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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2023
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    3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man Wants To Be COMMITTED To You... In this dating advice video, I will give you the nine great signs he wants to be committed to you that should not be overlooked. You may see the signs he wants to be committed to you on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and ensure you watch the entire video.
    Every woman deserves a man who will give them the commitment they truly deserve. However, some men don't want to commit to their relationships. Therefore, in this video, I will talk about men and commitment to help you better understand men and what makes a man commit.
    I want you to be aware of the signs he wants you and the signs he wants to commit to you so that you can do what is truly best for your relationship. In this relationship advice, I will help you understand what makes a man commit so that you can make him commit to you. Embrace this relationship advice to understand men better and to know when he wants commitment.
    As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +19

    ❤ Here’s your chance to get your personal questions answered by me for FREE
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  • @valkylva
    @valkylva 9 месяцев назад +265

    1) Doesn’t run from a title
    I had a man telling me he loved me and I felt the same. I asked him if he considers me his girlfriend and he said no and I said goodbye. He wouldn’t commit but wanted all of the perks of a relationship with me. Nope.
    Not the right man for me.
    2) Consistent communication
    With the same man I asked a simple, can you say good morning and goodnight to me every night. And he always had excuses and it made me realize I am not a priority.
    After ending it with that guy, the next guy (who I am with now) is extremely good at communicating. Always makes time for me!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +11

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @cypofwater8302
      @cypofwater8302 6 месяцев назад +6

      I am sooooo happy for you to be strong, keep your boundaries, standing your ground, being alert and aware of his behavior and energy, paying attention to the consistency of communication and please don’t let him change you to become another person for him till you don’t recognize yourself. I am PROUD OF YOU!!! 😊

    • @charitybanda4008
      @charitybanda4008 5 месяцев назад

      Honestly, what's wrong with these sons of Solomon. They want to have the cake and eat it. I sent him the last text msg due to no consistency or commitment, but pretending as if we're in a committed relationship. I just blocked 🚫 him this time after some time of me giving him a chance and me expressing how I felt about the situation.

    • @Evolette09
      @Evolette09 3 месяца назад

      I was dating a nice man for a month and a half.We went on almost 10 great dates! I asked him what he is looking for he said family,open to kids.He was very nice and consistent.Then when I wasn't ready to go and spend the night over he got mad over the phone and cancelled the reservation at the restaurant that night and told me that he was so nice to me and how I didn't do anything for him and called me selfish and narcissist.And I'm am talking here about a 46 years old w a good career and manners.Just crazy.

    • @bernitapennick5930
      @bernitapennick5930 2 месяца назад

      How do you love someone that’s no your girlfriend or boyfriend ???? How

  • @cocogemini6623
    @cocogemini6623 9 месяцев назад +227

    I THINK THE REASON PEOPLE HAVE A HARD TIME WITH RELATIONSHIPS IS BC IT HOLDS YOU ACCOUNTABLE AND TO A HIGHER STANDARD. WHEN YOU ARE SINGLE YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER TO ANYONE AND CAN LIVE DOUBLE TRIPLE LIVES.

    • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
      @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад +12

      🎯

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @alexzlynx5409
      @alexzlynx5409 9 месяцев назад +21

      Exactly!! They want the benefits without the responsibilities smh, I learned once and never again.

    • @cocogemini6623
      @cocogemini6623 9 месяцев назад +10

      @@alexzlynx5409 that is perfectly said. People don't want to work hard but still get the benefits kind of like a full-time job...

    • @cocogemini6623
      @cocogemini6623 9 месяцев назад

      @@alexzlynx5409 they want to do part time work for full time pay.

  • @marleyisms
    @marleyisms 9 месяцев назад +297

    Communication is so tricky because so many men weren't taught how differently we (men/women) communicate. I think communication is essential, but men communicate differently than we do. Consistentcy is one thing, but depth is something totally different that many men aren't really interested in these days. I'm also mindful of a man's personal space. Sometimes, men just don't want to talk or text a woman because we talk a lot, sometimes overstimulating him. I match energy, respectfully, but I also make sure I continue to express interests if it's mutual.

    • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
      @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад +45

      Ok we’ll just leave these type of men alone then if he feels we’re over stimulating. I think most women don’t have the time and patience to parent another adult since we’re too busy being a parent to our own biological children.

    • @marleyisms
      @marleyisms 9 месяцев назад +25

      @@sisis_eyes_wide_open I agree. It's really hard to navigate though. Sometimes you find out after you're in too deep or when the first issues arise after the honeymoon phase.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +25

      Communication is definitely key. Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262
      @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 9 месяцев назад +6

      Agreed✨
      Very accurate comment💯

    • @Adriana.Gabriela
      @Adriana.Gabriela 9 месяцев назад +9

      and sometimes they don't want to communicate at all :(

  • @riwanhaphithabah186
    @riwanhaphithabah186 9 месяцев назад +78

    When you're watching Stephan's videos you're actually serious about your relationship ❤and your life

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

    • @peacealoysius245
      @peacealoysius245 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yes my dear, that's true, Stephan's relationship videos are the greatest videos one should watch and listen to, if he/ she needs a healthy and successful relationship ❤

  • @Southafricanbruh
    @Southafricanbruh 9 месяцев назад +79

    My boyfriend of 4 months asked me to be his girlfriend immediately after our first date ❤.He is the best man ever .

    • @MzTeriberry
      @MzTeriberry 18 дней назад

      Idk but those were my mistakes moving fast ..I feel from experience we should wait at least a year go through the bdays holidays with family/ friends

  • @nicolebalmier
    @nicolebalmier 9 месяцев назад +72

    My bestie just checked me on that today, I pulled back so far to avoid wasting my time that I was coming off as uninterested & working against myself ❤ thank god for Sisters & ppl who can tell us the truth 💕

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @steph6337
    @steph6337 9 месяцев назад +62

    I'm so excited to be connecting with a man that has all of these. I was married for 22 years to a man that had many narcissistic characteristics. So this is very refreshing now!

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy6922 9 месяцев назад +36

    I m no longer dating .. I want 500 page essay on why and how you will not waste my time !
    PeriodT

  • @LizDavinciLand
    @LizDavinciLand 9 месяцев назад +48

    Great point that social media distorts male and female impressions of the opposite sex. There are so many good men out there for good women and I again believe that people should stop scrolling social media and start making real, in-person friends and contacts. Not for the sake of it - but to really search out quality people. Anyway, thanks for the video Stephan! Cheers, Liz

    • @deereynolds2392
      @deereynolds2392 9 месяцев назад +1

      Diddo

    • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
      @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed social media can be toxic in how they distort reality. However in my experience with the men I’ve spoken with wasn’t that far off from these relationship videos. My point is there’s some truth to these self-help/relationship videos but Stephan knows how to keeps it real.

    • @trudy-annsmall9600
      @trudy-annsmall9600 9 месяцев назад +1

      I respect your comment

  • @user-sz6vy7xt6j
    @user-sz6vy7xt6j 9 месяцев назад +33

    Soooo true, I already ask those questions and you're correct! If he's serious he will give you a title... It weeds people out much quicker!!!!
    It stops me from wasting time as mature woman!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 6 месяцев назад +9

    Men are quiet, listening, learning, and watching you online 💕 confirmation 😁

  • @ladysoul64
    @ladysoul64 3 месяца назад +7

    Thank you Stephan! I met a gentleman exactly a month ago and we are both grateful that we met each other. He said he knew when he first saw me he wanted me in his life (wife). He works a lot and I found myself beginning to get irritated because he doesn't have the time I want to spend with him. I took your advice last night and reached out to him while he was on the road and voiced my concerns about things. Unbeknownst to me he's making moves in his career in order to have more time with me. He has been consistently calling or texting me today. I also asked him does he consider us friends or a couple. He said we are absolutely a couple and I can't see my life without you in it. Thanks to your advice I have been showing a lot more feminine energy and he's all in. I'm almost 64 and he just turned 65 so indeed it's never too late. You are awesome and every couple (especially women) need to listen to your advice.

  • @amypiliposian5908
    @amypiliposian5908 9 месяцев назад +34

    I just want to say thank you I have learned so much from all of your videos and all of your advice. I would like to say that because of your videos, I worked on myself to become a better version of who I am, and I found the perfect person, we have been together for two years now. Your videos have helped me grow so much and I just want to say thank you and continue spreading the positivity and the love for women and even men. ❤❤❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm happy my videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @cmb4774
    @cmb4774 4 месяца назад +2

    This has been very helpful to me and direction changing. The guy refers to me as sister, makes little attempts to see me, yet talks frequently on the phone. I think I was seeing something I wanted to unfold. It's only been a few months. But something feels off. I have truly prayed and feel he may be a friend for the long haul even though friends tell me he cares and more time will prove we belong together. After listening to this segment, I believe he cares as a friend and brother of the faith only. I thank God for that and I am focused on removing fantasy and hopefulness for a love from my heart. Thank you again.

  • @MaggieCano-wu1ek
    @MaggieCano-wu1ek 9 месяцев назад +21

    Sometimes wanting a title can be toxic you have to take time to get to know each other courting is without a title and it’s the purpose for marriage and I’m ok with that! Besides we are building together and sometimes when you demand a title is because of past trauma

    • @janicewitzke9529
      @janicewitzke9529 9 месяцев назад +2

      Definitely.bbthe man I was seeing he said from the beginning. He wanted a friendship. That's it's. But yet I didn't know how to handle his signals loving holding kissing no sex we didn't .I couldn't because of my commitment to. God. I was married and my husband passed.a d he was a perfect gentleman. I won't settle for anyone but that. I will wait. 😊

    • @MaggieCano-wu1ek
      @MaggieCano-wu1ek 9 месяцев назад

      @@janicewitzke9529 i understand in my situation there is no kissing or holding or anything like that just becoming best friends

  • @lovinglife58
    @lovinglife58 7 месяцев назад +6

    Excellent! another one is him switching from him saying "I", to "we", or "us"...... :) Love your videos. I learn so much from you Stephan!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  7 месяцев назад +2

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @ItsWhatevers14
    @ItsWhatevers14 Месяц назад +1

    I literally just had to end a new relationship because he was not communicating. Showed no interest in me or trying to progress. When I would bring my issues and feeling to him on it he would just say he's going to bed and get off the phone. Lol. Oh well. His loss. I'm not hanging around until you feel like it. We made it 20 days.

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 9 месяцев назад +13

    I'm a 66 yo woman and YES there are many available serious men out there.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      You're absolutely right thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @Athena.0500
      @Athena.0500 9 месяцев назад +1

      I absolutely believe that as well. I just haven't found mine yet. They're out there

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@Athena.0500 Men approach more when I'm comfortably alone in my own space and light ... Twice alone looking at the beach with a brewsky in hand; not long ago at a Friday Fest art show, several in active singles and civics clubs, serving on city boards, widowers. Go to where the men are (car and gun shows). These men have means and are gentlemen. I'm a tall lady too but that hasn't worked against me.

  • @PixelatedReality80
    @PixelatedReality80 9 месяцев назад +12

    6:39 my ex was fine with the title, but never gave emotional connection and when I asked how he felt about me he would give me these lines. I forgot about them and as soon as you said this it was like a PTSD moment. Thanks for the reminder!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @user-nv7se2ff4q
      @user-nv7se2ff4q 7 месяцев назад +1

      One shouldn't have to ask how he felt about u. Instead he should be telling you how he felt.

  • @elsf
    @elsf 9 месяцев назад +17

    To be fair, I have a met a handful of good man who want to be committed. Unfortunately, there was a lot of issues when it came to sexual attraction to them. A lot of men who are ready to settle down to I have encountered, are not attractive to me and are entirely too old for me I.e 15 years older minimum.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +6

      I pray that you meet the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

  • @Rozallthingsfeminine
    @Rozallthingsfeminine 9 месяцев назад +7

    Smooches Stephan 💋.... I want to let you know that your content is so on point and you bring so much clarity to me, thank you so much for that. However, the statement about being too busy..... There is no such thing as being too busy...... People take time to do what they want to do and what they need to do. People take time to eat a meal, drink water, sleep, bathe, work, pay bills or go to the gym....you get my point. What would happen if people did not take time to do any of these things? They would either cease to exist or be a hot mess. So the statement of being too busy is not true, and I say that with all humility and softness. However, I do believe that you are a man full of wisdom and I am so grateful that you are on this platform. Congrats on your men's channel! I did not know you had one. I think that you're doing an amazing job bringing valuable information to us ladies! Smooches 💋

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @MirandaKenttheone
    @MirandaKenttheone 9 месяцев назад +3

    So nice to see evolved men out here speaking in this way. I agree there are tons of good men out there who want love and connection.

  • @morebyaas
    @morebyaas 9 месяцев назад +5

    Good
    For
    Him. Don’t care and stilll watching . I’m not interested in nobody I’m worried about my future

  • @lazedracheatom5182
    @lazedracheatom5182 9 месяцев назад +24

    Thank you 🙏🏽 Stephan for this information I’m just waiting for the Lord at this point and I need to get outside a little more to meet people 🩵😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @susanlindsay7970
      @susanlindsay7970 9 месяцев назад +2

      My neighbor of 7 years, whom I only spoke to 10 min in all that time, prayed that he wanted to experience love before he died. At about the same time, I prayed that I wanted love and bliss in my life. He was led to talk to me about something, not a relationship. We talked every day for 3 weeks for 4=6 hours a day and now, after 2 1/2 mos we are in love. Did I mention we are 80 yrs old?

  • @thepaperedsleuth
    @thepaperedsleuth 8 месяцев назад +4

    Stephan, most of us who are self employed are VERY busy. However, we make time for people who make time for us. Both parties need to demonstrate interest & not just texting. That's LAZY communication unless one is in church or a meeting. Ijs . . . .

  • @AndiAlexander1
    @AndiAlexander1 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great points about men and women being taught to “game” each other. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

  • @yariannifamilia4994
    @yariannifamilia4994 9 месяцев назад +10

    He is doing all this things 😊

  • @claudiaramossantos2863
    @claudiaramossantos2863 9 месяцев назад +10

    You're the most beautiful thing. Just seeing you and listening to your words, which come from a place of love, fulfills my heart deeply.
    You helped me a lot.
    I send you tons of love and kisses.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @claudettereynolds4258
    @claudettereynolds4258 9 месяцев назад +6

    I know all too well about number 3 on your topic. I had a boyfriend who knows all about me God forbid if I got deaf and dumb he would be able to hear and speak for me cause he took his time to know about me my likes and my dislikes if I get mark on my body he will know don't matter how small it is cause he took time to know me and showed interest. Love your videos ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @takemeplaces3671
    @takemeplaces3671 5 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely wish i was able to be vulnerable and open up. It would have made my relationships a lot better...

  • @pudgie011
    @pudgie011 9 месяцев назад +30

    What is it about men only wanting to text and not actually talk on the phone? That is all I meet and I feel that these men do this because they have someone in their lives and texting is easier to hide!

    • @tiyonnamartin8216
      @tiyonnamartin8216 9 месяцев назад +5

      I agree

    • @angiedee2722
      @angiedee2722 9 месяцев назад +3

      Same here. Just happened to me and it turned out he did have someone. Is hard to cut them out but do it. If he’s foreal he’ll call but you gotta tell him you wanna talk on the phone. Start with voice memos voice notes onto phone calls

    • @Shilpa91000
      @Shilpa91000 9 месяцев назад +1

      I’m dealing with the opposite who only wants to meet and so bad at texting that I thought he didn’t like me

    • @AndiAlexander1
      @AndiAlexander1 6 месяцев назад +1

      Texting is the way we communicate today. You gotta move with the times! Communicate your preference if it’s not for you. Don’t discount him because he didn’t send a handwritten letter to your father by mail coach asking to court you.

  • @RosariaKabila
    @RosariaKabila 4 месяца назад +1

    You know what I used to ignore your videos me not knowing how powerful your videos are. Iam enjoying them very much from the day I decided to,I am exactly in the same situation where this man can't just tell me that he loves me but makes plans about us.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @claudiafegari5116
    @claudiafegari5116 9 месяцев назад +7

    Oh, those toxic little games! I am so glad that you addressed those in this video!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate that!

  • @J.CH.F.
    @J.CH.F. 9 месяцев назад +4

    I was waiting for Boaz,praying for long time, God confirmed me who is Boaz in my life,I had a courage to tell him ,that man rejected it, doesn't believe me and treat me no way as Boaz would treat, hm..what do you say Steph? Shall I be patient? I trust God💗 and deserve to live in God's will

    • @OpenDoorHypnosisHealingTV
      @OpenDoorHypnosisHealingTV 6 месяцев назад

      I say feelings are fleeting. Let him show you the evidence and speak the words to you.

  • @hasisme1
    @hasisme1 14 дней назад

    I have found the men who want commitment right away usually need a place to stay and/or want to quit their job and be taken care of.

  • @WezzieTheu
    @WezzieTheu 4 месяца назад

    This is true. I'm a baby mama with one kid I met this handsome man in our home street he stopped me to have my phone no. As it was our first time to see each other. But the very first day he proposed but I refused time when on everyday he was reminding me about us being together. After wards I said yes eeh this man is too loving it's like a divine connection. He loves my kid like its his own fruit n he says its our first born son... Planning of our wedding now soon or later.

  • @PaulaDuplantis-gj5pe
    @PaulaDuplantis-gj5pe 7 месяцев назад +1

    I always appreciate your videos. They are helpful. Stephan, there is someone who is pretending to be me on social media platforms. I am aware of it and have reported it to the appropriate social media companies. They have done nothing about it. I have been single since 2016. Truthfully speaking, I dated men none of whom I would have been in a committed relationship with. Therefore, I remain single. Also, I know of none, men who were interested in being in a committed relationship. I don't do social media, so I don't set up thirst traps. I am not desperate. I find great contentment in being single until God has that special person he desires that I will be with. Until then, I'm good.

  • @heatherdimsdale
    @heatherdimsdale 4 месяца назад +1

    My man is doing all these things you mention. 😊❤ I watch every video thank you for your spirit and following your calling. Much love and respect stephan God bless you ❤

  • @sharpekinks
    @sharpekinks 9 месяцев назад +6

    Sharing with the young, single ladies in my life!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @gmilner84
    @gmilner84 9 месяцев назад +5

    On point video!! I really enjoyed the VIP treatment in Atlanta. Looking forward to next year.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response ❤ 🙏

  • @sharmarie777
    @sharmarie777 9 месяцев назад +19

    I'm exhausted because of men. If there are good men out there i haven't seen it and I'm no longer interested in weeding them out to find that needle in a haystack.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +16

      Before you give up on dating, try changing your focus from dating to learning, and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!

  • @bettyjames4192
    @bettyjames4192 5 месяцев назад +2

    Love this. Ty so much for help. I can't afford any counseling but I'm OK.

  • @ndanatseyi
    @ndanatseyi 18 дней назад

    I'm really confused about this guy I've been talking to for 6 weeks. We get along very well, chat everyday, he even calls me occasionally yet he hates calls. He always wants to learn more about me, he wished me a happy birthday at midnight, sent flowers to my workplace, has said he's looking for something serious... all really amazing signs. But we've only seen each other once. One date in 6 weeks, one date which I initiated. I called him out on it and he said he got to used to long distance relationships and will do better. Its been over a week since that conversation and no change. I really don't understand. (PS I know he's not with anyone else, because I know his colleagues. They used to tease him about being single, and they've been trying to get us together for almost a year.)

  • @celestinebennett212
    @celestinebennett212 9 месяцев назад +11

    Stephan all these things you teach us, one might think it's a Myth ..but it's not, you are right on Point 100% ..one will only experience this when they are in the dating Arena ..all the Traffic lights are on. I see everything clearly right now and in 2024 we will be much sharper and fish for a Shark (King) instead of fishing for Sardines, Tilapia, and Shark not knowing which one is good for us or who is who 😂😂😂..Thank you so much, we do appreciate you 🙏 ...and keep on doing what you do, you are helping a lot of couples and single persons out here ✍✍😇

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @sarahshaw1990
    @sarahshaw1990 3 месяца назад

    Stephan, this message is for you, you know what I say when I get into subjects about meeting the right person or meeting a serious person or a meeting a good person, I always say they're all in church lol

  • @Happyfeelinpeace
    @Happyfeelinpeace 9 месяцев назад

    Men/women don't need to say it with respect to commitments. Love is what love does.
    I knew someone who got into trouble many times and repeatedly went to prison. He ran for 30 years from a woman he claims is his Mrs. Special, a sweet well rounded confident woman, who he says he loves and can't live without. I can't imagine the damage he may do if he was with her. He's 56 years old and got into trouble again. That's a lifestyle that's def on him. Do you know why I don't f with people in a bunch of drama, why I observe before I do/say anything? It works!

  • @rosetrombley6106
    @rosetrombley6106 9 месяцев назад +3

    Alot of times that'll say we're being clingy

  • @Sexybaby827
    @Sexybaby827 8 месяцев назад

    My Suga told me she m his baby his love his woman his Blessing ❤️We communicate all day from the time we wake up from the time we lay down. While we at work etc We loves each other so much.

  • @joyannfernander4064
    @joyannfernander4064 9 месяцев назад +2

    Of course there's questions in a woman's mind where are all the good men they are there just wait on God timing he is the only one that can truly give us what we desires in our hearts thank you Lord for your love ❤️

  • @user-dt1vz4ce2w
    @user-dt1vz4ce2w 9 месяцев назад +10

    Why we have to put the man on the pedestal 😳?Why he is not interested to be serious?Bcz he wants just sex😡I fed up with this !I am still healing after 6 months!Fed up with cheaters and liars !I will love my self and live my life n peace ✌️🙏👍💪🌈🌹

  • @amaal1
    @amaal1 3 месяца назад

    Thank youuuu Stephan ! So true praying for good man🤲🏽

  • @urbansurvivor360
    @urbansurvivor360 5 месяцев назад

    I really fell for a guy at work he is single I got to a point where I told him I really liked him and he said thankyou and laughed. he put something on Facebook pretty much saying women only want to get married so they can have the man's income in divorce. So he's totally not interested whatsoever. I spent 3 months adjusting to this I am so glad I don't feel anything for him now. Lucky escape I think.

  • @LadyKT7232
    @LadyKT7232 9 месяцев назад +3

    Great video!! I need those reminders to better understand. Thank you!!❤

  • @Adriana.Gabriela
    @Adriana.Gabriela 9 месяцев назад +1

    14:00 I wish more men understood that. It seems to me that a lot of men run away tbthe first sogn of trouble or hirt without even trying to discuss things. I'm not talking about if a woman made a serious mistake, but one that can easily be resolved by a bit of communication. An honest mistake that might have been there for reason xy (like what you mentioned, or confusion about sth that hasn't been discussed directly enough, etc.)

  • @Bjk1532
    @Bjk1532 9 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks Stephan I enjoy getting tips to use from your videos. Between you and Jesus I’m learning.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you.Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, clarity, and healing 🙏

  • @vibeswithval3495
    @vibeswithval3495 7 месяцев назад +2

    How long should a woman wait for a title? I need some suggestions/advice

  • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
    @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад +4

    Yes, Stephan is correct there are so many available men out there. I recently met a guy online but we’re taking it slow. He’s not that expressive but really lights up when I send pics. We don’t talk too much during the day since he’s extra busy. But he enjoys texting me late at night when I’m already in bed. I think I found the one 😃

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

    • @MsLis-cw2xs
      @MsLis-cw2xs 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah, sounds like a keeper…😂😂

    • @houston3rdwrdlouisiana371
      @houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 9 месяцев назад +6

      ​@MsLis-cw2xs sounds like a get rid of.....omg texting at night when she in bed ...because he cant be real with u because he really involved ALREADY, and SNEAKING to text because he CAN'T TALK, SHES IS CLOSE.

    • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
      @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 you obviously don’t understand sarcasm

    • @sisis_eyes_wide_open
      @sisis_eyes_wide_open 9 месяцев назад

      @@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 you can have him since you don’t care about being in a third party relationship

  • @bezadawite4459
    @bezadawite4459 2 месяца назад

    What does it mean if a man says he already knows everything about you by seeing your actions through a relationship but you have been making effort to change your ways and he doesn't see/believe it till your perfect?

  • @dianearrington6666
    @dianearrington6666 5 месяцев назад

    I asked the intent -N/A.

  • @heatherjeffrey8997
    @heatherjeffrey8997 9 месяцев назад +2

    What a wonderful video Stephan thanks.

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 5 месяцев назад

    You are a walking tree of wisdom Stephan ❤❤❤

  • @lane524
    @lane524 9 месяцев назад +3

    I truly Appreciate This video . Love the tips 👏👊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @moxiejae321
    @moxiejae321 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you sooo much Stephan! ❤

  • @user-rr6pn7ct7p
    @user-rr6pn7ct7p 9 месяцев назад +3

    Me most definitely

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @Whatyousayin24
    @Whatyousayin24 3 месяца назад

    How about when he says you two became a couple at the first kiss, without asking you to be his girlfriend officially? But then after addressing it he asks you to be his gf

  • @alitez960
    @alitez960 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wise words,always 100% right

  • @DeadCat-42
    @DeadCat-42 4 месяца назад

    Like all my friends , I quit dating when I turned 30,
    Dating Is dead and relationships were ended with tinder and hypergamy.

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 9 месяцев назад +1

    Am forever grateful to you Steph
    These are all wonderful signs if noticed
    But I need the cherry at the top LONGIVITY
    Until death do us part
    How about that ??

  • @Angel-yq7ii
    @Angel-yq7ii 9 месяцев назад +2

    I was one of those women but not anymore. Although I'm still single

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

  • @Bronwnie85
    @Bronwnie85 9 месяцев назад +1

    Very precise points .... Thanks Stephan 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @moonstar1126
    @moonstar1126 6 месяцев назад

    i’m guilty of expressing my interest to my crush a bit much i’m a leo so that’s just what we do

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 3 месяца назад

    A lot of women are being told that men like TOXIC women …. SPRINKLE SPRINKLE this is sooooo not true, my uncle got rid of his girlfriend because all she wanted to do was argue all day he said I really tired of this …unevoled men like toxic woman….

  • @heyitsjujuu
    @heyitsjujuu 5 месяцев назад

    He told me it's looking for casual but open to long term.
    And he's texting me everyday. Okay casual. 😂

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 9 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing topic thank you so much couch stephan👍❤️🙏🏽

  • @marystellarosetarot5700
    @marystellarosetarot5700 9 месяцев назад +6

    Oooooo yes please and thank you! 💜❤🙏

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 9 месяцев назад +4

    This was a Great Video ❤

  • @Foxie635
    @Foxie635 5 месяцев назад +1

    Don’t reach out. The man in to you will always reach out. They can’t help it. It’s an urge

  • @1tyffani
    @1tyffani 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Stephan! This was great! How would you know if a man wants to commit to you for the right reasons?

  • @yvonnebiwom7428
    @yvonnebiwom7428 7 месяцев назад

    I met a Man I truly loved
    He loved me too
    But he is going through a depressive divorce.He is now scared to love or commit
    He has been single in 7yrs
    How do I get him to come around

  • @Philippines888
    @Philippines888 3 месяца назад

    I’ve been chatting with a man for 2 and a half months… after 4 days I deleted my account in dating site.., while him even it reaches 2 and a half months now, he still there. Sometimes he would have to come there without messaging me… oh well, last time we talked, he said, it’s not a crime to have friends there… haha, we also started from being friends and in fact he wants still to befriend some other women, what does that mean? Anyways ifs clear now that he’s not info commitment.

  • @violetchikoko7085
    @violetchikoko7085 3 месяца назад

    Yaah wondering at 60 is there any love out there except for God? My husband died when l was 36 and lm now 60 all hope has gone.l prayed fasted and did all that a decent woman need do but hope deffered sickens the heart.lm now at a place that there's no man for me and my commitment and hope is to serve the Lord with all my heart ♥. 🙏

  • @Sandra-po9sp
    @Sandra-po9sp 9 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for your great words and encouragement. Men these days are so irritating and frustrating. Js

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад +1

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @Sandra-po9sp
      @Sandra-po9sp 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks and what’s best is to leave them to hell alone 😆 and ask God to intervene of my behalf. His timing will give me my boaz

    • @donicaschannel8220
      @donicaschannel8220 7 месяцев назад

      They are very confused and manipulative

  • @PixelatedReality80
    @PixelatedReality80 9 месяцев назад +3

    13:30 this is huge!! It’s a dealbreaker for me in getting into relationships.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @ressinabalajadia8139
    @ressinabalajadia8139 9 месяцев назад

    Im matured spritually and read my bible everyday u know that my men!

  • @jessicawoods4976
    @jessicawoods4976 3 месяца назад

    About the communication…how do you go about I’m always texting first. And the question thing; I ask all the questions. He say he will ask me questions soon. So is he just wanting to know me or what. But we are a month in the talking stage. So please help!!❤

  • @meandmom3967
    @meandmom3967 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great video thank you

  • @user-gf1zn3ej7o
    @user-gf1zn3ej7o 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your great video 🙏🩷

  • @YTSDebonair
    @YTSDebonair 9 месяцев назад

    10:05 this is major!💯

  • @cherbear524
    @cherbear524 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Stephan 💜

  • @christinabarkley2669
    @christinabarkley2669 2 месяца назад

    Video and that's about sigh

  • @gemini188
    @gemini188 9 месяцев назад

    Where are they ??? It’s rare

  • @shinep9658
    @shinep9658 8 месяцев назад

    Hi Stephen! What's your take on men who smoke and drink. Shld one accept proposal from such a man?

  • @ressinabalajadia8139
    @ressinabalajadia8139 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ok half 2 go now i have a work hmmm!

  • @katiakay
    @katiakay 9 месяцев назад

    Ok. But what to do then, when he does not reach out??

  • @jen-ov2bi
    @jen-ov2bi 9 месяцев назад +1

    Welp, my ex failed the test already on point #1 but I think you should add a timeframe context to that. For me, I didn’t know how much time was appropriate to wait for a commitment particularly because he kept telling me he needed time to get to know me. He was vague & avoided being clear when the conversation was raised 5mos in. His unclear response ended up leading to the rapid downfall of our relationship. 2. Communication was consistent & to be honest so consistent I had to adjust my life to be available that long & often. 3. He took an interest in me but in the beginning I had to point out that he didn’t ask questions about me.
    Overall I hate that I lost 6 mos of my life, my emotional energy, plus the 3-4 mos to recover. Basically my entire year. It was time I needed to invest in me & my future.

  • @sandurabraggs3577
    @sandurabraggs3577 6 месяцев назад

    I concur wholeheartedly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @robinfennell-lomax5628
    @robinfennell-lomax5628 6 месяцев назад

    Where are they????

  • @nursenatalie2.081
    @nursenatalie2.081 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u for this video ❤️💯🙏🏽

  • @mouniaounasser4558
    @mouniaounasser4558 9 месяцев назад

    I'm serious but he doesn't want to committed, he said I will finish some things , but I'm exhausted really I want to know what to do . whether to stay patient or to move on .