Parental Alienation - Third Party Alienation
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- Опубликовано: 29 янв 2020
- Shawn Wygant, M.A., TLLP, is a highly skilled and dedicated forensic psychology associate and expert witness. He specializes in the diagnosis, assessment, and treatment of parental alienation as well as other complex forms of child psychological maltreatment. For the past 6 years, he has worked with Demosthenes Lorandos, Ph.D., J.D., on parental alienation cases throughout the United States as a forensic psychology associate and expert witness helping courts make the best possible decisions concerning the best interest of the child. Their forensic psychology consulting firm, PsychLaw, provides target parents with expert analysis and testimony concerning parental alienation.
Shawn spoke at he the PASG Conference about Crazy Making Issues in Alienation: Professional Alienation Collusion. He talks about how difficult it is for professionals who are not specialists on Parental Alienation to not be manipulated by the alienator - and how certain methods of therapy, like EMDR, can do more harm than good when false accusations in PA cases occur.
The interview was filmed on location at the PASG 2019 International Conference (Parental Alienation Study Group) in Philadelphia, USA, in September 2019. The video is produced by Equal Parenting Rights Association, Iceland, www.foreldrajafnretti.is.
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Other specialists who talked about Parental Alienation at the PASG 2019 International Conference:
In the Eyes of the Specialists: • Parental Alienation - ...
Amy Baker - The Four-Factor Model: • Parental Alienation - ...
William Bernet - Historical Highlights: • Parental Alienation - ...
Ben Burgess - Crazy Making Issues: • Parental Alienation - ...
Linda Gottlieb - Reunification and treating alienated children: • Parental Alienation - ...
Jennifer Harman - Targeted parents and the effects: • Parental Alienation - ...
Steven Miller - Evidence Based Science: • Parental Alienation - ...
Karen Woodall - A Trans-Generational Trauma: • Parental Alienation - ...
Nick Woodall - A Splitting of the Self: • Parental Alienation - ...
Shawn Wygant - Third Party Alienation: • Parental Alienation - ...
This is an astute analysis. I am a retired lawyer and was a recipient of spousal and child alienation perpetrated by my narcissistic inlaws. The inlaws worked until my wife and kids were dependent on the inlaws for everything, including major decisions, the inlaw used that power and control to alienate me. But, she went too far and began to also alienate my wife. My wife saw through the efforts and we reconciled and moved away. My story had a happy ending because, in the end, my wife was not a narcissist, but a condependent victim. Most stories do not end this way.
Happy for you. 🙏🏾
Have you been able to offer any legal assistance or wisdom from your hell experience to any others going through similar?
Just curious.
I had sole custody and he was granted continued generous access he kidnalled them and no one helped me because he didnt leave the province.. This was 17 years ago I never got them back. Both my kids hate me one wants to really hurt me. I've been forced to cut contact with the one I had contact to protect myself.
This happened to me and it has done incomprehensible harm to me and my children.
My ex is a pastor and has a masters in counseling. He was so good at manipulating my children, the lawyers and psychologists that he was able to get custody. PA is the worst child abuse ever. My children are adults now and pretty much have nothing to do with me . PA will affect them until they seek help. It is devastating and traumatizing for all family members. I wish you could have represented me and my children. Please continue your very important work.
So very sorry for you.i have the same issue with my last of 3 kids, a girl who cut me out of her life.My 2 older boys I have had to educate and one sees it more than the other.It hurts every single hour of the day.
@@Alpharizzchad It's not a DX unfortunately
My heart goes out to you. My ex was upstanding, high ranking military officer. I think my sons will never understand what happened. They were 2 and 6 when I married the guy. I was almost 30, and it took me 23 years to figure out his insanity.
Me too.... I'm a man so I'm even more fucked right off the start ... we need this knowledge in every family court and CPS shouldn't even be allowed to take kids out of the home that they don't have this training
Most cases the alienating parent has traits of NPD .. these ppl are great actors and lovebombing is their hall mark . Child abuse at its highest form .
The impudent actions of the uneducated 3rd party therapist are also criminal. This should be mandatory training for all therapists.
Wow! This is the first time I’ve ever heard any therapist or anything about acknowledging kidnapping. 33 years ago my daughter was kidnapped at three months of age when my ex-husband found out I would be leaving him and it was laughed at and scuffed about and police said it wasn’t really kidnapping because he was her legal father but, thankfully that time I did have a judge who was willing to put out an all points bulletin and eventually had him found 12 or so hours later and my daughter was returned me but it was the beginning of the parental alienation and abuse that continued and ultimately resulted in a tragedy of my daughter still being alienated from me at 33 years of age and me suffering with this pain daily and having nothing I can do about it. Except for live with a shame that people believe that I was somehow abusive with all the lies when in fact I wasn’t, it was him but nobody would believe me he was a fire fighter, he was an upstanding citizen, as far as everybody else was concerned Who would never do such things. There is a bond between police officers and firemen in my experience where they automatically as well have this underlying relationship what you talk about with a judge and a lawyer that they’re good and don’t do anything bad like that & protect that for one another. And I was just looked at as an upset woman who is overly emotional and had less time to spend with my daughter because I had to work and he had much more free time with his flexible schedule I was looked at as an incompetent parent in comparison to what he could offer.
That sucks. Sociopaths always seem to have a good front, and the beast system loves them, hates empathetic or loving parents who want to instill values and ethics in their offspring.
I am so sorry for your suffering. It is frightening to hear that your daughter is 33 and still has not come to terms with her abuse. I am also a targeted parent. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps to know that somewhere I do have community and belonging, I have felt so isolated. God bless.
@@shelleytween3872 I am sorry you to know the pain of being targeted. The isolation I lived with for all the years before social media and support like this was available is a miracle I have somehow gotten through with no family of my own and no support at all anywhere. I never spoke of it. My daughter who is now thirty four was kidnapped again by him at the age of fifteen when I returned home from work to find her completely moved out of my house and then he dragged his feet playing games with the court hearings and system until she was eighteen so I could never have a chance to get her back again as she was then a full fledged adult. My story is so long and so many tragedies and horrific things over all the years that continue to this day even though he has passed two years ago I found out now she is still estranged from me. I am completely hopeless on it ever changing. I hope yours does not end up like mine and that you find reconnection with yours. Sending light and blessings to you.
I'm so sorry. I can relate.
Finally. Hearing the horrible scope talked about; the mobbing, scapegoating reinforcing the abuser, that really digs a living grave for the child's ability to accept the love and support from the protective targeted parent, the one that is still the one there, as a resource grandparent, used for their natural inclination to nurture, but while needed, being "hated" by the adult offspring, when the alienators abandon any involvement or responsibility later in life
I have seen your comments before. I think you are very articulate.
My family has experienced this on the extreme receiving end. It hurts everyone. Yet the vengeful parent feels a sense of accomplishment and validation severing the relationships. The kicker is they then play victim.
I'm so glad i documented and saved every shred of everything that went on during that decade on.
I wish this man was able to give some kind of lecture or seminar for individuals who work in the legal system as far as domestic cases go. He knows what he's talking about and I'm going through it now. I'm the targeted parent who feels helpless against my ex and his Mother who has it set in her mind that she's my daughter's birth Mother. My poor baby is so messed up emotionally from it all. Thank you for this video.
The resources are out there they just don't care
@@simpinainteasy680 Presenting these resources in a manner that creates accountability and implicit negligence on those who fail to act on evidence based approaches is the next step.
He does give seminars and lectures to legal professionals and therapists, though. Look up his CV. Its impressive
Im crying , bc this is EXACTLY WHAT JAids GRANDMOTHER (my step mom) HAS Created . I have watched things unfold b4 my eyes.
I had that exact experience w a court appointed “therapist”… I found out my ex and his lawyer had a say in him being picked. I won relocation out of Florida to Ma for my child and myself. But jurisdiction stayed in Florida ( much more expensive for me) So of course this therapist spent all sorts of time w my ex… he was supposed to come to MA and see my home but never did. When I met the therapist within 2 minutes I felt the narcissistic traits… then I found he was in the middle of a contentious divorce and custody case. I knew right away…. My daughter was so happy to see me… we had the best visit… the therapist begrudgingly said “ you did everything right w her”…. The things that have been put into my 9-10 year old head are like so crazy. So easily could be debunked…. But he buys extravagant gifts and scares her w his age…. He tells her he’s in his 60’s and won’t be around long…. Wow. Who says that? And he’s healthy…. Our poor daughter is so worried… it’s just not ok or fair
Oh my God, now I understand what happened to my little family, and why my oldest child had cut off all contact to me, and why my youngest are having problems bonding with me. I wish I knew this years ago, but I feel hopeful for the future, because the alienating parent are deceased. I just don't know how to reconnect with my children, because they have memories that just isn't true. Thanks for this video.
My ex was involving everyone to side with him: lawyers, school principals, so-called psychologists, social workers and of course his family.
Same!
My grandkids are going through this. My daughters ex is alienating the children. When her children came to visit last summer they told my daughter that their dad told them this was the last time they will ever see her. And also told her they was being touched inappropriately by their grandfather. So my daughter did the right thing by taking them to children’s hospital to get checked. Children’s called cps but they did nothing to investigate the issue. I even talked to cps telling them they needed to get a investigator to come to my daughters house while they was here with their mom to investigate. She laughed at me and said Colorado don’t work that way. And the father also put abduction on my daughter two days prior to taking them to the airport. When they had a phone conference with the magistrate my daughter tried telling her what was going on but she would not listen to my daughter. She even told the magistrate she put in emergency motion in and it got denied. Now it’s been 270 days and still has not talked to her children. My daughter is frustrated but still stays calm but also is devastated by all this. Courts needs to see the whole picture and when a parent is trying to tell them what the other parent is going to do. Her children was crying for help. The sad part is the courts put the children through hell. Instead of immediately taking them out of the home.
Oh My God. As long as their is selfishness in our society, what this man spoke of will never end. Now I see just how guilty third party's can be and how much power they can wield. It must be pretty easy to call shots when its not your own kids. (Jeremiah 10:23). For 14 months the mother of my two youngest children has lied to them about not being allowed to talk to me. Not just the children, but probably members of her comunity friends and family alike. Wow,,,,Wow!
Mr. Wygant can be talking about my family's case. With one huge difference...the foster couple that has my niece is not related to her. They have kidnapped her and my sister and the rest of our family have been tormented for FIVE years as we have not seen her. The court's have absolutely enabled them! They are now petitioning for guardianship so that they can insulate her for the rest of their lives. We are frantic!
On the emdr...false memories can be implanted by implication alone. They are completely suggestible.
Surprisingly no-one has disliked the video so far. Keep up the good work 💯👍🏼🏆
it is undeniable when a forensic psychiatrist explains the mode of operation of alienating parents. Sadly there are to few who know and there is an epidemic of parental alienation unchecked.
This happened to us CPS And the lawyers were on the other side .I believe they knew it was lies but still went along with it
I totally agree that they ignore the lies because of the financial incentives for states sponsored kidnapping by the courts.
Follow the power and money.
This is exactly what happened to me with my son. My ex started keeping my son from me, broke court order. The judge was 1000% on her side since the start, my sons therapist, who is very good friends with my exes attorney recommended that my son have no contact with me. They have completely gas lighted and brain washed him, he refuses to see me now. He’s 13, this has been this way for the last 3 years. The court refuse to drop the court order, based off allegations that I have done everything to debunk. My son went from being a straight A student to now failing grades, very poor attendance. The court system has completely ruined my son, and at this point I’m completely at my exes mercy. She has been given all control. There’s nothing I can do.
Absolutely spot on with my experience.
Yes, training will help some people who are trainable. There is a category of people who would still be manipulative to their clients no matter how much grade A training they receive, how many top notch credentials they have from top notch institutions, and how many decades of clinical experience they have.
My ex husband's second wife was secretary where social workers worked. She twisted and distorted everything I did to my children. There were actually lied to and taught to see me in a bad way. They have at least one false memory that I broke a dish over someone's head. That never happened. I am now 78 years old and want contact with my adult children
I’ve had Fort Wayne Indiana & family courts & cps ignore the abuse & neglect reports I have got for years with the warrant my sons mom had until recently when she got him hooked on drugs & he was injured resulting in her getting away with it & turning the child on me by allowing deadly drug use & all this has been documented yet I’m the one given no rights, visitation & made to allow cps to fail my son & put him in foster care. There are so many cps & family court fraud cases & investigations goin on. Luckily she has lost custody but because her abuse & neglect of the children I lost custody cause my son rather live with his mother & do drugs than a loving father who’s lost a company, my license, money & been extorted outside family courts by his mom & all this has ruined my mental health & caused my family so much devastation dealing with this for over 10 years.
Devastating to hear this
My daughters dad on May 21,2017 abducted and kidnapped our children from Texas to Florida and lived with his mom where he filed for a divorce 1.5 years later. I have been gaslit by over 60
Agencies in Texas and 20-30 plus the court system in Florida. I have empirical evidence In this. I had three court dates this month where the Florida court where they were kidnapped to has removed me from my children’s lives without a TPR. I cared at home primarily for our daughter until abduction. I have had our daughters Dr to turn against me, trustees on our daughters estate and medical trust and our daughters still withheld from me almost 4 years later. I was accused of abuse and neglect and yet there was no discovery, no exhibits, no evidence for custody hearing and in addition my own lawyer gave no legal representation for me but instead data mined me for the opposing counsel and judge who steam rolled me. Our handicapped daughter is in grave condition and begs on the phone to go bye to see me. I was refused contact with my handicapped daughter until October 2019 after caring for her, doing trauma care for her and rehabilitation. Her progress grossly regressed. Our oldest daughter 22 according to my requested well checks to know she is still alive ( through sherif dept.) refuses to see or speak to me refuses all contact with me. The second court for our daughters Guardianship estate they now have removed me as a permanent CoGuardian. No one will help me. They wouldn’t help when this happened ( Tx ) and when I learned they were kidnapped to (Fl) no one there has helped either. The courts have bullied me, harassed me, stalked me and has legally abused me. Who will help ? #JusticeforAbigaileandNatascha abigailesstory.blogspot.com/?m=1 and www.buzzsprout.com/804659/5781160?fbclid=IwAR1evbzisCMJhhdeab2pUh8ppO-eGTf-QEfyqekLVdrPYJM34OfAFB3dAUY
Extended family members and friends also isolate the child with the alienator also. Isolating the child and filling the child with false statements and used as a weapon. Kidnapping and held hostage - this is the most horrific form of psychological abuse that the court players and system rewards these psychologically abusive people do to these children and the alienated and estranged parent.
Thank you! Thank you!!
This is life-changing!!
Even the target parent s family jumps on board with the alienator turns the child into a victim
very informative. Thank you.
When the mother has full custody, she decides if the father can stay in the childrens life. If she decides no, its a no. The father is powerless..... unless he has $500,000 for court battles. For most people, the father is out. He must accept reality and just hope his children might contact him some day.
My brother's in-laws gained custody of my children and have alienated my children from all pf their biological family.
Excellent
Yes this is on point
Thank you. I wonder if you have seen manifestations of this in older children. My kids were 18 and 21 during the divorce, but the alienator’s process was similar, and the result has been the same.
My children were late teens when I filed for divorce. I couldn’t understand what happened, their hate towards me. Now I know and understand. My ex started w/them when they were young, it was subtle and insidiously done w/the help of both sides of the family. Sadly I developed some health issues and he apparently took great advantage of those times. I honestly do not know if they will ever understand what he did to them. Both families continue to reinforce for them that it’s ALL me. When I’ve asked each one what I have done I receive vague responses or no clear cut answers. Sadly they do not question that as odd, that their level of hate towards me doesn’t equal the depth of the incident. You are not alone, yes it has happened w/older kids and it’s b/c it was actually happening all along. What I believed was teen rebellion when we were a family unit was them actually already dealing w/the effects of alienation. All so freaking sick.
@@michelemiktus2312 Thank you for your reply. I'm still hurt but pretty cynical now; we probably go through something similar to the "stages of death" = anger, denial, etc. I made sure my kids got a very good education, but they refuse to use basic analytical skills and humanities reading to observe the situation. I hope you have a good outcome.
@@gregt2 I wish the best for you also. I’m very hurt and there is no willingness on their part to consider anything than what their father, both grandmother’s, along w/both sides of the family reinforced for them. Obviously, when you’re the odd ball out then it must be you. I believe you’re correct that we go through the stages of grief. However, learning about parental alienation this past week has shifted my perspective a great deal. I no longer have the guilt I’ve been carrying for years that I was somehow a horrible mother, b/c I couldn’t put my finger on the horrible part. I received a lot of clarity this week. I truly do not know if they will ever come back to me and if I stay there it is a pain that only we know. I have now made the choice to move on w/my life, stop beating myself up and start taking care of me completely. Will it be an overnight change? No. However, it’s a start. In some odd way I have now found peace since finding the answer to the question that I’ve been asking for 15 years. Their father is an exhibitionist, was caught and made the front page of the paper. Yet, they were told and believe I am the horrible parent. His narcissistic abuse all the way around has destroyed his children and he could care less, along w/both sides of the family. They are so angry that I refuse to live in their lies and fantasies that the goal was to destroy me. Imagine how po’d they are that they haven’t😂😂😂 Prayers for you and your children🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@michelemiktus2312 Michele - « I no longer have the guilt I’ve been carrying for years that I was somehow a horrible mother, b/c I couldn’t put my finger on the horrible part. » At the end of my career, Michele, I became a therapist, and for two years co-ran a locked facility for suicidal teens. Weird thing was, all of the kids who came from horrific family situations still loved their parents! That’s almost the hardest part, right?: if we had done something bad to them, it would be understandable, and possibly something we could « fix ». It’s not you.
@@gregt2 EXACTLY! That is the hardest part!
Those so called professionals are called hired guns. Too many councilors and lawyers are too happy to do it. Follow the money.
My grandchildren were took by cps for false alligators in 2017. The great aunt of the children on father's side. Cps took the children handed them right back to the aunt .we never got to see the children just on her terms . Since then the aunt has gave them up and she left these children all confused. We have a time with them they tell the mom they hate her .that she's a b.... That they wished the didn't have a mom . They haven't been disciplined .they wi LL l walk up to you and pass gas in your face .they say words that will embarrass any grown up around them . .we really don't know how to handle this situation it's only getting worse
I completely understand this, unfortunately. So, so sad.
Minute 5 Nails it!!!!!
And the authenticity loving parent if educated knows if they attempt to get the truth out that alienating parent will abide the child.
I was accused of being an unfit parent by the pathogenic parent and or his second wife
Oh my gosh. My husband and I are going through this very situation. His ex-wife has conditioned their daughter to hate me and her father. The ex-wife found an activist therapist, and the daughter reads actual written questions from the mother to the therapist and my husband when he meets with his daughter and the therapist. The therapist was hired by the mother to advocate for the daughter to not see the father and me, his second wife.
Yeah...and not going about it legally...my alienation journey now stretches 18 years. Its taken place only between my daughter, her mom, the grandmother, early years also her. Uncle.
Years at a time. My girl was a shell game. It's no better without the courts either. PA is 360°evil
Exactly the same as me.10 years now.the grandfather was abusive,the grandmother is a child of alienated father so onwards through the generations it goes.
This is what's been going on with my son and his ex-wife for the past 4 yrs! She made horrible allegations against a family member and started denying my son his court ordered visitation. I met with my grandchilds therapist, and she wasn't even aware that my son had any visitation rights. I guess it slipped my ex DIL's mind. Kind of an important thing to forget to mention. They are now back in court and it's slow going. He has his visitation back for now, but it's supervised for the time being. My son asked for a GAL and the Judge appointed one, but it seems like he sides with her. My son also asked the court to appoint a new (and unbiased) therapist, which they did. Now it's time for his ex to meet with the new therapist, and she won't schedule her appointment. In the meantime, my grandchild is enjoying her weekends with us, but she's not allowed to speak to us if we see them in the grocery store. And the alleged abuser...she doesn't seem afraid when his name is mentioned or when she sees photos of him. She always wants to look at the photos and ask questions about him. It's very confusing. This video was like looking at our life over the past 4 yrs and I really wish this guy was local.
Where can I find an expert in this area to testify in my court case?
The horrendous thing I did to my former spouse was to marry him and allow him to be identified as my sons parent. I'm horrible for allowing him to have the honor of "raising" my sons.
Excellent. Could use your help in MA.
i concur
how can we have someone like you in court? for haps to be assigned to all high conflict divorce?
Thank you for the video. Does anyone have a video on the alienation process that is learned about when the child is 30? Every video is about the young. It would also be appreciated and helpful to address the trauma associated and the effects of same to an elderly parent. Is there any avenue to get justice for the elderly PTSD empathetic parent please?
My eldest is 28 and I'm experiencing the same. The pain to us is so terrible and I'm sorry it's going on with you, too
@@puppetproblems2935 Isn't it the most absurd thing?
I am currently separating from my spouse and they have convinced the police and the magistrate on another occasion that I beat my children and then that I was stalking her. Despite the fact I have no violent history after over 45 years old. I don't think the alienation is as serious (the brainwashing) as these people speak of but my children have been kept from me significantly. A similar thing happened with my mother where she was not allowed to see the children.
Is there a website I can go to to learn more specifically on this subject?
There are people like that out there... Evil. Just pure evil.
Is there some way of bringing this information to light in Canada? Perhaps a speaking opportunity (I know this can't happen in person during the Pandemic). PAS is misunderstood and not often spoken of.
Check out the Light House project.
Do your videos apply, to people who use drugs, and live in a drug filled lifestyle? Is it alienation, or protecting the child from a toxic lifestyle.
Alienating is being used on parents when a parent gets a case dealing with the juvenile courts,CPS,DHS,County courts,the pastors in churches are involved, family members, that are getting paid money for services.Child care center s,the schools, the children are also sent to various institutions, the children are dealing with all sorts I'd strangers,the children are damaged, abused,molested, raped,and messed up for life.While the biological parent is trying to find where the children are.Family members even saying they don't no.They wint answer their telephones,They'll stop your visits and the children are moved around, and even out of state with out the courts not being involved. And police are very aware of police reports of the abuse of this children for many if years, so why the DA's office aren't picking up this cases when reports been made for years.Thats why children are missing, murder.Cause people are covering up these crimes of the children, and protecting the individuals involved.
Absolutely right, they are all complicit
At 3 my daughter’ had to call her mum to check she was ok
‘ I would try and explain that her mother was an adult with coping skills....@ 3 ? It’s planted
She’s now responsible for her mother’s happiness. Now ....the 20 year trail of destruction...and alienation.
I wish you could help me.
This happened to my daughter and my daughter never got her children back my daughter was reported to cps for abandonment drug trafficking abuse not taking children to dr not being mentally able to raise children not being financially stable bad language bad behavior on and on. Her children were took before she came back to Pickens county this person never let my daughter see her children when visits came around this person went and took a no contact order on my daughter for no reason at all it was just to keep children away from her Cps went along with this person becouse they think she saved these children Cps said my daughter. Admitted to everything and she said she did not The children are not allowed to be at our home This person reported that we let abuse happen in our home and this person hasn’t been in our home one time for 10 or 15 minutes and the children or my daughter was even home Cps never even came and investigated us. When we went to cps to visit with children Cps never talked to us then either What this man described here is the same thing that happened to us. This person did kidnap these children
We found out that this person abandoned her own children she was on meth she was going to to pain centers a month she had two child endangerment charges on her and my husband and ii were said failed drug test I know that’s a lie they said children failed for meth the children were with this person when they were exposed She had them almost two months before they were tested and they were not around us longer then that all together the children were gone I would say almost 4 months I called the place where they study meth and theyl said in order for children to test highly positive for meth there was only. 24 to 36 hour open window where the children had to be exposed to meth. And it had to be around a meth lab We hadn’t been around children in months This was brought up to cps and they told my daughter that she should have left the children with this person my daughter told them I didn’t place my children with her y’all did
It happens all over the world . I'm in Australia, the family court system is a broken joke over here . It's a pathetic game . The system knows it happens and don't do 1 dam thing about it . The court system actually makes it worse . The parent who is causing all the damage should have the children taken away from them . Instead the alienating parent plays the victim in front of people who don't know them . Then the sympathy card gets handed out . In my case it's the mother who is the alienater. There is more to been a mother than been a nuturer. I haven't seen my kids in 2 years now . I've spent over $100,000 fighting for them . All I achieved was to a line my solicitors pockets with money . A very sad world we love in .
Both counselors that are seeing my kids are totally manipulated by their father, I was seeing a counselor in the same facility. She brought it up to the attention of the facilitator and owner that they were going against protocol and tried to get all three counselors and GAL together, but his lawyer said no...Why? If he's not hiding anything why not do the best for the children?? I was told I should go somewhere else because the facility had my husband's back, not mine and not my kids. Next thing I'm told is my boyfriend, there is no boyfriend...I was raped in my abusive marriage and refuse to date...ever!!! ..is beating my kids. He is a police officer who interviewed my husband who sent the case to the DA. I only met him once, but my husband intercepted my mail. So many people are on the wrong side of this, and I am part of a class action lawsuit that will sue APD, CYFD, and any others involved. People need to do their jobs!! Now that I am forced to have supervised visits because of the lies, these counselors are going to be exposed...they have no idea what my kids are saying and I know they're being brainwashed before counseling sessions. Truth will come to light.
Please message me if anyone is interested in somehow bringing this to light in Canada.
Sir, it's COURT ASSISTED MARKETS BY PRODUCTS FOR LIFESTYLE, TO SNEAK IN THE UNLAWFULL INTO THE LEGAL🎬🎥ITS A CIVIL MATTER
Two non-professional people told me that they could tell that I had been abused even though I have no such memories. Wrong -- try again.
The guy speaking in this video really knows his stuff I wish he could force all the family courts in the country to be trained in this stuff and to treat families as a whole instead of separating them because the institutions of our court systems and our social safety nets are pitting families against each other and playing right into the hands of alienators giving them even more power the power of the state and the power that they've already Consolidated on their own within the relationships and usually I know this is sexist sounding.. but it's not because it's the truth. Most of the alienation abuse that I see has been the women doing it to their men for the father of the kids. I won't get too far into it but genetically just more in their nature to manipulate whereas men when they abuse it's obvious cuz they flip out and they punch something but it's usually as a result of being tormented very rare that someone just comes home and decides to beat his wife I've never even met somebody that's done that for no reason every single one since I've done they've been subjected to days weeks sometimes years of emotional abuse alienation Etc both by the state and by their exes or partners and the guys just throw their hands up and say fuck it pay child support and walk away and that is one of the reason we've seen families being crushed in this country along with all of our moral values and winning ways getting flushed right down the toilet on every level it all starts with the family people
Um, yeah..... It happens to mothers to. Don't become misogynistic over your experience and think that it only happens one way.
The only Justice for parental alienators is measured in caliber.
@@fightingtosurvive6527 vast majority of cases women receive way more power right out the gate way more rights to the kids. That my friend is a fact not an opinion. Read some laws it's not misogynistic on my part just pointing out the facts. Course it happens to women as well. I never said that It didn't I'm only pointing out the male perspective because I'm a male and by and large is tipped in a ridiculous way against men in some sort of misguided let's get even campaign that will never work because we're not even we're not equal we're not the same and we never will be.
we should stop lying to ourselves and especially stop lying to the kids and telling them that they can do anything though opposite. Sex can do just as good... Cuz that is just a lie and if it wasn't a lie than there should only be one standard for everything if you don't make it well tough shit you don't make it we'll see how that works out lol
Kritikos vs DeRosa #ES10W2432WD
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Sir IT SOUNDS LIJE A PICK POCKET SCHEME COURT ASSISTED , TAKES ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATIONS, THIS IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL BY COMMERCE CLAUSE
Gosh this guy is full of it. Too much BS to address.
I'm stopping 6 minutes into this video. I can't continue to listen. Third Party? It must be easy to call shots when the children are not your own blood.