Parental Alienation - A Trans-Generational Trauma
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
- Karen Woodall is a Trans-Generational Psychotherapist Treating Parental Alienation. She is a highly experienced psychotherapist and author who has worked with separated families since 1991.
Research reveals that adult alienated children suffer in very unique ways-ways that include a strong chance of becoming alienated from their own children. The interminable pain follows adult-child victims from a traumatic alienated childhood into a traumatic adulthood, a seemingly endless trans-generational trauma repetition. As helping professionals, unique, creative skills are needed in order to meaningfully serve this “special population.”
Karen has developed new ways of working with alienated children and is now widely regarded as one of the foremost experts in the field. Her influential blog has a worldwide readership: karenwoodall.blog/.
She is the co-author of Understanding Parental Alienation: Learning to Cope,
Helping to Heal.
Karen runs the Family (Separation) Clinic in the United Kingdom, which offers services to parents who are experiencing the loss of a child after family separation due to parental alienation.
The interview was filmed on location at the PASG 2019 International Conference (Parental Alienation Study Group) in Philadelphia, USA, in September 2019. The video is produced by Equal Parenting Rights Association, Iceland, www.foreldrajafnretti.is.
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Other specialists who talked about Parental Alienation at the PASG 2019 International Conference:
In the Eyes of the Specialists: • Parental Alienation - ...
Amy Baker - The Four-Factor Model: • Parental Alienation - ...
William Bernet - Historical Highlights: • Parental Alienation - ...
Ben Burgess - Crazy Making Issues: • Parental Alienation - ...
Linda Gottlieb - Reunification and treating alienated children: • Parental Alienation - ...
Jennifer Harman - Targeted parents and the effects: • Parental Alienation - ...
Steven Miller - Evidence Based Science: • Parental Alienation - ...
Karen Woodall - A Trans-Generational Trauma: • Parental Alienation - ...
Nick Woodall - A Splitting of the Self: • Parental Alienation - ...
Shawn Wygant - Third Party Alienation: • Parental Alienation - ...
Thank you Karen for your work regarding PA. This is devastating for the targeted parent. It is murder while being alive...unending grief.
Yes that's an appropriate description and it hurts.
That is what I have always said.
Both my adult sons are split off from me. The oldest, now 31, is isolated and discards anyone who's not perfect. My other son is able to make and keep friends, likely because he never had visions of being perfect. It's all heartbreaking.
So sorry I have one daughter who cut off from me.
I hope there is an end to this problem. Unfortunately it's too late for my children and me. They are young adults now and are estranged . When my marriage ended parental alienation was hardly on anyones radar. This really needs addressing, no one should go through this.
It's never too late. I do reunification therapy with adult children. It's actually easier when the courts are not involved.
@@biblicalinterventionminist6791 I’m interested in your services ❤
I would also add they are not estranged from you, or you from them. They have been psychologically coerced away from having a loving relationship from you. They were abused and it's not your fault and certainly not there's. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I pray they come back to you someday. ❤️
Thank you two years zero contact. I feel lost and seeing this video helps me feel that I am not alone.
U have to fight alone if that’s the case. DON’T SETTLE FOR THIS NONSENSE!
Millions of alienated parents around the world...we ain't alone we have to get rid of family courts
This is quite the best I have heard Karen speak, notwithstanding the business/political issues that represent, as with the family court in the UK, a conflict of interests.
Thank you, very valuable information. 🌺👏🌺
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”. We first need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected. We must develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven.
Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need.
A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”.
If these 3 stages are not are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational.
Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it.
Such family protocols would be the default position, but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court.
Buckminster Fuller said:-
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”.
To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
This is such a great video. Thank you.
I’m going through this. I’m looking for help for myself and my children.
I married into a family where the Mother alienated 4 of her son's from their Father. My husbsnd totally despised his Father. Stories were told about him that made him out to be a monster. The 5 son loved his Father, and the Father died when he was 12 yrs old. My mother in law did a great disservice to her children. She had spent 45 yrs of my marriage to her 2nd son trying to get rid of me and had done the same to all daughter in laws. She is the most destructive person I have ever known. She is now 91 yrs old....my husband died a yr ago. He was so inmeshed with his mother....he became he sergate. I wanted it their was sexual abuse by her with my husband. Very strange behaviors.
I broke up with my fiancée and didn’t consider it a divorce. The hospital agreed with my ex and my mother who hated him when we were couple. They believed the abusers.0
My ex-husband abandon our son to punish me for leaving him because I did not want to be disrespected, or my child mistreated by a narcissist psychopathic man. He died of cancer 7/2/23. Knowing he was dying he did not reach out to our son. Our son has Asbergers and has a very loving kind heart. When he was told his father had passed away the first thing he said was “I knew he did not love, or care about me. I heard my son tell our pastor, when he went to go get prayer over his loss of
his father “I am afraid my mother will abandon and leave me one day too” this has always affect me because I felt it was my fault that my son did not have his father, but I was trying to protect him from abuse. It was a no win situation.
Thank you for sharing and breaking down your understanding of alienation. I absolutely believe that you are very knowledgeable. Your words really make me feel sain, Really thank you .
This is so difficult - my ex instilled in our daughter that i was the cause of her psychosis at age 14. She has had so much therapy that i suspect has solidified these views in her mind. She is now 29 and it is hard to keep onto hope.
Im being alienated from my son and can't afford to hire an attorney. I was told to take this to the state bar but have no idea what that means. I haven't seen my son since feb 2020 and have no idea what to do.
Facebook? Is he on there-find pictures-possible location-be careful-build your own life-get ‘everything in order’-in your own life-evidence and document everything-for support look into a 12 step programme?!!
So sad...I'm a alienated parent and seen my 2 children for 8 years. They are now 13 and 19. There mum is not taking her foot of the pedal as she had now blocked me from accessing info re my daughter from school.
Omg!! 8:45.😭💔 I never received comfort however--NEVER.
My mother did NOTHING for me. I did everything I could with the information & direction I had. The abuser & his Atty countered I was culpable of PA! They invalidated & disbelieved my daughter & the disgusting vile evilness of ALL KNOWING of the real public health crisis erroneously severed us!
Its going on 2 yrs since I've seen or spoken to my Lil girl. I've since been ex with Complex PTSD!
They imprisoned my lil girl! Thecabusive litigation & torture we'll likely never heal from has me daily battling calling it a life.
There is NO QUALITY OF LIFE to be had in this injustice & torment! None!
Even as I've put into many hands an expert lethality assessment providing HIGH Risk for Fatality--Crickets!
Evil times. Dark times. Oppressive times. War times for all children!
Lost my daughters ten years ago. When they where kidnapped by their mom via system, they then became people capable of hate. Now I have no idea who those monsters are and am afraid to meet them. So I live off grid in the jungle and use a fake name. I’m severely traumatized from loosing them and worry if they found me if I would kill myself???
Awesome -- seeing the child's splitting off of parts from themselves. I think this is a grossly under-recognized key point!
It should be a criminal offence and those responsible should be locked up for the time that they abuse their child by alienating them
How do I bridge the gap with my daughter , I need her back in my life for the both of us , she needs her Dad and I need my daughter !
Please help- I've tried all the usual methods to no avail
Decades? Centuries! Aeons! Divorce is modern but people have been monsters for thousands of years. Women couldn't leave and had to live with the degradation that occurs when you live with a pNPD. And then, the kids take on the malignant behavior.
This is a very important discussion affecting children across the world. Alienated parents write a loving message to your children ❤️ at www.parentsmissingtheirkids.com
I have been separated from ex wife my child is 6 age ongoing court case cafcass file section 7 report i have indirect contact but. My ex wife been parental alienation my son sent response back to me i don't like my old dad mother is coaching child negative things about the farther so some advice me further please
In. New Orleans
Did you hear about the mother who kill her daughter and son
2:20 campus be seen in one of the six brain scanners in the world? Like we see in an X-Ray Scan of a broken leg... 🤔😕⁉️
Can parental alienation be a mix? I never had a good relationship with ex wife when she left she took my kids 10,11.
My daughter days she hates me and i will never be her dad.
I was not good with their mother i admit but i never treated my kids bad i love them with all my heart and let them know that every single day.
I did all the normal stuff a loving dad does with his son and daughter.
They are my life.
How do I know if they really hate me for the fights with their mother or its just parental alienation or is it a mix of both?
I don't understand how my daughter could say something so mean. Am trying to understand how I hurt her I look at all our photos and we have so may happy memories together.
I never once treated them bad.
Does anyone have any input?
How do you feel about those events and memories?
@@EmbraceTerror it's only been 6 months I hoping thinks will get better.
Obviously it's heart breaking.
Are you a going through the same?
Your initial comment fails to identify the 8 constructs of Parental Alienation and that a child who has been a victim of domestic violence would be displaying normal parental refuse
That is exactly the point. If contact refusal is a result of abuse by a parent, it is not parental alienation, it's estrangement - as Amy Baker points out in this interview: ruclips.net/video/m2zNV1Jvc5I/видео.html