starts playing interesting games in making connection to intimacy. Just like Dunbar’s number of 148 people being the max for a community in the human brain.
After 2 they’re on a rocket to 8-10 and that’s when the multiply by 3 comes into play but honestly just check for red flags. Each red flag is 5 bodies.
@@Beast-fq7rp if I type in a link it will get removed, copy and paste these words to get to an article about the Wheatley institute study, Married men and women who have only had sex with their spouse have a nearly 45% chance of reporting a very high level of relationship stability in their marriage, compared to only 25% of married individuals with 5-9 lifetime sexual partners and only 14% of married individuals with 10 or more lifetime sexual partners. I remember that 2 and 3 bodies could be worst than 4 and 5. Five was a magic best chances number. The sum of you five closest friends study is a popular poly sci study a google search could find Your can look up the science behind the Dunbar number at your leisure.
"Many" of us Men catch bodies. But when we seriously spot "That Special Woman". We pour our ALL into her, our focus, our love, our attention, time and even money.
@mallburk1191 bcz YOU - BM stop treating us with respect once you land us. I got 8 proposals in my youth. Im glad I turned them all down. I do wish Id had more children but not as a single mom or divorcee
@@juliatripp2010That’s because once a man falls in “LOVE” with a woman, we no longer “LIKE” you. Because we men lose our power and become vulnerable. When men fall in love, it’s painful, stressful and draining. It’s a very uncomfortable feeling and experience for us. It makes us feel conquered. Also it means that we men have to divert our attention, time, emotional support and resources to this woman. Which often times, isn’t fun for us. However, those men do find value in love, family and marriage later down the road. But not initially. For us, LOVE HURTS. 💔
I don’t agree with that guy at the beginning imo Many men like pornstar women body count, many men in hip hop will say that they like women who are wretched (which is the same as attitude), and many men have many kids with the woman in order to tie her down especially when it comes to church going men in the past. Many of our parents (Gen X) or grandparents (millennials) were church going and they had many kids, usually the woman would be the homemaker, but the men still had affairs and made kids out of wedlock, there’s even stories of fathers abandoning whole families without a second thought. I think it’s all about context and perspective, and not being judgmental. You could say women started with more value, but historically girl babies were less desired in all cultures
That's a silly lie. No decent man wants some woman that has been banged by hundreds of men. May sleep with her, but certainly not marrying and putting a ring on it.
Who cares whether "many men like porn star women?" Women do NOT have to engage casual or reckless sex. Women also do NOT have to become single mothers "in order to [be tied] down" to a baby daddy/baby daddies. The ongoing lie of "married men [having affairs and making] kids out of wedlock" is an old wives tale, and has no strong evidence. Your grandfather(s) and a few other wayward men does NOT count as majority Black men.
Right. The man in the beginning should just make it plain and say women should use their private part as a means to stay at the top of the pyramid. This is a way to dehumanize women and keep us on the hamster wheel.
The first thing that the brother mentioned pertaining to the woman's decreased value. ATTITUDE! A bad attitude is a nonstarter. 40 year old virgin or not.
i agree...I do not even look at most women now....im protecting myself and my finances....what makes them think i wanna be bothered now.....they've had so many dudes that got it and didnt marry them, so why would i
I don't think she wants to be married i bet a day of my life she had men who wanted to merrier her but her Career came first. I don't know this for a fact But I got a gut feeling.
Its not only about bodies but bodies have role to play. In the case of the 40 yr old virgin is unique. But with her although she has zero bodies age and youth is going against her. Your husband would want to have babies as healthy as possible. So the older you get as a woman is not ideal. Didn't say she cant have a healthy body. But marriage and baby shouldve been the target when she was younger. She can get an ideal match but as she gets older it will start to get more difficult. And if she is masculine too she will have a hard time.
Youth is against men 40+ as well because the quality of their sperm decreases causing birth defects such as cardiovascular abnormalities, facial deformities, urogenital abnormalities, and chromosome disorders in their offspring.
This is my issue…we are entered. I don’t understand the comfortability with all the entering and depositing that occurs when we sleep with men. You can’t wash that away.
The man made a graph that explicitly stated more criteria than just body count. Yet, the discussion is only about body count? Why discuss only body count, when that is not the only criteria being judged?
This is why a lot of women are tapping out and choosing not to date. Not worth turning yourself into a pretzel. This concept is very misogynistic and dated.
Body count doesnt matter… desirability matters… and men use body count to haggle women into submission or lowering their standards if they have a body count higher than the man’s preferred number
Thank you brother!!!! Desirability > body count! I know plenty of god fearing virgin black women but men don’t go for them because they are not as desirable.
The irony of "sexual liberation" is that you are trapped by not only the behavior (like an addiction) but the moniker associated with it (whether you accept it or not). The other problem is women assume that attention is the same as worth. Just because you're sexually attractive doesn't mean you're automatically wife material. This is why you'll have some "high value" dudes (morally aside) will have a main chick (wife or not) and many side chicks. Lastly, men have the ability to compartmentalize (hence why they can fight in mma, boxing, or other sports and still chop it up with the same guy just moments ago wanting to knock their head off). It's the same with sex (hence why you'll hear men saying they didn't love the chick they sleep with). Women, by and large, are not biologically wired to do that, so this is why body counts matter.
well the great thing about being a man in todays world? we happy alone. we happy with our jobs, friends, hobbies, inteterests and there always gonna be women to just hit and quit. times have changed. you a strong woman. good. you don't need a man. good. we can have our cake and eat it to.
Thinking you have lots of TIME to attract AND select from the large BUT soon to be invisible groups of men is the most common mistake a woman can maKe in finding that lasting relationship. The objective is not to Alienate the men who want to INVEST in a long term relationship with a trustworthy & agreeable woman.
For me bottom line is I ain't want no one with a high body count.....females won't be honest with you....just imagine you marry a female with so many ex hell naw how would you feel as a man......
There are literally millions of single moms out there who’d like for the world to treat their sons with dignity and high regard. My question to those who desire that, do you regard the grown versions of him walking around everyday that way? Capitalism & Feminism with an unrelenting prejudicial attack have made it hard to get a woman in the west to see a man as a leader, protector, provider and someone to acquiesce to. As stated in the video, your born on top, classy, pure and so on but if you are argumentative, have a sketch history and feminine escapes you - how does that get resolved. My grandfathers were always so peaceful because my beautiful RIH grandmothers baptized their homes in feminine energy. What you do, when and with who matters to someone that is mature; a person of lower character won’t have a high bar. When you purchase a brand new car, you expect everything to function as expected and understand reliability won’t be an issue. If you have gotten a vehicle off that last lot downtown, I highly recommend a thorough test drive and extended warranty due to unknown history. When women get upset that men bring up being modest and get incensed at men’s directives I think okay….What did your grandparents believe what are your traditions? Eventually, you are left with - I dishonored my family. It’s sad.
Adam never had a thought about eve. He was given a gift while he was working (who he named eve after the fall due to the separation caused by sin/evil). The curse of the fall caused "the patriarchy" which states that man will rule over his wife. Can you tell me, where in the word does it tell or instruct a man to chase after or cater to a woman? I know it's calls us to love, protect, teach, provide for a wife but most of the instruction is to stay focused on God. I also know Matthew 6:33, Jeremiah 29:11, Proverbs 18:22 and 1 Timothy 5:11-15. If you're trying to "fix dating" try having a Bible study with your members, the word is the only hope we have of anything good. Hosea 4:6 my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge....... Only God can fix this
1 Cor 7:33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Yvonne is not married because she chose her career like a lot of women who are successful as far as high monetary careers. Matter of fact that one white lady you listen to speaks that women have to chose family are career. As well as Kevin samuels said something similar. women have to be intentional, reason being women only have so long for child bearing.
Your talking point about bodycount use Ivonne as an example is a good one. And logically it makes sense but unfortunately today's modern man, for the most part, doesnt honor and lionize virginity. It's kinda not a "prize" anymore to most men who are "of the world" who want sex. The days of having to wait until marriage to get sex is gone. Moreover, the most eligible guys in the dating market are absolutely not waiting to get married to get sex. Tbh she can pick a "regular " guy to be with cause there are a bunch of regular, single guys out there but she probably wants a top guy (tall, financially stable, handsome, someone who still has all his teeth and can speak the King's English) but the competition for those guys is fierce and not realistic. She is in a pickle and time is ticking....
I’m a man and I don’t agree with some of the things he is saying especially about the way a man can have sex with many different women. I have seen many guys who have done anything with their life and has had sex with many women.
My Exe's daughter is brilliant, highly educated, multiple degrees, no babies, didnt sleep around but is dark skin. No husband in sight. The math aint mathin
The multiple degrees are working against her far more than her skin tone ever would or could. Unless she is holding out for a member of the Boulé, it's not her dark skin working against her. Most black women with advanced degrees chose education and put relationships on the back burner until they are well beyond their prime marrying years.
@ruminantmelanoid5444 Based on what Im seeing in AA males, its probably a smarter move than the ginirmous disappointments that await behind relationships with self-hating BM. She will ALWAYS be able to provide for herself. She will have good housing. She is less likely to be beaten and cheated on or given STD's. My only child's father left me when I was a broken 16-year-old teenager (DV in the family), married a woman with a graduate degree in theology, and abandoned her with 3 children! And he came from a supposedly upperclass black family. Puhleeze! I ultimately ran into trouble, paying dearly for my familys abuse. Did any BM love me or forgive that? No of course not but I rose to save myself. Not a smidgen of empathy from the men who hurt me. Just use, abuse, deception, and lies. I do have relatives in happy or at least long term marriages but mostly with yte women who they felt (long long ago even) provided better economic leverage for them!. BM are a sinking ship for BW. We are no longer buying this narrative on having your children. Which is unfortunate cuz the black race is going extinct, not bcz of us BW, but due to the obscene behaviors of black men from the great / grandfathers on down. If I sound 'bitter' I laugh. This is the voice of clarity and freedom. I dont need to call myself 'feminist' Im simply at peace and I think many women who think theyre safe within their relationship with a BM now, a large % will change their tune - 50% they say.
How is her attitude, and weight? Is she promiscuous and passed 27 years of age? These are things that can and will affect her relationship prospects. She can look good and not be good for men with choices.
I doubt it's the complexion (unless she's in North Dakota or a place with very little black men). How does she look? How's her weight? How's her attitude? Is she socially awkward. I've noticed lots of book smart career women are awkward/cringy around men.
Critical thinking and forethought aren't taught in school. That's by design, The US education system is modeled after the Prussian education system. It's more of an indoctrination system really. Horace Mann didn't want thinkers he and other elites wanted workers and consumers. I recommend everyone study this history. Feminism supports this indoctrination that started on the first day of school, Women getting more degrees is great. I love learning, But a degree isn't an identity. It doesn't cover a bad attitude or bad behavior. Critical thinkers understand this. A person with forethought understands that stat packing is not a flex.
If an attractive woman can't secure a husband in 20 years...the problem is her. This Ms Yvonne woman had chances but failed. Women need to do better effect checking each other. If a person can go without sex for 40 years with no relationship, they aren't marriageable in the typical sense. Building a life together and growing a family clearly isn't a priority.
The issue with body count: There are exceptions to rule. But younger women who are virgins usually have the best feeling Vajay. A woman with less than 5 bodies feels slighlty not as a good, A woman with more than 10 bodies has a different feeling etc, Pretty much after 10 it all feels exactly the same. I can tell if a woman has had hardly any partners or if she is younger than what she said was by the way her Wet Cat feels.
Well, that's stupid. Body count is about the number of partners, not the number of sexual encounters. So there would be no reason for things to feel different based solely on body count. She coulda banged 1 dude 500 times and it'd be more "wear" than banging 50 dudes 1 time.
@@nnekaonyilofor there are other women over 35 who are still Virgins. Personality wise just from listening to them I can understand why they never had a husband.
To put accountability for women having bodies on the media and society influence is misguided. Men, particularly black men are inundated with the same negative stereotypes and portrayals in black culture of being thugs, drug dealers as what Bw find attractive and the idea of success and yet black men still for the large part were able to dodge the pitfalls of incarceration etc. Bw really dont have an excuse with the feminism angle as to why they took so hard and so quickly to these representations presented of bodies = female empowerment other than , thats what they wanted to do. Media pushing women to do what they already wanted to do but were reluctant to do for fear of the consequences. The consequences were never removed. Thats what women are facing now. As they will most likely die alone , never starting families. 11:18 its the wrong side of the pyramid. Women should be focusing on their side of the pyramid first and solely. thats her priority and then when her business is handled on her side then she can play on the other side. Women can have jobs and work just like men and have professions. Nobody is saying that. But her duty and obligation is to her side of the pyramid first and foremost and to her husband she ultimately will have. Her responsibility and obligation is not to a job, not too a career. Thats where women have it twisted. If she has free time , she can do career. Family and husband comes first.
Does sex effect a woman?if the answer is yes then body count matters.not so much how many bodies because only she knows and nobody else could possibly know.so it's more about does the new guy have effect on you or her previous bodies.men just only care about if u are his woman or not.is there a difference in how a virgin acts and a woman with sexual experiences?if sex effects women then a man who cares to take any woman seriously needs to know who this woman is before he arrived in the picture and after he enters the scene does she compliment or adjust to him or does it even matter.man would like to make a decision on to move forward or fall back.just some things on men's minds. ✌️
As a man we know how many body a woman has. Women cant hide their body count as well as they think they can. We might not know her exact number, but we'll have a fairly accurate assessment.
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I worked for a big company in my early twenties. Women would cast insults because I refused to date them. What they didn't realize was I was a virgin, and I was intent on marrying a woman who was a virgin. The women also didn't realize I actually paid attention to their conduct and speech and was utterly disgusted by the fact they laid with so many people and would brag about it to other women. Their promiscuity was a lifestyle.
Yes! This proves that body count AND attitude matters a lot.
I absolutely hate how normalized it is to sleep around. It does absolutely nothing but damage you in obvious ways and yet people in this generation will only gaslight you and pretend like it’s a necessary, healthy part of life🙄 it’s so frustrating.
Exactly!
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I’m still a Virgin…I asked god to hide me from those who are not truly meant for me.🙏🏽💯🙏🏽
I think promiscuity has hurt both men and women but worse still children.
@@shantavanee God bless you. There’s no value in sharing yourself with temporary people.
In my opinion I believe that society should Bring back shame culture.feminism isn’t a black woman’s game.
Black culture loves shame culture that's all it pushes. Shame culture needs something to shame in order for it to operate. That's why you are constantly discussed by 304s.
Nneka, what good is a motor vehicle with 300,000+ miles on the odometer? We better wake up and smell the coffee!
They think they can get new car prices selling a used car 😂
No man wants a woman that has been banged by hundreds of men.
I've heard several men online say they want a low body count woman but don't want to wait to sleep with a woman regardless of her sexual past. In Yvonne's case she's mentioned a few times once men realize she's serious about her celibacy they fall off. I don't know what she can do besides having an arranged marriage at this point.
Hey Mark! It’s good to see you here 😊. An arrange marriage makes sense for her, given her situation.
Yes I keep seeing men saying the same thing. It's like she's supposed 2 sleep with a man or else he won't commit but that would lead to more body counts. I don't get it.
@@feefee2 If 80 percent or more women actually held onto virginity until marriage, men would have almost no expectation of sex PRIOR to marriage. Sexual freedom has consequences, and it seems that women have ZERO concern regarding outcomes for engaging casual and reckless sex. You saw the example (in the video) - why marry a woman who ALLOWED 15 or more men to engage casual sex, but did NOT require marriage?
@kevinc3342 yes that would definitely change things!
Yvonne has just proved that having a low body count in this messed up world doesn’t necessarily get you wifed up. I don’t think Yvonne did anything wrong. She needs to open up her dating option to other races.
My guy in the beginning was absolutely preaching! Lol dang
The fact that Yvonne has literally made her "virginity" a talking point speaks to her outlook. If she wants a husband, she needs to be focused and go about it with seriousness. I say this as a Nigerian and a fan.
She's a 39 years old virgin modern feminist, that's how she lasted so long without being married.
She's not attractive enough to be in a mentality of divine feminine energy. That includes physicallly connected with a man.
And a stinky attitude to boot.
Feminism got our rights as women to vote, work and exist in this patriarchal society without being disrespected. Feminism is not about having bodies or about being loud. It’s about our rights. I am a feminine woman and believe in feminism at its core. You guys have framed it into something else. Smh
@@LovelyVibrations chicks have been working for thousands of years, way before feminism. The "patriarchy" provided for y'all and kept y'all safe, feminism and the matriarchy has made y'all less safe. Most chicks never wanted feminism nor the right to vote. Feminism got you equal pay, not the right to work.
I have been with my husband since I was 23...fast forward 22 years later and what I have noticed is with other races the women deal with A LOT of men but still find a husband before 30 with no problem and that is because thd majority of them do not have children with ANYONE besides their husband. Also body count is a poor indicator of faithfulness and mentality mainly because people lie, it's as simple as that.
Those women can be free sexually because their men are not as predatory as bm. Those men don't want kids out of wedlock, so they make sure to use protection. They are not trying to trap women with babies. The mentality is totally different.
@@ohanaohana8844 I am going to have to disagree with your statement. First To label Black men as predatory is wrong it demonizes Black men and that is not the case. The truth is that other races put their daughters on birth control at a very early age around 13 with the excuse being it will "regulate their cycle or control acne breakouts"....so my classmates and college roommate popped b.c.pills like Skittles and doubled up on protection (unless the parents were ultra religious) and their activities will make a porn star blush....Most Black and Brown women rely on the man for birth control (condoms, pull out) and for some reason sex and sexuality is not discussed in our household especially if the parent is religious. So when you say trapped it's as if the woman has no choice in the matter. There is also a culture of if you give him a child he will not leave you, some learn the hard way. There are a few men who purposefully get women pregnant but again the choice is ultimately up to the woman.
Right, it’s not about bodies, but expectations. I’m certain Yvonne’s expects a better man than has found her.
Always about bodies.
No man respects or wants a woman that has been poked by hundreds of men.
39 never married no kids & I don’t feel as if I’m missing anything. If I had of gotten married in my younger years I know for a fact I’d be divorced by now like most of my peers. If that’s a red flag or I “messed up” so be it
Exactly! There are so many women who "did everything the right way" and are absolutely miserable.
If you never wanted marriage or children, you're NOT missing anything. You have the rest of your days alone, but fulfilled in other ways. The issue are women who desire marriage, but have issues and problems that DISQUALIFY them as wives. As a virgin (and supposedly religious women), Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones could have (and should have) married years ago. Virgin or not, they've done something - and likely many things - wrong along the way.
@@kevinc3342hmm.. what do you mean? What do you think they did wrong?
@@nawi332 Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones tried to leverage virginity as an "ace card" over non-virginal women. Virginity is an early to late 20s advantage. They're the same as every other 30-plus biological woman, and aging out of the dating market. Virgins must meet the SAME qualifications as every other woman to secure marriage. It seems that these women did NOT meet those qualifications, and chose career over marriage.
@@kevinc3342your sentiment is all the way misconstrued. They stated they dated in their 20s marriage never came. Also, these women are thin and virgins so they should have been at the top of the dating market. It’s more than what you’re implying.
I subscribed yesterday, after finding you about 4 months ago. I appreciate your style and professionalism.
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
I know a pookie and a ray ray Body counts in the Hi double digits Forty years old and still stay with their mama... I don't think this is accurate for men
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Thank you so much sis! 👑💜
Thank you sister Nneka for your value-added and wise counsel content! Wishing you all the very best!
Alot of women, and i mean modern. Have to understand. With predicable consistency rate their lives against those of others (women) and focus the majority of their actions to impress their peers. From the clothes they wear, the cars they drive, the jobs they work, even the people they sleep with, based on what their friends and family will think.
Also to mention, In the short term it is more satisfying and easier to blame another person for how we habitually feel, rather than to unpack our lives and examine our earliest memories and feelings, to find out what we’ve come to believe about the world from those experiences, and how they gave us our default way of feeling and being.
Dude with the dreads broke it down lovely at the start of the video. I can't remember his name though.
Very powerful video !! Peace, blessings and prosperity sister.💯💎
Thank you for watching!
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Feminism is not the problem. And feminism is not about sexual revolution, even though those who demonize it will emphasize that aspect of the movement. You , as a woman, are able to have options - including a RUclips channel and business - because of women's rights movement. Don't ever forget that😢!
Whether it was intended to be about sexual promiscuity or not, I’m telling you, that’s what I’ve observed as a man. I personally don’t care, I’ll sleep with them, but I won’t entertain being in a relationship with them. If y’all wana give it up cool, no problem, but with the attitude and promiscuity, there’s nothing there that says wife to me. I’ve had to walk away from FINE women because they just weren’t worth it to me. So, agree to disagree
@battletested2934 whats worth it in your eyes.
And a bank account. And the right to vote. And to have a successful business program.
I consider myself a feminist in some ways but I don't believe that there is any liberation in women behaving like men.
Nneka check out the book
The 4 Hour work week, see if there is anything there you can apply.
Is there away you can outsource some of the things you do. 😊
Thank you Geno! My goal is to hire a video editor. Maybe the book can get me to that point.
@@nnekaonyilofor video editor can they also do the thumb nails but keep your same formats I love your thumbnails
Someone once said "if she in her 30's and never married, something wrong with her". That's so true for alot of women 😂😂😂
I know that to be true with a lot of career driven Real Christian women who have 0 bodies.
So what do you men want from us? Do you want a virgin woman or a woman with "experience"?
@@carlosT3000they're career driven, not husband driven. In other words, they still don't put a man first
If modern women being liberated is having a high body count/Jezebel Spirit 🤔 make it make sense 😱
Nah, it’s something wrong with the men that was pursuing them. Only a small percentage of men are desirable & all women want that one man. Unfortunately, many women would rather die alone than settle.
As far as what the guy in the beginning said, if you look at things from a worldly perspective then his logic would be sound and I'm a guy. However being a man that has committed his life to Christ, I don't follow the rules of the world like that. Sure if you are a man of the world seeking out the money, the Fame and status; sure. And as a woman if your focus is on beauty which is vain and fleeting, you will be caught in this rat race. But I chose to get out of that rat race a long time ago and it paid dividends for me . I wasn't looking for the baddie or the hottie, though my wife is a good-looking woman. My wife wasn't looking for a come up though we made good in our life over time. It depends upon how you want to go about things as a man or a woman. If you want to follow the world's ways then you're ascribed to what that guy in the beginning was describing. But if you want to go about it God's way then those things don't apply because your perspective and your mindset is completely different. Remember Christ said don't be in such a hurry to gain wealth but store up Treasures in Heaven.
I love this!! Your perspective is very important. There is “man’s” way and there is God’s way.💎
I like this pyramid talk sis! Great imagery 🙏🏾❤✨
Thank you!! 🙏🏾
The very first step on a woman’s descent from the top of the triangle is physical signs of aging (i.e., physically hitting the wall).
I say that because a woman who holds her youth and beauty longer receives more grace for having a higher body count and/or being a single mother. So the first step on the decline in s hitting the wall physically.
Second is single motherhood, followed by high body count. If you’re a single mother who looks fantastic, it can mitigate a high body count. It won’t necessarily make you a wife, but you will still have a lot of male attention.
If you hit the wall AND have multiple baby daddies, that body count can be low but loom larger as a factor.
So, body count is generally third, but the three factors can rotate situationally.
(1) Physically hitting the wall
(2) Single motherhood
(3) High body count!
You need proof?
Lori Harvey! She still looks good, so her body count is less of a factor right now.
Evelyn Lozada
Alyssa Milano
Rihanna
Halle Berry
Kim Kardashian
Draya Michelle
Women who look really good are given more leeway when it comes to single motherhood and high body counts.
Bad attitude, lack of submissiveness, lack of domestic skills and the rest fall along the line toward the bottom.
Great breakdown! It makes a lot of sense.
It seems that women have misunderstood virginity as well as high body count. Lolo Jones is also a virgin in her late thirties, who has started freezing her eggs. I would posit that both Yvonne Orji and Lolo Jones mistakenly believed that their virginity was an added value that allowed them to be *_extra selective_* in the marriage market. While there is be *_some_* truth to that, virginity is *NOT* the BIG JOKER that trumps everything else and guarantees an "extra top-tier" husband. Lastly, virginity is a lot like wine, if not consumed it eventually turns into vinegar. The value of virginity is strongly tied to *FERTILITY* At 39 how many children can Yvonne Orji give a man? Any thing over 35 is geriatric pregnancy. The study published by the University of St. Andrews and Edinburgh University in Scotland found that women have lost 90 percent of their eggs by the time they are 30 years old, and only have about 3 percent remaining by the time they are 40.
I agree with everything you said. But those studies are founded on Caucasian, Recessive DNA.
Nah Lolo is already 40+
@@seensay2132 Right. I googled her after I posted the comment.
Vinegar? Rough stuff!
.....forget not, there are virgin men out there as well sometimes referred to as "incels"
A 40 yr old woman that's a virgin but still single?? This is why being a virgin or having a low body count is not a trophy. Women who have low or high body counts are getting married over a virgin, so why women and males act like virginity or low body count is a prize?
@mscece1900. A 40-year-old virgin woman still single, is either delusional or lying!🤷🏽♂
It's call negging and it's an internet dating tactic
@@wokefromhome7389 Exactly!
I'm glad that you take accountability for "messing up" @ 2:10
I got the answer 5. A study shows women who has 5 bodies or less are far more likely to get married and stay married. Another study showed you are the sum of your 5 closest friends politically, financially, so on… I think the mind separates halves, thirds, quarters, and fifths well enough. Beyond that the mind starts playing interesting games in making connection to intimacy. Just like Dunbar’s number of 148 people being the max for a community in the human brain.
After 2 they’re on a rocket to 8-10 and that’s when the multiply by 3 comes into play but honestly just check for red flags. Each red flag is 5 bodies.
Can you send the data
@@Beast-fq7rp if I type in a link it will get removed, copy and paste these words to get to an article about the Wheatley institute study,
Married men and women who have only had sex with their spouse have a nearly 45% chance of reporting a very high level of relationship stability in their marriage, compared to only 25% of married individuals with 5-9 lifetime sexual partners and only 14% of married individuals with 10 or more lifetime sexual partners.
I remember that 2 and 3 bodies could be worst than 4 and 5. Five was a magic best chances number.
The sum of you five closest friends study is a popular poly sci study a google search could find
Your can look up the science behind the Dunbar number at your leisure.
"Many" of us Men catch bodies. But when we seriously spot "That Special Woman". We pour our ALL into her, our focus, our love, our attention, time and even money.
True. And that's actually when we begin to lose that "special woman" oddly enough.
@@mallburk1191 That's unless we refrain from engaging in Bed hopping while courting that special lady.
@blackwolverine1 and around and round you go....
@mallburk1191 bcz YOU - BM stop treating us with respect once you land us. I got 8 proposals in my youth. Im glad I turned them all down. I do wish Id had more children but not as a single mom or divorcee
@@juliatripp2010That’s because once a man falls in “LOVE” with a woman, we no longer “LIKE” you. Because we men lose our power and become vulnerable. When men fall in love, it’s painful, stressful and draining. It’s a very uncomfortable feeling and experience for us. It makes us feel conquered. Also it means that we men have to divert our attention, time, emotional support and resources to this woman. Which often times, isn’t fun for us.
However, those men do find value in love, family and marriage later down the road. But not initially. For us, LOVE HURTS. 💔
I don’t agree with that guy at the beginning imo
Many men like pornstar women body count, many men in hip hop will say that they like women who are wretched (which is the same as attitude), and many men have many kids with the woman in order to tie her down especially when it comes to church going men in the past. Many of our parents (Gen X) or grandparents (millennials) were church going and they had many kids, usually the woman would be the homemaker, but the men still had affairs and made kids out of wedlock, there’s even stories of fathers abandoning whole families without a second thought.
I think it’s all about context and perspective, and not being judgmental. You could say women started with more value, but historically girl babies were less desired in all cultures
Amen!
I appreciate your perspective on this.
That's a silly lie.
No decent man wants some woman that has been banged by hundreds of men.
May sleep with her, but certainly not marrying and putting a ring on it.
Who cares whether "many men like porn star women?" Women do NOT have to engage casual or reckless sex. Women also do NOT have to become single mothers "in order to [be tied] down" to a baby daddy/baby daddies. The ongoing lie of "married men [having affairs and making] kids out of wedlock" is an old wives tale, and has no strong evidence. Your grandfather(s) and a few other wayward men does NOT count as majority Black men.
Right. The man in the beginning should just make it plain and say women should use their private part as a means to stay at the top of the pyramid. This is a way to dehumanize women and keep us on the hamster wheel.
The first thing that the brother mentioned pertaining to the woman's decreased value. ATTITUDE! A bad attitude is a nonstarter. 40 year old virgin or not.
i agree...I do not even look at most women now....im protecting myself and my finances....what makes them think i wanna be bothered now.....they've had so many dudes that got it and didnt marry them, so why would i
I don't think she wants to be married i bet a day of my life she had men who wanted to merrier her but her Career came first. I don't know this for a fact But I got a gut feeling.
Its not only about bodies but bodies have role to play. In the case of the 40 yr old virgin is unique. But with her although she has zero bodies age and youth is going against her. Your husband would want to have babies as healthy as possible. So the older you get as a woman is not ideal. Didn't say she cant have a healthy body. But marriage and baby shouldve been the target when she was younger. She can get an ideal match but as she gets older it will start to get more difficult. And if she is masculine too she will have a hard time.
Yes. I agree. She looks young but unfortunately, her eggs are 39 yrs old.
Youth is against men 40+ as well because the quality of their sperm decreases causing birth defects such as cardiovascular abnormalities, facial deformities, urogenital abnormalities, and chromosome disorders in their offspring.
Love your material Ms O. Keep doing your thing.
Thanks for your support!
This is my issue…we are entered. I don’t understand the comfortability with all the entering and depositing that occurs when we sleep with men. You can’t wash that away.
This is true.
The man made a graph that explicitly stated more criteria than just body count. Yet, the discussion is only about body count? Why discuss only body count, when that is not the only criteria being judged?
Liked the video and just subscribed.
Thank you!
This is why a lot of women are tapping out and choosing not to date. Not worth turning yourself into a pretzel. This concept is very misogynistic and dated.
Body count doesnt matter… desirability matters… and men use body count to haggle women into submission or lowering their standards if they have a body count higher than the man’s preferred number
Thank you brother!!!! Desirability > body count! I know plenty of god fearing virgin black women but men don’t go for them because they are not as desirable.
The irony of "sexual liberation" is that you are trapped by not only the behavior (like an addiction) but the moniker associated with it (whether you accept it or not). The other problem is women assume that attention is the same as worth. Just because you're sexually attractive doesn't mean you're automatically wife material. This is why you'll have some "high value" dudes (morally aside) will have a main chick (wife or not) and many side chicks.
Lastly, men have the ability to compartmentalize (hence why they can fight in mma, boxing, or other sports and still chop it up with the same guy just moments ago wanting to knock their head off). It's the same with sex (hence why you'll hear men saying they didn't love the chick they sleep with). Women, by and large, are not biologically wired to do that, so this is why body counts matter.
You are spot on. 💎 Thank you for your comments!
well the great thing about being a man in todays world? we happy alone. we happy with our jobs, friends, hobbies, inteterests and there always gonna be women to just hit and quit. times have changed. you a strong woman. good. you don't need a man. good. we can have our cake and eat it to.
Thinking you have lots of TIME to attract AND select from the large BUT
soon to be invisible groups of men is the most common mistake
a woman can maKe in finding that lasting relationship.
The objective is not to Alienate the men who want to INVEST
in a long term relationship with a trustworthy & agreeable woman.
For me bottom line is I ain't want no one with a high body count.....females won't be honest with you....just imagine you marry a female with so many ex hell naw how would you feel as a man......
Damn is that her at the end of this video!!!!!
There are literally millions of single moms out there who’d like for the world to treat their sons with dignity and high regard. My question to those who desire that, do you regard the grown versions of him walking around everyday that way? Capitalism & Feminism with an unrelenting prejudicial attack have made it hard to get a woman in the west to see a man as a leader, protector, provider and someone to acquiesce to. As stated in the video, your born on top, classy, pure and so on but if you are argumentative, have a sketch history and feminine escapes you - how does that get resolved. My grandfathers were always so peaceful because my beautiful RIH grandmothers baptized their homes in feminine energy. What you do, when and with who matters to someone that is mature; a person of lower character won’t have a high bar. When you purchase a brand new car, you expect everything to function as expected and understand reliability won’t be an issue. If you have gotten a vehicle off that last lot downtown, I highly recommend a thorough test drive and extended warranty due to unknown history. When women get upset that men bring up being modest and get incensed at men’s directives I think okay….What did your grandparents believe what are your traditions? Eventually, you are left with - I dishonored my family. It’s sad.
Adam never had a thought about eve. He was given a gift while he was working (who he named eve after the fall due to the separation caused by sin/evil). The curse of the fall caused "the patriarchy" which states that man will rule over his wife. Can you tell me, where in the word does it tell or instruct a man to chase after or cater to a woman? I know it's calls us to love, protect, teach, provide for a wife but most of the instruction is to stay focused on God. I also know Matthew 6:33, Jeremiah 29:11, Proverbs 18:22 and 1 Timothy 5:11-15. If you're trying to "fix dating" try having a Bible study with your members, the word is the only hope we have of anything good.
Hosea 4:6 my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.......
Only God can fix this
1 Cor 7:33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
@@Hamashyach369 I'm unmarried. So until I am, I guess it's hi-ho hi-ho off to work I go. But thank you for the info.
Pookie and Ray Ray's don't have to earn anything to get women only decent dudes have to go through all these steps
Facts
Yvonne is not married because she chose her career like a lot of women who are successful as far as high monetary careers. Matter of fact that one white lady you listen to speaks that women have to chose family are career. As well as Kevin samuels said something similar. women have to be intentional, reason being women only have so long for child bearing.
Your talking point about bodycount use Ivonne as an example is a good one. And logically it makes sense but unfortunately today's modern man, for the most part, doesnt honor and lionize virginity. It's kinda not a "prize" anymore to most men who are "of the world" who want sex. The days of having to wait until marriage to get sex is gone. Moreover, the most eligible guys in the dating market are absolutely not waiting to get married to get sex. Tbh she can pick a "regular " guy to be with cause there are a bunch of regular, single guys out there but she probably wants a top guy (tall, financially stable, handsome, someone who still has all his teeth and can speak the King's English) but the competition for those guys is fierce and not realistic. She is in a pickle and time is ticking....
I completely agree! 🎯
I’m a man and I don’t agree with some of the things he is saying especially about the way a man can have sex with many different women. I have seen many guys who have done anything with their life and has had sex with many women.
You all are so obssesed with people businesses. What does it change in your own lives?!?
More misery, I am out!
My Exe's daughter is brilliant, highly educated, multiple degrees, no babies, didnt sleep around but is dark skin. No husband in sight. The math aint mathin
The multiple degrees are working against her far more than her skin tone ever would or could. Unless she is holding out for a member of the Boulé, it's not her dark skin working against her. Most black women with advanced degrees chose education and put relationships on the back burner until they are well beyond their prime marrying years.
@ruminantmelanoid5444 Based on what Im seeing in AA males, its probably a smarter move than the ginirmous disappointments that await behind relationships with self-hating BM. She will ALWAYS be able to provide for herself. She will have good housing. She is less likely to be beaten and cheated on or given STD's. My only child's father left me when I was a broken 16-year-old teenager (DV in the family), married a woman with a graduate degree in theology, and abandoned her with 3 children! And he came from a supposedly upperclass black family. Puhleeze! I ultimately ran into trouble, paying dearly for my familys abuse. Did any BM love me or forgive that? No of course not but I rose to save myself. Not a smidgen of empathy from the men who hurt me. Just use, abuse, deception, and lies. I do have relatives in happy or at least long term marriages but mostly with yte women who they felt (long long ago even) provided better economic leverage for them!. BM are a sinking ship for BW. We are no longer buying this narrative on having your children. Which is unfortunate cuz the black race is going extinct, not bcz of us BW, but due to the obscene behaviors of black men from the great / grandfathers on down. If I sound 'bitter' I laugh. This is the voice of clarity and freedom. I dont need to call myself 'feminist' Im simply at peace and I think many women who think theyre safe within their relationship with a BM now, a large % will change their tune - 50% they say.
How is her attitude, and weight? Is she promiscuous and passed 27 years of age? These are things that can and will affect her relationship prospects. She can look good and not be good for men with choices.
Cap. Vanessa bell Calloway, tika sumpter Kelly Rowland all beautiful dark skin women who are married. Besides being famous what’s their excuse ?
I doubt it's the complexion (unless she's in North Dakota or a place with very little black men). How does she look? How's her weight? How's her attitude? Is she socially awkward. I've noticed lots of book smart career women are awkward/cringy around men.
Great video but its too late. Pandora box is cracked open, and it can't be closed until society collapses. Feminism has accomplished its goal
Critical thinking and forethought aren't taught in school. That's by design, The US education system is modeled after the Prussian education system. It's more of an indoctrination system really. Horace Mann didn't want thinkers he and other elites wanted workers and consumers. I recommend everyone study this history. Feminism supports this indoctrination that started on the first day of school, Women getting more degrees is great. I love learning, But a degree isn't an identity. It doesn't cover a bad attitude or bad behavior. Critical thinkers understand this. A person with forethought understands that stat packing is not a flex.
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If an attractive woman can't secure a husband in 20 years...the problem is her. This Ms Yvonne woman had chances but failed. Women need to do better effect checking each other.
If a person can go without sex for 40 years with no relationship, they aren't marriageable in the typical sense. Building a life together and growing a family clearly isn't a priority.
Yea just go ahead and be a 304....
One million likes???
Y'all fail to date interracially more and put even the so called "Good Black men" on pedestals 🤷🏽♂️
The issue with body count: There are exceptions to rule.
But younger women who are virgins usually have the best feeling Vajay.
A woman with less than 5 bodies feels slighlty not as a good,
A woman with more than 10 bodies has a different feeling etc,
Pretty much after 10 it all feels exactly the same.
I can tell if a woman has had hardly any partners or if she is younger than what she said was by the way her Wet Cat feels.
Well, that's stupid. Body count is about the number of partners, not the number of sexual encounters. So there would be no reason for things to feel different based solely on body count. She coulda banged 1 dude 500 times and it'd be more "wear" than banging 50 dudes 1 time.
Geno, I can always trust you to give us the juicy details. No pun intended there. 🙊🙃😅
@@nnekaonyilofor lol haha that's funny
@@nnekaonyilofor there are other women over 35 who are still Virgins. Personality wise just from listening to them I can understand why they never had a husband.
🧢 Bullsh*t
To put accountability for women having bodies on the media and society influence is misguided. Men, particularly black men are inundated with the same negative stereotypes and portrayals in black culture of being thugs, drug dealers as what Bw find attractive and the idea of success and yet black men still for the large part were able to dodge the pitfalls of incarceration etc. Bw really dont have an excuse with the feminism angle as to why they took so hard and so quickly to these representations presented of bodies = female empowerment other than , thats what they wanted to do. Media pushing women to do what they already wanted to do but were reluctant to do for fear of the consequences. The consequences were never removed. Thats what women are facing now. As they will most likely die alone , never starting families.
11:18 its the wrong side of the pyramid. Women should be focusing on their side of the pyramid first and solely. thats her priority and then when her business is handled on her side then she can play on the other side. Women can have jobs and work just like men and have professions. Nobody is saying that. But her duty and obligation is to her side of the pyramid first and foremost and to her husband she ultimately will have. Her responsibility and obligation is not to a job, not too a career. Thats where women have it twisted. If she has free time , she can do career. Family and husband comes first.
Great points made.
Black men are avoiding incarceration since when
Does sex effect a woman?if the answer is yes then body count matters.not so much how many bodies because only she knows and nobody else could possibly know.so it's more about does the new guy have effect on you or her previous bodies.men just only care about if u are his woman or not.is there a difference in how a virgin acts and a woman with sexual experiences?if sex effects women then a man who cares to take any woman seriously needs to know who this woman is before he arrived in the picture and after he enters the scene does she compliment or adjust to him or does it even matter.man would like to make a decision on to move forward or fall back.just some things on men's minds. ✌️
As a man we know how many body a woman has. Women cant hide their body count as well as they think they can. We might not know her exact number, but we'll have a fairly accurate assessment.
@@ralphpinkins5619 agreed 👍