"make it happen" mode creates suffering - why?

Here's what happens within a body when functioning from the "make it happen" energy. Is it possible that too much determination, willpower and hyperfocus creates suffering?
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[@Replenishyourheart]

I just love your explanations. God bless x

[@TanjaWindegger]

thank you! 🌻💛

[@Seeking_Myself]

Hi Tanja. Thank you for this video. It's a very interesting topic and you explain the sensations really well for me. I remember you using the train analogy before, and it was one that resonated for me. I know the negative feelings around "making it happen" - the pressure on myself and the hyperfocus of those moments. I really want to be able to be a train spotter rather than a passenger! It's a work in progress for me though. I think that the idea of "making it happen" is stressful for me and it brings up my "I'm not good enough" thoughts. I am slowly (with age and insight) trying very hard to move away from this, but it is a sticky one for me and I keep getting drawn back to it in lots of areas of my life. As someone in their early 60s who is unable to retire for financial reasons, this pressure of "making it happen" hangs around me. I want to be free of work and to concentrate on the more relaxing aspects of life for the time I have left. So this is a real dilemma for me and I want you get the balance right. Sorry, I think I may have gone off at a tangent!

[@TanjaWindegger]

yes! some of those stories are like double decker trains 😆 they build on each other come with their "tag-along" buddies!
becoming clearer and clearer that these are all just stories I am "entertaining" is "freeing" (including that I have to continue this job for financial reasons - that was a big one for me too!)