when your sister is an entitled BRIDEZILLA - REACTION
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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here and in today's video, I'm going to be talking about something that's been on my mind lately: dealing with a sister who's turned into a bridezilla!
As someone who's been a bridesmaid more times than I can count, I know how stressful weddings can be. But when your own sister is the one getting married and she's acting like a total diva, things can get even more challenging.
In this video, I'm going to be sharing my personal experiences and some tips on how to handle a bridezilla sister. From dealing with her demands and tantrums to navigating family drama, I've got you covered.
I'll also be sharing some stories from other bridesmaids who've had similar experiences and some of the craziest things they've had to deal with.
So, if you're currently dealing with a bridezilla sister or if you just want to be prepared for the possibility, make sure you tune in to this video. And don't forget to leave a comment below sharing your own experiences and tips on how to handle a bridezilla!
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I think the bride who dumped the bachelorette bill on her SIL counted on the public aspect to force SIL to pay to avoid being embarrassed. Fortunately, SIL stood her ground, and her husband stood next to her. I hope they continue to do so. Backing down from their VALID point doesn't teach bridezilla, or her mother, anything.
I am just wondering: Would she also have to pay in case of a second and third marriage?
Just think, some lucky dude is gonna marry this sweet little thing.
@@letsgorandom1380 I thought this was Bridezilla's second marriage, so the answer to your question is yes, apparently.
@@jonanna1894 Best laugh I've had all day! Thank you for this.
Yes. The moment you let them trample on you once, they try to do it again and again and again.
The sister who asked to keep her sister’s pregnancy secret until her wedding 100% had her keep it secret to keep the focus on her and her wedding.
I think it's even about money
@@moonhunter9993 yes. Agree
Exactly what I was thinking!
Was thinking the same thing as well
Came looking for this comment
The bride who got upset with her pregnant sister, played her like a fine tuned fiddle 🤷🏻♀️ she didn’t want the sister to announce her pregnancy before her wedding PERIOD, because she was afraid of sharing any of the pre wedding attention with her newly pregnant sister💔 she truly had no intention of sharing your news at the wedding
Boycott her wedding entirely and no gift.
@@marciaspiegel5280She already went to the wedding and presumably already gave her a gift.
NC sister. Permanently.
But she got mad after the week that the parents knew. Bride has mental issues.
One of my friends a few years ago invited me to her bachelorette party and I was so excited because I wasn’t in the wedding party, we went to a nice fondue place near us that her future SIL’s boyfriend was a manager at. The service was amazing we had such a great time and when we went to get our bills, they had comped our whole meals! They only left our drinks on our tickets so we could tip our server. We all fought over who would cover the brides bill, and all of us tipped the server the amount we had expected to pay for our meals. It was such a great night and the bride was so grateful for everything, because she was so down to earth she really didn’t expect any one to do anything over the top for her, and it just made us want to treat her even more!
This is something that entitled people never seem to grasp. They want to be so special and perfect and be pampered all the time, but if they were just... nicer, and humbler, and more compassionate, people would WANT to do that for them. They wouldn't need to FORCE anyone.
I'm only slightly annoyed that this was a nice story instead of one full of juicy gossip and someone else's pain. 😂 It's actually really nice to hear. Thank you for sharing!
I love that story so much! The bride sounds worthy of that kindness, and I especially love hearing that you took good care of your servers. Well done!!❤
The announcing a baby coming at sister's wedding...her sister SUGGESTED it to start with. She wasn't the one who came up with the idea, thus, not wrong for telling her parents quietly. Her sister is the one who set her up I think, to be the good daughter.
Yeah, she just didn’t want ANY of the attention during the planning to be off focus of her. So selfish and disrespectful. Honestly, she needs to quit her bs because she didn’t have it rough in the least and wouldn’t have even known had dad not slipped up. But regardless, she is SOOOO NTA
My take is that this was the sister's plan all along. She never had any intention of making this announcement at her reception, she just wanted OP to keep it under wraps until after the wedding so that all the family focused exclusively on the bride in the months leading up to her wedding. She wanted her mom listening to her complain about the wedding favors, not paying attention to her sister's morning sickness stories. Clearly this sister is not a normal person since she's holding the grudge 6 months later and refusing to meet the month old baby. I'm surprised OP said they were close and had never noticed any odd, selfish behaviors in the past.
ETA: okay, just got to the part of the vid where the commenter explains this exact theory, haha.
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 That is mine, too. She set her sister up.
As someone who's been through pregnancy, telling your mom isn't 'announcing' it. My husband was hesitant about telling my mom right away because of the potential for miscarriage, but I pointed out that if I had a miscarriage, I'd really need to talk to my mom about it.
@@erikarussell1142 totally agree
I think the sister knew exactly what she was doing. She did not want the baby to be celebrated before her big day she wanted to make sure that the entire time leading up to her wedding was all about her she knew she was not going to announce the pregnancy at her wedding from the get-go
This is absolutely true! She's horrible for cheating her pregnant sister out of the support from her own mother during her difficult first trimester. I don't know how I would have gotten through those months of puking and leg pain without the love and wisdom of my mother, and my precious MIL! MIL explained that my leg bone pain was because I needed to take good prenatal vitamins and she bought me some expensive ones that helped tremendously. They promised me that I would get through it, and how I would feel wonderful in the later months, and they were right. I had so much energy and just glowed with happiness.
I've always had bouts of serious depression, but during the last 5 months of my pregnancy I felt better than I ever have before or since. I was lucky to not suffer from postnatal depression, and my heart breaks for women who do. It's not their fault, but they rarely get the support they need.
My son was such a happy baby, I loved every minute with him. I sew, and I made him lots of cute things which got him attention from strangers that he loved. He has gorgeous big green eyes with thick eyelashes, and many latina women would compliment him then touch him. A lady explained that in many Hispanic countries if someone compliments your baby they must then touch them, to avoid the evil eye being cast on the baby which would bring them bad luck and make them sick. I thought that was sweet back then, but it would probably freak me out nowadays!
1000%
yes. I think it was even about money
Absolutely. What kills me the most is I think it's a mask slipping. OP definitely feels like they were close as sisters, but I feel like that was one sided.
Yes, she did it so the light was only on her
About the two sisters and the pregnancy, as the one poster commented, this was done soley so that the bride would have all the attention on her for 4 months, even if it meant her sister struggled emotionally without the support of her mom. It is such a big thing to have your mother there to alleviate your fears during your first pregnancy. Even if a doctor tells you its fine, it doesn't feel the same as your mom telling you. That alone is almost unforgivable, but then throw a fit and stress out your pregnant sister over absolutely nothing, is just unforgivable. The stress of what used be a close sister icing you out during your first pregnancy could have caused stress that affected the pregnancy. Then not even to visit the new baby. I would absolutely never see or speak to her again.
I am constantly amazed at many Brides think their wedding is the highlight or should be the highlight of everyone’s life.
That pregnant sister was played by her sister. The bride deliberately told her to wait so that she could have all the attention leading up to her wedding. And then dropped the sister on the day and has the nerve to be upset about a private announcement. Petty would have been to call her out on the wedding day. But OP is too nice.
Yesssss 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 She never intended to make that speech !
100%. She wanted all the attention not just on the day but leading up to the day on her. She's probably manipulated and made herself the victim in the situation where she's not her entire life. And people have just allowed that behavior. Case in point OP calling constantly apologizing. She needs to stop apologizing. She has nothing to apologize for. If anybody should be apologizing it should be the sister for her behavior. I put it on blast.
@@MeganTrueCrimethis exactly!! She never even wanted to make the announcement.. it was all about her, her her.. when I married,I didn't ask anyone what they wear, or what present I wanted.. I just wanted to have a great time with my now husband.. still together, for 23yrs now..
THIS. I had the EXACT thought.
Exactly! I also don't agree with the idea of the pregnant sister even having to wait one more day to tell her own parents about it. She already waited 4 damn months at the request of her lying ass sister, so ridiculous.
For the announcing the pregnancy story, I noticed that the bride not only was the one to suggest announcing it, but she herself was going to do the announcement. Because it was still going to be about her. She was going to be introducing HER niece or nephew. Even in a fairytale ending where the bride keeps her word and tells at the wedding, she was going to make sure the attention was all on her.
Goodness, I never even thought about that! I said in another reply elsewhere that I think the "really close" relationship is likely one sided and OP doesn't realize that, (which is heartbreaking,) and thinking about what you've said makes it so much worse!
"Announcing" is the wrong word to begin with.
OP shared with her parents and no-one else knew anything!
Yeah hearing her tell the story it sounded like the sister was looking for a way to look magnanimous by letting make the announcement but I'm guessing her fiance or somebody pointed out to her that it was kind of weird and changed her mind.
There's also the weird detail of the bride dictating when her sister gets to announce her own child.
OP was NTA, felt the sister deliberately put her off on purpose to not take the spotlight from her wedding (even though it was 4 months away 😒 OP needs to stop apologizing because this feeds to sister that OP is admitting she was wrong to ruin the wedding when in fact the wedding wasn't ruined and she didn't do anything wrong. In fact the sister was the AH for doing this to OP at a time when she needed her Mother. When sister comes around OP should give her the cold shoulder for doing that to her.
She also probably thought a baby announcement 2 months earlier would have taken spotlight away from her
I have a rich friend who flew me out to see him where he lives. He wouldn’t let me pay for anything expensive, so I bought coffee and anything I could pull my card out faster than him for. I was happy to just hang out with him, I didn’t want to do anything extravagant but he wanted to do a fancy movie date. One of those dine-in ones. Really fun, super sweet of him. It was the night before I went home. But I couldn’t ever expect him to have paid for everything. Regardless of our financial differences or his generosity
I just adore those parents who go like 'yeah, they were a massive a-hole to you, but YOU should apologize for the sake of PEACE'. Screw that. Caving in to bullies for the sake of peace never brings you peace.
For the second story, the bride only got mad after she found out a week later on facebook that OP told her parents about her pregnancy. Which clearly means it did not impact her wedding AT ALL or she would have found out earlier. She just got mad because a tiny fraction of her parents attention were given to OP.
She didn't want the announcement before the wedding to take up attention on the day so she lied to her sister to block it
Ok what does OP mean
@@MrsMuffin11 it means "original poster", the person who posted the story asking AITH
@@ConstantChaos1 I'm just stuck on how OP's sister told her she wanted to announce the pregnancy at her wedding and then didn't bother to tell OP that she changed her mind. Also OP did tell her parents in private and asked them not to make a fuss over it. Op wanted support from her mom which she put off for 2 months per her sisters request
@PoodleParti Yes, I know that, but I'm still baffled at the Bride's choice to go about it.
The first story reminds me of a Thanksgiving dinner we had with my spouse's family. My spouse, mom, and our four kids arrived first. We asked the waitress for a separate check for the six of us. We were barely making ends meet, so ordered the cheapest dishes, and had only water.
FIL was a wealthy senior partner at a big law firm. The rest of the family had the most expensives dishes, wine and dessert. At the end, he got the check and asked us to contribute about four times what we owed. Told him we asked for separate checks. He smugly said he cancelled that with the waitress. I excused myself and asked the waitress if she still had the separate checks.
She did. I cashed out and left her a big tip. I gave him the remaining bill. He was fuming and beet red when we sweetly said our goodbyes and left.
That level of stinginess reminds me of my uncle.
so he wanted to big note himself as well, what a douche bag!!
@@robertgronewold3326 except, it is not stingyness because she did not ask him to pay for them! He was just being a big bully!
@@robertgronewold3326 Usually is the wealthy ones that are stingy. Besides, you'd think the family would know their financial situation.
Bravo! Well handled. It's the part where he was so smug about what he'd done that got to me. That's crosses the line into bullying and cruelty, for me.
I think this is the *only* time it's okay to tell *your parents* that your pregnant at your sister's wedding.
She was never going to tell anyone about the pregnancy on her wedding day! She decided that instead of having *ONE DAY* she was gonna steal an extra *THREE MONTHS* of OP's pregnancy so she could feel special. Screw that bride. She did it to herself and she didn't even find out about it until a week later!
The story about the bachelorette dinner, she still paid half of a large expensive dinner bill for 8 entire adults! Like she actually did way too much already. She didn’t just pay her own way and leave she paid for half of what was by her account, a pretty expensive dinner. Last time my dad took my family (cousins, aunt, and my nuclear family) out to a nice dinner it was like a $1500 bill for 8 people. I know there are more expensive places but that’s a lot of money for OP to have spent even just paying half of that.
“I’m not your parents, don’t expect handouts from me” ☕️🤣
That part had me cheer lol
Third story with the teacher watching the kids would have me PISSED! 😡 Being a teacher myself, the amount of disrespect and crap we deal with on a regular basis makes our days off that much more enjoyable. The bride treating OP like a babysitter bc she's a kindergarten teacher just shows how little she thinks of one of the most important professions.
PREACH. At my wedding reception the grooms getting ready room had a TV and DVD player in it, so all the kids went and watched cartoons in there and a couple of my cousins volunteered to rotate supervising. I didn't even ask them to.
Teachers deal with CRAP and need a day off and plenty of people are willing to help out if there is a need. Also, if you really don't want to be with your kids at a wedding, just leave them home with a sitter!
same, I work at a daycare with 12-18 month kids. I might do something like that for a close friend however it's not an invitation for everyone to pile their kids on.
That was beyond awful, and they don't even get why it was wrong!
I used to get slightly annoyed because at big family gatherings I had to sit at the kid's table well into my 20s because I was the youngest of 4 siblings and not married. My sisters are 15 and 17 years older than me, so I was the perpetual baby.
I was only slightly annoyed, because the kids' table was hella more fun and I loved being with my younger cousins who were actually the children of my first cousins. We loved it when an elderly uncle took his plate and came to sit with us because, "Y'all have much more interesting conversations."
Exactly. She is coming to the wedding to have fun, not to work, for free. Like am I invited as a guest or paid as a babysitter?
Besides it's her sister's wedding...supposedly she's supposed to be there to enjoy herself too...to share in the celebration. Hard to do when you're babysitting. She should've told her I'm a teacher, not a babysitter. That was sweet offering it for the woman who lost her husband, but the sister took it too far telling all her friends!
First 30 seconds Charlotte telling me that I’m a psychopath if I’m standing.
Meanwhile I’m painting while standing up 😅
I can confirm, I watch/listen to these while standing. It's the only thing that keeps my sanity intact while cleaning the house. With two toddlers running around screaming at eachother and undoing every single thing I've just done and cleaned. So thank you for helping me keep my house clean 😂
Right? I do yard work while I listen. 😊
I'm a kindergarten teacher and there's a HUGE difference between baby-sitting a child and teaching them. And no, I don't want to do either unpaid at a wedding.
Both are jobs and it being a job means that you deserve a salary for doing it.
F that.. I have kids,and worked at a kindergarten, but I dislike kids.. Like others, mine are great, but I don't like kids generally, so no, I wouldn't watch anyone's crotch goblins, ever...
Honestly I would go to the front "pay the bill" but only pay my portion without telling them, then sneak out without telling them. Then when they try to leave s*** hits the fan. Glorious pettiness maybe low key cruel but entitled people need to learn somehow the world doesn't revolve them.
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I don't consider myself being petty, but that's exactly what I'd do to. 😂
Great idea. THAT would be the thing to do. Can you imagine the SCENE after you leave? Need someone behind to film it. LOL
That's what she did.
Oh I love this
3:59 LOOOVVEEE first story and how OP stood up for themselves!!
I'm engaged and the more I watch these bridezila videos, the more I'm solidifying our choice to make it a personal, private affair when we get married. I just don't have time to be fighting on my wedding day 😂😂😂😂
The pregnancy story? Sis definitely wanted to control every moment of the year leading up to and after her wedding. When she finally wants to see her nephew I would tell her she’s not allowed to see the baby until she waits as long as she made him wait. If it’s now, she’d have to wait a month, if she waits another month, make that two months! A birth is an arguably larger day in a person’s life than a wedding, and she wasn’t their for her nephew’s birth by her own choices. And plus, I know people like this, them not being “allowed” to do something will only make her want it more. I hope the baby is happy and healthy! Sounds like he has wonderful parents and grandparents! ❤
She stole the spotlight from the most important day of her babies life by everyone focusing on her insecurities more than the actual life being born into this world. One sisters fault is a bit of 'you should've waited until a better time", the other is "I'm going to ignore the existence of a brand new family member based on drama that happened 6 months prior and had absolutely no real lived impact on any single person besides the reality I manufactured for myself for pity points" Whose worse?
@@kiraeckard7625 the sister who got pissy about her wedding, went back on her word, and is ignoring her nephew's existence is definitely worse.
@@kimiko237 exactly. It's so bizarre that the bride sister could possibly think she's in the right.
For the sister telling her mom about her pregnancy at her sister's wedding: The pregnant sister not only had a hard first trimester but had to hold in her happiness and joy. Her sister getting married had led her to believe she would be given an emotional release after holding this all in for so long at her wedding. With pregnancy comes a lot of hormone changes and sometimes it is hard to hold in your emotions. The fact that she was able to hold it in that long, and then after having her moment of surprise shot down suddenly, she did not make an emotional scene but did her release calmly and privately. This is an applaudable thing. She was able to hold in her own emotions and let her sister enjoy her big wedding day. Parents are allowed to feel joy for all of their children so I feel this in no way made the day less special for one sister but made it the greatest day for the parents as they got to celebrate 2 wonderful moments in one. She could have made a snide or suggestive toast at the dinner, c'mon :)
The sister didn't want her baby announcement to take place before the wedding so she lied to the sister lest she get attention on the wedding day I don't get how char didn't see that
@@ConstantChaos1 agreed . I think she didnt want people to talk about the pregnancy rather than her wedding on the lead up
@@ConstantChaos1 Yep, the bride definitely tricked her sister into not revealing her pregnancy until after the wedding, so no attention would be taken away from her. Like you, I don't get how this went over Charlotte's head.
It boggles my mind how someone can be so selfish n mean towards their own sibling.where I'm from it is considered good luck to hv a pregnant women at a wedding ( bringing new life into the world , so postive energy n all that)..I'd be so happy if my sibling or even my SIL was pregnant at the time of my wedding.. most pregnant women get congratulated n asked how far off they are , that's all. The bride n groom r still the centre of attention. I kid u not , we usually h. A minimum of 300 guests. While the ceremony is happening a lot of these stuff happens as well.the reception happens at the same time. The ceremnoys is almost 4 hours long. So one is forced to sit through it all , except the direct family of the couple.everyone else comes n goes. Guests help out in any way they can. Gifts aren't expected n some couples don't even accepts gifts saying that the guest's presence n blessing r enough.i swear these wedding dramas are just something I will never relate too. We do hv drama but thats like ' salty relative being rude ' sort of drama .. 😂😂😂😂 these foolish women don't knw what blessing they r missing from their lives... all u guys remember having a pregnant woman at ur wedding is a blessing. Thank them for being there..
Honestly, I'm pretty onboard with the whole 'don't draw away the attention from the couple on their wedding' consensus - but I also thought it was a really cute idea to announce the 'special guest'.
If it's planned in advance (with the groom and the baby's father agreeing) it would make a sweet moment for the immediate family to be happy and celebrate two beautiful things.
It might not be for everyone, but the idea of the wedding - besides celebrating the new couple of course - being a time to celebrate everyone becoming one *family* actually sounds really wholesome to me.
(Obviously depends on how close everyone is and needs to be agreed upon beforehand. Communication is key here.)
Can we talk about the OP in the last story benign so kind to her future sister in law offering to watch her twins so SIL can have a fun night without worrying, possibly sacrificing her own good time in the process? What an incredible selfless gift to give to a grieving widow, who was probably having a rough time seeing her brother get married so soon after her own husband passed away.
I really hope the husband stuck up for OP.
"Are you a serial killer?" No girl I'm cooking 😂
I'm a teacher in a daycare too and I know how the girl in the last story felt. I stopped watching kids outside my work hours because people were expecting me to do it without saying a word. My friends were talking about me to people I don't even know saying I could watch their kids without my consent. I love my job and absolutely love kids but at the end, I was feeling like I was the nanny of the group and not their friends anymore... (Sorry for my english, i'm fellow neighbor Canadian on the french side and i'm trying my best haha 😅)
Your comment was very concise, well-worded and easily understandable. You have nothing to apologize for.
Your english is awesome, please don't apologize for it! And I don't get why people assume you'd love babysitting/watching their kids as a result. I'm an accountant and love my job too, but I don't feel the desire to do my friends taxes/accounting as a result. Just because you love your job doesn't mean you want to do it 24/7. LOL
It wasn’t even her first wedding & it’s not a SIL or brother job to pay anything for them.
Vous êtes déjà pas assez payés pis après tes ami(e)s et connaissances s'attendent à cque tu travailles gratisse off dla job?? 🙄 vomi
I understand. I used to be the ‘dressmaker’ of my group.
The girls who told just her parents instead of the whole wedding party handled that very well by being so quiet about it. Because op really should have had her parents there to be there with her through her pregnancy. Maybe I’m not petty heifer. But if my sister would’ve done that to me I had turned around and told everyone at the wedding. But Petty runs deep in my blood.
Completely agree like why wait until the wedding to take back a moment you claimed you wanted with her siste r
Same. I woulda grabbed the mic so fast 🤣
I think the sister had no intention of announcing OPs pregnancy at her wedding but realized that she may not have all eyes on her for those 3-4 months leading up. You don't decide last minute that's its not the time or place to do something you requested and not say anything. And it was doubly abhorrent knowing she watched OP go through hell in her 1st trimester with minimal family support, not because she wanted to but because the sisteractedas though it mattered to her. I'd have gotten the mic, ask for everyone's attention and a spotlight, announced how my sister decided that we keep this secret, and was there while I puked through my first trimester, because she wanted to help keep this amazing secrets, just to share with you all tonight, then raised my glass of water, said cheers with a wink to her and a big ass grin that clearly reads "Here's to you *itch"
Not a serial killer, just doing dishes and cleaning 😂 you motivate me sometimes
I went to this wedding a while ago where the couple had only known each other for 3 months. The wedding was thrown together in less then a month. Neither the bride nor the groom dressed up for the occasion. Both of them were wearing jeans and t-shirts. A few months later the bride posted on FB saying that society should normalize happy couples living in separate houses. A month after that they got divorced. The marriage didn't even last a year.
There’s a big difference between “announcing” a pregnancy and telling someone you’re pregnant
I lbasically forced my sister to tell people she was pregnant at my bachelorette party! I was so excited and she kept saying she was going to wait until after the party so the focus was on me and I wasn't having it. But I actually care for all of my sisters lmao and its even more of a reason to celebrate.
Good for you! There’s plenty of happiness to go around.
The more good news the better! I consider these types of things to be good omens and so they need to be shared❤
My best friend announced her pregnancy at my bachelorette party and it did not cross my mind for one second that she was "taking away from my party". We were all so excited because her and her husband had been trying for a while. People are literally crazy. To think someone's own SISTER would do this to them. Insane. I feel bad for people who have family members like this and it makes me so thankful for my family and friends. If you have good people in your life, make sure to let them know. We aren't promised tomorrow. And if you have shitty people in your life, tell them off. Not worth it.
This! Thank you!
First OP had the perfect response 😂
“Well sorry I’m not your parents so don’t expect handouts from me” 🔥 🔥 major burn 😂😂😂
Good Morning Petty Potatoes!
Good evening (over here in Sweden) to you ;-)
Good night (over here in Sri Lanka💃🏻)
Good morning!
Good Morning 😊
Good evening from South Australia ❤ 🇦🇺❤
You're awesome... and we're kind of doppelgangers.
I'd love to interview you for my arts magazine sometime 💜🌻💜
The pregnancy story kills me. My sister told me before she told our parents, I'd never have asked her to wait that long, no matter what life event was in th works! I feel for OP, I don't think that closeness is more than one sided. 😢
I was watching your video standing up because I was cooking but now I will sit down because I want to listen to the tea sipping on a cup of ☕😂😂
I have a couple of wealthy friends who always insist on paying for me. It’s fine, and I sometimes accept, but other times, I give the hostess my credit card without their knowledge when I arrive and tell them I’m paying. It’s been my experience that wealthy people also appreciate kind gestures like this and furthermore I get a lot of joy from giving my friends a happy surprise. Just because someone has money, it doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy being treated by their friends.
Somebody please help me understand why we keep apologizing to people who are in the wrong just to keep the peace. In my experience it doesn’t actually solve anything and can actually make things worse as the entitled person takes the apology as permission to be an even bigger AH and the cycle just keeps repeating itself.
Yep 10000% off the time. Which is why we now have Karen’s treating people rudely to try to get Shit for free at places of business.
Agreed. And the peace your keeping is everyone else's peace. It's never serene and good for you.
We're bad at forward thinking and anticipating consequences, usually. Right now sucks, so do what you have to to make it better NOW and deal with the future when it comes.
@@notevenlistening6072 Exactly. Keeping the peace is never about you, it's just so no one else has to make hard choices. Rifts in friend/family groups are caused when the responsible/reasonable people put their foot down and it tests the hold the toxic people have on the others while they continue to press the issue. Rifts aren't caused when people who are wrong admit it or when the toxic person is allowed to continue unhindered. Everyone misplaces the blame on the responsible person bc, truely it would be easier to let the toxic person continue without drama...but the center of the problem is enabling toxic people for so long that they are allowed to cause these tensions and break apart a group the instant they don't get their way
Right? it doesn't keep the peace, it just punts it down the road so it can get bigger and bigger until it blows up in everyone's faces and nukes everything in the vicinity.
As a retired teacher you are right about people thinking you would watch others kids. Once I got off work and went out , I told my friend I don’t talk to kids for about snd hour or more after working with them for 8 hours. I love children but it is nice to talk to adults. It even went for my granddaughter. She knew she could sit and cuddle but give me a few minutes of quiet. The best granddaughter ever.
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No! Im just doin the dishes 🤣
Lmao I am cleaning the bathroom 😂
Same lmao
“You’re not entitled to people’s money that isn’t yours!”
As an American Taxpayer, I couldn’t agree more! ❤️🔥
I’m 18, and my best friend is 20, just engaged, I’m binge watching all of these wedding videos to do some research in red flags to avoid and learn some stuff in how to be a good brides maid as I’m so young this is my first time dealing with something like this. I’m so excited
That's really awesome of you. You already show a level of maturity and consideration for others that a lot of people go through their whole lives not displaying. Your friend is lucky to have you. I'm sure you're going to be a great brides-maid, and an even better bride (one day when it's your turn)! Congratulations to your friend and hope the wedding (and everything leading up to it) go great!
You got this, no worries and don't stress yourself. Everyone commenting here I'm sure would give advice is asked. You'll be great!!!
@@pennymcguckin6098 thank you so much! I’m trying me best to unproblematic and as helpful as possible. And whatever she needs me to put somebody in her place I’ll be sure to do that because I’m her best friend.
If you have some common sense and a lot of common decency, you'll do fine.
Very sweet! Rule #1 do not wear white or black to a wedding unless explicitly asked to!
Glad I’m not the only one who thinks the sister never planned to let her sister announce she was pregnant because it would take attention off her future wedding. Like no you get that day not all the months leading up to it. She did nothing wrong telling their parents privately. It should have made the wedding more special.
not a serial killer, just doin dishes 😂
I've been on Reddit since it started and have mostly read many of the posts you are sharing, and yet when I found your channel, I went through every video because I absolutely adore your commentary, your facial expressions, and the sound effects. I love your content, thank you!
I almost didn’t go on a second date with my now husband because I couldn’t afford the event he offered to take me too.
I didn’t even realise he was offering to pay for me until he literally had to spell it out for me 🤦🏼♀️
I agree with charlotte, plan to pay, but never expecting someone to cover you
Yes, this!!! Like, being able to pay for yourself on a date is just common courtesy!
I always made sure that I had the money to cover my half of the date, and I always did my best to make sure the plans for said date were relatively cheap. Oddly enough, the cheapest dates I ever went on were the dates with my now husband. Aside from gas, I think the most my husband and I ever spent on a date(pre-wedding) was $40.
That's adorable
I'm always amazed when the extended family feels that their opinion means anything. DO NOT apologize, skip the wedding.
12:30 That is spot on. The sister didn't want the pregnancy to steal the thunder before her wedding. Hence she manipulated her sister into waiting. That explains why she was so upset after learning about it a week later. She was upset that her masterplan failed.
First story - I feel this so much! I love taking friends out for dinner, and my rule is that if I ask someone out, I pay. I have one person who invites me out and then expects me to pay. I no longer go out with them and find reasons not to get together any longer.
The stories like the first ones always get me. This is probably a TLDR instance (older sister and mom are like the first story) but, My mom and older sister behave that way. We didn't have a lot growing up but my older sister was coddled and treated better than my younger sister and I. Anyway I worked hard for years at different salons and now I have my own business and my husband who was an engineer/ patent examiner with the USPTO finally became a Patent Attorney. Anyway, I've been with my now husband for 10 years March 31st. When we got married, we went to a JOP and then just had a dinner at a Japanese Steakhouse and we paid for everything and everyone. My dad flew down, my aunt drove 4 hours, and my bonus niece made us a wedding cake as a present - it was gorgeous and everything I could have ever dreamed of. Anyway a few days before.. My older called and said she couldn't come because she needed gas money. I offered to come get her because my mom had lived with her at the time so I desperately wanted them there. So I drove 3 hours away and she still didn't come. The gas money thing was a lie. She just wanted the money. My mom defended her saying that we have a lot more than she does and this was like throwing it in her face. I'm like... We didn't even have a traditional wedding like our younger sister did and even if, it's not throwing anything in anyone's face. She got married at the JOP just like I did. I don't get behavior like this.
It’s disgusting entitled behavior & your mom should be ashamed of herself for defending that bs
Ma’am. I’m actually planning a beach wedding HOURS away from where I live and I genuinely feel like I, as the bride, should be responsible for the payment for my friends to go. I’m the one asking them to make that drive, I’m the one wanting to get married out of state, so in my mind it only makes sense that I cover that cost lol
I agree, i totally feel the same. (except im not getting married)
And that generous and considerate mindset will set you up for a successful marriage. Congratulations 🎉!
I feel the same!
We were getting ready to do this in Florida when Covid hit. We had a ton of money saved up and was going to cover my immediate family to fly out and my sister actually lives out there in a HUGE HOUSE with a GUEST HOUSE. so she was going to host everyone. But alas that didn’t go, and so we took a staycation and quarantined in a hotel a state away and enjoyed the Mountain View. I read a ton of books and we took the dog. And bought a car. We can get married any time in any way. We really needed it and a car. It gave us a whole new renewal on life. Just the family in a split room hotel being cautious in another place. It was home away from for a few months. Lol amazing.
@@lorimckenzie6217 I just can’t make them pay for something I want lol. I could never be that person and it just blows my mind that not everyone sees it the same way
The first story is my sister exactly. Blindside you and expect you to clean up her mess.
Yo why do you have to call me out for standing up!! 😂😂 Loveeeeee your videos!! ❤❤ My favorite to stand and watch!! 😂❤
As for the pregnancy announcement at the wedding....If I was the bride I would have stood at the dinner and thanked all the people for coming. Then I would have announced a special guest. The baby! Applause, hugs, kisses and congratulations would have brought tears of joy to my eyes for family is about ... weddings and babies and love! The excitement it caused would have died down eventually as the dinner and speeches continued. My sister and I would have been the happiest together and making the day even more special.
That sounds a lot healthier than what happened lol I'm down with your version
Clearly you're a much bigger person than that bride ever could be.
That would have been beautiful! 👶🏼
I agree. She could even have made a "joke" about another niece/nephew hopefully joining soon...
Story #1: It wasn't even her first marriage, it was her second. As far as I was aware, you don't get the shower and bachlorette again if you had for the first marriage. Even if you do want for the second, you TALK to the people involved before having it so there is no confusion as to who is contributing if anything. If the SIL wanted a bachelorette party for her 2nd marriage I think she should have paid for it herself. Or gotten mommy and daddy to, since it seems like this what normally happens.
Thank you! I thought I was the only one who caught this.
"Please sit down" CHARLOTTE IM CLEANING😅
The sister's wedding... the bride should not let her emotional self be so mean to a new mom. She didn't announce her pregnancy to the entire crowd.
You're fabulous Charlotte. I can only imagine people were mean in school because they didn't recognize your creativity (Singer, Actress, Comedienne) I'm sure some people have matured & appreciate your pizazz ❤❤❤❤❤
I used to use that "be more like your brother" thing on my boys all the time. The difference being, I went out of my way to make sure they both understood IT WAS A JOKE EVERY SINGLE TIME. I honestly can't imagine picking a "favorite" or "golden" child. 🤦♀️ I also made sure I gave each of them equal 💩. So neither felt left out, or singled out. They're adults now, and dish it right back at me. 💜
Boy mom vibes ❤
I feel like people only want to "keep the peace," when they know they're taking the side of the one who is in the wrong.
Personally, I love the "special guest" announcement by the bride idea, maybe after the bouquet toss, although I would do it sooner simply because aunties are kinda like young grandmas, all the spoiling, none of the responsibility, so I probably couldn't contain my excitement. 😊
Kindergarten teacher: NTA You don't invite people to your wedding and then expect them to be unpaid labor for whatever job during your wedding. I'd tell her that she needs to tell all the parents that I charge $50 an hour per child to babysit random children at weddings.
My bachelorette trip was completely covered for my bridesmaids (thanks to my wonderful parents), except for two meals. Only one of them thanked my mom. She still remembers that to this day, and it’s been a few years!
The reason why I think she said, "don't say anything I'll announce it at my wedding" was because she had no intention of doing that to begin with. She lied to OP in order for OP to keep her pregnancy to herself and the sister have all of the attention on her wedding. So in order to do that she made it sound like she was going to announce it at a wedding but had absolutely no intention to do so. That's really so sad considering how close OP had said they were and having to go through the first trimester of pregnancy is very difficult. 😢😢
I was always told by others "Spoken like a woman with no children"! My retort is yes because I am smart enough not to have kids to be raised by everyone else but me!
want to be rude back just say, "spoken like a woman who couldn't keep her legs crossed" and then go from there :D
@@Jerseybytes2 ILIKE IT!
In high school, I didn't have much money. However, I was so blessed to have a friend who always brought an extra sandwich and chips for me for lunch. At recess, she would also buy my snacks if I didn't have money, which unfortunately was pretty often. She married immediately after graduation and moved away. A couple of years after graduation, she got divorced and moved back home. We pretty quickly moved into an apartment together, and may I say, I have never gotten along with anyone else as well as I did with her. During that time, she never bought food for herself without buying something for me as well. She was always there for me, whatever I was facing. I still consider her my bff even though we haven't lived in the same state for many years. I hope she knows how much I love and appreciate her and everything she did for me. The thing I love most is that she was always, and I mean ALWAYS, there for me! She was my ride or die, and she knows my deepest secrets. I hope she knows that she's my hero and my guardian angel!
Good for you!!! So glad you stood up for yourself. She made it a "her and you" situation, then tried to squeeze out of it by dragging her brother into her mess and you didn't let her go there 👏👏👏👏 for you.
For the last story, my petty self would announce before wedding that since I am a daycare teacher and everyone wants their kids to be watched I expect an hourly fee for my labor today, plus an extra fee considering it is my sister's wedding. I have a big feeling that the sister does not know what it's like to look after kids because let me tell you, one person vs a gaggle of kids is a nightmare.
I could never do that job. It takes patience, knowledge, and skills I don't possess!
My kindergarten teacher was my mother's close friend and absolutely wonderful. She had a way of keeping us brats in line that seems almost magical looking back. She never raised her voice, and I think it was our love for her that made us want to behave well. I loved going to kindergarten, usually wasn't ready to go home. I even had a boyfriend, and our teacher gently told us (privately) it was okay for us to hold hands but the kissing had to stop. She called my mother and I overheard them talking about it, and laughing their butts off. We were five, and we were just modeling the affection we saw and received at our homes, so how is that bad? She knew that in a couple of years, little boys and girls go into the stage of "Yuck! Boys have cooties!" and vice versa, and she was right. This was 1966, so children then weren't exposed to sexually explicit images like today.
First grade at public school was a shock because the teachers were nothing like her. We got screamed at, hit with wooden paddles, called names, humiliated... I hated it.
Forreal. Especially since this isn't a school class and the kids are essentially being asked to be wrangled in and supervised for something that's a recess for them. Kids in class and kid in a fun/new setting are entirely different beasts.
She was forced into an employee role where she'll get zero enjoyment for being at the wedding and they either need to pay up, or respect that she would like to be a mfing guest who is just down to keep an eye on one person's kids while they take turns enjoying themselves. I think the Bride is just lashing out bc she embarrassed herself by giving people false information and she's going to catch heat for a mistake she created for herself.
Exactly, I'd be like 'Oh you think I'm the AH, wait for me to send you an invoice then!'
The fact that that bride is using her newborn baby nephew as a pawn in her drama shows that she is 💯 manipulating everyone around her. What an a-hole!! Hope the ops family sees this.
I'll bet if that woman thought real hard about some of the stuff her sister has done over the years, she'd find dozens of petty instances like this.
Agree with you 💯! @ Robert G yes I didn't think about that good point!
Not me watching this STANDING UP AND GETTING CALLED OUT, LMAOOOO I was cleaning and being a busybody, but I sat down
I watch your vids standing while getting ready! Love doing my makeup with you, feels like a sleepover🫶
I have a feeling that even if the sister had told her parents the day after, or a week after, she still would have been angry because it would have "taken the attention away" from her honeymoon, her recent wedding, etc. If OP had told her parents 4 months prior, the excitement surrounding the pregnancy would have subsided significantly by the time the wedding came along, especially since she wouldn't have been showing then. Sister was unrealistic about how much attention OP would be getting over her pregnancy at her wedding.
Imagine what that bride will be like when/if she's ever the one pregnant. She will likely demand attention from day 1.
@@WelcomeApathy That's what I was thinking, too.
Charlotte deserves her success because she makes great vídeos everyday and her jokes and laugh are already the most funny part of our days. 😂♥️
agreed
I agree :)
But of course. I love our sweet lil tater 👑
Her laugh makes me smile for sure ❤😂
Loved Charlotte 's humble bragging through this video 😂😂😂❤
I love just hearing these stories while I clean, and cooking. So I’m always standing.
You're right about splitting costs for the bride. My friend got married last year, we each split the bill and covered the brides cost. It was all arranged months in advance! I earn a little more than the others, so I chose to pick up one bill as a surprise for them, and everyone was very grateful (not expected, no one was entitled) this is normal.
The sister realized babies takes far more attention than any wedding will and that's why she's acting the way she is. She's starving for attention and acting like OP is someone she always has to compete with, even if OP doesn't realize it.
I recognize this projection because the same thing happened to us. My fiancé and I are the youngest of our families but had the first grandchild who happened to be the first boy, and we got pregnant a month and a half before his middle step brother and his gf of 3 months who decided she wanted a baby (I wish I was joking but she proudly told the story to our entire auxiliary vfd that I was a member of and her now husband went along with it. Btw, I just heard from my mom they are expecting baby #4). We didn't plan our son, truthfully we did everything in our power to avoid one as I was 17 when I got pregnant. I got pregnant in July and didn't find out until I was already a trimester along so we had already held off telling everyone until my sister got to know first in person, that was Thanksgiving of 2010.
They were pissed when my fiancé showed up at Christmas with an announcement and asked him to wait and let him, the BIL, tell my MIL because Christmas wasn't the time to tell someone to expect their first and only biological grandchild. It didn't bode well for us and now only our child has contact with my MIL, my fiancé and I can't handle her because she refuses to hear what we say and if she does listen has to automatically invalidate everything. It's always a fight.
I so wish we wouldn't have let others dictate our choices and actions because my MIL thinks we kept it from her, she found out through someone other than us or our BIL and she's never really gotten over this twisted view of us because she believes BIL over her only biological child and myself, all because BIL has had control over the narrative from the start. Never let others control your choices.
I’m still dying over the fact that I stand and watch your videos. I guess I’m a serial killer. Lmaooooo love you Charlotte!
Not me standing while watching and sitting down just bc u told me to😭🤣
I always love “do we have time for another one?” Because A) I always want another one and B) Charlotte is always so adorable when asking. But this time was by far the cutest lol “just a little baby one!” God I love this woman!!
Oh my god, that last story. I had something just like that happen to me! It was my cousin's wedding, and I, being an uncle to 12 at that point, had taken three of my nephew and nieces under my wing for the duration of the wedding so that their parents could enjoy themselves. Some other family members heard this, and I had at least ten more kids foisted upon me and was then banished to the basement of the venue, surrounded by toys and screaming kids I did not know. If it had not been for my mom bringing me down some food and cake, I would have been truly miserable. I was at the actual reception for likely all of fifteen minutes of the whole three hours it took place.
I would have told the kids that we're playing a game of Who Can Find Your Parents First, and taken them upstairs and delivered them. I've been in your shoes and you don't deserve it unless you're paid.
I do everything when I’m watching your videos! shower, laundry, school, cleaning! You’re the extra sweetener that’s necessary with my morning coffee
My sister found out about her breast cancer around the same time as I found out about my pregnancy. Yet all throughout my pregnancy she was there for me n took care of me. I did the same for her wen she was too tired from chemo.... She had her surgery a week after my son was born n after about a month or so she n my mom told me that she could have lost her life. She n my whole family knew that it was a life threatening situation n chose not to tell me or my husband so that we r not stressed out by it n can enjoy the pregnancy.... In fact she told me that it was benign all throughout... To this day wen I think of how they hid their pain for me to have happy memories of my pregnancy journey, I feel blessed.... That is what sisters do.... The sister in the story said they were very close then how can the bride do that wen her sister is going through a very vulnerable time
clearly, only OP thought they were close and not the selfish sister
@@MsKaz1000 ya true.... But the hurt the op must be going through will be a lot....
I truly hope all is well now. That your baby is thriving and that your sister is healthy. ❤
@@Hooperjz78 yes thank you.... It's been almost 6 years n she has beat cancer... She s going for yearly scans n so far everything is fine n my son is doing great.... V r in America now n they are in India but still really close....
I provided wedding flowers for my sister's wedding, for free. She refused to meet with me or talk to me about what she wanted so after months of trying I gave up and just ordered flowers with the look she said she was going for "victorian." Sadly many of the flowers she wanted for her June wedding were Spring flowers! So I had to guess at what would be a good replacement.
The day of her wedding she was rude and expectant. She was not happy with the flowers, demanded family help her prep the food and dinner in a space with a lock on the ONLY fridge! Since I had worked in the bakery dept at a grocers I also helped fix the cake she demanded my mom make then complained about. After the wedding she shoved a broom in my husband to be's hand and said, "I need you to help clean." My husband just dropped the broom in front of her and said, "After how you have treated my wife to be... No."
She walked down the aisle with a halfarse ponytail in her hair, did not shower after the night before and was rude to all her guests. Her MOH was drug sick and puked during the vows then asked my husband what whe should do as she had missed 90% of the vows.
My husband to be was like, "You are MOH, get back up there!"
She still blames me to this day for her poor planning and sad wedding experience.
Lesson for Life,
*No good deed goes unpunished.*
Oh my lord. She sounds like my sister we (us siblings) disowned. What the actual föck? So so sooooo entitled. It’s your fault MY wedding and MY Moh didn’t happen like I wanted and I was nasty and mean. It’s you. Yeah. Imma say the same thing I said to my sister. She’s got issues and you ain’t it. Byeeee
You are way too kind of it was me the moment she started complaining about the flowers and start making demands I would just stop and not do anything for her.
@@user-mw8oo1sl6t No worries, I won in the end. Her daughter grew up to be just like me. Drives my sister nuts! The kid is worth 10 of us each so I consider us even! lol
@@Dobviews That is probably the best outcome possible. Glad she's just like you
I actually often stand up when I watch your videos. you are in charge of the entertainment when I cook or wash the dishes
Why is the shout of "subscribe" so endearing?
I fully believe that the sister never intended to make the announcement, I bet she just wanted the entire lead up to the wedding to be all about her and thought people knowing about the baby would overshadow her so she created a reason to hold off and then switched on her sister so that the news would've announced after the wedding so all before the wedding and the day would be all about her
For that first story, I'm glad to hear for once the husband took the wife's side!!! Every story the husband who is related to the AH thinks the *wife* is the AH for "supposedly" causing the situation, when it's totally the *sister's* doing. Glad to finally see the husband sticks up for his wife in this !!!!
For real. At the same time he had to deal with them all his life too so he gets it.
I watch/listen while doing dishes/chores/gaming…so I’m usually standing up 😅💖
0:22 Im standing... cause I'm cooking 😂😂😂
I feel so much for that teacher who was mentioned. I'm her age (25) and have also been an educator for 4 years. I'm actually a special education assistant for a high school. It's one thing to be asked "hey, would you please watch these two kids, who you already know, during X amount of time?" It's another thing, a completely different thing, to be asked/told "Watch these kids. You're a teacher. You can handle it. You love kids anyway." We teachers love our jobs, we love our students, but we want time to relax, away from our jobs.
For the first story, I am baffled at the entitlement. I'm an only child so I've never truly gotten what the golden child thing is about but from what I observe the blame totally goes to the parents. I hope OP and her husband just cut off contact because the in-laws sound dreadful and they would most likely fair better without them. What happens when OP and her husband have children? Bratty sister will expect the cousins to be 'close' or to be 'treated the same'. Give an inch and they'll take a mile so just cut your losses and don't budge.
Yeah, biologically I have one brother, but my mom kept adopting “unwanted” street kids and now I have 5amazing sisters and 9 awesome brothers. And we all take turns being the golden child. My mom always placed us equally. Yes. Some kids got off easier on things, but they also had it harder on others. My mom was an amazing parent to us and made sure to tell us our strengths and weaknesses and how utilize and encourage both. I couldn’t have asked for a better parent. And she did it all by herself. No help. No food stamps and working a social workers job. We utilized churches and food pantries and she made the paper for her generosity and accomplishments. She’s a modern day saint. Honestly. And all of us kids feel the same way.
With my mom and (step)dad I am an only child, but with my (bio-horror) dad I am the oldest of 3. My stepmom has a golden child first, her son, than he did some bad things and than she turn to her daughter and now she is the golden child. I stil don't get why my halfsister is enjoying this, bc when she was younger she really felt alone and not seen by her mom, but maybe she now feels entitled (wich she is). I really don't get it why a parent is so awful.
@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast agreed
@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast I'm an only child and the golden child because I have a narcissist for a father lol
@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast Ah yes thats true. I am the black sheep. Well I walked away from that family, so now they have to do it on their own.
I mostly stand while watching your videos bc I work in a factory w no one to talk to usually. While you were saying that I started cracking up bc I realize how weird it is w out context to stand while watching RUclips😂
all this family drama just makes me grateful that i'm a single child and my dad has long gone and my mom passed away 6 years ago. seriously, i can even choose when i want to speak with my cousins or if i don't want it at all. 😂
2nd story - I think sister never planned on having her announce at wedding. Just kept before wedding focused on herself.
Right! That is what I was thinking... like no, you get 1 day.. maybe a second for your bach party but that's it... the sister 100% told her to save announcing it to do at the wedding to make sure the 4 moths leading to it was going to be all about her and not overshadowed by her sisters pregnancy.... Pregnancy is not easy and the sister made her keep it a secret, her first pregnancy where she likely would want to be able to talk to her mother and get help and advice but held off and suffered for her sister... could she have waited until after the wedding to tell the parents, probably but you know what... 4 months of the sister being devious and vindictive to essentially control and demand all focus and attention... she got her day of focus... all 4 months of it... she is no longer entitled to her 1 day.
Yes indeed
The pregnancy one was so awful. Not OP the one announced the pregnancy to her parents at the wedding; But the bride who let her suffer for the first few months of her pregnancy alone. Many pregnant women have tough issues during their pregnancy and their mother's had them as well. The mother might have had ideas on how to help OP.
Not a serial killer just a Nanny cleaning up during nap time. Lol
Stander here! ... Mostly because my job won't give me a chair lol. Love listening to you
First story: Given it was a dinner, I could understand if they sprang either dividing the bill evenly or the bride's bill evenly, without discussing it beforehand, because those both make sense for the event and people might assume it was obvious.
Kinda wonder what the plan was if OP had decided not to go.
She was invited specifically and only to pay the bill.
@@jillmortlock8439 Cleary. I was just wondering if they'd even considered the possibility that she might not show up and what to do then.