The 5 WAYS To Make People INSTANTLY RESPECT YOU | Lewis Howes
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Lewis Howes is NY Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, and former professional Arena League football player. He hosts The School of Greatness, a talk show distributed as a podcast. Learn and hear the stories of various successful people around the world, become inspired, motivated and educated with the SCHOOL OF GREATNESS. lewishowes.com/book
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*Care about others, but also care about urself at the same time* 🙏❤️
''Facts tell. Stories sell. '' So true. i love this!!! Thank you.
man, Lewis is a very genuine human being, hes super capable and super smart, but hes so genuine, humble and always hungry for learning more, I will always be a fan. god bless my man
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Yes
meee too !!!
Empathy, connection, respect ✊ and straight up humanity develops community which will be the new currency 💰❤️
community will be the new currency --- brilliant
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Be kind, act respectfully & listen well.
Yes, precisely. The fallacy here is that you have to "earn" respect. Respect others and you will earn respect.
@@nicholaswiddup520 Earn respect
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Showing Respect and making people feel special is huge 🌺
Can
Can you do that please
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@@chinchinchokhlei is us oily
Most people who shout for respect dont understand the meaning of the word, I give my respect to people who deserve it not demand it
Veeeerryyy well said!!
Yes, I Agree.
until you get knocked on your ass
@@lonniewilkerson5137 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no like I said, to those who deserve it, not demand it 😂😂😂
@@user-uf6xl6ds3m easy to talk
Real respect takes a lot of time, but a good first impression helps a ton!
Be kind to people and animals.
Dear Father, hear and bless
Thy beasts and singing birds
And guard with tenderness
Small things that have no words.
Amen!
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In a nutshell, don’t talk so damn much. Speak concisely on a topic. That’s how you gain respect. My 2 cents. 💿📀
The two most difficult things for me to do.
being relaxed is me
so less is more
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@@RenaRego same I have Adhd
Sympathy makes others feel weak or needy almost useless. Empathy recognizes others and let's them feel seen and empowered.
I agree; sympathy abounds to an almost cartoonish degree in my work culture. I think it's done intentionally to make us feel childlike and subordinate.
True sympathy is egotistical and condescending
“The meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to give it away.”
Picasso
@@allsmiles2160 awesome to know you enjoyed. I love this quote too 👍🏽
@LAK Personal You’re welcome 👍🏽
every act of creation, starts with an act of destruction - picasso. A bit off topic but also great wisdom. Like your quote thx.
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how ti find what is your real gift, if you adapt-lear fast everything you do.
Kindness is always mistaken as a weakness for those to take advantage of you
Exactly!
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So don't be kind?
Very true
Why should I let people change me in to what they are.
Love it! Brilliant! Watched the first 15 minutes so far - super powerful! Thank you, Lewis!
Really great interview. I find his demeanor so calm, straight forward and pleasant... something that I'm definitely looking to borrow from!
Stories matter, I agree. Stories motivate people.
Thank you Chris and Taz one of the most helpful books I've read. I refer to it often before many negotiations. The, you're probably right, technique has been extremely helpful. Thanks
I love the taste of the people that you invite to your program. Congratulations! An amazing people.
I’m here to support you guys, thanks for your support as well, we’re all related together, and even star’s and universes are related together,
I could listen to Chris Voss talking all day long!! What a voice!
I know right? Such a manly sexy voice
Pxd
It is hypnotic, no wonder he is a great negotiator..... one would be putty in his hands ha ha
It's called his "Radio DJ" voice, it's a tonality he uses described in the book.
you can't make someone respect you, it is gained!
There are at least two kinds of respect. One that is gained and one that is common sense and courtesy when you deal with people and have no reason to be disrespectful!
You can, I seen it happened. But it how you make them feel. As long as your telling the truth in a way that they know it’s true
A father that raises his son to be helpful to his sister is a great dad.
So all his life, women can step all over him and use him? Perhaps a father who teaches his son to be kind hearted, humble and a leader would be better?
@@VKla-js3bd you're being offended over nothing
Excellent interviews, Mr. Lewis Howes. Happy new year.
Feel felt found. It is important to most people that they feel like they have won the negotiation.
I knew how to deliver my speech better and understood what the audiences needed. The speech was well organized Thank you so much for the knowledgeable program
Just show your respect & love...& you'll get it back...
Great topic
If you NEED someone else to respect you, it's becoz you aren't respecting yourself and therefore, you aren't respecting others either... you just lack the self-awareness to see it is all.
When you FULLY respect yourself, you LIVE respect in everything you do and everywhere you go, it becomes a way of life, and when someone else disrespects you, it matters not, coz you actually see how disrespectful they are really being to themselves.
Ppl just don't get it... when you say anything about someone, whether it be gossip or admiration, you are really telling everyone about you.
neh f that
I loved this. Ty!
Respect is a gift that a man gives himself that no other man can grant him nor take from him .
Respect cannot and should not be automatic seeking the respect of others is the first mistake in ever getting it . Earning it thru your consistent conduct , behaviour and actions is the only way in gaining the respect of others .
Done ✅ . Whatever you believe you can archive.We aren’t just listening stories we are changing our lifestyle.
I need to get this book.
Excellent vlog, Lewis!
Great quests and good questions.
Thank you!
This guy is so deep it’s exciting!
Thank you for sharing so much wisdom
You're welcome🧡
Chris Voss is a force to be reckoned with, he knows his work well and handles it so eloquently ..!!!.. Great Interview Lewis keep them coming !!!
Wow so glad I found this. I was also sexually assaulted during college. I’ve been dealing with the suppressed memory that came back about a year ago. Started dealing with it by myself and now I’ve been a bit more vulnerable with friends and family. By the way I’m a straight male
Kudos to you for even finding the strength&courage to BE!!
Much respect to you. I'm a woman who's been sexually assaulted numerous times including being sodomized and beaten at the same time twice by my husband (ex now) How I survived them was put them in my head as if they were the same as a handshake. Someone just touched me in a different place. Some of them I reported to the police, but I refuse to charge anyone after the Crown Prosecuter dropped the charges on my ex-husband after the Preliminary hearing where the Judge said there was enough evidence in his opinion for a jury to come back with a guilty verdict. I didn't even want to lay charges when I confessed the rapes to the RCMP when I escaped to the women's shelter with our three little children, but she said that I had no choice. She laid the charges. What the police and the court did to me was worse than the rapes. As far as being a straight male who's been assaulted, I've had a few male friends and partners who have shared their same experience with me. It was very troubling for them as they were afraid it meant they were gay. I always held them and told them NO!, assuring them how attractive they were to me as well as other women as well as sharing some of my experiences. It wasn't about me, it was about them being shitty human beings. Much love and respect to you 💙
@@realcanadiangirl64 Psylocybin, Michael Pollan, Professor Nutt, Psychedelics for PTSD, Real Stories on YT, Magic Mushrooms................Blessings............
This guy is gold 💖 favorited this
Excellent Information
And that's funny because it stood out because I was thinking on it so much today. Since I'm writing a story and had to really think a lot about the structure of the story. I personally always like listening to the hostage negotiator interviews. That was more educational for me. I struggle negotiating through a lot of difficult things in my life.
I know this is just manipulation used to make a deal,but in reality we are messed and just looking for a edge over the next person next to us.
What was failed to say is a lot more important than what they have said! 💯% I always say whats obvious yet not so obvious!
I respect you for making this video
He is under a lot of stress....barelly keeping his strong emotions for himself. I am touched!
I love your channel and your energy. Thank you 🙏
Love that! Favorite episode so far?
Great topic I ❤️your podcast and videos loyal follower❤️
Happy to hear it! Thanks for being here, Athena!
Love you, Lewis. ❤️
I love him more :)
I did not see how most of these were related to respect but hey, I learned a few other things
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Lewis, it would be helpful if you would mention who you are interviewing in the description.
“People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.” Winnie the Pooh
What a Legend
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Hello everyone
Am Joel from France
Maybe because he didn't realize what he capable of.
Watch to the end
Love y'all. Be sweet
The Man's VOICE is Memorizing😇😛✌🗽❤
This guy is brilliant. 😜
Morn awoke earli ths valentines morn (nz) stumbled on ths utube vid(ui). While dscussing with my partner/ very close friend(sth India) hw today he will be taking hs dad to hospital for chest pain. Himself a trained surgeon/medicine. Very hardworking family ethic. Mention th eating little steak/ meat definitely has benefits on ones psycological abilities in very tough situations. Not avid follower however very grateful.✌️💜🌄
Nice video! What about FBC14 algorithm review?
Nice work 🎆🎇✨
Done were not just telling stories were changing lives
Beautiful topic and reminder to show kindness and gratitude to all beings
*" I will succeed for my parents, for all they have made for me! I hope you will too "*
How?
I love when they say when you here no, it's not always final. Had three interviews with the same company. Thought it was a no, maybe just taking time to decide where I would fit in.
Lewis says: stroke the ego...
how about: help others be honored and have a few moments of freedom from self natural self loathing?
The difference: LOVE ❤️.
I’ve made many sales by loving strangers. You can call it ego stroking but that’s because YOUR egotistical. I myself am loving. I give love, honor, respect... while also being happy to do my service because I’m awesome at what I do... therefore it’s easy to guide and chaperone others to lasting effectiveness by working with me compared to others who are flighty and ego centric and short sited.
Love makes a huge difference. Love is visiting a friend in the hospital. Love is saying no to a drunk friend doing something wrong... ect and do so with honor.
Don't be so sure of and confident in thinking you know everyones feelings and thought processes or reason and personality just because YOU are a loving person and thats what you're transmitting. Your energy filters and transforms once it hits another person. Words emotions psychology or whatever. Love is not always the answer especially on a larger population scale and certain people. The world is extremely complex and varied and so are people. Just because you're putting out love doesnt mean you got the sale because they are thinking the same towards you. They may think you love THEM.
Hi LH! Who’s the 2nd guest in the yellow shirt? Good stuff! Is there a book? Thanks!
„Done“ We are not just telling stories, we are changing life’s 🤍
Cliffs Notes, please.
Done
Keep helping folk to shape their lives and prepare the way that the almighty will have them go!
On the question with Chris Voss on "How am I suppose to do that?"... what if they say, "I don't care how, just do it"
In my opinion they do have a care because in my experience, one one starts doing, they have objections... meaning, they do care... how do we find out, how far they are willing to go without caring?
Thanks Lewis, I know you know you are amazing but I have to say it anyway.... you are AMAZING! THANK YOU!
Love how Chris Voss (in the first clip) has a bottle of Voss water.
"DONE " LOVE YOUR VIDEO U ARE AMAZING HAPPY TO SEE U
As with anything else in Sales, Chris Voss' advice is gold - until the advice becomes well known.
If someone asks me in a negotiation "How am I supposed to do that" I will instantly skip to "If you want it you'll find a way" or simply "I'm not here to solve your problem." Done.
End of negotiation.
Point is Sales Training is taught as negotiating tactics. Those tactics can be grounded in sound & empathetic psychology, but many sales people (most of the successful ones) are only interested in negotiating tactics as a tool to manipulate. However well-intentioned the tools Voss teaches become mechanistic tools for manipulation.
To be fair to Voss, I'd bet his tactics work well. But only until they're well known & we all start looking for them. Then they'll just piss us off. Frankly, I'm there already.
If you are good enough with these tactics and modify them here and there, no one even notices. Any advanced professional will not simply operate in a copy and paste kind of way, but will find ways that these naturally flow in conversations. These tactics, and many others, help many avoid sticky conversations and other confrontational conversations and are very beneficial to the speaker and listener in my experience. It is probably amateurs that are making you angry.
That first guy spoke a lot of truth. Awesome.
I acknowledge that I'm not even going to watch this clip just because of the title. That I am judging the book from the title on the cover. You are life you have my respect all you can do is lose it . So if I don't start with your respect then you have lost mine its simple love and respect to all unless they take action to lose it !
A person who is demanding wants to be in control. Emotional currency is an idea I never heard of. Feed a persons ego so it helps to calm them down.
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P E T T E R S O N ✨
Didn't know I had formication thanks professor
Please make interview with Dr.jill bolte taylor
I take this channel as an idle chat
Simple, say no for right reasons, and yes to right reasons!! It's called a win-win for all parties involved!!! Saying NO. Is the hardest word to say to someone!!
No is easy to say. People just hate you for it.
Jason and team are some of the best in advertising. Great to see him here!
Can you tell us the names of your guests please?
I don't know who needs to hear this but stop saving all your money. Invest some of it If you want financial freedom.
Invest in bitcoin, gold, silver, buy stock, forex market. anything! just invest and save yourself
honestly man. I tell this to my friends everyday. it's good to save money but you gotta have that investing spirit if you really want financial freedom.
what if you dont know how to trade any of these?
I mean, I see your point. Some people have the money and are willing to invest. But the problem is where to
@@fullermcgrew826 .dude, this is 2021. People who aren't even traders still make money from the crypto and forex markets
if you think you're too busy to trade or learn how to trade. just know I have some friends Who dont even know a thing about trading but invest in a platform where an expert helps them trade. and they get paid profit every week
Cliff notes please
I see fear creates a distance , yet a loyalty that brings you in control of b.s....
MEZMORIZING
The FIRST Guy😇✌🗽
Most people have no respect for their self and therefore no respect for anyone else
Cris is amazing I'm thankful to be exposed. And thankful of your program
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to leave me a review here:
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Put time stampes
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The art of treating everyone like a mark .This is something that works like a charm ,and something that is evil incarnate in word . Truth is the lost art .
Empathy is understanding but there’s a but
Stroking the ego
I wanna see their ears so bad. 😭
Lewis Howes is such an ear tease!
Dear Lewis I see that you have kept a statue who supposed to be the greatest teacher ever lived , in order to shape up the mind power. Neither past nor future but to be at present and this moment practise which can surely make you great. Humanity and the comprehensive awareness is paramount. Thanks for the best gift to mankind. All the best!!!
"done"we're not just telling stories,we're changing Lives
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@@SearchingLives Omg Hi-
I am about to return to an auto dealer to convert a reservation to an order. They were forcing me to buy a dealer installed surface protection plan before I can place the order.
I called the manufacture and they said that the dealer is NOT allowed to use this tactic prior to ordering the truck. Today is 2-2-2021 for the record.
How callous to give, with the idea to cash in later
Instead of asking, "Why are they selling?", ask, "What happens if they don't sell?"
I use this in real estate. Puts a timeline in the sellers head.
This is called his "Radio DJ" voice if you've read his book.