"This KEEPS 99% of People Single!" - FIX THIS TO FIND LOVE| Joe Dispenza

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes  3 года назад +2496

    Let me know what your biggest takeaways are from this video!
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    • @SonyaTorrentesoulsense
      @SonyaTorrentesoulsense 3 года назад +170

      Biggest take away there is nothing like self love 💘

    • @joy3936
      @joy3936 3 года назад +118

      Just phenomenal.
      I listen/read Joe Dispenza stuff constantly. Always hitting the right nerve.
      I love hearing him acknowledge his own insecurities, that he, too, has to reign his thoughts and emotions in from time to time.
      Makes doing the work and following his lead, guidelines, philosophies that much more relevant and motivating.

    • @kathykirk3620
      @kathykirk3620 3 года назад +242

      My mom was right. Raise others up to your level, never sink to theirs.

    • @chrisbova9686
      @chrisbova9686 3 года назад +33

      I was painting and all of a sudden I felt the most intense anger directed at god for putting me on this planet and asked what sort of piece of _____ would do such a thing. That's the PG 13 version. I actually said much worse.

    • @kathykirk3620
      @kathykirk3620 3 года назад +57

      @@chrisbova9686 There's a part of you in 3D that believes you are not divine, sovereign, Good, God, so therefore you're blaming Him. Accept and allow that there's a misbelief within you that you have to release to believe/know you create your whole reality. You can do this. Ask for assistance.

  • @PeaceNotPerfextion
    @PeaceNotPerfextion 3 года назад +1500

    “People that are happy with themselves won’t look at others and see their flaws, they’ll look at others and see a part of themselves that they connect with...” interesting...

    • @christophersmith49
      @christophersmith49 3 года назад +29

      Nonsense. I will still see flaws in others if am happy. That's why we have teachers. Again, something that sounds like making sense but is wrong. In fact if you are happy with yourself that means you are doing a lot of things right. And you will see even more clear in others those same things when others don't do them right. So he is just saying nonsense that is no rule or law. Just nonsense

    • @PeaceNotPerfextion
      @PeaceNotPerfextion 3 года назад +24

      @@christophersmith49 notice I put “interesting” afterwards… I think people that are happy aren’t “looking for flaws” nor are they judgmental of everyone they meet”…. I’m not sure if he meant it the way I interpreted it, but to your point: you definitely will see qualities in people that aren’t good if they exist… while some are masterful at hiding who they are, eventually the mask comes off...

    • @KatieKamala
      @KatieKamala 3 года назад +29

      You also have to have discernment, when I was younger I only looked for the best in men overlooking the red flags so it’s a balance, no one‘s perfect but you have to be realistic too.

    • @SenelaOfficial
      @SenelaOfficial 3 года назад +5

      Beautiful thought @Pauline. Very deep. ♥️

    • @nextsegment78
      @nextsegment78 3 года назад +16

      @@christophersmith49 No. You see the best in others. Even if you give them a bad note in school, you see beyond their flaws. You see the flaws too, but you give more attention to their true capabilities even if you don’t know them. You simply know that they are worthy of more

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis 3 года назад +13536

    I became the person I wanted to marry so now I am happily single LOL

    • @andrewmiller4885
      @andrewmiller4885 3 года назад +874

      your statement is hilarious , I could not stop laughing , showed your comment to my family after briefly outlining the contents of this video to them . Now we are all rolling on the floor laughing our heads off . Top marks , your comment was so funny , and actually very good , given what the guest on this video was saying . Have a good day .

    • @rickrossi7426
      @rickrossi7426 3 года назад +230

      Me too 😂

    • @kayb2454
      @kayb2454 3 года назад +63

      @@andrewmiller4885 😂

    • @maffyi7200
      @maffyi7200 3 года назад +56

      🤣🤣

    • @zara.Rosa.khorrami1111
      @zara.Rosa.khorrami1111 3 года назад +100

      Ha ha me too 😂😂

  • @Michelle-qq4sd
    @Michelle-qq4sd 3 года назад +945

    I wish I hadn’t spent so much time remembering the past 🙄 and instead remembered my future. Time to change.

    • @benjaminmcdowell6871
      @benjaminmcdowell6871 3 года назад +24

      Also when you wrote that comment you were also remembering your past because you were wishing you weren't remembering your past!
      It's a subtle game this one :P

    • @RockstahRolln
      @RockstahRolln 3 года назад +15

      This our biggest problem, we all live in our past, either glorify it or despise it and it really robs of the time we do have to be all that we can. I am glad you have realized just as I have and have begun working on the best version of yourself. Here's to our BEST! 🍸❤️

    • @jordantony1796
      @jordantony1796 3 года назад +5

      Remember ur future but don’t think about it create it from the unknown

    • @ayofrtho7014
      @ayofrtho7014 3 года назад +12

      Learn from the past, plan for the future, but live in the present.

    • @maxinejohnson3903
      @maxinejohnson3903 3 года назад

      Ok

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 11 месяцев назад +667

    Your life will be a masterpiece when you learn to master peace.
    If you’re reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼

  • @tinkerbelle7650
    @tinkerbelle7650 2 года назад +1268

    Be the person you're looking for. You don't chase. You attract. You atract what & who you are.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 года назад +42

      🧡

    • @ToFunForThis
      @ToFunForThis Год назад +5

      But does that mean they chase you?

    • @GeoffWilde
      @GeoffWilde Год назад +1

      @@ToFunForThis No.

    • @Eserr7856
      @Eserr7856 Год назад +74

      ​@@ToFunForThis i would say no chasing, no mind games, no manipulation, no hot and cold, just genuine connection and attraction

    • @CaptainAMAZINGGG
      @CaptainAMAZINGGG Год назад +11

      ​@@ToFunForThis yeah they tend to. Kuz there is space open for it. Like when I was initially manifesting my dude, it was almost startling, the fervor he pursued me with like, jfc 😂😂 like an anxiety-ridden bucking bronco. He looked like he was going to faint because i was even so much as talking to him omg. But I was just like 🧐🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.
      So it actually also is not true how ppl say u attract what u are, kuz i was chill af and that guy was just about losing his mind over me 😭🤣🤣🤣 it was hilarious, and adorable tbh.
      I was intending my dude be more reciprocal etc in some certain ways tho, and I was open to receive etc and then suddenly several guys started trying to pursue/chase me 😬🤌 as I made that space. Often they will say the specific things I intended and that's odd bkuz these are basically strangers saying things a significant other/life partner would say. It can get weird.
      So uh, there's that that can happen too 🤣🤣😭
      Voids tend to automatically be filled.
      Like when you align yourself and elevate and suddenly maybe a striking number of ppl are attracted to your light, tho that isn't always a good thing... but for sure ppl are attracted like moths to a light tbh.
      And when I meditate and empty my mind and I'm all zen, and then suddenly my mom will come round and feel the need to literally fill my brain with her chaotic messy dramatic nonsense.
      But yeah when you are vibing high and allowing, etc, it often will result in some hardcore interest like full on, hopefully from your significant other but I do tend to attract a load of riffraff as well 🤷‍♀️ lol sighh.

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 года назад +3561

    I found my person when I was completely focused on bettering myself, & they were doing the same.

    • @ericamanser1190
      @ericamanser1190 3 года назад +48

      Love this 🤍

    • @ryanthedinosaur_
      @ryanthedinosaur_ 3 года назад +36

      @@jerryevans5843 Nice fake account dude

    • @ChowPowPow
      @ChowPowPow 3 года назад +70

      It’s been 2 days since this video was posted, 31k people have watched and relate to this information - surely I can manifest my one and only from this point. Who can relate? 🙌🏼❤️☺️

    • @LoveMoneySecretsTV
      @LoveMoneySecretsTV 3 года назад +76

      You loved yoursefl enough to know what it is to be whole so they recognized you because they are your mirror! Bravo! Way to go, so wonderul, what a gift to yourself and to your mate.

    • @kobylomax
      @kobylomax 3 года назад +10

      Wow amazing

  • @NewYorkNadia
    @NewYorkNadia 3 года назад +1160

    “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” - Mark 11:24

    • @hariharan-ze2zq
      @hariharan-ze2zq 3 года назад +5

      @@NewYorkNadia thankyou ❤️❤️❤️

    • @NewYorkNadia
      @NewYorkNadia 3 года назад +5

      @@hariharan-ze2zq my pleasure, hope it helps!

    • @Ankurprakashofficial
      @Ankurprakashofficial 3 года назад +18

      @aNgÉlica dEl ciELo read your statement again as hard as you could...needy vibration , lack midnset .....manifestaion is effortless and in abundance mindset

    • @NewYorkNadia
      @NewYorkNadia 3 года назад +3

      @aNgÉlica dEl ciELo Oh YAY!!! I'm SO happy to hear that!!! Wishing you EVERY blessing!!!

    • @steph7139
      @steph7139 3 года назад +22

      @aNgÉlica dEl ciELo The mere fact that you didn’t even got angry about Nadia’s comment and that you actually read it and absorbed it speaks volumes about your growth! I really wish you lots of light and an unmeasurable love for life!

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo Год назад +268

    "You only look for it when you feel lack."

    • @abbiealverez2960
      @abbiealverez2960 7 месяцев назад +3

      Well that can be a good motivator too

    • @alexxenaosas2416
      @alexxenaosas2416 5 месяцев назад +5

      I keep myself to be single and I like it ! XD 38 y I can do whatever the fuck I want - my friends told me bro you look like a 30 y old ...the secret no kids no wife no gf , eat less sleep more ! :) enjoy my life as much as I can doing things that I like . To enjoy being single is a choice , and is not for everyone ! Tho I would like a partner to enjoy this life I think when the stars will align :)) , I will find it that person

    • @jjsza11
      @jjsza11 Месяц назад

      Damnnn this is so true.

  • @jenmdawg
    @jenmdawg 2 года назад +822

    Here is what I learned: you have to want something more than you experience the feelings of not having it.
    I can’t believe how magical this life actually is when you no longer chase anything but witness it coming towards you because you wanted it.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 года назад +33

      👍

    • @felinecuriosityasmr
      @felinecuriosityasmr 2 года назад +17

      This does make sense 😇

    • @Bassywassy20
      @Bassywassy20 2 года назад +36

      Solid statement. I use the exact same sentence for change lol. Change can happen gracefully or naturally. However, often in our lives change happens when the new reality is prefered over the old one, i.e. when you can't stand the suffering that your old lifestyle causes you anymore.

    • @interesting2491
      @interesting2491 2 года назад +12

      “Witness it coming towards you because you *wanted* it”

    • @beyoudee687
      @beyoudee687 2 года назад +2

      Yea all those kind sweet things will come right on back to ya

  • @kimberleychilcote816
    @kimberleychilcote816 3 года назад +155

    My Biggest Takeaway ♥
    "Stop romancing Memory, Be Present ." Shivers***

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 года назад +2

      Kimberley Chilcote,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺

    • @24G-p5r
      @24G-p5r 3 года назад +1

      Romance your future

  • @morenamendieta
    @morenamendieta 3 года назад +691

    I do not want to find love in someone else, i just want to learn how to love myself.

    • @joyces2222
      @joyces2222 3 года назад +43

      Mirror work, and through the day. Look at yourself and tell yourself ,that you love you. Tell yourself you are a good, kind loving person. I love everything. Forgive yourself for all things. You did what you did, you will try not to react the same way, forgive when you do and go forward. Repetition is the key and understand sometimes your ego jumps in you repeat what you don't want to ... that's ok, try again. You are worthy and will get there (evolving).

    • @plantmama7442
      @plantmama7442 3 года назад +16

      Same. The rarest & most fulfilling love is the love we have for self❤️

    • @soofitnsexy
      @soofitnsexy 3 года назад +3

      its impossible. you are not 2. u cannot love 'yourself"

    • @felicefiore6783
      @felicefiore6783 3 года назад +12

      If you feel beautiful,you will be beautiful. If you love the way you are,really enjoying life,others will be attracted to you. But believe in yourself.

    • @noramarshall6658
      @noramarshall6658 3 года назад +4

      YES!!!!!

  • @AlexandriaTriste
    @AlexandriaTriste 6 месяцев назад +68

    I like how Lewes interviewing Dr Dispenza. He shows the willingness to learn like a student :) So humble.

    • @simafatemipour2483
      @simafatemipour2483 8 дней назад

      Absolutely. That's why he brings out from Dr. Joe better that what other interviewers do. Dr. Joe is more passionate with Lewis than in other podcasts.

  • @MsRoneria
    @MsRoneria 3 года назад +690

    I love how he let’s his guests talks without interrupting them💯

    • @joshstrong7762
      @joshstrong7762 3 года назад +3

      He's the next Johnny Carson, knock on 🌴 🪵

    • @michellericher9289
      @michellericher9289 3 года назад +8

      I was Just thinking that!! That is a true respectful gift.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 года назад +7

      Unlike Oprah??

    • @1mikhaelone
      @1mikhaelone 3 года назад +10

      @@mstwelvedeadlycyns exactly. seems to me Oprah operates primarily from an ego (I am Oprah, this is My Show, I control every single bit of it). Lewis on the other hand operates from the perspective of mutual understanding, respect and trust.

    • @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
      @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 3 года назад

      Yeah..

  • @dantrey3714
    @dantrey3714 3 года назад +420

    met my wife, we were both 18 married at 20... 43 yrs later still together..let your partner be themselves..i think too many couples try to change eachother into their preconceived ideas of what an ideal relationship is.. just our opinion is all..all the best to you all.

    • @jcrose6008
      @jcrose6008 3 года назад +5

      🌹I agree 100%

    • @rocksannmccarron6302
      @rocksannmccarron6302 3 года назад +4

      This is absolute.

    • @davidsolf7906
      @davidsolf7906 3 года назад +17

      Thank you man! I'm so done with taking love and relationship advice from single people. Awesome to hear from you! Advice duly noted :)

    • @coredadventure1
      @coredadventure1 3 года назад +4

      You're very lucky

    • @dantrey3714
      @dantrey3714 3 года назад +1

      @@coredadventure1 some say that however, as in almost all relationships we have had our ups and downs so, it takes work, for us it's just been a case whereby we have never encountered a problem that we couldn't solve..maybe an element of luck though is part of the equation..cheers m8 all the best to you and yours.

  • @katherinebergam1212
    @katherinebergam1212 3 года назад +353

    I have found the love of my life! My boyfriend, my soon to be spouse has found me the true love of his life too. We are each other's soul mate as well as each others twin flames. We are "old" and it still happened "all of a sudden" in the most perfect unimaginable way. We are connected in such a deep powerful way and he's literally a mirror image of me. He is me and I am him. And my forever love is more than anything I ever wanted, visualized, desired, prayer for, and asked God for. So I want to give you, the person who's reading this comment, HOPE! Nothing is impossible with God! Just trust in the process and BELIEVE it will happen to you too. 😊❤😊

    • @agnieszkan5794
      @agnieszkan5794 3 года назад +3

      Thank you 💕

    • @NataliyaDuSoleil
      @NataliyaDuSoleil 3 года назад +10

      Wow! Thank you so much for sharing! I love it! This gives me hope! That's what I want for my life - my true Soul Mate! I can only imagine how amazing it feels! So exciting! Keep on loving and sharing with others! We all need hope:)

    • @ΚατεριναΜουντακη-δ6η
      @ΚατεριναΜουντακη-δ6η 3 года назад +2

      Congrats!!Be so happy,that you,yourself don't even,believe it...I wish you,from the bottom,of my heart!!

    • @readingsbycara
      @readingsbycara 3 года назад +5

      Katherine, congratulations ! ♥️
      So happy for the both of you.
      *May the love and joy continue for all of your days.*

    • @iotu6745
      @iotu6745 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations, Catherine!! I thank you so much for sharing that...
      God bless you and your new relashionship 🙏❤️

  • @katrinabernal4271
    @katrinabernal4271 Год назад +407

    "Tell the story of your future more than you tell the stories of your past"- BRILLIANT!
    So much great content here! I've watched this many times over the past 2 years and I always find different tidbits of brilliance that I need that day! Thank you Joe and Lewis for such a great interview!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +14

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

    • @joanvoss7512
      @joanvoss7512 Год назад +10

      I feel like I'm receiving therapy here.

    • @Caolan-b6r
      @Caolan-b6r Год назад +1

      Everytime I try and think of the future my ex always seems to fall into it which causes more lack. It feels good thinking of a future with her but I don't think it's possible at all

    • @zakiahart3919
      @zakiahart3919 Год назад +1

      Yes!! Then, that replaces those past thoughts over time. love it!! I'm still whole without you now. I'm no longer in need or lack!! Yes!

    • @tubesurf17
      @tubesurf17 Год назад

      Joe , u know what i mean ?

  • @JoeyBVerdida
    @JoeyBVerdida 3 года назад +671

    "People always ask me, like, 'How do I create the person of my dreams that I want in my life?' I always say, 'Take out a piece of paper. Write down everything you want in that person and then become it!'"

    • @JoeyBVerdida
      @JoeyBVerdida 3 года назад +36

      "Would you go out with you?"

    • @cicihoward2595
      @cicihoward2595 3 года назад +9

      @@JoeyBVerdida Yes 🙌!!! This is such a profound question!

    • @angelatidey2225
      @angelatidey2225 3 года назад +8

      @@JoeyBVerdida of course, become what you want

    • @wisecounsel6135
      @wisecounsel6135 3 года назад +24

      As a man you must be masculine and are generally attracted to feminine women.
      So you can not become the woman or feel like her. I think to know that you are desirable will make you more desirable

    • @karinaaax0x050
      @karinaaax0x050 3 года назад +2

      Wow great advice 👍

  • @marqann
    @marqann 2 года назад +1055

    "People in relationships will compromise themselves out of obligation, necessity, obedience and in the end, they will forget who they are" This is very true.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 2 года назад +20

      Happened to me

    • @taylorn4934
      @taylorn4934 2 года назад +12

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 happened to me too

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад +9

      i knew a great person who was so much like me even kind of looked like me even though opposite gender and i think i saw them as a great friend because we were like siblings or something but 20 years later i think it was love lol maybe i'm just lost

    • @amyitis
      @amyitis 2 года назад +8

      Happening to me now 😞

    • @marqann
      @marqann 2 года назад +12

      @@amyitis Since you know it, you already halfway, much love to you

  • @sb5343
    @sb5343 3 года назад +1969

    "This is not positive thinking, this is creating"
    "Make a list of everything you want in another person, and become those things"
    "Forget the story, heal the emotion"

    • @SearchingLives
      @SearchingLives 3 года назад +3

      ruclips.net/video/wCQdSV7S_ok/видео.html

    • @QuantumTransition
      @QuantumTransition 3 года назад +5

      Yesss

    • @rhondajo7822
      @rhondajo7822 3 года назад +25

      YES! The Law of Attraction.... you draw to you what mirrors your inner self.

    • @hurniyves1493
      @hurniyves1493 3 года назад +20

      Yes it's called a lovelist. There is only one ultimate partner out there for every person. 💖

    • @hurniyves1493
      @hurniyves1493 3 года назад +20

      @STARDUST Yes i did. It's different like everything elese you know about relationships. There is just love. Like joe said healing, growing together. You feel it in your core.
      You know how i got her in my life?
      I made the wish to have the perfect partner in my life.
      It works, your choice is so powerful.

  • @rosiezazzara7503
    @rosiezazzara7503 Год назад +92

    I love the part where " When you are in love and your connected and you are feeling those elevated emotions

  • @lp9074
    @lp9074 3 года назад +2641

    Lewis’ energy is so pure like a kid in a classroom engaged and eager to learn. So sweet 😄

    • @parislinder8088
      @parislinder8088 3 года назад +24

      Your right I love it...

    • @shirethaakasha2649
      @shirethaakasha2649 3 года назад +30

      The sweetest, so grateful of his existence in this world and in my life 😍🙏🌎🌍💖✨

    • @tramelparker2085
      @tramelparker2085 3 года назад +9

      Yes 🥰

    • @bellashaus1716
      @bellashaus1716 3 года назад +25

      Like a kid in a Candy Store
      Love that Look!

    • @PRAVEZSHARMA
      @PRAVEZSHARMA 3 года назад +9

      Thank you so much, this knowledge is so much powerful.

  • @sandibergen2523
    @sandibergen2523 3 года назад +900

    I’ve been listening to Dr. Joe for approximately one year now. He came in to my life, & literally crushed my old belief system into pieces.... the thoughts that created my severe depression, bipolar disorder, extreme anxiety, suicidal tendencies, self-injuring, borderline personality, on & on, along with my under lying subconscious mantra of “I am not worthy”. What a difference a year makes. Thank you, Dr. Dispenza, for sharing your incredible gifts with the world and changing my life. Much Love 💜

    • @SA-px3ln
      @SA-px3ln 3 года назад +10

      What helped you with depression. ?

    • @zinasherif7791
      @zinasherif7791 3 года назад +25

      Wow I did not realize how simply it is to snatch out of complex mental illnesses such as BPB and bipolar juts by listening to Joe dispenza!, how crazy is that ? Most probably you never suffered these diagnoses you claimed to. Just minor depression that your mind blew it out of its proper dimension and made you believe you actually had those diagnoses.
      Believe me it takes much more than Mr Dispenza to cure BPD. You made him sound as a magician

    • @r7m
      @r7m 3 года назад +55

      @@zinasherif7791 what a prick, let her celebrate her well-being !

    • @careonecareone6902
      @careonecareone6902 3 года назад

      ¹

    • @ggmtalents
      @ggmtalents 3 года назад +9

      Wow!!! Profound. That is wonderful!!!

  • @TreySobers
    @TreySobers 3 года назад +368

    “Write down everything you want in that person, and become it”. Just wow.

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 2 месяца назад +893

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @patriciagonzalez6903
    @patriciagonzalez6903 2 года назад +1174

    Yes! Exactly how I feel: I do not want to "fix" anyone, so we can be together. Love is not "a battle field", on the contrary! "Love is gentle, easy, patient, kind, forgiving". Thank you for saying things the way they're really are.

    • @lacie623
      @lacie623 2 года назад +14

      Is it really all of those things? Not neglecting, judgmental, accusatory, disrespectful, emotionally & mentally abusive, that makes you go crazy and tears you down until you just don’t even know who you are anymore??

    • @antonigeno
      @antonigeno 2 года назад +26

      @@lacie623 nope. thats abusive, unhealthy, controlling

    • @katewright632
      @katewright632 2 года назад +2

      Not a battlefield but it is No man's land

    • @mahatmagandhi7588
      @mahatmagandhi7588 2 года назад +16

      Women always wanna change the guy. Because it’s easier to change him than it is To change themselves.

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 2 года назад +6

      Yes, it's not my way or the highway..

  • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
    @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 3 года назад +2074

    I like how Lewis Howes rarely interrupts his guests.

  • @scottlopez9822
    @scottlopez9822 3 года назад +298

    I’m not trying to find Love ... Love is what I am

    • @Dimasstywan
      @Dimasstywan 3 года назад

      Hot

    • @sayusayme7729
      @sayusayme7729 3 года назад

      Yes ♥️

    • @halinaeskam6093
      @halinaeskam6093 3 года назад +3

      When we are high age we slowly to forget about feeling Inlove withsome one. Being single more happyness. Like me lol 😜

    • @human-qp1mf
      @human-qp1mf 3 года назад +3

      I don't think you should sleep around. Love means not hurting others just to be single.

    • @nakishidah5452
      @nakishidah5452 3 года назад

      Come to me

  • @bibabarry1697
    @bibabarry1697 Год назад +350

    44:51 I smiled at this statement because this is how I am now. When I look at people who try to hurt me I smile I don't get worked up. I am so much at pace with everything, with no guilt or shame. I just understand them and hope they get past it. When I learned to forgive completely this was the biggest peace.

    • @renzjacob7380
      @renzjacob7380 Год назад

      6

    • @meenusuresh8695
      @meenusuresh8695 Год назад +1

      I am there too. Isnt it beautiful!

    • @orianam9835
      @orianam9835 11 месяцев назад +1

      I was like this since i was a kid. Pure and loving. Then I realised noone act s like me so I started acting like others , others started to get to me and i had an emotional responses.
      It is just amazing i had the right way of acting in me while the world brought up the other way of acting.
      I need to get back to wy wise self again . Thank you for that comment

    • @ElsaSten-p7p
      @ElsaSten-p7p 11 месяцев назад +1

      Some individual born with it 🙌 some sounds like philosophers but for me it is deeply attached within you ❤❤❤ and people ask why do you know to much?
      Thanks again 🙏 liked this interview best of the best ❤

    • @malinjoy5469
      @malinjoy5469 10 месяцев назад +1

      Lovely!

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit47 3 года назад +217

    btw ~ Not everyone wants or needs another person in their life to be happy. I have been single & celibate since 2012. Life is more peaceful, happier. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.

    • @Daniel_Thotumpuri
      @Daniel_Thotumpuri 3 года назад +7

      Agreed 👍

    • @ziggypip2938
      @ziggypip2938 3 года назад +3

      Some Aspies seem happier alone

    • @theliberatedplanet
      @theliberatedplanet 3 года назад +3

      The familiar emotion is the past. The long version would be, the familiar energetically draining emotion is the past. I started this video in a really good place with another transforming thought, but I still want to listen to the end although I'm anxious to jump into my life it's so good now!

    • @theliberatedplanet
      @theliberatedplanet 3 года назад +1

      I have touched the divine😃💃

    • @theliberatedplanet
      @theliberatedplanet 3 года назад +4

      Marry a clear intention with an elevated emotion. Intention is huge because the universe wants to deliver.

  • @amani5300
    @amani5300 3 года назад +596

    Best interview ever!!! Please more interviews with Joe Dispenza. #greatness
    Biggest takeaways:
    1. Practice connection to the future.
    2. When creating from the heart, you don't go anywhere because experiences come to you.
    3. Activate the heart. Get the body out of survival.
    4. Feeling before experience. You can teach your body emotionally what will feel like if you arrive into your future.
    5. Believe in your future and tell the story of the future, not the past.

    • @mayarwasily5610
      @mayarwasily5610 3 года назад +5

      I don't understand the point number 2

    • @coolsdebristv489
      @coolsdebristv489 3 года назад +5

      No joke Is activating the heart just feeling good? Like thinking happy thoughts?

    • @Tele999zzz
      @Tele999zzz 3 года назад +2

      Try and be optimistic... got it

    • @phoenixrising5088
      @phoenixrising5088 3 года назад +3

      What a load of shite. The love I have for my Dog's and their love for me is, unconditional, simple, stress free and the best love there is. imo

    • @georganderson4450
      @georganderson4450 3 года назад +28

      @@mayarwasily5610 Perhaps this Rumi-poem might help:
      "When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it."

  • @carolinespence15
    @carolinespence15 3 года назад +456

    Being single was the best thing that happened to me. I realized being single or in partnership does not define my happiness. ❤

    • @wordsculpt
      @wordsculpt 3 года назад +14

      @@wifelife2023 Different individuals have different needs. But being happy alone saves you from settling, that is certain.

    • @sohara....
      @sohara.... 3 года назад +1

      I don't know what D is!

    • @wordsculpt
      @wordsculpt 3 года назад +3

      @@sohara.... Nor do I. But his response gives us a really good idea why he is single !! Yrrch. Not a catch!

    • @gabeeskridge8291
      @gabeeskridge8291 3 года назад

      Facts be the best one can be for ourselves

    • @foxiedogitchypaws7141
      @foxiedogitchypaws7141 3 года назад +3

      The gut knows

  • @PamelaMedium
    @PamelaMedium Год назад +95

    I've been working on this for 3 years and I'm now literally living my dream. I'm mind blown - this is REALITY!! Keep growing - push past your blocks - there is breakthrough!!!!

    • @noname-ea
      @noname-ea 8 месяцев назад

      That is fantastic 👏 😀 what have you experienced?

    • @tarafaulkner
      @tarafaulkner 8 месяцев назад

      Please don't stop telling that in comments. People can't hear that enough. Especially with Dr. Joe videos. Such inspirational stories being shared are what's changing my life and the world. Share share share. It matters because the professionals can teach how to do it but without the students doing the work and confirming their story then beginners or people with limiting beliefs only think it works but only for the rich, gifted, special and highly educated. It wasn't until I started reading the 1000s of comments like yours that I started believing what he teaches could work for anyone including me. It takes practice, persistence and Patience and.trusting the process. Listening to him and other people's interviews everyday was what I had to do for myself.dr Joseph Murphy, Dr Bruce Lipton, Neville Goddard and 100s more from around the world from thousands of yrs ago to present, from every culture or religion I learned their powerful messages of encouragement on how they found the peace that passes all understanding and drive to share their testimony with the world was what has kept me going.im so grateful for Dr Joes work today because he's used his platform as a Dr to bring the scientific data to prove whats happening when we meditate. I just started doing Mudras, tantras, and using color and sound therapy while meditating on my energy centers and OMG when I did his go love meditation and pictured myself as a 7yr old giving my heart as an adult into my inner child heart I cried so hard for the first time in 5yrs my heart opened and my other chakras followed I'm excited to have hope for the first time in decades and riding this thi g called life out with a blast❤❤❤good luck ❤

    • @RandiJarvis
      @RandiJarvis 5 месяцев назад

      This resonated with me and is now my new thought. Virtually what you said. THIS IS Reality and i am living my dream and it keeps getting better.

  • @francinehancock1
    @francinehancock1 3 года назад +474

    This man is so advanced for this world. I love him!!!

    • @LoveMoneySecretsTV
      @LoveMoneySecretsTV 3 года назад +17

      He is so advanced for this world, he should get a noble peace prize!

    • @BenjaminBBB
      @BenjaminBBB 3 года назад +11

      He is the most incredible human on earth. Thank you Dr Joe Dispenza for you have truly changed my life and it will continue to improve day by day through your teachings. 🙏

    • @annamarie3288
      @annamarie3288 3 года назад +5

      Not really. Look at hindu philosophy and theosophy

    • @LoveMoneySecretsTV
      @LoveMoneySecretsTV 3 года назад +4

      @@BenjaminBBB Yes he is the most incredible human on earth!

    • @a-k9161
      @a-k9161 3 года назад +3

      @@annamarie3288 yeah what he talks about is not new.

  • @farzanehsatei5991
    @farzanehsatei5991 3 года назад +201

    I am 38 but after almost 6 weeks of mediation of Joe Dispenza and reading his book, I feel I am 26 again and everyone is asking me what happened with my skin and they see me I am glowing and blooming and they ask me what did I do? Am I in love again? I FEEL whole.... I am sure till Dec I will be in love with the best match 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🙌🙏😊😇🥰🥰🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️💕💕💕💞💞💞💞💞

    • @davidperrine3718
      @davidperrine3718 2 года назад +2

      @@changeoffocus1074 The Bible.

    • @davidperrine3718
      @davidperrine3718 2 года назад +1

      @@changeoffocus1074 no I would not understand it.

    • @ellaklippel
      @ellaklippel 2 года назад +3

      farzahne did you find his guided meditations anywhere? Thank you and congrats on your acomplishment ;-)

    • @changeoffocus1074
      @changeoffocus1074 2 года назад +3

      @@ellaklippel search his name on Spotify. There are a few there.

    • @wasimh2104
      @wasimh2104 2 года назад +2

      You look great

  • @BlackPearlMona369
    @BlackPearlMona369 Год назад +61

    Love yourself first....
    Love your life first...
    Love the people...
    Be love....

  • @fkingraw4419
    @fkingraw4419 Год назад +121

    Remember that repetition is the key. You will become the person you want to be as long as you keep at it. It's the overcoming process that is the becoming process. Embrace discomfort and something magical will happen soon.

  • @MH-cv5ye
    @MH-cv5ye 3 года назад +375

    It's so true. Break the programming, and change thoughts to the positive. I've turned my life around, and PTSD is a thing of the past, by having quiet time, meditation and listening to certain audiobooks, keeping away from abusive types, and from having bonds with people who are unsuitable. I've realised it's not my place to fix everything and everyone's problems, and that codependency has been replaced with only doing things which are appreciated by others. I'll never change my kind nature, but have developed more discernment. I now live a very quiet life, it's lovely. Right enough, good things are coming, got a new job, and feel better about everything. Negative thoughts are necessary occasionally, but I definitely dwell on nice things now, and it makes such a difference.

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 года назад +13

      I got rid of my TV.

    • @enigma5651
      @enigma5651 3 года назад +4

      Amazing journey!

    • @itachiuchiha6876
      @itachiuchiha6876 3 года назад +3

      Happy for you! Will definitely try

    • @DSILVAjeiy
      @DSILVAjeiy 3 года назад +3

      Beautiful💯🌟🍷

    • @dianedobry800
      @dianedobry800 2 года назад +5

      Definitely works. When I left toxic environments my life moved forward toward my dreams.

  • @Makis01980
    @Makis01980 Год назад +588

    Lewis!!!! In 2020 you had an interview with Dr. Joe …. that interview healed me!!! When Dr. Joe said love resets the base line of the trauma in the amygdala! I started doing the meditations! Thank you to both of you!! 🎉
    And now I’m happily engaged!!!🎉

    • @jasminsdharma851
      @jasminsdharma851 Год назад +11

      Wow, this is so inspiring to read! All the best to you

    • @melissakinchen2821
      @melissakinchen2821 Год назад +12

      Which meditation

    • @Favored20
      @Favored20 Год назад +6

      Curious to know which meditation releases oxytocin

    • @Makis01980
      @Makis01980 Год назад +23

      @@Favored20 all of Dr. Joe’s meditations do as they are all designed to open the heart, and when you open the heart release is oxytocin, which also release is oxytocin the brain which travels to the amygdala and resets the amygdala

    • @psalm1695
      @psalm1695 Год назад +1

      What is the video called?

  • @sintumavuya7495
    @sintumavuya7495 2 года назад +294

    He said “focusing on the past keeps us in survival mode, (creation can’t happen from there)” & that was all I needed to hear today help me along on my journey. It explains what’s been going on with me over the last 2 years. Those words brought the release I needed. This is the lightest I’ve felt in a loooong time.
    This chat isn’t about relationships for me. It’s about how to be in life. I’m only 39 minutes in and I am appreciating it so much. Thank you.
    Great interview. Thank you

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 года назад +6

      You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 года назад +3

      You're welcome🧡

    • @Eserr7856
      @Eserr7856 Год назад +10

      Have you ever read Eckhart Tolle's book The Power of Now? He speaks about living in the present moment to find peace and joy, because living in the past or worrying about the future brings depression and anxiety

    • @Lola-mn9oz
      @Lola-mn9oz Год назад +2

      ​@@Eserr7856 Love his books...I learned how to meditate...really meditate through Tolle's books!

    • @sheilam6117
      @sheilam6117 Год назад +3

      Agreed! This goes far beyond love life, it's life!

  • @mariac5942
    @mariac5942 Год назад +66

    4:45 victims of what makes us think/feel in a certain way
    5:30 when the response to the environment is weakening you: you become more vulnerable
    6:01 practicing elevated emotions (out of survival) - what do you practice feeling???
    7:38 re-thinking to an event, is causing the same chemistry/feeling in the body as when was occurring
    8:43 the (memory) response in the body consumes the energy to create - it becomes a sub-conscious program (not conscious!)
    10:30
    13:37 safety to relax into the present moment
    14:25
    32:28 bond with your future
    36:53 moving energy to the brain
    40:32 things they thought they wanted...
    43:24 when you're in lack and separation, time gets crazy
    44:23 how long are you going to react for? Shortening the reaction! The only person that is effecting is YOU. Ask: " Is it loving towards me?"
    58:50 telling the story worst than it is
    01:04:05 !!!
    01:07:00
    1:11:43

    • @Jewelsessences
      @Jewelsessences Год назад +1

      “Is it loving towards me?” Is EVERYTHING I was trying to understand about self love.

    • @jasminejones9937
      @jasminejones9937 Год назад +1

      Thank you, you're a star 🌟 👍

    • @mariac5942
      @mariac5942 Год назад

      @@jasminejones9937 thanks

  • @manifestationwithsami
    @manifestationwithsami 3 года назад +170

    We do not need to FIND love. We only need to believe that we are lovable. Once we love ourselves truly, then other good things (like be with someone) will happen automatically.

    • @Shaneka_Kay
      @Shaneka_Kay 3 года назад +7

      Wow that’s a great point. To believe that I am lovable. I don’t know that I really believed that before.

    • @perc3557
      @perc3557 3 года назад +3

      Yesss

    • @luvpamelanewton
      @luvpamelanewton 3 года назад +4

      When I find I'm lovable, here comes the user guy who wants FWB, wanting free sex without commitment. Sigh. No thank you.

    • @Kmrc1213
      @Kmrc1213 3 месяца назад

      I don’t know that we even NEED to find love - as long as we are in surrounded by a loving community of friends who reflect back that we are a good & lovable person

    • @Dua373
      @Dua373 Месяц назад

      It’s not about loving yourself, everybody love them self. It’s about being aware of your worth nothing else

  • @saradevine3665
    @saradevine3665 3 года назад +403

    Thank you Lord for letting me find this video. I'm in the healing process and man is it hard! Praying for all of you beautiful souls 🙌🙌🙌😘😘😘

    • @jeannachebat
      @jeannachebat 3 года назад +1

      🙏 Amen

    • @SheldonCarvalhosc
      @SheldonCarvalhosc 3 года назад +5

      Yeah this applies to all aspects of life. I stressed my self into an auto immune condition. Definitely hard to heal. So much of my past life is flashing before me.
      Everything around annoys me.
      🤷‍♂️🤞

    • @NewYorkNadia
      @NewYorkNadia 3 года назад +9

      “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” - Mark 11:24

    • @MomentsDivine
      @MomentsDivine 3 года назад

      Amen ❣

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 3 года назад

      Healing process means you are someone fridged

  • @bibi141489
    @bibi141489 3 года назад +109

    "If you want to hide the divine anywhere in a human being, the best place to hide it is within them.They’ll look everywhere else for it." MY WORD

    • @VictoriaWonders
      @VictoriaWonders 3 года назад +2

      this!

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 3 года назад +2

      I was thinking about love and how God is love, nothing can fully encompass his kind of love, but we can activate from within. It makes sense that it exist within and that we can turn it on. It makes sense that it within our genetic make up. What an amazing Creator and creation we are a beautiful dance (Proverbs 25:21-22). Yeshua taught to love your enemy, this is powerful. Heeping coals on their heads. Some would say that's a negative, but love doesn't produce negative. Coal is very cleanings. Loving is healing. We can change ourselves and the world by love.

    • @caribbeanqueen44
      @caribbeanqueen44 2 года назад

      🤨 wooorrrd

    • @AmandaSirju
      @AmandaSirju Месяц назад

      🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉love this comment

  • @HalloCasa
    @HalloCasa Год назад +51

    Thank you internet for allowing us to have access to this, for free... 😍

  • @madeline6043
    @madeline6043 3 года назад +186

    I wish everybody understood what he talks about, this feeling is called unconditional love and true happiness, that nothing and no one can take from you.
    Dr Joe Dispenza, please never stop teaching people.

    • @gustafsonremy2639
      @gustafsonremy2639 3 года назад +7

      I want to meet you Dr. Joe DiSpenza your my Hero. Godbless you good information. Thanks for the school of Greatness... Good work

    • @lailamnn2328
      @lailamnn2328 3 года назад

      Yes

    • @graciecanil8482
      @graciecanil8482 3 года назад +1

      I understood everything what he says.

    • @deborahholroyd6495
      @deborahholroyd6495 3 года назад

      Love is conditional though..to be vulnerable and true to myself its with a condition

    • @marilynmarcelli270
      @marilynmarcelli270 3 года назад +1

      What? You wish everybody would understand? Why wouldn’t we, we are listening just like you.

  • @bohead01
    @bohead01 3 года назад +173

    Overthinking, overanalyzing separates the body from the mind. - Maynard James Keenan

    • @devotae
      @devotae 3 года назад +3

      thats also called "worry"

    • @MaynardsSpaceship
      @MaynardsSpaceship 3 года назад +1

      👀

    • @anetkakopacheva4912
      @anetkakopacheva4912 3 года назад +4

      Another Tool fan here! :)

    • @j.f.almeida9081
      @j.f.almeida9081 3 года назад +2

      The only way I found to stop overthink was throught meditation. which I practice every day now. as soon as I realize that Iam judging my thoughts I take a deep breath and just observe and it goes away.

  • @B4BESS
    @B4BESS 3 года назад +88

    I have fasted, prayed and waited on God for direction given what I was passing through, and it seem nothing is happening. Then this clip came a long and I now know why it came at this time. This is the revelation I needed to forge ahead and move foward, and I know what I should be doing. God has been using so many cues to help me move forward.. Thanks for this video..

  • @xisleprez
    @xisleprez Год назад +64

    @1:00:55 I just had a "ahh ha!" moment... I've was saying this affirmation daily for over a year and just realized I have already been feeling this way without realizing it. - " I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy!" Thank you for this episode Lewis. I love how answers constantly show up for me.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +3

      🧡

    • @marilynanderson1706
      @marilynanderson1706 10 месяцев назад +3

      I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious, beautiful, valuable, rich, happy and I am here!

  • @janewonder6895
    @janewonder6895 3 года назад +85

    I remember my ex husband needed to go. I loved him a remember saying yo him that marriage is not a prison.if he needed to go I would miss him. That was many yearsvago. I have never seen him since but am grateful for the opportunity to experience that. I always will for him happiness. I then went on my own journey where I have learnt more about loving up on me. I learnt so much from this show. I remember when I was with someone else and was in regret, but no, I have learnt to relax, and to remember the joy. Today, I feel in awe of life. I am so happy. Thank you

    • @eM-kb6sm
      @eM-kb6sm 3 года назад +3

      I love you.

    • @ABitOfADegener8
      @ABitOfADegener8 3 года назад +1

      If you were with someone else a decent amount of time after your relationship ended, there's no reason to feel guilt. If it happened at the same time or shortly after, well the guilt is valid.

    • @fridaburnazi8193
      @fridaburnazi8193 3 года назад

    • @colainebradly786
      @colainebradly786 3 года назад

      you word is so powerful Jane, wish i know you personally

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Месяц назад

      I met someone and she's loved and lost a few times and she seems turned off to love. But I hope I can awaken her love or she can awaken it herself.

  • @Sarasarah3
    @Sarasarah3 2 года назад +313

    I watched this a year ago and never thought almost a few months later I’d meet my soulmate. I’m in love and am love

  • @cristinaab955
    @cristinaab955 2 года назад +322

    This is teaching us to love like we haven’t been hurt before. Love this!

    • @MagicalGem222
      @MagicalGem222 2 года назад +2

      It truly is and love transcend everything awaken to the true feelings of love and appreciation of the now of the moment n of creation 🎉

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 Год назад +3

      Or love like it doesn't matter if you've been hurt before, you know you won't ever feel that emptiness and sorrow again.
      You become unbreakable by loving yourself.

    • @vtx5475
      @vtx5475 Год назад +1

      Wow so powerful.

    • @V_T7
      @V_T7 Год назад

      Isn't that a frame quote women buy at target to hang on their wall?

  • @heatheroffer1822
    @heatheroffer1822 Год назад +16

    Eckhart Tolle, Abraham Hicks and the like! This is love and joy!!! I have known these truths since I was a young child. We tend to lose sight of the truth as we become conditioned but our experiences. So grateful to continue to learn and understand that we are the creators of this time space continuum. How damn amazing!!!!

  • @MadameX_
    @MadameX_ 3 года назад +58

    Greatest takeaway: love yourself deeply, and let that love grow beyond your heart so that you become a beacon of light and love. From there you will attract vibrational matches. ❣️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  3 года назад +1

      🧡

    • @StarchWithPlants
      @StarchWithPlants 2 года назад +2

      I love your profile picture. I love Madame X. I saw the picture at The Met. So elegant! 💕

  • @niktaaran5072
    @niktaaran5072 2 года назад +298

    I love what Joe said; “you have to become love every day”! Thank you so much; this talk has uplifted me after my divorce ❤🎉

    • @MajiGotTheTLLC_.
      @MajiGotTheTLLC_. 2 года назад +2

      Hey friends need help on getting back your ex partner, broken marriage specific person fix broken relationship, get rid of third parties and attracting love for better and permanent...

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 года назад +6

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

    • @thelisdelys9704
      @thelisdelys9704 2 года назад +1

      @@MajiGotTheTLLC_. try yyou i

  • @imawake11
    @imawake11 Год назад +235

    I wish every person whose been hurt and chose not to do the work and heal would listen to this. Frankly it should be mandatory. What a different world it would be. Way too many unhealed toxic folks walking the earth. This is why it’s so hard to find someone at the age I am. People are settling and staying in relationships or dating all the wrong ones. I’ve done the work and continue to do so. I’m healthy and happy. I’m also ok staying single because settling isn’t an option for me. I love my life and love that I’ve arrived to this place. Hard work though. I pray this for everyone.

    • @chrishakoningswijk9354
      @chrishakoningswijk9354 Год назад +6

      You can only understand and react to it, when you’re ready for it!

    • @theyellowhouse3569
      @theyellowhouse3569 Год назад +4

      You sound exactly like me 💛

    • @Razorbanboozles
      @Razorbanboozles Год назад +7

      I settled for most of my life. No more...

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 Год назад +3

      Mandatory? The fact it is not mandatory is the reason you find it difficult to find someone? Everyone your age is "settling" in bad relationships, due to unhealed toxicity? So you would literally compel someone else to conform to your world view so you can get laid? For such a loving person you assume and project a lot of very negative things about people and their relationships. Maybe most people "your age" have figured a few things out you haven't and maybe they are happy in relationships. Maybe "there are more things in heaven and earth..." (and relationships).... Than are dreamt of in your philosophy ..."

    • @sunguarmagan9535
      @sunguarmagan9535 9 месяцев назад

      🦋✝️👍🏽

  •  Год назад +45

    2 years later and I watched this whole episode again. when I saw the "2 hour" mark I was like "no way I'm sitting through this whole thing".
    and here I am. having sat through it with pleasure. again.
    amazing episode!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +3

      Thanks for being here!

    • @kristinmarie9056
      @kristinmarie9056 Год назад +2

      Same!! 😂. And I’m planning on listening again!

  • @MichelleHeighway
    @MichelleHeighway Год назад +447

    •Thoughts are the language of the brain. Feelings are the language of the body.” Dr Joe Dispenza

    • @sunilpotter7415
      @sunilpotter7415 Год назад +6

      Brain is part of the body itself. Brain? R u refering to the mind. Let me tell u mind dwells in the peniel glind of our brain. Feeling means memories which we have accumulated in our body from our great great great great grandfather or ancestor.. For which we naturally react via our body when we get certain types of emotion or feeling.

    • @thearodriguez8073
      @thearodriguez8073 Год назад +5

      This is not from him it is Eastern wisdom and a well known nuerological metaphor in academia and the wellness/health sector and heartmath institute.

    • @Myrslokstok
      @Myrslokstok Год назад +2

      Peace is the language of spirit.

    • @wtfmusic1961
      @wtfmusic1961 Год назад

      So meaning technically, if I can infiltrate a person's thought pattern I can influence their feelings. I am a rapper and this is such a great piece of power to have

  • @ChromaChamaeleon
    @ChromaChamaeleon 3 года назад +74

    I actually discovered Lewis because of Joe Dispenza, I’ve been watching Joe’s interviews and show on Gaia for years. I love how Lewis asks him to go deeper than his memorized spiel into stuff about love and relationships. Lewis listens with such bright eyes and so disarmed, I want a man who can do that for me. When I go on and on sharing everything I understand and have learned about reality and consciousness, I want a man who can get excited like that and jump in and help me understand things even better. Everyone around me has been so dim! So uninterested (or afraid) of these things. I have a fire burning in my soul to know the truth and if I have to keep it to myself forever I would rather do that than spend even one more date with a man who can’t actually hear me because his consciousness (or honesty) just isn’t at my level.

    • @ProtoTar21
      @ProtoTar21 3 года назад +3

      I feel the same way

    • @ohhdanggx94
      @ohhdanggx94 3 года назад +4

      Snaps, sis! You’ll find him 😄

    • @whizz8871
      @whizz8871 3 года назад +7

      Ooh girl I feel you so deeply! Have you read the power of now by eckhart? Women are more in touch with their feelings/ emotions and so are moving into greater consciousness at a faster rate than men are. Whilst the world wakes up there is going to be a lag time between women waking up and men waking up. All I can say is keep visualising him! And then come together with your conscious friends to ease this feeling. I'll be a gal pal if you are after another concious/ excited truth seaking pal😊 ✨

    • @Thezikr1
      @Thezikr1 3 года назад +6

      Don’t worry Yellow Ninja you’ll find him. Keep better yourself as you are and stay excited for your own sake. He’ll emerge.

    • @margo7581
      @margo7581 3 года назад +8

      As a 60+ year old who finally became truly cognizant that we create our own reality, I choose to be happy. I am frequently surprised at the random acts of kindness and love I am shown 🙂. And I feel such Gratitude. Keep your faith. And the Universe will surprise you! Lead by example ❤ . It's about you, not others.

  • @AliceBrazilLlamas
    @AliceBrazilLlamas 3 года назад +457

    I guess, I need to watch this video several times. It’s like non stop lessons on how to live your life for 2 hours. Absolutely fantastic!

    • @indigoglo
      @indigoglo 2 года назад +12

      Right. He was just 20 minutes in & i looked at the whole video time & was like whoa he's going in for 2 hours... wow. I definitely said I'm gonna have this video on repeat for a few days just to really soak it all up.

    • @MichelZelff
      @MichelZelff 2 года назад +8

      You need to watch the serie rewired, that's literally the documentary he is talking about constantly that he made himself

    • @FindYourFree
      @FindYourFree 2 года назад +2

      Unreal

    • @k.douglas344
      @k.douglas344 2 года назад +1

      @@MichelZelff Tks! I'm watching because your comment and it is really good!

    • @MichelZelff
      @MichelZelff 2 года назад +2

      @@k.douglas344 Yes! Happy to help atleast someone. It's truely lifechanging knowledge that a lot of experts in this field share

  • @JoyleiaJo
    @JoyleiaJo Год назад +13

    39:09 "where you place your attention is where you place your energy" 40:22 healing

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 3 года назад +634

    Dr.Joe is literally giving us the science of consciousness in a way that is simple and understandable. Bless this man 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jaycrew1527
    @jaycrew1527 3 года назад +110

    I could watch this every day for eternity and still be fascinated by it and learn something new every single time.

    • @seymourelykeley
      @seymourelykeley 3 года назад

      because you’re a dreamer looking for happiness outside

  • @PeaceNotPerfextion
    @PeaceNotPerfextion 3 года назад +78

    “They could walk right past the person they’ve been wanting because they’re looking at their future from the neurology and chemistry of their past...”
    makes sense

  • @shantelsorias1002
    @shantelsorias1002 Год назад +88

    This has to be the most profound conversation I have ever heard. I was so ready for this message. Thank you so much both of you. ❤️

  • @carolynmcintosh8824
    @carolynmcintosh8824 2 года назад +138

    I love Joe Dispenza. One thing he has said in his interviews that has stuck with me, "90% of what we think about we thought about yesterday". More Joe is always good.

    • @blaken2651
      @blaken2651 Год назад +2

      What does that even mean

    • @LukeSly91
      @LukeSly91 Год назад +4

      It means that 90% of your thoughts today (present) are the same thoughts you had yesterday (past). I cant really explain it in simpler terms than that lol

    • @wolfie1027
      @wolfie1027 Год назад

      Speak for himself 😂

    • @janelllove3776
      @janelllove3776 Год назад +3

      I feel like it means most people are routine in their thinking. Changing your thoughts is what changes your reality.

  • @rockin1k70
    @rockin1k70 3 года назад +118

    Trading survival emotions for elevated emotions.... now you’re talking about something that takes courage....

    • @davideatwell6577
      @davideatwell6577 3 года назад

      Why such a thing should take courage is surely an important question, why do we choose to live the way we do?Many thinkers either because they've had some kind of epiphany or whatever have tried to help us but we choose to remain addicted to pain and suffering, why?

    • @TheKingdomofHeavenisHere
      @TheKingdomofHeavenisHere 3 года назад

      @@davideatwell6577 good question Dave, why do you?

  • @Minagil88
    @Minagil88 3 года назад +300

    My biggest take away was, “The brain 🧠 thinks and the heart knows.” The light went on when I heard Joe say this.
    #greatness

    • @artichokeheartbreak2279
      @artichokeheartbreak2279 3 года назад +14

      The heart don't know jack 💩 lol

    • @frederickmenslage2930
      @frederickmenslage2930 3 года назад

      Morning meditation Joe dispenser

    • @frederickmenslage2930
      @frederickmenslage2930 3 года назад +1

      Morning meditation Joe dispenser morning meditation Sarah RaymondSarah Raymond morning meditation

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад +1

      @@artichokeheartbreak2279 it's not really the heart more like the nervous system lol

    • @nikinitee2219
      @nikinitee2219 2 года назад +4

      Nervous system shows stress by the gut safely, first.. therefore, go with your gut.😉

  • @healingnaturegirl333
    @healingnaturegirl333 Год назад +5

    I reached that state many times, and am grateful , it’s about focus, mindset, vibration, doing the things in life that feel good, not just every now & then, but every day. Every day, I love to make coffee with a grinder, I love watering my plants, I love to hike, yoga, meditate, cook, listen to music , dance, write, draw, paint. While I can’t do all of them every day, some I can and they bring a sense of joy & peace. My old pattern beliefs however were heavily triggered during my last relationship. They brought me into an abyss, that I am healing from, and I’ve done it so many times throughout the course of my life, that I feel like every time I’ve experienced this, I’ve learned something a lil deeper & more insightful about myself & others. And the thing about it is, I can see the patterns before I am trying to make a judgement or decision. It makes me go a LOT slower, to take time to reflect & choose differently than I have in the past. Ergo, not choosing the same pattern that I can see ahead of time. Choose love always, yes, I agree…. And yet, when I get to the state of wholeness & awe, I want to share with someone, because I want them to heal & feel good about life tooooo. This feeling of wanting to share it, along with a feeling of I can handle whatever because I’m whole, well, that seems to attract some people that will use me. Discernment is a great side dish to go along with love 💕

  • @natascharogers5592
    @natascharogers5592 2 года назад +274

    It’s taken me 54 years and a major trauma/ near death experience to finally wake up. This segment was so amazing. Resonated with me so much. I totally understand the part about being so happy within yourself that you don’t look for it outside. Gone are the days of settling and making do with situations. I have never been more happy in life. I finally love me. Thanks joe and Lewis 😊

    • @natascharogers5592
      @natascharogers5592 2 года назад +5

      @Energetic Coach I totally 💯 resonate with what you’re saying. It’s a great space to be in isn’t it. Thanks for sharing

    • @solsf212
      @solsf212 2 года назад +8

      Very happy for you… I can very much relate to you… I had a lot of unresolved trauma & wounding from my childhood until my healing journey has began. 3,5 years later I can honestly say that I have never been more loving towards myself and i have truly found happiness & peace within… pure contentment & very grateful.

    • @gypsipunk
      @gypsipunk 2 года назад

      you will love this ~ Picture a child you love very much at the age of 2 years old. Imagine this child before you and focus on the feelings of love you have for this child. Focus on your love for the child until it has expanded so much that you are smiling and feeling joy. After you have maintained this feeling for a few minutes, move this child to the side and see coming into the side view ~ yourself at the age of 2. See yourself before you now at the age of 2 and keep focusing on the feelings you built up for the first child ~ pour the feelings from the first cup into the second one. Is not the second child as precious as the first? You are now loving yourself ~ stay with the feeling and expand it further ~ open your heart. Now that you know how to get into a feeling of love for yourself, you can change your age to focus on areas that may be more difficult for you to love yourself. Do this exercise daily and loving yourself will be become your natural response to yourself

    • @benjaminben6200
      @benjaminben6200 2 года назад +1

      @@solsf212 sorry my dear

    • @geraldrodriguez1731
      @geraldrodriguez1731 2 года назад +1

      Positive in negative out. Healed with love.

  • @yuliya2201
    @yuliya2201 3 года назад +251

    Lewis is such an attentive listener :)
    As I was healing after my last relationship crushed a lot of my hopes, I realized how much I was neglecting myself. Don't let anyone stand in the way of your happiness! Get to really know yourself and remember that you are your biggest investment. I affirm every day that I am confident, I am enough. I am loving and lovable. I trust in my ability to take care of myself. I love the person I am becoming 🙏💖

    • @nancymiguelez3167
      @nancymiguelez3167 3 года назад +2

      Rhank GODNESS I HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE BESIDES MYSWLF. I TOO AM QORKING ON ME. AFTER A FIRST COLLISION WITH A. Narzacist partner. He was the devil in disquiswe

    • @yoshimuracaroline3735
      @yoshimuracaroline3735 3 года назад +1

      This is the first time I've heard him, and yes, he's such a great listener!

    • @chazzabooom
      @chazzabooom 3 года назад

      Thats amazing! Do you belong to a specific faith?

    • @vansikavansika6317
      @vansikavansika6317 3 года назад

      That feels really good to hear!

    • @alexandrosteffi2721
      @alexandrosteffi2721 3 года назад

      I really appreciate Dr. Miracle the powerful spell caster who help me cast a love spell that brought my ex husband within 24hours after providing him all the details he required from me and after the casting of the spell my ex husband came back to apologize that i should accept him and this will never happen again, for a long time now but since i met this spell caster online my story has change for good contact him via email miraclehelpcenter@gmail.com All thanks to Dr, Miracle for the good work

  • @colleengaynor3393
    @colleengaynor3393 3 года назад +412

    This has been my experience for sure, but it is not always so simple. For those conditioned and who have experienced trauma in childhood and find they aren’t able to easily love their self later in life, it takes a lot of undoing and work on their self to tap into the vibration of self-love. I do believe in the power of neuroplasticity and shifting to present moment gratitude and abundance mindset, but there is so much more to it for people with real trauma. I only know from experience and years of work on undoing my own conditioning. So my suggestion for anyone here that is feeling like they do all of this work to love their self and stay present and yet still attract dysfunctional partners, is to be patient with the process and look into various methods for undoing your trauma like breathwork, EMDR therapy, microdosing, somatic therapy…etc. keep going and growing and learning. Don’t blame yourself for not getting it right quicker. That is true self love.

    • @gabeeskridge8291
      @gabeeskridge8291 3 года назад +20

      True Ms Gaynor , it takes energy and great consistent effort to work through inner trauma

    • @braklola
      @braklola 3 года назад +11

      So true and well said. Thanks for sharing. 💜💜💜

    • @nikkihines3652
      @nikkihines3652 2 года назад +3

      🙏👍🏾🤓

    • @mariondaire1844
      @mariondaire1844 2 года назад +4

      thank you for this

    • @SonyeoMargit
      @SonyeoMargit 2 года назад +4

      Well said.

  • @jennifermillan9507
    @jennifermillan9507 10 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for sharing the story about your dad turning off the TV when medicine commercials came on. I do the same thing, and now I feel even more confident that I'm not only protecting my kids from programming but also helping them build a unified mind as a family.

  • @klasykapolskiegohh8798
    @klasykapolskiegohh8798 2 года назад +128

    People go into relationships for the feeling of love. But nobody can give you that feeling of love, this feeling comes from you therefore only you yourself can give you the feeling of love. How do you get the feeling of love? By valuing, respecting, cherishing yourself. Imagine that you are the perfect partner for yourself and treat yourself how you would treat that perfect partner. By doing that you will discover self love and you will be happier single than you would ever by in actual relationship with someone else

    • @kenkollar7633
      @kenkollar7633 2 года назад +2

      @@KD-hy3bi Doctor Joe claims doing his meditations draws to you what you need . Period . I am saying that you must of missed something . I am saying this thru love . Don't stop trying before the miracle happens , and. don't worry you will know when it happens . For me it was like an orgasm of love in my heart . 💝 Ken K

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 года назад +8

      except that real love will come along whether your ready for it or not, it can come along before you learn to love yourself but if you don't love yourself you will not know what to do with the love coming your way

    • @PerrySkyePhoenix
      @PerrySkyePhoenix 2 года назад +1

      @@KD-hy3bi I know what you mean, but I can cuddle my pillow all night long.

    • @wonkymon
      @wonkymon 2 года назад

      AMEN YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT!

    • @LoweHenry
      @LoweHenry 2 года назад

      but how do we know how can we tell

  • @maureenc9807
    @maureenc9807 3 года назад +159

    "Thoughts are the language of the brain, feelings are the language of the body"

  • @romxxox994
    @romxxox994 3 года назад +75

    I send a magnetic feel of love to everyone struggle to find themself in an electric tought

    • @lovelyday6243
      @lovelyday6243 3 года назад +1

      Sending magnetic feel of love to you too💖thank you✌️🙏🤗

    • @romxxox994
      @romxxox994 3 года назад

      @@lovelyday6243 Thank you❤️it work !

    • @kayb2454
      @kayb2454 3 года назад

  • @lauraduncea4409
    @lauraduncea4409 Год назад +26

    One of the deepest talks I’ve ever heard from Dr. Joe. I’ve been listening to this podcast on repeat for the past 3 days & every time I hear a new information. Thank you for sharing, Louis ❤

  • @montecristos11
    @montecristos11 3 года назад +39

    “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also,” (Matthew 6:21)

  • @daustin439
    @daustin439 3 года назад +182

    Sometimes people just don’t find their someone. Also being single isn’t lonely or miserable.

    • @Natural-Health.
      @Natural-Health. 3 года назад +6

      I've learned contentment and it works, along with meditation of course @

    • @Oppo-uh1xi
      @Oppo-uh1xi 3 года назад +7

      Well , it's ok not 2 b ok , 2 b lonely is ok the truth is v all are alone, even if u have family and friends

    • @theCineArts
      @theCineArts 3 года назад +4

      Besides, as far as I can tell Dr. Joe Dispenza is single lol.

    • @kellykirkpatrick5325
      @kellykirkpatrick5325 3 года назад +9

      Sometimes someone's someone is themselves and God and that is good enough, if not better, for some of us

    • @ItzMeOB
      @ItzMeOB 3 года назад +10

      Some prefer to stay single because they`re happy that way. This should not be leveled negatively.

  • @trudylohr1608
    @trudylohr1608 Год назад +92

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today, I have to stop being the victim, from today forward, I will not be a victim. Thank you.🎉❤

    • @BuckWildride
      @BuckWildride 5 месяцев назад

      You are enough, you are worthy, you are beautiful, you are loved, don't forget to tell yourself daily and give yourself a hug often

  • @SunShine_sublime
    @SunShine_sublime Год назад +24

    I'm really so happy that now I can say I'm whole after more than a decade of being needy and insecure. And it's the best feeling ever. You just have to keep thinking positive thoughts and if you ever think of negative ones, don't be attached to those unpleasant feelings. Just go back to thinking good thoughts.

  • @stanteacher943
    @stanteacher943 3 года назад +134

    OMG !!!! Seriously, last night I searched "Joe Dispenza + Love + Soulmates" and here it is, wow!!! I'm in alignment 😃😃😃

  • @teriward2589
    @teriward2589 3 года назад +65

    I love the line that you're more in love with your future than you're in love with your past.... LOVE THAT!!!

  • @patricialee6806
    @patricialee6806 3 года назад +82

    Lewis is so genuine. Dr Joe is on fire-dynamic.

  • @selenareid8838
    @selenareid8838 8 месяцев назад +2

    Just over 10 years ago I found Abraham Hicks and the law of Attraction and my life has transformed significantly. Now I am in a place where so may things have fallen away and I have been feeling so much grief. And now I am discovering Jo Dizpensa! I am feeling excitement for the next chapter of my life. Bring on the next 10 years! :)

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 месяцев назад

      So happy to hear that! Excited for you!

  • @melissamiller6182
    @melissamiller6182 2 года назад +92

    I've been single for 5 years. Trying to heal myself before bringing my baggage. Think I'm about ready ❤

    • @darkrangerl
      @darkrangerl Год назад +7

      Melissa, this resonated deeply I love, I thank you for doing the what's neccerary (aka the work that's involved to get you from here to a place you want to be 🤗 valuing yourself as a whole and your choice let you here today to me. Welcome you have arrived, you are doing great.

    • @Clarityandwisdom33
      @Clarityandwisdom33 Год назад

      Amazing! ❤What’s your favorite Dr. Joe Meditation?

    • @chrisscanlon4980
      @chrisscanlon4980 Год назад +2

      The message touted by popular media and therapists has been that we are supposed to be in total control of our emotions before we turn to others. “Love yourself first and then another will love you”. Our new knowledge stands that message on its head. “For Humans” says the psychologist Ed Tronic of the University of Massachusetts “the maintenance of emotional balance is a diatic collaborative emotional process” in other words we are designed to deal with emotion in concert with another person. Not by ourselves. Love relationships aren’t meant only to be joy rides. They are also meant to be restorative and balancing meeting places where negative emotions are calmed and regulated.

    • @summer18ca
      @summer18ca Год назад +1

      Also if we all wait until we feel that we love ourselves and are the best we can be it can be waiting in vain. Love while you are alive. Not one person knows how many days they are given in life. Waiting to make yourself into a different person?

    • @melissamiller6182
      @melissamiller6182 Год назад +1

      @summer18ca yes...when someone tries to end your life it changes you. Working on me so I can find a healthy relationship.

  • @lizzytoj2587
    @lizzytoj2587 3 года назад +154

    What I have learned IS that both parties MUST both LOVE each other AT THE SAME TIME, BOTH WANT to BE in THE relationship, with more or less the same future goals, without expectations, BOTH making each others' hearts sing on a daily basis....much mutual respect, no baggage from past relationships, and have confident personalities, lots of interesting conversations, etc....

    • @barbaraschain9260
      @barbaraschain9260 2 года назад +9

      I agree! It may be more interesting sometimes in having a real opposite to yourself but as time goes on i don't believe opposites attract...in fact i think it repels! Having more in common is the way to go for me!

    • @glo00punk
      @glo00punk 2 года назад +2

      Totaly agree! Also, as he said, the key it that both must be be the best version of themselves. Indeed, sometimes they find each other but when they met ore after the relation started they develop personal issues that lead them into an inability ti share, bring and feel more value by staying togheter

    • @impossiblegems
      @impossiblegems 2 года назад

      I don’t agree- I was in a relationship when we both in love but my ex was still in an altered state- he knew I was what he always wanted but he was still so messed up from living in survival- the fact that he found me and still felt the pain made him severely depressed

    • @flowergang101
      @flowergang101 2 года назад +4

      Who is even able to not have baggage?? I don’t think I’ve met anyone who didn’t have some baggage. Or those who made some peace with the past, but they still carry some pain. Not sure it’s possible to release all baggage completely.

    • @elizabethd3038
      @elizabethd3038 2 года назад +2

      Wow that makes it sound even more impossible

  • @feather99999999
    @feather99999999 3 года назад +130

    The guest is genius. He is describing forms of PTSD. Healing the chakras; I like that he describes this without using the words. He uses a scientific analysis.

  • @geekfeats
    @geekfeats Год назад +15

    15:08 You remember your future, so your body adjusts to be exactly what you are imagining when you are enjoying the emotions of what you are thinking, when you think about the future you want.

  • @BrandonSantino
    @BrandonSantino 3 года назад +171

    Anyone else watching this an hour in knowing they’re about to watch it 100 more times cuz it’s just that good? So many keys and truths in here. Very wild.

    • @irinab4483
      @irinab4483 3 года назад +3

      🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @franbagnall8115
      @franbagnall8115 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely,
      I agree...
      Its a Superfood 4R Brain.. and 💙❤

    • @jaynewilcox9527
      @jaynewilcox9527 3 года назад +2

      Yeah I don't want to forget this and want to practice it every day xx

    • @serenityflo_sound
      @serenityflo_sound 3 года назад

      Yes ditto

  • @aivieferrera
    @aivieferrera 3 года назад +80

    I think when you're in a whole and complete relationship, you would complain less, talk more about ideas, learn things together, handle problems better instead of fighting , talk more about the positive things in life and be at peace. This kind of relationship is truly what I desire and this is how I treat myself daily.

  • @carolebernier301
    @carolebernier301 3 года назад +48

    This is so true! I found my soulmate when I was the happiest and felt I was fulfilled with everything in my life!

  • @sheilakinney4174
    @sheilakinney4174 Год назад +8

    My main takeaway is, to be so in love with myself that I can ALLOW others to be HOWEVER they want to be........I have been angry and I want to tell everyone How to be.....but this took me like 3 days to listen to while driving home, and NOW Iam feeling good.....good about me because I put everyone else first but now , last 2 days I'm not. Not returning calls I dont want to, going home watching hummingbirds, and loving ME. It's my first step , and going to release others or should I say my angry response. Just letting it GO!!!!

  • @HungsYouTube
    @HungsYouTube Год назад +92

    I watched this video for about 5-6 times. I finally got that feeling and understand how it feels. It is a very fulfilling feeling. My heart starts generating love now.

  • @HIXHAM
    @HIXHAM 3 года назад +59

    Sometimes the one thing you are looking for is the one thing you can't see

  • @HieuKimVo
    @HieuKimVo Год назад +112

    Thank Lewis and Dr. Joe.
    No longer need, no longer want, no longer lack but instead I know exactly what my near future self, health, qualities, qualifications, relationship, career, and so on look like. I visualize them, I feel them, I feel whole, I heart them… no longer past images but them as the brain works the same way… no longer a victim, I’m so in love with life, I am the creator of my future.

  • @MensMidlifeMastery
    @MensMidlifeMastery 5 месяцев назад +5

    I am 49 and I only started living life in the last 18 months.
    I think men, including myself, do or have done negative behaviors because I have been living from being scared to do what I love in life. Things were stopping me from doing what I love - fear of what people think, people will not watch my video, read my articles or turn up to things I put out there on socials. After I started nobody really cared and after sometime you find like minded men that want to hang out with you and enjoy your stuff.
    you live a life of inspiration when you follow what you love doing.

  • @loislane7958
    @loislane7958 3 года назад +49

    "There's only one place where the unknown exists, and that's in the present moment" 🌍♥️

  • @athomewithfrancsicio
    @athomewithfrancsicio 3 года назад +165

    He just mostly rambled in this interview. I found my husband, when I prayed, fasted and determined what type of person I needed, not wanted. When he came into my life, I recognized him immediately and he asked me to marry him within months. Been together 8 years.

    • @KarenArlinda
      @KarenArlinda 3 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @lia55lee
      @lia55lee 3 года назад +10

      such a true distinction!! to figure out what you need, and ask for that ! and not necesserally for what you want...

    • @jayjae21jj
      @jayjae21jj 3 года назад +3

      You got me at person I needed

    • @agynes8827
      @agynes8827 3 года назад +14

      You did what he is saying! You practiced what you needed, you fasted and prayed, and you put the needs into what you wanted!!! He is explained it more complicated! But he is described what happened when you did all the things to help you fins, your husband!

    • @athomewithfrancsicio
      @athomewithfrancsicio 3 года назад +10

      @@agynes8827 oh I hadn't been back to this comment. I didn't get past 5 minutes in the video. It took years for me to understand you are what you attract. When I look back, all I was trying to do is commit to loving myself and achieve the goals I set, and ta dah...there he was 🙏🏽

  • @jzen1455
    @jzen1455 3 года назад +29

    Yeah, I noticed the better I feel about myself, the better my relationships are. When in a deep rut of depression, I tend to be isolate myself socially and create a forcefield that keeps people from getting too close to me. The people I do attract tend to have some deep unresolved or poorly managed issues of their own. They're the type of people I'd not associate if I were in a better state of being.

    • @fumarate1
      @fumarate1 3 года назад

      yes i know what you mean.