Entitled Wedding Guests That Ruined the Big Day - REACTION
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 24 фев 2023
- Entitled Wedding Guests That Ruined the Big Day - REACTION
SUBSCRIBE! bit.ly/2DxtJhM
INSTAGRAM: / charlaychaplin
TWITTER: / charlottedobre
TIKTOK: / charlottedobreofficial
FACEBOOK: / charlottedobreofficial
RECENT UPLOADS PLAYLIST: bit.ly/31RVL07
2ND CHANNEL: bit.ly/3v1ZJPV
MERCH: shop.charlottedobre.net/
Hey everyone, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and today I have a story that will make your blood boil. In this video, I'll be talking about entitled wedding guests who tried to ruin the most special day in a couple's life.
It's no secret that weddings can be expensive, time-consuming, and stressful to plan. And the last thing any couple needs is for an entitled guest to come along and make their day even more difficult.
In this story, we'll delve into some of the worst cases of entitled wedding guests who tried to ruin the big day. From demanding special treatment to causing drama and chaos, these guests are truly the definition of entitled.
You won't believe some of the outrageous requests and actions that these guests pulled, and the impact it had on the bride and groom. But I'll let you hear it from their own mouths.
Join me as we explore this story and discuss what we can learn from it. Whether you're planning your own wedding or attending someone else's, it's important to remember that a little bit of kindness and consideration can go a long way.
So, don't forget to hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you don't miss out on any of our upcoming videos. Thanks for watching, and I'll see you in the next one!
#EntitledWeddingGuests #WeddingDrama #WeddingNightmares #WeddingEtiquette #WeddingHorrorStories #WeddingPlanningTips #Bridezilla #Groomzilla #WeddingGuestsGoneWild #WeddingDisasters #WeddingMishaps #WeddingPartyFails #WeddingStories #WeddingAdvice #WeddingDosAndDonts #WeddingNightmares #WeddingEntitlement #WeddingEntitledGuests #WeddingCrashers #WeddingGuestsGoneBad #charlottedobre #reaction #react #reactionchannel
LINKS
/ cousin_tries_to_selfin...
/ aita_for_not_wanting_t...
/ ruin_my_wedding_to_pro...
If you want to submit a story anonymously, you can do so using the following links:
*DISCLAIMER* Due to a high volume of submissions, there is no guarantee that we will feature your story in a video. By submitting your story, you give me, Charlotte Dobre, the right to feature it in a video.
AITA - Where I decide if you're the AH or not ;) - bit.ly/3Wds7w6
Petty Revenge ! - bit.ly/3PwAUHl
Entitled People Stories - bit.ly/3FtDB83
Crazy Wedding Stories ! - bit.ly/3j1Xonu
Caught A Cheater ? - bit.ly/3FTyFuI
In-Laws From HELL ! - bit.ly/3YqjReg
Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
Edited By Now Creatives
Produced by: Charlotte Dobre
End screen song:
Defunk - (Feat. Charlotte Dobre, Sam Klass)
open.spotify.com/track/3S6FXA... 
Развлечения
I think part of the reason the last guy went with the nuclear option on his brother is cause he's had to deal with a LIFETIME of this. It's not just revenge for the wedding, it's getting back at him for making growing up with him so difficult.
Excactly, I was surprised the speaker did not mention that.
Yep 💯 percent lol I would do this too
And probably for his sister as well
Agreed, it is the accumulation of all OP's grievances and hurts for all his life. It is very satisfying 😏😏😏
100% Todd was warned
My thing with Todd is that he cried to his parents, parents defended him saying he wasn’t going to actually propose and that OP was being judgmental and then OP relented and was like, fine but don’t propose or you’ll regret it, to which I assume Todd was like yeah okay, I won’t. And then HE DID. He deserved it and he deserves no contact.
My only problem with this one is that there is a child involved. The fiancé won’t let him see his son because she thinks he cheated. That’s messing up a innocent kids life. I do believe he should have gotten him back but not to the extent it involves a child not seeing their father.
The kid thing messed it up but he did warn him he would pay🤷♀️
For the kid's sake I would think about letting Lucy know it wasn't true and the reasons why it was done.
I think that whole story is fake anyway. That "receipt falling out of the pocket" thing is just too convenient. Sounds like something that'd happen in a movie.
Yeah he might deserve it but does his kid deserve to have a strained relationship with his father and to see his mom and dad fighting all the time over this? The kid didn’t do anything wrong.
Last story shout-out to the unnamed gal friend who spent the entire wedding man-marking Todd, poised and ready to announce that she was pregnant with his baby, and did so knowing full well there was a STRONG chance she’d be b****-slapped by Lucy, and DEFINITELY need to leave the wedding immediately after the scene, yet was still willing to take one for the team and do this for the couple. What a friend! 😳
I think she said she got paid for it, but still, she definitely has balls of steel.
If my friends didn't know I can't have kids I'd have done that too. But I'd done it for free. 😂
I would absolutely do this. I'm for hire... 😂😂
Definitely MVP for best friend and mystery gal
@@audrawells1383 Ye, that is a thing with a type of smaller actors and actresses to take up smaller roles filling a space in a story someone needs to create.. in this case a female side piece for "Todd," they usually are willing to do a lot of different types of roles albeit not a super risky one, they're still humans.
When my now wife and I were planning our wedding.... Her mom and stepmom began making plans for the reception that we didn't approve of.
The two of them don't like each other. So they were going back and forth, trying to out do one another.
I forgot to mention.... I was the one paying for EVERYTHING!
After constant fighting. And horribly upsetting my future wife....we called off the planned ceremony and reception. And got married privately within the courthouse!
Good for them and you did a smart thing!
GOOD FOR YOU
Wise thing to do. Good for you guys.
For Todd, if the proposal was the only stunt he pulled I'd not react the way OP did.
But also think about the countless number of times he must have snatched the spotlight or done something inappropriate. I feel the building resentment of OP just burst out and in the most petty way🤌
That is exactly what I was thinking, the groom wasn't just getting him back for the wedding, but also the baby shower and probably years of other crap. I don't think he took it too far.
Yes, payback is a bitch.
Plus, I feel like if he wants to be the center of attention and steal the spotlight from his siblings, he won't have any problem doing the same to his wife and child.
@@endorathewitchwriter1712 I say, he didn't take it far enough.
I think OP took it too far because let’s not forget there are children involved and not only that, he was also punishing OP’s girlfriend who was an innocent party in all this. Let me reiterate that the person truly suffering behind this is OP’s kid (which btw is being kept from him) parental alienation is not cool.
I wish more people would understand that family is not REQUIRED to be invited to weddings.....it should be the people currently IN your life.
Unless they're rich and will give good presents. 😜
Indeed I agree. I love the phrase.... Friends... Are the family you choose!!!
I think a LOT of people have a sort of Stockholm syndrome with their family. They seem gaslit into not trusting their gut and believing their family isn't that bad. I had a friend like this in high school. Her bedroom was literally a closet off her little brother's room and she waited on him and cooked family dinner after school. I could never convince her that things were not right. In a way I think those of us with very obvious and undeniable family issues are better off. We can make a clean break and feel mostly okay about it. Those with more passive aggressive families just can't seem to shake them.
Yes! Exactly!
I soo wish when I got married o didn’t invite majority of the people I did invite! My cousin made things delay and not run a smooth and I don’t even like her, just felt she had to go! Another cousin I wanted to go couldn’t because another cousin I didn’t like HAD to go (according to my family) I felt bullied into inviting people! I never even wanted the big wedding, I wanted to go abroad but my husband wanted ot so I did it! After he said “we should of got married abroad” 😡🔥🤬
14 years ago, I worked in a company where our bosses established a culture of helping one another. Whenever a colleague gets married, all of us are free to come but we have to pay for our meal (there’s over a hundred of us). I was the creative guy so I offer photography for free. My other colleague is a good make up artist, another one is a good host, we also have singers and another is a good coordinator, all for free as a gift to the bride or groom. My bosses always give the most fancy gift to the couple. It all worked well for everybody and everyone who got married in that company ended up with a really fun and amazing big weddings. For over 4 years I have worked there, I have done 4 weddings and those couples felt so blessed to be a part of that company. Already left the country and my boss, those colleagues and I are still good friends. It was a lovely experience.
COMMUNITY. We need more! By sharing your experience, others may well follow suit! ❤ Here's to the wing-flap, let it ripple...
That’s called ‘when the stars align.’ Sounds awesome!
the fake side pieces was PERFECT vengeance. He was told "Do not do this", and he did it anyways. The dude, fricked around and has found out.
Also his now X-g/f is WAY better off not being with a piece o' chud like that.
Not only did “Todd” purposefully and specifically choose his brother’s wedding to propose he also chose to do it during the father daughter dance, not only taking away from his brother’s wedding but taking that moment from the bride and her father. He absolutely deserved it in my opinion.
Also, imo they saved the woman from marrying an absolute asshole and taught the latter an important life lesson.
Maybe him but not the child 😥
He totally deserve it but I'm worried abt the kid... I completely forgot that they had a kid and thought they were just dating... but the kid?? The child may grow up without a father is unfortunate for him...
That's the part that got me. Even after he told Todd not to do anything, he went a did it during one of the most special moments for a bride at her wedding. If someone ruined my daddy-daughter dance I'd kick them out on the spot. Not a F will be given.
I do feel Todd deserved this cause honestly he was warned something bad would happen I do feel for the child. Growing up with a single parent let alone without a father can be rough but it may be good that the child doesn’t learn this behavior from Todd because they would grow up learning to do the same things as him
Last story: No sympathy for LUCY, either. Remember, she announced her pregnancy at Abby’s baby shower. Lucy and Todd are two of a kind, both desperate for the spotlight, especially at other people’s expense. She can’t legally withhold access to the child without a court order, so let them figure out their own mess. Go with “It was just a prank, bro, sorry you don’t have a sense of humor, you’re too sensitive,” ONLY if he pays the invoice you sent. As ye sow, so shall ye reap. Sorry for the kid, but he has two crap parents anyway, and is likely in for a lifetime of them making his celebrations and accomplishments about them anyway, this is a blip on the radar.
Meghan and Harry in a nutshell
Lucy knows she is better off without this douchebag. She doesn't trust him or the fake side piece act wouldn't have worked.
#Preach
#Breakthecycle
No sorry for the kid, I think the parents would teach their baby to steal the spotlight too and we don't need another generation of entitlement, tbh.
i'll be of a sliiightly different opinion here, just for conversation:
the only reason why i'd think she went to far in her revenge is that it affected the kid, who is an innocent third party. Even if his parents are insensitive jerks, i'm pretty sure it would still hurt to have divorced parents.
Imagine the kid learning the whole story when he's older: "my parents got divorced because they weren't respectful at my aunt's wedding and my aunt took revenge on them by ruining their marriage" (LOL ok yea they reap what they sow, tho it also makes the aunt look bad)
At this point, even if she does apologize for "going too far," how can she be assured that Todd and Lucy won't take revenge for her revenge? I mean, the situation clearly didn't help them apologize for their actions. Nothing was resolved; only escalated. Isn't that why revenge isn't usually worth it?
That last one is so hilarious 🤣 no this punishment doesn’t fit that EXACT crime, but when you consider that this Todd has done shit like this to OP AND HIS SISTER THEIR WHOLE LIFE the punishment was not enough
The relatives talking about this incident as family history is priceless.
"Hey can you just change your entire wedding venue for me please??" lmao....
The brother went through with his proposal because he was sure he would get away with it. I think the only possible way to make him feel the consequences of his own actions was to totally annihilate him, or his parents would just have protected him lol that was so satisfying
Completely agree!! I can’t understand how some people are weird enough to think proposing or announcing something at someone else’s event is EVER appropriate, but the OP specifically told him “DO NOT PROPOSE AT MY WEDDING” and he went ahead and did it anyway! The fact that he has kids changes nothing - it might even be a good thing he is away from them incase he is passing on his bad behavioural habits to them.
My only problem with the revenge that guy pulled was that it effectively dragged an innocent kid into it. His brother was out of line, arguably so was the brother's fiance, but their kid did nothing and is now likely going to grow up in a broken home with little-to-no contact with his dad unless the truth comes out.
It’s not like he didn’t make it clear that he would make him regret it
and the fact that he agreed to not try anything at the wedding, and yet still pushed through..
@Ælla Tew that's not the OPs fault though. That's the dumbass MOTHERS fault. What kind of mother would keep a child from their father just because he allegedly cheated? Just because he supposedly cheated on HER doesn't give her the right to do that. Idk if we can blame OP for that part. Todd should've thought about that shit
You also have to think about the fact that Todd has been the golden child forever to the detriment of both OP and their sister. He has spent years preening over mommy and daddy giving him everything and not giving OP and sister what they need. They wanted ONE DAY EACH. They wanted THEIR WEDDING DAYS. Their parents and brother couldn’t even give them that. OP’s NTA and warned Todd he would regret messing up yet another milestone.
@MsJubjubbird If she wasn't like that before they got together she probably dodged a bullet. If she's the same way she deserved it too. The only one who didn't deserve it is the baby but thats what they get for not being safe and having a stable enough relationship in the first place to be bringing a kid into the world.
@@MsJubjubbird I disagree. You're forgetting she ruined the baby shower. And she was happy to take the attention from someone else on their wedding day. If my husband would have tried to propose to me at someone else's wedding I would have stopped him and been very upset. So she had it coming as well and deserved it as well. Also What other thing could have been done to ruin the proposal that would only affect Todd. You're forgetting Todd has OPs parents on his side no matter what. So it had to be a type of revenge that makes it looks like OPs not involved and that also somehow doesn't hurt the baby shower stealing 304. Attention seekers are literally some of the worst people on the planet. They deserve whatever vengeance is rained upon them honestly. It's just karma.
Ok. I tend to agree with the original post. The main points that stick out to me is the sister, Abby had a baby shower. Todd's baby momma could have simply attended introduced herself to the family and followed up with a lunch to announce a baby. But also, she could have also waited for Todd to propose before announcing a baby. There are reasons why there is a phrase "shotgun wedding". The reasons are babies on the way.
2nd. Groom did not want Todd as his groomsman, nor did he even want him at the wedding or reception. He already knew what to expect. He relented for the sake of his parents. Promises were made and promises were broken.
I wouldn't have hired an actress to make that kind of accusation. And, if I was an actress, I wouldn't take that kind of job.
Having said that... Damn. All of this could have been avoided if groom stuck to his guns and dropped Todd as groomsman and uninvited him to the wedding. The lines were already drawn. They would never do the family reunion thing or holidays thing again. Todd would have proposed on his own. Now, the parents at least have their eyes open to how Todd treats his siblings. He legit broke his promise to his parents and his brother by NOT waiting for a different day.
He could have proposed the day after. Or... He could have done something with his GF'S side of the family to propose to her in front of her family and friends. Nope. He wanted himself and his GF to get dressed up and have photographers and videographers and a ready to go crowd of people. Then he chose the bride's dance with her father as the time to do it.
It's not petty. It's standing up to emotional blackmail and bullying to move forward in life with Todd no longer in it.
And if sister Abby is mad at groom... Perhaps she should be the one to tell Todd's GF it was a prank.
No punches were thrown. No property was damaged.
Lies were told to avenge promises made that were never intended to be kept.
Somehow, I think the parents will still end up siding with Todd instead of groom. And that will be the real eye opener. Lines have been drawn. They will be forced to see they were always standing on one side of the line and treated the other children unfairly to favor the 1.
I agree. Todd had it coming. His girlfriend’s behaviour at the shower is also appalling! Todd was warned and told not to do. He did it anyway. This is the consequence!
I'm not about taking revenge myself. You reap what you sew happens on its own. One thing tho, it is a brilliant way for her to get him to pay for half the wedding. She did present him with a bill and she'll prob make him pay it before she'll clear his name.
Aside from marrying my best friend, the father-daughter dance was THE MOST important part of my wedding. It was the only part of the wedding that I had actually imagined since I was small. My father sang to me while we danced, not loudly enough for the whole party to hear over the music but just to me. I'll carry that memory with me until my dying breath. Todd got what he deserved imho.
coming from someone who has experienced this kind of behavior and knows who is the favorite child, if there have been years of stolen and ruined moments made by this person, then this one single moment of revenge is most likely needed to end the abuse.
My husband and I got married in a Tuesday at the courthouse. I wore my dress and got my hair done. Our parents knew and spread the word if people wanted to show up. Some did. We had dinner after at Olive Garden. A month later our family decided we needed a reception. We said we didn’t need one. They planned it and invited people I haven’t seen since I was a kid 😆 no cost to my husband and I, the family got there party and we got gifts!! I say we won the wedding.
That's so sweet! It's nice to hear a cute wedding story after all the drama. (Not that I don't enjoy the drama... but I need a dash of wholesome yknow) congrats!
Your family is golden. That was so incredibly sweet of them!
I got married in a courthouse, too. Turns out Narc stbx has no friends and wanted to alienate my friends. I'm never falling for a covert narc again.
Just because it is a low budget courthouse deal doesn't mean they don't have a cluster b. Yikes.
My husband & I were married alone by the phenomenal hippy Howie on the beach in Hawaii. I didn’t have to worry about anyone else, we saved tens of thousands even after living it up in Hawaii for weeks, & my photos look like they belong in a magazine. To try to appease all, we had an engagement luau for friends before we left, staged wedding pics with family at a fancy place, & had a boring formal reception for family after we returned. People will always complain but this way the people who mattered were happy & enjoyed our day! 💞
@@LyannaDelore yeah but no one said it would last because it was small or low budget so why are yall responding as if they did? Sounds like you just wanted to trauma dump tbh.
The fact that Todd was WARNED not to do anything during his brother's wedding, promised that he wouldn't & then proceeded to propose at the wedding, DURING THE BRIDE'S FATHER/DAUGHTER DANCE!!!! And Lucy, announcing her pregnancy at the sister's baby shower?! Dude, I don't think he went petty enough!!!! Todd deserves it!!!
Agree 💯
Totally nuclear and totally deserved. Todd needs to put his big boy undies on and apologise and THEN I would let Lucy know what had gone on.
"bUt It WaSn'T dUrInG tHe WeDdInG! iT wAs DuRiNg ThE rEcEpTiOn!!"- Todd, probably
If Lucy thought it was ok to announce her pregnancy at the sister's baby shower, she is just as toxic as Todd. So she won't even see the problem of getting engaged at someone else's wedding. Thinking of the child, I would phone Lucy and tell her everything. There are consequences to your actions and now she and Todd have experienced it.
Facts! He was ⚠️
Hiring an actress. That was pure GENIUS!!!
There's so many beautiful stories about brides and grooms helping their friends propose at their weddings. In all of those scenarios, consent was gathered beforehand. It should go without saying, if you do not have consent, DO NOT PROPOSE AT PEOPLE'S WEDDINGS! OP's brother got what he deserved. He was warned and chose to f*** around and find out, and find out he did. He would not get an apology from me until he apologized first.
He wouldn't get an apology from me but I'd definitely talk to the gf about her withholding the child. He's done a lot of shitty things but none of those are a reason for him to be banned from seeing his child
@@holliehopewell4306 On the other hand if Todd did get to be in his kid's life then the kid will have to deal with Todd as an ever present obstacle sabotaging them at every turn in their life.
It's all just one evil in exchange for another.
@@rustyhowe3907 yeah but the mother seems the exact same cuz she went along with everything happily so the kids gonna be exposed to it anyway so I don't see the need to keep him from his dad for something that he didn't actually do
@@holliehopewell4306 Yeah I agree that poor kid is doomed from the start and done over from both sides.
Optimistically I would hope that it was a wake up call for that pair to think about their own kid but I wouldn't hold my breath.
It's not right the kid was pulled into this mess because now instead of just two terrible excuses for parents, they now have a 3rd entity petty uncle in the mix that ruined their life for something that yes Todd provoked but as you said wasn't guilty of.
At first I was like “oh that sucks for Todd’s baby moms.” But remember how she announced her pregnancy at the sister’s baby shower!! They both deserve it. This was a lesson that Todd had coming. He was warned, he ruined the bride’s dance with her dad, now he has to pick up the pieces of his raggedy life.😂💁🏾♀️
Yeah, being reminded of the baby shower changes things. Originally I did feel a bit bad for her, and especially the baby, but now I just feel bad for that kid with such shit parents.
Todd deserved punishment. Lucy maybe too. But not the child.
This I don’t think the child deserves to have his dad taken away from him that’s just plain wrong but that’s down to the mother, even if this was true she doesn’t have the right to keep a child away from their father, why would you want to deprive your own child of a dad 🤯
@@lixxielou9747 well, yes and no. Just imagine what kind of father Todd would be. Attention seekers use everyone they can. Todd won't stop now that his brother and sister both don't have big parties coming up anymore. He'll use everything his kid will do to make himself center of the attention. And I don't see any way how a kid could be happy with parents that won't think about their child.
But yes, even if Lucy is upset, she should think about her kid. Very clearly she doesn't care about the kid's feelings, she only cares about punishing her ex(?) boyfriend. I think both don't care about the child that much - which is very sad in itself.
Todd an Lucy might deserve it but their kid sure doesn't
Todd's story needs to be turned into a 10-part Netflix drama.
Omg I'd watch that lol even just having a movie about it 😆🤣
There certainly had been shows filmed with less material
🤣🤣🤣
I'd love that so much!
Never invite people like Todd to a wedding...ever.
Drama?? or Comedy??
With the last story, I think the only other option OP could have gone with was having someone spill wine all over both of them when they saw what he was trying to do. That would probably be the option I would have gone with, but he definitely deserved what happened. He was warned and he decided to do it anyway.
I invited 30 people to my wedding and everyone else got a card with a photo of us being like “hey btw we got married.” They can suck it. Lol - we invited mostly friends bc no drama and they’re legit happy for us.
As an older person let me give younger people some advice. The thing you will remember about your wedding day is the people you're with and the moments spent with them. That's what sets the tone of the whole day, the people. If there are people who cause you stress in your life leave them out. This is a day about making you and your SO feel happy and special, not about meeting social expectations. It's YOUR day, not your family's.
Hell yeah 100% agree. It's the people who make or break the day.
Every wise word ❤️
True
Thank you for sharing some helpful wisdom friend :) I am taking note of your advice, it’s good
Agreed.
Side note: Exactly once have I seen someone propose at someone else's wedding. *However!* it was with the bride & groom's permission, and it was during the bouquet toss. Bride pretended to wind up, then handed it to the guy, who came over and gently led his girlfriend out of the pack of grappling bridesmaids, handed her the flowers, then knelt down and pulled out a ring. *That* was a sweet moment (that was okay with the newlyweds) that didn't step on the toes of anyone else. Bonus sugar: the newly engaged girl then handed the flowers off to another girl who they knew had really wanted to catch the bouquet.
That's a proper way to do that. And sweet. Not underhanded at all.
That is lovely!!
That's the best way to do it! Always get permission and they'll help you incorporate your proposal into their wedding so it's memorable for everyone.
Oh that's so incredibly sweet for everyone involved!! Would have loved to see it
Those are the people that actually care about others
It’s all the revenge for all the past mess ups Todd did. Well played. Stay in your lane!
When my wife said our wedding was going to be child free, I was against it, but she held firm, thus I relented. I now agree with her 💯%. If the bride/groom are fine with kids, fine, but I now agree weddings are an adult thing primarily. If only for a chance for the parents to get an actual break from their kids and let loose a little.
We only had 1 kid at our wedding. It was my now SIL, who was born, when my husband was in his teens already and which I knew since she was about 3 or 4 years old, so she's like an actual little sister to me.
She was 10 years at that time.
I think Todd got off lightly, but then I’m a dog of the female persuasion.
I think this is true of most weddings (unless you want a family BBQ in the back yard). Children today are not taught to sit quietly through a ceremony, nor do they know how to behave nicely at a reception. It's just a sign of the times.
For the last one....normally I'd say it would be too far. However, he was warned, and the gf had the nerve to announce her pregnancy at the sister's baby shower, and now the engagement. So I'd say this was a very pent-up revenge that was long over due. No contact for sure. Toxic is toxic.
Yes! Todd clearly has a main character complex and always wants to be the center of attention. He absolutely got what he deserved.
My only issue is that they're a child involved. I don't disagree with what he did. I just disagree with not clearing it up after the fact. You know, give it a month or so, then tell the girlfriend the truth. But make it clear he's are only telling her the truth because he doesn't want their child to suffer, and let her know if she tripped to tell anyone else in the family the "truth" he'll just deny it all and say how crazy that is.
Like sort it out so the kids doesn't suffer. But as for the rest of the family, I'd let everyone who was at the wedding believe that Todd was a cheating POS for the rest of time. Dude deserves that.
Todd definitely deserves what he got. But that poor kid caught in the middle doesn't deserve to lose a parent
@@bottomofastairwell The only person hurting the kid is the kids mom. She's disgusting for weaponizing his child against him. She deserves a slap in the face tbh.
not only that, he proposed during the father-daughter dance
@@bottomofastairwell.....agreed.....and tell Todd's gf that it would be great if she could convince Todd to apologize to Brother, s-i-l, sister, and parents for his entitled unacceptable behavior.......
That last one, considering the behavioral pattern and the lack of remorse from the brother, I would say it's well deserved. The brother had also said to the parents that he wouldn't do anything but he did anyway, so he's also a manipulative liar. If OP backs down now, he'll have to put up with the nonsense until end of time. Some people needs to be fed some of their own medicine.
But now he doesn't get to see his child. That means his child is being punished for his father's behavior. The child did nothing wrong and does not deserve this punishment.
@@hollyd.4793 Todd had COUNTLESS chances to alter his behaviour in the lead up to this one event, but just like the most likely over 50 times he did something like this before, he didnt. That child is better off without a father figure like that to be honest
The only punishment the child is receiving is having those two narcissists as parents!
@@hollyd.4793 If he stomps on the boundaries of his family, he probably isn’t much betting to his child. He’s probably that dad who only acts like a father when it’s convenient to him. If mama is keeping child away from Todd, maybe she has other reasons, than him “cheating” … which he probably has multiple girls on the side anyway, just not *that* girl. Everyone else are just supporting “actors” in his life.
@@hollyd.4793 It's Todd's fault. No one else's.
The invitations didn’t say so and so’s wedding FEATURING a surprise proposal! Todd can bite it!
My ex mother-in-law ruined my wedding... we were supposed to have 50 guests, she wanted to invite her own guests that I had never met before and chipped in money to do this which wasn't really enough for an additional 75 guests but she did it anyway and insisted I must invite these strangers, there were literally people at my wedding that I had never met before who acted annoyed as my ex husband and I introduced ourselves to tables of strangers.
I trust all of 'MIL guests' brought zip loc doggie bags & something to carry table florals & other Bling away. I'm a fan of reading signs & Red Flag warnings. Ex marks the spot. 2 people getting married = 2 people planning. Period.
@@irishphilly It was really a nightmare for me because she basically forced the money on me and demanded that I order more invitations and increase my guest list and my ex-husband and I felt powerless in the situation.
An additional 75 people, heck no, I would’ve called off the wedding. At most her two or maybe four closest friends that’s it! People like that end up spoiling it for the couple already under pressure.
@@deniseberman8633 She gave us some money so she couldn't invite her own guess but they were strangers to the both of us and the money she gave us barely covered the cost and it was amazing how quickly my wedding became all about pleasing everyone else.
The last story. Yes the punishment fits. I have a sibling like that. Gets everything they want shows no gratitude to our parents demands everything be her way. Sometimes you are so violently sick of them ruining your life you pull a stunt like this to say “B*tch this ain’t your playing field anymore”. I think it was absolutely brilliant and that his bride went along with it is even more golden. You are NOT the A hole!
I feel it's taking it too far. Hiring the woman to ruin the proposal is one thing but not wanting to clear his name even after the wedding and permanently destroying his brother's relationship with both his gf and child? He's also punishing the innocent by breaking the child's family.
def the a hole ur ruining a whole marriage and a childs relationship with their father, the children may grow up thinking their father never loved them and have trauma all bc this person wanted to be petty
Just gotta say this is always my thought to this story too. This takes it too far because of the collateral damage. This doesn't just hurt Todd it hurts Lucy, and it hurts their baby child who is completely innocent even if the argument could be made that Lucy was also deserving of some revenge for the baby shower thing. This would be the sort of story that if say a friend in the future told me they'd done this, I'd never be able to see them the same way again because I just couldn't get "that poor kid though" out of my head. You've always got to mind the splash damage on revenge plots - if more than just your target is equally hurt, it's too far and to me it just makes OP read as being just as self-centered and heartless as Todd in the end, damaging three lives to get back at one.@@Tasha9315
@@Tasha9315 He should apologize. How hard is that? Say the words: "I apologize for not listening and going ahead with my plan against your will, on your special day". As long as he is stubborn, there is no need to save him from the grief. Narcissists deserve grief, when they do not apologize.
The last story is so badly fake, most stuff on Reddit is people practicing their horrendous story writing skills lol
Todd learned how the "fuck around and find out" scale works. Let's all celebrate Todd learning something new!
I’m laughing so hard because everything you posted is correct. That scale hit Todd pretty hard, lol.
Man this is the mother of all FAAFO's 😂😂😂😂
😂😂 😂That was revenge diabolically done PERIOD!!! THAT WAS FOR ALL THE YEARS THAT HE HAD TO PUT UP WITH HIS BROTHER, ALL THE YEARS THAT HIS SISTER HAD TO PUT UP WITH HIM TOO. HE GAVE HIM FAIR WARNING THAT IF HE PROPOSED AT THEIR WEDDING, HE WOULD RUIN HIS BROTHER'S LIFE, PLAY DUMB GAMES AND WHEN STUPID PRIZES😂😂😂😂
My brother flew from California (our home state) to Missouri (my current residence) to be at my wedding. It’s about 1800 miles from California to Missouri. I was touched, and it made it the most perfect day. It was a small intimate wedding, immediate family only. Which was exactly what we wanted. I had a lot of family and friends upset about the wedding so they all decided to skip the reception because of it. Which was fine by us, we still got married and I had my parents and all my siblings there to celebrate with and it was more than enough!!
Alternative revenge for the wedding (last story): I would have informed every guest beforehand that Todd would propose and to please ignore him completely at that moment. Like, not even sparing them a glance no matter what they do. Attention seekers want attention. Make it a point that the moment is for the dance and that no matter what they do, it is NOT THEIR MOMENT.
Ooooohh now that's diabolical 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I would agree but that is giving them just as much attention really
Love that!
That plan would backfire like it's in human nature to do exactly what is forbidden.
So practical!!
Todd proposed even when he was told not to and did it during the Father Daughter dance just to be petty. He got what he deserved, it's not like he wasn't warned!
He deserved it. But his child didn't deserved it.
Not defending Todd, but he wasn’t warned. He was never told his life was going to fall apart just because he decided to ruin a dance. Sure he was petty, but the OP was being equally as petty. It’s not like he damaged anything at the wedding but yet the OP is still demanding that he pay half of the bill. Sure he was a jerk at the wedding, but the OP was being even more jerky and he ended up pretty much ruining his life. See what I’m saying here?
Best revange ever!
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. He was warned, and did not care. @@moonlordis_theantagonist
@@jessislistless Sure, but there’s a point when a punishment goes just too far.
I had to go to my overly entitled cousins wedding, and I hated it. She completely took over my mom’s house, and literally tried to make herself right at home so she could do her henna party without even asking. She was very very very rude about everything and just completely entitled. She didn’t even check to see if she could go anywhere else before coming to our house. I was very upset
I'm VERY single so me getting married is still a ways off but thanks to stories like this I know to just avoid the drama and not invite my one aunt, uncle and cousin. Me and my parents don't really like them and it's safe to assume the woman I'm marrying will feel the same way. So, a very smart decision has been made 2+ years in advance.
That revenge on Todd was years worth of built up resentment 😂 I'm not mad at it
Yes, destroying an innocent child's relationship with his father due to a lie is fantastic! All because a dance was interrupted, a child now can't live with his father unless dragged through court.
@@Steph-yz4tn well, he shouldn't have proposed when specifically asked not to.
@@Steph-yz4tn no, it happened because of a lifetime of childhood trauma and he is an asshole, kid will be better off
Was it a bit too far, I think so, but like you said, the OP makes it clear that this was not the first time "Todd" has pulled something like this. I think you're right this wasn't just for the wedding or baby shower stunt. This had been coming for him for years.
But, it's not fair to the kid in his relationship.
@@Steph-yz4tn
Did you not watch the video? This was not just over a dance at a wedding but YEARS of resentment built up from a spoiled entitled asshat who had payback coming to him for a loooonnnng time now!
1. I need Charlotte as a bestie. ❤️👑
2. Todd deserved it. After ruining so many moments for his siblings, and the fact he ruined the father/daughter moment during the wedding, wtf did he expect? He rightly got his justice served.
Right? You ruin one moment between a parent and their child and OP returns the favor
Isn't she just a Doll?🥰
Exactly, people don't know what it is like to constantly be shoved in the dark to let your sibling shine. Not the AH
Yea i mean, how's he ever gonna learn if he never gets any consequences for his actions?! Sure it's a little mean, but I also think it's well deserved since he had EVERY chance to not do it.
He's also had every chance to apologize & beg his brother to tell the truth. Instead he just complains about the consequences. Not really dad material there when your pride is more important.
Love all these wedding ones 😂 I’ve never been a big one for marriage but have found myself warming to the idea in the last couple of years. If I ever get married it will be abroad, with immediate family (parents,siblings,maybe nieces and nephews) and everyone will need to pay for their own flights. Problem sorted in terms of inviting a silly amount of people and those looking to freeload 😅
Every time I watch your wedding videos I'm glad my husband and I got married in a small wedding. I mean small; it was basically my aunt (the notary public), my mother, and two witnesses who were friends of my aunt. Their son took our wedding photos. 7 people counting my husband and me. We had a religious blessing two years later, the same thing, just my mum, aunt, his sister, his mum and dad, and our baby, who was just turning one. Zero stress saved our money. Total bliss, this year we celebrated our 25th anniversary.
I got engaged in 2018 and we planned a long engagement and set the wedding to be in 2021. When we started to put a guest list together to get ahead on the planning covid hit and we took that opportunity to have a much smaller wedding and use covid as the reason to not invite the entitled and toxic family members. We had an wedding in May 2021 with 45 of the best and nicest friends and family. Went from having an almost 200 person wedding to a drama free small group of people who wanted nothing but to share in the love 😄
Our son and DIL basically did this same thing….30 people in an outdoor venue. No muss, no fuss and it was perfect!
We had 38 lovely guests on 2021 wedding -- it was perfect
We had like 95 guests 11 were mine (8 family members and 3 friends) and rest were husband's.
It's really hard to make cuts. I mean, mine was simpler because neither side of mine likes to attend. My aunts did come, left after food (which i knew and i didn't care what time people left),my uncle didn't because he had silly beef with mom. Didn't invite my other uncle because honestly i don't really know him and his looks and social skills resemble forest troll. Didn't invite my grandma because she was horrible person. It was very easy to keep her out of loop. I just told mom and aunt that they can say I got married at city hall with only witnesses (which was true. Only invited parents and siblings)
Didn't invitr cousins. Because dads'side they are 10-15 years older and mom's side 10-15 years younger. Uncle's kids i do not know (because his silly beef with mom). Aunt of that side had her youngest with her, he was 9 and we had fun.
Husband has big and close family. So it was uncles and aunts and cousins and their kids.
Everything went well. Only 1 drunk ah (husband's side)
As it should be! Weddings these days are absolutely ridiculous. They aren't intimate sacred vows anymore. They are production pieces with all of the meaning of a Broadway play.
Awesome!!
My parents didn't like my fiancé and told me I couldn't invite any family to my wedding. I ended up having a $400 wedding. We had a Justice of the Peace and a cookout with a couple of friends and my neighbors. My parents found out a year and a half later...we let someone else drop the hint 😄😄
Omg, that actually sounds fab. I wish you both well and I hope you are happy. Weddings are so expensive and I would rather spend that time with people who love me than stress over the people who birthed me.
@@ladyscarlette6289 Thank you so much! ❤️ I had a luxury that most brides don't...a stress-free wedding 😉❤️
I love this!!!!
@melaniereese5226 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 you go queen and congratulations
@@brightonboy191 It was definitely way more fun than something extravagant 😄
Anyone waiting for CD to get married. The non drama is gonna be lit!
The last one with the brother was genius and the memes were perfect.
I love these wedding stories . This is why I want a small ceremony with close family and friends only
Lucy hijacked Abby’s baby shower, and Todd hijacked his brother’s wedding (after specifically stating he wouldn’t).
Yeah, it’s harsh what happened to him, but it’s harsh what they did.
I have to wonder about their relationship if they can’t even discuss the proposal incident. Because it does seem very coincidental that a side piece would be at the wedding, waiting for the proposal. So if their relationship can’t survive that, how strong was their relationship to begin?
very good point
Exactly, and it would be so easy to proove he has nothing to do with the other woman.
The side piece wasn't at the wedding they hired her after the wedding
@@YoungForever7168 I am confused about the hiring timeline also, because he said he ignored his brother's frantic calls to clear his name until he returned from his honeymoon. (Also, re: previous comment - the girlfriend can't deny him access to his biological children over this. Especially if he's on the birth certificate. He can take her to court.)
@@heidikickhouse- I think she didn't have the baby yet. So if they are broken up, and shes still pregnant. When it comes time to have the baby, yeah she can have the kid with her last name and no father on the birth certificate.
I think for the last story the reason the groom went so far is because this isn't the first major moment his brother has ruined. Announcing your own pregnancy at your sister's baby shower is so rude. Then to get warned not to propose at your brother's wedding to go on and not only do it but do it during the bride's moment with her father. That's just next level rude without discussing first. Hopefully his brother learned from this. He seems like he would have continued to ruin everyone's special moments for eternity if this hadn't happened to be honest .
I agree with it all, but I'd have come clean once I was told he wasn't allowed to see his child, a child who is innocent in all of this
@@holliehopewell4306 I'm sure he will spend his child's life ruining the child's moments too. This guy sounds like a narcissist and that is what narcissists do. The only moments that kid will have will be centered around dad with the kid as an afterthought.
@@karentorngren5102 mums the exact same as the dad and that's stated but I don't see you moaning about her. None of that is any reason for him to be banned from seeing his child now is it? If you really believe it is then your name is perfect for you.
i love when you say "absolutely not!!!" it's like gossiping with a freind😌
Charlotte, my friend and I love watching your wedding videos. We love how sassy you get.
Todd totally got what was coming to him. This isn’t the first time he’s ruined a family event by making it all about him. And the groom specifically addressed the issue before the wedding.
And he blatantly warned him that he wasn't going to get away with it scot-free. Sure, it was an asshole move, but like…only an asshole would be able to get the message across by that point. xD
@@slsthewriter1299 Fight fire with fire, honey!
But this revenge hurts his kid.
@@loosilu Having that douche nugget as an example of what a man should be is more hurtful to a kid than knowing your father got his just desserts after being a douche nugget.
@@loosilu i grew up without both my parents and i came out good, the kid is an innocent bystander at this point, but the problem relies on the kid's parents. They're both manipulative narcissistic people, who had to learned a good lesson. There's such a word as coparenting, it's not good in away, but the kids will still be able to see both parents IF only both parents can come up with a plan on how to deal with the situation they are on (especially since it was their own doing since the brother warned Todd about his behavior before the whole thing even happened.)
8:36 im not sure if the op even realises it, but this payback wasn't just for the proposal, this was payback for a lifetime of his brother being a d!ckhead!
The fact that he knew he would do it anyway, hire someone to wait in the wings just in case, and actually have to use her, just goes to show how well he knows his brother. Thus, if he thinks this was needed, he knows him better than us and I'm going to go with you did what you had to 😁
Good point!
Exactly!
Agree 100%. The spoilt douchbag bro will never learn 'cos he's a narcissist...& the parents have enabled him. He also has never, ever apologised for anything he's ruined. Good call, re the actor in the wings, from older bro who has made his stand & will never get shited on by his douche bro ever again.
I agree. The punishment WAS an extreme for a reason! KNOWING he was going to have to use the person he hired must have been heartbreaking to begin with. He had to have “hoped” that he wouldn’t need to, all the while knowing it would come down to this. This reaction absolutely shows a lifetimes worth of building resentment and anger. I feel that there was a lot more going on before all of this too.
Agreed
I'm from a typical large African family. Mother's family has over 300 people. Father's family is the same. There's no way I could please all those people(90% of whom I don't know). I grabbed my man(American who only has his mom, sister, and two nephews) and dragged him to the AG. An hour later, I was on social media letting everyone know I was married. No wedding stress😅.
That last story was CRAZY. It’s satisfying to hear a story where the protagonist gets revenge on the antagonist, but enough is enough. I hope eventually the guy told his brother’s baby’s mother the truth. ✌️
The last story…. Love it! Petty AF but he lied, lied, lied and ruined the wedding. He now knows what it feels like to ruin an experience
I think he did a amazing petty revenge with a cheating fake side piece I love it 10/10
I agree! I do have to say, though, that the woman he asked to marry Alex (?), was extremely upset. Like, she already knew he was the type to do this, maybe?? Almost as if she just needed that little extra push to completely knock him out of her life??
100% punishment fit the crime
same LOL I guess we are the evil petty ones lol but I don't care I agree 10/10
Not petty, nuclear revenge. Todd had a lifetime of bad behavior to earn it.
Yeah. The part about being held from seeing his child isn't actually OPs fault. I would never keep our child from my partner even if it turned out he was fake to me he's a great dad (and as of now a great partner 😅)
😂😂😂 picnic, burgers and onionrings!! Wedding barefoot and picnic.
I added this video to watch later just so I could listen to the last story again. So good
That last one was diabolical and I loved every minute of it. The audacity to do this at a time that wasn't really as significant for the groom but was poignant for the Bride. A moment she would remember forever and is now ruined because you want to be petty! He got exactly what he deserved!!
But his girlfriend was innocent in all that and didn't deserve to be the tool used to get revenge on him 😒
That poor woman went through something all of us are terrified to go through. Nobody wants to find out that the man you love, may marry one day, AND are fucking PREGNANT with his child on top of that.
Yes it was fake and cleared up eventually...but not for FAR too long... never should have even happened, but they took it WAY too far.
Its not just HIS proposal that will be a horrible memory for the rest of his life, hers is ruined too obviously 🙄
Even if they have a new better proposal, the scars of that day will likely never leave their relationship, and maybe even sabotage the whole relationship itself.
There stuff someone lied about to my husband when we were first together, and yes the scars of that shit have never stopped being a sore topic. It caused mistrust for years when it was proven false and I hadn't done anything wrong.
They could have easily came up with another way to get revenge without hurting innocent people
@@joziesundstrom7660 she's not innocent either. She announced her pregnancy on Abby's babyshower, stealing attention from the mother-to-be. And Lucy was not even family!
The brother who proposed after promising not to is responsible for his fiancée’s pain.
I agree up to the point where now his kid is being withheld from him. That hurts the kid more than anything, and the kid is definitely innocent.
@@joziesundstrom7660I know someone already told you, but you missed the part where she literally stole the spotlight from a mother to be's baby shower by announcing her own pregnancy. Even if she didn't know about the proposal, she still ruined a special occasion for someone, it's most likely the same pain as someone proposing DURING the father/daughter dance. Both of them did something very much wrong to that person and op just gave them what they deserved. But I do have to agree with another person that the child is most definitely in a lot of pain now due to op's actions on the two. But they got served what they deserved so, it's ultimately their fault for that. I do hope the child is doing ok after it all though.
As some one who has lost her father. My wedding is some of my best memories of my father. For context he never walked after my wedding. So for some entitled brother to not only take the spot light form a father daughter dance, but also to do the same at my sisters baby shower he deserves all he got.
@camillesherman8632
So sorry for your loss but happy you had that moment with your dad. I miss my dad too. He's been gone 36 years.
I definitely understand that. My partner and I have chosen not to get married as we both have lost parents and feel that the day would end up being all about those missing. Having said that, I do think it's unfair that the revenge affected an innocent kid's relationship with their dad. I wish OP had found an option that didn't involve getting a kid's life blown up.
The brother who hired the homewrecker was diabolical genius!
Charlotte Dobre - helping brides re-think having a wedding one video at a time. 😂
I think the side piece prank fits the probably years of build up and then the explicit warnings ahead. But after a couple weeks I think OP should tell Lucy about it. Not for her since she and Todd obviously deserve each other, but for their kid and OP's relationship with his sister, which is now tense as well. After that it's for Todd and Lucy to figure out.
I agree. Not his brother, or parents, but Lucy should find out imho.
Totally agree, let them stew a bit in the consequences of their actions before straightening anything out.
True. The relationship between OP and his sister should not suffer from this
I understand how some may feel like it was a step too far but it just may be the step needed to make Todd AND their parents to realize just how wrong it is for Todd to keep taking these moments in his siblings’ lives.
Edited to add: I ❤ you Charlotte Dobre! Your videos are a much needed laugh after a long day.
There is an "I" in family. Eff Todd. Hes such a Todd! 😂❤
Charlotte saying its sunny while its raining cats and dogs outside where i am😂😂😂😂
I shared the last story with my mother, who always lectures our family about taking the higher ground, don’t stoop to their level, etc. She 10000% AGREED with the groom’s plan!! And we’re on the same page: there would be no punishment if there was no crime. The brother was fully warned, given plenty of space and time to make better decisions, and chose to be selfish. He only suffered by his own hand and no one else’s. His actions impacted his kid, not the consequences he now suffers. Had he behaved like a decent person, not only would he still have everything, but some complete stranger would have simply enjoyed a beautiful party and free food!
My aunt and uncle had the best wedding. It was a Labor Day barbecue, and per family tradition all of our close family and a good portion of our extended family was there as well. No one knew anything was going to happen, so about an hour in, half of us are in the pool, my aunt says "Hey, there's going to be a wedding out back if anyone wants to come see it." They had a little arch made out of balloons, my dad only knew because he's a lawyer and was able to do the paperwork for them on short notice and officiate for them (My mom nearly murdered him after she found out for letting her go to her sisters wedding in her swim suit) and it was hands down the best wedding experience I've ever had.
That is one of the BEST wedding experiences I've ever heard about! How beautiful, and joyful. Think of all the bridezillas who spent $100,000+ of daddy's money to have a "perfect" wedding, only to have uncomfortable guests and miserable wedding party friends who couldn't wait for it to be over, so they could forget about it.
Your aunt and uncle, on the other hand, created such a wonderful event that those who attended will never stop smiling as they remember that happy day! Brilliant!
@@LazyIRanch Yep. If I ever get married, you bet I'm going to be doing the exact same thing.
I originally planned our wedding to be an engagement party with a surprise wedding but people are weird and would only make time for an actual wedding so if I wanted people there I couldn't surprise them 🤣🤣
These videos got me thinking about if I want to invite some of my family members who have been vindictful, hateful, or even uncaring about my existence in our family to my eventual future wedding. Especially when one of them is my step dad 🙃 pretty sure my mom would be PISSED if I didn't invite him someday
It fits the crime HE WAS WARNED and PROMISED not to. Actions have consequences and I love that petty revenge
With the Todd story... I feel like we don't have enough information to say "the punishment doesn't fit the crime" op only gave us a summary but he and his sister literally lived in a house with parents who played favorites their entire life and they were more than likely on the receiving end of decades of emotional abuse. So this stunt mY not even be REMOTELY close to being as bad as some of the things that op and his sister went through at the hands of his spoiled brother and parents who played favorites
I agree. This type of reaction only really occurs with YEARS of pent up resentment and anger from being emotionally hurt and damaged. Who knows what else all happened prior to this?
Exactly my thoughts as well. Judging Todd's selfish actions at OP's wedding as an isolated event might make OP's revenge seem too much, but I bet if we got a full recap of what OP and sis had to put up with over the decades, cumulatively, Todd got exactly what he deserved.
I think a lot of people would say punishment doesn't fit the crime because Lucy was also extremely hurt and there is an innocent kid in all of this who suddenly has one parent who absolutely despises the other. This isn't something that only the jacka$$ brother was affected by.
But another commenter above pointed out that Lucy isn't completely innocent, either, what with announcing her pregnancy at someone else's baby shower.
I think that yeah, OP may have taken things a bit too far, but I also think he's justified in doing it. He told the brother not to do anything, and warned him that he'd regret it if he did. Well, I'm sure he regrets it.
Also, how much you wanna bet he let that receipt fall out of his pocket on purpose, with the mindset of, "OP can't stop me from doing this"?
I put no children on my invitations and 95% of the guests were fine with it but a couple of my husbands friends weren’t happy with this. I found out that they were going to bring them anyway so I uninvited them. I really enjoyed the aftermath. They then tried to convince other friends not come and not tell us but that didn’t work. One guessed who rsvp’d yes rang me that morning saying we don’t have a babysitter and thought I’d let their kids come but I just said oh what a shame, we’ll see you another time then. Our wedding was absolutely wonderful with no screaming kids.
Love when they try to pull that "We don't have a babysitter" when they've known MONTHS in advance and very obviously could get a babysitter for the night. Did they honestly think you were going to throw your rules out the window for them?
I don't understand why people don't get some events are just for ADULTS.
No kids means no kids
I also didn't want kids, but really we don't have that many around, in the end we have 4 kids one 13yo that I'm godmother of, my 10yo sister and two kids of my husbands brother one was few months and second was 2yo, place that we had wedding had special place for kids, totally on another side, from dancing and our table, so I actually saw like two times this little ones and they were quiet, and they were there like for 4h and they took them and go to room and older ones were practicaly a teen age so no problem with them. But I was on weddings that had so many kids that it was scary , like do much chaos and soo loud, so for me I agree with you. But I also didn't have problem, like anybody with kids didn't even dare to ask if he could take them if they ware not on invite.
And with situation like getting call on last minute if they can take them bc they don't have babysitter, like serious? Nobody around me would do that, we would get call "sorry we can't come bc suddenly we don't have babysitter" like I don't know if it is a culture think or simply world goes in this way that people feel like they are the most importand but yeah. Event from my perspective, I don't have kids, but if I would have I wouldn't take them to wedding, even if they were invited, bc sorry but with kids you can't really get lose and totally relax, you have on mind that you have kid with you, you have to look our for them and look so they don't do something to ruin wedding...
We also planned for a wedding with no kids - we were mid-twenties and none of our friends had children yet, and five of my husband's simblings had no issue with it. The sixth (a sister he hardly ever talks to) was terribly disappointed with us and of course brought the kids on the trip with them, and then had to try to find babysitters. The kids came to the rehearsal dinner and totally took over what we had hoped would be an adult event, but whatever. Then his sister actually said to him "If it's about the gift, we'll give you double if the kids can come". Are you kidding? In the end, they gave us two handmade christmas figurines. So... if the kids came we would have gotton four? How can you not understand that we wanted our wedding to be the most grown up and elegant night of our lives... not like dinner at Chuck E Cheese.
The problem with the last revenge is the Child having parents with a non-intact family. The revenge was too much.
1. I love your eyeshadow
2. I could never do this either but man, a lifetime of this garbage person has made you a savage 😂🤯
What sums it up about how toxic Todd's brother is, was that the guy PROMISED their mother and Todd that he would NOT propose during the wedding - but Todd, despite these promises, was so SURE his brother could not resist a little wedding sabotage, did not hesitate to plan and execute a complex payback, (all while preparing for his own wedding and honeymoon). He had complete utter faith in his brother to be a louse.
Todd is the brother. Todd was the one that promised not to propose but did it anyway
At that point, I would not have blamed him for not inviting Todd at all
Exactly. I'm 99% positive that if Todd had actually kept his promise and not proposed at the wedding, the fake side piece would've just been another guest. Just had a slice of cake and headed off.
But he had to go back on his word and not just propose but steal the spotlight from an incredibly important moment for a newlywed (a dance with their parent) at which point OP flipped the switch. With justification.
No he did warn his brother that if he did something bad he will regret it. The OP knew Todd will propose on his wedding despite his promises because he knows him since they were kids and Todd is the type of guy who always steals the spotlight. So, ummm if you couldn't predict your sibling's behavior, are you even siblings??
@@tealablu3759i wonder if the parents wouldn't also not come if he decided to univite Todd...
Happy Saturday, Everyone.
A spoiled brat at 29?
During the Father Daughter Dance?
All bets are off!
I'm glad he got PUNISHED.😌👍🏽 Finally, justice ⚖️ was served. (I also hope he sees 👀 this video 📹, and reads my comment.😂😏👍🏽😎)
I think I would have taken that opportunity to say 'oh, I can save ypu the money and hassle and you can plan your vacation anytime you want! Don't worry, I'll take you off the list, so you don't need to worry about the timing!' Lol
Love watching all the wedding videos. It really does reaffirm the way I got married was the best. Registry office, our kids and (living) parents (my husbands father was no longer with us before we got married), and us. Quick pub meal afterwards and went camping with our kids 😊
I once found out that the guy I had been seeing had a girlfriend and new born baby. I told her. Like an hour later, he started calling and yelling because she denied him access to his kid and it was "all my fault". But nobody was keeping him from filling for visitation or idk.... not cheating.
That's the closest I've got to the last story. But I didn't feel bad about it.
Yeah, but he was ACTUALLY CHEATING. You did the right thing. The last one got framed for cheating and now his kid's family is screwed up unneccesarily.
I would have given that gf all the incriminating evidence too , and some of his uncomfortable secrets too .
@Subrata Nandy ofc I did. Including the fact that i found out that he was with me the night she gave birth.
@A non mouse Thanks. I think so too. And i did feel bad about the kid but like... I didn't know.
@@candacestamper6769 GUUUURRRRL!!!!.......wtf? He was with you while baby momma was giving birth to his kid?!?!?!......you did the rite thing!!! He's a total AHOLE!
My son and DIL (will be keeping her even if worse comes to worse), are getting married today at 4pm. They fixed the cost of the reception and wedding by doing a potluck, genius. She made her wedding cake, decorations, etc.. It's beautiful and I'm impressed.
Well wishes to the happy couple and I hope you all have a great time!! 😊
Aww good idea. Have fun! Congrats to your son and soon to be wife.
Congratulations and prayers for a lifelong marriage of friends! Enjoy the addition to your family (as it sounds like you will) and soak up the memories.
I will be doing the same thing!! I already told all my guests to bring their favorite dish in lieu of a gift. And I got a ton of donated centerpieces and decorations. It’s going to be a boho up-cycle type. I’m excited, it actually looks so good already.
The potluck idea is brilliant. Ask all guests to bring their specialty or whatever, and usually the food will surpass even that of a caterer.
The kids are suffering for Todd's & uncle's behavior, but honestly with parents like Todd & gf, TWO narcissistic parents ... it's gonna be a nightmare no matter what!
My husband comes from a massive family of aunts/uncles/cousins. His mother had 13 siblings and his father had 10 siblings. Each of those siblings had 10+ children each - all but 2 were married (my soon-to-be husband and one cousin). All of his cousins had 8+ children, and many of them were already married with children. My husband's mother was so angry that we were not inviting all these people and started to harass us. Finally my soon-to-be husband said "Mom, if YOU want them, invite them. But YOU will be paying for all the extra meals and the bigger venue." When she found out how much it was going to cost, she was okay with JUST her siblings and their spouses and NONE of the cousins. (She was mad that my cousins were there - but even with all my cousins invited, we still had LESS "family" than her and her husband's brothers, sisters, and spouses.)
These stories are the reason why my husband and I got married at the court house. 😂 we were going to have a reception in a venue, but so glad we decided not to do that either because with the way people were acting entitled beforehand..we canceled the reception and took a trip with our hard earned money instead. People were extremely upset and called us selfish for taking the trip instead of paying for the reception with our own money which we had to because both of us came from families that didn't have much. However after emails and messages and texts with people requesting certain meals, drinks, and even people requesting a limo to bring them to our reception, we just said "nope" . It was too much!
People knew you didn't have money yet expected you to provide limo rides? Yikes.
a limousine?😮 The AUDACITY
The audacity. I'd do the same only with the religious wedding too mut something very intimate as in me, groom and the witness.
I might have posted the requests to FB adding that you just couldn't please everybody. That would underline their selfishness.
You made the right choice!!!! A great honeymoon to celebrate your marriage is way better!!!
I love the Todd's story. I'm not petty but I love people who put effort into a good petty payback. I live my petty-dreams vicariously through them.
Are we allowed to confess to our own bad wedding behavior, here? Oh god, twice. I need absolution.
You are the MOST entertaining person on RUclips, by far. FRIGGIN HILARIOUS 🤣
Honestly, I was in the same situation as Todd. Was born with complications, had to go in and out of the hospital for 2 years, and was spoiled by my family and relatives. I also have 2 much older siblings (8 and 9 years older). That said, I would never be so entitled as to take the spotlight from my siblings... but the problem is, it was kinda what happened which led to a somewhat strained relationship with my brother; the middle child. He was also spoilt before I was born, and since I was born with many complications, my parents had to focus their attention on me. I honestly, wondered why he barely talked to me when I was younger, even though our eldest (my sis) and I were close. Now that I'm older and completely understood, I feel horrible, even though it was technically not my fault. I'm already 24, and am still barely able to talk to my brother. I know he loves me, because even though he's not very expressive, he does show that he cares, but you can just feel the distance... I am trying to fix this, but my anxiety often makes me second guess myself. I want to be close with my brother like any normal family, so the thought of Todd driving a wedge in his relationship with his siblings for attention makes me angry. He's definitely done this type of sh*t for years both intentionally and not. While it may seem drastic, considering what other things he did, I think the revenge is just right, he was warned after all. He's selfish and I don't even know how he could live with himself and not even apologize. As for his (I assume) ex and thier kid, while the kid was definitely innocent, the girl definitely wasn't. Who announces their pregnancy at someone else's baby shower?! I think they're cut from the same cloth.
I think you should rephrase this. It doesn't sound like you TOOK attention just you needed more. It can cause the same resentment but it's not from your effort unlike Todd. I hope you and your brother can work things out.
@MamaMOB I said what I said because that is how I feel, not because of how others see it. To me, it isn't about how it happened, but the result. At the end of the day, I did take the attention away from my siblings. After all, my parents had to leave them for weeks or even months to take care of me. Still, thank you. I know my brother, pretty well despite not talking to him much. He's just a little too stubborn for his own good, and I'm a bit too timid when directly addressing familial conflict; 2 traits that don't mix. But, as I've said, it's getting better. 🙂 It's just a little disheartening that he gets triggered by the things I do, yet completely fine when our eldest sibling or our cousins do it, that's all.
I think it would help to have a candid, open conversation about it. IT IS SCARY BEYOND BELIEF TO DO SO lol and I totally understand. But the same thing happened to me, except I was on the other side. My sister had a SIGNIFICANTLY better childhood than I did, and she incurred only half the trauma that I did. But none of it was her fault; it was my parents and older siblings that were just horrible (less so my mom, she was trying her best as an overworked single mother; the rest, they were complete pieces of s***).
We grew up f***ing hating each other. I spited her for how well she got treated over me, and she spited me for resenting her. We were also pitted against each other by our dad and siblings quite often, which fueled the fire. When I was 19, I moved out and went no contact with everyone in my family for two years. After I opened contact with them again, things got a little better with my sister and my mom.
When we were older, I think I was maybe 26 and she was 25 or so? We started getting along a lot better, and she actually came to my defense a lot when I was being judged or criticized by my family. One day we were talking, and it just kind of all came out. We talked about all the things we'd gone through as children, and I told her things I went through that she had NO IDEA about - many of them to protect her. After that, we practically became best friends.
It was extremely difficult and took us a lot to get to this point, but it was SO WORTH IT. At the end of the day, I had always wanted a close relationship to my sister, and I loved her so much; but I was so overcome with the envy and resentment of how we grew up. As an adult I was able to separate the two - it had nothing to do with her (even if she was a little s*** about it sometimes lol, she was just a child), and it was all on our parental figures who caused so much stress and trauma to us. Being in therapy has helped even more in working out those complex feelings.
All of that is to say, you probably don't need to go through all the mess that my sister and I went through lol. But having a straight up, candid, "I'm sorry you went through what you went through as kids, and I feel like there's strain between us because of it but I want to be closer to you," or something along those lines, will make such a huge difference. It might seem hard to believe, but I'm absolutely sure that he's waiting for something like that, too. I'm sure he wants to be closer to you, too, especially because you indicated that he loves you and watches out for you despite the rift.
That was a master piece! And I agree that if Todd was sooo worried about his kid, he would apologize, beg, do whatever necessary to get OP to tell the truth. That’s what’s expected of a father!
But I honestly wouldn’t have thought of this option myself! I think I would have ruined his “surprise” before the wedding… maybe even at a “big event” like a rehearsal dinner… wait for the perfect moment and announce in a loud voice to the gf that Todd has bought a ring and was going to propose!
I wouldn’t wait till the wedding. Specially because OP already knew Todd was gonna ruin it.
Yes, Todd got what was coming to him, but he still managed to ruin the father daughter dance!
As someone that has lost a father, these moments mean the word to me! I would be in tears… can’t imagine the fiancé!
I would be so mad that I could be the one pretending to be Todd’s side piece just to ruin his proposal and OP wouldn’t even need to pay me! 😂
Love the idea of telling the girlfriend ahead of Todd, steal his thunder. A great solution!
Yeah that too would be a way to ruin it so he could not ruin the wedding. A bit of a safer option. But he could have always said that "he would have never proposed during the wedding"
since todd and his gf are attention seekers, they would find a way to get attention during the wedding anyway... maybe transforming the wedding in a surprise double wedding...
@@acaciaeugenia4386 That's so right. People who thrive on attention would still try to steal the spotlight. Even if OP tried to push Todd's hand before the wedding I could still see him and Lucy trying to jump on the spotlight at the wedding
I had a Christmas Eve wedding because it is super special for me and my husband. Many of our family was pissed and said "Christmas Eve is a time to be with family." How is cerebrating my wedding not time with family??
9:05 as soon as it said "Brother:",I got an ad for Expedia travels and thought it was part of the video 😂😂😂
I love what happened to Todd who was warned AND promised not to propose! Also it seems that he matched quite well with dramatic Lucy, who won`t even question his "affair" and is just as attention seeking as him, since she announced her pregnancy on Abby`s Baby Shower. These two deserved this punishment and if their relationship would be better or they were smarter, they could just contact the actress and confirm that she war hired...
The last one…was beautiful. It felt like the last and final straw type of energy and I’m here for it. And Todd deserved all of that. And if I was him I would of straight up called my parents out that they created and raised Todd so all of that is also their fault too. Accountability has to be taken from ALL angles.
YES 1000%!!!!!
Yeah, but......the girlfriend and their child is innocent, they didn't do anything wrong. That poor poor woman did not deserve to have that HORRIBLE gut wrenching feeling, that she has been getting cheated on for God knows how long... and is losing the man that she loved so much and possibly wanted to marry, WHOSE CHILD SHE IS ALSO PREGNANT WITH! It's disgusting to put an innocent woman through all that bullshit, just because the man didn't listen and save the proposal for another time!? Ridiculous is what that is in my opinion.
Yes it may have been eventually cleared up.. but that awful feeling will still linger a while and may affect her trust in him subconsciously. Seems like its not really worth the revenge honestly. They could easily have found another way to "make him regret it" without hurting people who didn't do anything wrong, and possibly cause irreversible damage to a relationship.
There was of course the whole thing about her announcing her pregnancy at that baby shower, but it's so stupid to hold that against someone as a testament to them being a "bad" person. A baby shower is just to celebrate your pregnancy and give some gifts for the new baby. It's a little event in my opinion, it's not like it's an actual wedding like what the boyfriend did. (Which was a dick move and a half) but she didn't ask for that. She likely felt so happy and excited for herself and the other girl, and just really wanted to tell people. Probably got caught up with that feeling of excitement everyone had for the other pregnant lady and wanted to add to it. I don't personally see anything wrong about doing that. In fact I kinda feel like it's snobby to be so upset and offended over it like they seemed to be
You're not looking at the even bigger picture. They all dodged a bullet w the brother. He's clearly a narcissist and would do that to anyone. Narcs dont care who they hurt. So long as it goes their way. They are evil, energy sucking vampires that you should never tell anything special to. It's best to leave to them alone.@@joziesundstrom7660
@@joziesundstrom7660it seems like the girlfriend might be as bad as Todd. Remember that she announced her pregnancy at thay baby shower. The only one I feel bad for is the child
@@joziesundstrom7660the girlfriend took the spotlight at the bridal shower with announcing her pregnancy. She is also just like that.
That last story - THAT WAS SO COOL!!!
Todd: Years of BS. OP: one big move to take care of the whole lifetime of bad choices
That last one got me VEX on a Sunday. Todd got what he deserved! He’s been interrupting his siblings moments for as long as possible and his parents never taught him that his actions have consequences. The world doesn’t revolve around him. Aside from not being able to see his child, he got what was coming. This was a master mind level of Revenge. This was a whole Megatron level of revenge and I’m all here for it.
So I actually have a really cool story about my cousin’s wedding. She invited all their family, and during the bouquet toss, her older brother stood next to her, then my cousins handed the bouquet to her brother’s girlfriend and he proposed. They had been planning it. It was actually pretty cool.
See, that's fine because it was planned with the bride, and the bride was okay with it, and it was during the bouquet toss, which is literally supposed to be a fun game to predict which of the single female realtives will get married next.
Omg that's so cute
That's sweet, if you clear it with the bride and groom first, and they don't mind. These things can be done tactfully!
I've seen videos like that, some where the bride even hands the bouquet to the girl being proposed to, it's so sweet and special!
My sister-in-law did the same thing with my mom.
Todd was warned and did it anyway. Big brother did great. I LOVE IT!!!
I LOVE Todd!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 this isn’t just ruining the couple’s wedding, this asshole has ruined his brother and sister’s LIVES but upstaging every life event, he was warned, and never apologized, so this is the consequences. He got what he deserves.